thepool1023 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	A Roster Creates Leverage	Fundamentals	thepool1023	/r/seduction	06/05/25 05:53 AM

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9	Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake? Women will seldom if ever 'hit you up' especially in such vague terms. The responsibility falls on you to come up with things to do. I don't know why they all flaked. Maybe your date idea sucked or maybe they are genuinely busy. Either way you should be trying to get more girls and at the same time caring much less about how you come off to any one of them. I would message them when an interesting date scenario comes up. If they flake again, who cares? You're losing status to who? Forget it and …	/r/seduction	23/05/25 02:25 PM
2	Am I too jealous or is this actually cause for concern? I don't see any blatant red flags in what you wrote but the way you word your inquisitiveness of her statements is showing not just jealousy which to me is a female trait but also weakness on your part. You should come out and say what you want to say. If you're uncomfortable about what she's saying just say you don't like that and give the reason why. You won't because you're infatuated with this one girl so you beat around the bush. I don't know how serious this relationship is. If it's seriou…	/r/seduction	28/04/25 03:07 AM
5	Today is her birthday. When I say come to him I mean she'd possibly reconsider if he reverses the massive lowering of his status that he has demonstrated to her. If you stop petty and frankly feminine behavior like ignoring and silent treatment etc. because you're with other quality chicks you just don't care about this stuff, you act normally and then you don't care. That normalization of behavior is what could possibly elevate his status to maybe I should give him a shot. And if she doesn't then who cares. If I want…	/r/seduction	27/04/25 06:58 AM
3	If given the choice to hang out at my place or hers, which one should I choose? Depends on the situation but all things being equal I always prefer my place. I'm more comfortable at my own place because I control the environment and I know everything there is to know. At her place, there could be many unforeseen circumstances such an annoying pet, roommates, weird smells, uncleanliness, parents, etc.	/r/seduction	27/04/25 04:45 AM
13	Today is her birthday. You are too focused on this one woman. Even when being cold you are actively ignoring her. Constantly have her on your mind. You should be with other women intimiately and ignoring her should come naturally. It won't even be ignoring, but rather like apathy. When you are with one or two other high quality women you will not think about her at all. She will come to you then, or not, but that's because it won't matter. But she will. Tldr; Get deeply intimate with quality women ASAP to snap out of …	/r/seduction	27/04/25 04:40 AM
0	How do I seduce my Boss ? Lol everyone saying you don't. First off how hot is she? She can't be above 5-6 if she's not getting male attention at 24. Either way, I'd say go for it. You're out the door anyway. If you want to wait or not doesn't really matter. You can test the waters by flirting and then ask her out when you're almost through. Invite her out to drinks or something.	/r/seduction	27/04/25 04:02 AM
1	How do I move forward? Need to know how many approaches you've done and where you get stuck. To me it would become second nature with enough approaches. You'd understand the cues to proceed to close.	/r/seduction	25/04/25 08:58 AM
1	23M. Today's my birthday. And I am ashamed to admit that.. You did good. Now forget this girl by doing a few approaches on other girls. If your whole day is at the library then get up and go to other parts of it when you're free or tired of studying and start chatting a girl up.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 09:12 PM
3	“Are you really just going to talk to her?” — This made me question a lot about emotional affairs and male restraint This is based on who you are as a person. If you have integrity, self-respect, empathy for the person on the other side of this and have high impulse control then it would be evident that pursuing things further could be a very bad idea. Your last sentence is poor logical reasoning based on a fallacy. It's an appeal to inevitability based on moral relativism. It's trying to distance oneself from responsibility by arguing that the action isn’t wrong because others would do it anyway.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 05:32 PM
7	How do you handle approaching girls that look like they're waiting for their boyfriend? You approach them as you would anyone else. Your job should be focusing on the approach. If you are thinking: What is this girl doing here? Is she waiting for her dad, dog, brother, husband, boyfriend, ubereats delivery? Then you are not focusing on your approach. You are unlikely to encounter physical violence even if a boyfriend shows up but I would highly recommend getting training in MMA and improving your situational awareness and that's just general advice.	/r/seduction	19/04/25 09:46 AM
33	Just went to a bar last night and observed all the men in there…… Do you think you'll approach a woman and what will happen is you'll get rejected and get laughed out of the bar by everyone and then get a lifetime ban? Unfortunately or fortunately, it's not that dramatic, no one cares and as most things most people do in life it won't matter. So why not just do it? Tomorrow go back. It's Saturday. Set a timer for 5 minutes as soon as you enter. Within the first 5 minutes identify the first girl you'll approach. You MUST approach her. Just move to within a foot…	/r/seduction	19/04/25 09:22 AM
1	[Story] Did this girl abruptly change her mind about doing it with me? So many mistakes. Basically she got you to get her a shot ok whatever we'll let it slide. Then you offer to buy her another drink? How about save your money and try closing the deal right then and there? You've got nothing to lose by going as hard as possible here. She has you on a leash. No, I don't want a drink. No, you can't have one either. Let's go! This way! No wait, this way! This is all very beta behavior to follow along. You get back to the table, you should be super ON and as funny as …	/r/seduction	19/04/25 08:53 AM