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Easy. Femboy. Everyone loves a femboy these days. Bonus points: femboy for pay on onlyfans, then I’d be loaded irl. (This is half joking, the halves being this would cross boundaries for a lot of men and thats valid and the other side being I, a woman, love me a good femboy) That or go the edge route. Piercings/tattoos. More niche market for men like that, but often edge gets you extra points w ladies ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:34 PM
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Well then they’re shit people or extremely mislead. Not my fault. And it creates a safer environment for us and those around us. One of the biggest things is if you know a predator, male or female, warn your mutual friends. Prevent potential victims from falling into the traps of sexual abuse in the first place. Advocate for therapy. A lot of people are fucked up and hurt people. But thats not something you can’t come back from. If someone admits they did something, especially a sex crime & admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:21 PM
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I myself do it privately. I dont think humiliating someone on social media is effective in changing behavior or getting justice. But I cannot control other women. Yes, women often do awful things. I mean what do you want me to say? There are tons of people on both sides who are just shit. Neither of us can control that. Just as you are not responsible for all men I am not responsible for all women. All we can fo is work on our level to talk to those around us, and donate when possible to organiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:06 PM
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I’m glad you’ve decided on your reality. I apologize then, Last time I had researched & discussed I found different. ??? I don’t understand why you’re upset or mocking that I call out and hold responsible the women in my life. Would you rather me not? Would you rather me encourage their behavior? Lol And theres a big difference between a random bitch bashing you on the internet and your friend explaining why your actions are concerning. Thats literally the entire point i’ve been trying to make, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:13 PM
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Thank you :) I appreciate that, I think (well, clearly) the whole concepts got repeated that the point of wanting it to be constructive was lost in translation. Its not “haha men trash”. If women are whores and men are trash no ones ever going to resolves anything. Gotta remember why the movements started in the first place, to resolve the issues to the point neither feminism or mens rights movements and groups have to be advocated anymore, they’re engrained in society. I blame twitter and tumbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:10 AM
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If you don’t see it, if you have no reason to believe it happened, you got some good friends. Realistically not every man is a rapist. The other thing I like to advocate is calling out gross sexualization/body shaming/rape jokes. I’ve noticed its a lot more normal for women to sexualize, often much much younger men. I think its important to call jokes and comments like that out, it seem small but the less those ideas and behaviors are seen as acceptable. The more people, simply out of heard ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:02 AM
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Thats great that you think that, but its not true. You have no idea who I am or what I do, so I guess you can think whatever you want even if its wrong. Im not the thought police. Lol Yeah there is absolutely no data or statistic to prove that. You cant just decide somethings true because it sounds right to you. Theres not enough reliable data either way. But either way my point still stands. I hold the women i know and meet accountable. I ask you to hold the men around you accountable. Its not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:58 AM
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I do know that. And I do my part to hold the women around me accountable, and to never support & call out women who have sexually abusive behavior & are rapists. But I cannot do anything about male on male rape, why on earth would a male rapist ever listen to some random woman? With which with the current statistics most male sexual assaults are by other males. I hold myself and my friends accountable. Male friends included. I’m not sure why you would ever think i thought that women raping men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:42 AM
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“Most oppressed” is just the tallest midget. King of the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:42 AM
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The point remains, thats not how statistics work. I don’t like people stating their personal experiences as if they are statistical fact, its dumb, uneducated and often dangerous. And devils advocate, following the same reasoning, why does your experience of 5 years outweigh a woman’s life experience of sexual harassment? I’m not really sure why your 5 years are any more important or more reliable to the narrative as a whole than a woman’s experience simply being out in public. I truly cannot co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:33 AM
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Also your statistics are wrong. Women are 1 out of 4, men 1 out of 6. Another fun statistic is men are more likely to be sexually assaulted than falsely accused of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:17 AM
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I’m sorry, on what planet is this winning? I don’t want to win some fucked up oppression “I’m better” complex, I’d simply like validation this danger exists so we can work to make the world a safer place. Do you really think women being up shit like sexual assault to win the oppression olympics?? We bring it up because we’re sick and tired of not being able to leave the house alone at night, or guard our drinks, or deal with regular sexual harassment. I don’t want you to suck my dick on how much…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:12 AM
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Any reliable statistic depends on more than the witnessing of one man. Do you realize how scientifically worthless one person’s view of one place over a 5 year time is to the world as a whole? One man’s view of one single place is so inconsequential into life as a whole. There are too many variables, no reliable recording, it all depends on one biased man’s heresy. To put simply, its worthless and is either purposely ignorant or simply completely ill educated to pretend it could ever count as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:03 AM
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Thats wonderful you never saw it. But your experience does not represent the whole. Also you don’t seem to grasp, it does happen. It doesn’t matter if its rare. If you are physically incapable, both size and strength, of fighting off men, wouldnt you worry? It still happens. It happens every day. 1 out of 4 women have been assaulted. And thats those who report, a lot of women don’t. They say the rape kit is often just as bad if not worse than the assault itself. It doesn’t matter how rare it is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:48 AM
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Tell that to rapists, and sexually motivated serial killers, lmao. I don’t think Ted Bundy went to easy when he lured in with injury and violently raped, beat and murdered those college students .-. Or BTK, Robert Rhodes, Leonard Lake and Charles Ng (particularly nasty ones), The Toy Box killer But I guess people like Brock Turner and other frat boy rapists go pretty gentle, they at least wait till you’re unconscious so you dont remember :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:39 AM
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Alright, dipshit. How many of those happen in an event of sexual rejection? Just because straight men assault and murder each other more often doesn’t mean a women is not likely to be assaulted & murdered for rejection. Do you need some of the countless articles in which a woman rejected a man and she, and sometimes her family, were violently murdered? Also, why the fuck does it matter? Men getting assaulted by each other more doesn’t mean men don’t assault women often. Men fuck each other ip ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:28 AM
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As the proud owner of a vagina, no. As someone who is literally attached to a vagina, I consider myself fairly authorized to speak on them, or at least my own. I have really narrow hips. I physically cannot extend beyond a certain size. Every woman is indeed different, I hate to inform you. What one woman can easily fit in her vagina, another woman may not ever be able to come close. Theres nothing wrong with that, are people really shaming women for being “too tight” now?? Lmao But maybe my pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:19 AM
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Because realistically, if he can’t keep his dick hard theres really not anything either of you can do about it. You cant fix erectile dysfunction or sexual dysfunction from medication or medical issue with some magical handjob. Where as a woman can be perfectly healthy, perfectly capable of getting wet, and unless you want her to masturbate in front of you to get ready, still needs stimuli to get wet. Yeah and the tight thing is dumb as shit. Yes, a vagina will loosen with arousal, but if you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:35 AM
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That is so interesting!!! Thank you for sharing, I love learning about the intertwining of social, cultural, monetary and gender issues & how different combos make for unique struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:18 AM
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Thats really interesting all around the board. Do they have studies or theories of it being effected by racial disparities in poverty? I mean I would imagine less impoverished people a) have the money to go to college b) have any social or familial pressure to go (if not the contrary). And if that changed between gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:50 AM
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I’m really curious what the numbers are for specific ethnic/cultural subgroups. I know in the hispanic side of my family the men were greatly discouraged from doing anything other than blue collar “real mans”work. The whole Machismo ideology in hispanic culture. My uncle & my mother were the first generation of their family to get college degrees, not because of money or anything, but because of the cultural values.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:39 AM
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Tangent: but The idea of a (ER) Nurse and Trucker couple is both one of incredible willpower and work ethic but also kind of sad. They’d never see each other. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:34 AM
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Ugly men are the first to police a female strangers looks and try to call them too ugly, fat and undesirable and justify it with “its just not what I like”. It definitely goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:04 AM
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I mean, women cross the street when walking at night if any mans behind him. I think its natural to want to deny that all men are a physical threat. Like I get where you’re coming from, but I don’t know why anyone would want to admit everyone is a threat. I don’t think she’s doing it to have a weird dick measuring contest, I think she’s wishfully thinking that if a short man assaulted her she could fight him off. Like I get where you’re coming from, but being stronger to feel about ourselves isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:30 PM
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Thats so stupid, who would even benefit from that? Performative activism at its worst. Like if you’d actually like to help someone to begin with why not charge everyone the same then maybe, oh I don’t know, donate to LGBT funds or women’s shelters? Just a fucking thought. Then no ones feels like shit & is publicly humiliated, and you’re actually helping the causes you so desperately want to look like you support.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 01:48 AM
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Sorry Amy, I don't give a shit what proud rapists think lmao
/r/MensRights06/04/21 10:19 PM
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I think for me, it depends on how much that person means to me, and for lack of a better term, how much I value them. Like a guy may be hot, but he's also boring and unreliable. So you fuck him, and then you probably don't see him otherwise. Where as if I value someone as a person, enjoy being around them,etc etc, I take longer. I think sometimes its like, if joe shmoe sees me naked and i embarrass myself (say something that grosses him out, idk, queef) it doesn't matter, his opinion doesn't mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:17 PM
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Dude I swear to god its a total thing, in which they specifically prey on women who have been abused by men. Then they reinforce the PTSD fueled idea all men are your abuser. Its a total fucking cult thing, when I was super pro feminist I 100% believed all men were a danger its was fucking insane, and really gross. They preyed & fed upon my PTSD under the guise of “female empowerment”. So yeah, I think a lot of them actually do.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 01:37 AM
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If you’re a decent person who doesn’t hurt people, you shouldnt feel the need to apologize on behalf of other people. That goes for men and women. You don’t have to be sorry, you just gotta not treat other people like shit. Like is it so hard to treat humans like humans? On both sides. Like i want to be like “yeah im a feminist”, in the definition that I think men and women are equals and should be treated as such. But twitter feminism doesn’t seem to have end goal, or even an ideal for what the…
/r/MensRights06/04/21 01:34 AM
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YES. Oh my gosh. Theres a reason America has the highest obesity rates. And its not “we’re just lazy” or “we eat more”. I mean most other countries eat larger portions/more variety, but because those foods aren’t processed to the point we do. A lot of what the entire ED recovery program was unlearning food myths. Learning to focus on the amount of nutrients (one of which being fat), instead of some random number. I had been pretty badly anorexic for years, and still I only ever lost weight when …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:16 PM
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I am an anorexic on heavy medication, I’m not one to count towards whatever idea you’re trying to prove. I am not of the group, lol. I have neither BED or a correctly functioning body. I am indeed more overweight than I would like, but I am not fat, not that either of those points matter in this situation. An edit: i mean anorexic as in, would not for 3 days at a time, one meal between, still could not lose weight. Which again I say, to prove my point, its not that easy Edit for better wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:27 PM
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And who told you that? Where did you get this information? Have you just decided this is how it works? Because, again, as someone who as been to an eating disorder facility, done the program, recovered, etc etc, no eating disorder is that simple. The therapists and doctors (some of who have been researching this for decades), explain repeatididuy it is not that simple. Anorexia, bulimia, ARFID, BED, whatever if it, its never that simple. I say again, therapists and doctors do not spend decades t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:20 PM
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While that may be true for some, don’t you think a lot more people would be healthy weight if it truly was that easy? Also, do you really think treatment centers are free? Most are 1000+ a day without insurance, and have you staying at least a month. No one just has that money, lol. Even with insurance, it can be a few hundred. Indeed, theres a reason why BED treatment centers are a thing. Its because its not as simple as, “just stop eating”. If you “just stop eating”, you’re more likely to begi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:08 PM
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Its not really as simple as that, haha. Not to mention, eating disorders trump all realistic thinking. Shit wrecks your life, unfortunately theres not a lot of available treatment, or even knowledge that any treatment exists. Its hard enough to find out about and then get help for anorexia, a widely known condition, so BED treatment is in its infancy. Oh and an edit, even if people know about and have access to treatment, a lot of people put off going because they think they’ll just be around un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:56 PM
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Wooh, the internet isn’t ready for that harsh reality. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:44 PM
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I’m a bit confused, why is your sexual interest something to strive for?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:39 PM
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This is so almost relevant and yet at the same time, I also wouldn’t mind a hot sexbot to answer my door for me, now that you mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:04 AM
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I didn’t know they did public executions here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:01 AM
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Oh yeah, definately differences there. I at least understand the, “I’m already a sexual outcast, no need to be ashamed of anything” feelings. Though theres levels to that, I think you only get there when you accept your sexuality. I do love the whole, “bi aesthetic” vibe. Though i’m obviously bi-ased (budum tss). As for social relationships between bi/straight/lesbian, I’m not sure I qualify to answer. I have trouble relating with women (not in a ‘not like other girls hehe’ way, I have some shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:06 AM
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That is a point I didn’t consider. I know being obsessed/addicted to masturbation to the point of physical/emotional/responsibility harm is a really big issue for a lot of men, one I havent heard as much with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:58 AM
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I’ve never gotten that stereotype. Its just as dangerous and common for a woman to not properly clean her toys and end up with a vaginal infection or UTI. But then again we get UTIs if we breath wrong, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:44 AM
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all very true. And as for not mentioning other toys, I wanted to mention a more universal toy that men would use. While I have heard prostate massagers and such can be great, I have also heard its a bit alarming/unpleasant at first, given men arent used to being penetrated. Which I mean, even being a woman the first time you experience a foreign object inside of you its a little uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:21 AM
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Oh gosh, I didn’t even think of that. Definitely should have done a little research before making that assumption so confidently. I can definitely speak from the point of a bisexual, but I am woman. I realize that came off as me speaking for gay/bisexual men, I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:17 AM
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Thank you :) And forgive me I’m not sure how to reply to specific lines it a comment, lol. I think we absolutely owe society nothing. Especially a society which systematically exploits us and gives us nothing in return. In an ideal community, we all would contribute and get contributions in return. But for now, that community is something we can only hope for. I think we do however owe it to ourselves to find and pursue our values. You don’t have to give those values to a power which exploits yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:11 AM
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Why are women able to orgasm? I’m not complaining obviously. Its just another why do men have nipples thing. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:56 AM
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Homosexuality is outside the sexual norm already. If they’ve accepted themselves, they’ve already had to cross into the realm of “sexually abnormal” or “sexually open”. They often arent accepted anyway or seen as “manly men”, so theres less of a pressure to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:43 AM
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Female/male resentment aside, I am happy MGTOW/WGOTW is a thing, people should absolutely strive for more than a nuclear family. Just as women are not just housewives and baby makers and nannies, a man shouldnt be obligated to sustain and support an entire family by himself, especially at the cost of his mental health. And both of those movements, though they may be harsh, are at least a start. We as people deserve to heal from collective codependency. And for value, I suppose potential value. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:39 AM
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That would be possible for a lot of it, but some are endorsements/sponsored in videos by creators. Yeesh didnt expect to reveal so much of my search history with this post. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:15 AM
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Oh god I don’t like to think about the whole forced sex for hysteria. Or the whole hysteria thing in general. The things you could do to a woman & have dont to a woman in the name of “insanity” or “hysteria” was horrifying. That was one of the most widely acceptable yet dehumanizing, human right violation level horrors in recent history. Forced sterilization, forced imprisonment, forced sex, forced lobotomies and other “mental health treatments”(torture). The more I find about the more im horrif…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:13 AM
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Very right. Gay men I find are more sexually open/accepting of adventure, probably because they innately have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:09 AM
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Dude did you even read that whole fucking page? Read the second paragraph lol But for technicality’s sake, I’ll rephrase. Anorexia Nervosa was not a widespread or recognized issue till after the 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:06 AM
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I don’t mean it that way. I think honestly, when I see someone who has “taken the red pill”, i see someone who has no self value and can’t cope with it, and isn’t encouraged to get help. Granted that doesn’t excuse malicious behavior, but I can at least empathize with finding it easier to blame your feelings of self loathing on something else in an attempt to not have to confront them. Hatred of women or not, no one should hate themselves so much they want to die. Genuinely, I wish more men woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:04 AM
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Not me though, I’m more evolved than everyone else and have a big galaxy brain! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:53 AM
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Translation: “I refuse to look at statistics or experiences other than my own, and instead accept only my own experience as universal truth”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:51 AM
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Ugh. I hate that thats a thing. I didn’t even realize I totally play into the value thing without realizing. Its just such a shitty thing for both sides. Women become sex objects/commodities, men less than impossibly perfect are inadequate and “low hanging fruit”. Its just gross and dehumanizing for everyone and yet I’m not even sure how to break the cycle within myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:48 AM
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I half agree. I think the “pandering” is to keep women trapped in consumerism. They give you an impossible image to fill, then sell you products on how to try to get there & how to quell the self hatred the failure to achieve the impossible brings. But that impossible image isn’t mens fault, women are equally at fault. I think its years upon years of high fashion, consumerism and falling in love with impossible image, and it kind of snowballed. Heroine chic, the 60s when Twiggy was in. Fun fact,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:43 AM
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Oh the Id, how it does effect our cognitive choices, and how We like to pretend it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:25 AM
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This sounds like a much more realistic view/opinion. As I said I may just be my perception of the situation, as I tend to try to remain in particularly female sex positive circles, rather than the average circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:27 AM
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Damn, you’re right. Can’t win if you don’t play
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:23 AM
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Indeed relevant, as I am telling you I am not the one effected by it. And no its not our responsibility, but the reality is we remain the center of so much unwanted sexual attention, comments and advances, of which no one seems to effectively be doing jack shit about. For lack of a better example, If a kid wont stop playing with the stove even when you tell them it’s dangerous, you buy them a toy stove. Then they have their own stove and stop risking blowing up the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:20 AM
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Weird flex, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:17 AM
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I’m a woman, jesus fucking christ. Its 2 seconds to scroll for context, check my profile, Fucking anything, I’ve only clarified four fucking times. . And I’m sorry, why would it be pathetic to worry about someone mocking you at your most vulnerable? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:12 AM
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No one said they were. There is social stigma, not law. Its intentionally daft to act like social ideas have no effect on how people make choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:06 AM
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I think it points to a bigger issue. Men’s sexual worth is based on quantity of partners, where’s women’s sexual worth is innate and more explored as a whole, be it a trivial amount so far. Hence the whole like, “he’s a loser for only sleeping with 3 women, she’s a slut for sleeping with 3 guys” thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:59 AM
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Definitely coulda fooled me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:57 AM
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I mean from what I have heard, your left hand can’t quite live up to a vagina. But I would not know, lol My point is, if we encouraged sex toys for men, especially those with social issues & aggression towards women which stems from self inadequacy as a replacement to sex itself, happier world. Theres also a difference to feeling good and just getting off. You “get off” to relieve your pent up feelings. Masturbation can be an amazing form of self care, it is after all explicitly for your own ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:55 AM
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Damn, I really didn’t expect you to have a realistic or ethical solution. Touché I mean if you average it, you could apply it to women who fall under the national average and could get a deduction from male sex workers. ....our vagina, comrade. Edit: and as a response to your second suggestion, I can’t say I disagree. You got some damn good solutions dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:49 AM
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Also since you seem to be a bit dense, porn is media you consume, sex toys are products you purchase ;) Not to mention., You realize women watch porn too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:42 AM
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I say again, I myself am a woman. It is a trend I have noticed on social media. And the entire point of the post, sex toys are much easier, and I think there would be a lot less grumpy incels if they all just got a nice fleshlight and stopped rating their value on their sexual ability & blamed women for the fact they haven’t had a nice way to get off. Truly, did the women who read the post stop at, “women’s sex toys are more socially acceptable” and get too defensive to continue reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:40 AM
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Why are you so offended by this? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:37 AM
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I mean, I do tend to visit both twitter and youtube in which there often sex toy endorsements. Truly, have you ever seen a twitter user or youtube user endorsing a fleshlight? I have seen many endorsing vibrators...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:37 AM
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Dude I AM A WOMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:31 AM
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Women want willing participants to do anything they want. Hence that whole chant, “my body, my choice”. And would you be negatively affected if a man fucked your ass without your consent? I speak from experience, shits not nice. It does indeed effect you insanely negatively. And also yes, women indeed do care about sex trafficking, in fact thats a big argument in feminism in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:30 AM
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Biological urges to what? Eat? Shit in a place w indoor plumbing? Afford tampons?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:00 AM
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Are you suggesting women’s vaginas be rationed out or that women not get welfare? Men end up on welfare as well, as do most women pay taxes which make welfare. This is confusing. I mean if you’re that concerned about money/sex comparison, a fleshlight is cheaper than a night with a sex worker. Not to mention someone earning/receiving money will not directly negatively affect someone. Lets spin this another way, why don’t you let gay men have sex with you? Why not let women peg you? It goes both …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:49 PM
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Save the text, contact the police. If its deemed a serious attempt, she could very well be forcibly hospitalized and your son likely removed from her care. The text will probably also be helpful in legal proceedings. And as for the choosing dad over mom thing, I’m really glad he saw through it at such a young age. I didn’t realize my mom was the problem will I was an adult, societies shit as far as that goes. I’m really glad you have him on your side, for both of yours sale.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 10:05 PM
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From experience, some of the most abusive, shitty men out there are “feminists”. A lot of them just throw around “im a feminist” to mask their shitty behaviors & qualities. I think the media gives women really low standards on what to seek out, so you’re taught to drool at a “progressive man” even if he treats you like shit. Like i cant count how many times i’ve heard “he’s so amazing and respectful!!!” Because he has “feminism” in his bio, and then he turns around and abuses them. theres no mag…
/r/MensRights02/04/21 09:12 PM
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Woman here, It blows my mind that people think this is a bad thing, lol. Like of all the issues in the world why are we worrying about people being kind to you, especially with expecting nothing. I don’t know why anyone would try to make an argument for this being bad. Like its just the decent thing to do. If you get to the door, hold it for the person(s) right behind you! My typical reaction is to smile and say thank you, then if theres another door ahead hold it open to return the favor, lol. …
/r/MensRights02/04/21 08:55 PM
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I sort of see your point, but being a teacher requires an education and certification that janitorial work does not. You usually have to get your bachelors, then student teach for like a year after to even qualify to be a teacher. You can become a janitor with a GED. Its like comparing apples and oranges. So I’d say its less a gender thing and more an education access/class thing. What I guess would be a bigger issue is why men aren’t encouraged to be okay with jobs like teaching. Society expect…
/r/MensRights02/04/21 08:48 PM
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Dude, yes. So much yes. As a woman with a diagnosed eating disorder, of which I went to rehab, the current “body positivity” movement is just glorification of binge eating the way pro-anorexia forums encouraged under eating. To feel better about yourself w body dysmorphia , you have to stop focusing on how your body looks. You have to stop focusing on food. Not throw yourself in the opposite fucking direction and kill yourself the opposite way. It makes me fucking sick to see people with an eati…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:42 AM
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Absolutely. I think its really gross to say, “don’t shame a woman for not being a virgin” and then to turn around and insult a man for bring a virgin. I think its pretty gross to make fun of someone for not having had sex, and that entire mindset is sometimes why some people develop resentment to the point of hatred of women entirely. I’m not one to date, but as a veteran slut, I can confidently say the number of partners a man has had doesn’t necessarily mean he’s better in bed. And as for like…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:25 AM
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Even as a kid I remember seeing the survival rates of woman and children vs men on the titanic and being really grossed out and disturbed. Like, being a girl shouldn’t mean my life matters more. There were sons and husbands and fathers on that boat that werent allowed off because they were men. And now as a grown woman, the obvious sexism & lack of value for male life aside, its really infantilizing. It likens woman’s ability to cause harm to that of a child, which is definitely insulting, but a…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 02:15 AM
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And How will this maintain order? What do you plan to do if instead of buying sex, those who would already seek it were to sexually assault people instead? Would that not also lead the exact same thing, except in this case the mother being unemployed as well? How does it break down the family? as researched and stated here, is the abandonment of the father which raises crime rates, not the existence of a single mother. As far as single mothers causing an increase in mental illness, that is untru…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 12:14 AM
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And why is that? How are they damaging society? What parts of society would the legalization of profit off voluntary sex work cause to crumble? And does the execution include the people paying for sex work? Does it include porn stars? I’m curious, do expand. May I also question, can you name even one functional society in which sex works were not a part of? It is, as they say, the oldest profession.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 11:49 PM
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I’m all for sex work, but Just as a woman had the right to make an onlyfans, her partner absolutely has the right to leave her for making it. Their boundaries are their boundaries, just as her choices are her choices. Its being in a consenting adult relationship, if you do something your partner isn’t comfortable with and refuse to compromise, they absolutely get to withdrawal consent. Thats how consent works. I don’t understand, like, what would the other option? Keeping her husband captive in …
/r/MensRights29/03/21 06:20 PM
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As a woman as well as a former child care worker, here are some things I have picked up/wish I could change that I didnt see mentioned too much yet! First, teach appropriate suspicion of both men and women. I wouldnt think this is a problem you’d have given the sub, but its a hard mindset/fear to break out of. Not to mention these days a lot of people who kidnap for human trafficking are women, so not only is fear of men harmful, its not warranted & is dangerous. Second, teach her her value is i…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:35 PM
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I’m a woman and I did not learn you were supposed to do this till adulthood 🙄 important, often left out advice.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 01:59 AM
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