thesixthamethyst Archive

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6	Struggling with competing RP advice on when to have sex I waited with my first husband and we ended up divorced after he cheated. It felt kind of silly to hold out a second time, so I didn’t and I never shared my number with anyone I dated, not even my now-husband knows. I feel like any man that would push to know wouldn’t have been worth my time, and quite frankly I think most men are relieved to date a woman who doesn’t feel the need to dissect past relationships or sexual partners.	/r/RedPillWives	18/06/22 08:15 PM
3	I (18F) want to support my date (18m) but I’m worried he doesn’t want me! I struggled with that for many years too. I was shy in high school and desperate to find a relationship in my early 20s. It’s really hard, but you will never regret guarding your dignity. Don’t chase a man. Let a man court you. The best advice my mom ever gave me was that if a man wants to date you, he will pursue you. And it’s absolutely true. That doesn’t mean you have to feign indifference. But let a man come for you, and if he doesn’t, move right along. Don’t text bomb them. Don’t stalk them…	/r/RedPillWives	21/01/22 03:03 AM
5	I (18F) want to support my date (18m) but I’m worried he doesn’t want me! How many dates have you been on? From the sounds of it, you aren't in a relationship with this person, just some dates. If that's the case, you shouldn't be worried about supporting him, or "leaving him," because you're simply in the exploration phase. If I had a few dates with a guy and he started trying to offer me partner-like support and thought we were a couple I'd be running for the hills. Is that maybe what's happening here? Are you being a stage-5 clinger?	/r/RedPillWives	20/01/22 06:03 PM
2	Becoming a fat wife Why would losing a few pounds affect your ability to conceive? Unless you're malnourished or underweight, I can't imagine why it would have any effect at all. You can lose weight by eating healthy and clean. And doing so is probably better for you if you're trying to get pregnant anyway. I'm a foodie so I've learned that the key to not gaining weight is to make very tasty, healthy meals. Meals you're excited to eat, not "diet" food. You don't need to calorie count, just do less carbs, lots of fr…	/r/RedPillWives	03/08/21 02:26 PM
2	If you could look like anyone in the world... Kate Beckinsale, I just think she's gorgeous. Edit: or Lucy Liu! Also sooo pretty.	/r/RedPillWives	18/06/21 05:58 PM
25	Married Red Pill I just took a peek at married red pill, and I am super confused as to why you would want to send your husband there. From the FAQ: So yes, Red Pill is against marriage because of the way it works in modern society. However, in MRP we are already married. We don't support modern marriage, but we detest divorce even more. However, we no longer fear it. Have you read some of the posts? There are some seriously angsty men there, and after clicking a few posts they were just douche-bros raging on abo…	/r/RedPillWives	04/05/21 05:48 PM
12	Would you ever LTR a man with a lot of sexual partners? I'm married now, but I have never in my life asked my partners number. Not even my husband. I don't know why people feel entitled to that information TBH. I've asked when they were last tested for STDs and that it. From what I've seen, the numbers conversation does nothing but lead to unnecessary problems and/or insecurities.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/21 05:58 PM
1	I need warm and I mean WARM loungewear If a space heater is a no go, get a heated blanket. Obviously it won't help when you're up and doing stuff, but it will help keep you very nice and toasty without so many layers when you're sitting or sleeping.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/21 02:11 PM
4	How to get him to do the laundry right!?! It's hard to think of specifics on the spot, but in my time here I've noticed a lot of questions from women who almost fear questioning their husbands, disagreeing with them, asking something of them, or wanting something that may go against their husband's desires. For many here, fitting into the box of the ideal red pill wife has become an obsession, and I think it's sad and unhealthy. And I feel a lot of users here perpetuate the behavior. We are still human beings with our own minds, and our…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/21 05:26 PM
4	How to get him to do the laundry right!?! Sorry if I misunderstood. I think that verbiage threw me and I've noticed a lot of wives here who seem to be submissive in ways that seem really unhealthy, and that was the vibe I was getting. Again, sorry I read into it too much. Would drawing up a diagram and taping it to the machine lid be patronizing? It seems like a sensible reminder, but I know some people are funny about stuff like that.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/21 10:20 PM
11	How to get him to do the laundry right!?! Asking him not to do the laundry is challenging his authority??? I'm a traditional woman, but sometimes the things I read here damn near knock me back. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: there is a difference between being led by your man and being a doormat. It should not even be an issue to say to your husband, "I love you, and I appreciate you, but I prefer you don't do the laundry (and here's why)." There are certain tasks I prefer my husband not do, as I like them to be done a spec…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/21 09:51 PM
2	Need housekeeping advice - air freshener We don't have any outlets in our entry so I got one of those Air Wick autospray air fresheners and it works pretty well. I wish there were better scents to choose from (most of them are sickly sweet), but the fresh linen is decent. You can set it to spritz every 9, 18, or 36 minutes, and I suspect the 9 minute cycle would do the trick for you. If you have an outlet with surface space, wax warmers have much nicer scent options, but they aren't as strong and require more attention (cleaning out th…	/r/RedPillWives	22/03/21 05:29 PM
15	Married women, did your effort to look attractive decrease once you got married? I was so pissed when I watched that video. To hear an overweight, unattractive man berate the women of his congregation was infuriating. Like, man, you need to get on a treadmill and get a grip. And let's not kid ourselves, the "ultimate trophy wife" Melania wouldn't have looked twice at Donald if he wasn't filthy rich. What kind of marriage goals is that to emulate??? So absurd. Personally, I've always taken care in my appearance. The biggest struggle for me was the year following the birth of …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/03/21 04:19 PM
4	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? It can be done, but first and foremost is mental health. I had a colicky baby when I had my first and went back to work full time (small business owner) after 3 weeks (I hired a mother's helper - who was only there to assist me during my business hours - and brought our baby to work with me). I worked full time, kept a clean home, and still had home cooked dinners. My husband and I tagged teamed cooking during that time. I also made sure I showered and got myself ready with makeup and hair every…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 10:22 PM
16	Has anybody been banned in other subs for participating in this one? Same exact situation. I hadn’t contributed here yet, just subbed to see what it was all about. That was okay with me. Breakingmoms culture could be a little toxic itself being that you could never say anything that wasn’t congratulatory or back patting. A lot of those women needed a little constructive criticism. It was basically turning into a place that existed solely to validate shitty behavior.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/21 04:48 PM
1	Attraction This is a strange issue. Are you on any medications that can affect your hormones? Are you bisexual, or gay leaning? Are you still in love with, or hung up on your partner from 4-5 years ago? Does your boyfriend turn you off for any reason: odor, not a provider, not very manly, unattractive, etc? Have you ever been attracted to him? Are you depressed? I doubt you suddenly became asexual. There's probably something going on and you didn't really give any info to narrow it down. Break up with your…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/21 04:37 PM
4	My husband is wonderful, but I’m having a hard time seeing past my flaws and being the happy wife he deserves Kick the sister out. I’ve been in a similar situation with a family member before and I cannot express how much your mental health will improve once you remove a destructive person from your home. Get hair extensions. If long hair will make you feel good, and attractive, get it done. Life is too short for bad hair. Find a way to come to terms with the tattoos. If it was me, I’d find a way to rock em. Dress ultra feminine, in pinks and frills, you’ll feel like a pinup. Or dress very chic, blacks …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/21 01:51 PM
1	I’m really heavy and need to figure out how to lose weight as quickly as possible. Tips? I'm in the US so I'm not sure what size you actually are, and I feel too lazy to google the conversion. But, in my experience, fad diets or super restrictive diets never work and lead to self-loathing, either because you're miserable or you fall of the wagon over and over. Couple suggestions: You could hire a personal trainer. A lot of personal trainers will also help address diet needs. A personal trainer is a great way to have accountability, being that you'll need to show up to your sessions …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/21 06:01 PM
6	Incredibly insecure about his first love It sounds like you are carrying a lot of baggage from the trauma of your first relationship. It sounds like he manipulated you into feeling worthless, by his cruel words and by taking your virginity. I would suggest you think about seeing a therapist to help you work through this. Your boyfriend can't fix this for you by reassuring you, or marrying you, or whatever. You need to fix this. Right now, I'd say you are at risk of either pushing your boyfriend away, or making a mistake by jumping into…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/21 04:40 PM
4	My post was deleted from r/offmychest because I post on r/redpillwomen I got banned from a moms subreddit for subbing here. I hadn’t even contributed here yet. I wasn’t too bummed, I thought that while the community could be great at times, they were often really inadvertently toxic (you were never allowed to criticize, even in a kind and constructive manner, so really unhealthy behavior was often perpetuated). I guess I figure if a community is that obnoxiously concerned about muting people who have dissenting views, even though they follow the sub rules, then it’…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/21 08:59 PM
24	Feeling like a burden, trying to be a blessing Sounds like he thinks you already are a blessing! He wants to take care of you, and that's really sweet. If he's happy, and he's happy to work a little extra to cover the bills, you have no reason to feel guilty. You offered to contribute, if he wanted, he could have supported you moving forward with that. Continue to show appreciation by doing the homemaking that you are. He obviously really enjoys it. That being said, I'm not sure being a Christian wife means you must blindly obey your husband…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/21 05:27 PM
14	Annoyed about husband's toilet time Hun....your husband sounds manipulative and selfish. He's using compliments and sweet sentiments to make you feel too guilty to hold his feet to the fire and participate. I'm sure you didn't choose to have children so you could be a pseudo single-parent...but that's kind of what he's forcing you to do. Even if one parent is working and one stays home, the off-hours are still supposed to be a team effort. Everyone needs breaks, but it isn't a free for all. Honestly, I hate to be that person that …	/r/RedPillWives	19/02/21 05:15 PM
4	How to get better at cooking (24f) I used to be a terrible cook too, but there is hope! My suggestion is to slowly work your way up. A couple times a week, pick a recipe that you would normally avoid (because it has more ingredients or steps, or whatever). Don't go for the hardest recipes, just a little more complex than normal. Don't make every recipe for the week a hard one, you'll get tired of it and give up. Work your way up. Also, if a recipe was really hard the first time, don't give up on it. I have learned that often the …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/21 03:27 PM
39	Annoyed about husband's toilet time Whoa, 2 hours!!! I'm not sure what to say because giving himself a 2 hour break from parenting every day would be more annoying than the fact that he's blocking toilet use for those 2 hours. I would be super, super pissed. Are you a SAHM? Just curious if he thinks he earns that break by working or something? I'm trying to understand his self-justification here. Either way, I'm a firm believer that dad's don't get to just bugger off during the day for nice little breaks whenever they feel like it…	/r/RedPillWives	19/02/21 03:11 PM
47	Is it just me or is there a lot of feminist viewpoints in this sub? I mean, you're not the gatekeeper to the rpw ideology. It's not up to you to decide who is and who isn't rpw... Should we encourage women to settle in their 20's simply because it fits the rpw ideal? What about women who haven't even had the opportunity? Are they kicked out of rpw because they didn't get their chance fast enough? Too bad, so sad? My personal take on rpw is that it's a traditional, conservative group of women. I take what works for me from the rpw ideals and let the rest go.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/21 05:14 PM
1	Feeling frustrated and not sure how to handle this :/ I'm a tad bit confused at the issue here. What do you need to stand up for yourself for? If you like coming up with ideas and enjoy it then who really cares if he doesn't take the advice. If you don't want to do it and feel like your time is wasted then say you don't feel like looking up ideas right now. It's really that simple. My husband is a pretty flippy-floppy guy (will ask for ideas on things and then do his own thing anyway) and if I feel like offering my ideas, I do, and if I don't feel …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/21 05:21 PM
10	How to be sweet and feminine without feeling unsafe? If it's simply not in your character to be a warm, sweet person that's okay. Everybody is different, and it's really how you emphasize your good qualities that matter. I'm not really the most gentile woman either. I like to make snarky jokes, and I'm career oriented, and strong-willed... But I keep an immaculate home, I dress pretty, I cook nice meals, and I show my husband respect and love. I don't think men are looking for a doormat, at least not the good men. They are looking for someone to r…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/21 03:54 PM
21	Would you wear a necklace with a tiny script personalized to say "housewife"? Would you wear it for everyday wear? I'm really considering getting one for myself. It would be just slightly longer than a choker. I think that sounds weird tbh. I wouldn’t wear a necklace that says “art dealer” (my job) lol. Also, it feels a little doormat-esque. Do you need a visible statement declaring to everyone you meet that you cook and clean for your husband? I don’t know. I just think it’s goofy and not much different than the wives who wear “army wife” stuff. It’s like okay, who cares? Nobody asked.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/21 09:39 PM
31	Overwhelmed by taking care of my appearance Girl! You are trying way too hard, and worrying way too much! First, dressing well doesn’t need to be expensive or hard. Look into a capsule wardrobe. Find pieces that are easy to put together. Have a couple everyday shoes to rotate and keep it simple. I have one go-to pair of knee high boots, booties, and casual flats. I have more because I like shoes, but I rarely wear them. You only need a few staples. Once you’ve simplified your wardrobe you’ll find it much less intimidating and time consumi…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/01/21 10:08 PM
-1	Is it a warning sign for a man to be into anime? Would be for me. I had a LTR with someone who liked anime and I felt like the lack of maturity that existed for him to enjoy anime leaked into other aspects of his personality and our relationship. After that ended, it was a huge red flag/dealbreaker for me when I was dating, if a guy was into that stuff. To each their own, but that’s a no for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/21 02:08 AM
4	Non-frumpy (but comfy) pajamas? This is my never ending struggle. I live in the North and I’m always cold in general. I wear soft leggings, knitted socks, and a sweatshirt. It’s not sexy, but it doesn’t look frumpy. I can’t wear it it to bed though because it’s too constricting. So I change into loose pajama shorts and a baggy t-shirt right before bed. There’s no two ways about, I look like a frump first thing in the morning. I wish I looked cuter, but I guess I figure it’s not that big of a deal considering the effort I put i…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/21 04:03 PM
3	How much effort do you put into your outfits when going on dates? If I didn't really know the guy yet, I usually dressed based off the date location. For a basic local restaurant I'd wear skinny jeans with sandals or booties and a flattering shirt. If it was an expensive restaurant or borderline club atmosphere, I'd wear a skirt, sexy top, and heels. If it was winter, I had a pair of super cool wide leg dress pants that I kept for such occasions. I think you maybe just got a little catfished on your date. I wouldn't be reconsidering my aesthetic if I was you. …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/21 04:17 PM
7	Is a man manly by himself? I agree with you. It’s patronizing to pretend I need help or stroke someone’s ego so they feel more manly. I’ll often tell my husband how much I appreciate his “manliness,” but it’s very genuine. I was married before and my ex wasn’t manly. I had to take care of things on my own a lot. I felt like a mom, not a partner. So I’ll express gratitude for those things I missed the first time. I’ll tell him that it’s sexy! Because it is! I don’t say it to reward the behavior or whatever, I just feel gra…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/20 01:40 PM
7	Boyfriend can't fall asleep in bed next to me and wants separate bedrooms My husband and I slept in separate rooms for about 6 months when I was recovering from a postpartum insomnia incident. I needed a quiet room with no disruptions to be able to sleep. It was great. We both slept very well for those 6 months. We’re back to sharing a bed but fairly often my husband will get up and go sleep in another room if he’s having trouble falling sleep, or if he notices I’m struggling to fall asleep. We’re both tidy sleepers and don’t snore, but once you separate bedrooms for …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/20 03:00 AM
5	How do you stay on top of your groceries? I have a whiteboard in the kitchen and when I run out of something, I write it down. That’s pretty much how I keep track of my pantry items. I shop once a week for groceries, or we order online. Due to a lot of errors with the online shopping I really only use it if I’m in a pinch and really don’t have time. We spend an excessive amount on groceries IMO, about $180 a week. We buy healthy foods, eat a lot of meat (particularly chicken), and it seems we tend to prefer ingredient heavy meals. We al…	/r/RedPillWives	11/12/20 01:28 PM
10	Awkward around kids I have kids and I still don’t like other people’s kids. I’ve gotten better at pretending I like them...but not much. Don’t overthink it. Don’t volunteer with kids. When you have your own it’s different. You don’t have to be maternal with anyone else’s kids but your own. I love my babies. I adore them and I think they’re the cutest little things on the planet. That’s all that really matters.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/20 01:40 AM
4	Hypothetical questions about cheating:conversations with my husband Absolutely, I think we all know deep down when we're flirting with danger, and what it really comes down to is how we respond to that. I was in the exact same situation as you once, in my first marriage. I cut it off and never saw the guy again. One thing that I realized later, is that no man or woman of value would flirt with, or try to tempt, a married person. They might seem great at the time, especially if you're struggling with your partner at home, but they're not. If they were, they would…	/r/RedPillWives	01/12/20 10:26 PM
16	Hypothetical questions about cheating:conversations with my husband I wouldn't want my husband to tell me if he had one kiss with a woman in the past. However, I'd definitely tell my husband because I couldn't live with the guilt. I suppose that makes me a little selfish? I believe affairs happen gradually, but I think the red flags are instantly obvious. I remember when my ex-husband started a new job and he came home one night and told me how his female co-worker was dressed that day. We were having a conversation about proper office attire and he relayed what…	/r/RedPillWives	01/12/20 07:15 PM
5	Embaressed to feel pretty? I know exactly what you’re talking about! I felt that way so much when I was younger, but I eventually grew out of it. I used to be nervous to change my hairstyle even, for fear it might garner attention and comments. Looking back I can definitely say the issue was deep rooted insecurity. I can’t tell you how I grew out of it other than time (and getting out of an unhealthy relationship that was holding me back). The best advice I can give is that you dress and style yourself how you’d like. Don…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/20 02:32 PM
10	I (23F) just found out that my boyfriend's (25M) ex (21F) committed suicide, and his actions were one of the things that pushed her to do so. I would be incredibly turned off by a man who considered a rape victim to be not pure enough for him. Now, if it was unresolved issues stemming from the trauma, I can understand that. Not everyone is equipped mentally to deal with things like that. But because she wasn't pure enough? That's gross. What if you were to get assaulted someday down the road? Would he see you as dirty or unworthy too? Obviously it's hard to put myself in your shoes, but I find your expression of this man to be all aro…	/r/RedPillWives	21/11/20 04:53 PM
5	Today I realized that being hot is a full time job. How long does the Bondi Sands typically last for you?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/10/20 03:06 PM
9	I have a terrible habit of overly reaching out to people, quadruple texting, answering in two seconds when they’ve taken hours. Can you ladies please give me tips and advice on how to nix this? I don't think there's anything wrong with responding quickly. I'm a couple-hours-later responder because I'm really busy with work and kids, but when my single furloughed friends respond super fast, I don't think anything of it. Most people who don't respond right away aren't doing it with an agenda, it usually that they're just busy or distracted. And they probably don't care, or notice even, that you aren't the same way. I will admit, I do get annoyed by my friends that send text after text af…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/10/20 02:56 PM
6	Today I realized that being hot is a full time job. My least favorite thing to maintain is a freakin' tan. I cannot tan naturally (very Scandinavian, doesn't seem to be in my genetics), and really, I don't like the payoff of aged leather skin that comes years later. I love a little golden glow, but the whole thing is so much work. I don't go to a professional anymore because I really don't have time, so I use the at home stuff and between spending the day being stinky, and having to do it again 3 days later, it's so irritating! Why haven't they c…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/10/20 02:24 PM
8	The one part of rpw I don't agree with so far is advice to not sleep with men until you're get commitment. I agree that making sure you're compatible is important, but I think you're grossly over-simplifying it. Three dates and the sex wasn't good? I mean, that's like really not shocking in the slightest. Hell, I'd still be deciding if I like someone on the 3rd date, not worrying about if they're going to rock my world in the bedroom. The first few times with my husband were laughably terrible. We talked about it and figured out why we weren't jiving, fixed it, and have to say (and I'm not just sayin…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/20 02:51 PM
27	How to tell your captain he's dropped the ball? Whoa, this definitely sounds like something is going on. Depression maybe. Or like another suggested, alcoholism. Or both. Before discussing anything else, you need to ask him what’s going on and potentially suggest professional help. This just doesn’t sound like normal dropping the ball, this is very concerning.	/r/RedPillWives	06/10/20 11:25 AM
2	Are men with tattoos a red flag for a rpw lifestyle? My husband has a half sleeve and a medium sized tattoo on the inside of his other arm. I love them, I think tattoos look really sexy. He’s a traditional guy, and he actually got them after we were married. One is a piece symbolizing personal growth (he got it after completing his rookie year on the Fire Department) and the other represents myself and our children (it’s not the typical name or face tattoos). They were extremely expensive and done by a talented artist, so they don’t look trashy or…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/20 11:20 AM
8	So what if you've had a lot of partners? Not the person you commented to, but I've been with my husband for 7 years and we've never had a conversation about past sexual partners. It's not that hard to believe, tons of people don't care to talk about that stuff, and genuinely don't care what someone's number is. It's never even come up, like I've never had to say, "I don't feel like I want to share that." I've never been asked in my life, and I've never asked anyone else. And really, 7 years in, you just don't talk about that stuff at a…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/20 02:41 PM
10	So what if you've had a lot of partners? Thank you for saying this. I refer to it as "don't ask, don't tell" as well, but not because it's some trick or manipulation. I just really don't think my past intimacies are anyone's business, and I don't care about my partner's past either. I mentioned this in another thread yesterday, but I have literally never dated a man (I dated a handful of attractive, successful men before finding my husband) who was curious about my number. And honestly, I don't have any female friends who have run into…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/20 02:32 PM
2	Thoughts/suggestions on how to recover from bad past and still find HVM/alpha Having made past mistakes does not need to dictate your future. I was married and divorced at a young age (my ex-husband cheated and left), I did some things I wish I hadn't as a result, and I remember being worried that no good man would want me. I felt like I was "used goods" when my peers were "fresh, hot commodities" in comparison. But let me tell you, not once did my past dictate my worth to a partner. I dated a handful of men (all successful, attractive men) and not a single one cared that…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/20 05:19 PM
5	Dad's thought on marriage I don't really see any logic to your dad's sentiment. When you're young, and especially before you have kids, it's very easy and cheap to part ways. When I got divorced from my first husband (he cheated, but we maintained civility during the process) we split the cost of an attorney (that I retained, we agreed ahead of time on how to split assets), and since there were no kids, it cost a couple hundred dollars and took 30 days. I've, happily, never seen him since. I sometimes think about how dif…	/r/RedPillWives	29/09/20 07:24 PM
8	Please help! That is code for "I'm waiting to see if something better comes along." I'd be out.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/20 07:11 PM
19	I just met someone I am 99.9% sure I'm going to marry. What should I do and how should I be the best wife to him? He is amazing and I want our marriage to be authentic and loving from the jump. There's not a lot of context here, but I will say that if you just met this person you may want to be careful to not come off too aggressive (talking about marriage with a brand new partner is pretty intense), and to also take a little time to relax and focus on getting to know your partner. People present themselves in their best light in early dating, and it takes a while for the flaws and potential issues to arise. Putting him on an unrealistic pedestal right from the start won't benefit eith…	/r/RedPillWives	28/09/20 04:53 PM
4	Is anyone else annoyed by how reddit constantly recommends therapy/couple's therapy for every minor thing? I often think that relationship advice seekers are not looking for advice, more than they're looking for validation. And in the process of ensuring they get said validation, they make their partners sound like losers. So of course Reddit offers advice that is often more than probably necessary (run now, divorce, therapy). Not to say therapy isn't good blanket advice, but a lot of the stuff is probably petty arguments blown out of proportion, or a person grossly misrepresenting the situation/rela…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 08:12 PM
14	New Rule: "Leave Him" is never the 1st option. This. I married my high school boyfriend because I was young and confused, and even though I had secret doubts, I remember feeling like I couldn't, or shouldn't, walk away because what right did I have to be that picky? I struggled with self-worth at the time. After we divorced (he cheated and left) tons of my friends and family came out of the woodwork saying they had their doubts about him the whole time. I sooooo wish they had told me, it might have given me the courage to listen to my little…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/20 02:39 PM
8	Most men secretly want a homemaker I think that until reality hits, the idea of welcoming a SAHW is really easy to give lip service too. I remember when my husband and I had a conversation about it many years ago (before our kids) and I asked if he'd be open to the idea, as I was wanting to keep my options open if I wanted to be a SAHM someday, and he said "yes, of course." Well, years later now we have two kids and if I became a SAHM it would be a big financial hit and we'd have to probably downsize in many ways. I guarantee if …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/20 03:53 PM
8	remaining a virgin until marriage. I almost responded to another comment here, but I figured I'd just leave my own. Waiting until marriage is great, if it's what you want and if it's what feels right to you. As someone who waited until marriage, looking forward to the Christian promise of pure, sexual intimacy and spiritual connection, I can say that I was left with a lot of bitterness and resentment. My husband and I were not compatible, it was never a pleasure for me, and I experienced a lot of confusion and shame with it. I wo…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/20 05:43 PM
6	How to introduce ourselves to neighbours? I would suggest you pop by with a little "welcome gift." When we moved to our house our neighbor came by with her kids (single mom) and gave us a pretty poinsettia flower pot. A few weeks ago we got a new neighbor and since they moved in it's been a bunch of guys renovating it (the rest of the family isn't there yet, but moving this month) and so we brought them a 6 pack of beer to drink while they worked. Depending on your best read of the neighbors you could do a little potted plant, wine, bee…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/20 02:18 PM
–	What's for dinner? Chicken bouillon cubes! It was pretty bland without them.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/20 12:01 AM
–	What's for dinner? I made Zuppa Toscana last night and though I've made it a million times, I totally forgot to put in an essential ingredient. Of course, I couldn't figure out what it was until it was half eaten. :( This week the menu is grilled Greek kabobs, slow cooker Bourbon chicken, and spicy ground turkey bowls. Friday night is always pizza night.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/08/20 07:42 PM
2	I recently found myself in a dangerous situation and am now agonizing about carrying a gun. Do any of you ladies conceal carry? I carry every day and my advice is that you start by testing guns out at the range. See how you feel handling it. If you’re very uncomfortable, don’t proceed. If it feels like you can comfortably handle one, purchase and keep it in your home to start (in a gun safe of course). Practice until you feel confident using it. When you get to that point, I would suggest taking the class. The class is long, and in some states the shooting test is challenging. Regardless, it’d be challenging if you had n…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/20 08:47 PM