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The only thing on this list worth spending money on is the gym. Cutting hair is not hard, so many girls love a buzz cut too. If girls are dropping you because they think you are a cheapskate there is probably something else that's turning them off.
/r/seduction17/07/24 12:53 AM
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He probably went soft because of the expectation that you put on him. When I know someone will be upset or turned by the idea of me going soft, it is the quickest way to turn a guy soft... You need to change your attitude around his libido and work on doing stuff that might make him horny without expecting him to get horny. Also just getting your tits out is really not enough to get most guys horny. Maybe some 15yr old would, but most guys have seen enough tits to not get that excited by just ti…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 09:42 PM
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That's is game, women often try and attract men with playing hard to get, while it's often unsuccessful, it does tell you something about how they perceive attraction.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:23 PM
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This can be much to there demise when it comes to settling down with a guy. I know a lot of girls who can sleep with plenty of guys but can't get any of them to settle down with them, but at the same time I don't see them trying to change their approach or adjust their strategy and they continue to make the same mistakes over and over. Personally and this maybe less common IRL and slightly more common on reddit, I always want to quantify people's emotions, that goes for outside of dating also, I…
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:27 PM
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The most profound thing I've learnt is how skewed the opposite sexes perception of how to attract the opposite sex is. This goes for men and women.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:05 PM
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There's definitely a bit of category A going on here. It's almost impossible for a lot of women to connect a logical explanation to something like this. To most woman the way they feel about you is pure fact and nothing you do can change. Whereas we know that is not the case, we know that by acting in different ways can have different outcomes and change the way someone feels about. But a lot of women have trouble understanding that.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:01 PM
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Are you talking about online dating or irl? Only a very few guys are successful at online dating. For irl, if you aren't meeting girls then you need to involve yourself in more circles or activities where there are girls. In these environments girls 'standards' are much lower and tend to based more on your personality than anything else.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:56 PM
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It happens all the time to men. At least they think they are talking to a women but it's just a catfish and they send money without ever actually meeting the person. Look up romance fraud, it's pretty big.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/22 09:48 AM
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I dont think you need to be up front about non-monogamy, sure if a girl asks you if your seeing other people or not then be honest and you can have a conversation about what each of you are looking for. Typically girls who don't ask the question are probably also keeping their options open. Being up front about it runs the risk of just sounding like a fuck boy.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 03:19 PM
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Just straight up asking her out is far to abrupt and could seem out of the blue. It might work but there is a fairly high chance you catch her off guard she panics and just ignores you or turns you down. You'll likely have more success if you break the ice first. If you already have some chemistry then I would assume you know something about her. I.e. Interests or whatever. E.g. Say she likes goats. Message her saying "hey I saw a goat the other day and it reminded me of how much you loved goats…
/r/seduction25/01/22 12:28 PM
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We should be clear though, a good dress sense won't get you laid but bad dress sense will stop from getting laid!
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:00 PM
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Totally agree, unfortunately you can't think of yourself as special or worth his time when it comes to dating apps, the chances are you probably aren't the first girl he's messaged that day or even that hour. Also bear in mind that a lot of decent men won't continue a conversation with someone they've never met before it isn't at least mildly entertaining, give him a reason to keep messaging, keep it light hearted and fun and arrange to meet so you can start building real rapport instead of fake…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 03:43 PM
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There is a chance he just doesn't like wearing rings. How many guys do you know who wore a ring before they were married vs. How many girls that wear rings?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 02:40 PM
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Read body language, has she stopped looking at her phone, is she making eye contact, has she turned to face you? Stuff like that, and don't be set on trying to make her feel comfortable around you or trying to change her feeling of coldness. A lot of people just don't don't like to talk to strangers. It's not rejection, so don't feel rejected just realise that a lot of people don't want to be talked to.
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:22 AM
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To be fair, I'm not sure why he did that, a knee to the the back of the neck would've been fine....(this is a joke, in case anyone did not realise that it was a joke)
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/21 10:35 PM
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And they say video games cause violence. It was the movies the whole time!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/21 09:28 AM
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Typically a lot of desirable guys would want to get to know a girl first before committing to a girl and you potentially run the risk of scaring off guys who need more time to decide they want to commit to you. The only thing I would recommend is not sleeping with a guy on the first date, as that will filter out a large portion of the fuckboys
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:26 PM
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Not one sentence of that article attempts to argue the point that this is not equality. Despite it literally being part of the title. Its just a verbal diarrhea of victim mentality... I was actually mildly interested to see if there was another side to the story but I was disappointed.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/20 11:53 PM
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"women like to be told they're attractive". Correct, they do like that but it not gonna make them more attracted to you if you say it. If a girl is already attracted to you and you tell them you think they're attractive it may help you because it's an ioi and they think they have a chance. Telling someone they are attractive if they are not already into you is just creepy. My advice, just don't say it, just to be on the safe side...
/r/seduction09/12/19 10:00 PM
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This is spot on, spending a lot of time doing a dynamic sport really helps with coordination and general motor skills, I think it helps when it's something that requires good technique like martial arts or swimming, but you are basically teaching yourself how to control your own body parts. It also has the added benefit of being able to pick up new sports really quickly because you already know how to control your body. Think of it as the difference between a new born lamb and an adult the lamb …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 03:30 PM
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This is the same process I've used to go cliff diving, every thought you have about jumping says don't do it, you have to just not thing about doing it and go, once you've gone there's no going back. It's almost like tricking yourself into going, like, hey look over there, woah I just jumped.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 10:55 AM
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This is the ultimate outcome of taking the red pill. The whole idea of blue pill is that guys are under the illusion that there is one special person out there for everyone and live in complete ignorance that they have found that one special someone they should never let go of, which is what leads to most of the problems that cause guys to seek help here. Taking the red pill and internalising what it means is going to make you feel like having an LTR is 'settling' simply because your mindset is …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 01:57 PM
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OP was away working for 2 months when it happened, she probably told him that she was beaten and bruised.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/19 10:04 AM
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If the only place you meet women are online then you are somewhat correct. Anytime I've messed around on tinder with female friends it's always 'he looks like fun' or 'he looks interesting' rather than 'he's hot'. Female attraction is far more complex than male attraction, due to the level of investment required by females to replicate genes. From an evolutionary standpoint, Males can pump and dump whereas females have to invest time and resource to ensure the survival of their genes. That is co…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 10:59 AM
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Probably too late now but you could've met up then told her how much of a great time you've had since you haven't been together, and how much you are enjoying being single and the 'experiences' that it brings and she probably try and get back with you and then you can say no I'm having too much of a great time being single, and get a massive confidence boost. You might even get a fuck out of it
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:08 PM
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The only way in which your looks will hold you back is your own confidence, women do not care about looks, only you do.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 10:54 AM
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You can get cheap practice ones that use a standard disposable razor blade.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 12:57 PM
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Yeah I agree, I actually feel like I get a better shave with just one blade, this 5 blade rubbish is just a scam...
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 12:54 PM
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Up vote for confirmed kills
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 06:12 PM
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What's everyone's opinion on females perception of guys with tattoos?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:53 PM
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Is there anything you are really good at? Anyone with Asperger's I've ever met had a hobby or interest that they generally excelled at whether because of natural ability or obsession. If you do I would focus on spending more time with other people with the same passion and if you are good at said hobby you will be seen as a master or someone to learn from which will boost your status. Also don't try humour, this is typically very difficult for people with Asperger's to grasp.
/r/seduction02/07/18 12:21 PM
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One thing I learnt from my older sister is that women don't learn from their mistakes, I learnt a lot from her mistakes which meant that in the eyes of our parents I was the good child never getting in trouble or doing bad things whereas in fact I was the one doing drugs and getting drunk at 14 but I had learnt to manage my parents image of me.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 08:54 PM
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The "we're not having sex" line is a standard shit test, you just have to pass it like any other. Agree and amplify, "you think I want to have sex with you?!".
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:09 PM
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This is typical LMR read up on overcoming this in older posts. This is an easy hurdle to deal with, the girl is already in your bed, it's just another level of shit test.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:05 PM
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It would be cool to have a list of redpill approved movies and other media
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 07:57 PM
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What everybody is forgetting here is that looks don't mean shit to women, except only on a superficial level. Read the sidebar. The only benefit of (what is socially considered) being good looking is the confidence that comes with thinking you look good.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 04:46 PM
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This should be much higher, short guys get less pussy because society tells them they should, its up to you to agree or disagree with superficial opinions.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 04:41 PM
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I find that encouraging the complete opposite yields the best result. For example when plating a girl who knew I was sleeping with other girls and tried to make a point by saying how you like it if I go and sleep around. I'd often say "go on then go and find another guy" knowing full well that girls are always looking for the next best guy any ways and showing confidence in my whole hearted belief that I am the best she's going to get.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:05 PM
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When I was 7 I made my self like pees by saying in my head "mmm these pees taste great!" every time I ate pees, now I love pees
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:12 AM
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Just a tip on getting girls uni, uni is actually one of the easiest places to get pussy simply because status is gained much easier than in the real world. Join a club/society that has both men and women in it, preferably one where you feel you have knowledge or experience in so you don't look like a noob, the aim is to eventually become president of the club, this is basically the highest level of status you can get at uni, all the girls in the club will want you and even girls outside of the c…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:36 AM
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I heard that San Francisco was like the gay capital of America or something, perhaps this has had an affect on the mentality of the male population or is a result of a concentration of betas...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 01:09 AM
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What ever you do don't allow yourself to be friend zoned, it's friend with sex or no friend at all. It's a two way Street, only once she has sucked your dick nice and hard and swallowed every drop of your man juice should you even consider rewarding her with "fun friendly activities", your time is precious use it wisely
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:37 AM
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Not sure if anyone else has noticed this, but I read a post from two years back about polyamory/polygamy. I found that a very high percentage of the comments were BP and felt like many of the posters were still in woman hate phase
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:52 PM
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Any thoughts on why places like Thailand have an extremely high number of trannies?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:05 AM
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