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2	Wife and I moving toward divorce. Unsure of a lot but we want to do as amicable as possible and avoid lawyers and court. Just mediation is possible ? Anyone have experience in this outcome without a messy court situation and lawyers ? Thanks for help i wish you luck. if your able to accomplish this maybe you two should remain married. just kidding. mediate but consult a lawyer on the side you have to protect your interests from here on in. best of luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 04:16 PM
1	Some advice needed. bro no kids. count your blessings and walk away fast 💨 Hope she didn't abuse the visa process but this unfortunately happens a lot. Don't give up, brush off and go into your next relationship with this learning experience. Guard your assets in your next relationship. The fact that children aren't involved makes it so much easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 12:12 PM
3	When to tell sons my son is a teenager. He still pretends girls are not cool but has hit puberty. I just started to educate him on healthy relationships. The importance of selecting the right people to surround yourself with while continuing to focus on school.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/21 12:42 PM
6	How can I make ends meet by being divorced? i've cut expenses through utilizing the app Mint. It pointed out areas where I could improve. Call credit card companies and request a better rate on outstanding credit. Worth a try. Different cell phone plan. Some of the other examples mentioned above are solid as well. Your not alone lean on others for help but look to get on your own or with a room mate or move to a lower cost of living city. Good luck. Don't panic, plan and execute that plan. One last thing to mention based on how you manage…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/21 12:32 PM
2	Boundaries vs Open House it sounds like she's moved on mentally. the boundaries she set for herself which is why she won't let you in. That's where her old life ends and her new life begins. You can either enjoy this time with your children and ignore her behavior but this sounds like something that will either continue until you react OR you can choose not to react and move on with your life make plans with your children and start planning for a new reality. She has, she's not sharing it with you she's leaving you to f…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/21 12:21 PM
1	Divorce Myths that Destroy Men sorry to hear. it's hurts whether it's 100's of dollars, thousands and/or millions. It doesn't matter at every level you have someone with their hand out or ready to plug into your pipe and extract your economic value. The best thing to do in this situation I would imagine is push to get in front of a judge and divide assets according to law. Move on with your life people get stuck in this phase as am I. Just yesterday I came home to people working on my house without my knowledge while deciding…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/21 11:55 AM
2	Divorce Myths that Destroy Men Thank you for reminding me of irrational thoughts. You cannot reason with someone who is unreasonable. Maybe it is me? Maybe I should try to shift or change who I am so that I can keep my family together. I've taken sufficient measure to protect myself so that when she does take action I will be protected. She won't resort to the horror stories I've heard from others and their divorce. (She will, she likely took notes 📝 and will use it at her own will). OP you really nailed and cover some broad …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/21 12:59 PM
1	Rollercoaster of mood swings at home Solid advice. OP's wife is suffering from some type of illness. OP Also have you tried getting your spouse mental help? Would she be open to this? Your in a difficult position. Do your best for your kids. Show them stability, how to handle adversity. Children are very tuned into what is going on even though they may make it seem otherwise.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/21 02:21 PM
1	Final for a few months now New place is coming along nicely. I think I'll keep it up all year round :) Congrats looks serene and tranquil.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/21 11:32 AM