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| 1 | Why do men get mad women want an actually attractive partner? What gives? | Question For Men | thesadslut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:38 PM |
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| 14 | Do you secretly like a tiny bit of objectification from your partner?I think all of those sound stupid but not because it’s objectifying - it’s because it’s corny and not clever. Also is she allowed to call you her wallet with a dick? Cuz that seems funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How else are we supposed to make things fair and balanced?Oooooh, you introduced me to the proper term. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 4 | How else are we supposed to make things fair and balanced?“Kids in Africa are starving” the argument. You bring up nothing to argue with. Some people have it worse. That doesn’t mean women want to deal with shitty circumstances just because they could have it worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | How else are we supposed to make things fair and balanced?She literally asks prompting questions at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 5 | The majority of woman prefer men who do white collar work to blue, sometimes regardless of income.Doubling down when you’re wrong is unattractive. It’s a very “masculine” trait, though, so kudos I guess? See ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:56 AM |
| 5 | The majority of woman prefer men who do white collar work to blue, sometimes regardless of income.You’re basing it on your experience and hearsay. Yes. I’m not even arguing whether you’re right or wrong - it’s just absolutely infuriating to see people base their views on their personal knowledge and then say anyone else’s doesn’t count (unless it aligns with their views). It’s so intellectually dull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:53 AM |
| 5 | The majority of woman prefer men who do white collar work to blue, sometimes regardless of income.There are literally scientific studies on why people prefer symmetry in others. If you don’t want anecdotes, don’t give anecdotes. You literally make yourself look stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | The majority of woman prefer men who do white collar work to blue, sometimes regardless of income.We can argue all day about anecdotes [gives anecdotes At least find sources to support your claim. Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:46 AM |
| 5 | How is FDS manupulative?Why does the quantity matter? How is it manipulative if people just... don’t want to date someone because of X? 99% of men have decided they don’t want to date a woman with not only a varied sexual history but three kids - is that manipulative or is that just their standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 6 | How is FDS manupulative?But... why? If person A wants X and person B decides to do X, what's the problem? And furthermore, why can't Person A just... want what they want? Why do they have to compromise? It's their fault if they end up alone or whatever. Why isn't Person A allowed to have standards that they don't compromise on? If Person B doesn't want to adhere to those, they're free to go elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 7 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Lol. It’s a saying, dude. You’re a real sensitive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 6 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Thank god for small miracles, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 9 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Good luck with your wife not resenting you, idk what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:33 PM |
| 3 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.You are intended to be of equal value to a partnership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Your sentiments stated are different from OPs. What exactly is the correlation between women wanting to be appreciated for housework and women not being well equipped for it? Are you implying the women who complain aren't good at it, anyway, or, like, what? These things don't really have anything to do with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.That's because it was discussed throughout our discussion, OP and I, because I was trying to truly discern his standpoint on this issue. It's kind of addressed in every comment. If you don't want to go through them because you don't feel like it, thats okay, I just also don't feel like repeating myself, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 0 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.I for real don't wanna repeat myself, lol. Please just read like the whole thing and if you have something new to say, I'll totally respond to it but I literally JUST discussed this and I'm not that nice of a person to do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.A profession does not inherently denote worth overall. I invite you to read the rest of the conversation OP and I had actually! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.I can definitely see where you're coming from here. The thing is that people are people - man or woman and men already have a long history of debasing and devaluing women just because they said so. Sexism, if you will. And as I said, people are people, at the end of the day - if we, women, can also find a way to collectively shit on the other sex, I think that's also something we're willing to do. And if I may be so bold as to veer off the topic for a bit - I do think that's largely a result of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 5 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Okay, may I say a marriage shouldn't be that, lol? My parents marriage was/is like that. They're both unhappily married and cheating. One regularly talks about the other dying soon and is happy about it. So, it's not really my cup of tea. As such, I don't really think it's a Gen-X thing - I think the internet is more prevalent now and we use it, and as such we can see these ideas being presented more often but, even going outside, if I just look nice, I can get hit on at least 20 times a day. 20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 7 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Your personal life should be separate from your career life. For example, I am a graphic designer and social media manager but my boyfriend is an electrician. We could not sub for the other at all. He has no idea how to work my programs or the design principles I've learned and uh, sometimes he shows me the tools he has and my only response is, "Ah, the dinglehopper, right? That's what that is?" However, in our lives, we don't treat each other as inherently worth less or more due to our professi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:23 PM |
| 13 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Okay, so you just staunchly believe the person with the job/highest paying job is inherently of higher worth than the other person at home. That’s simply not something I agree with and such an attitude would lead to a dissatisfying relationship among both parties - because NO ONE likes to feel as if they are not contributing, nor do they like their jobs being treated as lesser than. You say housekeeping is the most important job, yet also say the men who have the jobs are of higher status. That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 10 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.So, you’re saying the woman has less status and that’s why she’s staying at home in the first place? That doesn’t make things better - in fact, it implies the woman is simply inferior just because. That’s not the type of relationship anyone wants to be in. Are you merely suggesting that in most relationships the man has the better job so that’s why he gets to keep his? Because that’s purely an assumption, not to mention, all humans desire to be needed, to feel useful and to feel challenged - chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:40 PM |
| 27 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Your post is about women not feeling like equals within their relationship - this implies the man feels more important within their dyad, not just outside the home in social circles wherein this “hierarchy” you’re talking about is more enforced. If I, as someone’s wife, am treated lesser because of my choice to stay at home so he can pursue his career without paying for childcare, I would see that as him not actually valuing me or his children. He can pony up the dough for a nanny and housekeepe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 41 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Maybe women shouldn’t marry men, like yourselves, who think housework and child rearing are low status, honestly. I think that’s the largest issue. To ignore centuries worth of studies on how important these jobs are is just ignorant and bolstering your own deeds. I couldn’t respect a man who couldn’t respect those duties. Different strokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Does the count matter for both men and women?In my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:21 AM |
| 10 | Does the count matter for both men and women?Most women that are available to the bulk of men are average or less. If he’s having sex with 5s and below on a consistent basis, it shows me he’s just desperate for sex. I’m not interested in that type of person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Does the count matter for both men and women?Personally, I don’t care about body count for men. In fact, the more women they’ve had, the less I assume they have any real control over themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Can you date without dating apps?Why does that bother you in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (12 July 2020)What about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Can you date without dating apps?I am an introvert and although I’ve used dating sites I have never actually dated a guy from there. I never date guys who talk to me IRL either. If I end up dating someone, it’s because we met online and we’re friends through our mutual interest/good connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Can you explain to me the “not ready to have sex yet” mindset?Resorting to extremes in order to excuse to your inability to see things as shades of grey is even more unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Can you explain to me the “not ready to have sex yet” mindset?Victim blaming is unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why should we continue the painful cycle of life?I think this is bigger than this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Can you explain to me the “not ready to have sex yet” mindset?Lol. Exactly, dude. Wouldn’t touch that insecurity with a ten foot pole. Have a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 10 | Can you explain to me the “not ready to have sex yet” mindset?This is a really good point actually. I’ve been on COUNTLESS first and second dates. Like, easily over 50. These dudes would be clutching their pearls if I even gave a blowjob to HALF of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | exactly who are men here waiting for...They don’t actually care about those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:11 PM |
| 13 | Can you explain to me the “not ready to have sex yet” mindset?Bruh, people get into abusive relationships despite the second date going well. No, fears of possible rape isn’t alleviated after you bought me dinner the second time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?Seconding this. If you need someone to chat to, hit me up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 05:06 AM |
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