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Field Reporttherealwoujo/r/seduction25/09/24 08:10 PM
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This is a stupid post. There is a clear line between a shit test and something that is just flat out insulting. "Shouldn't you be in a bigger apartment" is just insulting and women know that. No woman that likes you would ever say that, so even thinking about this hypothetical is stupid and a waste of time. If a girl was in my house and said that, I would throw her out. I wouldn't even care about what I said, but if I had to say something I would say "looks like were not compatible." If she trie…
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:11 PM
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I am having trouble understanding what point you are making. You are not saying Im wrong but you're somehow saying I shouldn't have written this? I don't get it. Im writing a book about things I believe to be true. There's nothing wrong with doing that. If some guys take it wrong that's their problem. It's better to know things than not know things.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/25 11:23 AM
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> Can you show some of them being lead by psychopathic tyrants? I thought I made clear that the alpha male is not a psychopathic tyrant all the time. It's just a character he brings out when necessary. > Putting your purpose first so that women like you is putting women first. Not being a “beta” so that women like you, too, by the way. No you should put your purpose first because it is the right thing to do. I am not telling you to act differently because you are around women, I am saying that y…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/25 05:34 PM
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You completely misunderstood my post. The alpha male is an archetypal ideal, not a real thing. Nobody is fully an alpha male or a beta male.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/25 03:39 AM
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> By your logic a real alpha wouldn’t even Be on this site. Yes, you are right. But there is no such thing a complete, real alpha. The alpha male is a perfect ideal that you should strive for but can never reach. > Pussy is overrated No, it's definitely not lol. Emotional connections are even better. Living as a gay hermit your whole life is not a good life for a man. > wearing a mask all day trying to please people by disguising it as pleasing yourself is the dumbest shit ever You're not "weari…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/25 12:04 AM
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No. Wrong. If you actually try to go full alpha around a woman you will immediately fail . Also most of these internet tough guys who pretend to be "full alpha" when they are around women are actually very beta and do lots of nice guy shit. They just don't want to admit it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/25 04:06 PM
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No idea. It is taking me forever to write.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/25 03:57 PM
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Dude if you ask her out on a date and she says no then you shouldn't be her little text buddy. She is using you for attention and not giving you shit in return.
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:11 AM
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Invite her on a fucking date. Stop trying to get girls to like you over text.
/r/seduction12/06/25 04:39 AM
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Playing these kinds of games never works. If a woman feels rejected, its game over for you.
/r/seduction05/06/25 06:09 PM
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That's the mistake that men make 99% of the time. Women are extremely sensitive to pressure.
/r/seduction05/06/25 12:19 AM
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She didn't "use" you. You were way too thirsty and went for the kill way too early. You pressured her and she freaked out. Also, you sound like a douche FWIW.
/r/seduction03/06/25 02:44 PM
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No, move on and think about other stuff. Continuing to follow up with her while you are in different countries will be weird unless there is a strong reason to.
/r/seduction02/06/25 07:49 PM
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I have a video on Youtube about how to approach
/r/seduction02/06/25 07:48 PM
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No. You can't rely on drugs for game.
/r/seduction17/05/25 08:43 PM
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Who is "many people"? Girls don't give a shit. And if they ask you can just tell them a story as to why you are alone.
/r/seduction16/05/25 04:48 PM
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Why do you need friends around? Just do it.
/r/seduction16/05/25 04:38 PM
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No go do stand up comedy open mikes I don't know why people are saying improv, that has nothing to do with storytelling.
/r/seduction08/05/25 06:20 AM
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Dude if you want to walk up to women and insult them, go ahead. Tell me how it works for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/25 12:35 PM
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What's up with all these AI bots pretending to be hot girls?
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:43 PM
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I have approached literally thousands of girls with compliments and I have had amazing success. As long as you are not creepy and your compliment is real, women love it. It is also relatively easy to find an emotionally resonant topic once you have had practice. How many women have you approached in the last month?
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:43 PM
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Go up to a woman and insult her? Yeah don't do that. Women do like you to be a little challenging, so you may want to tease them to but Patrice was joking when he said that.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/25 10:03 PM
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Do you have an actual criticism of anything I said?
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:03 PM
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Are you kidding? There are tons of bars, clubs, and other places where single girls hang out.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:11 PM
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Now this, my friends, is AI
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:31 PM
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Nope I wrote it, so closer to Gay I
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:27 PM
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Why would you care about this shit?
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:26 PM
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There is no one piece of advice. The best thing you can learn is that you need to figure this shit out on your own. All subreddits like this can do is give you hints.
/r/seduction06/05/25 03:53 AM
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No, this is completely wrong. There are lots of reasons a could ask if you are gay that have nothing to do with your "vibe." You may be dressing well, you may be put together, you may be in a gay bar (yes, straight guys can be in gay bars), or she may have just had 3 straight dates with gay guys. I used to live in Atlanta, where a lot of guys were secretly gay, and almost every girl asked if I was gay, and there was no disrespect to it.
/r/seduction06/05/25 03:53 AM
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Asking if you're gay could be a shit test or it could be an honest question. Either way, it's a good thing if a woman asks because it means she's thinking of fucking you.
/r/seduction06/05/25 12:24 AM
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1) By acting like a loser with scarcity and no options, you reinforce in your own subconscious mind that you are a loser with scarcity and no options. 2) You put pressure on the woman, which will make her act weird and may even lead to you being banned from the store.
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:18 PM
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Don't. Unless she shows you extreme interest, don't hit on her. She is literally being paid to be nice to you, and you are mistaking that for interest because you have so much scarcity.
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:55 PM
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When this happens, the worst thing you can do is hang around and "fight" with the guy for her validation. I would stay and humor him a little bit, but then walk away. When the woman sees that you have other options, she is likely to want to chase you.
/r/seduction04/05/25 03:52 PM
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Ok well the answer is easy. Don't. Who gives a fuck what they expect. When you bring a friend it's not a date anymore.
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:59 PM
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I would say to her, "Hey, sounds like fun, but if you're gonna bring your friend, it's not gonna be a date. It will just be friends hanging out." Then go out and have a fun time and have them come wherever you go.
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:38 PM
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Jeez dude you can't go into everything with such a negative attitude. Just don't pay for the friend. It's not hard.
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:37 PM
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A lot of women are damaged and you can't fix them all. All you can do is treat them well and hope you can be a small light of good in their life.
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:13 AM
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Dude are you 12 years old? You shouldn't be texting girls. You should be hanging out with them in person. She's using you (and maybe the other guy) for attention.
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:01 PM
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Nobody's behind that's all in your head.
/r/seduction02/05/25 06:27 AM
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You're welcome.
/r/seduction01/05/25 07:47 PM
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You probably acted too needy and available. You need to make her feel like you are "maybe" about her.
/r/seduction01/05/25 07:42 PM
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Women are attracted to men because they have status. Men don't normally care about the woman's status unless he is a clout chasing beta.
/r/seduction01/05/25 07:41 PM
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Dude girls either wanna hang out with you or not. If not, move on.
/r/seduction01/05/25 02:05 PM
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Hey are you free on X date at y time to meet at Z place. You dont need a bunch of gay chit chat.
/r/seduction01/05/25 01:56 PM
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Ask her on a date and quit with this texting bullshit.
/r/seduction01/05/25 01:17 PM
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Nope. Men that act like women are unattractive.
/r/seduction01/05/25 01:10 PM
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Dude if you're such a clout chasing dork that you want to date an influencer to feel cool go ahead but, to repeat, that's female behavior.
/r/seduction01/05/25 11:33 AM
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Dawg you started with the insults.
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:07 AM
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Are you dumb. I meant women are looking for status in their romantic partner, not for themselves. Napoleon and all those other dudes didn't care about finding a famous woman, they wanted to be famous themselves. Jesus christ the tism is real in this subreddit.
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:54 PM
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There are plenty of women who are hard workers and leaders but are not influencers. OP wants an influencer because they are famous and have status.
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:14 PM
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Wanting to bang a girl because she's an "influencer" is gay. Women are supposed to be obsessed with status, not men. You are already putting these girls on pedestals. Just focus on getting somebody you actually like.
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:57 PM
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Ok but what if she says no?
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:15 PM
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No don't do this. This is a beta way to ask somebody out. Just pick a time and place and offer it. What if you say "do you like X" and she says no? Terrible advice.
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:02 PM
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Incel excuses. Next question.
/r/seduction30/04/25 06:51 PM
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You don't need a social circle. Just go out alone. Women don't care.
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:51 PM
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Why are you on this subreddit then?
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:06 PM
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No. Stop being a simp. She already friend zoned you so move on. And you're not a therapist either.
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:27 PM
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This is scarcity mentality - you start fantasizing that you're going to marry her because you subconsciously feel like you don't have a ton of options, so you need to emotionally over-invest in any girl that shows you the slightest bit of interest. The solution is to imagine yourself having abundance.
/r/seduction29/04/25 01:55 AM
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Dude you're going down a very dark road. Prioritizing girls over everything is going to drive you literally insane. You're going to become an insane, desperate creep and your emotions are going to fluctuate based on whether you are succeeding with girls on a second to second basis. Also sleeping with lots of girls isn't fulfilling. It's a skill every man needs to have, but it's not the point of life.
/r/seduction27/04/25 03:42 PM
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Jesus fucking christ not everything is a shit test. Just say "yes I like your friend"
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:44 PM
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Why do you need to save face? Who gives a fuck?
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:43 PM
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No you shouldn't be texting girls who don't come to meet you for dates. Period. There is no such thing as "text game". You ask them out and if they say no you move on.
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:35 PM
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Why do you wanna get good at texting? Are these girls meeting you in person?
/r/seduction26/04/25 07:03 AM
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This is the type of questions guys that don't get laid discuss amongst themselves.
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:45 AM
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When a girl pushes you away, that means you were coming on too strong. She should be chasing you, not vice versa.
/r/seduction25/04/25 02:35 AM
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You were probably pushing too hard. Women oftentimes feel pressured when they are in a room alone with a guy and will sometimes even have sex just to get it over with. If she's not 1000% into it, don't do it.
/r/seduction23/04/25 10:51 PM
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If you are small go to the gym. And girls don't care about your nose. Make up for it with your other traits. Nobody here has seen you but 99% chance this is all in your head.
/r/seduction23/04/25 10:49 PM
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There are no secrets. It's the same rules for everyone. If you unattractive then you need to become attractive.
/r/seduction23/04/25 10:31 PM
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I address this in a different section of the book: First, as I explained earlier, what you actually do with a woman is not as important as how you feel when doing it. As long as the purpose includes elements of novelty, challenge, and value, women will often quickly accommodate themselves to your frame and find whatever you are doing fun. A confident, fun, joyful, creative guy can make anything fun, whether it is walking around the city, going to a shitty bar, or even committing crimes. That sai…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/25 02:04 AM
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Nobody here can answer you because nobody here actually gets laid.
/r/seduction21/04/25 10:23 PM
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You don't need to wait until a woman is looking at you to approach her. Just approach her and give her a compliment.
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:12 PM
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It's not really "delusion." You just need to separate your emotions from your rational brain. Your rational brain knows you are short and therefore less attractive because you are short. But emotionally, you should still project the feeling that you are the hottest guy in the world. So long as you know that emotion and reality are different, you are fine.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/25 03:05 PM
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Usually when a girl says she has a BF you came on too strong. Girls love attention and they only say things to repel you when the attention is feeling like pressure.
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:10 PM
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You just need to control yourself and make guys wait. If a guy will wait 4 or 5 dates to have sex he is much more likely to actually like you. Your problem isn't that you're horny, your problem is that you are desperate for validation and give away all your power in relationships. You are a doormat and the way to stop being a doormat is to demand the other person do things before you do things for them.
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:53 PM
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The frame is you do whatever you want, she does whatever she wants. If you haven't fucked her and she wants to be exclusive, I would say no.
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:50 PM
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Seduction is not about lying or finding an "angle." L If you want to be exclusive, be exclusive with her. If not, say no.
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:05 PM
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Yes, they do. Next question.
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:38 PM
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No you can complement appearance, but you have to do in a self-controlled way like you're not a thirsty creep. And its also better if you compliment something they DID for their appearance rather than just how they look.
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:34 AM
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This has to be cold and calculated because: 1) most guys have no idea what they are doing, and 2) getting guys to do this stuff goes against mens' natural tendencies, which is to over-fixate on the woman and make their whole night about her.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 07:37 PM
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Then stop wasting your time. Are there girls near you? Yes? Then go find them. The fact that you are even worried about a girl that lives 2000 km away means you feel scarcity and like you cannot go find a girl that is near you.
/r/seduction14/04/25 03:21 PM
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You can't expect anything from a girl you have never met. Attraction is built in person. Ask her on a date and if she says no, move on. And start approaching girls in person.
/r/seduction14/04/25 03:20 PM
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The way to just go is to just go. The more you think about it rhe more you will hesitate.
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:01 AM
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If a girl won't give you her number, don't bother with her.
/r/seduction09/04/25 10:00 PM
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You gotta make up your own
/r/seduction09/04/25 04:30 AM
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Ok understood
/r/TheRedPill08/04/25 01:32 PM
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I disagree with everything you said. Everything you wrote indicates that you read a lot of this shit online but you've never actually approached anyone before. Being low energy and not getting in womens' face will simply never work. Ever. And "knowing what you're working with" is dumb. You have to approach thinking you're the hottest guy in the world. Get off the internet dude.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/25 11:20 AM
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So what? From OP's post history, he seems to be like one of those guys that is mad at women.
/r/seduction08/04/25 03:59 AM
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Lol I explained my point very clearly but you insist on misinterpreting it to win your little argument. I made clear that I don't consider women at bars to be sick or pathological. All humans are desperate for acceptance, so if you want to ignore that point, then I can't get through to your thick skull.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:01 PM
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There is nothing pathological about enjoying meeting new people. You are just adding the word pathology to a completely normal thing to win the argument. Well have fun. And yes, women are afraid of rejection, anybody with 3 brain cells that has ever been to a bar can see that.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:56 PM
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You approach her when you want to talk to her. That's it. You can't wait for an invitation.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:49 PM
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No. Wrong. Women usually don't want to have sex with a man unless there is an emotional connection, and the core of an emotional connection is acceptance. Walking up to a random girl and saying "hey wanna fuck" doesn't work. Also you are just twisting my words with your wrong interpretations. Desperate is a strong word but all humans are desperate for acceptance. We are literally social animals that go crazy when we are isolated.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:42 PM
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You have to think of what the alternatives are. If you don't make eye contact what are you gonna look at? The floor? The ceiling? That's creepy and weird. Also if a woman is walking somewhere and you don't stop her she will just walk right by you. If you wanted to talk to one of your friends who was walking somewhere you would stand right in front of them, so that's what you should do to women. I am not telling men to act in an unusual or inappropriate way. In fact I am doing the opposite - I am…
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:32 PM
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It's not pathological to want acceptance. Everybody wants acceptance and to feel loved. If people didn't want acceptance they wouldn't get into relationships in the first place. And if women aren't afraid of rejection why isn't it common for women to approach men?
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:27 PM
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That's a good point. I will add it to the list. If you wait, 2 bad things will happen: - You will get in your head and start overthinking the interaction. - The girl will notice you staring at her and get creeped out.
/r/seduction07/04/25 06:28 PM
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Dude I'm a lot older than 30. I can also pick up girls in their 20s too, and I sometimes do, and they are really hot, but i just don't have anything in common with them and they bore the shit out of me. There's nothing "brutal" about it at all.
/r/seduction07/04/25 06:02 PM
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I'm a lot older than 30. And most of the girls I pick up are 30+. But I'm not going to get in a long back and forth you over this. All I'm saying is please don't follow my advice. You clearly think its wrong so don't waste any more of your time. Go do what you want. I hope you succeed.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:55 PM
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In my post, I try to make clear that you need the high energy approach to get the conversation going, and then you settle into a normal conversation after that. You can't, and shouldn't, act that way all night.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:51 PM
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I actually am writing a book, this is just one chapter.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:51 PM
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Lol you are so butthurt about this piece of advice. I'm telling you, don't do it if you don't want to fucking do it. I just know that in my life this advice has worked for all kinds of women. I think your real problem is not that I'm wrong, but you are just a mopey, negative guy and you don't even want to pretend to be positive and enthusiastic for even 10 seconds. That's why this is making you so mad. Well guess what - women don't want negative, mopey, low energy guys. Sorry.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:50 PM
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Look man, if you want to approach girls in a mopey, low energy way, do it. Who am I to argue with you? I hope you have lots of success.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:43 PM
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If you read the whole thing I make clear you only need to do this on first approach. After that you have to act normal.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:29 PM
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My point is that nobody should listen to you and you should be banned from this subreddit. There is nothing "red pill" about you. You're about as simpy as they come.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 04:55 PM
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No just read it dude. This will be the most valuable thing you will ever read about game.
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:45 PM
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This guy made a post a few days ago talking about how men should pay for prostitutes because cold approaching isn't worth it. Fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 01:47 PM
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Yeah sorry people aren't sitting around all day making free shit for your consumption. Also this is for a book I'm writing, I haven't even finished it yet. I wrote this to get real feedback.
/r/seduction06/04/25 06:36 PM
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What am I selling? I literally don't even have a link to a website. Also you still didn't explain what I said that was not true.
/r/seduction06/04/25 06:35 PM
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Why are you being defensive? Nobody has any idea why she shut you down, but I'm giving you my best guess. No matter how much a girl is into you, if you push too hard sexually they will completely lose interest in you. Maybe there was some other reason, but that's my best guess.
/r/seduction06/04/25 03:29 AM
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First, you should only go for the kiss if you feel a vibe. Just hanging out for 4 hours is not enough. Also it sounds like you kept making jokes about yall fucking after the vibe went south.
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:52 AM
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It's clear from the post that he kept pushing after she made clear she wasn't into it.
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:23 AM
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I disagree with everyone here. You came on too strong and made her feel pressured.
/r/seduction05/04/25 10:06 PM
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Dude what the fuck is wrong with you? Sometimes a question is just a question. Just tell her what kind of music you like. You can't live in a paranoid hellscape where you are afraid to answer basic questions. There is nothing more beta than overthinking "what kind of music do you like?"
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:43 AM
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That's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever read. Wanting to be accepted isn't a trait of insecure people. It's a fundamental human desire. No woman wants a cold, distant guy that doesn't even feel like he likes her.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 12:40 AM
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Before you make any decisions based on what you read here, please keep in mind that most guys are in this subreddit because they have failed in relationships and been screwed over by women, so you are not going to get an accurate barometer. Also, if you are college educated, do not have any children in pregnancy, and get married over 25, the divorce rate is not 50%. It's more like 10%.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 04:57 PM
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Don't do this. Go approach girls at a bar or something.
/r/seduction04/04/25 04:43 PM
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Dude you have no idea how insecure women are. If they think you don't like them they are not going to text you. It's good to be challenging and stingy with your attention,, but going silent after you've fucked her will just make her think you don't care about her. In any event, if texting "hey I had fun last night" after a long fuck session is gonna cause her to lose attraction to you, you were on thin nice with her anyway.
/r/seduction04/04/25 01:49 PM
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Dude you cant play these games after you have sex. Sex is a deeply intimate thing and if you go silent she will think you hit it and quit it. I've made this mistake before. Even waiting till night could ruin it.
/r/seduction04/04/25 12:14 PM
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You're a moron and don't understand female psychology. Women are extremely insecure and if you don't text them they will feel like you rejected them. Also after you have sex the fact that you paid shouldn't mean anything.
/r/seduction04/04/25 12:11 PM
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DM me and we can set up a consulting session.
/r/seduction04/04/25 03:57 AM
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Dude ugly duckling girls are the best. Consider yourself lucky. Go for it and stop being gay.
/r/seduction04/04/25 02:24 AM
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First, no girl is a 10. 10 means perfect and nobody's perfect. Even calling a girl a 10 is putting her on a pedestal. Second, there is no difference between a super hot girl and a normal girl. The only difference is in your own head. In fact, I think it's actually easier to game super hot girls because almost every single guy they interact with is either too scared to approach them or acts weird and insecure around them. Just like you are psyching yourself out, so does every other guy.
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:20 PM
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You always text her the next day and tell your you had fun. Then wait a few days to ask her out on another date.
/r/seduction03/04/25 11:06 AM
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Dude. Answer the question. How many girls did you approach in the last month?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 08:14 PM
3

I think a lot of it is that there have been no real good guides for game. Most guys fail because of deep psychological reasons (neediness, insecurity, feelings of inferiority) and tips and tricks from books on game won't change that.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 06:17 PM
1

Dude the Red Pill isn't your personal therapist to tell you what ever you want to hear to make you feel better. There is nothing "Red Pill" about getting hookers because you can't get laid. There is no reason for any man to have long dry spells. The problem is simply that you need to improve your game. How many girls have you approached in the last month?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 05:54 PM
14

If you're having long dry spells you are either unattractive or have crappy game. In any event, you need to fix that.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 10:50 AM
23

Dude fucking hookers is like 1% of the fun of fucking a woman that wants to fuck you. Hookers are mean, unenthusiastic, usually psychotic, usually on drugs, and way more expensive than just going on dates. Hookers also have a bunch of rules you need to follow and they will kick you out the second you bust a nut whereas a real girl will enthusiastically fuck you all night. And oftentimes with a hooker there is a crazy black guy right outside your door ready to run you and kick your ass the second…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 10:48 AM
21

Lol. You can. Calling them providers is simp behavior.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 10:43 AM
1

It's not gonna happen. Go meet people in person.
/r/seduction01/04/25 04:34 AM
2

19) People will wisen up and realize that skin color, ethnicity, and religion do not divide them anywhere nearly as much as wealth and class do Lol this prediction was a cornerstone of Marx's theory of why the world would become communist and it never came true.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 02:38 AM
7

Oh so you have no actual thoughts or advice to share. I should have read through your posts before I responded to you lol.
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:54 PM
1

Did she dump you? If yes, then you don't owe her anything.
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:34 PM
10

Why don't you explain what is wrong with it the post without just making a snarky comment?
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:04 PM
8

I agree its a balance. This is just one excerpt from a longer book, and to be honest, most of my book is about the opposite end of the spectrum: being challenging and finicky with your attention. But you're right, I need to sprinkle in more concrete examples. As for "you look fucking amazing today." I know it sounds crazy, but it works. It is direct, confident, and bold. But you can't say that and be a needy simp. You have to make the woman really feel like you JUST wanted to compliment her, and…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/25 03:47 PM
13

What is wrong with what I said?
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:22 PM
11

You don't need to wait until they are staring at you. Just walk up and approach them.
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:04 PM
1

All the advice in this thread is wrong. It's not your job to "interpret" her signals. Just walk up to her and compliment her and start to walk away. If she shows she wants to keep talking to you, she will make that clear.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:07 AM
3

Dude you can't let your own baggage dictate how you act around women. What happened to before is not her fault and if you don't make a pass at her she will feel like you just want to be her friend.
/r/seduction26/03/25 08:26 PM
23

all the losers that whine that articles are too long are not getting any pussy. Sorry not everything can be like a porno movie where sex is instanteous. In the real world you need to do some work.
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:32 PM
19

1) self improvement and game are not the same thing. You can improve all you want but still fail with women if you have not learned game. 2) you are too obsessed with girls and probably come off as desperate and too emotionally invested. Just have faith it will happen and stop trying so hard.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 05:21 PM
15

I agree with all this, but I will add that the woman should help in some way. Ideally, you are the chef and she is your "assistant" but she needs to help somehow. I actually have a story in my upcoming book about how I blew it with a girl because she offered to help and I turned her down, which created a weird dynamic where I was her servant cooking for her.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/25 05:25 PM
-2

Go to my website woujo.com. I have a bunch of articles about this.
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:00 AM
4

You are coming off as needy and low self esteem. This is all subconscious.
/r/seduction17/03/25 02:55 AM
2

I have learned that Overconfidence is the key to this game shit. What have you learned? Lol
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:35 AM
2

Common sense actually is the wrong answer in game dawg. But again, we don't need to argue. You will see 😀
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:33 AM
1

I know I'm right. Yall will learn lol
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:25 AM
-8

It's your job as the man to make the conversation fun. If you try to make it fun and she still refuses to contribute, move on.
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:44 AM
9

Saying this is needy and lame. You don't need to give a dramatic speech, just move on
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:43 AM
0

Ok lol you win bro. Go have fun tonight.
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:27 AM
1

Move on dude. Nothings gonna happen unless you are there in person. Call her when you're in town but other than that don't worry about it.
/r/seduction15/03/25 03:50 AM
-5

Ok lol agree to disagree. Like I said do.what you want.
/r/seduction15/03/25 03:49 AM
4

Don't hit on girls that are working unless.they show extremely strong interest in you.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:28 AM
1

1) game, 2) looks, 3) everything elae.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:27 AM
1

Go approach girls in person and stop wasting your time thinking about this shit.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:27 AM
1

There is no special advice for London. Women are basically the same everywhere.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:27 AM
-1

No it's the right answer from a guy who has fucked more girls than most of the guys in this subreddit will ever talk to.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:25 AM
-15

No it's beta and needy. This is obviously a shit test to see if she can make you act stupid, and it will work on 99% of guys here. But do what you want.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:25 AM
-7

Good. If that's all it took for her to lose interest she wasn't that into you in the first place.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:24 AM
-39

No. You don't want to look like a horny loser. The right answer is "cool" and that's it.
/r/seduction14/03/25 07:38 PM
7

no definitely do not do this
/r/seduction14/03/25 07:01 PM
2

I have a video on YouTube showing how to do it. Search for Woujo and approaching
/r/seduction14/03/25 05:24 PM
1

Texting is not working for your validation. Its more like fishing for attention. Working for your validation is actually doing things for you, which she is not doing. You need to move on. She is using you for attention.
/r/seduction14/03/25 11:22 AM
1

Did you even read it?
/r/seduction13/03/25 10:41 PM
5

I'm not saying to take her away from her friend. I agree that you should be nice to the friend. But you should be leading the interaction. The friend should not be in charge.
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:33 PM
26

As a man you need to be able to retake the lead in any conversation. If you're not aggressive enough to take the lead in a convo she will see you as a weak wuss.
/r/seduction13/03/25 09:26 AM
1

I live in New York but DM me. Here is my website: www.woujo.com.
/r/seduction12/03/25 11:11 AM
27

The hotter the girl, the less they get approached. Also most guys are ass at approaching girls so their approaches go nowhere.
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:01 PM
1

How exactly is she working for your validation now?
/r/seduction11/03/25 04:06 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction10/03/25 02:25 PM
7

Dude if you want to learn game you need to be able to read long things. Not everything is a 5 second TikTok. Your Gen Z brain is fried by TikTok and social media and you want everything to be simple and short. Women are complicated and they ruin tons of guys lives and make guys lose tons of money so if you aren't going to take the time to learn this shit you will end up broke and with no pussy.
/r/seduction10/03/25 01:47 PM
4

Go up to them, give a genuine, real compliment, and then say something like "how is your trip going"
/r/seduction10/03/25 10:17 AM
4

I dont mean the actual guy Brad Pitt. I mean you should act like an attractive guy with lots of options. Holy Autism.
/r/seduction10/03/25 10:11 AM
1

I think going out alone is better. If a girl asks why you are alone you can just make some excuse (my friend got into an argument with his girlfriend and went home]
/r/seduction09/03/25 11:56 PM
16

The framework is this: you are focused on your purposes and you dont give your attention to anybody until they have worked on it. That means you don't validate yourself to anybody who hasn't worked for it, you don't let people distract you from your mission, and you don't let people disrespect you. The best answer to most shit tests is just "ok." Under my framework the best response to this shit test is to just move on because you are not going to validate yourself to a woman who hasn't worked f…
/r/seduction09/03/25 09:10 PM
19

I've never seen a woman ask this and to be honest, even trying to answer this is failing. I would respond to a dumbass question like this in the following way: "hey sorry from this question I can tell we won't be compatible. Good luck on your journey." It's not your job to bet and grovel for her validation. Think about it: would Brad Pitt sit and answer this question? No - he would go find another girl.
/r/seduction09/03/25 09:07 PM
6

There is no "snap game" just ask her out
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:13 AM
8

You can't think about leagues. In fact, you can't think about yourself at all. You just have to think about how much fun you are having and if the girl is appealing to you.
/r/seduction09/03/25 01:53 AM
4

The more you think the more you take yourself out of the game. Yes I'm sure that your looks are more appealing in some environments than others. But thinking about anything will hurt you. You will get in your head and become self conscious. You have to live in the moment. Don't think about anything but the girl in front of you in that moment.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:42 AM
11

I have no idea. I've never hung out in Europe. But thinking about this shit is usually a waste of time. Girls everywhere want to fuck.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:23 AM
19

Sorry you're gonna have to pick one. Either women that wanna fuck black guys or WW2 historical sites. You can't have both.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:12 AM
-3

Most of this is a waste. 3 good sessions with a good dating coach like me will do you much better
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:36 AM
1

Dude where have you been. I'm a huge fan of yours. I even reached on your old website to book a session.
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:07 AM
1

Yeah I obviously don't know anything about this particular guy but this is generally the pattern for most guys that want to fuck a lot of girls and quickly get tired. By the way, are you DJ Fuji?
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:03 AM
1

A few things: You are addicted to the novelty and challenge of getting a new girl You are deeply insecure, so you think if a girl likes you something is wrong with her, so you lose interest once a girl likes you. You subconsciously see yourself as the less powerful person in the relationship seeking the more powerful persons acceptance, so when you get the position of power you lose interest because you are no longer comfortable in the power dynamic.
/r/seduction02/03/25 04:21 PM
1

Did you say "grab some beer and have fun"? That's a terrible thing to say. "Have fun" will be interpreted by most girls as expecting you will go right to sex, and most women will be scared off by that.
/r/seduction01/03/25 11:21 PM
4

If a girl doesn't respond she's not feeling you. Period.
/r/seduction01/03/25 05:37 AM
1

It's not your job to play psychic and read their mind to figure out what they really want. If they are not working for your validation they get dismissed. Period.
/r/seduction28/02/25 06:41 AM
4

Dude that's a very hard rejection. Also girls don't play hard to get. If they like you, they can't resist you.
/r/seduction28/02/25 02:31 AM
25

I have done this so long that I know that the fun of the successes outweighs the pain of the rejections by far. But you have to learn from the rejections to get to that point.
/r/seduction28/02/25 02:23 AM
1

Thanks for your feedback. This section is part of a larger chapter i am working on so there is a lot of context missing. I agree that women feel a powerful magnetic attraction to emotionally connect and often to the wrong guy. This tendency to resist is a counterforce and when the drive to invest is stronger than the counterforce, she falls hard.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/25 02:16 PM
16

sorry dude but girls don't want relationships like this. 99% of "FWB" relationships only happen because the girl is either seriously fucked in the head or because she actually wants to be the guy's girlfriend, but he won't commit, so she will settle for whatever she can take.
/r/seduction24/02/25 05:33 AM
3

Well all girls have the tendency to resist investing but that doesn't mean that they don't sometimes quickly invest if they feel an overwhelming attraction to you. Also the tendency to resist is stronger in damaged girls and younger girls are often less damaged.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/25 04:09 PM
4

If her friends get to know you and like you, they should be good with it.
/r/seduction21/02/25 02:29 AM
6

Depends on where you go. It's very easy at some places and hard at some other places.
/r/seduction21/02/25 02:28 AM
6

It's not worth rebutting. I read it and there is no clear, reasoned line of argument. They're just throwing everything they can at the wall to say "nuh uh." Also, they make a bunch of assumptions about what I'm saying that I never said. For example, I never said that men don't do this shit too. Also, a lot of their argument is "why didn't you write a 500 page book to explain this incredibly complex phenomena." I obviously can't go into every single nuance of this subject.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/25 04:19 AM
37

How long has this gone on? If this is more than 3 or 4 times, then you need to move on.
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:11 AM
6

People who are mature enough to be in tune with their emotions and have an ounce of courage, will eventually clear up their mind and stop tip toeing like in a romantic movie. what percentage of the population do you think are like this? Also, as I've made clear, this stuff is subconscious, so most people do not even know what is going on.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/25 01:03 AM
1

They don't have to participate in your hobby. They just have to know you are living a good life.
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:33 PM
3

Don't do anything just to get women. Do things because you enjoy them. Find a creative, artistic hobby you enjoy.
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:31 PM
14

So what? Even if everybody laughed at you and you had to leave in shame, so what? You'll be fine. You won't die. It's worth it for the possibility of building a good relationship with somebody.
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:26 PM
5

Why are you on this subreddit if you think you are unattractive and you think the advice only applies to attractive people? Sorry there are no tricks for ugly guys. If you are unattractive then you need to become attractive.
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:19 AM
2

Yes but calling yourself "average" is loser mentality
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:19 PM
2

Naw it's taking forever to write.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/25 04:07 PM
9

Oh I don't think you should be trying to figure out if a woman is emotionally invested in you. That's none of your business. The only thing you should do is reward women based on their actions. If they work for your validation, you give it to them. If not, you don't.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/25 12:41 AM
4

Where is the contradiction? I'm not seeing it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/25 09:49 PM
30

If girls are saying this stuff, you are pushing too hard and are coming off as desperate and needy. Girls don't just randomly tell you they have a boyfriend, and in fact, they often hide it if they are enjoying your company and like the attention. Girls should be chasing you, not the other way around.
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:10 PM
67

I've been to porn star parties but honestly it's not worth the time. They are there for work and are gonna be surrounded by creepy guys acting simpy. Standing out from that crowd will be hard. The only reason you are even thinking of doing this is because you think they will be easier because they are "whores." They're not. Go meet girls at a regular bar.
/r/seduction10/02/25 06:20 PM
7

This is good advice, but I would slightly adjust. I would say "focus on whether you are actually enjoy the interaction with her." If you are genuinely enjoying the interaction she will probably enjoy it too, which means you will connect. But if you are pretending to enjoy it when it sucks she will not connect with you.
/r/seduction09/02/25 03:42 AM
1

Say "no" and have some self respect. You want a relationship not a prostitute.
/r/seduction08/02/25 09:58 PM
2

Lots of people are broken and act shitty. It's not your problem. Move on.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:53 AM
2

I'm really proud of you.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:44 AM
2

I didn't say hot women aren't on apps. I'm saying they don't date men off apps.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:39 AM
2

You are way too emotionally invested in this girl. She rejected you and was rude to you and you are still trying to figure out how to impress her. Move on and forget she ever existed. If you see her ignore her.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:31 AM
3

Really attractive women don't date guys off apps. They go to the nicest, most high end places in the city and guys approach them.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:30 AM
11

Learn a lesson and don't do it again
/r/seduction04/02/25 02:57 AM
1

I've approached thousands of girls in my life. How many have you approached?
/r/seduction29/01/25 11:58 PM
3

That is just your ego talking. Nobody is caring about you.
/r/seduction29/01/25 07:26 PM
4

No. This never happens. You are just trying to find excuses to not appeoach. I've approached girls with their boyfriend there. Nothing bad happens. The guy just says this is my girlfriend and I move on.
/r/seduction29/01/25 10:20 AM
15

What the fuck is the point of questions like this?? Dudes are so obsessed with overthinking they will literally create any weird thing to overthink about. It doesn't matter. Every city has more girls than you could ever approach. Stop wasting your brain cycles on shit like this that doesn't matter.
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:23 AM
1

Go meet girls in person.
/r/seduction28/01/25 11:58 PM
2

The better he gets with women, the less scarcity he will have. But he also has to eliminate scarcity to start with. Women can smell it on you.
/r/seduction28/01/25 09:01 PM
12

It's scarcity. You don't feel like you can get the women you want so even when a woman shows you the tiniest bit of interest you hyper fixate on her because your subconscious brain thinks this is its only shot.
/r/seduction28/01/25 06:50 PM
1

Where are you located? I coach guys but I'm in New York.
/r/seduction28/01/25 10:00 AM
9

Yeah but thinking about this is stupid.
/r/seduction26/01/25 04:10 PM
16

What's the point in even thinking about any of this?
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:45 PM
1

The next time she asks you to cook for her, say "why would I cook for somebody who doesn't wanna hang out with me? If you want me to cook for you, I need to get to know you first."
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:53 AM
13

Jesus christ so much thinking. Just go for it and leave if it goes bad.
/r/seduction26/01/25 05:51 AM
12

Dude women are more complicated than this. Women ride the wave of their emotions and she might have curved you the first time for tons of reasons that had nothing to do with you. But if a girl seriously dates you and then curves you, you should never take her back.
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:19 AM
11

This is good advice if you genuinely don't care about them, but lots of guys catch feelings and end up going back to the girl and acting simpy. In that case it might be better to block.
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:18 AM
-2

This is horrible advice. Once a girl meets you, she should want to hang out with you. If you feel like you need to "prove" yourself with a cool IG profile, you have already lost. Also, asking for a phone number shows you have balls. IG is less committal than a phone number. Girls give their IGs to everybody, but they only give their numbers to guys they want some kind of relationship with. Guaranteed OP is not getting any poon with this system.
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:15 PM
-1

Probably not. She now sees you as an aggressive creep and a threat. Just move on.
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:48 AM
-2

You are pushing too hard and coming off as needy and desperate. Girls are feeling pressured by you. Also there is no mystery or challenge. You are making it clear you like them and want to fuck. Don't go for a kiss until the 2nd or 3rd date.
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:45 AM
5

A lot of people got offended. Honestly guys learning pick up have the most fragile egos I've ever seen.
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:30 AM
-11

I've fucked more girls in the past year than you will fuck in your entire life. I know for a fact that only girls that are absolutely crazy want a guy to tell them he just wants a hookup. That's guaranteed pussy drying.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:40 AM
19

You have to meet girls in person. But also no girl wants to be told that a guy just wants to hook up. Even when girls have casual sex, they need to feel like there is a connection. No girl wants to feel like a piece of meat.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:11 AM
1

I have no idea when it will be done. I've been working on it forever. I am being a perfectionist.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/25 02:39 AM
16

Dude trying to categorize women and then adjust your behavior based on some dumb assumption you made about them is stupid. Just have fun and enjoy yourself. Also nobody likes to be treated like they're dumb, even dumb people.
/r/seduction24/01/25 02:33 AM
-2

If you can't meet women in Miami you are gay. Miami is an amazing place to meet women.
/r/seduction24/01/25 02:31 AM
2

Everything matters to some degree but there is no point in thinking about because 1) you cannot change it and 2) confidence and having fun Trumps 99% of the other factors.
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:32 AM
0

Girls say this for 2 reasons: 1) you are not actually showing interest in them, or 2) you are not talking to them enough before you go in for the kill
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:24 AM
4

No you're not an ATM and you're not buying a prostitute.
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:30 AM
23

You should pay on the first date but don't do anything expensive. By the second date she should be offering to pay. If she doesn't, she is milking you.
/r/seduction21/01/25 11:38 PM
6

For example, imagine you make eye contact with a beautiful woman at a bar or a nightclub. No matter how attractive she may think you are, she will probably not approach you because most women are too neurotic to approach a man they do not know. So you must “open the door” by approaching her – you can compliment her on something she is wearing, her makeup, or her overall vibe and energy. It may sound silly, but the fact that she put time and effort into her outfit and makeup means she technically…
/r/seduction20/01/25 02:54 PM
2

I actually addressed this question in the book I am writing. Here is an excerpt: So how do get a woman to chase you? Well, first you must be attractive. Sorry, but there is no are tricks that can make women chase you if they do not think at least something is attractive about you, either in terms of looks, personality, interests, emotional experience, or something else. Some women will find you attractive and some will not, and there is not much you can do to change that. All you can do is work …
/r/seduction20/01/25 02:53 PM
5

It's not your job to read people's minds. Ask her out one more time. If she says no, move on.
/r/seduction17/01/25 06:19 AM
1

Go make some kind of art and meet people that way. Most PUAs are fucked up people.
/r/seduction17/01/25 06:05 AM
11

Why are you asking what their major is? They know you don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction15/01/25 03:32 AM
3

It didn't change anything. As long as you're not a creep you will be fine.
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:37 AM
1

I do incorporate stuff from reddit comments in my writing sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/25 01:03 AM
1

This is going to be very hard to pull off and will require extreme luck. Basically you have to hope to be sat next to a crazy lunatic. Not worth trying.
/r/seduction11/01/25 03:58 AM
1

No. Wrong. Don't do this. No. Terrible advice.
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:59 PM
61

Most of the difficulty is in your head. YOU treat them differently. It sounds like you are not even approaching them and you are instead concocting fantasies in your head about why they are too good for you before you even talk to them. And don't ever say "she was such a mommy" to a girl.
/r/seduction10/01/25 02:35 PM
1

That's actually a very deep question. One thing I have learned about human psychology is that it is a very complicated and hard to put it into words, so I often have to explain the same thing in multiple different ways. In this case, I say that emotional investment is caused by action for two reasons, but you can think of those 2 reasons as really just one reason. Being in the same tribe as somebody and engaging in reciprocal transactions with them are basically the same thing, so maybe what I a…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/25 02:34 PM
1

What do you mean? What are the other reasons?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/25 01:42 PM
1

Ive fucked a girl i worked with but no i never "seduced" one.
/r/seduction09/01/25 07:41 PM
1

Your post doesn't say anything.
/r/seduction09/01/25 07:17 PM
1

Dude you are out of your mind. You are way too emotionally invested in a woman you never even met yet. You have no idea why she rejected you and you are just making up scenarios in your own head to make yourself feel like shit. Let's assume for the sake of argument she found somebody better than you. So what? Just go find somebody else. You don't have to date every woman in the world. All you can do is just improve yourself so it doesn't happen again.
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:27 PM
1

I've approached thousands of girls. If she is there with a guy usually he or she will politely tell you and then you smile and leave. I have never seen a BF or husband get nasty and the only way I imagine it going south is if you continue to harass her after he makes clear he is with her or you act douchey to the guy. I personally immediately end the interaction if I find out she is there with a guy. I am not there to take anybodys girl nor do I want any problems. I have never had any situation …
/r/seduction09/01/25 10:36 AM
3

This is gonna be a section of my book.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/25 09:52 PM
1

You are pushing too hard. She should be chasing your attention, not the other way around. If a woman is telling you to shoo, you need to take a big step back and let her come to you.
/r/seduction08/01/25 03:35 PM
12

That's true. Trying to control is a major indicator somebody is beta, which is yet another reason it doesn't work.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/25 03:07 PM
50

When it comes to control, there is a duality in womens' behavior. One on hand, women want to be controlled and dominated by a man they see as the high-value "alpha male." On the other hand, women actively resist being controlled by anybody else. It is an evolutionary survival mechanism: if a woman let's herself be controlled by a low-value male, she "belongs" to his tribe and therefore cannot belong to the alpha male's tribe, so she is at an evolutionary disadvantage. Women try to keep their fre…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/25 02:41 PM
4

Sometimes girls don't like you and there is nothing you could have done differently. Usually girls reject you for the following reasons: You were boring, you talked about yourself (or other shit she didn't care about) too much, you were too emotionally invested, you did something that indicated that you are just too different than her (for example, she's a hardcore liberal and you tell her you like Trump], you were boring, you made her feel cold and rejected, you did something that made her feel…
/r/seduction08/01/25 12:31 AM
1

Don't do this. Just have a normal conversation with them.
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:57 PM
1

All this advice is for a girl who already finds you attractive. This is part of a bigger chapter where I explain that you must be less emotionally invested than she is, and therefore you must do less for her than she does for you.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/25 10:17 PM
1

Where did I pursue a woman who is not interested in you?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/25 10:03 PM
180

You don't "seduce" coworkers. If you bang a coworker, which you shouldn't do, it should happen organically. They should chase you. Hitting on coworkers is a terrible idea.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:10 PM
6

Why would you even respond to somebody insulting you like this.
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:20 PM
2

This isn't a shit test. This is an outright insult. You need to learn the difference. You have no responsibility to respond to insults. Nor should you. Responding to that makes you look weak and gay. I would just not respond at all and ghost her. If she ever reached back out to you, I would say "sorry I can't have a relationship with a girl with a bf" make her beg to get back into your good graces.
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:20 PM
35

Women are turned off if they feel like you are emotionally invested in them when they have done nothing to deserve it. If you haven't really spent time with her and she has never been nice to you, then she will be suspicious as to why you "like" her. She will think you just want sex which, realistically, is true.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:22 PM
1

I made a video about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YGTad_eaP1A&t=231s
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:01 AM
31

You already blew it but you might as well add Becky and try messaging her. It probably won't work but its the only thing you can try at this point.
/r/seduction02/01/25 05:28 PM
6

Even if the handsomest guy in the world asked a girl to fuck, it wouldn't work. Women need to build emotional investment in a guy before they want to hang out with him, much less sleep with him. You don't need game because you are an ugly loser who needs to beg for women's validation. You need game because women have certain emotional needs that must be met before they want to have a romantic relationship with you.
/r/seduction02/01/25 10:55 AM
6

You are pushing way too hard. You should approach confidently and with enthusiasm, but the moment they show lack of interest, you should move on. This woman is either really gay or pretending to be gay to make you go away because you were pushing too hard. Also, you should not start asking a woman to go on a date with you or even walk to the other side of the bar with you until she has emotionally invested in you a bit. You need to build up by having a nice conversation.
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:43 AM
10

Losers are just looking for an excuse to not put in effort.
/r/seduction02/01/25 01:03 AM
-7

Her text was a shit test. Your response should have been "ok." Not everything needs a response. . But you can salvage this. Just text her in a few weeks with a picture of dog with sunglasses. If she wants to hang out she can ask.
/r/seduction01/01/25 08:22 AM
18

Who cares? Why even think about this? Are you gonna change your "look" for women?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/25 02:26 AM
8

No this is actually a major reason guys fail with women. They get in their head and make a million assumptions that are usually completely wrong and end up not approaching because of that.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:59 PM
-3

That's a dumb generalization too. Stop trying to categorize and define people.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:55 PM
2

It's not about numbers. It's about learning how to do it. Once you learn how to do it it will start working.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:26 PM
9

Do you know this girl in real life? Generally speaking, reaching out to girls you don't know on social media doesn't work unless you are a celebrity or something. Go approach girls in real life.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:24 PM
6

No
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:23 PM
5

No this won't work.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:23 PM
-8

You need to stop making assumptions about women. You have no basis for saying that women at nightclubs are more "stuck up" than girls at raves. You should approach anybody you think is hot and let the chips fall where they may.
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:55 PM
2

Women definitely don't like jealous men, especially if he looks insecure while.being jealous. You should, however, defend a woman if she is being harassed by somebody she is not interested in.
/r/seduction29/12/24 04:30 AM
1

Walk up and compliment her.
/r/seduction28/12/24 04:50 AM
3

I'm not even gonna read this, but I'm sure this is just negative thinking and excuses.
/r/seduction28/12/24 01:58 AM
1

No this is beta thinking. If you think you're getting screwed in the dating game now, it's just gonna get worse if you sell yourself to girls as an ATM. You are probably being too needy and emotionally invested. If you need help, you can reach out to me.
/r/seduction28/12/24 01:56 AM
-2

This is the dumbest fucking thing I have ever read and the moderators should delete it. This is just excuses to not take action. I am 99% sure OP hasn't approached any women in the past month. Mods please delete this nonsense.
/r/seduction24/12/24 02:39 PM
2

He wants to tell himself approaching doesnt work so he doesn't have to do it.
/r/seduction23/12/24 10:56 PM
13

Guys are failing with women because of posts like this. They blame everyone but themselves. Men fail with women because they are weak. That's the only reason. Stop crying.
/r/seduction23/12/24 05:09 AM
12

Lol if you don't like narcissists you're gonna hate sex workers.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:43 AM
18

Yeah I'm mad that I tried to help a stranger on the internet, and he rejected my advice and now he's gonna get robbed by a coke whore. I'm not ashamed to admit I have feelings.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:26 AM
17

Listen bro. I can tell you've never even met one of these girls, much less had a relationship with one. Do whatever the fuck you want, but like I said, you're gonna get eaten alive. And they're gonna take all your money. You have no fucking idea what you're getting yourself into or who these women are. This is my last post on this dumbass post.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:25 AM
7

Also I'm the only guy that's actually had relationships with the type of woman you want so only my advice is valid. If you want to ignore it, go ahead, but again, you will go down in flames.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:16 AM
24

I can tell from your OP and this pathetic, defensive post that you are going to go down in flames. Also FYi sex workers don't like cucks, which is exactly what you come off as. You have some creepy fascination with prostitutes and they will sense that on a heartbeat and want nothing to do with you. I've had tons of hookers tell me they would never date a guy who paid for sex because that's pathetic. They will bang pimps but not tricks, and you're just a trick to them. Sorry I tried to help.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:12 AM
32

Here's something most people won't agree with: ALL women are looking for relationships. Girls usually end up in "casual" situations for one of 3 reasons: 1) they are obsessed with a guy and he won't give them a real relationship so all they can get is sex. 2) the guy they really like won't give them the time of day, so they bang a placeholder until they can get the guy they really like. 3) they are just damaged and can't emotionally comnect with anybody.
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:59 AM
12

This is the right answer.
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:54 AM
46

Here's how to bang sex workers. First, sex workers have nothing but extreme hate and contempt for their clients so do not ever, ever, ever buy a sex worker anything or pay for anything. Also do not reach out to her over OnlyFans or whatever. If you do that, she will see you as a client and take advantage of you for money. Second, you need to meet them in the real world. You need to go where hookers hang out, which is usually high end nightclubs, lounges, and hotel bars. Third, DO NOT talk about …
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:54 AM
11

I would say "me too" and then talk about something specific that happened on the date
/r/seduction21/12/24 07:19 AM
4

A tip for game, and life in general, is that you need to learn to do things even when you don't feel like doing them. If you always just follow your feelings life will turn out bad for you.
/r/seduction16/12/24 05:27 PM
5

Women are generally more neurotic than men. Your job is to make your interactions positive.
/r/seduction15/12/24 09:52 AM
9

How many "hood" girls have you smashed? Lemme guess. 0. You have on idea what the fuck you are talking about. Nothing is more weaksauce than changing yourself to fit what the woman wants. Women can tell you are putting on an act to make you like them, and it makes you look like a weak bitch with no frame. Also, women want something outside and above themselves. I have had plenty of "hood" women tell me they were interested in me because I was different from the normal guys they have had.
/r/seduction13/12/24 10:13 PM
1

This is a stupid post. There is nothing wrong with being interested in politics or having political opinions. In fact, if you don't have any opinions on politics girls will think you are a moron. The problem arises when you become hyper committed to one side and let it make you angry and emotional. Nowadays most political people are exhausting to be around because they are angry, annoying, negative, and make everything about how much they hate Trump or liberals. To be attractive to women, you mu…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/24 06:11 PM
23

This is how losers and simps think.
/r/seduction13/12/24 04:07 AM
110

Present yourself as an interesting alternative to the regular gang members and pieces of shit they normally hang out with. Don't try to be like them.
/r/seduction13/12/24 04:07 AM
34

5.Get a motorcycle -It will help with kino, emotions and will speed up the dating process. It is truly bizarre what kind of "takeaways" people come away with from this subreddit. No dude, you don't need to get a motorcycle. In fact, they are extremely dangerous. Jesus Christ.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/24 01:56 PM
1

You need to spend more time with them. A girl is not going to remember or care about a guy she spent 5 minutes talking to. You need at least 20 minutes.
/r/seduction08/12/24 04:27 PM
1

Your problem is that you are trying to entertain her. You should be trying to entertain yourself. Find a subject you find interesting, make sure she finds it interesting too, and then go from there. To get started you can just start with a broad question like "how was your day"?
/r/seduction07/12/24 10:31 PM
1

What's the point of this question? You should work on your body.
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:13 AM
0

I'm saying a woman should never feel like a guy is "pursuing" her. Women should be pursuing men. The man's job is just to be there and be fun and charming. If a woman has to say no to.you, you are already doing too much.
/r/seduction27/11/24 11:37 AM
0

Why the fuck would a woman say "let's just be friends" unless the guy was coming on to her in a way she didn't want? Use your common sense. Women don't randomly say "let's just be friends" unless they feel pressure from a guy.
/r/seduction27/11/24 11:13 AM
4

I say this for 2 reasons: 1) This is the mistake most men make, and 2) logically speaking, the reason women have to push him away is because he is coming on too strong. Women don't randomly say "let's just be friends" unless the guy is asking for a relationship.
/r/seduction27/11/24 10:53 AM
11

You show just a tiny bit less interest than she is showing you. You do a tiny bit less for her than she is doing for you.
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:09 AM
18

You're being too pushy and needy. The girls need to chase you, not the other way around. L
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:03 AM
1

You're probably acting needy. You're feeling desperate which is causing you to come on too strong.
/r/seduction24/11/24 11:59 PM
1

Right now the working title is "Outer game" but I don't know if that's a shitty name or not.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/24 02:53 AM
1

Nietzsche was actually against racism, nationalism, and anti semitism. His views were warped by the Nazis to serve their purposes. Also even if he were at anti semite, if somebody is right about something they are still right.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/24 02:51 AM
4

Sorry you think a girl wanting to be dominated in bed is fiction
/r/TheRedPill21/11/24 07:52 PM
1

Im not writing an academic paper. Also a lot of this stuff is not studied because it's politically incorrect to study. So if you don't believe it, that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/24 04:07 PM
1

Yeah you're right. Testosterone has nothing to do with womens attraction.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/24 04:02 PM
2

That's a little harsh. I would be a little softer, and maybe say something like "why you wanna join"?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/24 04:20 AM
65

See a date as her trying to impress you rather than you trying to impress her.
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:51 AM
32

Lol what do you mean by reconnaissance?
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:38 AM
1

Frame is how you act, not what you are. It's easier to have emotional power if you have real power, but plenty of guys who are very impressive suck at holding frame and other guys who are losers are good at holding frame.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 01:59 PM
2

I have a draft but I'm probably gonna rewrite it. I can post it on this subreddit this week to get some feedback.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 01:57 PM
1

I don't know, it's taking forever.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 02:09 AM
6

That's a good point. I should take out the word "trick" and replace it with something else.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 10:40 PM
3

The other part is on this Subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 10:06 PM
10

TLDR: Power is extremely important to women, so you must understand how to navigate their power games.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 08:46 PM
2

Yeah this is a section from a book I'm working on and I don't have the chapter numbers finalized yet.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 06:16 PM
7

You should never talk about your plates with your plates. Ever. There is no reason to. If a woman asks you if you are sleeping with other girls, you don't answer, unless you have both agreed to be monogamous (in which case, you say no).
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 03:27 PM
3

Its not your job to read her mind. Judge her by her actions. Is she working for your validation? Reward her. If not, move on.
/r/seduction17/11/24 06:31 AM
1

Dude. Sigma and omega are not real things. Alpha males and beta males are attested to in the science. Sigma and omega are not. These are just internet grifters making shit up because they know their audience has lots of introverts.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/24 02:51 AM
13

You are probably being too needy and touchy. Kino is a sensitive thing - you can only full blast once a girl has emotionally invested in you. touching people who aren't feeling you yet will drive them away.
/r/seduction16/11/24 04:22 PM
11

You are too in your head, which makes you needy. Women smell that and bail. You need to take a break from this shit and focus on other parts of your life.
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:11 AM
2

Thanks for this thoughtful comment. I agree that there is a social encouragement element to it, but I also think there is an inherent element to it too. Boys are also told to not be rude, loud, smell, etc. Boys are just harder to control because they can handle confrontation. You kind of even admit as much in your last sentence when you say it "feels" criminal to be assertive. Boys don't have that feeling.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/24 03:07 AM
1

You didn't ruin shit. "Sigma male" is made up bullshit to make losers feel better about themselves. If you want to go around feeling cool cuz you're a "sigma male" go ahead, but don't think that women are gonna give a shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/24 06:47 PM
1

"Sigma males" is a bullshit, fake concept designed to make antisocial losers feel like there is nothing wrong with them. There is no evolutionary or biological evidence for "sigma males" in the wild. Humans are social animals, and if you completely disconnected yourself from the tribe you would be nothing more than a wild animal.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/24 06:10 PM
1

Dude you and I both know that you are using this "women only care about looks" shit to justify not working on yourself. It's a sad and pathetic thing. Go be a follower and see how much women like you.
/r/seduction15/11/24 01:29 PM
1

The person with the best genes is the leader of the tribe. Evolution rewards genetics that are functional not those that just look good. A guy who is tall and looks good but can't take the lead would get killed in the jungle and not reproduce. And by the way, the only reason women are attracted to men who are tall and good looking is because those traits are associated with being a good leader.
/r/seduction15/11/24 12:28 PM
2

No. There are no secret tricks for ugly guys. The same rules apply. You will just get less success. Until, of course, you become attractive.
/r/seduction13/11/24 02:00 PM
1

Whatever you are, your critical reading skills suck.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/24 12:34 PM
1

I am not citing the Bible to say anything about morality or religion. I cited the Bible to say that people want a strong leader because the leader will fight their wars for them. That's a true fact about human nature and it would be true whether the Bible said it, Shakespeare, or anybody else. And yes it is clear you hate religion because you get triggered by just seeing the word Bible. You wrote this dumb word vomit about how I should never write about the Bible even though I was making a point…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/24 12:30 PM
1

I am not citing the Bible to prove that religion is true or that evolution is false. I am citing the Bible because it provides a good explanation of human nature. You shouldn't let your hatred of religion cause you to ignore true things just because religious people have said them.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/24 02:06 AM
1

Great enjoy your life. My advice to most men is don't joke about being gay or trans to get laid.
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:51 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:08 PM
12

Go meet girls in person. Quit with this social media shit. Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/seduction10/11/24 01:40 PM
2

You can't seduce a girl over Instagram. Go meet girls in person.
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:45 PM
7

Who cares? As long as you learn something from your mistakes each time you'll be fine. And btw you are acting cringey because you are thinking of yourself and trying to impress girls and validate yourself to them instead of just having fun.
/r/seduction09/11/24 05:31 PM
25

Stop thinking about yourself. Just think about having fun and enjoying the moment. Thinking about yourself always ends in failure.
/r/seduction09/11/24 05:28 PM
3

Youre afraid of rejection because your feelings of self worth come from how others treat you.
/r/seduction08/11/24 07:30 PM
1

The first king was Saul but later in the Bible Solomon did all the bad shit Samuel prophesied about.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/24 12:36 PM
5

It's amazing how somebody can read a long article like this and come away with the completely wrong conclusion. Where did I ever say nurture had nothing to do with it?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/24 03:05 AM
2

I have an article about this on woujo.com
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:24 AM
2

Dude I don't care if you believe me or not. Also no amount of testosterone will help you. Some gayness can't be cured.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/24 11:32 PM
2

So what are you actually doing to fight it other than cry about it on the internet? In my experience I've found that guys only care about broad social shit like feminism because they want an excuse to not improve themselves and fix real problems in front of them.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/24 08:01 PM
4

Jesus Christ, there is always sub autistic guy who completely misses the point. Here is a new paragraph I am adding for people like you: I am also not saying that your attractiveness as a man has a direct correlation to how much testosterone is pumping through your system. It is the general attitude and feelings that testosterone produces that women care about, not your specific hormonal level. A guy can have low testosterone but still act like a badass alpha male because he has learned how to b…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/24 03:08 PM
3

Because of this comment, and other comments like this, I am adding this paragraph to this section: I am also not saying that your attractiveness as a man has a direct correlation to how much testosterone is pumping through your system. It is the general attitude and feelings that testosterone produces that women care about, not your specific hormonal level. A guy can have low testosterone but still act like a badass alpha male because he has learned how to be confident, calm, and strong, whereas…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/24 03:07 PM
1

Yes it makes you look like a weak people pleaser. women like compassionate men but only after they have their own shit together.
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:44 AM
1

Dude you need to stop being homeless. I am usually the "girls dont care about money" guy but being homeless is extremely unattractive.
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:41 AM
1

This is completely wrong. Plenty of ugly guys have successful relationships with women and plenty of good looking guys get dumped. This is cope for ugly guys to not improve their game.
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:52 PM
1

No Im still writing it. It's taking forever.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 10:58 AM
2

You suck at Google then. Also that one line wasn't even the point of the article.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 10:58 AM
0

Stop crying and be a fucking man. Nothing is more weaksauce than being a victim.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 02:44 AM
7

Yeah but who gives a fuck? It's not a competition to see who is more oppressed. Wanting to be a victim is female shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 02:33 AM
20

I wouldn't do it. Guys are horny enough without you wearing something like that. Just go out and start talking to people, you will find what you are looking for.
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:19 AM
1

You need to get off the internet and interact with people in person.
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:54 PM
2

So I'm talking w/ some girl last week and got into semantic debate over the term 'pussy' as a derogatory term (for men) and she said, "it's misogynistic. Why not say cocks instead?" To which I replied, "a cock is hard and strong, a pussy is warm and soft. That's the etymology." So she says, "That's the problem." To which I reply, "What is the problem?" Nothing to say so she goes, "I'm gonna leave you w/ that." So I nonchalantly go back to reading my book as she tries to say 'nice to meet you' or…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/24 02:41 PM
1

Looks play a relatively small part in women's attraction. Also the "looks" women are looking for are characteristics of the leader: height, athleticism, confidence, etc.
/r/seduction04/11/24 11:37 AM
1

You don't need a wingman bro. Life isn't like the movies, women don't care if you're alone.
/r/seduction02/11/24 07:14 AM
4

This is almost certainly in your head. One thing I've learned is that your own mental and emotional state shapes how you experience the world. If you think all women are prides, you will experience women being prudes.
/r/seduction02/11/24 06:09 AM
1

You don't need a wingman.
/r/seduction01/11/24 01:50 PM
1

I'll do it. Go to my website woujo.com to see if you are down with my vibe
/r/seduction01/11/24 03:42 AM
3

Text her now. Don't wait.
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:59 PM
2

I hate this mindset so much. Assuming that every woman has a completely unique and idiosyncratic set of desires is setting yourself up to get taken advantage of because you will end up doing whatever you think will make the woman happy. But women do not want a guy that just bends to their desires. They want a guy who puts himself first, has his own life mission, and then accepts them in that mission if they work to deserve it. The new-agey, subjective view on relationships leads to men being sim…
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:57 PM
1

You don't think Obama could get laid he wanted? Also, I said like 5 times that its not about actual leadership but the FEELING of leadership.
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:55 PM
1

You completely missed the point. It's not about actually leading shit. It's about feeling like a leader. And if you think women are just getting bored of Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp well that's just insane.
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:12 PM
1

This is a first draft. I posted it here to get feedback. I'm gonna make a lot of changes based on this comment thread.
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:40 PM
1

I am writing a book. It is not out yet.
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:03 PM
2

It doesn't have to be "profound." Fact is, most guys are followers when they are around women.
/r/seduction31/10/24 04:44 AM
1

No this is what loser guys say justify why they are being lazy and not learning game. Tons of ugly guys get chicks because they take the lead.
/r/seduction31/10/24 04:43 AM
3

> “Yup I am a girl, just identify as a man tho” 🤷🏼‍♂️🤣 Don't ever say that to a girl. I'm all for self deprecating humor, but don't ever make any jokes about how you are gay, trans, a woman, or anything like that. Even if the girl knows you are joking it will make her less attracted to you.
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:42 PM
8

First of all, your post sounds like it was written by a 14 year old girl. Second, when a girl says no you just move on and act like nothing happened. If anything you can make a joke like "hey I tried" but definitely don't beg, act upset, get needy, etc. Also, you are just being needy at this point. You need to wait till the girl is "feeling it" to invite her up. You want her completely ready to go and get crazy on your dick, and girls that are not fully warmed up will not do that.
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:37 PM
11

Who gives a fuck what they think? Them saying you are a player is a good thing, it means they think you are attractive and can get lots of girls.
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:21 PM
7

Once a woman flakes go silent. If she wants to meet you she will propose another time. It looks like you are chasing girls that are not interested.
/r/seduction24/10/24 05:14 AM
6

Ugh no. This is somehow simultaneously needy and controlling and creepy. Don't do this.
/r/seduction24/10/24 05:13 AM
0

Preselection is a feeling, not a real thing. Women just need to think that other women like you - and you show this by being confident and not in awe of their femininity. For example, women sometimes say sexual things to see how you react. If you immediately start acting like a weirdo or creep because she said something sexual she will know that getting laid is a rare experience for you. But if you just play it cool then she will feel like this isn't your first rodeo, even if you are a kissless …
/r/seduction24/10/24 05:06 AM
-1

If movies influence you, you're an idiot. Everything that happens in movies is fake.
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:01 PM
-4

My website woujo.com
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:46 PM
2

Have fun, be challenging. The goal is to make her feel like you have a fun life and she is lucky to be included in it.
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:33 PM
9

Don't try to learn game from fiction. The writers of those movies and shows are not experts at game and they situations they depict are often not how it would play out in real life at all. In fact, TV shows and movies are often the opposite of what would really happen.
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:32 PM
7

Tricks, routines, and openers won't help you. You need to learn the fundamentals and actually learn how to create fun emotional experiences.
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:31 PM
1

The key to making a conversation fun is to make it fun for yourself without worrying about what she thinks. If you're not having fun, she's not having fun.
/r/seduction22/10/24 07:33 AM
2

Lol why are you so mad about this.
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:09 AM
-6

Dawg you need to stop shopping at the bargain bin
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:54 AM
37

No. "When are you free" is pussy repellent. You need to name a time and place. Stop giving bad advice.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:44 AM
-4

Go on a woman subreddit and ask what's the nicest way to tell a girl her pussy stinks. Also stop fucking nasty girls dawg. Part of the blame is on you.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:42 AM
3

If their pussy stimks tell them. That's lthe nicest thing you can do. But if you just feel turned off for no reason that's probably because you are scared of intimacy. Go to therapy.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:28 AM
24

Most people are together because of circumstances because the vast majority of men cannot successfully approach a stranger. If you develop that ability you open an entire universe for yourself.
/r/seduction20/10/24 03:07 AM
1

Ok thats rare. I wouldn't spend my time chasing that dragon. Go meet girls in person.
/r/seduction19/10/24 10:48 PM
1

No they don't
/r/seduction19/10/24 09:31 PM
0

They receive nudes from people that have built attraction with in person. Women don't send nudes to a guy they've never met who just messaged them.
/r/seduction19/10/24 09:05 PM
1

You can't make somebody like you over text
/r/seduction19/10/24 08:57 PM
1

You waited too long. Why wait a couple of days? You should text her the next day. Also sometimes the vibe just dies and she forgets about you.
/r/seduction18/10/24 04:47 AM
2

Sorry to say but this is common with men. A lot of men like the thrill of the chase but once they get what they want (sex) they lose interest. No amount of conversation will fix that. If anything it will make him feel like he can do it again. Sorry you fucked an immature insecure manchild.
/r/seduction17/10/24 10:16 AM
8

Sorry dude this is part of dealing with women. Feminist propaganda has made you think that men and women are the same and women don't do this shit but that's wrong. Women need to know their man isn't a little bitch so they are gonna test you. You either accept it or stay home and masturbate.
/r/seduction15/10/24 01:16 AM
10

This usually happens because you are acting needy. She shouldn't feel like you are chasing her, she should feel like she is chasing you. You should be the one saying these things, not her.
/r/seduction14/10/24 03:47 PM
2

There is no magic secret. You just have to stop seeing them as different and treat them like you treat 6s.
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:30 AM
1

No. You want a woman to like you. You don't want to buy a prostitute. You should make money because money is important for a good life, but for your relationships you should focus on becoming attractive and a fun, interesting person.
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:28 AM
1

Doesn't matter. If you start thinking about whether this particular girl is the "kind' of girl that will react well, you are already thinking too much. You should always just fucking go for it and approach any girl you want to talk to. Stop thinking.
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:43 PM
34

Youre too invested in this girl. You need to get out now before she drives you crazy.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:56 AM
6

Don't do shit like this to meet women. Go do it because you actually enjoy it.
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:05 PM
1

No there are no "leagues." There is no grand council that meets every year to determine what girls are good enough for which guys and vice versa. Now each particular person may have standards as to what they like and what they do not like, and what they feel like they are too good for, but because there is no grand council making the decisions each person has their own standards, so you have no idea if a particular girl thinks you are in her "league" or not.
/r/seduction09/10/24 12:45 PM
1

You're dumb and you over underestimate how autistic and weird the guys on this subreddit are
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:48 PM
10

Honestly your friend sounds like a loser. That's so much work when he can just approach girls in real life.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:43 PM
1

Ok good for you but I don't believe you. I also think that 99% of guys are not gonna get anything with cold messaging and they are only doing it because they are too afraid to approach in person.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:42 PM
1

I highly doubt you are taking lots of girls on dates by cold messaging them on FB or Instagram unless you are extremely good looking or a celebrity.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:38 PM
1

This is stupid. Stop making excuses and just go approach girls in real life.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:32 PM
1

I wrote an article about this: https://www.woujo.com/blog/2020/9/14/how-to-stop-being-creepy-and-needy
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:36 PM
0

Their outfit is their appearance.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:57 PM
-2

You are completely wrong. It's totally ok to compliment a woman's appearance. And what else are you gonna compliment her for? All you know about her is her appearance.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:37 PM
1

I made a video about this: https://youtu.be/04AHhLVdQiI?si=iWgIgFeK98gMlhPN
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:35 PM
3

You sound gay and insecure af. Don't play these lame games with women. Women can tell when you are playing power games and trying too hard to win and it makes you look insecure.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:17 PM
13

You can really approach girls anywhere but you have to find places that attract the kind of girls you like. And just start by complimenting them. You can go from there.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:15 PM
22

You can't. It's an almost 0% success rate unless you are a celebrity or something. Go outside and meet girls in person. Stop being a wuss.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:11 PM
1

No youre the one quitting. You want to quit chasing other girls and put all your eggs in one basket. If you had abundance you wouldn't even care about this girl.
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:11 AM
1

Don't. Move on with your life and talk to other girls. You are acting from scarcity, not abundance.
/r/seduction06/10/24 02:31 AM
11

Youre broke because you spend $200 on dates like a moron. The less you spend on dates the more attracted women are.
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:39 PM
29

Women like a challenge. They like to feel they need to work for your attention.
/r/seduction04/10/24 02:28 AM
0

They are paid to be nice, which most of the autists here will interpret as flirting. Like I said earlier, there are situations where you can hit on somebody at work but most of the losers here just wanna hit on girls at work because they have no game and it's a captive audience. The OP even admitted that. And asking for their numbers will just cause them to give you a fake number and then make it awkward the next time you to Starbucks.
/r/seduction29/09/24 03:25 PM
2

A lot of guys need to be jarred out of their feelings of inferiority
/r/seduction29/09/24 02:50 PM
1

Youre coming on too strong.
/r/seduction29/09/24 03:04 AM
1

That's not an excuse to take the easy way out and harass women at work. Go to some reading at woujo.com and then let's talk
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:38 AM
5

Yeah you're coping. Stop being fat. Go to the gym. And stop being negative on the internet.
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:07 AM
5

Dude your post is the definition of cope. Let me guess. You think you're ugly so you given up on approaching girls. Right? I've seen people like you a million times.
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:03 AM
3

This is completely wrong and horrible advice. Delete this post.
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:35 AM
1

The only time it's appropriate to hit on a girl at work is if she makes extremely clear she likes you and not just in a way that she is nice to all her customers. Otherwise just go out and approach regular women. You're being a ficking loser for even thinking about this.
/r/seduction28/09/24 11:27 PM
1

No that's not how you do it. You need to actually have a conversation with them before they give their number. Go to my website woujo.come to learn how to do this.
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:13 PM
-4

Sorry I hurt your feelings. Go hit on girls at work loser. Do whatever you want to do.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:55 PM
-1

Most of the losers in this subreddit that want to harass women at work don't understand subtext at all.
/r/seduction28/09/24 02:42 PM
12

That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. That's just a cope you created to hit on girls at work. Don't do it.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:21 AM
35

Don't do it. They are getting paid to be nice to you. The only reason you are even asking is because you are too afraid to ask regular girls in the wild.
/r/seduction28/09/24 01:34 AM
1

Eh I think even that shows that you are too invested in "winning." You need to show you do not care at all.
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:18 PM
2

Yeah that's why I say men should focus on having fun, not impressing women.
/r/seduction26/09/24 12:18 PM
3

You sound like you've never been around men trying to impress women. Shit like this happens all the time. And the way to build attraction with women is to have fun, lighthearted conversations. What do you talk to women about, nuclear physics?
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:48 AM
1

You could be making three possible mistakes: 1) You are not showing yourself to be a sexual being, which causes women to put you into the friendzone category right away. 2) You are not taking the lead, which makes you look passive and unattractive. 3) You are being needy.
/r/seduction15/05/24 06:44 PM
1

Don't text her "hi/hola." Obviously. Text her something fun and interesting from your interaction. Like "Oh my god I can't believe you were still partying at 11 PM after drinking all day" or "that party was so lame, I'm glad I met you." You need to take the lead and make the interaction fun.
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:03 PM
1

Dude this is a shit test dont lose your shit. Just roll your eyes, laugh, and walk away.
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