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9

Spain is horrible for girls, what made you say that lol ?
/r/seduction28/07/26 05:22 AM
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Gotta epsteinmaxx
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:38 AM
1

Think urself as a product and ask urself would u buy it or buy a competitor with more features in the same price? Very cynical way of thinking about it. Will only make things worse
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:44 AM
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They don't need another "alpha male" script—they need practical advice that comes from real experience, not recycled catchphrases. And we dont need another AI generated post, as is evident from this sentence. Even the em dash is there
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:09 PM
34

De verdad las mujeres tienen tantas opciones genuinas No, solo para encontrar sexo
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:44 PM
1

Yes of course. Why do you think stuff like cocaine makes you think you are invincible ? But some people just have lower drive as you said so they are naturally higher inhib
/r/seduction10/07/26 06:20 PM
2

Must be outdated software
/r/seduction05/07/26 12:47 PM
1

Yea bro, men are nothing at 21. I say this as a 32 yr old guy looking back at my younger self with so much compassion
/r/seduction03/07/26 11:27 PM
2

You are 21, you are in your prime No lol
/r/seduction02/07/26 07:56 AM
1

Many girls will at least want to have the illusion of you taking them on a candid date before going home with you, so this might not work in every case, especially not the younger ones
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:12 PM
1

No, where did you get that from? I recommended therapy, like all the other comments here do as well
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:44 PM
1

You have serious self esteem issues then. If you think you are not worthy then you will create situations to reflect that. You might need therapy first
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:27 PM
4

You want advice? Treat women as normal human beings. Just have a nice conversation with them. Stop putting expectations on the outcome. Just try to have fun, maybe talk about something that interests you a lot. Dont read books about it
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:23 PM
9

Nah, same exact story for me and Im 6’2 The apps died a few years ago. Passportmaxxing is advised
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:38 AM
1

Just from an academy, not connected to the university
/r/seduction14/06/26 02:52 PM
2

3D chess, I like it
/r/seduction13/06/26 10:39 PM
6

Death grip it a few weeks beforehand Us seasoned folks can go an hour before climaxing
/r/seduction11/06/26 03:10 PM
2

I dont want to put too much effort into my first message because 1. It comes across as needy 2. Women will never say something interesting back anyway If she likes your appearance than she will reply, if not then it was doomed from the start regardless of how interesting your first message was. I got all my long term gfs like this. It’s 3D chess
/r/seduction04/06/26 10:43 PM
10

Why do they always post a dog? Often it isnt even theirs. Last DMs I slid in uploaded a pic of the dog of her orbiter
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:29 PM
19

I usually just go with the "Hey babe, how's it going?" Works 10% of the time, every time
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:01 PM
1

Believe whatever you want flat earther Kek, where did that come from?
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:00 PM
19

Slide in my DM then before its too late
/r/seduction04/06/26 07:02 PM
34

Brb getting rid of my bearbod
/r/seduction04/06/26 05:54 PM
4

No, furthest I got was "Hey, how's it going?" in a clothing store I believe I hate how you never know if they already have a boyfriend when approaching in person. I also tried night game on the streets of Madrid but I hated it so much I never did it again
/r/seduction04/06/26 03:47 PM
3

Im too autistic to go out, its super normie stuff Most you will see me do is get a capuccino at an espresso bar
/r/seduction04/06/26 03:32 PM
10

Im 6'3 green eyes 0 matches basically Things have gone to shit the last few years, I used to get quite some matches. You now have to be a TRUE ADAM to get lots of matches, the rest just gets put on the bottom of the stack
/r/seduction04/06/26 03:26 PM
20

Yes, tons of Chads here. Madrid is an international fashion and cinema hub like Milan and LA. You are competing with literal movie stars and models
/r/seduction04/06/26 12:28 PM
26

Im in Chadrid and I can confirm that real life is the way to go now. The apps are completely dead except for the top 0.1% of males
/r/seduction04/06/26 10:24 AM
1

Yea thing is im pretty neurodivergent so I just spend weeks indoors, pretty much never go out. The only time I went out was when my ex-gf suggested something. But I will look into going out more, as dating apps are chopped and this way I might as well go monk mode.
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:39 PM
1

But how are the dating apps for you? The issue is is I am not getting any matches or even likes. Not from sugar babies, not from ugly girls, not from single moms, not even from bots. Only on OkCupid I am getting some likes but they all seem to be from the Philippines lmao And I just matched with some New Yorker with big tits and lips, which actually might be a sugar baby, I didnt ask
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:08 PM
1

I thought so too but sometimes I accidentally like an ugly girl and still nothing
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:50 PM
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Damn, thats rly hot bro. Was she cute? I just broke up with my 23 yr old gf and now I have to start looking again but the dating apps are cooked. Cant even match with obese single moms anymore
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:11 PM
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Its not a real issue, do whatever you feel comfortable with as long as its legal and consensual. You dont even have an age gap lol. Im 32 almost and I easily date 10 years younger. I also have women 15 yrs older hitting on me. I dont think its creepy either way
/r/seduction27/05/26 01:32 PM
2

Damn lol, thats savage You end up in bed with them?
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:46 AM
9

Warning: this is an onlyfans ad
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:14 AM
1

That's what I thought too until I went on the apps. It's over bro. The billionaires won
/r/seduction26/05/26 07:41 AM
1

I know, even I have a hard time believing it
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:46 PM
1

I would try Jestermaxxing but for that you need matches in the first places
/r/seduction25/05/26 09:04 PM
0

There is no way thats true I wish brother. Its even worse because I also have my own beautiful place in the Spanish mountains with view. Young people here are usually forced to rent rooms until they are 30-35 lol. They make like 10k a year when they are 25. I make nearly 10 times that and I only work a few hours a day with unlimited PTO. We're cooked
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:52 PM
6

My advice is go for mature women Brutal
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:43 PM
14

Jfc its over bro
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:37 PM
7

I tried setting my age to 26, no change.
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:03 PM
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I put my range on 20-28 and I never go for hookups, still doesnt matter. It gets buried in a ocean of '99+' likes within an hour or two. Before they even have a chance to get through all of it they get a couple of dick pics, some "hey bb wanna fuk?", "youre so pretty, marry me pls" then they uninstall the app again before they even see you liked them. For fun I tried making a new account but 5 years younger, the rest exactly the same. Didnt matter a thing either
/r/seduction25/05/26 06:16 PM
0

Yes, I am a Tall Blond Nordic Chad lol -- doesnt matter a thing anymore
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:57 PM
1

Because I vastly prefer online dating for various reasons.
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:48 PM
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No, I have never had issues in person. In the gym the fit girls try to secretly make photos of me to check me out. Ive had hot latinas bumping into me on purpose with their perfect asses there too. But on online dating I only get likes from 3/10's and the occasional 6/10 (once a month), and thats with tremendous amounts of effort. Even then, they will usually not reply or unmatch me later.
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:36 PM
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Well for example I used to go to Spanish classes in person and about 50% of the students were girls 18-30 yr old. It's not an exaggeration when I say 80% of them I could have asked on a date and they would have been thrilled. I even had girls go on a date with me while already having a boyfriend (they didnt tell me), go figure. Pretty girls too. But nowadays I dont go anymore, I just cant be bothered.
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:24 PM
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I am 6'3, muscled build, handsome, make 4x the national average, top 1% job fully remote, kind, generous etc and I only get maybe 1 decent match a month. Not even paying for premium makes a difference anymore. Online dating is deader than dead. Like I said, it reminds me of the job market
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:17 PM
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Same. When I started online dating in my early 20's I had bad photos, no game, no confidence, and I had literally a 100x more matches than I do now in my early 30's with professional photos, great job, confidence etc. Literally everything is more in my favour now and things have gotten drastically worse. Im in Europe so it's a global problem btw. Social media has made women's ego sky rocket, as on any kind of social app they have literally hundreds of guys offering them everything from flowers t…
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:11 PM
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This. Just not on dating apps apparently. God, how they have declined over the past 5 years. It reminds me of the job market, which is abysmal
/r/seduction25/05/26 10:54 AM
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Try latinas (passportmaxxing), they have no problem with multi-decade age gaps, especially in rural areas They are a lot hotter than western women too
/r/seduction24/05/26 10:48 PM
1

Sounds like the low inhibition life style, good on you man. Good luck out there and i hope you had a good poop
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:54 PM
1

Woah wall of text, didnt see that coming I do agree that its always best to get them alone. In groups they are much more likely to reject you for whatever reason. I never approach groups, its hopeless.
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:48 PM
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Its because you have the "im older than you pls dont think I am creepy" vibe, bro. Of course girls will then just reflect that back to you. I have talked with 18-19 yr olds many times, 0 shame, and I cant ever recall being rejected by them period, let alone by my age. It only seems to happen on apps as there are so many creeps on there ruining it for all of us, but never in person
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:27 PM
1

Oh alright
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:16 PM
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Because when they date me they change their mind. Ive seen it in the faces of even the most ardent childfree 30 year olds. Scary stuff!
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:11 PM
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The problem is that once they meet the "right man" they will go for kids asap anyway. Unfortunately I have been told many times that I am that man, so I dont risk it.
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:02 PM
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Oh alright
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:46 PM
1

See how fucking stupid that is? Yes it is stupid because this entire thread is about hetereosexual relationships lol. Pls
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:45 PM
1

Im not rich as in a millionaire, but I make more than triple the national average in my country (western europe). Girls in their twenties maybe make half the national average if they are lucky. For me its a terrible deal having her work 40 hours a week, although she certainly can work if she wanted to. I usually suggest part time. Now if you want to be entirely independent just for the sake of it, thats fine too, but we probably wont be dating. Want me to get on welfare instead so you can keep s…
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:44 PM
2

Yes, and youre an outlier. Most of your peers love older guys, tada!
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:41 PM
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Im rich enough that I couldnt care less what my gf earns. In fact, career women are a major con to me
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:39 PM
2

You said you were dating a woman, I paraphrased?
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:38 PM
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If you are not simply astro turfing, at best you are an outlier. The amount of attention I get from that age range is overwhelming compared to girls my age.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:37 PM
2

"The Meeks shall inherit the Earth"
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:35 PM
2

50% of the US is obese right? Absolutely brutal
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:34 PM
3

Im a lesbian Opinion discarded
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:33 PM
2

You gotta work on your pre-screening game bro. First step: analyze all her fotos carefully. Often they put their best angles first and then put in the worst (most accurate) photo last, hoping you will not see it on time. If they dont have good photos, assume the worst! Pretty girls almost always will show it, if only with a hastily snapped selfie. This is how I beat 99% of single moms, cat fishes and land whales on the apps.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:29 PM
1

Please do explain
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:24 PM
2

when i was 18 - 23 i thought guys in their 30s were creepy and ancient Sounds completely made up. Sorry, dont believe
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:22 PM
3

You can share similar interests, have nothing to do with age.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:18 PM
0

Brain maturity is an outdated concept. We now know the brain never stops changing. Indeed, not even after 25 as was so often cited as "peak maturity"
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:03 PM
0

Honestly, women often reach their looks peak in their 30s if they maintained themselves well. It is just that they come with so much more baggage, not in the least of which a ticking clock.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:52 AM
1

Yes of course
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:49 AM
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18 year olds are fucking retarded and any self-respecting guy would want to want to slit his wrists after talking to them for more than 15 minutes. Imagine projecting THIS hard I am 40+ and I date younger girls all the time, but anything less than 22 is impossible Ah, so you put the line arbitrarily on your youngest date, 22. How convenient! 40+ with 22 is fine, but 30+ with 18 is somehow bad. Lmao the cognitive dissonance this guy lives with day to day must be absolutely crushing
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:41 AM
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Doesnt really matter. Girls end puberty at 17 at the latest bro, after that you become an adult. Biology really doesnt care about your white-knight western moralism
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:37 AM
1

Yea bro, these guys are nuts. This is what veganism does to you
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:30 AM
9

>teens >women in their early twenties Wut
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:29 AM
1

Ive literally never met a women in their thirties who didnt want kids or already had them. Thats what I meant But to be fair I dont live in New York, Im sure they are abundant there.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:28 AM
2

Why?
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:26 AM
8

hot 30-something women I hope you want kids
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:22 AM
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I myself dated with a young woman and regretted it deeply. She was nice but she was really immature and it kind of turned me off. Maybe you just went with an immature girl ? I see no difference in maturity with any girl in their twenties, it really depends on the person. You cant just say "Oh she is 28 so she is more mature than this 23 year old" lol
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:21 AM
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out here trying to get society to bully men into wanting their piggy, hamplanet asses and it's WORKING. This. Although I would say the biggest issue with girls my age I have is that they are all so bitter and come with so much baggage. Im 31 and the oldest I would date is 23 yrs old. My brother is 30 and he is now "wifing" a beautiful 21 yr old blonde. Girls that age love older guys so it really is a win win. Edit: Im getting downvoted by a lot of women who were definitely dating older guys too …
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:51 AM
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You are probably not in touch with your own sexuality, and therefor you give off friend vibes. It's fine, it happens with many men. I definitely wouldnt recommend you to "change". Just explore your desires first, as this will automatically make you more sexy and confident. Don't try to "escalate" or trick her into coming into home with you. Women will almost immediately sense who you are, and if you try to fake it you will just come off as creepy. Being your fully realized self is the most sexy …
/r/seduction09/05/26 11:42 AM
9

AI slop
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:48 AM
1

Brutal
/r/seduction27/04/26 08:46 PM
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Erh no because its different. You cant cancel out a trauma by doing more vapid shit But it doesnt really matter. I made up for it by taking a young gf and getting like 80% of the experience anyway lol
/r/seduction25/04/26 03:42 PM
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It doesnt really go away but eventually you just move past it. Its a difficult one though ngl The good news is is that your 30s are your best dating years
/r/seduction25/04/26 02:22 PM
16

To be fair most of the girls who chase him are not that great. Take real Chads like Brad Pitt and you will see
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:43 PM
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They sometimes chase Chad tho
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:34 PM
3

I want the full story
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:05 PM
15

Why marry an asexual?
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:02 AM
1

Well for me, even though I am constantly thinking about banging as many girls as possible, I have found the whole dating process extremely tiresome. Also I am very picky, and those higher quality women wont make it easy for you to sleep with them. So I relented and I am now in a long term relationship and I am hoping to be eventually be able to introduce third persons as well. My has already OK'd the idea, but for now she remains too jealous
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:17 PM
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I know a guy in his 50s who was doing it consistently throughout his 40s and now routinely has a girl get threesomes for him. He was married once for a few years in his 20s and said never again Damn, sounds like you are describing the past power couple Epstein and Maxwell. How does she "get threesomes for him" ? Human mind is hard to satisfy in general. Guys who aren’t in relationships want them, and the guys in relationships want more variety. The guys who aren’t married want a wife, and the gu…
/r/seduction13/04/26 06:17 PM
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Tell that to my little brother. He is thirty and he still messages me weekly about how many chicks he slayed this time around. It seems incredibly addictive to some people. He must have a body count in the hundreds as he has been doing this since he was 18
/r/seduction13/04/26 03:25 AM
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>m28 >ex f40 Bro you gotta run
/r/seduction07/04/26 11:12 AM
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Yes something tells me OP has very little experience with girls if he thinks he can no longer date 20-something year olds when he hits thirty. I means, thats a super common combination.
/r/seduction02/04/26 06:15 AM
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When you're 30+, well women want X, Y, Z more than looks. Like emotional intelligence, good career etc. So it shifts and you need to adapt. Just date 18-25 year olds, problem solved
/r/seduction28/03/26 01:57 PM
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If you have a boyfriend and he is expecting sex, then it would be a good idea to communicate to him that you want to wait until you feel comfortable. So the next time he tries to escalate things just tell him "No, I dont want to do that yet, I will let you know when". And if he persists, you should get angry. Its your body and he has no right to take over control. Edit: I sent you a DM
/r/seduction04/03/26 08:18 AM
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No dont worry, that does not count as a body. Pretty much only penetrative sex counts. Be very strict when it comes to letting guys touch you. They wont run away once you stop them. If they do then they are not worth it. Just let them wait until you feel comfortable with them, which might be never.
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:48 AM
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I see where you are coming from, but this sub is technically also for long term relationships as per the info banner. And inside this thread its about finding presumably a long term partner who isnt ran through. The question is, where is the cutoff?
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:32 PM
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Nah, high body count in women, especially young ones = Cluster B disorder. Not saying it is necessarily good in men either, but at least it has a biological basis. For every partner she has had, your divorce rate goes up.
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:50 PM
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Young girls with high body count is always always always always always a sign of mental instability. I have never seen an example to the contrary.
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:44 PM
1

I must add that if I meet a 21 yr old with 10 I think thats actually still pretty high. I think 2-3 is the ideal of a girl that age. Edit: Being downvoted by roasties
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:38 PM
0

We like sluts here. Thats not true though
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:35 PM
0

Anything more than 10 and its a no from me. Thats just entering histrionic personality disorder territory
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:32 PM
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Dating apps, I am too austistic for street approaches anyway. I tried and it nearly made me suicidal
/r/seduction23/02/26 08:27 PM
4

I thought this was common sense? Unless youre still a teenager
/r/seduction11/02/26 03:55 PM
1

Like 100 to 150 euros.
/r/seduction14/01/26 10:27 PM
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Best strategy. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. I usually text back as soon as I see the message. Not out of desperation but rather OCD I suppose. I just want to handle things at once. If you are a lazy bum then dont turn your life around in order to tend to text messages, it will come off as out of character. Although answering somewhere on the same day is generally appreciated. So in short: Do what suits you best, but try to put in SOME effort.
/r/seduction12/01/26 10:27 PM
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Nope, sadly she was also rich so she had high standards. Yes I paid for it all.
/r/seduction09/01/26 05:08 AM
1

The last time I tried to first kiss a Christian conservative girl she told me she was waiting for marriage before I could do that. This was on date 3. Never again
/r/seduction09/01/26 05:04 AM
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She is insecure and shallow. I would move on to the next.
/r/seduction25/11/25 08:39 PM
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The women who dont look for dominant males tend to be less pretty. It is most likely that you dont even consider them. I can tell you this from first hand experience with this same issue. Later you will come to realize that you dont even want those "simple" girls, but you indeed want to be more dominant and confident yourself. This will take a long time and is hard work. It basically means becoming the real you, and it is no wonder girls high in looks look for someone that is confident and has m…
/r/seduction22/11/25 10:41 PM
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Usually it is indeed the vibes one gives off and this is very hard to change. It is like you rolled "fuccboi" at birth and this then sorta becomes your destiny. Honestly, I wouldn't change too much in your situation (unless you want to). You are in a far better position than many other guys, who can't get any type of intimacy. Just put your intention on what you want to achieve and make it clear from the get go. If you want a relationship then put that in your (Tinder) bio and start from there. …
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:37 AM
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I have the opposite, girls always want a long term relationship with me. Getting casual sex is far harder for me. Do you give off fuccboi vibes perhaps ?
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:57 AM
1

Redditor swooning women with this one simple trick. PUAs hate him
/r/seduction17/11/25 06:32 PM
19

Damn, that's Auschwitz mode. I guess you are into it?
/r/seduction03/11/25 11:05 AM
17

Unless your ex was a midget, I dont think she was 35kg 💀
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:48 AM
1

It doesnt matter. If it is not a resounding “yes” from their side just move on to the next one
/r/seduction29/09/25 02:26 PM
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In my experience anyone under 30 does not like to call at all. Texting it is. Heck, I don’t even call my gf of 2 years, only under exceptional circumstances. It gives Gen Z anxiety apparently
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:17 PM
1

Yep, I was that guy. There is no gym for your personality
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:31 PM
1

Ok let's take a step back here. What do YOU want from that guy? It seems like you are giving him signals yet at the same time you are bothered by him doing the same. If you don't want to be romantically involved with him then maintain your boundaries and confront him / your manager as soon as he trespasses those boundaries. Don't mention anything related to romance, not even the dates you go on. You are just fueling the fire.
/r/seduction14/09/25 05:36 PM
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I met my life partner on Hinge and I didn’t pay anything. Spent hundreds of euros on Tinder though and only got some mediocre hookups over the years.
/r/seduction13/09/25 10:50 PM
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All you need is 2-3 good photos on a dating app tbh. In other words, just be handsome (and not autistic) and you'll be fine. Heck, even autistic people have gfs
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:24 PM
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Again I promise you this is not the case. She could be super attracted to him sexually and still wait before marriage. We are not talking about a 40 year old single mom here who is trying to get a betabux to sweep her up. You clearly lack experience in this department man. You underestimate the power of naivety and delusion these people can have.
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:35 AM
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I guarantee you this is not the girl for you. You want to fuck and rightfully so. You have no business with such a girl who lives with such dogmas such as "no sex before marriage". If you were compatible, you would know!
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:33 AM
1

Not true, I can tell you from experience that she can think you are really handsome and still not sleep with you, because guess what, women really don't care as much about sex as men.
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:30 AM
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Not necessarily the case. She is much more likely to have anxiety issues (ie if I have a partner he must be with me for the rest of my life) or delusional (ie the man of my dreams would immediately fall on his knees and marry me). These things are very typical for younger girls. If she wasn't attracted to him she would just not be in a relationship with him
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:26 AM
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Definitely some serious communication issues. How can you find out so late that your partner is waiting for marriage ? I dated a girl once who ond after date 3 she told me she was waiting for marriage when I tried to kiss her. I was already upset she waited so long to tell me and told her I never was open to the idea in the first place so she might as well have told me it already when we met on Hinge lol. Needless to say I immediately broke up with her. OP has bigger issues than not getting laid…
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:23 AM
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Just tell her, "so you said you didn't want x....but you still want to hang out....so I'm confused what you actually want because you're sending mixed messages. If all you want is a friend then say so....but if you maybe more than that but not serious either....then say so....but I'm just confused where you are and want to verify before confirming anything " Worst advice ever, don't do this btw
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:17 PM
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She already milked him out of a free 4 hour therapy session with drinks presumably. What makes you think she had a change of heart and suddenly went to the other extreme i.e. a sex date? On top of that, she is still talking about her ex. Learn to read the context people. To OP, if you haven't even kissed yet, it really is time to run for the hills. Big red flags everywhere!
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:56 PM
7

I guarantee you a quick lunch does not mean sex in this context. She wants him to simp out and come running over and treat her to a free lunch, literally. She is just probing if she can still squeeze some attention out of him.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:29 PM
56

I think you handled it like a boss by rejecting her for a change. She has been leading you on with her "not being ready to date" while obviously just dating you 2 times. So honestly I would just cut my losses and move on, unless she gives you a booty call later on like "drinks at her place". Whatever you do, don't pay for anything anymore.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:17 PM
3

Can confirm this.
/r/seduction17/08/25 09:52 PM
3

Let me know how that worship of money is going in 10 years. Your country is currently in a steep decline precisely because of it.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:13 PM
3

Relying on money to get girls for you will ALWAYS result in disaster. Look at Melania with Trump. Sure, she is a super model, but do you envy their relationship? If you cannot get girls without money, you will not get (good) relationships with money. It will just turn into a drawn-out escort-esque relationship then. "Hustling and bustling" will just give you a burn out. If it is your passion to make a lot of money then go for it, but for most people being part of the Matrix actually makes them t…
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:59 PM
7

Because girls hate young guys generally speaking. They want their partner to have more experience than them. Now thats not to say it is impossible to get a gf at your age, but it would probably have to be a long term one. Stop trying to get laid as much as you can with different girls for now. The quality is low as you have seen, and the effort is enormous, especially at your age. Try to focus on finding a special person which you can actually see yourself spending a couple of years with at leas…
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:35 PM
12

Wait until you are 25, things will get easier.
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:24 PM
-4

Instead of being nice, why don't you say what you want? Then, if they say no, you can get a little angry, or just leave and never talk to them again instead of trying to sugar coat it. Stop hiding your real self, it will just make you look creepy. Stop wasting time with girls who aren't interested. Don't even give them a single like. You should treat this the same way you do job interviews. Rejection? On to the next? No sex after 2-3 dates? On to the next. She wants you to pay for everything ? O…
/r/seduction04/07/25 02:27 PM
266

Move on to the next
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:56 PM
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