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Im saying that in the past it would be inappropriate for a woman to expect access to a man's money for nothing in return. Just like it would be inappropriate for a man to expect access to a woman's body / labor / womb for nothing in return. But we live in a time where these social expectations have been removed. Now so many men and women try to get one over on the opposite a much as they can. The problem is human beings affinity for being greedy assholes and taking advantage when they feel they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:36 AM
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Modern day women definitely feel more entitled to men's money from the beginning even though theyre complete strangers. I personally find that CRAZY. And also embarrassing. Because, are you a bum, ma'am? Also, men will choose a certain type of woman back to back to back and then blame all women by saying "all women are like this" which is just them trying to avoid personal responsibility for their choices. You see the same with women. If its the case that you encounter a very similar type of per…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:01 AM
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Im confused why people being morally bankrupt gets under so many people's skin. Its human nature. These people are easy to filter out. Filter them and move on from it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:35 AM
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Women arent a monolith. Some women are morally dubious. So are some men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:28 AM
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Men are permanently upset that some women arent idealistic, perfect people. Especially if shes beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:45 AM
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This comment completely shuts down any argument otherwise. Which is why no one has tried to counter it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:48 AM
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Nah. People we're always this stupid. Social media has just clearly publicized that reality. It seems like common sense to know that other people's preferences are different than your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:25 AM
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Its crazy this needs to be explained to adults. I see people making fun of "ugly" couples all the time on Instagram. And its like there are people out there who honestly believe if you arent attractive enough you dont deserve love or companionship. The fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:28 AM
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Because they find each other attractive. 🤔 Its always crazy to me that they think that because they dont find someone else attractive no one else does. Human beings are not a monolith. They dont all think or feel how you feel and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:44 PM
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Right. That's basically the crux of it. You don't need to care what everyone thinks. Stop doing that and watch how your life improves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:56 AM
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I just don't understand the propensity for people to think that everyone's opinion of them is important. You don't even date everyone. You're not even interested in everyone. Yet people take advice from everyone and let everyone's judgement of their lifestyle and choices matter. They don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:28 AM
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But per your comment, maybe this isn’t even a question I need to be asking. Its not. Alot of people will make fun of you for it. Find someone who seems similar to you in that they are a bit introverted, socially awkward, and doesnt seem to date around much. Id say avoid people who are the inverse because they'd never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:44 AM
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Your problem is you care what every woman thinks. You're one person. Looking for another ONE person. Dont bother considering the POV of people who wont like it and look for the one who is of a similar opinion and lifestyle as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:48 AM
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How so? You have to explain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:28 AM
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Because men will happily use a woman for sex and services even if he doesn't actually like her. Which is why it is safer for women for a man to be more invested in a relationship than she is because she has the most to lose. Edit: I think in cases like this people say stuff like "well men could lose their money in marriage". But: Most men don't have much money. And women still lose more. Women risk their lives to have children. Ruin their bodies. Their hormones. And lose money through child rear…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:19 AM
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You cannot fully know anything until you experience it directly.. Stop talking shit. Kids will test you. Life will test you. The economy will test you. You have withstand all this shit and still maintain your own resolve. So you're talking out your neck. You sound like one of those people who claims they won't so X YZ when they have kids. But end up doing the same shit once they've got them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:33 AM
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You have to be in the situation first to know how you will react.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:00 AM
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Yeah. Rich, famous, celebrity men that are good looking are extreme outliers. I never see the point in using these types of people as examples. As they have nothing in common with regular folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:15 AM
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If you don't have basic life style maintenance level income, don't date. That was clearly my meaning.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:39 AM
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No one should date if they're broke. Get your money right first then think about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:50 AM
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I'm not saying there's a victim. I'm saying that people don't like to acknowledge the underlying reasons for things. They cover up for it by saying "oh, well all women are immature like this so I have no choice." Which, as I've said isn't the truth. So if that is t the truth and a man is choosing an immature and childish woman then there is an underlying reason for it thst isn't just a case of "all women are like this."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:10 AM
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The thing is, kids grow up. Your child isn't going to depend on you in the same way for the entirety of their lives. So it's arrested development. Like I said. You are in a permanent state of suspension with an adult who essentially never grows up. They never evolve. Human beings are meant to grow psychologically and emotionally as they age. Which is why older people have a wisdom that younger ones don't. What's the appeal of being involved with someone like that who essentially stopped evolving…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:11 AM
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Years. By choice. I'm not speaking from lack of direct experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:12 PM
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Yall are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:01 PM
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I bet you like NASCAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:07 PM
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That just it. It's easy to avoid a lot of people. These days they will look you in the face and tell you who they are. And people still pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:06 PM
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No. It's not. Not having sex isn't going to steal from you. It's not going to ruin your kids. Not gonna ruin you financially. Not gonna get you put in jail. Not gonna use the court system against you. Yall could just pay for sex. And yall love asking for a dependent adult until you get one. I had a friend whose mother lived her entire life as an adult child. She made no adult decisions on anything ever. Never had a job. Never worked. Never earned money. She had every thing done for her. By her p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:58 PM
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I'm not buying it. These people are mostly a result of culture. Not nature. When the culture changes, so will the behavior for the most part. But alot of people participate in it. Then complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:46 PM
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I don't have a problem with it. But let's all stop lying about it. And acting like it's not a choice. When it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:42 PM
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Intellectually lazy. Like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:41 PM
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Why would you want a relationship when the options, are so-called "bad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:41 PM
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You didn't make a point. You wrote one line. It's intellectually lazy what you wrote. To default to calling something "slavery". It's like how everyone calls shit misogynistic, or racist or whatever. Some extreme term taken out of context and applied to everything as some way to make a "point". But all your comment did was avoid extrapolating on the underlying behavior that could illuminate peoples actual motivation for certain behaviors. And I did that for you. You're welcome. My comment wasn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:16 PM
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I had options and chose a woman like that. Most men don't have options so they take what they can get. This isn't real. No one has to take what they can get when staying single is an option. Sane? What is sane about choosing to be an adult when remaining a child is an option? At least you admit to it, eh? Men (and women) forget the partner you choose says a lot about you. Men who choose immature women that don't act like adults do so because then they will be "in charge" and they will never have…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:13 PM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄 It would considered voluntary celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:09 PM
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You're not gonna become an incel. That's the thing. If more men had standard are we're willing to leave women alone, the women with stupid standards and toxic thought patterns would mostly start to act right. But in the mean time....stop dating / fucking these goofy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:09 PM
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Yall get on my nerves. 🙄🙄🙄 You have the right to stay single. There's no need to settle with someone you consider immature or childish. Being around a woman that you can't trust to be an adult is a bigger minus to you than staying alone is. Having a child with this person, marrying this person. Will destroy the quality of your life more than being alone. Yall are weird for ignoring this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:36 PM
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That's what he wants. He doesn't want a woman with sense who can sit down and have a reasonable discussion like an adult. Alot of men love drama and emotional roller coasters. They like the lie that men are more "logical" than women. Then they go out of their way to choose emotionally driven women. And so they can use her as a proxy to get their drama fill.. "She's so emotional / jealous / crazy / illogical. Its not me. Its her. Shes causing all the problems." etc. A logical man would stop datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:18 PM
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I had success by applying the RP principle that says to treat/consider women as the oldest teenager in the house instead of a fully adult human being. Lol. Men live choosing to be with immature women and then chalking their choice up to "all women are like this so I have no choice, really". I don't have to deal with the frustration that comes with expecting adult reactions and responsibilities from her. She feels more contained and supported. Because you don't want a woman that behaves like an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:16 PM
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Wow. One singular person would disagree? Well hot damn. That made it valid then. Because 1 person cares. Excuse me. I'll show myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:43 PM
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People don't change. I swear people keep saying they do. Every time I've been screwed over by a shitty person, I like to sit down and take stock of all the little indications that they were a bad person. I end up with a ton of examples my stupid ass overlooked. The problem is people down play so many yellow / orange flags. And wait until they've wasted time for them to realize they were always going to turn red.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:27 PM
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They too, are not one of only 1700 people. That currently play in The NFL. Which is why I said Jonathan Owens isn’t just some dentist. Playing for the NFL doesn't mean anything. It has no inherent value. All value is assigned to it by people. Arbitrarily so. Athletics is entertainment. But it's not equateable to life saving medicine. Doesn't matter if you're 1 of 1700. Your position still does nothing to benefit the human race. And if your acclaim to fame disappear humanity would march on anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:54 PM
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It doesn't take years. Months, maybe. You can suss it out pretty well. Like I said, people will tell on themselves. Ask them questions. Their mentality is also a way to check who they are. And what they think. People who do bad shit will literally tell on themselves. Ask them what they think about XYZ. And just listen with a non judgemental attitude. And watch them spill the beans. Women who use men will have all these outlandish expectations of men they don't know. Expecting to be wined and din…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:49 PM
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Do they have integrity? If not, move on. It's quite simple really. Life and situations test a person constantly. You can tell alot about a person by what they do around you. One example is people who go out to restaurants with groups and order expensive shit and then try to get everyone to pay the bill so they can benefit. That is a singular behavior of extremely low integrity. Its exploitative. And unnecessarily so. Its not like the person is doing what they need to do to get base needs met. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:19 PM
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🤡🤡🤡🤡 Denistry saves fucking lives. Access to dental care extends the human life. Simone Biles and her partner are athletes. Their fame and incomes don't make them more valuable than dentists. What a goofy thing for a grown ass adult to say. To equate the two. Like I said, yall are goofy AF. Everyone who thinks of men and women in terms of prizes have golf ball sized holes in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:39 AM
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It is illogical. No one is a prize. Men criticize women for saying dumb shit then turn around and do a tit for tat by saying men are the prize. It's goofy AF. I wish a man would call me a prize. And I wish a man would expect me to call him the prize. The concept is goofy AF. We are all just people. Try to be a good and decent person. And hope you find the same in someone else. That's all you should want. No. Yours not the prize because of the sheer fact that you have XY or XX chromosome pairs. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:32 AM
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Imagine fat men forgiving fat women for also being fat.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:46 AM
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Why would this Red Pill you? Some people are low integrity assholes. You're 37 and you don't know that? I bet she's displayed low integrity in other ways as well. You just overlooked it. Kick her to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:33 AM
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Another guy would not stop interrupting me. It was so strange - I honestly thought he was doing a bit, but then I realized he was just totally unaware! He was an interesting guy otherwise, but that along with a lack of dining manners kind of put me off a little bit I can't stand people who are unaware like this. Even if it's not intentional it's irksome. Thst a person like this makes it as far in life as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:32 AM
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Again. We're talking about men complaining there aren't enough attractive women. Well, then filtering out attractive ones should he easy IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:50 PM
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So? They're entitled? Has no barring on you or your life. Go on and do what you want. And stop worrying about everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:24 AM
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I don't get then, why men who are in shape complain. It's not women's job to exist to be attractive to a man. If a woman isn't up to a man's liking, he can go date someone else. It's thst simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:00 AM
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It's almost as if most American men are overweight. 🤔 It's so weird how men sir around talking about how fat women are. Without acknowledging there's plenty of their male counterparts to match with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:31 AM
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He brings XY chromosome pairs. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:32 PM
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Yall make it so complicated. Look for integrity. If they don't have integrity, they don't have loyally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:24 AM
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No one is the complete package. And to be honest, no one wants a complete package. That being said, too many people are walking around with too many struggles they have the ability to fix. People should have a couple of weak points. But you have men and women with 5 or 6 big weak points. And all the audacity and entitlement in the world for others to just accept them. It makes nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:20 PM
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It's basking in reflected glory. Where people associate themselves with other people's accomplishments. Men didn't do anything. A person, who happened to be male did. And those people make up less then 1% of the population. Like I said, terminology matters. Saying "Men build the world" sounds alot better than "a handful of noteworthy males throughout history are responsible for the world today. But 99% of men, including myself made no notable contribution."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:54 AM
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Impressing women is a fact of life but it does not explain why gay men invented computer science and other inventions. A singular person possessing some trait doing some shit does not reflect well on others with the same trait. It's weird when yall use the plural form of "men" rather than man for positive things. 99% of inventions are the result of a series of individual peoples effort. Even if most inventors were male. Most men are not inventors. Terminology matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:36 AM
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Right. It's almost as if men have autonomy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:20 AM
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Yes. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:35 AM
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Its not a plausible scenario. There are no living 300 pound 69 year old. That's obvious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:33 AM
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No. People don't change. Not at their core. Like I said, character doesn't change. Behavior, maybe. But character determines what you are. Period. You're talking about surface level situational behavior. And yes people can wear a mask. But it always falls off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:28 PM
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No. They can't. A thief who doesn't steal your shit is still a thief. Character determines what a person is. Not one off arbitrary behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:46 AM
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I think these people are prone to saying whatever for attention. So I'd disregard alot of what attention Seeking porn stars say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:08 AM
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I agree. She likely won't marry. She is enjoying the attention for now. In a couple more years, she will fall off. And the she will live out the rest of her life of the pure self satisfaction of getting the attention she never did as a teenager, from a bunch of sad dudes on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:57 AM
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really doubt that all humans can. Some will die off. So what? Thats also how nature works. Not everyone needs to survive. Well, if you consider being a bit more than animal and getting subjected to cyclic pregnancy from 13 to death at ripe age of 35 "just fine" - sure. And human life still marched on. In a world where living to 35 is normal, no one wishes to die at 85. And most peopke still lived to their 60s 70s and 80s. The infant mortality rate was high which is why they average age was low. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:43 AM
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Sure, without male-dominated jobs well get straight to post-apocalyptic survival setting within weeks. And human beings would still survive. See how that works. The only thing we need to sustain life is food, water and shelter. All humans can acquire that. Nothing else. All these jobs listed are non necessity jobs. A world without them worked just find for literally tens of thousands of years. I guess we will have to make due without our automobiles and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:20 AM
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Nursing. Teaching. Any of them. Just like your life would get real hard if even 1 low skilled job completely disappeared. Imagine the fit people would throw at having their saily conveniences taken away from them. And having to do it themselves. Yall are fools to think that plumbing, electricity, oil, machinery, construction are needed to sustain human life. For thousands of years, this was not true. It is still not true. Human being survive without medicine, without doctors, without technology,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:47 AM
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I don't need to do this jobs. Know why? Because other people are doing them. See how that works. A person can become a doctor because someone else chose to become a farmer. A person can become a plumber because someone else chose to become an architect. No one is doing this jobs out of obligation. It's choice. Personal desire. If there was a need to do X job for our survival as a race, any human would do the job. But as I've already said, farming is the only obligatory job people need. And anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:43 AM
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Yall need to stop this bullshit. The men who work these jobs work them because they pay them and they can earn money to provide for themselves. Yall need to stop acting like men do these jobs as some grand favor to society. It female dominated jobs disappeared, society as we know it would fall apart. It would if male dominated jobs disappeared. It would it LOW SKILLED workers all disappeared. So for the last time, stop acting like men doing these jobs is some fucking act of altruism. It's not. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:57 AM
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It's relative to the woman who seek you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:18 AM
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Not unless he has a very good job, house car and money. If he's just average AF, the answer is no. Literally no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:39 PM
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That's not true though. The OP is just an influencable person. And influenceability is a weakness. All people, of course, are influenceable to some degree. But the more malleable you are, especially as a man, the more unattractive you are. The ability to be influenced heavily by others makes you a weak person. A changeling. Not a leader. Not someone who can be relied on. And ultimately not someone to be respected as others are. This malleability is what separates attractive and desirable men fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:35 PM
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You're a grown ass man blaming a woman for you turning into lazy? You know how ridiculous that sounds, right? I can't stand people who displace responsibility for their choice in behavior over to other people. Nothing is more unattractive than a man who needs a woman to be XYZ or else he can't be ABC. That's bullshit. You can be ABC because whatever you choose to be or do does not depend on what a woman is or what a woman is doing. Men like you are just weak. Weak willed. With no self discipline…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:59 PM
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To laugh at yall. Also, I am fascinated by the strange ways people think. That's basically why I'm on Reddit, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:28 AM
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I disagree. It's that high IQ people will talk about stuff that makes the other person feel stupid or that they arent interested in. And people dislike being social with people more intelligent than them. Which is why smart kids are often mocked and ridiculed by their peers. They will tease them for being weird and talking about weird things. When the topics are merely intellectual or educational. And all human beings know these are positive traits to have. Yet being around someone with them onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:21 AM
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That's because alot of the time female libido will depend on male libido. Unless a woman is sick or injured or stressed etc her libido is on yellow. And can be turned to green if approached correctly. The problem is alot of men don't know how to actually stoke a warm coal into a burning fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:05 AM
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Right. Humanity would be fucked if both men or women engaged in sexual behavior like only men or only women without the others behavior there to offer balance. It's almost as if nature knew what it was doing when it made men more horny and women more cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:30 AM
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Who cares why. If you're not into thst kind of behavior, disqualify them and move on. Finding someone to day is easy when you disqualify all the people who don't meet your standards quickly so you can keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:39 PM
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The problem is, the spark is not always immediate. Initial sparks are lust. And lust is fleeting. You need to get to know someone to feel a spark sometimes. And people ride off relationships too quickly these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:33 PM
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That's yalls problems. You're obsessed the regular dude/ hot woman couple. When you should expect regular dude/regular woman couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:04 AM
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Child brides have been a thing in certain times and certain places, but it was also not universal. Which is my point. It hasn't been 18 year old+ for most of history. And yall know that. But some way some how, men just suddenly have this visceral disgust about any female under 18? Nah. Nope. Don't believe it. That's bullshit. There isn't much physical difference between a girl that is 13 and a girl that is 17 and 18. Minor differences usually. But someway somehow men's dicks just have an innate …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:26 PM
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But it historically has been a thing. Peopke didn't used to keep track of birthdays. When a girl started bleeding, she was ready to marry off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:05 PM
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I don't get peopke who ask for a source for everything. You need someone with an academic credential to do a study or statistical analysis for you to believe that most women have had creepy experiences with men when they were minors? Go out. Ask every single woman you know. And I am willing to bet you almost all have a story. Better yet. Go to any female subreddit and ask. And watch you be blasted with thousands of stories. Something doesn't cease to be valid because it doesn't have some stamp o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:44 AM
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You're not. Yet. You're still commenting. And still concerned with me and other people having a conversation. This is the internet. You can literally log off. But you're projecting how invested I am in it. When you're the one who is bothered. I am not male. So the odds of me being sexually interested in minors is incredibly low to begin with based on pure biology and statistics. But by virtue of being male, the odds that a fully developed male would be interested in minors is much higher. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:17 AM
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You're literally proving my point. You're trying to disrupt a dialog about a very serious topic because talking about it makes you uncomfortable. Your comfort level does not stop it from happening to minors every day in every part of the world. People like you are part of the problem. Sexual attraction to minors has been swept under the rug for the last few centuries. Because it's easier to just pretend. If you can't engage in the subject matter in an adult manner, kindly remove yourself from it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:11 AM
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Well that's it. Your individual attention has completely disproved the millions of women who have the exact opposite experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:53 AM
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Yes. How suspicious of me to acknowledge how nature decided to see fit that girls develop early and make men attracted to them. I should just to on pretending it's not a real thing. And then act shocked and disgusted when it happens like I didn't know it was a thing. Because that line of thinking will surely keep children safe. You should also know that in some countries pedophilia is treated as a mental illness. But in the USA its just shamed. And no treatment options are avaliable for it. Offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:50 AM
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I'm saying that bad people are everywhere. Let's stop pretending they're not. Like I said people don't like thinking they have relationships with people who would have sex with a child or molest a child. I bet you know some. You just don't know you know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:39 AM
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I said what I said. Stop with the statistics cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:44 AM
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Its not. Like I said. People want to pretend. Pretend it's some creepy dude that's always being a level 10 creep. But in reality it's men who seem perfectly normal and affable about other people. But slow down to glare at young girls when they happen past a middle school that's letting out. Or happen to spend too much time staring at their daughters friend when she comes over to the house. Or happens to "mention" something about her "filling out nicely" when no other people are around at the poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:38 AM
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To some degree it's natural. Nature doesn't care how we feel. The reality is, once a girl starts menstruation, she is able to reproduce. And girls can start developing as early as 3rd grade. With many being quite developed by 6th or 7th grade. And most girls are menstruating by then. Pedophilia is the attraction to pre pubescent children. Who have no developed yet. Early post puberty sexual attraction has its own name. I can't recall. But I'm saying, that if they knew they would never be caught …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:33 AM
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Shame. That's the reason why. Peopke are too ashamed and embarrassed to be caught. So they don't act on it. In under developed countries in the middle east and Africa, grown men have no visceral reaction to having sex with and marrying girls 11-13+. Men historically have not. For thousands of years it's been a thing. Only recently has it not been. I don't believe that alot of men wouldn't have sex with young girls who are in early puberty if they knew they would never be caught. I don't believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:28 AM
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Essentially. Even if its wrong or unhealthy. But it's the hypocrisy of it. All the indignant outrage. Reminds me of that one dude who used to go around exposing other men for meeting minors. He also eventually got caught for the same thing by someone else. It's uncomfortable reality for people to think about. So they like to pretend it's not as common as it is. They don't want to believe their husband, father, son, BF etc would have sex with a very young girl. But a lot of men would. Men have fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:25 AM
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All women will have experienced around the age of 10-12. When it was clear they were children / young teens. Which is why I roll my eyes when people act shocked a disgusted when some man is caught trying to have sex with young teens. It's the fact that if every single woman has experienced some creepy man being attracted to them when they were very young, then it's not a rare predilection within the male adult population. But people sure do like to pretend like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:03 AM
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And in that case they get what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:42 AM
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No one is hot enough to be in a contentious divorce with when you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:10 AM
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I love hearing stories told by people where they will confess to the other person doing all kinds of out of pocket shit early on. But still continuing the relationship. I remember once there was a Manosphere video of some dude whose wife cheated on him. And got caught with the dude in the car with their kids. Anyways as dude starts telling the story, she was a toxic clown within the first few months of dating. And he still married her. And still had a kid with her. And acted shocked when she che…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:31 AM
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most cant come to terms that they might fail and thats why they dont try in the first place. That's an excuse. Its easier to not try at all and just do what your told every day than it is to own up to the fact that you are a loser and if you want better you need to put in the work and take accountability. Another excuse. Its the prime reason most people would rather pay high amount of income taxes than start their own company and work for themselves. It Most people are reas9nable enough to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:41 AM
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You're the sole proprietor of your household if you buy that house and live in it. The end. Society does not need to put you in charge of anything. That makes no fucking sense. If you have to force someone to be with you, you have failed to be desirable. Most men are stupid. So are most women. And most men and women are intellectually lazy. They don't want to be the mental work it takes to sit down, and think about what they want, and what they value. So they go out and find some ideology to fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:08 AM
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Who gives a fuck? You do you. Live how you want to live.. Marry if you want to marry People kill me being followers then complaining about the ideologies they choose to follow. When you can just follow your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:24 PM
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He's also socially awkward. So even if you cannot talk but can communicate through other means, social awkwardness is also an issue.. Again, too many issues like I said. Reality is, there are enough people on the earth without these issues so no one has to settle for you. It's harsh. But it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:42 AM
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Being verbal is often a requirement for most work. Are you pretending not to know this, or what? Remote work isn't that common. You know this. I know this. Most jobs require you to be able to verbally communicate with other people.. I swear some of yall be hell bent on acting like you don't know shit about nothing. It's obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:47 AM
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Yall need to stop listening to these talking heads on social media. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one.. Figure out what yours is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:02 AM
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I assume he knows sign language then? If not, my point still fucking stands. He can exercise, gain weight and meet someone else who only knows sign language. It's not 100% hopeless. But what does a mute man have to offer? By virtue of being mute, odds are you don't have a good job. Don't make very good money. It limits your career prospects. Not to mention it limits your social prospects. So what do you have to offer? Some people simply have nothing to offer anyone. I'm not saying this is true f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:59 AM
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You have too many issues. Fix the ones you can fix. From what I understand mutism is a mental condition. Seek treatment for it. Try to improve it. You can gain weight. And exercise and you can practice socializing the best you can. I swear so many people want you to "take me as I am while I do nothing to improve myself." And the answer to that is NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:04 AM
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This why euthanasia should be a universal thing. Makes no sense for old people to be neglected in nursing homes or a burden to their families when they are actively dying. You should be able to pre-plan your death. And set stipulations for when you want to be euthanized. Nursing homes often mistreat or neglect patients. Everyone knows this. But everyone pretends not to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:24 PM
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Some women do, of course. Others care more the older they get and depending on life stage. I don't think I'd be thinking of it if I was 22, for example. But now, in my 30s, the ability to consistently earn a livable income is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:06 AM
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I would never date or respect a man who was embarrassed or insecure about his body count. First off, why do you care so much what other people think? A 20 year old, maybe. But at 40, and you still care what peopke think? That's a no for me. Make the decisions you want or make and stand by it. Nothing is more unattractive than some grown ass dude kicking rocks with hunched shoulders with his hands in his front pockets lamenting he wished he could have slept around more so women liked him. Imagine…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:30 PM
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They ran across a video one day. Ran across another. Kept watching it. And allowed themselves to be completely and utterly influenced by a school of thought. You don't have to know about the Red Pill or Manosphere in order to have self respect, boundaries, standards, masculinity etc. Any man could have any of those things at any time. If you were some weak dude before finding the Manosphere, all you are is a weak dude spouting Manosphere rhetoric. You're an empty vessel waiting to be filled. Wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:58 AM
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Yes. And none of the people were strangers. They all came with long family history and connections. Everyone knew who they were within their circles. There was all kinds of information avaliable about them in their network. Maybe they were strangers to each other. But not random people without zero character and familial references. That's my point. You had an idea who you were getting married to and who they were and what other people thought of them. Now you know none of this about strangers u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:09 PM
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You've convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:34 PM
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i do not want to be approached in a romantic or sexual way by random people and i have never tried to seek out a relationship, all of mine have just happened naturally through befriending someone first. This is the only answer. The most obvious answer. Only in the last 120 years have people dating with complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:24 PM
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Date women with social media who don't use it to get attention? I'd never date a woman who used social media for attention. Just like I'd never date a man who used it to follow women and give them attention. It would be stupid of me to get in a relationship with a person and try to demand they change. No. You just don't date a person who engages in a behavior you don't like. Period. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:28 PM
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My wife of 12 years and the mother of my child left when she received an Instagram dm from a very rich man and she decided being a prostitute was more important than her family. Social media didn't do that. Your wife's lack of integrity, loyalty and conscience did that. Yall stay blaming the wrong thing. When the reality is, you picked wrong. Your choosing sucked. And that's your fault. She didn't just up and become disloyal. She was always disloyal. Regardless as to if she had the ability to le…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:26 PM
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Not arranged. They married of their own accord. People just accept it as life. Your family members become your only allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:16 AM
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You're underestimating the weight of having children. It's way easier to be a DINK couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:57 AM
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I'm not married. And I don't have kids. But I think people underestimate how life after marriage and kids drains all your energy from you. Most peopke have health problem, money problems, jov problems, family problems. Its easy to have time for sex when you're a farmer and you live exclusively off your own homestead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:50 AM
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People historically have always accepted that married life isn't that happy. For along time it was about mutual survival and quality of life. It simply wasn't possible for men or women to get all their basic survival needs met without a partner of the opposite sex. Not to mention children to help out with the farm work. And to look after the parents etc. People had more practical attitudes. Who cares if their husband makes them happy. They need to him to bring home a deer for the family and prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:02 AM
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Lol im actually on that sub all the time. Its the natural end to most relationships. Someone will lose their libido first. Yep. I live in a country with a low divorce rate where families seem happy in public. The rate of dead bedrooms in 30 and 40somsthing couples is really high. It's always been high. Once people have kids and life's burdens kick in, just existing together becomes the norm. But that's generally how life goes. But I find American and other Westerners are really obsessed with thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:23 AM
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He didn't pay for sex. All of this is his own hubris. He likes how it feels to show off and be impressive to good looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:50 AM
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Please delete this. I'm embarrassed for you. It's a shitty lie, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:39 PM
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No. There's no history of this. Nobles and royalty were the only ones able to engage in this behavior. Regular people lived in small communities where their survival and inclusion depended on them being trustworthy and having integrity didn't do this shit. No man would trust a man who made moves on women within their village without intention of marrying them. Fathers would not have tolerated it. Neither would other male family members. There weren't tribes where men were just allowed to fuck al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:28 PM
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No. It doesn't. Yall want to be preselected by stupid easily influenced women. You want to know the kinds of women who are more interested in a man if other women are? The same types of women who are dancing to tiktok trends. The same types of women who buy shit that influencers shill. The same type of women who strive to be like their favorite instagramer. But then men are confused when these women turn out to not have an values like loyalty, or integrity. You want to be with someone who is eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:45 PM
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No one gives a shit about respect. Being respected is a part of being masculine. How effeminate so many men are. Like young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:43 PM
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Yall be the same dudes wondering why no respects you. Pick a complaint. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:32 PM
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Not disappointed. They would look down own you. Laugh at you. See you as not a man. You're born male. But becoming a man that has the respect of other men and women is earned. Men who sleep around have the lowest self esteem. Just like women who sleep around. Its a insatiable need for validation. It means your broken as a person. Promiscuity has nothing to do with sex. Its all about making you feel better about your crippling low self esteem. I've never met a fuck boy who didn't spend damn near …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:15 PM
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Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man "Being called low integrity is the biggest compliment you can get as a man." 🤡🤡🤡🤡 I swear your male ancestors (who valued integrity and honor in men) would be rolling in their fucking graves to see what degenerates so many men have become. At no point in history have average men ever been thought highly of for sleeping around and using low integrity behaviors to do it. Literally you would have lost your standing in society. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:54 AM
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Because you're in one of the most liberal cities in the country. LA is not the other 99% of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:50 AM
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So why bring up 1 person who made a post saying he had terrible luck? Clearly you are willing to use anecdotal info right? Because it was funny. It illustrated the delusion of black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:43 AM
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It's ego. Foe what, I don't know either. Too many black people act like being desired by white people is some kind of litmus test for being attractive. It's stupid, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:40 AM
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You're one person. Even if 1000 Scandinavian women liked you, you're still discounting the millions who would never be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:27 AM
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A couple walking down the street holding hands is a lot different than discreetly getting dicked down in a hotel room. This is my main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:23 AM
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Midwest is full of big cities. I don't believe you've ever lived in a small conservative town. Go to the south. The north east. Middle America. And find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:48 AM
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Yall just be saying whatever. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:44 AM
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Its not real. Go out on to the street in any city. Interracial couples are rare. Black men think a white chick willing to fuck them for a fun story to tell their friends is the same as willing to marry, live with, and have kids with them. It's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:44 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Delusional in fucking deed. Go to a small town in middle America. Let's see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:42 AM
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Again, statistics prove most white women prefer to date and marry white men. You're arguing with fact. You're living in a confirmation bias. You hang around white chicks who hang in the circles You're in because they're open to sleeping with you and people who look like you. You're discounting all the white chicks who aren't in your social network and who don't want to sleep with you. It's like how a drunk just happens to be friends with other drunks. Because they hang out in places that attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:04 AM
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I have an unproven theory that black dudes are sleeping with the same small percentage of white chicks. Most white chicks (middle to upper class especially,) don't want a black man. They will secretly sleep with black men. But they won't claim you in public and will deny everything if questioned. That's not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:54 AM
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I remember once seeing thread by a young black dude who when to a predominately white university surprised that most white women aren't interested in black men. Black men were popular on social media for a couple years. But it's not popular offline. I told him he shouldn't have believed the hype. Most people don't race mix. And most people end up with people like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:24 AM
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Doesn't bother me. I prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:16 PM
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Not always. But at least they came with character references and introductions etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:16 AM
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The history of men paying isn't even long. It's recent history. So, not very traditional.. Also, people love half tradition. People also traditionally got married after a few months.. Yall love cherry picking tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:06 AM
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Right. Unless you have a 24 hour feed to watch how someone lives their life, then you don't know anyone's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:06 AM
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Low integrity people are always trying to normalize having low integrity so they don't have to feel bad. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:06 PM
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I do. But I think it makes you look stupid to have an opinion like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:03 AM
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Because that's a nonsensical statement to make. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:26 AM
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Yall act like something being normalized means it's not stupid. "Alot of people think like this, therefore it can't be wrong." Well damn, the Nazi's must have been justified in their actions then. 🙃🙃🙃 Alot of women are followers. And followers are stupid. And you're stupid if you can look at a woman like that and not be repulsed by her manner of thinking. Yall deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:57 AM
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Why do yall entertain stupid women like this? I'd just look at her. And then walk away. When a person shows you're they're stupid, believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:16 AM
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Or...and hear me out....you could just not fuck with women who are pieces of shit. Even to have sex with them. I love how people think they're better than someone and the person is beneath them, but their resolve is so weak they're still fucking them. Nothing humbles an entitled woman more than rejecting her in every way. Not letting her use sex as a way to get to you. But yall are too weak to do that. I love all the men that big themselves up. But are too weak to walk away from pussy if some ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:57 AM
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Right. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:06 AM
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Due to the economy and plethora of common poor character traits revolving around self centeredness and lack of accountability/self awareness. This is the only issue, really. There's a lack of people of acceptable character these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:27 PM
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I think because of the propaganda of it all. It looks nice and pretty and idealistic. No one wants to idealize the less glamorous life of being a family on a farm. Or being a family in a larger tribal community.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:03 PM
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Exactly. 🤡 Historically, women pulled a lot of fucking weight. And possessed a large skill set. They weren't some glass figurines on a fucking shelf shielded from the dirty, hard work. On a farm, everyone had to work..and be competent in all kinds of jobs. People love quoting the 1950s as some ideal. When human history extends back tens of thousands of years. It's cherry picking at it finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:52 PM
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Men live under the delusion that they have the upper hand. They've never had the upper hand. History had admitted to this reality for thousands of years. If men didn't control women's ability to have their own money and jobs, women wouldn't have picked any of them. They knew that starkly. But these days dudes think having access to porn and looking at attractive women on social media equates to them having options for sex with other women. When they don't. All a woman has to do is exist and be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:29 PM
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Everyone os entitled to their own standards.. My problem is all the people who aren't willing to stand by them. They say they are, but when their dating options dwindle they are crying about it and suddenly reneging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:24 PM
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It is abusive behavior. Women like this need to be dropped like a fucking hot potato. The moment a woman exhibits this behavior, leave. And never come back. It's so weird how people just put up with shit. If a relationship isn't better than being single, then stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:22 PM
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It's fake. Because no one talks like that. The scenario is plausible. But not over 5 texts its not. If you read it, it reads like it was written by the same person. Because the flow and communication style is the exact same: direct and to the point. Most people aren't like that. They would use more words.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:19 PM
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Sexual desire is an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:56 AM
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How does the ability to buy a woman dinner translate to the ability to provide for a family? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:46 PM
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Women agree to dates because they're also interested in the man, right? So then why does money need to be exchanged? Every excuse yall come up with can be thwarted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:30 AM
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But I don't get why people won't just own up go that shit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:18 AM
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The reason is "it makes me feel special" which is fine in itself. But notice how women won't just say that. They try to deflect to other reasons. That can be disproven as bullshit. They're special specifically because they're female? Not because they have a relationship with the person (girlfriend, marriage etc)? Just female-ness? That's called preferential treatment. And people who are given preferential treatment for some trait they possess sacrifice being treated equally. all. Basically if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:42 AM
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Notice how no one can give a good reason for the expectation. As long as you're strangers in a non-exclusive relationship, no one should be paying for anything for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:45 AM
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Make up, clothes, and hair items are all things they already own. Shit, do I have to pay for the gas in your car too? Make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:01 AM
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A man who cannot provide won't have a career or job or place to live. You can tell alot about a person just by knowing some basic behaviors. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:21 AM
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Great. None of that is pertinent before exclusivity is it? And a man's ability to provide can be proven by inquiring if he has a job, car, and place to live. All of that means he has his life together. And as you get to know him better you can go deeper into his finances, spending behaviors etc etc. Paying for a date is unrelated to providing for a woman you've been exclusive with for X amount of time, married and who is raising your kids. There's a massive gulf in between those two scenarios. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:04 AM
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What does money have to do with platonic vs romantic? See? The logic isn't logic-ing. I dress up, get my hair and nails done, You already own the hair and makeup and shoes. Don't you? So you putting on what you own isn't a favor. And men don't care about nails. So long as they're clean. . I’ll bake him something special just because. I’ll tidy up his house. Buy say you don't like him, do you refund his money? If yall never made it past a date or two? So are all men supposed to go on a hamster wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:01 AM
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It's not tradition. Men and women courted briefly. Then married. That's the vast majority of human "tradition". The idea of men paying is just over 100 years old. As going on a date wasn't normal for most of human history. So its just an entitlement. But I find women don't want to say that. I'd never let anyone pay for me simply because it's not necessary. And I don't want them to lose any resources should I decide to not pick them. Also, women have jobs and can pay for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:36 AM
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I don't think it's an equal comparison. Because one doesn't potentially harm your health. But expecting men to pay on the first dates (before youre exclusive) is an entitled and exploitative behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:01 AM
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But what I don't get is why a man should pay for a first date? You're not doing him a favor. You're clearly also interested in meeting a partner. I dont get the logic behind it. And no woman has been able to explain this entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:58 AM
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I'm stating fact. Like I said, you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:24 PM
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Yall stay delusional. Couples usually get fat together. Not apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:42 PM
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Women overseas still value the same things in a man: Looks, personality, money, status. They're way more direct about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:03 AM
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If I had been a woman but with my sexual drive I would have had a hundred partners starting in puberty, maybe more than that. I would definitely have been all in for promiscuous sex all through my teens and twenties. No. You wouldn't. The part you're forgetting is you'd have different sexual organs. That experience sex differently than men. And require more to get off / enjoy sex. It's why gay men are so much more hyper promiscuous than gay women. Make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:29 PM
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At least you're honest. I for one think it's disgusting. I would never ask anyone to ingest my bodily fluids. It seems like such an outrageous thing to like or even expect. Yet it's normalized. And women oblige it like clowns. (I guess some women like it as well.) But plenty don't and do it anyway. It just goes to show how ridiculous human beings are in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:55 AM
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I edited my comment to say that history proves its not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:30 AM
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No. It wouldn't. History literally proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:29 AM
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I've asked if you've done it. You said it was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:29 AM
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It's so easy yet means so much. You've done it? 🤔 I will never for the life of me understand the obsession men have with other people ingesting their bodily fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:12 AM
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I'm saying is, people want to easily be able to say "Well this study says...." or "Well these survey results report...." And it's like, the numbers aren't worth trusting. Use human nature to argue your point. People lie. People especially lie to protect their ego and reputation. People hate accountability. Therefore the odds of people bold face lying about cheating, for example, high. Not to mention, most people aren't good people at their core. Which is thus illustrated time and time again on s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:07 PM
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People often lie on surveys. And studies often have errors or margin. Or are purposely biased. So, while numbers can illuminate some truths, definitely shouldn't be trusted full stop. They should be on considered. To me, most of life and human interaction can be analyzed (from an individuals perspective) using lived experiences, logic and common sense. A study or statistics are not about to tell me about something I've observed time and time again, first hand throughout my life. And that's led m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:19 PM
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Right. I can't stand a weak ass push over woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:16 AM
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So you're a European who thinks everything works according to Europe and the America's. Which simply is not true. People are introduced by mutual connections. People date less and sleep around less. Also don't play games. Or you make your friends look stupid as well. So I think people want to have their cake and eat it too. In countries without cold approach culture, frequent relationships are rare. And casual sex is also rare. People take whatever introduction they can get because opportunities…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:00 AM
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Again. Yall don't bother traveling. Not cold approaching have nothing to do with Islam. Non religious countries have these structures. It's weird how Americans think their way is other people's way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:51 AM
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By leave them alone, I mean stop approaching them without their permission. And bothering them. Like I said, this is not done in a large part of the world. In those countries you have to socialize and be introduced through mutual connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:51 AM
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Leave women alone. Travel the world. Men don't cold approach in a large percentage of countries. And people still date and marry in these countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:14 AM
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Alot of men will put up with being treated horribly just to be with an attractive woman. 🤣🤣 Most won't admit that though. They talk shit in public and act like they have self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:53 PM
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No. That's not it. A toxic family is toxic. Period. So you're gonna suffer indirectly. People don't get to choose their family. But never date someone who doesn't have clear, hard boundaries with toxic family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:08 AM
4

Would someone's family make you dislike the person or reconsider them as a partner? It should.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:48 AM
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When you think about it, it doesn't take much to have a one-night stand with somebody 🤔 All a guy needs is some bare minimum of looks, social charisma and luck (being in the right place at the right time) Most people don't have looks or charisma. But expecting both in the same person is expecting alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:46 PM
2

History is irrelevant. Another pseudo intellectual on the loose. 🙄 Humans haven't evolved. Technology doesn't override our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:02 PM
0

Not. Historically. NOT AIDS. 🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:31 AM
4

Yall are ridiculous. Pregnancy and STD are pretty fucking big risks. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:32 AM
3

Sex is dangerous. Being sex positive doesn't change that fact. Yall hate reality, I swear Promiscuous people make their ability to have sex their whole personality. Instead of cultivating a real skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:34 AM
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They could. Permanently. Before the invention of contraception, women risked pregnancy, and thus death. Pregnancy is still risky. Women risk damage to their sexual organs via rape. Not to mention permanent sexually transmitted diseases. Health is everything. In order to be able to get resources, you first need bodily health and autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:56 AM
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Your health and the well being is of the utmost importance. The results of using someone for their body is more detrimental than resources. You can get more resources if you lose them. Alot of the damage done to your body is permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:42 AM
7

First off, plenty of women like men with thick long beards. Which is why men with thick long beards are generally in relationships. It's not like they're more likely to be incels or something. Secondly, a woman in a nice outfit with high heels is going to stand out way more to men than the same woman in an sneakers and sweatpants. Yes, men don't really know man details about women's shoes. But they are attracted to how women's legs and ass look while wearing them. So, each point here you've made…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:38 PM
2

Double digits is too high. Being a serial dater means you're boring and have nothing else to do with your life. I will never understand people who spend most of their time dating, looking for dates, and in talking stages and situatuonships with other people. If you've spent years on that, you're a clown. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:45 PM
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I wouldn't date someone that's friends with an ex. Not being friends doesn't mean you hate them. It means you're not friends. Say hi when you see them and keel it moving. I'd dump her, personally,. BUT these days literally everyone has these weird ass grey boundaries so she probably didn't see anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:41 AM
5

Society should embrace singleness being the standard normalized state.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:05 AM
34

"In other news, local man discovers introversion and the reality that human beings are multidimensional. And seeing one side of them doesn't give you the whole picture." On the contrary, alot of people like that are different around people they like. They make boring small talk with you to conserve energy. Appear dim witted, and boring is just you being an extrovert and seeing everything through that lense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:04 PM
1

People under 25 generally aren't mature enough simply because they lack the life experiences adulthood provides becuase they've only been adults 0-7 years. You're grown grown in your late 20s and beyond. You've amassed so much experience in all aspects of life by that age that you have your wits about you. But under 25 year olds lack of experience is obvious and makes them easier to take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:14 AM
1

They're both immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:31 PM
1

Oh well. That's too bad. Life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:14 AM
2

190 lbs is fat at 10% BF. And 10% BF is very hard to achieve and maintain throughout the year. So these dues are lying. Even alot of really fit dudes are 12% BF and they say they don't maintain that throughout the year. They are generally higher at different times because the restrictions are too much. Men with low BF and are gym rats literally date their female opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:11 AM
3

400lb white trailer park moms fucking adore me 🤣🤣🤣 Black men did that to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:09 AM
16

Date well built women. Likes attract likes. There's equally as many fit women as there are men. No, it's not every woman's obligation to be attractive to your standards. Yall literally make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:21 PM
23

Lies. Fit dudes don't struggle for interest from fit women. OP is probably dumpy and skinny fat at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:06 PM
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OP still isn't obligated to date them. Fit dudes have zero problem getting fit women. Only dudes mad about "fat chicks" are all the dumpy dad bod dudes and the skinny fat dudes. Or rail skinny dudes. Dudes of average weight with decent enough musculature can get a woman of equal fitness level. Extremes on any scale is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:06 PM
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I don't get the singling out of fat women. If you're not fat yourself, then date slim women. It's not that hard. Like I said. You don't need to worry about all the fat women. Because you can easily not date them. So then why complain? Fit dudes have zero problem finding and dating equally fit women. None at all. So then what's the complaining about? I don't get why so many men feel the need to pick on fat women so excessively without acknowledging that there's a fat dude out there for her to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:04 PM
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My favorite part is how yall act like there aren't just as many obese dudes. Obesity does NOT just affect women. Plenty of fat dudes. Dating fat women. Leave them to each other. Date slim women if you're also slim. It's not that hard. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:34 PM
1

Why is he trying to prove a life we literally DID NOT ask for? No one asked this dude to make a post. We weren't curious about his bank account balance. Nor were we interested in his relationship. Dude is volunteering up all this info. And expecting to be believed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:58 AM
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He sure got a lot of time to be ranting on Reddit considering he he has a life full of millions of dollars and rubs shoulders with the upper crust of Thai society. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:13 AM
2

Is this the dude that was dating the Thai girl from a rich family?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:04 PM
1

WOMEN DONT HAVE TO WANT YOU. Get over it. Women owe men nothing. Not standards you can meet. Not attraction. Not relationships. Not affection. Not sex. NOTHING. It's like men just do not get this. Get over it. Women don't want to you as much as you want them. They don't. No scenario has ever existed where they have.. I swear you mofos are so fucking bitter that you're utterly obsessed with women. Whereas you're an after thought to women. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:03 PM
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They never cared about men. The patriarchy wasn't about men. It was about some men. The rest of men benefitted slightly by proxy. There was no social structures to ensure women were looked after and since strange men are the biggest danger to women, men were all given their own wives to start families and shut the fuck up and tow the line. Yall act like it was nature.. Nope. Never was. Historically there have been plenty of egalitarian societies. The patriarchy is only 12000 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:53 AM
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That's not a woman's responsibility. That's what yall don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:48 AM
1

Exactly. It doesn't benefit men in power. That's why. When it did benefit them, men oppressed women. Now women's liberation benefits the hell out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:47 AM
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Ask men why they ignore men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:28 AM
2

Exactly. Its such a stupid and unnecessary risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:41 AM
8

At least you told the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:29 AM
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No. Do what you want. You're allowed to have whatever standard you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:28 AM
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From what I've observed, alot of promiscuous women use their ability to have sex as a personality trait. They often use it to get attention. To let everyone know how cool and laid back they are. I've never know a promiscuous chick to just be quiet about it. They always have to inadvertently let everyone dude know so they can get maximum attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:56 PM
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Throw this whole post in the trash. If a Woman is broke nobody cares, if a Man is broke he is a clown. If a Women is short nobody cares, if a man is Short hes weak. If a Man fucks around most people dont care, if a woman does it its bad. Men can literally start disliking short, broke women. It's not in a woman's best interest to get involved with someone that is broke. I'd never recommend a man date a broke woman. You get my Point, many positions in Dating are Dependend on your Gender, a Man isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:06 PM
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You just don't like reality. The women you "get" are women who are trying to trade sex as a means of getting you under their thumb. You're naive AF to think these women are attracted to you because you're sexy. 🤡 It's a well known fact that in Asia, women will treat you one way before they marry you and then flip the script the second the ink is dry on the marriage certificate. So you're living in a delusion if you honestly think these women aren't trying to scam you. It's really not a big deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:51 PM
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Then women are not entitled to men liking their promiscuity Why are yall always retorting with "Well women also aren't..." Yes, the point is also being made in regards to women as well. Isn't that basic common sense? Too many people here seem to automatically assume that commenters are on the side of women when they give opinions about human behavior.. Women are human. So it stands to reason that women would be included in their opinion. So then why respond with this petulant assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:32 PM
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They would be stupid too. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:29 AM
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This guy has, for more or less his entire adult life, been a violent, anti-social woman beater. His assault on Rhianna left her face bloody and swollen, and the entire world saw photographic evidence of this. His brutal beating of Rhianna is not the only time he has physically assaulted a woman, he has, as of 2023, about 5 convictions for similar offences (and countless more for random acts of assault, vandalism and DUI) and undoubtedly will commit another such assault at some point in the (not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:44 AM
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Nothing about my reply speaks on morality. I'm asking why the Manopshere is always talking shit about being productive, getting money, working on goals etc. When all yall do is chase women. Which is the exact opposite of the Manosphere "hustle" culture. It's the dating equivalent to binge eating. Yall are gluttoning your egos on female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:48 PM
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First off, you're getting smarter. Where's the downside? Name one? Secondly, by continuing to have sex with all these women, you're risking impregnating one. Then becoming a baby daddy. And getting put on child support. Which will forever affect your finances. Yall act like women who are okay with being side chicks are psychologically normal or emotionally stable. They usually are not. And you're out here risking your life and your freedom for sex? Makes no damn sense. The risk you're taking. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:17 AM
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Yikes. I make close to 2M a year, I have multiple hobbies that don’t require me to go to the gym. I’m ripped, six pack and whatever is considered attractive by women in their late 20s, early thirties. I did this because I could and it was fun. 🤷🏻‍♂️ You're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:58 AM
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Nothing wrong with being loved. But there's something wrong with needing to siphon validation from multiple women in order to have self esteem. The same goes for women. It's pathetic for a person to need validation from everyone and their mother. just hung out with their friends and family the rest of the time. Keywords are family and friends. Not random women I need to meet in order to feel like a worthy person. I'm saying this behavior is motivated by low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:37 AM
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Most men aren't that successful. Yalla are always focused on outliers. Some dudes are positioned in a way where they gave the career, money and prestige to come along with it to be so impressive they can sleep around fairly easily. That's not most of the dudes sleeping around though. The majority have regular jobs. Make regular money. And have to put in a whole like more time investment to manage all these women. It's like comparing an average Joe to a basket ball player. Basket ball players don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:21 AM
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And there we have it. Yall ain't got much going on in the way of interests. I figured the RedPill was lying when dudes were constsntly talking about how busy they were and how full their lives were. Can't be when you're spending your free time managing multiple women. Yall don't work out? Yall don't have hobbies or interest? Don't like learning shitm Don't Care about knowledge? Just about pussy and the ego validation it brings. But then yall get online and every body act like they're fucking phi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:44 AM
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No. I'm saying you already do. Because you're employed. So then your free time outside of work is limited. And you spend it all on dating 5 different women. And if you're dating 5 different women, thst also means that you're dating 5 different low quality women. Risking impregnating one of the and ending up on child support. You're risking your future like that for what exactly? Ain't yall got hobbies? Don't you work out? You ain't friends or family? You don't need to run errands? Yall want to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:39 AM
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People keep saying that they're successful. By what metric exactly? You don't have any hobbies that you participate in regularly? You don't work out? Why are you middle aged and wasting time risking potentially impregnating some woman and having to pay child support? Because the shit isn't about sex at all. It's about pure ego validation. Why are you in your 40s and "successful" But your ego STILL requires stroking from multiple women? I swear most people arent worth soliciting respect from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:20 AM
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Yall ain't got hobbies or interests you want to spend your time on? You don't work out regularly? You have a limited amount of free time on the weekday due to working and commuting. Plus other errands, weekdays are usually a bust. So you have about 32 hours on the weekend. Of free waking time. You're investing a large part of that on juggling five women for what purpose? You're risking impregnating 5 women and potentially having to pay child support for what exactly? Regularly risking STDs for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:17 AM
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Answer my question. Explain to me how a person can have goals they want to accomplish, work 40 hours a week, and date 5 women at the same time, on top of other obligations and commitments? I'll wait. It means you literally aren't doing shit else with your life besides going to your day job and dating 5 women. It's the same with people who have a hundreds of contacts in their phones and spend all day messaging 30 different people small talk worthless conversations. You're bored. You literally hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:21 AM
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Yall think this is a flex. It means you literally wasted time you could have spend being productive on women to get ego validation. Name one man that has goals that wastes his time on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:32 AM
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Men resent that they need / want women more than women want them. No matter how hard they try to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:26 AM
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It's mostly men. You know that. I know that. Among people who changed the world, the vast majority of them are male. Not because women couldn't. But because women weren't allowed. Yall need to grow up. Not everything needs to be prefaced with "some women too" You're not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:00 PM
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I like you! Where have you been in this sub? I just get called a troll when I say stuff like this. I'm always around. Calling these people out for their clownery. The trick is to argue with detailed logic. Pick their POV apart bone by bone. And counter it with real life examples. I will say tho that at a certain point people can be completely not sexually compatible. But that’s few and far between. I dated a guy briefly who’s dick was just.. too big. It sucked. Or. I once slept with a guy who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:58 PM
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So is lifestyle and financial compatibility, correct? Do you move in after X number of dates? Do you reveal your finances after X number of dates? If not, why is that? Those are equally important. Sex isn't a skill. Anyone can do it. Anyone can get good at it. Sexual preferences and libido etc can all be discussed beforehand. So try again. Yall keep trying so hard to hide behind the whole sexual compatibility thing. But when you parse it, it doesn't make sense. Because it's exploitation, like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:46 AM
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Its all left over from Kevin Sameuls "Men built the world". No. They didn't. The world existed before humankind walked the earth. Human beings worked together to survive for like 50k years before industrialization. A handful of very intelligent men are responsible for everything you and I (and 99.9% of men) have access to today. Period. Having a job is just that. Having a job..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:40 AM
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There's no such thing. Sex isn't a skill. It's not hard to do. Nor is it hard to get good at. People kill me making their ability to have sex a whole personality. Go out and master something not every single living thing can engage in without having to be taught. I couldn't imagine judging someone based solely on sex a few times. The first few times are bound to not be the best they could be. Because you don't fully know each other sexually. But because sex ain't hard to learn. You start to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:32 AM
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Sex is how men know. You're lying. If this was true, most men wouldn't have a woman they were in love with and wanted to be with even though they had never slept with her. Yet all men have had this experience at least once before. Most men cannot determine if you are relationship material by doing friend activities. Pretty sure a successful relationship needs more than sex. This is my point. Yall are thick in the head. Intimacy can exist without sex. That is a thing. It's always been a thing. Ya…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:28 AM
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Doesn't matter who is doing it. People need to be responsible for their actions. No matter how much people keep trying to push the idea that sex isn't a big deal, it still is. It creates whole fucking living breathing humans. It can lead to death and disease. It can ruin your life. We all know this. Yet people continue to act reckless in regards to sexual choices. And I'm saying that's not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:22 AM
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Yall keep saying the same shit. "But sexual compatibility is important." So is lifestyle compatibility. Yet you don't move in with anyone quickly. So is financial compatibility. Yet you don't reveal your finances early on either. So are all kinds of other compatibility metrics. Yet, no one pushes them. Those all need to wait. Bit sex. Sex needs to happen soon. Otherwise we just can't know if we're compatible. What bullshit. Go on any porn website. Look up ACTUAL homemade porn. And you will see p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:21 AM
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Which is the epitome of using someone.. Dating implies you're interested in a relationship. If you're not interested in a relationship with her don't sleep with her. It's not thst hard to have integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:50 AM
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They aren't struggling. They're also generally busy and exhausted from work, so I'd imagine most are just eager to find someone to build a life with. I couldn't imagine a bunch of blue collar dudes coming off a 12 hour shift doing manual labor and then dressing up in their best outfits and dousing themselves in cologne to hit up thst up town lounge for drinks. I just don't see it. They exist within their own culture. And date within that culture. Most of these complainers are white collar dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:15 PM
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Stick to the point. Are you or are you not a blue collar essential worker? If not, shut up please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:11 PM
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Exactly. And even an electrician can't build shit or don't plumbing or flooring, or roofing or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:58 PM
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Least I'm not bragging on behalf of someone else. Most men can't build, grow or engineer a goddamn thing. But are perpetually talking shit on behalf of men who can. If anything, blue collar dudes are more likely to be conservative traditionalist who provide for women in their lives. Bet money most of the dudes on this subreddit aren't blue collar. Yall are a bunch of white collar crybabies. It shows too. Yall got way too much time to be online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:07 PM
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Without women civilization would collapse. Sperm is cheap and plentiful. Wombs are not. Human beings need shelter, food, and water. The end. All of those things can exist in the absence of men existing. Women don't need protection in a world without men. Because wild animals are not a danger to women. Men are. Yall refuse to accept that it's men who need women. And not the other way around. Get rid of all this modern day technology, and women would still survive like they always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:52 PM
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The point is women don't need men as much as men need women. Men keep trying to convince everyone that it's women who need men. When historically men have been WAY more pressed to have a woman than the other way around. And it persists to this day. And men are real salty about that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:49 PM
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Your day to day life is sustained by women. Get rid of hourly worker positions. Guess what? Your ability to buy anything will disappear overnight. You'll be starving in the street by the end of the week. Because you don't actually know how to grow your own food or provide any of your essential goods. Stop acting like blue collar jobs are essential for human survival. They're not. Human beings have been farmers for most of human history. Pre industrialization, the world worked just fine. Human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:47 PM
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To me, "too nice" means: A. Has weak boundaries which is a turn off in men and women. B. Acts insincerely due to insecurity and the desire to be liked over being respected. C. Is a generic person. And has no clear values or opinions they will defend. D. Is a follower. Adopts other people's opinions easily. Too afraid to step on anyone's toes, ever. A people pleaser. I consider "nice" to be an insult for men and women. It means you're a generic person. An NPC of the highest order. People only use…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:34 PM
2

still benefit indirectly by men being horny enough to do the worst jobs that keep their bubble in infrastructure and civilization. Yall need to stop this. Civilization worked just fine pre-industrialization. Or didn't you know that? All this "infrastructure' is not needed to human beings to live and thrive. It only exists to spur on capitalism. Men have jobs BECAUSE THEY NEEE THE MONEY. No. They're not working these jobs out of charity or altruism. They want to earn money to pay their bills. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:28 PM
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Right. These dudes are always bragging by proxy. All while being men NOT WORKING in any blue collar fields. Women need to be grateful. But the fact that the majority of men are also workers in non-essential white collar jobs is over looked. By merely sharing the same gender as people in blue collar jobs gives them the right to talk shit. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:25 PM
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This is the dumbest take ever. Society has a ton of fucking jobs that make society run. Get rid of hour worker jobs and watch society fall the fuck apart. No. You being a builder or electrician DOES NOT make you more important than a cashier at your local grocery store. It does not make you more important than a teacher at your local school. A doctor cannot do their job without the cleaners who maintain the facilities to allow them the time to see patients. Without the secretary at the desk who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:23 PM
3

You've convinced me. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:02 PM
2

Comments like this are so lazy. Actually respond to what the person writes or say nothing. This shit is literally useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:19 AM
0

Its not fine. Makes you look weak. Like a loser. Though, I will say women who are obsessed with being viewed as sexually attractive and need male validation are also losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:28 AM
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"Dont fuck a man on the first date because he's a stranger, could be a rapist, could have an STD and sleeping with a person you don't know is a risky behavior." It's not that hard. People these days are so trifling. If you're a man or woman and you sleep with someone quickly or engage in casual sex, you're a dirty person. I'm not talking morally. I'm talking physically filthy. You easily expose yourself to potentially disease ridden people. And people go around bragging about that. But the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:49 PM
5

After 25 it's mostly the same. But 19-24 is YOUNG. And it consistently feels young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:59 AM
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Once adults pass a certain age, it's all the same. But under 25 years old HITS. The lack of life experience as an adult is a big deal. The gap is a huge one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:04 AM
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I don't. But you can't spend all this time talking about women, and the claim to not care that much about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:35 AM
1

Not jealous. You're immaturity is immaculate though. To be able to have a conversation with a 19 year old whole being 35 year old.. What? Gonna go buy her some wine coolers to drink in the dorms with her friends? 🤣🤣 Get the fuck outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:44 AM
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No. I'm not bitter. I don't get all this threatening to do some shit. Just do it. And shut up. Men are constantly talking about how women are strong arming them into some shit. The Manosphere is 100% about men talking about women. Yall are the ones constantly preoccupied with women. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:42 AM
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I couldn't imagine being interested in anything serious with late teens, early 20 year olds while in my 30s. Not even as friends. They feel like children to me. Like younger brothers or sisters. And yall are out here dating them. While being whole ass grown adults. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:10 AM
2

Male or female coworkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:32 AM
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Stop telling men they need a woman, and how much better a wife will make their life. Ain't nobody telling yall that. Stay single. Leave women alone. Yall are the ones who can't / won't leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:53 AM
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Yes. But I also think people who watch TV excessively and are absorbed in story lines of shows to be just as ick. Playing video games a few times a year is fine. It being one of your main hobbies is a no for me..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:41 PM
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This thread proves that men are more impressed by and envious of other men than women ever could be. Nothing is impressive about sleeping with a bunch of women. You look like a loser with a weak ego thst needs constsnt validation from random women. I am never impressed by dudes like this..because they all ooze inadequacy and insecurity. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:06 AM
1

I'm saying nature created sex for reproduction. Whether humans like it or not. I don't get people who think they can just ignore reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:55 PM
1

I didn't say women weren't liable. I'm saying a man cannot get a woman pregnant without his fucking consent. Keep your semen in your sack. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:41 PM
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Gasoline doesn't set itself on fire. It only need be away from anything to spark it. Don't want kids as a man? Great. Don't have sex. Get a vasectomy and then have PROTECTED sex. Or shut up. Nature created sex. And made it so sex results in children. There is no way around that. You don't have to like it. But disliking what nature created does nothing to stop reality of it existing. I will never understand people who just think they should be able to disagree with the fact that they have the abi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:32 PM
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They have the right to not create a baby in the first place. No, I don't have the right to set a house on fire and then not get charged for arson. I knew gasoline and a flame started a fire. I did it anyway. Please make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:26 PM
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First off, why are yall so fucking shallow? How is it that you made this whole post and it focuses on a potential mates looks money and status. Not character. And that is why yall fail. Secondly, YES, I do. My standards aren't high. First, you must have infallible integrity. Period. Must have your own opinions and not be influencable by others. Must not be a follower. Must have a career. And the ability to provide a reasonable standard of living for yourself as a single man. Must not like casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:47 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:43 PM
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You will eventually be tested in front of other people. And when you are, your reaction will speak volumes. Generally, quietly confident people stand out immediately when they are tested because no one expected them to react the way they do. Because alot of people initially associate quietness with lack of confidence. And when your iron clad identity slaps them in the face, they all turn and pay attention. What you will notice is that once they realize you're not what they though you were they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:42 PM
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I physically cringe when I see some dude subconsciously begging for random women's validation. And feeling good when they get it. She's literally a stranger to you. Who cares what she thinks of you. Dudes these days act like they have to be deemed attractive by every single women their age that they encounter. Or else their egos will explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:24 PM
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This is the only answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:46 PM
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So is everyone else's life. That's why how can someone be okay with getting significantly less than somebody else? No. People are indeed not all equal in life. Some people have better opportunities. Imagine being middle class crying about not being able to afford a 300k car. When it's not even a necessity. For what? You have everything you need if you're middle class. Why be salty about unneeded extras?. If one woman truly loves you in this life you have hit the lottery. Finding that is hard eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:27 PM
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Not a Chad. I'm not even pretty. Just average. And I remember being a teenager and so confused at why everyone was so concerned with what everyone else thought of them. Girls falling to pieces because they weren't deemed pretty. So, what? Who cares. I've never based my self esteem on my looks or whether boys or men liked me. So I literally cannot relate to people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:35 AM
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It’s also hilarious to me that the guys you described are always berating “simps”…when their entire existence revolves around trying to get pussy. Obsessively analyzing stats of who is / isn’t getting pussy, reading books and listening to podcasts on how to get pussy, changing their entire personality and values system (if they had one to begin with) to get pussy…not to mention all the cringy as fuck “maxx” talk. Doesn’t that make them the ultimate simps? They may not simp for one woman in parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:33 AM
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The entitlement of "getting women" is astounding. What kind of clown do you have to be to think that your mere existence should be rewarded with sex and attention from women? Why is that method of thinking even a thing? You're one person out of 8 billion. Your life is insignificant in the grand scheme of life. But you expect multiple human beings to be so enamored by your insignificant ass and be tripping over themselves to validate your ego, and offer up their bodies to you? At what point in hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:27 AM
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It means you shouldn't sweat one incompatibility. So what? The person doesn't vibe with you. Now you know. So move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:58 AM
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If I’m on a date and the person is uninteresting or not compatible it won’t be fun. Cool. You're not compatible. Move on. I don't get what the big deal is. I can talk to anyone. And get along with anyone. Even if I'm not compatible with them. No hard feelings. It's weird how outraged and offended people are for merely being incompatible with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:58 AM
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Yall are immature. Finding a life partner should be considered a serious thing. Maybe if more people thought of it as serious rather than bullshitting around then they'd actually find the person. I can have a decent time with anyone as long as they're not a fucking weirdo. But I only have real fun with people who are compatible. But I couldn't imagine being upset that our vibes don't work. It's a first meeting. It's not that fucking serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:48 AM
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Why do you expect fun when meeting someone for a first date? They're a stranger to you. Your first meeting should be to check basic compatibility metrics and break the ice. People are immature AF these days. The way yall think about shit is like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:36 AM
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The two are unrelated. Completely. Courting should be fun because you're compatible. But wasting time with the wrong people should suck. I couldn't imagine going into a first date with a complete stranger expecting fun. For what? You literally don't know them. So your expectation of some grand time is weird from the beginning. It should be simple and painless. If you're compatible, great. If you're not, part ways. How immature is it to expect to be massively entertained by someone you just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:34 AM
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Its not supposed to be fun. It's supposed to be functional. Date > Check Compatibility > Marry > Have Kids Which is why dating without purpose is stupid. A big ass waste of time. Our ancestors got something right. When you're dating to be married only, suddenly your ability to choose becomes clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:08 AM
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No. It doesn't. Man isn't forced. At all. The reason men marry women is because they're not willing to be without a woman in their life. They could say NO and be single. But they REFUSE to do that. Thus proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:08 PM
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Because they could otherwise be single. No one wants to be in limbo forever. If you don't want to marry a woman, cool. Let her be single then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:07 PM
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Makes sense to ask for commitment if you're in a relationship. Otherwise you're wasting time when you could be single. Make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:06 PM
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Women don't want to waste their time being GFs forever. Nothing wrong with that. Either marry them or let them be single. That's perfectly logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:05 PM
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No medical condition causes weight gain. If you have thyroid issues, eat less. Food is fuel. If your body only needs 1100 calories of fuel to function due to thyroid, that's how much you need to eat. You don't put 60 gallons in a fucking 40 gallon tank, do you? No medicine and no illness creates excess calories. Period. Only excess food does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:04 PM
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No. They choose fatness because they don't want to get help with their eating disorder. The end. It's hard to change. They know it's killing them, but they don't want to stop. So just say it's not a problem. No other addict gets away with this behavior. But food addicts do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:57 PM
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No. You're born gay. You don't choose your sexual orientation. You choose obesity. Because eating more calories than you need is the only way to get obese. Stop trying to equate the two. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:41 PM
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Yes. My phone autocorrected one word wrong. Which means the post just CANNOT be understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:22 PM
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I'm saying how people will cling to delusion because they don't like reality. And people aren't afraid of fat people. Obesity is unhealthy and will eventually kill you. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:22 PM
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I swear men are perpetually bitter that they need women in their lives. Yall will make up any shit to cope with that reality. Makes me think if how fat people would rather call obesity healthy than admit they're too weak and addicted to food to lose weight. Women have no history of controlling men and forcing men to marry them. That's yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:49 PM
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I read a story recently of girl who woke up with cum on her face. She was in her family home. Her father, and three brothers were the only ones in the house. She told her mom, and her mother told her that it must have been something else. And not to tell anyone. So she told her sister. And apparently the same thing happened to her sister a few months prior. But she didn't say anything. Anyway, come to find out, one of her adult brothers was the culprit. He'd been doing it for years. The mom knew…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:35 PM
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You're compatible with most people, anyway. 🤷‍♀️ For all the shit people talk about "intellectual conversations", most people don't engage in intellectual conversations but once in a blue moon. Most people prefer to talk about people around them, work, events, their children, sports. That's just where most people's minds go. Though no one likes to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:12 AM
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Credentials aren't as important. You can be completely self taught. I don't care. But you must be fucking competent. Because I have no fucking patience for nice, but completely incompetent people. I don't care how nice you are. If you're incompetent and unaware of your incompetence I will greatly dislike you. But you must be curious, have intellectual interests and be a life long learner of something. I've seen alot of stupid people who are book smart with credentials from academic bodies but ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:35 AM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:21 AM
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It should go without saying. HOWEVER just let them know that you don't date multiple people. And don't sleep around. And don't want to be around someone who does. And they'll show themselves out.. It's weird how people think disliking casual sex, and fucking around on the side while dating, is a value only religious or conservative people can have. IMO everyone should stay single until someone worth not being single for comes along. People who are always on the prowl seem like bored ass losers t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:31 PM
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I meant that of somehow I had started dating them and later found out that when they were talking to me they were sleeping with someone else, I'd STILL end it with them. As that behavior isn't my standard. Because I don't date people who behave like that period.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:16 PM
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Hire sex workers. Yall kill me wanting to have casual sex but being opposed to paying for it. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:19 PM
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Yeah. Leave people to their own devices. And watch them choose to engage in low moral behavior. It's a sign that you're a low quality person if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:09 PM
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I wouldn't date anyone that has casual sex. So, it's deal-breaker for me. If I found out later that someone I was currently dating was sleeping with someone else at the time they said they were interested in me, I'd end the relationship immediately. And then never speak to them again. I don't so shit like that. I don't want to be around people who so shit like that. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:00 PM
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No. It's a personal choice. Each person (male or female) chooses to give in to some perceived "pressure" to ve liked by others. That's on them. From what I've observed is alot of women give in to pressure because they can't stand the idea of other women getting attention from men and them not partaking. Think of all the women who complain about women dressing provocatively when men are present. And then they turn around and do the same. Because they're worried no one is going tonpay attention to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:52 AM
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How does one respond to such drivel? Your comment is the human equivalent of a baby drooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:34 AM
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Because men are responsible for the fallout of women's bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:32 AM
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He wouldn't give her his Netflix password after 7 dates. Wouldn't move in with her after 7 dates. Wouldn't introduce her to his friends after 7 dates. These people literally don't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:06 AM
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It was the middle of a weekday too. During day light hours. Less than an hour of talking. She invited him immediately. The shit could have been a fucking robbery. And he just went to her house like a clown. And said he's not a dude who doesn't regularly have casual sex. But he was still duped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:43 AM
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Bullshit. You wouldn't consider yourself a friend of someone after 7 meetings. But women are supposed to allow men to penetrate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:14 AM
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I'm not talking about you specifically. I'm talking about people in general. One thing missing from the world now vs 150+ years ago is integrity. In the 19th century it was still a thing. But from the 20th and onward its been in steep decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:21 AM
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Yes. Some leader who happened to be female started a war at some point in history. What would you say the ratio of female to male leaders starting war is? Be it ain't no where near 50:50. Men are predominantly responsible for war. And using other men as pawns in their war. Not women. Not by a fucking long shot. And then, men shame men who don't fight. Fuck fighting someone else's war. You don't want to go, don't go. People push back enough, and a war can't even happen. Just all agree to tell the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:54 AM
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You're trying real hard not to see the entitlement here. Real hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:49 AM
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They're not supposed to be used for casual sex either. They literally have sites specifically for that. Which alot of men simply don't want to use. Because I'd imagine they're overrun with sex worker ads. And posting on a dating site is not advertising sex. Yall ain't smart is yall?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:46 AM
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Odds are men between 18 and 45 would be pressed into service Largely By other men. Don't want to fight in a war? Great, stop starting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:37 AM
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Right. Integrity would fix everything. Everyone wants to benefit from integrity. No one wants to have integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:35 AM
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Him thinking he could use a DATING app for casual sex isnt in the wrong? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:31 AM
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Exactly. That's why I'm on Team "Never Let A Man Pay" if you're not exclusively dating him. Go out and hire a fucking professional if you want low effort sex. I really don't get this attitude where men think they should be able to sleep with you after spending pennies. Like you're a sex worker. But then thesr same dudes refuse to use sex workers services. And sees it as lame. But at the same time they get mad that you won't let them pay so they can create a covert contract of expected sex. 🙄 I o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:26 AM
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You're not allowed to on apps. I assume there was some sort of "tell" on her profile. Because "nothing in life is free". But he was insulted she asked him to pay. Like him being able to sleep with a complete stranger makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:04 AM
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I remember once hearing a dude tell a story on a podcast. He had matched with a really attractive girl on an online dating website. She invited him to her house within an hour of talking. He was ESTATIC. He goes to her house. She is who she was. Looks just like her pictures. So he's even more excited. She offers him some weed. And they smoke together. And he just cannot believe his fucking luck. Anyway, he makes a move on her. She informs him it will be pay for play. And he is SHOCKED. A woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:15 PM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:51 AM
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thru wisdom and knowledge or thru competence and actions? This way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:07 AM
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Yall have no basic understanding of what menstruation even is. Yall think menstruation is just bleeding. Not that simple for alot of women. The uterus must shed. In order to do that it releases a hormone. This hormone causes the uterus to contract and shed. In the process it also seeps onto the GI tract. Essentially causing diarrhea. So, not only are you bleeding, you also have painful cramps and now diarrhea. Then top that with breast tenderness, headaches. Nausea etc. And you have the first 24…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:55 AM
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Or, and hear me out, you could marry a person and realize that life might catch up and they may gain weight. And that you should both work to not end up like that and be understanding if a partner goes through weight gain and help them to get it back down. You know, think like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:01 AM
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People love renaming shit that already has names to make them feel less bad about participating in some shit. Did all your friends wives have kids? Bet money the husbands are fat too. Yall never mention how men let themselves go. ..but women are supposed to carry, birth, feed and raise a whole human without gaining much weight. All while working full time Jobs ans doing most of the housework. 🤡 I hope he feels the same when he's 65. I read somewhere that alot of never married men are popping up …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:41 PM
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🤣🤣 Aren't you that dude that claims to be 40 with a mindset of a 15 year old? Like seriously, 16 year olds would roast you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:51 AM
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And you can't get a woman to sleep with you. And how is that anyone else's fault? 🙃 I mean, it's like logic is difficult for some of yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:42 AM
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By this logic women should be paid reparations for the orgasm gap. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:22 AM
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And faux intellectualism strikes again. Like I keep saying, so many of the people here fancy themselves intelligent. All the while proving that they don't know basic words, definitions, or the importance if clarity in formulating an opinion. If you can't see the need to add "some" to women to make your point more clear, it's a sign that the intellect needes to parse such an idea isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:54 AM
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Which is why you say "some women" and not "women" 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:43 AM
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Why would you say "women are overweight, lazy and greedy" when that implies ALL Women are those things. Do you lack all ability to use the word "some"? It is the epitome of ignorance to make a sweeping generalization in the first place. It means you're literally not intelligent. You can criticize behavior or people without acting like all people of a group engage in it.. Because you know for a fact all members of the group don't. So you deserve to be "attacked" for talking out your ass because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:20 AM
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That's not how debate works. You don't just repeat back what you've already said. You provide examples. If you say you don't like fat girls, and prefer slim ones, you're saying all the slim women are going to be offended? Make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:11 AM
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No. Those women take it personally because it specifically applies to them. Talk about how unhealthy obesity is, and watch how all the slim people in the room are not affected. But watch how salty and defensive the obese ones get and start trying to "defend" obesity by making excuses like "it could be genetic" Which is just them indirectly offending themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:42 AM
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You're 40 years old and still so bad with women youre in the manosphere whining about women? That's not a flex, sir. You're too old to be this much of a follower. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:38 AM
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self evident means "I just made it up based on limited data". You're 19 years old. Go outside. See the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:32 AM
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🥱🥱🥱🥱 Do you have a brain? Are you able to formulate thoughts of your own? Or do you always go around parroting other people's opinions verbatim? Don't yall ever get tired of being social media creators sheep? You watch 20 videos and let that shit seep into your brain. And you start believing the message. Aren't use ashamed of being so easily influenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:52 AM
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Yalls misogyny is so boring. Women are beneath you, and yet, here you are, in thr manosphere which is a space 100% dedicated to men talking about women. Isn't that strange? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:31 AM
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Because people also want to have sexual relationships. Doesn't mean it's the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:36 PM
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This makes zero sense. In end, people are social creatures who want companionship more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:29 PM
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She's a liar. But that still has nothing to do with you not wearing a condom. Get a vasectomy. Abstain from sex.. You have choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:14 PM
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It's 50/50. Not 100/0. Doesn't matter what a woman uses or doesn't use. If a man is not using a condom that's his fault and he's agreeing to the pregnancy. One dude tried to say his GF preferred no condom. It's his dick. She can't decide that. He still had a say. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:43 PM
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Right. One time a dude claimed he was baby trapped when he wasn't wearing a condom. Somehow, her being on BC meant that he just wasn't responsible for wearing a condom. People are literally so stupid. I couldn't imagine trust my life to a woman making sure to take a pill. No thansk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:03 PM
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Yall just be saying LITERALLY whatever.. You run your mouth without knowing the basic meaning of terms. Disagreeablness is a good trait to have, because it means you won't allow yourself to be infiltrated by another person. But the two are unrelated. Its ridiculous that you aren't allowed to insult people on this subreddit.. Some of yall need to be called a few choice words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:54 AM
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No. Character isnt personality. And here we have it. You're participating in a debate without even knowing the meaning of words. Character is someone's values and their actions. Trustworthiness, honesty, integrity, honor etc are Character traits. Funny, talkative, emotional, serious are personality traits. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:45 AM
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I said explain it. Stop trying to get off topic. You still haven't explained yourself. How does me saying a person should have integrity lead to questioning if I'd sleep with someone just for having integrity? What even is the purpose of asking that? Why would your brain even think that made sense? Explain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:33 AM
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Explain your point then. I'll wait. How does "A person should have integrity" link to "would you fuck anyone with integrity." Explain it. Because from my POV jumping to that conclusion makes zero damn sense. None at all. "I think brown hair looks nice" =/= "I would sleep with anyone with brown hair". But ain't that common sense though? Yall are weird, I swear it..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:47 PM
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Stop double commenting on my stuff. You remind me of that person a couple a weeks ago. Commenting furiously on posts thinking they were making some r/iamverysmart point, when in all actuality, they were embarrassing themselves. Because nothing they said was actually intelligent. That person later on deleted all their comments too. Go figure. But will you fuck anyone with integrity? This isn't as smart a take as you think it is. Faux intellectualism is a real problem on this subreddit, I swear. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:29 PM
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Where did I say that? Quote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:25 PM
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Yall have got to stop using celebrities as examples of things. They live in a world completely unlike our own. To the point where you can't compare shit. A man can most definitely not cheat. All he has to do is have integrity and a personal code. But I would say that most human behavior is only really being wrangled by rules and laws and fear of punishment. Imagine what most people would do if they could get away with it. It's not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:07 PM
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You can get along with anyone. If they have integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:10 PM
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Integrity. Character is way more important than personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:54 PM
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Life with kids is stupid and mundane. You spend 20 years on the same hamster wheel schedule taking care of your kids. In between that you have occasional events. The end. That's life. It's weird how we act like people with kids are living some dream. Their lives just have more consistent, albeit monotonous, work in it. It's the same bullshit. Just a different color. It's crazy how people idealize families. Like everyone doesn't have a family..and every family doesn't have secrets and dysfunction…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:00 AM
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You don't have to ban shit. Nor do women need to have restrictions. Yall are wild AF. People have to take accountability for themselves. It amazes me the number of people who can't say no to dating sites and social media. The amount of men who can't stop following and liking random chicks photos. Women who can't stop positig themselves for attention. People love talking about the middle east. But their ignorance and conservatism is also what stops their countries from developing modern infrastru…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:15 AM
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Most of the debt was student loans. Another 12k was credit cards. And be said he was trying to figure out how much she actually had. She was already trickle truthing. Which is someone I wouldn't marry at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:04 AM
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Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Means to an end. They want stability and kids. He provides it. Yall forget marriage for love and attraction is a recent thing. Historically it was don't based on what was practical. And everyone just dealt with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:42 AM
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I'm not saying you do. I'm saying alot of men do. And they refuse to admit they do. Or they pick based on sexual availability. As long as the woman provides them with sex occasionally. Or the status of being married and therefore the community connections that come with it. But plenty of men overlook all kinds of very important dating/ marriage parameters. Just yesterday a dude on another subreddit found out his fiance has 100k of debt. When he previously thought she has like 30-40k. And despite…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:30 AM
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But alot of the people participating are. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:14 AM
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Its not even promiscuity. You can meet a woman who's a virgin or low body count but still turns out to be a toxic bitch that can ruin your life through the court system. Happens all the time. Men in these Bible thumping conservative communities only have power if the women don't take steps to screw them over. A man who wants kids needs to make sure the mother of his kids is level headed, reasonable person who can handle conflict without being vindictive and can think for herself. And keeps yalls…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:13 AM
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Plenty of modern day societies where women have freedom to choose still are conservative enough to not have complete mayhem. It's a balance. Conservatism isn't all bad. It has its place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:20 AM
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Most people are ordinary. It benefits ordinary people. People introduce based on "level". So if you're a 5. You'll be introduced to another 5. And so on and so forth. Abs by 5, I mean with looks, education, social class etc all included. All those parameters are taken into account as people marry their equals.. Rarely up or down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:17 AM
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Well you can't complain if you're participating in it too. People in the US complain out both sides of their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:14 AM
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See my comment below. No, it wouldn't. I live in a modern society. They have all the technology Americans have. They don't act like clowns. They merely apply social rules and punish members who violate it. Even in Ameirca, most people's lives would improve if they fostered social relationships, and made an effort to introduce friends, and only date from within their social networks of people they knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:38 AM
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It would change everything. I currently live in a society where online dating isn't a thing. At all. Guess what? Everyone dates people they knew in high school, or met in college. But they are all direct introductions from mutual friends. So you have to have a social group. That group has to interact with other groups. And as you build up a rapport with members of other groups one of those people will introduce you to someone they know. Both pictures are shown to each person. As long as the look…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:33 AM
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No. We need to go back to a society that courts for marriage. Where all interest directly expressed in a woman is under the intent of marrying. Where people date within their communities and social circles. Not strangers from the internet or people that you run into. That would solve all our issues. People don't know what they're doing. They don't know who to trust. And no ones intentions are obvious. Modern dating lacks structure. And integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:12 AM
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Do you honestly think people overeat or eat unhealthy because they can? They do it to cope with the stressors of life. It's like how smokers smoke to relax. They know it's bad for them. But it makes them feel better in the moment. Yall are ridiculous. You're expecting people to be perfect. And they're just not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:54 PM
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30 mins a day when you're running on 6 hours of sleep. And you got multiple little kids who can't do shit for themselves. But have all the energy in the world to create more work for you around the house. On top of having a full time job and 10 hours a week spent on commute. Plus cooking and cleaning and shuttling kids around to activities. Yeah, it's a fucking wonder women (who pull most of the weight) don't have 30 mins a day to exercise. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:31 PM
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Write your comments like person who received a standard education if you want to be taken seriously. It's not hard to type out your, you're and you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:28 PM
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And when you got kids, a job, errands, bills, chores etc, how you got time to stay hot and fit? The math doesn't math.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:31 PM
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Not always a choice. Many women during marriage and baby making years, end up prioritising everyone but themselves. That has a negative impact on their level of self care to varying degrees. Right. 🙃 Isn't this common sense? People are too stressed with too little time. And just eat whatever. And over the years, it adds up. Hot and fit women generally have tons of time to stay hot and fit. It's not that hard to figure out. It amazes me how many men also let themselves go in relationships. But no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:17 PM
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My opinions online and IRL are exactly the same. So, I wouldn't care. So many people get on Reddit and invent new personalities or finally muster up the courage to say what they think becuase they're anonymous. While being a cowtowing pansy IRL. And then they think everyone else is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:41 AM
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The women are using Leonardo. They're not victims. They're snakes. He's aware of that. He's not dumb either. It's so weird that people use celebrities as examples as if they don't live in a world completely unconnected from the one you and I live in. Leonardo is far from a regular person..and so are the hot young women he dates. So, please. 🙄 Yall stay riding the dicks of and trying to immulate celebrities that don't give a fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:20 AM
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You're lying. Like I said, exploitative people hate being called out for it. Even scammers are ashamed when they are caught and revealed as a scammer. You could be a perfectly non toxic person in a relationship with younger person and still admit that you've noticed age gap relationships being toxic. But like I said, I find it so odd how hell bent yall are to pretend like you've NEVER seen it be true. Because you're a whole ass goddamn liar. A whole liar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:47 AM
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In other words....yall continue to prove TRP by lacking basic reading comprehension skills and the ability to parse information logically. Notice how I said "young men and young women". I did not specify women. But the golf ball sized hole in your head apparently isn't letting you realize that. I'm tired of encountering all these dudes that think being male = being logical. Becuase yall constantly prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:43 AM
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The gut instinct is there for a reason. You know how many people end up in fucked up situations due to ignoring their gut? And my reasoning is perfectly logical. We forget that the difference between 17 and 18 is the ability to make legal adult decisions.. Doesn't matter that a 17 and 18 year old are likely cognitively equals. The fact of the matter is, an 18 year old can make adult decisions and through doing so gain all kinds of adult only life experiences that a 17 or 16 year old could just f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:28 AM
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No. Just like we shouldnt take away consent from elderly adults who are vulnerable. It amazes me the lengths people will go to to deny that you can be considered an adult but still be considered vulnerable in some way. People worry about 18-25 year olds naivete being taken advantage of just like they worry about their 85 year old grandparents loneliness being exploited. You can be an adult and also in need of some protection. And no amount of justification will make me ignore my gut instinct tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:53 AM
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Right. It's a constant being bothered. So it's a wonder why women are all on guard around most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:22 AM
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I didn't say he didn't. But we both know his female content got WAY more views. Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:00 PM
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This is it. A bunch of men tee hee-ing that that he put some woman in her place. And wasting hours of their lives daily to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:03 AM
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Right. They're all grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:01 AM
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We all know damn well they don't. Because looks are the biggest factor for most men. Which is why so many dudes end up with women they "didn't know" were bad people. Even though the signs were there. I laugh at a dude every time his "horrible" ex turns out to be a really good looking woman. Because that tells me he has no standards for character or behavior is you're pretty enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:33 AM
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In public places you should only hit on a woman after you've built up a rapport with her. Maybe you frequent the same laundromat and see each other there regularly. Say hello. Make small talk. Speak and chat every time you see her. And carry on about your day. Until you've moved into more familiar territory where you might ask her to get a coffee. But in my experience most men want to ask a complete stranger out after talking to her one or two times. And are perplexed when she says no. Youre a N…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:07 AM
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No. I'm saying imagine that happening to a man and women doing it. We would see that as rude AF. Yet it happens to women (espcially attractive ones) everyday. Shit, even rich people wearing expensive clothes and driving expensive cars aren't stopped and asked for money. Yet you got me bothering women like it's a human right. Then confused when the woman snaps at them becuzse she's a stranger going about her life and yoit have no idea what she's going through the moment you approach her. But you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:42 AM
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Latin America is one place where it may be worse than America. But I guess it's their culture. But on the face of it, it's weird. Imagine you're sitting in a restaurant eating and I walk up to you and stare at you and ask you for your food. When I'm not poor, nor starving. The scenario makes no sense if applied to anywhere else, but approaching women who are just existing in public is a normalized thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:36 AM
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Men don't approach women out and about running errands and living their lives? 🤔 Nope. They only approach them at night clubs and bars. And nowhere else. Yep. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:21 AM
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I'm saying that isn't this ridiculous? We would all see a woman randomly approaching a man to ask him for money. But men bother women in public constantly becuase he saw her and was sexually attracted to her? How does that make sense? On what planet. In America specifically too. Becuase even Canadians have mentioned they get hit on WAY more the second they step into America. And hitting on random women you don't know in public outside of bars or clubs isn't a thing in a TON of countries. Yet peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:08 AM
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I'm not the one downvoting.. The other person has downvoted all my comments.. Even the one telling them to leave me alone. I'm tired of encouring all these fake boisterous personalities on this subreddit who needs some sort of ego validation, by stomping around making bad points and garbage arguments. Thinking that will get them respect. Then getting upset when no one humors them. And blaming other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:55 AM
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This person has barraged me with like 10+ posts. Back to back. All saying the same badly worded thing. Over and over again. And thinking they sound smart while doing it. I am so sick of all these people in the Manosphere that wake up one day and just out on this weird pueudo-intellectual mask. And the walk around the internet bother other people. I swear I encounter this same, smug, uneven personality only on Manosphere subreddit and comment sections. Everyone thinks they're the next Kevin Samue…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:33 AM
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So you have one measly point to make? That's the sign of a poor debate ability. To keep repeating the same weak point over again. A person runs a red light and almost kills a pedestrian. You: "Well other people don't owe you anything." A person steals from you. You: "Well other people don't owe you anything." Just the same point. Misfiring it at anything that moves. Because you only have one point to make. Because, like I said you're not an intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:27 AM
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I'm not. I never look at reddit usernames. Then suddenly I notice I'm reading that same stupid-sounding posts, multiple times in a row. And then I look, and it's the same person. Stop replying to me. I would block you but it's against the rules. I love arguing with a fool, because at least it's fun. Because at least they're being honest in their behavior. But you're being fake. Clearly fake. And it's painful to read. Its like watching a kid try to act like an adult and be taken seriously. You fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:24 AM
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So why are you going against something you yourself likely consider rude and would dislike if it happened to you? That's then hypocrisy of it. These same men are ones telling men to not harass women. But they be craning their fucking necks to stare at every woman with any body part exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:21 AM
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Stop talking to me. I'd block you. But it's against the rules. You're not even making a good point. You're just trying to pivot the conversation to a place that doesn't make sense. And then thinking you sound smart or clever while doing it I'm telling you that you don't. Here's another comment for you to downvote. Because, as I said, this debate life ain't for you. So stop talking to me. You bore me..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:18 AM
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Thank God I'm not. I've had to suffer through like 4 of your horrible posts. They're all terrible. Has no one told you this? I'm doing you a fucking service by letting you know. You're not good at making good points. You're just saying whatever, and thinking it sounds smart. When it's the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:16 AM
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Yeah. That's probably it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:15 AM
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For the last time: You're not intellectual. Stop acting like you are. You're feigning it. And not doing a good job at it. You're producing poorly thought out, heavily flawed "takes" on complex issues. Not everyone is smart enough or clever enough to be a good orator, or debater. You're just pulling shit out of your ass because you've observed other people doing it.. It's like thinking you can play professional b ball just becuase you made a basket once. It's embarrassing. All of your post respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:14 AM
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Most men have approached a woman, in a public place, without being given eye contact or any indications of interest, in advance. They do it. Regularly. Why are we pretending like it's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:11 AM
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Stop posting. You're exposing how unintelligent you are. It's embarrassing. If you think a vagina can be "washed" it means you have no idea of basic biology or human anatomy. Please do not enter into discussions that you don't possess the proper mental faculty to add value to. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:10 AM
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Culturally we view staring as rude, no? And yet men do it to women constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:08 AM
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I've literally had every "close" relationship with women turn into them asking me for money. Imagine strangers doing it to you. "I'm sorry, I was standing over there and I saw you sitting here. And I thought I'd come over and introduce myself. You look presentable. And look like you have a job. And I was wondering if I could have your number. So one day I could keep in contact with you, and possibly be able to access your bank account in the near future." How fucking stupid is that? But men do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:08 AM
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That's not the point of the post though. The OP is right. Just say that. . Saying nobody owes no one nothing doesn't negate that men are interested in women for their own benefit to the detriment, often times, of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:06 AM
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No. Maintaining a male body is not the same as maintaining a female one. Women go to the doctor multiple times a year. Espcially if she's sexually active. Yall was literally clueless. You live in lalaland.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:05 AM
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How are they? Specifically? A woman can be hit on going about her fucking day. Imagine just minding your business trying to buy groceries and having some entitled dude walking up to you to talk to you because he finds you attractive? How stupid. "Excuse me sir, I really like money. And you look gainfully employed. I was wondering if it was possible to have your phone number so that I may message you later on and feign interest in you so I may, at a later date, be able to get money from you."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:04 AM
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Plenty of people can't/ don't bother reading body language. Plenty. Approaching a woman in public is an entitled behavior. Unless she looks at you and smiles at you or is in a place like a bar where people approach others. Otherwise, you're being disrespectful and entitled. Period. You blend in if you want to be part of the mass. The public doesn't care about what your outfit is like, it's the end result that is judged. By men and women alike. She was wearing a dress. A plain one. Covering on. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:01 AM
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Doesn't matter if they do anything. They didn't ask for it. No woman is asking to be constantly pestered by men because men are sexually attracted to women. That's not women's problem. Thats men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:55 PM
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Ensuring you don't get pregnant takes consistent skill. Maintaining vaginal health takes consistent skill. I remember once a woman said she went on a celibacy streak. And the best part was no BC and no yeast infections or other vaginal disturbances. A woman sleeping with a man is not a 50/50 benefit. It's a benefit to the man more than the woman. Because men risk less, need to manage less, and then aren't that good at sex too boot. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:57 PM
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It's annoying in that, you can say no, but being bothered and regularly forced to decline people is obnoxious. Men view approaching and hitting on women as them, the individual man, doing it. No, it's multiple. On the regular. And when it's not being hit on, it's being stared at, watched. Constsntly in public. I remember once reading a reddit thread by a woman. The weather had warmed up. So she wore a spaghetti strapped dress that went down below the knee. And she said she spent rest of the day …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:54 PM
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You're clearly young. Just based on the way you type formulate your opinion. It's giving lack of real life experience. It's giving under 20 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:39 PM
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Yall stay pseudo intellectual, eh? White supremecy organization membership is at an all time low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:37 PM
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And since when is sex a one way street? The orgasm gap is a thing. Most men aren't that good at sex. A guy has to actually work for his money So? A woman has to work to maintain her body and health. Having sex is a risk to both. Imagine every woman you meeting wanting something from you immediately, without even knowing you. How obnoxious is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:37 PM
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A relationship should be a thing you do IF you find someone good to have one with. Otherwise, singledom should be a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:34 PM
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Successful based on whose standard? Being alone with peace of mind, no stress and a nice quiet life isn't success? Yall kill me thinking being in a relationship is a limus test for life success. If anything having a whole string of relationships should be a sign of low success. You've wasted years of your life on relationships that ultimately failed. But a person who stayed single and problem free is the failure? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:49 PM
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Sir, the fact that you're all if 16 is showing. Please head over to r/teenagers, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:47 PM
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No. It's not. It's a good way to end up alone. But being along is better than potentially being with someone who turns out to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:46 PM
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I don't get why people can't just acknowledge a good point for what it is.. Without the whinging about how you're a victim too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:36 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being picky. But there IS something wrong with being picky about the wrong things. You want your filters to be meaningful, or else you filter out good people for no reason, and don't filter out bad people. You can be as picky as you want. For any reason you want. Good and bad are both subjective and relative. So saying that means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:30 PM
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Gay men are a minority. So, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:28 PM
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You didn't respond to the point made. Like, at all. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:27 PM
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Turn it around: Imagine if every single woman that noticed you, spike to you, or acknowledged you in any way was about to ask you for money. Women asking you for money when you walked down the street. Women asking you for money on the elevator. Women asking you for money at the coffee shop. Women at work asking you for money. Female bank tellers at the bank asking you for money. Women at the park asking you for money when you're just trying to walk your dog. Women stopping you at the grocery sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:26 PM
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No. I'm not suggesting we go back. I'm saying that people have created all these nuanced situations and scenarios with which to be unhappy about. They're only unhappy becuase of these high expectations anyway. People in the past weren't happier. They just had more realistic expectations. And accepted the bad parts of life and enjoyed the good parts. But people these days want 100% good. And I'm saying that shit is delusional. It's not real. I think you can have sex with your partner without bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:17 PM
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Human beings have been controlling natural impulses for mellinum as well. Without doing so, we wouldn't have made it this far. It's so bizarre how obsessed grown men are with fairy tale love stories. All the while telling women they're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:44 PM
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I'm saying is that humans have survived perfectly fine without sexual compatibility, or even attraction or love or desire. Reproduction requires none of those things. And that is nature's ultimate goal. So the emphasis on love and desire, means that the world we live in has spoiled us indeed. If you cannot accept some degree of obligation and duty in marriage, then you really shouldn't be getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:19 PM
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Love marriage is a recent thing. Most marriages happened due to practicality. Why take away women's rights to be independent if most women would have chosen to be attached to a man? Riddle me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:10 PM
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Women have been settling for men they're not attracted to for mellinum. Love or attraction was not considered on the part of the woman. I have no idea why people keep pretending they don't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:00 PM
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There's a lack of self esteem there. They use it for ego validation. I've not seen many who do it "just" for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:59 PM
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Let shitty toxic people have each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:17 PM
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Even still. They claim to be confident and independent. You can't claim those thing but them ask for support in your independent choice making behaviors. Sleep with whomever you want. Or dont. Without seeking anyone's approval for it either way. And without choosing to be affect by people's judgement either way. Only then will you have achieved true independence and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:45 AM
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That's my point. Why is it so important that that woman sleep around? Why do they care? It's here life. Shouldn't they support her right to choose either way? Woman always say women should support women. But that's only when the woman is doing what you approve of..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:37 PM
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Nah. The human hive mind. Which is why most men are also followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:08 AM
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I would say alot of women are followers. And even more need to have the support of other women. So this leads naturally promiscuous women to encouraging others to do what they're doing so they aren't alone in doing it. And the more women who do it, the more who join as to not be considered an outsider with respect to sleeping around. And then pride makes so no one admits that they regretted it and wish they hadn't done it. So they double down on it. IMO you're not comfortable with sleeping aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:39 AM
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Wow, one man sleeping with a dozen women == sleeping with most women. 🤔 No matter how you slice it, tiger slept with a small number of hot chicks. Let it go. By virtue of being one person, he couldn't have slept with that many.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:18 PM
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Yall are weird. Professional athletes sleep with a small number of really attractive women. So do other famous / men with status. They're not choosing 95% of women. Which means other men still can pick from the women no interested in athletes and ones who'd never be picked by one. So why sit around crying about the handful of chicks that are exceptionally pretty enough to sleep with the most desired dudes? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:02 PM
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I read a post on a relationship subreddit a few months ago. Dude had been on multiple dates with a woman. She was giving him every indication that she liked him. She responded to text messages. She agreed to and showed up to dates. Took an interest in him. Laughed at his jokes. Very light touching etc. 🤣🤣🤣 But she wouldn't let him pay. It had been like 5 or 6 dates. And at this point, dude is distressed becuase he didn't "know if she liked him". 🙄🙄🙄 Which translates to "I didn't pay for anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:52 AM
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Men complain about paying for dates. But then if you keep turning down their offer to pay and insist of paying 50/50 their self esteem starts to take a hit and they think you don't like them. 🤣🤣 Also, they can't use paying as a way to covert contract you into sleeping with them sooner. No one comes out and says it like that. But that is what it is. Which is why I believe you never let a man pick you up, never let him pay, etc before you're in an agreed upon exclusive relationship. Leave his ass …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:42 AM
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Nah. This is a character issue. This woman's character is garbage. Marriage didn't ruin his life. Marrying a low character clown did..Plenty of people divorce amicably. If your spouse does trifling shit. It's because they're trifling and you picked wrong. It's not marriages or society's fault. So many people avoid accountability for choosing wrong. It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:31 PM
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Other cultures acknowledge that there needs to be bit of push and pull and tension in a relationship to keep sex interesting. Not enough to be toxic. But just enough to keep the sex coming. Mild jealousy is an aphrodisiac for men and women. And nothing is more boring than the same routine, monotonous sex and relationship. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:02 AM
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Right. Why that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:17 AM
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Most men are not insecure though, just fed up and decidedly turned off. Most people are insecure. Which is why they are followers. Men are included in that. Which is why many struggle to stand up for themselves. Yall are always just talking whatever shit you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:22 AM
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Most of the men in these comments would call assertiveness being a bitch I agree. And I'm saying they're wrong. But referring to an assertive woman as a bitch is just payback for her making them feel intimidated. Everyday they complain about career women's personalities. Right. There's a video online of a man trying to explain to a woman something that she is a specialist in. And he keeps cutting her off. And so finally someone in the audience is just like "Shut up and let her explain it". A lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:26 AM
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That's not being a bitch though. That's called assertiveness. Only insecure people call assertiveness bitchiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:47 AM
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Even if it is for you, it's not for a lot of men. You know that. I don't know why people feign ignorance so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:27 PM
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Men being intimidated by success is a thing. It is a thing. Do I think a lot these women just happen to be bitches? Sure. But are men intimidated my men and women more successful than them, of course many are. They're human. Feeling inadequate is human. Plenty of men are intimidated by women that best them in things they feel like a woman shouldn't be good at. And they find themselves embarrassed when you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:29 PM
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If you never say anything to the person about what it is that you want or expect from them, that's on you. If you do tell them and they lie to you, that's on them. If I go out on several dates with a woman and want to become exclusive with her but never say anything, I can't be upset if i'm finding out she's dating other men as well. That's taking responsibility for not speaking up in the first place. Yes. But people date because they want something. Be it sex, relationship, company, gifts, atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:03 AM
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Yes, if you lie about your intentions just to get into someones pants that does make you a bad person. If you lie by omission you're a bad person. Alot of people play the "well you never said anything so I never said anything" game. When they knew full and well they weren't interested in anything but sex. But knew if they said that the woman is most likely to not sleep with them. And I'm saying thats a low integrity behavior. There are men who are upfront about the fact that they only want somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:21 AM
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Question: Do you think men's obsession with sex and women's obsession with attention is inherent to our nature or created because of societal influence? Inherent. But because we possess higher cognitive abilities we can choose to not listen to are base instincts. We're not monkeys after all. Alot of social influences in society sought to curb these habits for the longest time. Now social media allows them to completely be unrestrained. I think in your post you're putting a lot of it on men. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:44 PM
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And I'm saying that behavior is a big ass part of the problem. Not to mention non productive and a waste of their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:25 AM
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An alcoholic usually has a drink of choice. Sure. But they will drink whatever is avaliable in a pinch. They are picky when the shit they like and want isn't avaliable. Women would wilt without the supplementary attention of that 80% of men. Wilt and fucking die. They don't want to fuck them. Oh no. But they cannot go with their attention. Being in a position to be unattracted to dudes is also power. Which is why I have no idea why legitimately unattractive dudes pay attention to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:01 AM
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Figures. People don't want to accept that they are part of the problem too. It's not one person though. It's millions. Which is why dating is in the state that it is. Which is why I'd never consider dating anyone who participates in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:25 AM
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I don't know or see how that's encouraging women to behave promiscuously to get men's attention and time. Because even men who aren't seen as attractive, and men who don't technically don't get sex will flood women with similar amounts of attention as men who get it. Imagine if 80% of men didn't give out attention. Only the so-called "hot" 20% did. Do you honestly think dating would be as hard as it is? It would be an attention desert. Because there simply wouldn't be attention enough to go arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:23 AM
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TL;DR: Even if you're a guy and it doesn't affect you to be promiscuous, you're still shooting your future self in the foot by being promiscuous because you are making it impossible for anyone (including yourself) to find a non-promiscuous woman. When she can't pair-bond with you because she had 10 previous lovers, your body count of 7 or 70 is just as much to blame. Exactly. By spending your time or attention on sexually promiscuous women, you're just encouraging more women to behave promoscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:59 AM
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Feel however you want. You're entitled to your feelings. You're not obligated to take on one of these women with baggage. So then, what's the problem? To imply that women are worthless as they age because you can't find one to pick you before Chad, is a you problem. Not a women problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:16 PM
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I think one way that accurately describes the wall is when she's no longer worth providing for and protecting. "The wall is when she's no longer considered human." I hope you get neglected and die of a bed sore infection in a nursing home your ungrateful kids dump you in n after pillaging your meager estate. Imagine thinking that society just throws women away after they aren't beautiful and young anymore. Newsflash, it's more men who aren't looked after, clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:17 AM
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You shouldn't following them. Or liking. Commenting. Sharing. DMing. Or Sending money. I see no problem with occasional use for a few minutes a day to masterbate. Otherwise, you're wasting your life on that shit. And that makes you a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:57 AM
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You didn't stop reading. You read at least the first paragraph. The post applied to you. Your weak ego couldn't take that. So you stopped reading. That's how that works. You commenting is you telling on yourself, stupid. Most people lack the ability to criticize themselves. It's cowardice. You can do whatever you want. I don't care. But don't try to downplay the shitty aspects of doing it. If you want to steal. Go ahead. So long as you accept that it makes you a garbage human being. But even thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:57 PM
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Both are equally stupid. Imagine being a grown ass man unable to control his sexuality and logging on to the internet to social media sites to to give out free attention and validation through follows, likes and comment to women who would never fuck you, and are just using you to feel better than you. What a loser you are. To live in an age where you have so many outlets for entertainment, learning and self improvement. And you dedicate your time to looking at women. Only 100% of women have vagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:30 PM
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Most people arent good debaters. They're too emotional. Too illogical. And their egos are on the line. I regularly argue with these clowns. And I regular have dudes go back and delete their entire comment thread and the post because their punk ass lost the plot. And rather than concede or run the risk of someone seeing them lose, they delete their comments completely. Like it never happened. That's happened to me at least 10 separate times in the last couple months. Just yesterday a dude deleted…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:05 PM
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You'd have to be rich first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:13 AM
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Have you gone yet? Why are you still here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:12 AM
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Chinese women are notorious for their fucking entitlement. 🤣🤣🤣 Make sense please. They will put up with their husband fucking other women as long as he runs her his salary every month. And pays all the bills. Because they're a wife. Not a GF. They no longer have to fuck you. Which they are grateful for. All they cared about is the money and rights that marriage afford them. Yall are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:10 AM
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Good. Have a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:07 AM
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No. But yall act like men not valuing men is something women should compensate for. 4
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:06 AM
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This is the dumbest shit I've read in a long time. And this subreddit is idiotic on the regular. 🤨 You're equating men not being able to say "Hey I'd like to have sex with you" with "I'm going to hold you down and forcibly have sex with you". You're lucky this subreddit has rules. Or I'd light your ass all the way up. I love controversial. Give me sexist. Give me racist. Give me misadrist. As long as you can reason that it's true to some end. But this is just garbage. And for that, I spit on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:58 AM
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Have you gone overseas? If not, why not? Becuase I've been overseas continually for over a decade. And the grass is the exact same fucking color here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:52 AM
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Right. And since people are influencable, odds are, the woman will absorb American culture. People aren't inherently good because they were raised in a certain country. You have to be given the choice to do the wrong thing and still choose to do the right thing in order to be a good person. Plenty of those women haven't ascended to the place to feel entitled to be an asshole of the highest order. Yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:38 AM
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A few women care. Most don't. Most of yall are all talk anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:35 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 Nah. This is clever AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:15 AM
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Gooooooooo. Please. Stop threatening to go to Asia. Just go. No one will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:11 AM
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In the Manosphere, it will be all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:23 AM
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Its more than enough shitting on women's looks. More than there are of women shitting on men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:16 PM
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You're complaining about posts attacking men. When it's like one post about men for every 75 shititng on women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:58 PM
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Lol, that’s a non-answer. What is the risk of sex in 2022 for anyone? For women? The same as its always been: Rape, STD, damage to sexual organs, pregnancy, pregnancy related high blood pressure, gestational diabetes, blood clots, depression, all of which still do result in death in 2022. Abortion. And complications that come from it. Like pain or fertility problems in the future. Uterine dysplasia. Cervical cancer brought on by STD. Or are you so stupid that you don't know these things? And wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:57 AM
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Yall just be saying whatever. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:44 AM
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It shouldn't be. We live in the 21st century. You can literally fill your life up with all kinds of activities. Imagine wasting it in a silly ass woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:18 AM
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The keyword is choice, though. One dude acted like he was obligated to date them. Ain't none of them willing to stay single. Or be without sex while they keep looking. Which is why I respect men who don't slum it with shitty women. And would rather stay single than keep a shitty woman around to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:07 AM
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Not really. New Yorkers suffer from decision paralysis. Too many people. Too fast paced life. No one feels the need to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:51 AM
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Say that then. But know that it was your choice. They try to act like it's not their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:49 AM
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I’m aware, I’m not saying that’s hypocritical I'm saying, they're not. I'm not going to handle a knife the same way I handle a balloon. 😏 One could cause harm. The other could not. I know cishet women face far more risks in casual hookups than cishet men. This cannot be equated with hypocrisy. I just wish we were more honest and stopped lying to nice guys that are unsuccessful. I don't think they think they're lying though. Alot of men and women prefer the delusion. The Manosphere always talks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:27 AM
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The dude in the top left and bottom left are the same person. Sans 80 pounds of body fat..😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:15 AM
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Men don’t gatekeep relationships like women gatekeep sex. It's almost as if the risks of sex and the risk of relationships are not the same. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:09 AM
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If your end goal is marriage, you shouldn't be sleeping around. The easiest way to get destroyed is by impregnating a hookup or getting an permanent STD. Also, a woman who doesn't sleep around aren't picking men who do. There's a limit on the number of decent women who aren't promiscuous who aren't attention whores and who aren't party girls or women who aren't followers that need to be doing every generic thing that's popular. And those women get picked and settle down quick. There's slim picki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:58 AM
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No one here agrees that your right or remotely thinks you are right. You can spend as much time and energy as you like writing comments, but the walls of evidence and the objective reality that pushes you back is far too strong. You should tell that to all the people who upvoted the comment, clown. Western men are seen as more valuable and more attractive in the vast overreaching majority of 2nd world countries. No. They're not. Unless you have a good job in a respectable field and you are at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:58 AM
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No one here agrees that your right or remotely thinks you are right. You can spend as much time and energy as you like writing comments, but the walls of evidence and the objective reality that pushes you back is far too strong. You should tell that to all the people who upvoted the comment, clown. Western men are seen as more valuable and more attractive in the vast overreaching majority of 2nd world countries. No. They're not. Unless you have a good job in a respectable field and you are at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:57 AM
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No. It's not. Most people are followers. That's human nature. Look at most men. They adapt to whatever version masculinity the overarching society demands. You can't be forced to be a weak, cooperative, effeminate nice guy..you can choose to hold on to and exercise regular masculinity. Men with "natural" game are like this. They resist social influence easily and get women while the rest of yall get used and friend zoned. Becuase most men are weak minded followers. And in an absence of example o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:40 AM
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"Are you saying I should stop going after them? Stop paying attention to them? Stop dating them? Then what? Are you suggesting I keep disqualifying until I meet a woman that's not like this? And the date her? Are you crazy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:31 AM
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Right. Because then it's not their fault they keep choosing them. It's like all the women who exclusively date toxic assholes (who secretly like the drama of it all) complaining that's all that exists in men. It's about avoiding accountability Just admit you like fucking toxic idiots. I think that for men, they have a hard time admitting that as long as a woman is good looking enough, and they can get regular sex, they are willing to put up with anything. They love feigning having standards. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:10 AM
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I didn't say they don't exist. I know they exist. Alot of them exist. I'm saying don't pick them. You literally have the option to walk away the second a woman proves that her mentality is trash. But many men don't. I've literally had this conversation with men before. And they will complain about their girlfriend having the dumbest mentality, but they won't stop dating her goofy asss. Make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:08 AM
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Haven't women been telling me to go fuck other men? Like for the longest time. Go fuck other men. Be happy. Leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:55 AM
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Thus an acknowledgement that men value women more than they value other men. Take that bitter truth up with men. I doubt 8,000 years ago most of those women had rights or freedom. Their ability to be constrained so that they could be used for reproduction was a system completely created by other males. Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:53 AM
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And you're an idiot if you pick a woman so stupid and such a follower that she needs other women to be doing it for them to also want to do it. That shows a weak mind and malleable mentality. No thanks. I wouldn't be friends with women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:49 AM
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If you don't wipe and regularly check the color of the toilet paper to make sure your shit is normal color, and you've properly cleaned yourself, I pity you. This isn't something only women do. Women check the smell of their vagina and other bodily functions regularly. And if men aren't doing the same, ya nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:39 AM
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Yep. Living in and traveling Asia for the last decade and speaking an Asian language fluently are all made up experiences. Copy pasta. The OP deleted his name from this thread because the idiot realized I was right. How can you tell me some shit I've heard from the horses mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:35 AM
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Yep. Living in and traveling Asia for the last decade and speaking an Asian language fluently are all made up experiences. Copy pasta. The OP deleted his name from this thread because the idiot realized I was right. How can you tell me some shit I've heard from the horses mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:35 AM
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I think most who are worth a damn are just getting thier passports in 2023....but don't worry enjoy your pookies & simps. Why? Yall preparing to be international simps? 🤔🤔 You do realize foreign women are aware why you come there, right? 🤔 And they're prepared to make sure the "arrangement" is mutually beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:30 AM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:28 AM
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Men aren't off the hook for looking at it either. The demand must exist. It's not 100% a junkies fault they keep going back to drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:14 AM
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Imagine being such a slave to your baser instincts that you'd move to a big city just to sleep around. Men who sleep around are validation addicts. You need random women to validate your self worth by having sex with you. I have no idea why that isn't considered embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:49 AM
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Promiscuous women have no problem getting men. And men are only appalled to be caught dating a slut becuase they fear social judgement or ridicule. If no one would be able to find out your GF used to be a whore, most men would date them with no problem. Its the meeting of men who used to fuck her that bothers men the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:13 AM
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"Yall should should just move to NYC. Which happens to be a city with outrageous renting rules and housing costs. All for pussy. Yall should be like me." Make sense please, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:23 PM
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Absolutely false. I have tons of couples social medias that live in Taiwan, Korea, Thailand, that do exactly that. You know nothing about Asian countries. The keyword is COUPLE. Skin touching is considered intimate in Asian countries. So in the West you might tap a person's shoulder to get their attention. It wouldn't be considered a big deal. In Asia, it's simply not done. And if you do it for that reason it's considered inappropriate. Women only allow themselves to be touched, in any manner, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:40 PM
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And if the first image was posted today, not one person would like it. But the second one would have 128,000 likes. All by men. It's a wonder why women post sexually suggestive images at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:22 PM
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Yall are living in a fucking DESLUSION. No, this is not how Asian women are..not even close. Every single Asian country is founded on conservative values. Even to this day. Most women are modest compared to Western standards. In dress and in behavior. Behind closed doors they are the same as any other woman. But publicly would never walk around in skimpy clothing talking to men they don't know. That behavior is the exact opposite of any Asian culture. Yall would know that if you actually ever li…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:05 PM
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No. It wasn't their real face. It wasn't their enlarged pores. Or their bags under their eyes. Or their plain skin, dull skin. I remember them to be high contrast and over exposed. At least 2 were fucking Polaroid camera photos. Give me some of that high resolution iPhone shot in broad day light. The fact that some had to dig through tons of pictures to pull out the most non-natural one always tells you about how they view themselves. And how much they need to get validation for how they look. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:44 PM
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An attractive person can't help that they won the genetic lottery. But we can all choose to treat them like an average looking person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:57 AM
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It's only easy mode becuase so many people choose to treat good looking people better and ugly people worse. Humans could literally change this reality. The person on the right is still a person. And should be treated with respect and decency. The person on the left is a person. And should be treated with respect and decency. And not "better" because of how she looks. But so many of yall refuse to do that. And That's on you. Stop blaming your nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:55 AM
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🙄🙄🙄 I have no idea why yall write these fairytales. And I say fairytale because I'm not trusting you to give a completely accurate assessment of how easy taking is, how you actually look, and the mental and physical state of the women you slept with. Nah. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:28 AM
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But natural light is how you look IRL. So if you know you were being judge on how you look (which they were) and you were comfortable with how you looked, you'd take a simple natural light photo. No flashes, no shadows, no filters. No nothing. Most women have thousands of pictures of themselves in their phones. They had a choice to choose the one that represented them as they were (and I remember one girl did) or choose one that looks better but doesn't look exactly like how they look IRL. I'd a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:57 AM
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I remember most of the pictures of the women being over exposed on otherwise out of focus. Most werent taken in natural light. But the nearly all the men's photos were natural light. I just thought it was funny how many women couldn't confidently show themselves as they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:10 AM
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While I do believe that there are times where people can pretend to be better than they are, that pretending doesn't last. And the moment they show themselves to be horrible person the responsibility to get rid of them falls on to you. Male or female. Too many people get into relationships with toxic people. And then stay. For years. I'd disqualify a man if he had a long term ex that was a volitile, toxic, emotionally explosive, catty, passive aggressive etc type of person. Becuase having dated …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:52 PM
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I'm not. That's how socialization worked pre industrialization and pre 20th century. What are you talking about. How can a community of a few hundred people living miles and miles apart from each other, on farms, working class, with one general store and one post office, with a limit on the amount of males and females being born, living in one or two room hand built homes have people carrying on affairs with each other? Only the rich and upper class and ruling did that shit. And they were a tiny…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:59 AM
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No. They wouldn't have existed in small towns. Becuase in tiny farming communities, everyone knows everyone. And everyone knows everyone's business. You could get away with a certain degree of anonymity in bigger cities. But in small towns, your integrity was everything. People relied on it. So scandal ruined you and your family. No one was an island. You relied heavily on community acceptance. So if a single woman was fucking another woman's husband, she's be socially exiled. No women would dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:24 AM
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Having a Nuclear family with a romantic loving sexually pleasing wife is a modern invention. Yeah. This is something a bunch of men in the Manosphere are delusional about. Throughout the entirety of history you will be hard pressed to find a truly worthy male role model that doesn’t have some type of mistress arrangement. MLK, every president, fucking Ghandi literally every man worth his weight in salt has a wife that he loves familial (blue pill) and a mistress(es) where he gets his passion (re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:11 AM
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"Anti intelletual".🤣🤣 Believing RP is anti intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:31 AM
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Be a better writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:01 AM
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You have weak boundaries. So people subconsciously feel like they can disrespect you. Call them out. Calmly. On the spot. It will embarrass them and put them on the back foot. And they will stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:17 PM
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It is potentially unethical. Not inherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:11 AM
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Right. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:39 AM
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If it's fake, that's doubly bad. To concoct this scenario to fake-prove your point that women should have kids and settle down earlier is truly an indication of how mentally ill some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:35 AM
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But being fit will still be better than skinny fat or fat. Of course, men can't just have body. But men allowing body to be like 90% of the deciding factor for how they choose is men's fault. I don't think women should relax their standards. I think men should raise theirs. And actually enforce them. But most don't so. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:28 AM
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There's being fit. Being skinny fat. And being fat. Most "slim" people are skinny fat. Which is why we use the words "slim" instead of "fit/muscular" to describe them. I'd argue noticably fit men would attract fit or slim women. More than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:24 AM
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The simple answer is: Most people are selfish. They also lack basic integrity. They want what benefits them. They don't give two fucks if it screws someone else over. And this applies to men and women. But in the case of men, this is why I refuse to date men who are / have been / desire to be promiscuous. And the reason for that is because it's not possible to engage in these actions without taking advantage of other people in some way. And using them horribly. Everyone acts like casual sex cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:33 PM
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This folks, is what a lack of integrity looks like. Ain't it grand?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:25 PM
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That's right. Tell the moderators. You're a grown man. Talking shit online. And you're upset now that your horrendously reasoned logic has been destroyed. Make sure you also report yourself for making a veiled threat as well. That's why I made sure to quote your final paragraph so that you couldn't delete the comment. Your little comment that if men "acted according to their biology" you "wonder what the world would look like" but youre "not going to say it for risk of being banned" is implying …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:21 PM
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I'm sorry if me pointing out that you do have a freedom to discriminate us in every way imaginable is offending you. Why would that offend me? 🤔 It's like asking a tall person if they're offended at being tall. Being offended and biological reality cannot be conflated. This is the problem. Too many of you clowns sit around listening to the psycho babble that is the manosphere. And then you get it in your head that you too, can have hot takes. And you can't. You're not creative enough of a thinke…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:00 PM
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At the same time when it comes to the means of reproduction men are entirely at the mercy of women. 🤔 And women don't really care about giving men equal rights or opportunities. You spelled "nature and basic biological reality" wrong. Women can do nothing to offset the reality that men have wombs. This is akin to women asking men to offset the reality that women have to incubate babies for 9 months. No one sane is suggesting that, but also fuck you guys. And there is no way to achieve freedom AN…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:15 PM
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No. Never. I dislike men who can't control their sexuality. And who worship women for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:53 AM
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That's right. Insult. Don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:53 AM
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Right. OP is dragging it. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:34 AM
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I'm talking about most men. Why, oh why, do people in the internet act like real life doesn't exist and this behavior cannot be observed, first person, in any environment? Yall are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:57 AM
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You're right. How dare I interpret implied meaning that was not explicitly stated. Because only explicitly stated things can be understood. Redditors never miss a chance go pull out "strawman" and "fallacy" any chance they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:25 AM
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i literally never simp for women or give them attention, 🤔 to the point where its a social disadvantage. You had me in the first half. Not gonna lie. But in the end, you proved my point. If a woman is not your mother, sister, aunt, cousin, girlfriend, wife etc. Why give her any attention at all? Outside of normal human interaction? Have you ever noticed how fictional male characters that are hailed as "traditionally masculine" by the Manosphere are only perceived that way because they are never …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:22 AM
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Your logic doesn't logic. Women would settle down if they had no choice but to settle down. If getting male attention was harder, they would pick on settle. But it's not. Men (you included, more than likely) have made it so women don't have to do shit and they can get sex, attention, praise, money just for existing. That's yalls fault. Because I currently live in a country where men don't sweat women like they do in the US. Sliding into DMs isn't a thing. Giving random women money isn't popular.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:44 AM
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Most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:40 AM
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Why do you refuse to let them cry about it? 🤔 Are you, perhaps worried, that those same women who cry about it won't want to fuck you? Because yall realize that not every women is like that, right? Even if enough women are, all aren't. It's crazy to me how people don't see shitty mentalities as immediate disqualifying factors for mates. The sillier the woman, the more options she has, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:39 AM
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Because men refuse to judge them. I judge them just the same. But I also don't want to fuck them. So, that's probably why. Yall want to have "standards". But you aren't willing to stand by them. You're not willing to die on that hill. And then you complain about the types of women men are willing to put up with. And thats your fault. Not women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:46 PM
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I did. And my point still stands. It's equally as shitty when women take advantage of or exploit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:22 PM
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"Why are men who lack integrity judged as bad people?" 🤔 It's a fucking wonder. Truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:54 PM
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Plenty of men refuse to settle down as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:21 PM
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Ah. Good old misogyny. It's funny becuase it's often rooted in ignorance. There were just as many rules for men. Men had to have honor. Had to have integrity. If they fucked around with a woman and didn't marry her, they were looked down on. And shamed into marriage. Unmarried men were viewed as immature and irresponsible. And men without children seen as impotent. Make sense please. Men historically put alot of rules on men as well. But yall love trying to ignore history to fit your feelings. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:51 AM
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But then long term single people are shamed. For what? IMO it's more embarrassing to be casually dating FOR YEARS. Shit, you could have picked up literally any hobby passively and become an expert in it in the time people spend dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:59 AM
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People need rules. Left to their own devices, modern dating is what you get. Most people don't know how to choose. They don't know how to not waste time. They don't know how to pick. Or how to disqualify. They have no idea. Society used to have blueprints. Come from a good family. Men needed a job. Women needed to know how to keep a house. And no sex before marriage. And not dating without marriage in mind. And once married, have kids and raise your fucking kids. And from this, the world became …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:56 AM
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They should. People waste too much time on dating. Historically we've never wasted this much energy on it. Spending years dating trying to figure out a mate.. It's not normal. Not natural. Either pick one and settle down. Or stay single AF until you find one and then settle down. I will never understand people who've had back to back relationships for DECADES. And have been on dozens of dates. Just rapid firing. It's exhausting to think about it..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:27 AM
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Not possible. Yall forget that gender roles and social / sexual constraint was originally created by men and enforced by men. Because most men realize without it, they wouldn't get picked. Most men aren't fuckboys becuase they don't have it in them to be. Which isn't a bad thing. Becuase fuckboys are just dudes with low self esteem who use sex as a form a validation. I can't stand men who need validation for any and every woman. They're losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:36 AM
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Yep. Older fuck boys are treated as losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:19 PM
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Point 3: Men being fuckboys is good for men because it allows us to gain sexual experience. We can pump and dump a few easy women or have "practice girlfriends". We can learn what works and what doesn't work via raw experience. And this is beneficial to us because women don't want inexperienced men anyways. Point 4: By getting access to sex prior to commitment, men get a better deal. Men can be picky on things like n count, while still getting sex, if they want to be. We can just move on to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:18 PM
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Why, oh, why, won't yall just stop with online dating? All yall do is bitch about it. But yall will not stop using it. Even though it's been proven over and over again to work against your favor. Why would you submit yourself to psychological torture? The reason women have all this power is because men give it to them. If yall opt out of all of this behavior of giving excess attention to women, they would stop acting how they behave. But the male collective refuses to act with self respect. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:33 PM
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Why do yall keep recommending online dating? It's literally asinine. I have never used it. I wouldn't recommend anyone use it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:21 AM
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I feel like if someone had these qualities and then expected a person they would consider investing time into to also have these qualities would quickly find out that the number of matches would be tiny. See, this is the problem: You're not willing to stand by your so-called "standards" or stay single. People make these lists. But don't have the guts to post them, becuase the reality is that they are willing to backtrack multiple standard if this list doesn't turn out any results. They're not wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:07 AM
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This is human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:10 PM
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Or..and here me out...you could just talk to the woman like she's a human being. Without all this elaborate, and obviously pre-strategized, bullshit. Yall actually think women can't pick up when you're doing all of this? It's off putting in that you're sitting there waiting for the other shoe to drop. You're waiting for all of this clearly-feigned interest in having a real conversation with you to lead you down the obvious path of the man asking you out. It's exhausting, honestly. And women can …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:43 PM
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Online dating is stupid. Period. You're a clown if you participate in it. I never once have. In my whole life. And pretending to be a guy IRL isn't feasible. We both know that. I can only guess based off of decades of social interaction with men and women. If I were a man, I would likely be good with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:17 AM
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Game is being able to read people, read the room, and adjust and interact accordingly. The ability to have fun and talk to people. And be likeable. And intriguing. While also being someone who doesn't smell of desperation. And being a person who clearly has boundaries and standards. The ability to be attractive, socially, physically etc. The ability to be memorable. It's all of those things. It's not just one set thing. It's a bit of this, and a bit of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:07 AM
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As expected, you hamstered out of actually having to display any skill or actual knowledge on the matter How would you have me do it? Explain, in detail? How does one act out a fake social interaction on the internet? Make what you're asking make sense. If it's logical then you can surely demonstrate it, no? Otherwise, you're talking out of your ass. “I’d get like… all the hoes. Somehow.. just trust me bro 🥴” - that’s you. "My lack of skill with women sent me screaming to the internet to find so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:51 AM
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I agree most women think they have game. And they're delusional. But I'm being serious. I'd be good with women if I were a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:43 AM
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I'm on these threads because they're amusing, providing more evidence how ridiculous and limited women's view of the mating game is These threads are majority men.....sooooooo. there are a very limited number of women in the Manosphere. It's mostly dudes having a bitchfest about women. Just like a bunch of women.....soooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:38 AM
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I didn't ask you to prove anything. I'm just asking you to explain why you're in the Manopshere if you do well with women? You're literally telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:27 AM
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If you had game, you wouldn't be in the Manosphere. 🤣🤣 Be congruent, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:07 AM
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"Act out a pretend social interaction, via the internet for us to judge". Thats you. Make sense, please. How stupid would that be? Edit: And let's be clear, if I were man, I wouldn't debase myself by sleeping with anything that moved. I said I had game. Not lack of standards or integrity. Yall are wild. I see why yall are all hard pressed to do well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:05 AM
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Nah. I have natural game. I'd definitely get women if I were a man. Most of yall just ain't got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:22 AM
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You really can't be fucked over without your permission. If relationship reddit show you anything, it's that people willfully ignore red flags. Then when they get screwed over, they grasp at straws trying to blame someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:12 AM
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Fat is also considered offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:38 AM
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It's not even an insult. It's stating fact. Why would calling your excess of fat, an excess of fat be upsetting? 🤔 And why isn't getting upset a reason to lose it? 🤔 They will legit retaliate by claiming to live their bodies even more. While refusing to call themselves obese. Confidence where?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:44 AM
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Call them what they are: overweight / obese. It amazes me how everyone has been brow beat into referring to people categorized as overweight / obese as every euphemism in the book but those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:49 AM
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That's how you know the driving force behind their thought process is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:54 PM
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Imagine if White Americans said the same thing. Human beings have been fucking up for thousands of years. Just because something took place, doesn't make it natural. Or right. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:31 PM
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What separates a relatively content involuntarily single man from a frustrated involuntarily single man? Sense of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:29 PM
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Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women. Or individual men could just not care. 🤔 From what I've observed over the years there is a massive gulf between how comfortable young Men and Women are with the prospect of being single. While I am generalizing a bit here, the overall trend appears to be that young Women are far more personally comfortable with single status than their male piers of a similar age. While there are certainly a lot of material and social…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:47 PM
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Why do yall polarize everything? Ability to date = ability to attract partners. Period. All that other shit is just shit. An ugly woman's degree and shining personality will never get her the same regard sexually as an attractive woman who is an asshole. Ever. That's just the way it is. This is what humans are. People suck. Nothing we can do about that. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:39 AM
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Its taking advantage of another person, period. People who say shit like "let's have sex to see if we're compatible" are the same people refuse to lay out their credit report and debt history and spending habits. Are the same people who refuse to move in together. They only push for sexual compatibility quickly. Never financial. Never lifestyle compatibility. Those two things should come with time. Just not sex. Though you're risking STD, pregnancy etc. By having it. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:45 AM
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Medication can cause fatigue and a reduction of energy. Still doesn't cause excess calories to appear out of nowhere. Try working out when you’re exhausted after sleeping 9 hours every day. Then you eat less. Because you need less. Because you burn less. you’re used to a diet that you typically can burn off your body will still crave the caloric intake but with the exhaustion you physically can’t create that deficit you used to. Yes. But you can still choose to reduce calories. It's not out of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:59 AM
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Medication, unless calorie dense, does not cause weight gain. Neither do genetics. Only an excess of calories in regards your maximum needs leads to weight gain. Period. That's a non negotiable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:02 AM
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One could argue that weight is a hygiene issue. Because it is. It's the same as not showering or brushing or wiping your ass. All to test someone. Obesity is physically unkempt behavior. Outside of illness or medical treatment, you have no reason to get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:21 AM
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This is akin to testing someone by developing a drinking or drug habit and then berating them for walking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:05 AM
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I disagree. As long as a woman is slim, in shape and takes care if her appearance and has a nice personality men will never lose interest. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:31 PM
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The men who date them are birds of a feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:55 AM
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Yeah. No one talks about all the perpetually bored people who use dating and relationships as a fuel to burn never ending fires. I roll my eyes when I see someone hell bent on staying in a toxic relationship from the beginning all so they can go around telling everyone who will listen how hard they've struggled for their relationship to be successful. When in reality they would leave if the toxicity and drama ever stopped because it's what they feed off of. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:34 AM
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The producers literally set this scenarios up. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:18 AM
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Right. Surely people who know you're married saw you on there. Weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:55 AM
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You and your wife are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:52 AM
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yet these same men aren't that attractive enough to command options themselves. All he has to do is act like an alpha male and maintain frame and his attractiveness level isn't important. Duh. That's RP 101. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:37 AM
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I just find it deeply patronizing when people suggest that women would be better off if they stopped trying to be so "masculine" and embraced their role. I'd be better off if people stopped trying to tell me what's best for me while knowing nothing about me. Right. If it's so "natural" why did men have to make a consorted effort for 12,000 years to oppress women, take away their ability to work, earn money or handle property? 🤔 Wouldn't women just naturally say "nah, we don't want to do those th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:24 AM
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push for things that benefit themselves personally You mean like men expecting sex by the third date? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:08 AM
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Why do people try to create new terms for shit that already have terms? You mean, a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:05 AM
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Why are you worried a out something you're not owed? Again, the only reason worry factors in is because the sense of entitlement is present. All you have to do is select for integrity, and then you can be certain a person isn't taking advantage you. But to suss out a person's character takes months. You have to....you know...get to know them over time and many situations. But no one wants to do that. Yall want to expedite the process as much as possible (by yall, I mean men and women) so you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:56 AM
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I'm not mad. You're the one who has to live with yourself. Imagine sleeping with someone and ghosting them like a coward because you're name man enough to stick to your so-called "standards" and say "hey, I'm not into women who offer sex on the first date. It's not my standard. So I'm going to head out." For all the shit dudes in the Manosphere talk, literally none of yall have self control enough to actually abide by any of your beliefs and be congruent. "Standards for thee, but not for me". Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:28 AM
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Yall are weird. Why is everyone always sitting around worried that they are being used when literally no one owes you anything? I couldn't imagine being worried that a man was "making me wait" for a relationship. If he isn't on the same timeline as me, fine. Nor harm done. Just quietly move on. But yall are all anxiety about it. It's unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:23 AM
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I usually would ghost girls that gave it up on the 1st date. Your lack of self introspection is showing. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:20 AM
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Who is giving answers to questions no one asked? If you want something in particular, then it is up to you to say it not the other person Yes. That's basic common sense. Is this up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:59 AM
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🤦‍♀️ It's like the RP attracted people who lack the ability to understand logic. If another person lies, they're a bad person. That's on them. But just because another people lies, does not mean you should become a liar as well. If you do, it's a choice you've made. Period. The responsibility falls on you. Stop trying to blame others for you choosing to be a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:09 AM
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Do you think not disclosing information of your own volition means someone doesn't have integrity? Yes. A lot of guys care about n-count. If a woman doesn't volunteer her n-count to guys she's seeing does that mean she lacks integrity? If a man cares and asks and she lies, then yes, she lacks integrity. It's not that hard. 🤦‍♀️ Everyone wants to benefit from integrity. But don't want to have it. Make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:41 AM
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You act like women don't constantly ask about who and what their friends new date/bf does as a living. Still doesn't to the man paying for everything. Most men talk shit about tradition. But can't provide an income to take care of a wife and children. Which is the first requirement for a man to want a traditional lifestyle. And it's not even like it's impossible. Because there are men in this day and age doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:19 AM
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There's no such thing as a bad personality. NPD would like a word with you. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:31 AM
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Traditional men? Where are all these men financially providing for women? 🤔 The vast majority of modern women earn their own money and pay for their own expenses. A man occasionally buying a meal for a woman isn't "providing" shit, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:38 AM
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Not as much as they're afraid of being used. Look at how much men bitch and groan about being expected to pay. When given the chance, people will take advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:14 AM
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Right. It's not rocket science as to why women don't make the first move. It's not in women's best interest. Most men will use you for sex if you put yourself out there to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:47 AM
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Exactly. It's like people don't realize that their "attractiveness" declines the more skeletons that crawl out their closet. Imagine a woman with standards that she's exercised for years running into some party chick you used to bang before you met her. Do you think she wouldn't side eye you? I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:50 PM
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There is no black and white answer. That's what you're asking for. That's the problem. Too many people need black and white answers to life or else they don't know what to do. Choose character. Choose mentality. As long as those two things are sound, the person will be alright. But you have people choose purely based on looks or sex appeal and ignoring glaring red flags regarding character or mentality. Then acting shocked when a shitty character and mentality equals a shitty person..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:57 AM
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Old enough. And not many. By choice. There is not number. Only reasonable standards. If you maintain bare minimum standards for the people you fuck, it would be hard to rack up a high body count. For men or women. But people be out here with 10 "crazy" ex girlfriends. And 10 "abusive" ex body friends. And it's like, at what point are you embarrassed that you keep fucking with trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:54 AM
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It happens, sure. You're allowed one or two naive screw ups. But you don't unintentionally sleep with dozens of scumbag women. That's a choice. Alot of promiscuous men sleep with the skeeviest of women. But then flex in public like they have standards. They usually don't. Its crazy that a man would risk impregnating one of those women and being stuck on child support with a shitty baby mama. All for some pussy. Nahhh. I can't respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:24 AM
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8% of people are in age gap relationships. 🤔 Proving that not only is it uncommon, people don't prefer it. And people don't prefer it because.......it would make them unhappy to be married to someone MUCH older than them. The larger the age gap grows for instance the less happiness that tends to get reported and of course we’ll see a higher rate of relationship failures(had a study for this but lost it thanks to mobile typing, it agrees with your biases though so don’t feel it’s as important), s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:16 AM
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Right. People tend to marry within their own classes. A woman who is working class is likely to socialize within the working class and marry working class. The same for the middle and upper class. And they raise their families according to those classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:23 AM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:38 PM
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It's always about validation. Chasing Casual sex with multiple people is about validation. Not just sexual need. Some people didn’t have father figures to teach them to filter out bad women Isn't this the same shit women say that the manosphere doesn't give them a pass for? 🤔 Worse when society shames men for having standards. I You're an individual. You can choose to ignore society. You're not a victim of other people's judgement. It only has as much power as you give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:08 PM
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promiscuous photos online like instagram lots of guys at bars/clubs recognize her strong political opinion of women’s sexual lib dresses promiscuous when not around you friends are also party type excessive alcohol consumption Adderall or Vyvanse prescription neurotic unresolved issues especially with parents talks poorly of her ex’s (outside fair criticism) bad with money or high risk behavior talks about people behind their backs vents to you about her friends doesn’t ask for std panel before …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:10 PM
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🙄 I swear everyone just lies about how toxic they are. You're being purposely deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:43 AM
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Logic is hard, I guess. I don't care about men who allow the peanut gallery to influence their decisions, no. You can care what some people think. Without giving a fuck what the vast majority think. Plenty of men are embarrassed to think that they could be judged by some random nobody in public if they're with a woman taller. Who gives a fuck? It's a projection of the selves insecurity. It's unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:09 AM
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I didn't say it was never jealousy. Sure, it's possible. But sometimes it's also a legitimate warning. And age gap relationships prove to be toxic all the time. Male or female. Doesn't matter. They're often about control or manipulation. Of the older or younger. But yall keep trying to advocate that's the exception. When it's the rule alot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:46 AM
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That doesn't matter at all. All Women have different proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:18 PM
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As a woman who has been 5 11 since 6th grade, here's my opinion: The problem isn't height. The problem is insecurity for alot of tall women. You're insecure with yourself so you out limitations on yourself. I hate when I see tall women who don't want to own their height and want to act cutesy like average or short women do. You have to own your statuesque-ness. You couldn't pay me to be average height. It's boring. Being tall is powerful AF. It instantly puts people off and you're instantly th c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:13 PM
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Exactly. People haphazardly chalk it up to jealousy. But older women often know better through lived experiences. And women instinctively see how older men prey on young naive ones. Men love shaming older women and calling them jealous any time they try to step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:36 PM
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Nah. What a lot of these people are describing is just flat out nasty. I couldn't imagine doing that for sex. It's too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:59 AM
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Everyone is judgemental. You included. You just judged me. It's not a mistake when you keep doing it. Thats called a choice. And the person in the post above has done it multiple times. Even when it was nasty AF. And I don't understand that level of low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:22 AM
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This is what hookup culture looks like. The way yall tell it, it's glamorous. But it's mostly you having below average sex with nasty people in nasty environments and not having the self respect to walk away. I'm not impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:21 AM
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He said ironically, as he typed on his electronic device connect to the internet, that he spends a large portion of his hum drum life staring at.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:41 AM
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Fuck having kids. People only ever had them to give meaning to their hum drum boring lives. Now we have so much more to entertain us. Life can be very enjoyable without children. But historically having kids gave people something to do. Something to live for. Something to be proud of. In 2022 you can now be proud of your cultivated Instagram feed. So 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:02 AM
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You're avoiding my point. Isn't it strange that men need to convince women to pick most of them? There are plenty of women who desire sex, and kids. So the human race will be fine on that front. Biology has always done its job. But why do so many men spend so much time convincing women they need to choose most of them, if most of them will reach their 30s and 40s and suddenly become highly desired by women anyway? Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:37 AM
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Worry about your sister then. She's one person. The male collective, regardless of society or even relationship, have been on a 60,000 year mission of warning women. And using propaganda to scare women into settling down. But supposedly yall also have options. It's almost as if men instinctively know that if women don't settle, they're the ones who will lose the most. You never see women doing the same, on the same scale, and to the same degree to me. Isn't that strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:06 AM
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Why do you care either way? Technically it has nothing to do with you. Doesn't affect, right? So why do you care? Spending all this time "warning" women to settle down but then talking about all these options you're gonna have. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:01 AM
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If men do better in there 30’s than they do in their 20’s, they wouldn’t be panicking and trying push propaganda like this to make women settle down. Exactly. Men are never ending with this propaganda. If women are going to be lonely and regret their choices, why would you, a man in his 30 and 40s with options, care? These people are so incongruent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:42 AM
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Yes. Finessing is scamming. They just like to dress the word up to make it palatable. The men are partially at fault. But so are the women who think theyre entitled to be horrible people and exploit older men's vulnerabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:04 AM
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Women outlive men more often anyway. So having a man doesn't prevent you from dying alone. I've never understood that. One of yall gotta die first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:26 AM
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The dating world is unbalanced because, on average, women desire dates, love, relationships, sex, kids, and marriage less than men Because on average women bear most of the burden of these things. Like I said, relationships benefit men more. They burden women more. Look at how there's no female equivalent of the Manosphere. Sure there are places like FDS. But it's no where near as big or pervasive. When women can't be convinced to date or marry, it's men who suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:40 AM
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Now, let’s discuss why men follow such accounts. My theory is that unsuccessful men like to see women humiliated. And when I say unsuccessful i don’t just mean unsuccessful sexually I mean unsuccessful in any area of life. A lot of men bond over the ignominy of women. This is literally the entire Manosphere. Where have you been.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:30 PM
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Yes they can. Yes it is. It's still not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:58 PM
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No one makes it out of childhood with no scars. Figuratively and literally. Thats not life. I don't get holding someone wholly responsible doe something they cannot change. Apply this logic to yourself: Everybody knows men who can't get woken are more likely to be thought of as unattractive. The manosphere is literally making fun of itself. Because no man would have ever followed the Manosphere if he could get women by naturally being him self.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:19 PM
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Women exclude men on the basis of height or how their face looks. Women have a conscious choice in being selective when dating but they still complain about dating abusive men and why it's not fair to judge them for promiscuity. This behavior is stupid as well. Some selectivity is fine. But excessive selectivity makes you look like a fool. In regards to stuff people can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:17 PM
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A person without any kind of baggage is someone naive of the world. Alot of people's "baggage" is due to no choice of their own. Plenty of kids end up being products of fatherless homes. That's not on them. It's not their fault. They're victims too. So when I see "don't date women without a father" in the Manosphere, I am so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:39 AM
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So, ladies, in your eyes... is it okay for Sarah to make Mark wait for sex, especially after she has given herself freely to other men who did nothing for her? It's almost as if a person has the right to do whatever they want with their own body. 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:58 AM
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It's literally common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:05 AM
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Stop being logical. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:04 AM
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But fighting for autism rights doesn't allow people to be performative enough. You're right. It should be relatively equal. And the reality that it's not shows you how little people actually care. They only care about which on gives them the most social brownie points. And between the two, it's trans issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:57 AM
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I would agrue that a lot of this push for inclusiveness is virtue signaling. People have become addicted to it. And they will exploit any issue in order to get a hit and satisfy their addiction to ego validation. You see this a lot with trans issues. I think most people just don't care really because less than 1% of the population is trans and it doesn't affect their daily life. But you have people who loooooovvvveeee harping on about trans inclusiveness. They love any chance to get on a high ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:48 AM
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Most women don’t actually want honest men or for men to be themselves. They simply want you to say what they want to hear. Most People don't want honesty or for other people to be themselves. That's not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:39 PM
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Yeah. It's almost as if people have lives outside of sex. Mind= blown
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:45 PM
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Because women legit don't want to be judged at all. Imagine trying to control how other people are entitled to think about you. 🤦‍♀️ When they could just not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:40 AM
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So men shouldn’t engage in casual sex because the risk of pregnancy No one should. But men don't have wombs and thus are giving away their power and control (and futures). For what? Some pussy? Make sense please. but it’s totally fine and even empowering for women to engage in casual sex because they can just get abortions I didn't say it was fine. The reality is, in 2022, in developed countries, women have more options. Like I said, men weren't complaining for 10s of thousands of years of impre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:35 AM
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except abortions are just another way for women to dodge consequences and evade responsibility for indulging in ONS You're just being petty. "It's not fair that women have wombs and the option to get an abortion.😢😢😢😢" ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ That's you. 🤨 Don't like it? Take it up with nature. So many men are so forever salty that women have options now. For tens of thousands of years women have had to deal the negative consequences of sex. While men got off alot of the time. So this is a comeuppance, really…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:26 AM
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But he had no option to get an abortion Because he doesn't have a womb He did everything he could to not get her pregnant, You mean by having sex with a complete stranger he was trying not to get her pregnant? 🤔 It's almost as if sex has inbuilt consequences. Where is all this safe fire? And safe guns? There was always a risk. And by partaking you accept all the possible outcomes. Including unwanted pregnancy. And yeah, if you go tell anyone else they’re gonna be like well he should’ve got a vas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:04 AM
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Aww.. I wanted to read it before it got deleted. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:11 AM
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I'm clearly wrong. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:21 AM
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Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confident Its almost as if it could be a combination of both. 🤔 Nah. That's too logical of me. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:35 AM
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Thanks I appreciate it. I regularly get into disagreements with other people..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:59 PM
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Fit, according to you. What is fit? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Go back. Read my other post. I swear yall are all indignation. But then too lazy to bother reading. There is a standard for "fit" when comes to parenting. It has been defined. You know that. This is way too nuanced of a thing to make such a blanket statement. There is some nuance. Yes. But not all nuance. We have a lot of broken homes and broken children under this system, so your statement is false. And when a home is not broken, it's the best pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:11 AM
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Most ideal just because they are biological? Yes. Why is that so hard to understand. Do you think your neighbors love you as much as your mom and dad do? Really? If you were to choose a gay couple who doesn’t hit the child and biological parents who do, why would that be ideal? So you're showing you didn't bother to read my other post. So why comment? I said "when both biological parents are fit and healthy". Yes. They are the best. And an equally fit and healthy gay couple will never eclipse bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:49 AM
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I didn't say not fit. I said "biological male / female parents are the most ideal for a child." And I stand by that. Two men and two women can raise a child. And should. If the only option is the child doesn't have any parents. But I don't agree that its ideal kids should be raised in the absence of their other biological parent. For example sperm or egg insemination etc. Not even for heterosexual couples. That biological connection matters. It will always matter. We can't wokeism our way into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:52 AM
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Yeah. It happens. It happens in humans as well. But there's a reason it's a minority case and not the majority. Do you honestly think humanity would have come as far as it had if same sex couples were the majority? It would not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:34 AM
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How can the fact that nature didn't decide to make it so two men or two women couldn't have kids homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:30 AM
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First of all, I don't think nature should be overriden. It's asinine to have a child when your body literally can't have one. For whatever reason. However They're still a man and a woman. Like I said, a child's best chance at life is their biological parents. If not them, then a biological relative that is a couple. If not that any biological relative. If not that then any male / female couple unrelated to them. Because as I've said, kids need both a male and female figure in their life. One sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:20 AM
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If you had to choose between your own blood child and non-blood, you'd choose your blood. Like I said. People think that raising a child that you don't share DNA with elicits the exact same protective instinct your biological one would. And I'm saying it wouldn't. If a parent to choose. They'd choose the one that was part of them first. Like I said, for all the shit people talk, most people don't want kids that aren't theirs. Which is why even gay people will use their sperm or egg to have a bab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:51 AM
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Most parents aren't experts on being parents. I'm talking about nature. Human nature. And nature didn't make a mistake when it decided a man and a woman were required for human conception and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:32 AM
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When babies are born women are given a boost of bonding hormone that compels them to be instantly connected to their baby. So they don't neglect it and let it die. "Mothers instinct" is actually just biology. A babies cry is designed to instantly compel a reaction from people. But especially women. And especially its mother. The same is true of every other mammal species. Men and women's hormones change during the first few months of a new baby's life that allows them to basically live as zombie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:26 AM
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You're illogical. You don't need to have kids to understand what kids experience. Everyone was a child at some point. So we've all walked in a child's shoes. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:47 AM
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If their biological parents are dead or unfit then a direct relative is the next best thing. Having two surrogate biologivally related parents is also the next best thing. No judge gives orphans to two gay people unrelated to an orphaned child. Thats not how it works. Family and biological relation are always the next best thing. Because people are predisposed to take better care of those who share direct relation to them. I bet you can easily walk past a homeless person on the street. But you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:46 AM
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No. Biology doesn't. But biology has equipped parents with mechanisms to look out for their children in a way an unrelated person simply will not. If there was a situation in which you could save your biological child or a non-biological one, your lizard brain would choose the one with your DNA every time. Like I said, healthy, loving and supportive biological mother and father will always eclipse 2 healthy mothers and two healthy fathers. People forget how little people care for children that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:36 AM
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Not when it's your life. Your health. Your happiness. No, you shouldn't. Other people don't live with the regret. You will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:26 AM
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None. It's almost as one can garner an opinion on the matter having been raised by a single parent alongside other children also raised by single parents. Thus having a front row seat to the downsides of single parenthood? 🤔 Not to mention all the studies that prove its not ideal. 🤔 No, no. You're right. In order to know, I have to raise my own kids. And run the risk of fucking up their lives just so I can prove a point on the internet. One second please. Currently getting pregnant so I can birt…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:25 AM
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Why the fuck should anyone care what other people think? Women are grown. They have the mental faculties to ignore the peanut gallery and make the best decision for their own life. Other people are always going to have something to say. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:58 PM
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Why the fuck should anyone care what other people think? Women are grown. They have the mental faculties to ignore the peanut gallery and make the best decision for their own life. Other people are always going to have something to say. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:58 PM
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Yes they can. It's called Surrogacy and Artificial Insemination. With both their DNA? Surrogacy and Articifial insemination are not naturally occurring in nature. And there for cannot be considered natural. Like I said, nature doesn't care how you feel about reality of needing one sperm and one egg for conception. That's the way it is. Your indignation does nothing to change it. Ever. If you truly think nature determines what's right or wrong in the world, then I suggest you log off, throw your …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:46 PM
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No. It's not. Who is responsible for choosing then? People aren't forced on you. People are always trying to limit their accountability in everything. Every choice you make, you must take responsibility for the outcome.. That's adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:40 PM
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Two men and two women cannot produce a child. Like I said, nature determines what normal is. Not us. Two mom and two dads is not equal to a good mom and dad you are biologically related to. It's just not. That's not social construct either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:25 PM
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Behavior doesn't lie. 🤨 Google some stories of narcissitc abuse or domestic violence, financial abuse etc. When the person tell the story from the beginning, the reveal that the red flags were there from the beginning. The person's behavior was problematic a few weeks into dating. They chose to overlook it. I've witnesses as much IRL.. So have you. People ignore problematic behavior. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:16 PM
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Gay couples cannot produce biological kids of both their DNA. 🤨 A child will always do best with two biological parents. Which, according to nature, can only ever be one man and one woman. Those are the rules. So while two gay parents are better than no parents. Or two unhealthy parents. Or even a single parents. Two gays can never eclipse both healthy biological ones. No one cares for kids as much as their biological parents. Period. I didn't make those rules. Nature did. Like I said, you canno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:10 PM
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Yep. You need to be a psychic to watch people's behavior. To learn their mentality. To watch how they react to the stresses of life. To understand their values. To know how they spend money. To know how they express anger. To know how they handle disagreement. To know what they value. You need a crystal ball to know all these things.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:08 PM
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Bullshit. Red flags are always there. People willfully ignore them. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:06 PM
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My point still stands. It was your mother's responsibility to choose a non-toxic mate that she could raise kids for 20 years. No, she's not the victim for choosing wrong. She's still at fault for that. People love acting like they didn't see the person's true colors until it was too late. But that's always a lie in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:05 PM
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If both are living, they're both assholes. No, your not the victim if you choose to have kids by an asshole. You're an accomplice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:32 PM
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Exactly. Single parenthood should only happen when one parent dies. Anything else and you're both selfish assholes. The kid needs two parents. And of opposite sexes. Kids are born of a male and a female. I'm tired of people thinking their feelings can override the laws of nature. They can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:26 PM
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Some women are extremely attracted to it. Others, not so much. It's a sliding scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:11 AM
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Are we talking about the trajectory of the forgotten female? Unattractive women exist. Some ugly people date one another some feel they have the right to harass attractive people for doing what even they won’t do - date ugly. Society doesn’t care about undesirable people Disabled people. They're invisible. Always have been. No one views then as sexual beings whatsoever. Anyone with a medical condition or disability is viewed as nonsexual by society. But you rarely hear people talk about that. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:23 PM
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Men have been using dread game for thousands of years. It's one-trick-pony behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:29 PM
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No. Genuinely not caring leads to apathy. Men act like they live rent free in women's heads. You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:20 PM
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Yall are always harping on about hate for men. Where? Why do you equate apathy with hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:35 AM
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The quote the words of a wise woman: "Nan nan na boo boo. Stick your head in doo doo". Most men are jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:10 PM
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Bad relationship with their family. Even if it isn’t their fault Make sense please. 🤨 It's like saying "Doesn't have a father. Even if he walked out when she was a child."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:08 PM
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Pumping and dumping is lying to get sex. So you're using terms without fully understanding their meaning? The connotation is in the term itself. Pumping and dumping doesn't equate to mutually agreed upon casual encounter. Nor do the connotations line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:34 PM
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CMV Either sex is presumptively inherently degrading to women OR pumping and dumping a woman is just fine/not immoral This is the problem with the internet these days. Every mush mouth thinks they have some deep, meaningful hottake. And you end up with garbage takes like this. 🙄🙄 What does the BIOLOGICAL REALITY that humans have sex, want sex, need sex to exist have to do with lying to a woman for sex? One is biology. The other is moral bankruptcy. What is so broken in your brain that you think …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:13 PM
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Exactly. Modern men don't get this. You deserve to die out. Biology and nature don't care about you. It has only one purpose. And those deemed "unfit" can fuck off. But you have all these dudes online unable to accept reality. Because recent history (the last 150 years) most men have gotten married and gotten to reproduce. Even though they shouldn't have if women were not oppressed and had the ability to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:09 AM
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Ahahahajjahanhahahahahahaj. . Dump him. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:59 AM
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That's human nature. Which is why my only hard standard is integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:11 PM
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Your imaginary wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:48 AM
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Yall are so fucking weird. Weirdos. I swear the most abnormal dudes hang out in the Manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:48 AM
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No. Not real life. The anonymity, though, allows for people to be more open than they would IRL though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:20 AM
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Right. Taking anyone's word is the dumbest thing. I regularly sit back and watch as men and women expats here recount the bullshit they have to go through being married to natives here. I'm not that surprised, as I understand the culture. And other natives are weary of people for a reason. But foreigners don't know who to avoid. And who's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:20 AM
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Yep. I'm "all women". Man, dudes in the Manosphere are all losers. I swear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:00 AM
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So you're lying now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:59 AM
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This whole comment thread is a loser flag, kid. But you're unaware of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:57 AM
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Then answer my questions above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:57 AM
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Notice how I said "you" (the individual) and not "all men". Reading comprehension is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:56 AM
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So you're single, then? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:55 AM
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90% of people aren't extremely ugly. You just don't want to admit to being corny. Average in e every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:55 AM
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You keep saying that. And yet you're in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:54 AM
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All that to say "I've never lived abroad". I have. For over a decade. Speak the language to decent fluency. And I've know many an expat here who don't speak the language, have been here for years and live in whole ass bubbles. Not knowing the native language leads people to hanging out only among other expats. And they live in an expat bubble. Again, if you'd lived abroad, you'd know that basic info.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:53 AM
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They have a strong western blindspot. If you want to know what people are, go to their country, learn their language and live among them for years. Otherwise you know bumfuck. I now plenty of foreigners living here married to natives who don't speak the language and remain completely u aware of large parts of the culture because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:49 AM
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Yes. Confidence does. Ugly isn't that bad for men. You can overcome it if you have the skills to. You can't if you're lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:48 AM
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Plenty of ugly, short, fat dudes do okay with women. They make up for it with personality, or some skill. This just means that you're bad with women and incredibly dull and uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:47 AM
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Tit for tat? Like a child. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:46 AM
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What's your relationship status? If not married, you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:45 AM
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Have you? If so, where? If so, how long? And did you speak the language fluently? If you haven't been abroad over 5 years with fluent language ability you didn't live abroad. You lived in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:42 AM
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Nice try feigning confidence. "Maintian frame". I can smell your insecurity through the screen, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:41 AM
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Women are simple. And yet you continued to fail with them. 😏 Make. Sense. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:40 AM
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Have you lived there and witnessed this directly? Because I live abroad. Have for years. And when I watch content made of this country, it doesn't reflect actual reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:40 AM
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Again, you're lying. You wouldn't be in the Manopsphere if this was true. The Manopshere exist for western men who failed with Western women. Period. Not men who are successful and always have been. . They laugh at the likes of you lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:29 AM
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Like I said, UNLESS YOUVE GONE OVER THERE AND LIVE THERE, shut up. Asian countries are homogeneous first. They will treat your mixed race child as an outsider. All the way cooing over their big eyes and light skin. They will never consider them one of them. And they think white dudes are losers. And creepy. But are willing to put up with you. Like I said, don't be naive. At least an Asian dude in your same position would be aware he was being tolerated to some degree. But yall love delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:28 AM
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Again, you wouldn't be in the Red Pill if you possess the natural, in build talent to read women. Make sense please. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:25 AM
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Involuntary single women aren't the majority.......so you're dragging it, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:18 AM
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Of course you want them to like you. Your little diatribe about foreign women being better is a direct result of rejection from western women, sir. 🤨 The epitome of sour grapes. You can't reach them, so you claim to not even want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:17 AM
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One woman speaks for millions of women? 🤔 It's almost as if people aren't a hive mind. I know when I do research on whether or not legally bind myself to another person and bring them back to my country, I make sure to consult the opinion of exactly one indivudual person on the matter. Cause that's safe and sound. And logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:16 AM
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Why haven't you gone overseas yet? Yall love running yall mouths. Like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:14 AM
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Ain't no one bothered with you. That's why you're single, kid. Make sense. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:14 AM
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Go. But stop acting like foreign people are naive, humble, grateful and inherently high integrity. If you've ever lived abroad, you'd know people are 95% the exact same. Behaviorally. That 5% of cultural differences dictates how much of their humanity they show. Asians countires especially are notorious for hiding the seedy underbelly of their culture and family structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:13 AM
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You're right. It's only one case. You do realize all the idiots who go overseas and get taken advantage of hide that reality, right? They're too embarrassed to admit their "plan" failed. Not everyone is successful. It'd just the success stories make it onto blogs and YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:11 AM
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Stop Lying. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:10 AM
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You weren't lied to. You're a sheep. You don't have an independent mind. You're a follower. Plenty of men grew up in the exact same society with the exact same "lies" and some way, some how they ignored them, used their own instinct to get good with women. But dudes like you always blame "society". When the reality is, you're not "that dude". You don't have the "it" factor. If society doesn't bend the rules like it did for 12000 years of the patriarchy and force women to pick men like you, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
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"Hahaha haha I advocate going overseas and using women and impregnating them and then leaving your offspring to suffer in third world poverty. Ahahahahs Why don't women like me? 😢😢" That's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:05 AM
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I swear yall all know all the man hating feminist. I've never met one. But you only know them. SOMETHING must be going on. If most of the women in the west hate men. Or, by "hate" do you mean "don't like me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:04 AM
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Who said anything about getting married? Act like you're gonna get married and then leave her once you're finished, that's the way to go. "Behaving with low integrity is the only way to go." And dudes like you wonder why no woman wants you. It's quite hard to figure out. I remember reading a story written by a dude that went to some island country and picked up a 23 year old woman to try to "use" her for a few days. Know what happened? She came back to his air bnb and slept with him. Then refuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:18 AM
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You're lying. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You wouldn't be in the Manosphere if you had options, kid. Make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:09 AM
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Yeah yeah yeah. Got your passport yet? When are you leaving? Yall love sitting around on the internet talking shit. But none of yall are prepared to actually go to another country. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:04 AM
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Well, go there. Get married. Stop threatening to do it. Just do it. And leave western women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:03 AM
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Unless you've spent extensive time living abroad, you have zero idea how women abroad think. Newsflash, they're not as naive as you think. They're aware you come there for a wife because you failed with western women..and they will exploit that weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:02 AM
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Yall honestly think those women don't know why you come there? Wow. Westerns are arrogant. They're aware that you can't get a woman back home. They're aware that you're deficient in some way. That's part of the attraction. People on foreign countries view marriage as transactional. They have no qualms about marrying you to get access to a better life for them and their family. But yall actually think they're naive and grateful. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:59 AM
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Go. Foreign women won't want you. Western women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:54 AM
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They're using him, his fame, his clout, his connections just as much as he's using them for their youth, beauty and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:33 PM
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Right. So you'd have to wait until 18-21 to get married and have regular sex. It's not that bad considering puberty starts at about 11-13 for boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:40 AM
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Nah. Men these days are especially fragile. Because they are constantly exposed to sex. 200 years ago as a boy / young man growing up on a farm with no direct access to women outside your family, sex drive would be there, but all this range and resentment at not being ablento have sex wouldn't. Because it's not constantly being dangled in front of your face. The abundance of sexual content is a big problem these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:23 AM
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I would say the same for men. I think having too many sexual partners ruins people in general. Too much experience isn't a good thing in my opinion. I don't want to be fucked like how you fucked X Y and Z woman in the past. That in and of its self is extremely unattractive to me. Just thinking about it turns me off. Though, I know alot of people who are "impressed" by skills their sexual partners have developed with others. It's just not for me. It lacks closeness and intimacy and authenticity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:51 PM
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Why is everyone such a black and white thinker? No, I'm not a conservative. I'm merely acknowledging that most people are fools and require society to provide rules and standards otherwise they will act like selfish clowns. In a perfect world, human beings would be able to regulate themselves individually. But it seems like they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:31 AM
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I think society needs rules. For most people anyway. Otherwise they don't know how to act. The old way wasn't perfect. But it was better than this free-for-all society we live in today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:54 AM
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Neither is constant insecurity and validation seeking regarding women. Nope, 100%, grade A logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:49 AM
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Most men are emotional AF. I have no idea why they act like they aren't. Sexual desire is not logic, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:41 AM
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Why do you care? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:17 PM
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It's only wrong when it's low integrity. Have whatever standard you want. Be honest. As long as you don't lie. It's fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:56 PM
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I swear highly is applicable in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:55 AM
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"Just because you can, doesn't mean you should." Is very applicable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:02 AM
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That age is considered geriatric pregnancy. Doctors advise against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:58 AM
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Do you mean until her 30s? Because straight through and she'd be a mother at 40-45. And that's highly unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:56 AM
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That's it. I get accused of saying and doing all kinds of shit by random men on Reddit. Just for being a woman. Shit I've never even done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:23 AM
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Yall are literally slow. Literally. This is why the Mansophere has so many human sacrifices. You're not smart. How would clothes equate to rape, sir? Make sense. Does clothing also equate to robbery? Or does walking around with gold chains in a bad neighborhood at night increase your risk of being robbed? I hold women responsible for the same behavior. Just did it two days ago on another subreddit where a woman said her boyfriend was "wonderful in every way" except he was toxic and abusive AF. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:17 AM
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Nice cop out. Yall think you're helping people by using victim blaming to shield them for the reality that they have weak boundaries. It's virtue signaling. If the OP doesn't correct his behavior, he will repeat this cycle again and again. But thank GOD you came to save him by calling me a victim blamer. It's really helpful to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:06 AM
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Yep. Strange, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:09 AM
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So then check yourself for allowing it. She's trash, but you let her in. That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:23 AM
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She had a bunch of red flags. You ignored them. You continued to see her with rose-colored glasses. You projected an image on her of being a good person. Now you're shocked she screwed you over. When she never had integrity from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:54 AM
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The Manosphere has been dragging it for years now. Especially the last 3 or so. I remember when people added to it. Now, it's been on repeat for years. MTR has 1k videos saying the same thing over and over JustPearlythings, WheatWaffles, Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit, StephIsCold, RealFemSapien, Melanie King. The list goes on and on. Not one original thought from the lot of them. But they have men addicted. And it's lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:07 PM
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Some people in the "manosphere" are traditionalist and some aren't. There isn't exactly a consensus. Some women are horrible, toxic women. Some aren't. There isn't exactly a consensus. But let the Manosphere tell it and toxic women are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:21 AM
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No. You equated success to the ability to get a woman. That's a modern day attitude. It didn't used to be that way. And isn't in a large part of the world. But, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:38 AM
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I didn't say the pressure was gone. But what it meant to be a man for a large part of history was quite restrictive. What "men" do these days would be laughed at. You have grown men who are weak, porn dependant, addicted to games, unable to talk to women, wasting their lives etc. None of which was acceptable to men 100+ years ago. So no, men struggle to get a woman is NOT the end all be all of manhood. Only western cultures even think it is. Eastern ones judge men based on an array of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:17 AM
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Strongly disagree with this. If anything the pressure has only gone up. Those men from decades ago didn't need to make 6+ figures, be in top shape, 6 feet tall, with a good facial bone structure just to get noticed by a woman. We're talking about two different things. Im not talking about sexual attraction. I'm talking about the pressure to provide. Sure men could "afford" a simple life. But one income is a stressful AF situation. Considering that economic ups and downs were there. And when the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:31 AM
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You're right. How DARE I learn about the opinions of people I disagree with. The ignorance of it is MADNESS. I should be like every other woman, and just get upset at one video I saw once and then decry it as FALSE having never bothered to investigate it with an open mind. Some one call the police. Lock me up. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:04 AM
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Bad women can want whatever. A "good" man is a fool if he gives it to her. I don't worry about what shitty men want. I just don't date or sleep with them. My mind is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:57 AM
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Men are also mostly fat. So what's the problem? Have you not noticed how obesity is a problem in the West? Fat people get with fat people. All the time. Who are all these fat dudes with thin women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:45 AM
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Most women are not promiscuous. Stop going to bars and clubs and hanging around women that sleep around d and use sex for attention. Stop following those same girls on Instagram. And your perception will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:37 AM
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Thankfully alot of American men are also overweight or obese. Which is why you usually see fat families.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:26 AM
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Look at the Manosphere. They are all talking about women decades ago. Decades ago, the social pressure put on men to succeed and "be a man" was way higher than it is right now. Men these days will never know what it feels like to be burdened with having to provide for multiple people. Or risk losing face in society. They will never know what it's like to have to marry before you can have sex. They will never know what it is to be the leader of a household and have any failure of it blamed solely…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:25 AM
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Men love crying about missing the good old days. But on the same end can't imagine the idea of having to marry a woman before you can fuck her. It's the same how the Manosphere complains that women want traditional men, without being traditional. Men want traditional women, without being willing to marry legally to have access to the benefits of a woman. In conclusion, people are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:04 AM
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If a woman is not fat, doesn't have kids and is nice she will not have any trouble dating. I know this. You know this. The red pill knows this. Why does everyone lie? The other day, I saw a video that said something like almost half of women don't have kids at 30. So, most women are fine. As kids are the biggest baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:02 AM
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Girl, stop believing these doom and gloomer assholes in the Manoshphere. Try as they might, 30 isn't over the hill. They're just mad that most women don't get their "comuppance" like they wish they would. As long as you're not fat, and you're not toxic, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:55 AM
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🤔 Wouldn't work. Doesn't hide your bitterness at women well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:21 PM
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When they make content like that men aren't interested in watching it. So they stop. Men come into the Manosphere to exclusively talk shit about women. All the while saying "Improve yourself kings." Which is it? There are 1000 topics they could choose other than women. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:35 AM
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Where did I show bitterness towards men? Pray, tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:29 AM
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You're right. It's that good old toxic femininity. You should continue your bitterness towards women. It's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:01 AM
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Answer my question first. Where do you keep your money? Why? Do you lock your doors? Why? Do you lock your car? Why? Then I'll answer you question. 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:53 AM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄 Do you keep your money in a bank? Do you lock your doors to your house? Do you lock your car door when you get out of it? You do, right? Is this you saying that everyone is a thief and robber, or is this you acknowledging that thieves and robbers exists, and because you don't specifically know who they are, you take the precautions to keep yourself and your stuff safe just in case?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:32 AM
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Of course you don't. Because you don't have integrity. Just say that. No need to write an essay. Why can't bad people just own their trash character? No amount of not getting enough validation from men will make me take it out on individual men who have never done anything to wrong me. I'm average looking. I don't expect to be treated like I'm not. So I'm not bitter by the reception attractive women get. Beauty ain't my skill set. But men like you are all bitterness because you refuse to accept …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:27 AM
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People love hyping foreign countries. Reality is, they just don't get divorced. They keep up appearances. But are unhappy behind the scenes. And dead bedrooms in Asian countries are super common, I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:46 PM
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It's not rude. People just don't like being rejected. So they get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:03 PM
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I mean I don't base my value on how girls see me. Doubtful. You wouldn't be in this community if you didn't ton some fairly decent degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:42 AM
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It will never not be sad how much boys and young men base much of their worth as men on how girls and women view them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:32 AM
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It's not hard to be unique when you have your own POV. It's hard for a parrot to be unique, though. She puts out like 10 videos a day of her saying nothing interesting. It's bizarre. Who watches it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:41 PM
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Recently I saw a JPT clip. And she goes "You're not entitled to safety when you walk home." 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ She said that to a woman. I wanted to reach through the screen and punch her in the mouth. Everyone is entitled to safety in a fucking society with law and order. It's a human right to not be harassed or attacked or followed home. But these chicks will say anything to dunk on women and get praise from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:23 PM
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But men will (and do) watch it. Because it's "refreshing to hear a woman say these things." These chicks are using ideology to get attention from men. This is mental thirst trapping. They have zero conviction in their "beliefs". And their thoughts are often very poorly organized because none of them have the gift of oration. Nor do they have hottakes. Ive seen their content and Im embarrassed for them. They're all so poorly spoken. It makes it really hard to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:57 PM
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I don't count supposed RP women like JustPearlyThings, RealFemSapien, or MelanieKing, since I believe them to be deriving their work from male RP content creators as pseudo-allies. All three of these content creators are faking it. Not one of them adds anything to the discussion. Considering that JPT puts out multiple videos a day, you'd think she'd have accidentally stumbled across an original thought, but she hasn't. Melanie is an above average looking woman saying exactly what men want to hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:32 PM
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Not interacting. That's the RedPill. And that's mostly in the past. These days, it's literally just men watching men talk about women. Exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:26 PM
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The Manopshere is a big contributor. It's 100% about women. I have no idea why it's called the Manosphere. Literally no one is ever interested in content talking about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:18 PM
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OP, stop pointing out men's inconsistencies. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:41 PM
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Sorry but this doesn't make sense. The same way he's not entitled to touch anyone. No one's entitled to keep someone's presence when they reject them. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ How can it be considered a rejection when you just met the person? Why do you need to be fully accepting of someone you just met? Explain that to me. Most people date strangers. Complete strangers. Different people have different world views than you. If for him that's enough to leave, let him leave. You can have whatever view you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:00 AM
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It's entitlement BECAUSE he think he's owed the right to touch you OR ELSE he's going to withdraw his presence. Not because you were rude or disrespectful. All because you didn't want some strangers paws on you? Why does everything need to be explained to people on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:50 PM
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Of course they are. 🤦‍♀️ But saying they're the biggest threat to men and women's safety is just not true. It's not. Saying men (in general) are the biggest threat to women's safety (and men's) is true. So why are you trying to conflate two opposite things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:11 PM
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I never felt like I had to sell myself to anyone.. That's literally not true. You've never flirted before? Bantered before? Wore a nice outfit and cologne before? You've sold yourself plenty of times. What generation are you calling entitled?? I have been married for 20 years.. been together for 23.. if that's entitled to you then guilty as charged.. I don't think people keep strong relationships for 23 years by being entitled tho.. so that part of your comment is completely off base. You're adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:23 PM
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Grammar check your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:39 PM
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Entitled. And people like you complain about lack of good relationships. Pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:08 AM
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You shouldn't have to "sell yourself" The generation of entitlement. "I should just be picked because I'm awesome." How are they gonna know that unless you show them? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:07 AM
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What do you mean by ‘recommend yourself?’ Sell yourself. To another person. Convince them to pick you, essentially. I wish I could agree with you on other stuff you say but explain why there’s hoes and sluts? Because they have nothing else to offer. Promiscuous women get insecure when they're around men who don't care about fucking them. Most women are. You don't need to cultivate other traits to keep someone interested when you can have sex with them. That's the problem with people these days. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:02 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 You make no sense. I can't. I'm laughing. The fact is that violence against men and women is NOT due to black men (most of the time.) The parameter of gender (male) is wide enough to create a rule and be technically right. But when you add (black AND male) your statement becomes bullshit. Because black people in North America don't make up enough of the general population to be that much of a menace. And most black men are not violent criminals. So you're talking about a tiny percentage of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:55 AM
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Why is it that people can't recommend themselves without physical touch? I wonder how our ancestors managed to make it to marriage without kissing. I swear people have nothing else to make themselves likeable than their ability to have sex or engage in physical intimacy. Fuck emotional intimacy, right? Fuck bonding over shared values or similar mentality, right? If we ain't touchin', is it real? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:49 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Imagine trying to play the black card against another black person. And a black person in America. 🤣🤣🤣 The humor of it. No, the two can fucking NOT be conflated. Because while it is FACTUAL that most violence against women is caused by men, it is NOT FACTUAL that most violence against white women is from black men. Violence against white women mostly comes from white men. Because people tend to date their own race, live in neighborhoods with the same race, and be around the same race. So wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:02 AM
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.do you feel that saying things like this helps, for instance, change the minds of white middle-aged karens reporting innocent black males for simply walking in their neighborhoods? Do you bear any responsibility? What does the reality that men inact violence against women have to do with your scenario? Literally unrelated. Completely unrelated. Stop trying to sound smart. You're embarrassing yourself. But please do show me how you've conflated the two. Men mostly being violent against women vs …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:46 AM
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Are you saying most violence against women isn't inacted by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:42 AM
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Some lust. You're advocating pure lust. Why would I have to mention something I have or dignify baseless accusations with response? You felt the need to flex your career and your hobbies. But not your character. Isn't that interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:41 AM
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That's right. Call me a femcel. Keep the insults going. Even though I've not once insulted you. Or even men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:35 AM
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And a real relationship starts with lust. 🤷‍♀️ Yeah that's it...I don't want them to figure out that I'm an accomplished professional with artistic endeavors as hobbies and pro-tier cuddler. I said integrity. Notice how you didn't mention having that. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:19 AM
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You'll delete it. Yall always do. Men on PPD delete their comments more than any other subreddit I've ever been on. Pride and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:18 AM
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You're literally talking about pure lust. That not romantic attraction. But then everyone here is always crying about not being able to find a real relationship. "Oh, you don't want to instantly be with me in 5 mins? I'm outta here." You do realize your behavior indicates low integrity right? People like you want to go 0-60 so fast because you don't want to give them time to figure out your not worth much of anything. Which is why I believe people mostly get the unhappiness they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:57 AM
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Again, what other relationship between new acquaintances would touching not be weird? I'll wait. So many of yall have standards that you cannot even logically explain when questioned. Because they're rooted in entitlement. Intimacy takes time. Touching is intimate. Which is why you'd be freaked out if a random walked up to you and touched you. But apparently 1.5 hours is enough for a woman with a strange man. Yall are so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:52 AM
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That's a bullshit reason and you know it. I'm done with this conversation. I just wanted to see to what lengths you would go to dodge personal responsibility. I was curious to see how far an adult would go to protect their ego. And you were willing to go to the end. Talking bullshit and everything. You might as well go ahead and delete your responses. To avoid anyone else stumbling across this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:49 AM
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Today I learned that not wanting a complete stranger to touch you is a red flag. "You just met me. You should immediately trust me. We've talked for like 1.5 hours." The entitlement of it. We Don't expect immediate trust in any other relationship. But women should be okay with you trying to put your hands on them? 🙄 Two of the other 3 are valid, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:22 AM
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See, if you were in a relationship, you would have said "Of course I'm in a relationship, what kind of question is that? Why would I give advice on relationships if I'm not even in one?" No. I wouldn't. Because I'm purposely ignoring your continued attempts to deflect. You insert yourself into a conversation, that had nothing to do with you. Tag my username. Proceed to insult me unnecessarily. Called me names. Called me insane. But when asked why an adult is behaving like this, you refuse to ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:49 AM
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Still not answering. I find it so funny. This is why I don't insult people in a debate. Whatever you say afterward only makes you look stupid. You put your foot in your mouth. And then go further by refusing to own your behavior. That's the part that gets me. It's your refusal to own it. But you have the nerve to be sitting here talking shit about what other people are doing. I'm a lot of things. But not a blatant hypocrite or a coward. I'd have just owned up to it. Admitted I shouldn't have sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:34 AM
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Why aren't you answering my question? Answer that. Then I'll answer yours. Like I said, "criticism for thee but not for me." You started this conversation with me. Not the other way around. Why deflect now? You came in swinging. Boldly tagging my name. Now you're deflecting. I don't deflect I answer directly. But I'm not a coward. That's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:22 AM
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I think you, and people similar to you, are very damaging to real-world relationships...you take advantage of the fact that people genuinely come to reddit and could be distraught/depressed/etc, and they're being taken down a nasty road by someone most definitely not qualified to offer said advice. What is the relationship between thinking this and calling someone brain damaged, idiotic and stupid? 🤔 You literally could just say this. 🤨 Right? But you chose not to. I'm asking you why that is? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:28 AM
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I clearly asked you why, as a fully grown adult, you felt the need to insult me by calling me brain damaged, stupid, idiotic etc? I asked you what the need was for that. You ignored that part of my post full stop. And responded to the other half. I responded by asking you clearly to address the other half, and you ignored it. And I'm curious as to why a person who has the nerve to insult someone else, can't be an adult and address their own behavior. It's a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:07 AM
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How strange. You tag my username to "call me out" but then cower when you're called out. 🤔 People are so interesting. How they have all the audacity to criticize everyone else. But ain't got none for themselves. I can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:36 AM
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Nah..You're grown. Respond to the second half of my post, like an adult. Don't try to weasel out of it. Yall are real funny. Let's see, you've called me insane, idiotic, said I have only a few brain cells etc. And for what? Because I had an opinion you didn't agree with? You're an adult and this is how you behave? Really? I literally cannot relate. Imagine getting worked up over what someone said on a subreddit. And then accusing them of being the one that's out of line. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:35 AM
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I didn't say "how dare". I said that it's a lie to believe that most men would be happy with a plain woman if they felt they could do better. I've seen so many dudes in the Manosphere say "I'd happily take a 6". When a 6 is still above average. But yall will rag on women for preferring over 6 foot and 100k a year. Imagine if the woman said she'd "settle" for 5 foot 10 and 75k a year. Still delusional because it's still above average. Most men aren't that attractive. Or rich or smart or funny. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:20 AM
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This is a debate forum, I'm a black bisexual guy who has a transgendered woman as a girlfriend, I don't need any particular advice...your hilarious schnizo ramblings calling people incels or failing with women are HILARIOUS given how insane you are You can claim to be whatever you want. This is the fucking internet. You're aware that I can't confirm any of this information. You're right, this is a debate forum. But people don't debate or learn about things that don't affect them. Not most of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:53 PM
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What other reason do you have to be here? People don't just go online one day and search up "different schools of thought". That's not real. Being in these spaces as a man means you fail with women on your own. Period. Some chick that you chose hurts your feelings or ignores you, or you can't get a girl, or you're an incel etc. You go online and Google "how to get girls" "how to be attractive to girls" "why don't women like me" and you find the red pill. And you stick around because it tells you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:41 PM
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What other reason do you have to be here? People don't just go online one day and search up "different schools of thought". That's not real. Being in these spaces as a man means you fail with women on your own. Period. Some chick that you chose hurts your feelings or ignores you, or you can't get a girl, or you're an incel etc. You go online and Google "how to get girls" "how to be attractive to girls" "why don't women like me" and you find the red pill. And you stick around because it tells you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:40 PM
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You're right. I'm a moron, but you know my name. I've never seen you before. You're not memorable to me. But here you are hounding me. I'm horrible in relationships. But I didn't choose so wrong that it led me screaming to the RedPill. If anything, being involved in the RedPill is a big indication that you have zero idea what you're doing with your life / relationships. Which is why you need someone else to tell you how to live. Because you couldn't have figured it out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:31 PM
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There are so many situations where people choose subconsciously because they literally don't have the privilege of having safety, thus have to choose... I don't think you've met enough people in varying situations to get it. I've met plenty of people and lived many of these "experiences". And unless a person grows up in an under developed country that lacks the infrastructure, social services and access to information, they are culpable. Like I said, if not you, then who? Only that person will e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:03 AM
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I agree. Ugly average men have hopes that they can at least get a 6. Let's stop pretending they're jacking off to 3s and 4s. They're not. They logically know it's a delusion. But they still have some hope for it. That's the problem. Most of these OF girls are having their livelihoods supported by ugly dudes who will take paid fake internet attention from an 8 over a real life relationship with a female 2 or 3. Even though they're a 3 themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:05 AM
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I think you're forgetting forced marriages and also people who grow up in abusive environments where abuse is normalized... sometimes those people don't realize who they're picking. I don't think these two can be conflated. Sure, growing up in a shitty environment has an impact. But at the end of the day you still have culpability. Even if you don't realize. You picked them. It still has to be your responsibility. Because whose else is it? Who else is responsible for doing what's right for you? …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:05 AM
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Nothing is 100% of course And a prenup is smart. But I just don't get people who marry the biggest assholes. People who act up while dating. Then blame the fall out on the institution of marriage. So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:18 PM
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The easiest way to protect yourself is to choose a woman who wouldn't try to screw you over if you got divorced. Those women exist. Women who are vindictive and vengeful will show you that at some point while dating. Long before marriage. Women who are reasonable will act reasonably when tested by the stressor of life. Women with a good mentality will have sound, well thought out opinions on important relationship issues. Men will literally date a woman who wants a "fairy tale" wedding even thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:19 PM
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Again. Marriage doesn't take you to court. Marriage doesn't take half your money. The vindictive asshole you chose does. It's like saying guns kill people. I've never seen a gun stand up and pull its own trigger. All you have to do is select for integrity, and a good mentality. Most people can be disqualified for having poorly thought out opinions and beliefs about things. I see women who sit around saying the dumbest shit about important relationship issues. And men still get involved with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:13 PM
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how would you feel if you thought you chose right but then they changed? That's not real. I just ended a 10 year friendship. If I was a coward, or someone who hated personal accountability, I might say "I thought she was good person but she let me down." But I was naive. I let her use me. For years. And once I finally became aware of my own weak boundaries, I fixed the issue and stopped letting her use me. And I went back and dug up all the instances in which is was clearly taking advantage of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:29 AM
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The word bitch was originally used to mean female dog. When it was used that way, no one was insulted. People took that and started to use it as a term to disrespect women. So now it's seen as an insult. Words have the meaning and connotation that we give them. Take the word carrot, for example. It's an innocuous word. But if I take that word, and I use it as an insult to express disgust at anyone I see wearing a hajib (for example) the word carrot will become a racial slur. Because I am intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:20 AM
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Marriage doesn't harm people. Marriage is a concept. Intangible. Choosing wrong. And getting into a relationship with a low integrity, toxic asshole is what harms people. But it's easier to blame Marriage. Because then you don't have to take responsibility for the fact that you literally chose wrong. I would like to get married one day. I just want it for legal reasons. So if something should happen to me, my partner has clear power of attorney etc. However I don't get the fear of being screwed …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:12 AM
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The word as it was originally defined has no problem. However the connotations of the word (meaning the feeling a word invokes) have changed. The word that originally had the definition of "biological human that possess XX chromosomes, eggs, uterus to bear offspring". The word as originally used had no negative connotation. However men have taken it, and purposely use it in a way that subconsciously seeks to disrespect women by using it with an insulting air. Which is why people don't like it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:05 AM
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Nothing wrong with the word female in and of itself. However the connotation of it have changed. It's now used as a way to passive aggressively disrespect and dehumanize women. Stop acting like you don't know that. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:58 AM
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Considering most women in America are fat or overweight......... Even in RP spaces, men are like "I'll take a 6 over a 9 any day." That's the male equivalent of a woman thinking a man has to earn six figures. Most women are 5s and 4s. 6s with full face makeup. Natural 6s are not that common. But not rare. Most men still want above average in a mate. Just like most women do. Average looking not fat women that are 4s and 5s that dress normally don't get picked all the time in this instragram baddi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:03 AM
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Holy projection. You're literally talking out the side of your fucking neck. You have no idea of the ideas I've talked about on this subreddit. You're just making shit up to suit your feelings. Newsflash: I don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:42 PM
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I meant in private life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:40 PM
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Every single thing I say on Reddit, I say in real life. It's weird AF if you have two different personas if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:00 AM
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Exactly. It's entertainment. Unfortunately, though, many people cannot resist the influence of the media that they consume. Most people allow ideas to pollute their minds. I find that part fascinating. It's one thing for teens to be influenced by ideas, but all the adults online allowing themselves to be influenced my opinions is weird AF to me. And something I've never been able to relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:14 PM
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I doubt they were pleasure focused. I would imagine brute force was common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:36 AM
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Stop worrying about what other people are thinking and refine your own thoughts. 🤔 Your thinking is all over the place. That may be a good thing if you can organize your thoughts. Is this literally not you worry about what other people are thinking and how they're thinking it? Because it sounds exactly that way to me. Imagine trying to police what someone else is allowed to think and how they're allowed to think it. 🙄 Are you smart enough to provide your own counter arguments? You're saying this…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:10 PM
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There is not one good non-self serving reason to have a child. Period. If you want to have one, have one. But don't act like you're doing it for anyone else but you. That's what gets me. Is that people can't do some shit and just admit it's for a shitty reason. You can have kids. Like having kids. But also admit that having kids is 100% selfish as fuck. And technically uncessary. But it amazes me how people lack in the ability to criticize their own behavior. It's arrogant to think others don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:17 PM
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I'm not projecting anything. I'm asking a question. But people just don't like to think about these things. Even though they are very relevant things to consider in life. Not thinking about them doesn't make them not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:09 PM
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That's people's problem. They couldn't live without believing their lives had no meaning. I have zero problem being mostly content and also knowing life has no meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:08 PM
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My life isn't massively unhappy. It's just life. Life mostly isn't happy. It has parts of life. But it's mostly uneventful if you're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:49 AM
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They're motives were self serving and certainly weren't noble but it did help establish the society we have today. People say that like the world in 2022 is the best timeline. Or that this is the best version of the world. According to whom? I think there was more to it than that but having acces to women was definitely at the top of the list. That's the only reason. Look at the modern dating world. Men are literally suicidal because not even one woman wants them. From a genetic standpoint, if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:55 AM
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But isn't that weird? That so many men are deemed unattractive? How is that possible? It's hard to wrap my head around it. How attractive to unattractive males could be so skewed. I doubt it's fully socialization either. Because women finding their husband sexually unattractive isn't exactly uncommon across all types of societies and cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:14 AM
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People have not evolved. They haven't. Not in 50 years. Our basic make up is exactly the same. Without social and culture influences to tell men to do X and Y, most men seem to not know how to handle themselves. Even today, let's say most where feminine. Let's throw out a random number, like 70%. If 70% were "feminized" by western culture. Then what is it about the other 30% that grew up in the exact same culture and were able resist this influence? How is it that some boys just got it. And othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:27 AM
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Your thinking adds no value to life and mine does. No. It doesn't. That's what I'm saying. You've only convinced yourself it does..otherwise you wouldn't be able to live with the reality that it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:22 AM
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No. Women weren't. In order for the average Joe to even get a woman, more powerful and influential men needed to set up a social structure to force it to happen. Now that that structure has collapsed, the average Joe is left with absolutely nothing. And this is across a bunch of cultures too. So you can't just say it's a western way of thinking. Women don't want a lot of men without force. Imagine having to force someone to choose you and xonsidering that a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:52 AM
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we create our own meaning and value in life That's it. Its a creation. Not inherently real. So you can believe it to be valuable. But it doesn't mean that it is. That's my point. People think that their sentimentality about the way their feel about the meaning of life somehow makes its true. And I'm saying no matter what you do, what you think, or how you feel, your time on this earth will mean nothing in the end after you have died. So why pretend otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:49 AM
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Men don't dominate shit. 🤣🤣🤣 Notice how most men aren't anything special. At all. Historically most men have been other men's lap dogs. And anyone who thinks otherwise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:47 AM
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What inherent value does life have? Society is not tangible. It only exists as a shared collective thought. People are so obsessed with being here on Earth. But if you didn't exist, literally no one would care. Because no one would be here to care. And societies all collapse in the end. History has recorded that reality too. Anyone who thinks we're moving towards bigger and better are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:44 AM
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Yes. But as I've said before, there is a choice that has to be made. If a woman isn't sure, isn't ready etc, it's in her best interest to stay single and celibate for a time. Alot of men aren't attractive either. So if women can't get the men they want, they're not gonna settle for the men left over. I honestly don't believe they will. For what? In 2022, there are so many other things to do with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:43 AM
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No. They didn't. Stop acting like people's motives are noble. They rarely are. They are almost always self serving. Men oppressed women for the simple fact that if they didn't they wouldn't have guaranteed access to women. they knew women were only attracted to a small minority of men In other species, unattractive males die out. We are the only species that have systematically allowed undesired males to reproduce for thousands of years. Even today, a lot of men just aren't very attractive. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:16 AM
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I don't believe in checking peoples posts histories. That shit is WEIRD. I interact with a post as is. I've always found it weird how Redditors will go through post history, and then judge a post based on a comment made somewhere else completely unrelated. It has always struck me as petty AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:37 AM
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This isn't the time to dig up every historical grievance, that women have had against men. All that is going to do is alienate men's support. No. Don't deflect. Answer my question. I realize that you're angry and emotional right now, but painting all men with the same brush, and blaming ANY man for anything any male ancestor may have done, is NOT the answer. Calm down. Not angry. Not emotional. I'm asking you a question about a topic on a site where people exchange opinions. Answer my question. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:57 AM
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That's probably not the best example to use given that only very rarely can cows survive in the wild on their own. Non domesticated animals do just fine in the wild. Cows are the product of human interference. So you're right, maybe not the best example. But you get my point. Men didn't oppress women for the benefit of women. It was most definitely for the benefit of men. That's fine. Seems like we were already headed in that direction before Roe vs Wade was overturned anyway. Yes. But even now,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:47 AM
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You didn't answer even one of my questions. It's not me that can't stay on topic, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:44 AM
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What motivation did men have to take away women's right to vote, to own property, to make legal decision, to work a myriad of jobs? Why go through all this trouble if women would have historically chosen me in spite of having the option not too? Riddle me that 🤔 Remember, women now have the option not to, and they deep a large portion of men as unattractive. Go back even a few hundred years. Those same men were still viewed as undesirable. But women had no other options, so they picked them. Let…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:43 AM
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Exactly. But just say that. No one ever just admits to that. They always have to wax on poetically like it's some grand meaningful act of sentimentality and sacrifice and altruism. Tell me the names of your great great grand parents? After 2 generations, everyone is forgotten unless you did something that warranted being remembered in history books. But people legit think they will live on through their blood lines. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ain't no body gonna remember you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:38 AM
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Nah. They're gonna be doing stories, exposé, feature documentaries etc. They're gonna eat it up. A good rebellion is lucrative AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:36 AM
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I've always enjoyed the decline. I'm not the one sitting around online crying about how I didn't get picked. That's you. That's why you participate here. Not me. I ran across this thread and stopped by. There's no dog in the fight for me. I'm celibate and childfree and anti-natalism and I think life has no inherent meaning. And I've been living quite swell with this attitude for years. So I have a long track record of putting my money where my mouth is. But the fact that you're even apart of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:34 AM
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Again, stay on topic. I'm not talking about you specifically. You're a nobody to me. I don't care about you. This is a thread for Roe v Wade. Yall means people..but why do I have to explain that? Like I said, people need to live and let live. Human beings aren't protecting babies. You can take away abortion. But you cannot stop someone from secretly giving birth and killing the baby. As I've said. Humans have literally been doing it for the longest fucking time. We've always been horrible creatu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:30 AM
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Misandry where? Quote me directly. Or forever hold your peace. Pointing out that men factually oppressed women and took away women's rights have options and autonomy to ensure men got picked is not misandry. Make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:26 AM
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I love how so many of yall can't stay on topic. Either counter my point or don't respond. It's not that hard. Tell me you're lame without telling me you're lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:25 AM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Yall are literally crazy. Literally. It makes no sense. Women have no history of oppressing men. You don't take away a whole genders rights, because they would have chosen you anyway. That doesn't make sense. A farmer doesn't put a fence around his cows for the cows benefit. He does it so he can benefit from from their meat and milk. 🤦‍♀️ Give women the right to earn money, live alone etc and take away their rights to get abortion, and you have officially removed any reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:24 AM
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People are unhappy. People have always been unhappy. Life sucks. What did this weird idea that life is great come from? It's literally never been true. Ever. It's toxic positivity. Life sucks, then you die. It has always been this way. Our ancestors knew it. They accepted it. But we live in the delusion that it hasn't always been this way. And I'm asking, when has it never not been true?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:21 AM
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I fucking hate 2x. They seek to censor women. I've commented there so somehow I'm apart of the hivemind? 🤔 I guess people who struggle to maintain their own objectivity think others do as well. I am not a dogmatic person. I comment where I see fit. This subreddit or that one. Who cares about the name of it. Only the content of the post should matter. But most people struggle to exist in the gray and feel the need to belong to this team or that one. So carry on. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:19 AM
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I disagree. The media ain't gonna let this cash cow die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:16 AM
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It's about allowing babies to have human rights. They deserve a chance to live without women stabbing them to death in the wombs and murdering them. End of story. Human beings have been murdering infants for millennia. It's not a new concept. It's literally been going on for thousands of years. Look up infanticide. But people hate history, and reality so. 🤷‍♀️ I have no idea why we romanticize life and death so much. Yall are so sentimental about an biological fluke that is life. You and I made …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:16 AM
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No one, man or woman, should have the right to tell another person what to do with their body. I am childfree. I'm anti-natalism, to be more specific. But no matter how strongly I feel that reproduction is wrong, I would never seek to remove other people's right to reproduce. Why can't people just let other people live how they want. If you're pro-life, great. Don't get an abortion then. But don't worry about what other people are doing with their own reproductive rights. Human beings have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:12 AM
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Is the amount of sex I have per year going to go from 0 to a negative number ? When was this discussion about you, specifically? 🤔 It's funny how me saying "men" to mean "men, in generally" had somehow been translated to mean Bandi174. Cool, men can MGTOW and women can WGTOW Men have never MGTOW-ed though. Every MGTOW space is 100% about women still. That part always made me laugh. How yall would threaten to go your own way. But never actually go. And spend all your time still talking about wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:05 AM
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I love how people think reproduction has historically been some mass act of altruism. People had kids because they were bored. And also because they needed extra hands on the farm. The end. Stop romanticizing practical reasoning for things. The masses needed to have kids to give meaning to their short, unimportant lives. There's literally no other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:55 AM
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Women aren't threatening anything. It's pointing out reality. As I've said, look at East Asia. You thought it was bad, it's about to get way worse. Way worse. The men who were sexless will continue to be sexless. And the men who had some access to sex occasionally will become sexless as well. Some of these incels honestly think this will cause an increase of sexless men getting picked. And I'm saying is women would much rather opt out. Why pick a man when you have your own job, own money, own ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:53 AM
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Men are the ones who go crazy without sex. Not women. Women have historically been oppressed sexually for thousands of years. We made it to 2022 anyway. Men are already more depressed and suicidal than ever. Men are the ones complaining about the dating market. Men are the ones depressed due to having no female relationships. It's not women. Never has been women. Changing this law means nothing, as I've said. Traditionalism can never take hold again because it can never force women to be wives a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:48 AM
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If you're going to respond, respond. If government policy and law changes are enough, why are Japan and Korea still falling apart? Why would anyone go back to traditionalism when we have all the technology you could ever want to help you escape reality? People have traditionally reproduced due to pure boredom. No one is bored in 2022. There's too much shit to capture our interests. Who needs a baby to keep you occupied?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:35 AM
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Woman's happiness has been at an all-time low. Most women obtain happiness from having children not having careers. Happiness is not at an all time low. Go back 1000 years and poll our ancestors. Their ves we're short, miserable and then they died. They weren't happy. Suffering was normalized for them. People are more unhappy because we are constantly exposed to what we don't have. How poor we are. How stupid we are. FOMO is real. No one gives a fuck about kids. Traditionalism will NEVER take ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:31 AM
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All the people gloating won't be gloating when the birth rate starts to fall. Men also won't be gloating when paternity is assumed. And child support rape gets more prevelant. You can get rid of abortion. But you can't make people date, have sex, or have children. The governments of South Korea and Japan have been trying to institute all kinds of policies to encourage people to reproduce. All have failed. Yall are actually under the impression women wi go back to getting married? They won't. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:21 AM
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