thereitisnow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Public Shaming	Fundamentals	thereitisnow	/r/seduction	09/01/20 03:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Man I’m so tired of wimping out on approaches… This is horrible advice for someone who just shared he can’t even make the initial move. He just needs to focus on saying Hi. Don’t give him anything to think about. His body’s flight mode is activated like he’s running from a tiger, going to be difficult to think of jokes	/r/seduction	28/05/22 05:29 AM
3	Has Anyone Else Had their Dating/Sex Life Devastated by Mental Illness? How Did You Turn It Around? Just want to let you know that I’ve been and am in a similar situation as you. One of the things I’ve learned is that compassion and acceptance are the ONLY way through. If you find you’re self lacking in that it means the old patterns from childhood are working their magic. It’s hard enough feeling this way while at the same time feeling like it’s all your fault that you’re lonely or won’t ever be good enough. I highly recommend seeking a therapist that works with IFS or somatic therapy. Best o…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 01:50 AM
1	Overcoming AA - starting to think it's impossible for me as tried everything & nothing works? This is me and I have not found anything.	/r/seduction	26/11/21 02:48 AM
2	Wingman in NorCal Im down	/r/seduction	24/03/21 11:46 PM
2	Public Shaming Thanks for the help bro. I’ll try to reframe the approach to being something we’ll both enjoy and benefit from. Any advice on how to get started literally from ground zero with potentially crippling social anxiety when it comes to day game?	/r/seduction	09/01/20 05:24 AM
1	Public Shaming Oh interesting. I guess I don’t know enough to know how’s it trending. Any ideas on why it’s dying?	/r/seduction	09/01/20 04:50 AM
2	Public Shaming I’ve since gone back and realized what I first perceived was inaccurate. There’s was several comments criticizing the act of going to a public place to approach. But I realize now it’s a more balanced reaction. I actually saw some good discussion on why seduction is healthy for guys that would potentially otherwise be angry and hateful towards women because they’re too invested.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 04:49 AM
1	"Advanced game" is just not giving a fuck Be an enlightened monk, got it	/r/seduction	09/01/20 03:42 AM
0	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. It seems like you’ve taken many facts and attempted to create a narrative from them. You’ve become what you despise and see every issue through gender like a ideological crazed feminist would. You provided allegorical examples with no numbers. Single mom children statistics come from the vast amount minority families that are impacted by the racial policing and the war on drugs. Sexual assault on campus and in general is underreported in epidemic proportions. Look up surveys of women being sexua…	/r/seduction	24/01/18 10:38 PM
1	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. “Stating the obvious” is a slippery slope. So please back the war on men with some facts. I don’t understand the need to start an ideology because they’re might be some discrimination against fathers in courts. The same with feminism. There’s obviously issues every gender, race, ethnicity has to face. Some people have it worse than others. But there’s no need to argue who experienced the worst suffering. The goal should be to listen to everyone. The problem is when people put others into boxes a…	/r/seduction	24/01/18 04:07 PM
0	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. It’s clear that you’ve taken a victim mentality when it comes to masculinity in today’s society. The classic trump supporter that thinks whites and men are being persecuted by liberal elites, am I right? Some norms of behavior would be thinking its not okay to experience or express emotions. I believe it’s more weak to care so much about why people think that you would hide those emotions just to impress those around you. Emotions are a natural part of human life and for some reason they’ve been…	/r/seduction	24/01/18 02:30 PM
1	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. Id define it as any norms of behavior influenced by the image of masculinity that cause harm to people around you or to yourself. Suppression of emotions for example leads to frustrated individuals that engage in violent activity. Most father issues are because a man doesn’t know to how express himself so he parents with his gut reaction of anger. Substance abuse is also a common symptom of trying to conform to traditional masculinity. Buddy you are accepted. You don’t need to be what anyone els…	/r/seduction	24/01/18 02:09 AM
1	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. Are you denying there’s differing degrees of masculinity? Or do you view the world as black and white?	/r/seduction	24/01/18 12:28 AM
1	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. The support this guy is receiving from this subreddit is refreshing. I think a lot of toxic masculinity gets tied into the seduction community. At the end of the day it’s about becoming a better version of yourself and if that means being honest about your weaknesses instead of suppressing them like the “traditional man” then I’m all for it. Masculinity is the ability to be yourself without feeling the need to prove ourself to anyone even frustrated red pillers.	/r/seduction	23/01/18 04:00 PM