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HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:30 AM
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You're talking shit. Show some stats. From the complaints I see from women divorce is because the man is not pulling his weight as a husband or father and she's had enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:29 AM
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You're right, it is a common line used. I don't think you should always assume the most negative though. Not sure if you do that, but it won't help your confidence. I see where you're coming from. I think it is a loose metric depending on many factors, like how attractive your sex partners were, how long you've been single for etc. I think people telling you that you're attractive, and getting attention and desire from people you're interested in are just as good indicators. Also, I'm sure a lot…
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:43 AM
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You're completely right unfortunately. I'm not sure if they care, but those hot creeps aren't being valued for their personality.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:28 AM
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I think this should have gone in the post, as the post makes it sound like asking her out was the first interaction. What you just described sounds like you had built a little rapport.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:26 AM
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HAHAHA. I've seen so many people lose their standards when someone is hot. I don't judge them for it, but often they end up being treated badly because they overlooked bad behaviour. Wow, that's bad! It sounds like he thought he could get away with it because (according to the very reputable source of himself lol) he's "super attractive". I'm glad he got fired.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:24 AM
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I am relieved you are not a creep. Agree that irl is much much better and more likely to result in success.
/r/seduction01/11/24 12:16 AM
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Hahaha are you serious? That's a bold approach!! If a man come up to me in the gym and commented on my boobs, I would make a complaint about him (no matter how attractive he is). Being good looking doesn't excuse poor behaviour (though unfortunately I have seen many people look past serious red flags because of someone's looks and it never ends well). Having said that, someone looking for validation and a hook up might have a different perspective. I'd advise against acting like that because of …
/r/seduction01/11/24 12:04 AM
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You think millions of women being sexually harassed and assaulted is a joke? Or about women not wanting decent men to like them?? You obviously don't know how to respect other HUMAN BEINGS. You're absolutely disgusting.
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:17 PM
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If they think you're cute it works.
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:13 PM
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Did she agree? Did you have a conversation? Why didn't you add this and the outcome of it in the post?
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:12 PM
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Agree, but it really does depend on your ability to read others.
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:12 PM
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I like your confidence but I think you need a more nuanced approach. In a setting with regulars, moving a bit slower is advised. For example, smiling at a woman and if she smiles back, say hi and so on, making sure you get reciprocation at each step. Some people are just friendly of course, but if you cold approach someone in the gym then can get annoyed. Particularly very attractive women. Also, you imply she was lying about being in a relationship. Unless you're a stalker how do you know that?…
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:09 PM
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Attractive people can be creeps too!
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:04 PM
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This was directly from your comment. You said just as many women are pedophiles then said it was expressed in different ways with your example being writing erotica. So you are the one who should be explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:15 PM
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I've explained that your exaggeration didn't make sense. It still doesn't. This little chat is going nowhere so I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:13 PM
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Rapists aren't smart, they are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:11 PM
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Their comment is an example to illustrate why, not necessarily the only reason they think that. You are equating different arguments that are not the same. One is about something harmful to others, the other one is harmful to oneself. Your exaggeration still doesn't make sense. It only makes sense to you because you think they are both absurd statements. I don't agree. And there is not going to be any statistic to how many men say they would freeze time rape someone to make a comparison either, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:30 PM
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Mentally healthy as defined by psychology and what makes sense to preserve society and the human race. What past are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:10 PM
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You are making stupid claims. It was clear the 100% is not exclusively from a time freeze fantasy. And you are a nasty person to boot, insulting a stranger because you are unable to make a solid point. So much anger and so little logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:07 PM
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How does writing erotica result in child abuse? You aren't making any direct connections to support you point about equality in the sexes when it comes to paedophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:04 PM
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Honestly, if I was in a situation where a very drunk person got undressed in front of me, I would leave. If I was worried they might choke on their own vomit or something if left alone, I'd call an ambulance first. This is all assuming I was unable to avoid being alone with them in the first place. Also, you're comment doesn't quite make sense because how can you do nothing but still have sex? I think it would be pretty easy to stop a drunk person from undressing you, given the typical lack of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:03 PM
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You claim the original comment is like saying 100% of women want to be raped. How exactly are you getting to that conclusion? You simply replied with an exaggeration and no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:56 PM
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We both know what you are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:46 PM
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Ok rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:24 PM
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Self reported is not reliable though. Millions of people just wouldn't report themselves, so how is this helpful?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:03 PM
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There's a book called "The Body Keeps the Score" it details how our bodies store trauma. So I'd say it would be harmful based on that. Also, it's just not ok to violate someone even if they wouldn't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:02 PM
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Your comment has no logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:59 PM
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Good and disturbing point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:59 PM
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It's not the same as jumping out of a plane. If you are jumping out of a plane, you are not hurting anyone else. If you rape someone, you are harming them severely. They said yes if there was no consequence to them, not their victim. A well-adjusted person has enough empathy to be deterred by harming someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:55 PM
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I agree with your point in that they weren't explicitly told that, and some people will be evil no matter how much education is wasted on them. I see the value in sexual consent education as dealing with that "grey" area. Some men believe women say no at first to be pursued or not seem slutty. A lot of men think its up to them to "make it happen" and they can move to sex really quickly without considering she might not be on board. They assume the absence of a clear no is consent, when it's not.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:52 PM
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Not telling someone you have an STD before sex is a crime in a lot of countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:35 PM
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I think the percentage matters a lot. If I am entering a relationship with a man, his morals sure as hell matter to me. I don't want the one who isn't raping because he'll get in trouble. I want the one who is disgusted by that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:29 PM
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Not sure what you mean by "express it in different ways". You either sexually abuse a child or you do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:26 PM
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I don't think there are many and if there were, I doubt they'd be reliable. Most women struggle to report rape, it would be even worse for men imo because they are expected to be able to "protect" themselves. Also, for woman to man it would almost always be coercion or maybe drugs rather than straight physical violence. I'd assume it's a lot less. As to whether that is due to morality or less ability or "need", not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:24 PM
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I think they were always morally wrong. Morals are based on healthy peoples' conscience. If it was not inherent, then why do people have empathy for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:16 PM
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Uh she can say whatever she wants regardless of whether you call the cops. not sure what your point is. I think you seem more innocent by calling the police to have her removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:14 PM
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I think there is a nuance to your situation. There is drunk then there is slurred speech/ barely conscious/ unaware of their surroundings. If you have sex with someone in that second group, it is rape because they are unable to consent. I don't like that you imply women are falsely claiming rape when they had drunken casual sex. Did you someone accuse you of rape? Why are you saying "Regretting your own actions is not rape"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:11 PM
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Agree. I think men should be taught to expect enthusiasm not just reluctant agreement. They also need to learn kissing doesn't automatically lead to sex, neither does any other sexual act. I disagree with coaxing someone in a relationship though. If your partner doesn't want to have sex then you need to figure out the issue or break up, not convince them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:06 PM
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I agree with you that some people cannot be taught. Some can though. Years ago I dated a man and broke things off with him because he wasn't respectful enough. He was shocked and devastated. I explained to him the power dynamic between men and women and that a woman should not have to yell NO in your face for you to stop touching her. He genuinely thought women would be far more aggressive in rejecting a man's advances. I don't think he was a bad person. There was a moment when we were in bed an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:02 PM
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Honestly 60-80% of men imo. Actually for sexual assault that includes things like grabbing a stranger on the bum, I lean more to 80%. You have women-only carriages in places like Japan because so many women are groped. Entire countries where women have basically no autonomy. Even "progressive" countries where women are groped in clubs or public transport, sexually harassed at work, sent dick pics etc. it all happens SO much. For rapes I want to say less but I don't know. Still within that range.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:49 PM
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I think it's the easiest to justify to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:39 PM
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Animals are way better than humans. Some of them are rapey, others are not but the key difference is they are not getting pleasure from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:23 PM
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This is known issue in countries at war. And I mean both the invading army and the locals raping people in their community.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:21 PM
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Yep. When I meet a man (romantic or not) I ask myself if I think he would rape a woman if there was no punishment. At least half of them I think would. If I think they would or it's a maybe I avoid them as best I can. Fortunately I can say there are men I genuinely believe would not, but it's in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:17 PM
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