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thepretendchristian/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 08:53 AM
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Don’t lump all men in the same box. Some men actually do want to be married and build a family. Most men don’t bother marrying at all unless they KNOW for a fact that’s the woman they are going to die with (most divorces are initiated by the woman).
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/22 01:32 AM
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I’ve watched a lot of KS stuff and never once heard him call women bitches or cunts. I think your dad and mom are going through something entirely different than just him watching KS and something very deep rooted. You really can’t do much. All you can do is say your piece and leave. Tell your dad you don’t appreciate him speaking like that to your mom, ask him how he would feel if a man spoke to you that way, and then separate yourself from the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 10:45 AM
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The distances you’ll reach by simply dressing appropriately.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 04:38 PM
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Sex releases some grade A oxytocin and endorphins for both parties. Don’t skip out on it just because you feel tired or not really in the mood ;)
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 02:47 AM
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The secret to a happy marriage is lots of sex ;) I notice my man’s overall mood is lighter when sex is in abundance. When he’s at work, chilling at home, etc. A lot of pent up stress is released when he’s been released. He’s much more cuddly and touchy with me during these times. I’ve noticed that I feel more connected to him also and my own stress levels dwindle down. I always tell my friends: if your man is having a rough day, give him a spontaneous blow job.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 02:45 AM
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You will feel limited no matter what lifestyle or mentality you choose to adopt because you simply are limited. We are all limited. The real question is: what limits are we willing to accept and what limits are we willing to fight? I was very much like you. I was anti marriage and anti children to the point that I was researching different doctors to perform a hysterectomy and had prepared arguments if the doctor said I was too young or would change my mind. My epiphany came when my aunt died an…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 04:50 PM
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OP sounds like a busy body and maybe a bit jealous. She admits that Lance is naturally stoic and quiet and when her sis asks why he seems quiet, instead of saying that’s his personality, OP goes to the jugular and shames her sisters clothing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 09:36 PM
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Husband sucks for being a cry baby about it but wife sucks for essentially giving up on herself. It’s ok to slum it sometimes but girl, put some clothes on and fix your hair up. Just show your man you care about him by caring for yourself, even if you have nothing to do and nowhere to go.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 05:26 AM
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The one thing this sub and YouTube influencers on the matter (both male and female influencers) preach about is finding a good mate. Is your man the type of man that expects you to be on top of the housework as well as rearing the children and working a full time job? Cus if so, that’s a no. I personally haven’t seen or heard any redpiller say women should do it all. In fact, the one thing that makes the redpill so controversial is that they say women cannot do it all despite what modern day fem…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 11:43 PM
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We have conflicting schedules so we take every opportunity to be with each other when possible. If the weather is nice, we take our golf cart out and chill by the lake. We’ll either go to a restaurant or I’ll whip us something to eat. We’re basically retired grandparents in young bodies lol but it’s very peaceful. When I can’t be with him, my friends and I will hang out together. We love going thrifting, trying new restaurants, watching dramas.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 06:42 PM
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I would also look at my boyfriend differently if he said he watched gay porn. To me, that crosses a line. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who isn’t completely straight BUT there’s nothing wrong with being in a relationship with a bisexual man, so long as he is faithful and committed to you. You have to do what you feel is right. Think of years ahead. Do you think he’ll ever want to experiment with his homosexual feelings? Would you be willing to allow him to do so? Would he ju…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 07:17 PM
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Remember that attractiveness is subjective and personality does indeed matter. A woman can be an 11/10 but if she’s crazy, if she beats her man when she’s angry, if she gets sloppy and embarrassing when she’s drunk, if she’s unhygienic, she gets real ugly real quick. But to your question: It really depends on the individual. I know a guy who is handsome in a generic sense but he thinks he’s much more handsome than he actually is and has outwardly complained that it’s difficult for him to find a …
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 08:32 PM
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Late to the club but I’m totally down for a redpill women book club! I’ll even download audible for this! But I have to finish the two other books I’m currently reading lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 08:22 PM
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I’ve accepted some cold truths of life. Sex and reproduction are the apex to our existence. Men and women are different and that’s ok. The family unit is the strongest foundation to build on. People aren’t necessarily inherently evil, they just look after themselves and their people first. If it isn’t broke, don’t fix it and don’t find reasons to break it for the sake of fixing it. Just because a majority of people are doing something or believes in something, doesn’t mean it’s good. Most of you…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 10:06 PM
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I get what you’re worrying about. It’s ok to keep people at arms length but be on friendly terms. Try not to hold anything against them. All that will do is weigh yourself down. If time goes by and they let you down again, then at least that takes care of that and you can let them go for good but they might genuinely be happy for your growth, maybe even relieved they have their friend back.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 07:23 PM
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What exactly bothers you about their return? Is it that you feel they should’ve been there the whole time for you, even at your ‘worst’, or is it that you feel a bit embarrassed by your previous behavior? Did they say anything to you during your sjw phase that has stuck with you? Are they being condescending to you now?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 02:53 AM
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Where are you finding these men? What type of values do these men have? There are certainly men like this but you can usually pick them out in a crowd easily.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 12:27 AM
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The question is: are you marrying a man who would replace you if the opportunity came up?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 12:20 AM
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Rebecca Barrett on YouTube
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 07:41 PM
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I’m saying this as a mixed race woman in a relationship with mixed race man (our babies will be absolute mutts). It’s natural to be proud of your ancestry but the emphasis of this pride is especially sensitive in today’s world. One day, if the human race lasts long enough, most people will be mixed with something and euro-pride, afro-pride, etc won’t be so prevalent. But right now, we are literally capitalizing the w in White and the b in Black when describing someone. It’s actually ridiculous. …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 07:37 PM
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You’re only 18-barely a baby-you still have tons of time to learn skills and improve yourself. Now, take a look at women my own age (late 20s) and they still can’t cook a pot of rice and drive around in trashed cars. That’s just sad. Don’t let petty insecurities get in the way of a friendship. The older you get, the harder it is to make new friends and good friends are even harder to come by. Everyone has their own journey into confidence. For me, it was deleting social media accounts (except Re…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 12:50 AM
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I don’t have ENOUGH of these moments. My mouth gets me in so much trouble I’ve been promoted to supervisor at my job and the things people spill to you…it’s too much. It’s opened my eyes to how much info (most of unnecessary) people will tell you. Now, I have to learn to filter what to share and what not to share. I’m getting better at it but it’s still very much a work in progress.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 07:38 PM
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More and more woman are coming to the epiphany that marriage and parenthood is what life really is all about. Unfortunately, I don’t see a significant shift in our culture that will prioritize the family any time soon. We’ll always be a minority.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 07:09 PM
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Oops my bad!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 01:48 AM
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That was one point I heard be made. I can see where it made some people uncomfortable but I didn’t personally take it that way
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 09:32 AM
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Most men have a huge issue going to therapy so it says a lot that he was willing to go to couples therapy with you and meet with the therapist alone. And he didn’t just go there to pacify you, he went and listened and opened himself up. That’s big. The only thing you can do is give him time and continue loving on him and supporting him. Don’t feel like you need to wallow in depression, too, (empathy depression is real!). Get yourself a hobby you can enjoy alone or with friends outside the relati…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:52 PM
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In modern day western culture we’ve become incredibly spoiled, especially men who weren’t raised with strong family values and work ethic. They expect college to be paid for by someone else. They expect jobs to be handed them and if they can’t easily find jobs then they expect the state to pay for their needs. They expect women to pay for half of everything. They expect women to have sex with them and if they can’t find an easy lay they expect porn to be accessible. They expect someone else to r…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 04:58 AM
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There needs to be symbiosis between you and your husband in order to make it work. You shouldn’t feel like your lesser than him because you do the domestic work just like he shouldn’t feel lesser than you because he is responsible for the paying the bills and doing the more physically challenging work. Both of you have to be working for each other and with each other to achieve a bigger goal. It’s divide and conquer. As for not knowing basic domestic work, it’s never too late to learn and you ab…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:23 AM
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I prefer her vlogs over her more preachy videos. Her vlogs are so calming and she shows what femininity looks like on a daily basis rather than just tells you how to behave. I haven’t really found another blogger that does that. She’s legit living my dream. I want to live up north, be SAHM and cook all day lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 03:12 AM
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