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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?Not to bash you in any means, but your post history is revolved around men. Why wasn’t I right for the right man, what can I do to receive etc and etc from men but you need to ask yourself what they need to give you in order for you to even entertain them. Please put you and your needs first. You can try to analyze yourself all you want but it’s not you. Let go, heal and focus on things that are good for you and come to you. You shouldn’t be chasing after anything but your dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 9 | Unhealed abandonment trauma is what led me to be with emotionally unavaliable partners. Healing this was essential to my development. This work is not easy, but so so worth it in the end. Stay strong ladies.Just commenting to gain some tips as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:15 AM |
| 46 | Redpill scrote (former incel) sats FDS is for “unattractive women”. Help me roast this scrote ladies.Being attractive doesn’t absolve men from trying to lowball or do the bare minimum for you. Men will try whatever with any woman just to see how far he can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 20 | 🔥 Men will drop you like it’s hot 🔥 so don’t go soft for themAn older woman told me before “would a man compromise for you like you would compromise for him” and that answered everything. DONT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 9 | Beggars can't be choosersIt’s also ugly when a man can’t go out of his way genuinely for you. It’s a turn off. There should be no transaction involved to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 30 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Celebrate those who celebrate you is my biggest mantra as a black woman. These issues will always exist but I can’t afford to feed into them and let it consume me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 279 | human scum justifies cheating on fiancee because she is unsexy pregnant“You’re not sexy right now”. The lengths men go to just to blame you for their own wrong. I’ve also noticed men will ask for a kid and then when he sees the attention shifting from him to the pregnancy and the kid, they lose their shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I know better!!! Help!You should truly want better for yourself if you want better. A married man is automatically a lvm. There’s nothing to gain from this for you. Feelings, attention and time can come from anyone, that’s not enough to stay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | PSA: On grocery shopping datesI can see this falling under acts of service. He’s going out of his way to help you and making that time to do so. I see this as a positive precedent but it’s definitely not a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 180 | Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters.He publicly embarrassed her with that mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 688 | Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters.Any man already talking about policing their nonexistent daughter is a huge red flag. I’m glad he told on himself about how he truly feels and she left him! Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:00 PM |
| 5 | R&B excellence. This song is so absolutely underrated and I wanted to share it with everyone!I love vedo. Have you heard you got it? Another good level up song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:45 PM |
| 67 | Online dating horror story(He was a minor) I'm never using POF or online dating againBeing bored is VERY dangerous. It made you ignore all red flags and common sense. Please use this energy to pick up some hobbies, talk to friends instead etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 70 | Online Dating 🤪The more you entertain negging, the less time you have doing something more productive. We have so much power as women, please block/umbatch and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 30 | I’d like you to consider making a dating handbook for pre-teen and teenaged girlsI see where you’re coming from but that’s like telling young teens that abstinence is the only safe sex (which is true) but it never works. They’re hard headed and don’t listen. I’d rather them understand healthy relationships, green flags and consensual safe sex with guys that care for them. I wish someone would have at least taught me these things when I was younger but definitely more emphasis on leveling up and working on YOU first. It starts within. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 139 | THIS. 👑 👏 (swipe)Anytime men describe feminine energy, they just mean a second mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 6 | Man showing his true self after first date?He mentioned hookups with other women b/c he wanted you to jump through hoops to not also neg you but to start a competition so you can be like “wHy hOoKuP WiTh ThEm WhEn YoU hAvE mE” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:18 PM |
| 371 | Block 👏🏾My old self used to be flattered when a man came out of the blue with an “I miss you” but now I know they just want to see if they still have access to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 79 | How do you deal with threatened Pickmeshas who see you as hostile competition when you're with a man or men she likes?It’s not your job to make insecure folks feel comfortable. Everything you said has everything to do with their own self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:16 PM |
| 16 | How often should he be texting you when you're initially dating, before becoming official?Agreed. You don’t have to text me all day but going days without talking to me is a red flag. How will I know you won’t do the same when we’re together? Remember set the tone early on always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:52 AM |
| 56 | Anytime I see “hang out” or “coffee” I already know it’s a red flag.I completely missed that! Whew, dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 364 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"One thing my girlfriend always says is “He can’t commit to you but he can commit to using you for everything else” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:50 PM |
| 118 | Anytime I see “hang out” or “coffee” I already know it’s a red flag.He was replying back consistently until I hit him with this and crickets. I just unmatched. Also does anyone else hate the phrase “hang out” since it may imply something else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Keep re-reading this until it sinks in.Can you explain grey rocking a little more? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 8 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Cuddling is just another term for “easy access to initiate sex”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 20 | After reading "Why Does he do That?" by Lundy Bancroft, I have started noticing how often abusive strategies are used by dominant classes (men, whites, ultra-wealthy) to maintain power, and preserve their ability to use and control others.Same. I’m curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:57 AM |
| 73 | What do I do?Screenshot the profile and send it to him then block and delete. All he will do is make excuses and gaslight. Why do you wanna hear that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:48 AM |
| 18 | Pickme coworker strikes again she was giggling "this is so my fiance" like she was actually proud. Then went on to tell me and the other coworkers how "he never likes my cooking?" &I Asked what does he cook? "OH HE WORKS" me: "you do too! He should cook too!"This definitely sounds like a man. “You must be single or who hurt you” is a lvm’s fave insult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:58 AM |
| 19 | I saw this in another group, would you consider this a LVM? Or it’s not his fault?His mom convincing him to open credit cards and her still continuing to use it shows he doesn’t have boundaries. Her wanting to still marry him with all that debt and help him learn how to say no to his mom is an even bigger red flag. It shouldn’t take her sitting him down for him to realize he needs to financially get it together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 06:23 PM |
| 16 | He’s lucky to get ONE chance with you. NEVER give him a second.“When a woman is fed up, it’s the beginning of negotiations for men” -my mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 06:19 PM |
| 21 | #ScroteOfTheDay has the audacity to insult me after I reject him, then love-bomb me. Reported & blockedRule #1 Never engage and just unmatch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 25 | How did you deal with the “I can cook so there’s no need for us to go out” guy when using online dating?On a first date hell no but once we got to know each other and establish a connection and boundaries outside the home first, then yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 17 | Why’s porn so bad?I recently started watching Mind Hunters on netlfix and a few inmates they interviewed talked about porn in their relation to killing. Seems like a common factor tbh but I can’t make a statement that porn makes them do it. Not saying you said that at all either, just an observation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 6 | If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, he doesn’t respect you.I’ve learned when anyone in general asks why I said no, I just say “I don’t owe an explanation and you have to respect that”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 05:57 PM |
| 20 | What's the quarantined OLD scene like right now?All you have to know is Netflix and chill turned into quarantine and chill.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 98 | LegendI forgot who it was exactly but there was this article on a woman who spoke on how she has two houses. One for her and one for her and her husband. I get it’s not the regular setup but it goes to show then you can have someone on the same wave length as you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 78 | Caution when dating single dadsWhen I spoke openly before about never dating men with kids, the men around me tried to question me into feeling guilty and I said, “I’m selfish and I want all the attention on me”. I didn’t budge one bit. It is MY standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 12 | Figuring it out earlyShe’s winning at life already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 13 | Lying is okay, and give second chances? What???If you forgive him, the relationship will continue as it has been which means he’ll always lie. Why? He doesn’t respect you. Lying means he doesn’t respect you. People that respect you don’t lie to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:05 AM |
| 42 | It usually starts at home, you do not have to repeat to cycle!I feel the exact same way. I love my parents but they taught me what I shouldn’t want or tolerate and for that, I do not accept the bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 08:20 PM |
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