thernis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Y’all Don’t Know Anything About Hot Girls		thernis	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 08:00 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Red Pillers idolize the wrong men It’s so simple it’s stupid. Imagine thinking that a woman who you have never met in person, have no relationship with, and generally has no idea what kind of person you are will want to just let you fuck her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 07:26 PM
3	Most Marriages Need Systematic Cultural, Societal and Economic Constraints to Survive I’m very curious about what you mean. As in men who contribute more than woman or more than men in general?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 01:33 AM
1	Q4M: Would you marry outside of "The West"? I'm more of a coffee/mint chip fan, but I tend to stick to classics :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 03:11 PM
0	Q4M: Would you marry outside of "The West"? I like that they know the same media, the same food, and had a comparable curriculum growing up. I like that they speak in the same accent as me. There are good and bad American women, as there is for any group of individuals, but I've dated across a spectrum of nationalities and always find the most comfort and chemistry with girls who were raised in the same country that I'm from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 02:29 PM
0	Q4M: Would you marry outside of "The West"? No no no no no. I love American women, and they love me. I am not marrying someone from another country or culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 01:32 PM
5	Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying. Deception is just lying with a plan	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 09:55 PM
-1	Would you want to know if a woman expects you to pay on the first date? If I was still dating: It would make me feel like she got burned by too many guys asking her to split the bill. I would not. I think she wants a nice meal and a fun night out and you not to be boring or cheap. If she was pretty and didn’t have any other red flags I’d give it a shot. A man should always pay for the first date, and for every date he schedules. To me, a woman offering to split the bill usually indicated that she wasn’t interested in pursuing a second date. If she clarifies beforeha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 07:37 AM
1	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” I was forced into a traditional relationship by market conditions (my fiancee lost her job). She spends her time taking care of the house and our dog. I still have to do my share of the housework (which is 35-40% give or take depending on circumstances), and (critically) I don’t have any expectation set for her. She will find a job when the time is right. She is not a bangmaid. She is a whole person, with goals, independence, and skills. Yet, she loves being in between jobs. I love her being in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 10:07 PM
1	Every Guy I Know That Dated Around a Lot, Enjoyed the Idea of Soft Harems I’ve always loved the fairy tale of succubi because a woman ultimately costs financial, physical, and time resources to have in your life. Now imagine multiplying that… I don’t have the patience or energy to deal with more than one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 06:26 PM
–	“Single men just want to fuck supermodels & 10s” is completely wrong. Many single men just want to fuck two legs and a vagina, which is leading to us ruining the fruits of the sexual revolution for ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 04:01 AM
9	If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player? I have always been desirable to women. Unfortunately (or fortunately), my mom and grandmother who I grew up with were extremely strict about me dating because they were worried about me repeating their mistakes and having a child too early. I also grew up in a city that has outsized prevalence of teen pregnancy. Being raised by women made me naive, overly emotional, and very clingy. Women hated these traits. I would get endless amounts of interest only to ruin it for myself by being too emotiona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 09:38 PM
0	Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequences I (poorly) am trying to argue that the pool of women who's values are attractive to men is shrinking as well. You will generalize men as being violent, creepy, and anti-social, and I will generalize women as being over-pandered to, decadent, and spoiled. What are modern women's values? Women disguise their pursuit of independence, narcissism (what's in it for me?), and entitlement in the form of "values, morals, and ethics". "Just be kind, and have a bleeding heart, and be subservient, and maybe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 08:07 PM
1	Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequences Ridiculous. Women are graduating college 3 to 1 vs men. They are getting more jobs, higher salaries earlier, and are pandered/catered to at every level of society. They don't make it to the top as often as men do because working 40 hrs a week in an office is gruelingly numb and unrewarding. They typically marry the (few) men that make more money than them and comfortably become housewives. Women have everything they could possibly want. To maintain this newfound power, women continue to deflect …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 07:25 PM
5	Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequences Female solipsism will protect their interests at all costs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 07:19 PM
4	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. Everyone hates weak men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 03:34 AM
1	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. You know who else hates weak men? Men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 02:19 AM
2	What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options? Fair enough. I should’ve modified that to any “type” of girl he wants at a moment’s notice. You’re right; there will always be women that simply will not be available to any men at all. I imagine the type of man who could have his private security just take any woman he wants would have much more pressing matters to deal with instead of specifically trying to take a particular man’s wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/24 06:41 PM
16	What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options? Have any girl they want at a moment’s notice? 0.5% Have many options: 20% Have multiple options: 20% Have an option: 29% Have no options: 30.5% (Source: my gut)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/24 01:16 AM
–	Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off? It’s just my experience with leftist girls. Always happy for me to pay for everything, and as long as I listened to her “solid takes”, everything would go smoothly. Fun for a while, boring once you get used to all the propaganda. They never had a problem with me being a traditional conservative (maybe a bit of verbal pushback, but that’s what topic changes are for).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 04:52 PM
–	Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off? The (lib) leftist women are too then. Oh you think I’m a white straight patriarch fascist? Then why are you so keen on me spending money on you? I truly think that the lib left girls are anti-conservative because it’s trendy, but actually want to be treated like women (lib left men literally cannot). So they end up compromising by dating a conservative man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 04:43 PM
-1	If you, as a straight man, could get sex as easily as a gay man… A lot of men grow up and realize that chasing pussy all the time is exhausting and time consuming. Finding a feminine, hard working woman (she will make your home, cook with you, and assist you), building a life with her, and having strong, intelligent offspring can be much more appealing than smashing hoes for the rest of your existence. If smashing as many girls as possible is your purpose, fine. But it’s not a purpose I envy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 05:24 AM
–	Turns Out, Blue Pill Bros are the Real Red Pill Salesmen! The cat is out of the bag. Women's expectations have changed accordingly. I've noticed a lot of girls that were brain washed by the media and culture growing up have started to reject the notion that people should be promiscuous and that there's more to life than who's fucking who and who has the best access to nice things. I've noticed a lot more women trying to return to traditional gender roles even though they have jobs and are responsible. Modern people were sold a moral shit sandwich that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 04:28 PM
2	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact You're not getting it. Women thrive and succeed in life by taking advantage of men's drive to get pussy. The greatest men in life have been goaded on by women who know how to motivate them and use their pussy as one way of manipulating and guiding their man to greatness. Behind every great man, there is a powerful, manipulative woman who knows him and his tendencies. She knows how to help him dodge hypothetical potholes in life. She knows how to give him advice about soft social exchanges of p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 04:41 PM
1	Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last? My sweet summer child…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 09:21 PM
0	A huge chunk of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in relationships with explains the appeal of bad boys as well as the appeal of large men There are nice, assertive men that get tons of pussy. People need to start distinguishing that being confident and going after what you want is not an inherently bad thing. Being able to recognize manipulation and avoid it is also very important - women hate that beta men are so easily manipulated. A nice man who is sharp and not easily manipulated drives women crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 11:39 AM
1	I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex" Yeah, but having sex with expensive, beautiful women and then going about your life gets boring. The kind of woman that think about sex transactionally have no real concept of money and are snobby and annoying. They do everything they can to try and extract resources from you. If you’re like me, after about 5 years of hooking up, it just gets old. You start craving more emotional intimacy. You start looking for a girl who likes to keep a clean space, and cook, and have motherly traits. At some p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 04:16 PM
1	Is it true that most guys think they would do better in dating if they were bringing in all the money? It’s the confidence, peace, and access that comes with money that makes men more attractive. There are miserable misers out there that are all alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 12:16 AM
–	Would you want a superpower where you could see the future with a person and proceed accordingly? I’d love that superpower but for business relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 03:17 PM
–	Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man. Everyone should know this. Women love it when men have a purpose. If you can demonstrate that you provide value and can lead -other men-, they go crazy. Nothing women love more status, influence, and (perceived) power. Add some looks and social skills to that mix, and you’ve got a ladykiller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 03:16 PM
3	Women are only “loney” if they choose to be Women are lonely. Men are too. Loneliness is an enormous problem in our insular, atomized society. Women can have 10 FWBs and still be lonely. You can be a drug dealer, interacting with different people all day… and still be lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 12:47 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Bro literally go to any park or grocery store or public area. If a woman doesn’t immediately shun you when you look at her, or appear receptive to your glance, you would be surprised how far you’d get with a simple “hello”. I had a tryst with a lovely woman who was visiting from Turkey - I wrote a note and handed it to her as I was getting off the bus (I’m lucky she didn’t get off before me). I was so shocked when she actually called me. We spent the next two weeks together, until she had to go …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 10:56 PM
–	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them I think that scum bag Steve identities what he wants and goes after it, selfishly. Women can see right through a strong man act. Scum bag Steve doesn’t even know that he’s acting a certain way. He just does what he does, without thinking about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 05:48 PM
–	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them Depends how willing to they are to submit to women. That’s the problem with the term “nice guys”. Men who are confident, friendly, and have a spine have no trouble with girls. It’s men who are subversive, who think acting nice and servile will get them in a girl’s pants, that have trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 12:14 PM
2	Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance? The guilt would tear me apart. I could never.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 06:09 AM
22	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them “Nice guys” are doormats and easily manipulated. Men that are easily manipulated disgust women. That’s why they like scum bag Steve. Scum bag Steve lives life on his terms. Once a man starts living for himself, and molding the world around him to his priorities, then he becomes attractive. There’s a saying - “everything in the world is about sex, except sex itself, sex is about power “. If you are subservient and easily manipulated by a woman because she might give you access to her wet parts, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 01:26 PM
4	Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive. Attractive, attentive, friendly people will always curry more social value than unattractive, attentive, friendly people. It's an unfortunate fact of human nature. Attractive people are let in the halls of the rich and cultured, especially if they have a little bit of class. Attractive people are promoted quicker, and if they are competent (or extremely competent), they will probably become your boss. There is a reason aesthetic surgery/treatment is a perpetually booming market. There's a reason…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 09:37 PM
1	The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says The kind of guys that do this are usually lone wolf types. The kind of guys who have healthy groups of friends don’t usually have trouble with women, in my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 06:20 PM
2	Why the Fuck Are You Still Playing Video Games? And on top of it all, women HATE IT. You want to dry up a girl’s pussy faster than a well in the chihuahuan desert? Show her your rainbow LED keyboard and tri-monitor setup.	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/21 04:06 PM
2	Why does the man-child seem to be more common today? Men used to have to be a lot more responsible at a lot younger age. Being truly independent without help from parents is very hard and puts you through lots of trials and tribulations. Those trials and tribulations are essential for a person to mature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/21 10:39 PM
1	Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine? Depends where you are. You in NYC? No one cares. You in Dallas? You’re a weird lady boy and no one wants you in their section.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 04:44 PM
8	Ex-Red pillers, what made you stop considering yourself red pill? Thank you for sharing. It took me 50 women to realize that being a player is not a pathway to happiness. The red pill took me out of a life of simping and I am forever grateful for it... but I don’t want to enjoy the decline anymore. I want to stop it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 04:37 PM
2	Three Sexy Sex Secrets Every Alpha Must Try I tried these on a sperg’s one-itis and she loved them! Thanks GLO.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/20 06:01 AM
1	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? When I realized that it wasn’t women that were the problem, but culture. The pornofication of American culture is real and it brainwashes people of all genders. “Tolerance” used to be something meaningful but now it is an excuse for degenerates of all kind to publicly flaunt their degeneracy. Modern western culture is so infatuated with breaking norms that we don’t realize we are breaking people too. When nothing is taboo, people will find taboos to denigrate each other for and the current taboo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 05:36 PM
3	10 Virtues Of Traditional & Sacred Masculinity So much this. I was in the anger phase for 5 years and the entire time all I wanted to do was get pussy. Now, on the other side, I’m happy to simply take care of myself.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/20 04:05 AM
12	One Key Ingredient to Becoming a Slayer 100% agreed. My mantra is: “I’m Healthy, I’m Wealthy, I’m Happy.” In that order. Mental health is the most important kind of health. Then take care of your body (lift, run, swim, play frisbee golf, fight, go for a walk idc). You need a strong mind to become wealthy. A strong body supports a strong mind. Happiness comes in moments and waves. My happiest moments are when my muscles look particularly ripped or I don’t make any mistakes on the work I’m handing my boss. Prioritize yourself. How can y…	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/20 04:13 AM
2	Q4A: If you could "switch off" your sexual attraction to men/women, would you do it? Would your life become better as a result? Yes. I would be able to focus a lot more on the things that matter to me over chasing poon. I was sexually repressed by my overbearing single mother who married a doormat (but wonderful man) of a stepfather. I was not allowed to date until after high school and this caused massive problems with my dating life in college. I was massively socially unadjusted and it kept me a virgin until I was 21 when I fucked a nasty coworker at my serving job. I fucked one more girl by the time I was 23, graduat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 06:17 PM
14	High body fat is a killer for male attractiveness. Get your body fat down to a decent level. I have been “training” since I was 16, I am now 27. By “training”, I mean I went to the gym 4 times a week like 2 months out of the year and maybe once a week the rest of the year. After years of doing this, along with uni and working, I never saw much results. Last September (2019) I decided I was going to have abs at least once in my life. I hired a trainer I see once or twice a month and I have started lifting intensely and doing cardio. My whole physique has changed. I have got stronger, lea…	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/20 07:54 PM
1	Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months? Getting jacked	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/20 02:00 PM
3	Best way to respond to rejection is by NOT acknowledging it Good point. The most success I’ve had during quarantine is at grocery stores and during my daily walk. If a girl’s got eyes for me (she holds eye contact and looks receptive) then I just ask her for her number/snap.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/20 06:18 PM
25	Best way to respond to rejection is by NOT acknowledging it The way I did was by going out with my friend from work. He mentioned he liked going out partying so I joined him and his group of guys/girls for a Friday night bar crawl. The big group of people is like a mothership, you go back and forth from the group to the bar. Somewhere in between, you might meet a girl. If she sees you’re in a big group of fun people, you’ll increase your chances a lot.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/20 06:07 PM
1	Sluts mean more to men than non-sluts ever will. Not me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 11:12 PM
1	This monstrosity got married, cheated on his wife and is about to marry a hot filipina. Whats your excuse incels ?? This show is cringe porn for normies	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 01:12 AM
1	Y’all Don’t Know Anything About Hot Girls I was drunk when I made this post, maybe I should start using booger sugar myself.... The confirmation bias of my drunk consciousness indicates my argument is clearly not well thought out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 01:12 AM
3	No title needed. What a rare pepe	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 07:34 AM
8	Do women see gay men as “real” men? I love this. I always say I am not homophobic but I am trans phobic cause oversexualization is pathetic and ridiculous. A man taking all the physical feminine attributes of a woman still has no idea what it’s like to be one. I think it’s a mixture of narcissism and decadence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 06:26 AM
2	Q4Women: What makes you a HVW? Being white and blonde doesn’t suck, it’s a blessing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/20 11:51 PM
6	Do men REALLY like “good girls”? Be careful conflating relative terms with biological terms. Lower test males consistently AMOG high test males thru status or money. That’s it. It’s called alpha fucks not high test fucks for a reason. Edit: if your statement was correct we could all be alpha by getting on testosterone supplements	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 01:37 AM
0	The sexual is political How funny, the next generation will be a bunch of pro life conservatives then. Ironic how leftist ideology culls them from the genetic pool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 09:12 PM
2	Men who didn't have good male role models, were you ever able to overcome it? I started working at a company in Texas and all the partners I work for are good old fashioned men. They (unknowingly) have taught me a lot of what it looks, sounds, and takes to be a man. It’s been invaluable experience for my personal development and to top it off the company has great pay and benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/20 10:40 PM
4	The hypocrisy of feminism. Proving AWALT. In the era of post-consumerist capitalism, sheeple can't handle anything that they don't agree with or is outside of their worldview. Naturally, their philosophy breeds them right out of the gene pool. My biggest problem with feminism is the culture surrounding it. As long as the "intersectional/sjw"culture is perpetuated and weaponized by the media, the progressives regressive-consumerists will continue to ruin the world with their constant victimization. The rich love it: they double their eff…	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/19 09:56 PM
3	Don't watch porn. How many deaths annually can be attributed to diabetes? What about water poisoning?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/19 06:02 AM
26	Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happening Whether the post is real or not belies what I consider the most important facet of TRP in clown world: Marriage... not even once.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 07:26 PM
1	I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it? Abundance mentality applies to more than just women. Demonstrating abundance in general shows power and power gets pussy, period.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/19 03:05 PM
11	MAWAD This is tangential to your second point but I constantly find girls trying to lock me down after they’ve been plated. I’m very “cute” (classic American good boy look, average height at 5’11,) and I constantly get shit tests regarding family and social commitments (come to this family event with me!) - so most of my plates move on after a couple months because I have no interest in an LTR . I have a steady job at a Fortune 500 company so I cant really tell if they want me to be their beta bux but…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/19 04:21 PM
2	Wise advice from MacMaal_ (And chest on him with the guy who won’t)	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/03/19 03:33 AM
10	The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon Changing is one the hardest things for people to do. It leads you to admitting your existing methods/habits are wrong, which means you have to shatter your own ego. TRP is a guide or shortcut to self-realization, which then turns into growth. Some people are ideologically malleable and learn quickly and easily... others will continue to make bad decisions even knowing about TRP because internalizing the redpill is too hard.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/19 12:21 AM