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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Where do men get the evidence for high female n-counts?		theredpill196	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 06:58 AM

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4	My mindset believes I damage women by using them for sex Ask yourself what you really want. A bunch of guys on an internet forum can't figure that out for you. It's good to remember that having sex with women will have some impact on their lives as well. Are you having sex in a way that's ethical and will leave both of you better off, or are you preying on their vulnerabilities and emotional triggers to get them in bed and leave them feeling used? There's nothing inherently wrong with sleeping around, but the way in which you do it makes a different. …	/r/askTRP	02/07/17 09:32 AM
3	Where do men get the evidence for high female n-counts? That's not the same thing. I'm not asking for scientific research exclusively. Evidence, even in your own experience, is a good idea for any idea that you have. I can look at a girl and use that as evidence of the claim that "That girl is fat." That's what I'm talking about. Illimitableman is saying that relying exclusively on statistical data and formal research is a fallacy. I'm saying that that stuff is all good, but I'm asking for concrete evidence of any sort, including personal experience.…	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 05:01 PM
1	Where do men get the evidence for high female n-counts? Of course, the only real answer.	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 04:31 PM
2	Where do men get the evidence for high female n-counts? Thanks for this. One of the best responses I've seen around here. Yeah, I don't really judge girls for sluttiness since I'm not planning on ever marrying or getting into an arrangement where I'd stand to lose things financially. I hold nothing against them, but it's still a bad value proposition for a man since he becomes commoditized when she can just jump ship at her convenience. I screen a lot just for plates since false rape accusations and STDs are a thing,so I'm mostly volcel and might jus…	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 04:30 PM
1	Where do men get the evidence for high female n-counts? Yeah, I didn't say like it was impossible or even plausible, but I was wondering where the evidence that this was the norm came from. In terms of it being possible, I totally agree. I just didn't know guys verified that this actually happened for the majority. I believe it, but I couldn't prove it for myself, only from what I've heard, which I just take for granted to be safe and not get tricked into commitment.	/r/askTRP	15/06/17 04:29 PM
1	Finally there and don't know what to do? Women and sex can't fulfill you. Try working on a life purpose. Have a goal that really inspires you and which you can dedicate your life toward. You were like the starving villager that thought getting regular food would be all you need for a happy life. You worked your way out of poverty and can afford to take your family out to dinner or get stuff from the supermarket whenever you want now. But you're still not fulfilled. Find something that will sustain you.	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 11:54 PM
4	We are surrounded by idiots - there is no reason you can't move up I don't really get that feeling around anyone anymore. I've hung around people who would easily be considered the top 1% of the social hierarchy: mega-millionaires, runway models, typical hot girls, bodybuilders, atheletes, intellectual elite,etc. In my experience, humans are far too nuanced to really pidgeon hole. Sure you can focus on certain attributes, which is often what people do with things valued in their specific culture. In western culture and increasingly in the east, we're focused on…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 11:33 PM
4	There's an important difference between not giving a fuck and being a douchebag. Intentionally being a douchebag is a bad move. However, I'd argue that it is a necessary part of development when your social calibration isn't up to par and you need to learn to be more assertive. That's why cold approach in big venues where you're virtually anonymous, like Vegas, are great places to improve game. You can take risks and rack up reference experiences without developing a reputation. Overtime the douche will become the exciting guy who knows right where the boundary lies because …	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 01:23 AM
3	We are surrounded by idiots - there is no reason you can't move up I find that disdain is a by-product of incomplete understanding. I'd like to recommend a book: Thinking in Systems: A Primer by Donella H. Meadows. When instead of blaming a particular element of a system, say a person who isn't working well, you instead look at the broader perspective, examples being "What incentivizes poor performance ; How can I better understand the situation; What factors are causing this person to act this way?; etc." , a lot of resentment will disappear by virtue of seein…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 01:12 AM
2	We are surrounded by idiots - there is no reason you can't move up It also depends on what your values are. I find comparisons backfire in most cases unless you're using them as a source of inspiration. Better to be intrinsically motivated by a juicy vision than by some ambiguous idea of being better than others.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 08:29 PM
4	We are surrounded by idiots - there is no reason you can't move up Top 10-20% of what though, SMV? I'd say most Nobel Laureates, Field's medalists, Turing Prize winners, etc. are low SMV, but I wouldn't consider them losers.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 08:27 PM
1	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! Thanks for the heads up. I looked it up and you're right. I suppose it's often misused in the vernacular.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 11:31 AM
2	The Red Pill is just another Blue Pill What do you recommend bottom-of-the-barrel ugly guys do with their lives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/17 06:17 AM
2	Spinning plates doesn't give me a sense of abundance or make me happy There's been research on the relative pleasure of certain states: http://imgur.com/yqLA5Zd People who have achieved persistent non-dual awareness often via 10,000 hours+ of intense meditation live their entire lives in a constant state more ecstatic than sexual orgasm. Part of the reason guys are so needy for women is because they've only experienced Dual State w/o non-dual exp (3) and Sexual Orgasm (8). They don't know how deep the rabbit hole goes.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 02:20 AM
2	Spinning plates doesn't give me a sense of abundance or make me happy Practice meditation. It will transform your life even more than lifting. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/this-britain/the-happiest-man-in-the-world-433063.html	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 10:46 PM
7	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! I think the problem also largely stems from the fact that men don't know what women mean by this. Being "nice and treating her like a living thing and not an object" isn't in anyway against TRP philosophy, but you have to know what it actually means, not misinterpret it. Being nice means having good social skills, being a decent and fun person. This is high-status, high value behavior. Breaking rapport/ antagonistic flirting is totally in line with being nice because of the emotional sub-communi…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 09:43 PM
5	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! Manipulation has a negative connotation, but every action is a manipulation. Picking up a pencil and putting it down is manipulating your environment. When talking to women I just tend not to use that word because it makes them think they're being dehumanized and used like a worthless object. You've just gotta be careful about the language because once you've offended someone, they aren't interested in your logic, even if it's sensible.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 09:25 PM
1	Some words to eliminate from your vocabulary Thanks, that follows what I've learned in writing and I need to get better at not being so verbose,but one example did change the meaning of my sentences quite a bit. "I try to be as epistemically open as possible." I typed it this way precisely because I am only trying; I've still got work to do on becoming more open-minded than I already am, to say that I'm already there is a lie. Would it be better to let that fact slide under the table so I can appear more assertive/ dominant, or is it fine …	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 02:10 PM
1	Some words to eliminate from your vocabulary I see-- that makes more sense. Tangentially, I have a concern and would like your advice: I'm pretty serious about self honesty and admitting the limits of my own knowledge, but I'm afraid that might be hurting my status. I'm constantly refining my mental models and challenging my assumptions, but I struggle with being able to integrate that with speaking authoritatively. I try to be as epistemically open as possible as always keep in mind how limited my knowledge actually is. Is it best to just…	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 07:30 AM
2	Some words to eliminate from your vocabulary I agree, but I have some contention on your last point: "I dunno": also a weak phrase to indicate that you're not sure if a statement is correct or not. "It's not always that straightforward" conveys more authority. Simply saying "I don't know" would strike me as a straightforward response that would facilitate the conversation in most cases. I can see how using that too often would be off-putting, but are you suggesting to always substitute with something along the lines of "It's not always str…	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 04:38 AM
2	Girls do not give a fuck about their orbiters This is very possible. But it might be also possible that he's just drawing a distinction between traits and knowledge he has vs. that of the other guy in a clear, but not necessarily condescending manner. But you're right-- the subtext definitely sounded like he has an air of superiority, which is not healthy.	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/17 05:40 PM
2	Swallowing the red pill was your second loss of innocence It means any traits that support survival and reproductive success within an environment will be naturally selected for. It's a somewhat subtle distinction because many people get blinded by stereotypes of what a fit organism is, in Darwinian, terms an incel neckbeard who manages to be a sperm donor and has abundant progeny is more evolutionarily successful than a mega-chad who sleeps around, acquires high social status and resources but decides not to reproduce or only has one child.	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/17 02:54 AM
1	Found some red pill logic in the Buddha's teaching. Wanted to share this Sutra. Spot on. I'm not sure how much credence you give to the notion of Enlightenment, but I encourage everyone to consider it and at least do the practice, often intense meditation, since non-duality allows you to base your self-esteem on being itself. Paradoxically, when you experience ego death, you open up to unconditional self-love/esteem.	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/17 02:40 AM