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I go with “I love how feminine you are”. This is usually the case with an older woman that I find attractive, they are more sexy and womanly with little or no child-like cuteness. It also avoids the age issue.
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:54 AM
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I normally wouldn't do anything that I am not too comfortable with. We are looking for someone we can be with and be happy. If the energy is naturally too far apart and neither side finds it comfortable to meet at least somewhere in between, that might not be a good fit.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:26 AM
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She's married and have a history of cheating. Looks like all you can expect to get out of this is some physical intimacy. I don't see any reason to expect that she would spend time texting you.
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:27 AM
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Alright. OP, if you guys are already flirting by staring into each others’ eyes, you can start and be more physical with her. Touch her on her shoulders, or upper arm, somewhere more innocent, and see how she responds. For example, when you lost the staring contest, that would be the perfect time to slap her in the upper arm and joke around. That’s a very natural situation to touch her, and then you can see how she responds to that (innocent on the surface) advancement. The key is to move in ste…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:22 PM
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How long have you been friends? If not too long, start trying to be playful/flirtatious and see how she responds. If you’ve been friendzoned for a long time, really the best thing for you to do is to disappear for some time. This allows for the possibility for her to recalibrate how she feel about you. If you do indeed have other girls asking you out, go and have fun. But don’t need to ever mention it to her. This is for your own benefit, puts you in a better mindset and frame, so your actions i…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:04 PM
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Talk to her like a normal person. Don’t try to verbally convince her how good of a person you are. That just sounds needy, creepy, or that you are too full of yourself. Have you talked to her before? Do you two know each other?
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:46 AM
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I feel it is just easier to continue enjoying your life without worrying about what her or her friends want. The best thing you can do for yourself when someone leaves you, especially when they did it for someone else, is to live better and happier than when you were together. Forget about why her friend is asking questions. Your ex lost the right to know the moment she left. With that being said, if you are now more happy than before, there's no need to hide it from her either.
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:15 AM
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I think this is a sign that she's at least not repulsed by you. Can definitely be flirting too. You can never be sure of her interest level from one action alone. Do more with her, learn to slowly escalate (both emotionally and physically). When you feel resistance during the escalation, that's the level of comfort she's willing to be with you at that moment. Just enjoy the flirting period, this is arguably the most mentally exciting part of a relationship (whether you guys end up being with eac…
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:06 AM
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No, this approach totally sounds like a bad idea..... Higher value is demonstrated not said. When you say it out loud (like there's a girl asking you out), it makes you look way worse.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:48 AM
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She knows you are not looking for a relationship, I would tell her that I don’t share about my other relationships. (After all, a gentleman don’t kiss and tell)
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:08 AM
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She wants to be just friends and you don't. It's hard to just be friends with someone you find attractive, and you also respect her decision to not want something romantic, so you totally have the right to cut contact. Don't need to be a jerk about it, don't need to let her feel like you were bothered by it, but also no need to respond to everything she says. If you ever see her again, or if she invites you out and you decide to go, you need to start paying attention to her IOI's. If there are e…
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:17 AM
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You said convo didn't went anywhere, then why sweat it? Unless you said something that would make you look bad? Which I would always advise against. You never know who's going to see it.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:04 AM
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Best to give her some space. No matter the reason, she's upset by you or what you said. I would simply let her know you felt her distancing herself and understands that she's probably still upset. You will respect that and will not go car shopping with her. Then see how she responds.
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:54 AM
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Part of seduction is to realize not everyone's going to like you. When they don't, you respect their decisions and keep your distance. Another part is to make sure when they do like you, you don't mess it up, and instead you build that attraction into something stronger. Having a way to make everyone like you is unrealistic, because there could be contradictions between what people like.
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:48 AM
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Just keep it casual and ask if you could buy her drinks too. Don't have to explicitly say where, could be vague and see how she responds. If she responds with something positive, you can mention coffee/lunch outside of work. If not too hot a response, just buy her a drink next time you guys work as a thank you.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:25 AM
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Try to sit next to her and ask to borrow a pencil or something small. This gets her to notice you and when people do something for another person, it somehow builds some good feelings inside the person towards you. This also gives you another opportunity to thank her after class.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:18 AM
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Give her space is the only way. You are not going to recover from looking too desperate by looking even more desperate trying to fix things. Give her space and go have fun with other people, this is the only way.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:14 AM
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Have you met any of them in person before? Did they show signs of remorse? Did they reschedule? It is not uncommon for girls to be flaky, especially when you've never met before. But it's also a sign of not enough interest. I wouldn't let it bother you, but also wouldn't be too hot with them in the future either. If they do come back, you can casually/playfully point out that they cancelled at the last minute last time.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:38 AM
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Yes, letting her see that you are not bothered by it and have already moved on is the best way to go. No need to ignore her, but also no need to keep approaching her. The damage of saying you like her too fast is already done, I would advice to not mentioning it again in the future (it will only remind her). Don't even say things like you weren't drunk or anything, just accept the response and move on.
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:00 AM
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Yes, exactly how I felt when I read it.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:53 AM
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If she's thinking about coming to stay for a few days, and she's the one bringing up all the sex stuff, I feel like she's at the very least thinking about the possibility. How you should respond kind of depends on what you want out of the relationship. From what you wrote I don't get the feeling that she would be a good LTR material (it really depends on the tone she used, which is hard to tell over messaging). For me, I would be fine if it's just a casual thing (which can still turn into someth…
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:36 AM
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If you've had a conversation with her before, nothing wrong with a friendly greeting right? I would say just try talking to her again and see how it goes. No need to have a goal in mind (like trying to get her number). People (especially girls) can usually spot that intent and it might work against you. Similar to kino escalation, you want to convo escalate too. Just talk to her and see how she responds. If she's responding well, then you can ask for her number. If not, leave it be. As long that…
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:17 AM
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I normally start off with option 1, then adjust based on how the girl responds. It is possible to quickly go from 1 to 2 when the interaction is good. But in general, I feel option 1 allows more possibility to the relationship. After all, there are plenty of girls who I initially find attractive but after talking to them I am not interested in being intimate. With that being said, I also feel the two options are not mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:07 AM
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As a guy, my experience is that every girl I've made out or been intimate with are a bit different. You have to feel out how much they like it as you do certain things to/with him. I've had girls that don't like much tongue, and also girls that uses almost all tongue. Everyone is a bit different, and figuring it out is half the fun. At the same time, don't derail too far from what you like, it's important that you enjoy it as well. Lastly, if the guy is already spending alone time with you and a…
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:49 AM
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"I learned to take better care of myself and it showed" Don't need to mention that you were ugly, just need to mention the improvements. For all they know you went from a 7 to a 9, not 2 to a 8.
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:38 AM
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When it's not a "yes", it's a "no". But the "no" could just be temporary. If you are in the same social circle, just continue to be yourself, show your value, and date others too. Who knows, they might come around in the end after getting to know you better (has happened to me many times, as long you show higher value and not playing her mind games)
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:26 AM
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