| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 145 | His Kinks Are A Reflection of His Values. Kink Shame Away.Kinkshaming is my kink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/22 07:36 PM |
| 53 | (Xpost) "Today this gentleman brought me a flower... He wow’s me every day" I just wanna get myself a gentleman like him...I saw this earlier and thought “who needs men?”. Seriously though, I am fully leaning into cat-lady status. I love my perfect little cat son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Is not approaching a red flag?They say they don’t want to initiate because they don’t want to be seen as creepy. They want women to initiate, but the go post and comment things like “men of Reddit, what creepy things have women done to you?” If you hit on a man, he will probably find a way to turn it against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 8 | Women have every right to be skeptical and NOT trust men, especially around children. PERIODT.Back when that video came out, I was in middle school. The only male teacher in the building, who was in his late 20s, was very open about having a crush on Britney after that video. Looking back, I’m disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:32 PM |
| 295 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!He should have thought about this before he spread his legs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 6 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!I just saw a post on the front page where a woman was asking to be roasted without anyone mentioning a certain website. What did they all do instead? Made fat jokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:14 AM |
| 24 | Silly sugar mamasI don’t know, maybe it’s because I’ve been working in service and retail for more than half my life, but I can usually tell the married couples that are splitting things from the women with leeches who are trying to show they are cool girls by treating the guy they are dating. You develop a feel for spotting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 25 | Silly sugar mamasThere is a difference between the couples with joint accounts and the girls with scrubby boyfriends who make a big show about paying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:54 AM |
| 35 | This man got a whole wife and family to support him, yet he wants to "clear up" things w/ his ex so that he can die in peace. They absolutely know that they are guilty of the way they treat you....don't let them feel the other way.One of my coworkers is always complaining about his ex. I don’t know how long ago they broke up, but I’ve worked with him for 6 months and he wasn’t dating anyone then. A friend of mine used to work with him and had many stories to share, one of which being that he cheated on his ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:56 AM |
| 41 | and he’ll still ghost you.To curb your expectations, so when they show up with an average size one, you are, in theory, happy it’s not that small. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:25 AM |
| 31 | and he’ll still ghost you.Those poor cats... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 25 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.That and he didn’t want to waste his precious money on her. Which he has, but she is not worthy of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 24 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??Ah yes, a disgusting friend of a disgusting ex-boyfriend did this to his daughter. Why do they need to involve their poor daughters in their perversions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:42 PM |
| 49 | Guess the subI mean, if they are offering Valium though.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 04:17 PM |
| 11 | Share your ridiculous OLD storiesThank you. I wasn’t surprised to learn that statistic, since I had seen it happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 55 | Share your ridiculous OLD storiesMy mom and stepdad were married for 19 years when she died a couple years ago. A few months later, he had a serious girlfriend. Of course, he was trying to divorce my mom when she was diagnosed with cancer for the second time. They stayed married, but that jerk lost the family house after she died. She worked a crappy job right up until her last month to try to keep it. It really pissed me off mostly because I had always thought he was a good man. Now I don’t believe such a thing exsists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:56 PM |
| 12 | Ladies he wants to split the bills and might even make you a HARD BOILED EGG 🥺🤗🥚😮Hard boiled eggs are so gross. Edit: After some thought, so is every dude named Curt that I’ve ever known. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:40 AM |
| 197 | Exactly this.Let’s be honest, most dudes in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:38 AM |
| 117 | This makes me feel so sad...What’s he gonna do? Raise the kid himself? Yeah, right.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:44 AM |
| 19 | Wife gives him a sex coupon and the first thoughts that cross his mind are abuse and humiliation.She said she “loves her so much now”. Probably didn’t before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 7 | Sean Connery’s death has inspired the manosphere to start saying the quiet & implied part of their whole ethos out loud.It is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 135 | Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art)I wish women weren’t so scared about 30. It’s not a big deal at all. One day you’re 29 and then you wake up 30 and nothing has changed. I’m about to turn 35 and I still feel the same as I did in my 20s, just slightly wiser. I know I have a lot left to learn. I suppose it helped that I never was one who needed to be married or have kids or anything like that by 30. I have a few friends who are approaching 30, acting like it’s a death sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:42 PM |
| 14 | Happy Friday QueensI don’t do it for empowerment, I do it for comfort. I went 6 weeks without one during quarantine and now the only time I wear one is when I’m working. I’m not small chested and one is slightly bigger than the other, but I give absolutely no fucks what men, or anyone, think about it, it’s about me and my comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 4 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️I’m so fucking sick of the phrase “shoot your shot”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Don’t give away your honey to just anyone: A literal and metaphorical lesson.Beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husbandSo much so that it’s in your name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Don’t give away your honey to just anyone: A literal and metaphorical lesson.Of course! It’s truly rewarding if you ever get the chance to do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Don’t give away your honey to just anyone: A literal and metaphorical lesson.My friend had already been keeping hives for a couple years before, so I joined up with her. Her parents had a farm outside of our city, so we kept them there, but where I live, you can keep them in the city, too. I read a few books and found some resources online, and learned what she could teach me. I think she had learned a lot from a local beekeeping group. Most beekeepers seem interested in sharing knowledge and advice (and in some cases, loaning equipment), so if you could find some people… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 91 | Woke Queen. The comments are gold.I don’t subscribe to twox, but I ran into this thread earlier. One of the comments I happened to see was from some man complaining about how he is too tall and hefty to find clothes that fit, because it’s hard to find a 38 waist, so “he knows how y’all” women struggle. He also added that even though he could go up to a 40 or down to a 36, he didn’t want to, because he is comfortable with himself. Fuck that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:45 PM |
| 56 | Don’t give away your honey to just anyone: A literal and metaphorical lesson.Put the jar in a warm water bath, or you can heat a bit on a low temp in a saucepan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:24 AM |
| 37 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.“It’s just how brains work!!! It’s science!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:49 AM |
| -2 | Here are some more good ones. Happy Saturday!Yes, it is always sad when people pick up on messages about things that negatively impact the environment, my apologies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Here are some more good ones. Happy Saturday!Photoshopped, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:07 PM |
| -8 | Here are some more good ones. Happy Saturday!Well you know, what’s the point of improving ourselves and our relationships when we don’t have a hospitable planet on which do live. I don’t think of myself so much as a Negative Nancy, but more a Pragmatic Polly. But maybe if I spell it out in bright, colorful balloons for you... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:04 PM |
| -20 | Here are some more good ones. Happy Saturday!Environmentally friendly? He uses them, and the process to create mylar damages the environment. Does he replace them if they pop? Either way they are going to end up polluting some river or ocean, when he is done with them. I’m guessing since he is so environmentally friendly, he doesn’t use helium, so there’s that, at least. However, people see these posts and get inspired to do their own “cute” little balloon messages. But I guess as long as he is reusing them, he is helping solve climate cha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:00 PM |
| -6 | Happy Friday, ladies!!!Right..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 47 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOPeople don’t take creating people seriously. Forget about climate change, food and water shortages, political instability, automation, etc., my husband needs someone he can theoretically play catch with someday (better not be a girl), possibly, if he isn’t too busy living his own life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:19 AM |
| 14 | Happy Friday, ladies!!!Maybe I’m being a bit negative, but I need to say: the message is beautiful, the aesthetic is beautiful, I want to be all about positivity, but seeing people do environmentally irresponsible stuff for the ‘gram, makes me feel like shit. https://encenter.org/visit-us/programs/birthday-parties/balloons/ Debbie Downer out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 3 | This is proof that when a guy "cannot control his anger" or "got too upset" that he is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it.Yesterday, I was walking with a girlfriend when a guy on a bike behind us yellEd “move out of the way whxxxx!”, so we moved out of his way to see him ride into the street on the next block to move around a man who was walking. Pretty sure he would have gladly rode into us, if we hadn’t moved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Don’t mix someone having high education + wealth with being HVThat could be a location thing. In my area of my country, people are known for being friendly and helpful. In rural areas, people depend on their neighbors a lot and people are happy to help each other out. Of course, this is not always accurate. There are plenty of people in all demographics that would screw over anyone else, given the chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:09 PM |
| 69 | Don’t mix someone having high education + wealth with being HVI work in fine dinning and I deal with wealthy, educated men all the time. Some of them are pure trash. They can be so rude, arrogant, sexist, ignorant, etc. They might be more common than polite wealthy men, in fact. I’ve worked in much more working-class kind of places before and some of the most polite and gentlemanly guys I’ve dealt with are farmers, factory workers, mechanic types. It depends on what your own personal values are, but if I went down that road, I think would feel much more co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:24 AM |
| 10 | Scrote threatens to cut off sex if gf doesn't shave, gets his face cracked when she says "k"Fuck this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, we need to have "the talk". You know the one.The talk wherein we try to decide, in the grand scheme of things, is it even worth it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:56 AM |
| 17 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedI don’t shave anything. Supplemental support: Fuck ‘em. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:15 AM |
| 71 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.“Why do you hate my nest?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:03 AM |
| 5 | How do you tell if you are self sabotaging a relationship or if it's genuinely time to leave?When you repost the same question every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | I wish I could be the lesbian everyone assumes I am.I know, they’re everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:31 PM |
| 6 | I wish I could be the lesbian everyone assumes I am.Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:12 AM |
| 51 | Stop saying men are ‘visual’ creatures’- as if women don’t have eyes; and if they were more visual than us, trust me, they’d all have design degrees 😂Men are visual creatures, my ass. I have 2 male roommates who can’t see dust, breadcrumbs, a sign on the toilet lid that says “put me down”, dust bunnies, etc. This week one of them left not one, but two, faucets running for 15 minutes, until I noticed and turned them off. He literally “forgot” he left the kitchen sink running and the next day the bathroom sink! He also left our apartment door open one day while rushing out and when I pointed it out he blamed the other roommate (who had not been… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:51 AM |
| 2 | this lady defending her sicko boyfriend 🙄Meth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:45 PM |
| 17 | Women of 90 day fiance grill big EdLet us all point our collective ladyfingers in the face of Ed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:04 AM |
| 10 | Why do I want to leave a good man?So keep breaking your own then, I guess. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Why do I want to leave a good man?The only person anyone truly has is herself. It’s a hard and scary fact to accept, but it’s true. If you can’t be happy being alone, you won’t be able to be happy with anyone else. It sounds like you have a lot to work on and adding the problems of someone else into your life, won’t solve yours. Your relationship is exhausting to me, and I’m not even in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 12 | Why do I want to leave a good man?Are you the former /u/princesslevelup? What is it that you want to hear? If you hold out long enough, he will change? That if you just love him a little more, he will change? It’s not going to happen and it totally sounds like you need to be single a while and reevaluate yourself and learn to be happy on your own. Get your anxiety issues treated and stop making excuses for him but especially for yourself. Sometimes it is better to be alone. This might sound harsh, but I’ve read so many posts by … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:01 PM |
| 35 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolSavor the salty tears of men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 20 | Way too many of these stories...When I was 16, I had a boyfriend who was 22. I don’t like talking or thinking about it now, but if one good thing came from it, it’s that I learned early to be suspicious of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯You know how “discussions” with men tend to go... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 16 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯His dog is the stand-in for his personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:44 PM |
| 15 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯The fighting thing came off, to me, as one of the worst aspects of the profile. My interpretation was that he wants someone who is always going to agree with him and go along with whatever he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:43 PM |
| 114 | Well he’s not wrong about thatYes, I am a female and voluntarily celibate because men just are not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 5 | One male’s version of leveling upThat means a lot, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 17 | One male’s version of leveling upThanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:11 AM |
| 13 | I (21f) started dating an older guy (34m). What red flags should I look for?It’s not your maturity that’s the issue, it’s someone who is in their mid thirties and wants a girlfriend that could technically be a daughter whose maturity is the issue. Between 21 and 25 and then 25 and 30, I think people just really change a lot. So many people think “I’m 25, I’m so old” but then in a few years, they realize they aren’t. As far as socializing, it depends on the people, but it goes back to being in different stages in life. Sometimes I actually relate more to people your age … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 16 | I (21f) started dating an older guy (34m). What red flags should I look for?Some would say the age difference itself is a big red flag. As a 34 year old, myself, I would be one of those people. You probably already know that it’s a less than ideal situation, which is why you are asking. I work with people in their early 20s and it’s hard enough to relate socially sometimes, that I couldn’t imagine being romantically involved with someone so young. Of course at 21, people tend to think they are grown up, but they really aren’t. Watch out for any controlling behavior, kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:36 AM |
| 15 | Many of you girls decided you’re fine with being single forever. But how do you feel fine with never having a family / biological kids?I think one of the worst things a person can do is have kids because they think it will fill a hole in their lives, whether that be loneliness, to save a relationship, “because it’s what you’re supposed to do!”, etc. I was born to a couple of people who should not have had kids, especially not together, and for this reason, as well as many others, I have never desired to have my own. I decided that at a pretty young age too. There have been times when my hormones and society made me slightly dou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:04 AM |
| 12 | On today’s episode of why are men™No, he is a 26 year old with no life skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 08:21 PM |
| 23 | On today’s episode of why are men™In fact, I just showed him this and he went “ha”. He admits that men are trash and when asked claims its an innate biological trait. There is no hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 61 | On today’s episode of why are men™This isn’t just in couples relationships. My brother lives with me and we are constantly going over this same issue, as well as all the other things he neglects to do because he “didn’t know” or “forgot” or “didn’t realize”. I’m the bitch now, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Man astonished girlfriend wants to store things in her apartment; calls her fat and throws things awayI didn’t realize this was abusive until recently. My mom would throw away toys of mine when I was young and then as I got older she would throw out clothes of mine, which had been purchased with money I earned working after school. When I was 11, she had the dog put down without telling anyone she was going to do it. I did realize, at the time, that was pretty fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 03:11 PM |
| 43 | Woman is gaslit in the comments into "cOmMuNiCaTiNg" with porn-using bf who called her body "gross"I opened this thread thinking it was about the other post I just read with some guy calling this girlfriend’s body “gross”.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | They never change, do they?I shudder to think what’s under the beard, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:08 AM |
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