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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEStheredwolf07/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:04 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDtheredwolf07/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:29 PM
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It’s so strange. While we were dating, he was (supposedly) sleeping with loads of women who gave him everything I couldn’t and performed like porn stars. Now he’s crawling back to the girl he was so unsatisfied with. What happened to all those other women, hm? Or did they even exist at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:53 PM
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He’s so delusional!!! All the alcohol and computer screen lights really fried his brain cells. Part of me believes he was lying about sleeping with all those other women as a way to hurt me, and he didn’t think I’d ever leave him. Now that I left him he’s alone and scrambling to get his sentient punching bag back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:50 PM
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It’s SO tempting. I’m sure he’d have a huge meltdown and send me a barrage of angry messages into the blocked void. When we first broke up, he even stooped to making a fake Facebook profile to leave mean comments on my pictures. Apparently I’m fat and ugly but that isn’t stopping him from begging me for sex… funny how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:31 PM
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The funny thing is, his mom LOVED me. His mom was very sweet and I could tell he learned a lot of his behavior from his horrible, misogynistic father(whom his mom divorced because of his shit behavior). I’m so tempted to send his mom the screenshots. She probably wonders why we broke up and I’m sure he’s told her all sorts of lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:27 PM
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Done. This message was from his new number, apparently. My block list is gonna be a mile long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:15 PM
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He contacted me through a new number!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:14 PM
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They say that as if women in even non-religious households aren’t raised to be ashamed of their bodies and sexuality…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:43 AM
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My ex did this. Let that be a huge red flag. You’re just a “conquest” to him to add to the collection. I tried to be the “cool girl” and not let it bother me, but it was a precursor to much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:15 AM
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Then they’ll turn around and watch porn with titles like “Tiny girl gets destroyed by huge dick”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:32 AM
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I have vaginismus(a condition that causes extreme muscle spasm and tension when penetration is attempted, making sex very painful and even impossible), and the obsession with tightness bothers me so much. A lot of men will say they like it “tight” because it feels good for them, when in reality they like it because it’s hurting you. My ex was turned-on by my squirming and crying in pain. I was already wary of men who proclaim a love of tightness, but my experience as a woman with vaginismus has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:30 AM
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Stupid, naive me figured it was just normal behavior, that it was a normal response to him not getting PIV sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:04 PM
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I started listening to the audiobook version on audible after several recommendations!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:03 PM
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Because a lot of them will still stick their dick into anything that will let them even if they aren’t attracted to that person, so they expect us to do the same. They also don’t want to have to put in any effort into getting their dicks wet, they think they’re just entitled to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:06 PM
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I started using OLD because I’m generally very shy IRL, and work full time so don’t get much opportunity to meet new people. All the men I’ve met through OLD have shown me exactly why women IRL steer clear of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:02 PM
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Men really will do anything except go to therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:46 AM
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It’s already begun. Men are collectively losing their minds, screeching about how feminism has ruined everything because women don’t want to be good little bang maids anymore. This is the first time in history men have to actually TRY to get us to like them, and many of them aren’t likable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:47 AM
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No, he doesn’t care. He just doesn’t want to outright say it due to fear of losing his supply/target, but also doesn’t have the manipulative skill to straight up lie or love bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:25 PM
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I mean, men love to shame women for having sex, telling us that it makes us somehow dirty and impure. So I propose that yes, we stop having sex with men altogether to keep ourselves clean and pure. We also shouldn’t marry them, since so many talk about how marriage is somehow a scam for men. So they can be sexless and wifeless forever. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:23 PM
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Something that really bothers me and gives me anxiety to the point of being sick is thinking about how he is out there being kind to some other girls, and how he was probably so nice and flirty to the girls he was talking to and hooking up with behind my back, probably telling them how awful I was if he was telling them he had a gf, and then turning around and being so horrible to me. I stay up at night thinking about him finding some other girl and being that sweet boyfriend to her because she’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:18 PM
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The comments here have made me realize he wasn’t just a LVM, but something much worse. Things have been particularly hard recently because I’m now realizing just how severely I was abused and that what he did to me was rape. I kept telling myself before that it’s not abuse I was just being dramatic, and that it wasn’t rape because I didn’t fight him or scream no. As I mentioned earlier, he is only my third boyfriend so I was very naive and had no idea what normal behavior was supposed to be, plu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:15 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I still go through a roller coaster of emotions almost every day. Part of me regrets just blocking him while he was mid-typing and wishes I had sent him some witty comeback. But I just had no energy left in me for the relationship, and I knew he wouldn’t care. I think he is a sociopath. He has no empathy. Any man who can masturbate and talk to a sex hotline while his girlfriend cried on the other side of the door, or who can keep his erection and keep going while his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:26 AM
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Also, the fact that he stayed with me despite always berating me and blaming me made me crazy for so long. He obviously didn’t enjoy talking me(toward the end he would only text me every few days when he was horny and would barely respond to any conversation I attempted), he never took me on dates and when I came over he preferred to spend 95% of the time on his video games until he wanted sexual favors, he admitted to talking to and hooking up with other women because they “get him” and do all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:18 AM
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I have made an appointment with a local women’s group. They have therapists who specialize in helping women who have been abused and assaulted. They provide individual therapy but also have a group that meets sometimes. I’m very lucky that such a group exists in my small town since most things like that are expensive and require an hour trip into the city. My gynecologist recommended them a few years ago when I went to her with my vaginismus issue, because my vaginismus was trauma induced from a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:09 AM
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I was using dilators while J and I were dating because I so desperately wanted to “fix” my issue so that he wouldn’t leave me. I think he enjoyed me having this issue so he could use it to torment and hurt me. He also enjoyed the physical pain too. As a narcissist I think he loved having someone vulnerable as a supply. I have stopped using my dilators. I don’t want to feel like I have to “fix” this issue for someone else. Right now, the thought of any kind of sexual contact disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:06 AM
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I had tried so hard to convince myself before, but I knew I was dealing with something very bad when he told me he wanted the sex to hurt. I knew I was dealing with a monster when he was able to talk to a sex hotline and masturbate in the bathroom while he could hear me sobbing outside the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:03 AM
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I don’t get why he stayed with me for a year and half if he hated me so much. He constantly berated me, made snide comments about how I was depriving him of sex and that he has needs…but wouldn’t leave? Then had the audacity to get mad when I left him?! Like dude…you don’t like talking to me, you aren’t sexually satisfied with me(outside of raping me) and you’re always talking to other girls anyway? Just go be single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:00 AM
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I hope he tells the girls they’re in for the disappointment of their lives. For someone who brags about all the sex he’s had like a 13 year old boy, he wasn’t all that great at it. He isn’t an attentive partner at all and just uses women like sentient sex dolls. I never got any kind of foreplay. He said he didn’t like the feeling of lube, so his solution to my dry and tense vagina was to just spit on it and shove it in. He’s so porn sick that he can only copy the things he sees in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:56 AM
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Thank you so much for your insight. I am a very shy person. I didn’t have my first boyfriend until my second year of college. I also don’t really go out much- I work full time and don’t enjoy going to bars and such. So I saw online dating as a good option for me since it’s hard for me to meet people IRL. Now I think I’d rather just be alone than do that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:52 AM
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Yep. I had already mentally checked out and had started leaving him on read for the past week. He was in the middle of typing something and I just hit the block button on every form of contact. Younger me would have probably let him finish, and replied with some long, profound message about how he’d hurt me. But I had no energy left for him. I knew he didn’t care that he had hurt me- he’d shown me that many times, and he’d already sucked so much energy from me. It was a big deal for me to do tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:49 AM
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To answer your question about vaginismus, My first boyfriend attempted to rape me. I was still a virgin at the time. He told me I needed to get it over with. After that, even thinking about penetration could make me start to panic. I started using dilators for treatment while dating J, because I knew if I didn’t fix it he would leave me. This lead to a lot of stress and unsuccessful attempts. Even thinking about sex now makes me uneasy, so for now I’ve stopped using them but I hope to return to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:56 PM
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Men use that “you’re going to die alone!” thing and tell us to lower our standards so that THEY don’t end up alone. Unmarried men are statistically the least happy people, because they don’t have the emotional support bang maid that they feel entitled to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:52 PM
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Ron was definitely a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:07 PM
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So many men talk about how being the provider is in their biology, and use that myth of biology to demand a submissive wife, but can’t even go to the grocery store and buy what their family needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:30 AM
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I just got out of a year and a half long relationship with an emotionally/mentally abusive man. This sent up alarm bells for me. You dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:45 AM
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Weaponized incompetence. All men benefit from the bar being underground. They can use the excuse “that’s just how guys are, we’re so pitiful and stupid you really can’t expect more from us!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:05 PM
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Have they tried being desirable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:35 PM
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I have a medical condition that makes sex painful and sometimes impossible. My ex told me that cheating on me was his way of “making this relationship work” because he “has needs”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:22 PM
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Translation: “I didn’t mean for you to find out. Not because I care about your feelings, but because you’ll leave and then I won’t have as much sexual access.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:09 PM
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How did you cut the spiritual bond? That’s something I need to do with my recent, abusive ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:10 AM
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I’ve only been with three men in my life, and none of them have ever made me orgasm. I can guarantee that I’ll have an orgasm when I do it myself. Why would I put up with a man just for some peen that won’t even make me cum? Men have some audacity and really overestimate their market value!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:26 PM
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I once overheard a man say, “Any hole is a good hole” in regards to having sex with a woman he finds unattractive. That’s when I really realized that male attention is entirely meaningless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:48 PM
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And they somehow think that it’s empowering and liberating and super feminist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:47 PM
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Pick me: I’ll fuck your boyfriend/husband!! Other women: You’re in for the disappointment of your life, have fun I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:46 PM
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I’m an atheist and a leftist and I’ve had enough of our porn sick culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:45 PM
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I explain to my ex about my past sexual trauma, and why I have trouble with a lot of stuff around sex including painful sex, and his response was “Well that’s not MY fault, I didn’t do anything to you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:58 AM
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Yet another reason I will never trust men again. My abusive, now ex-boyfriend knew I had vaginismus- a condition that makes penetration very painful and sometimes impossible. One night I was crying and told him he was hurting me, and he looked me dead in my eyes and said, “I want it to hurt.” and pushed into me. My screaming and crying seemed to turn him on and I ended up with a vagina tear and bled for weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:56 AM
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I just started this book earlier this week and it’s changed my entire outlook on my abusive ex and dating in general!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:52 PM
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