thesmartfool Archive

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10	Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not? Getting the number means nothing honestly. How many do you get on actual dates is what matters. Girls will hand out phone numbers because they always to avoid confrontation or just be nice to you.	/r/seduction	24/12/25 12:47 AM
1	Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here? comment on something in the environment or subtly about them), have a nice short convo, ask for their number, but I am getting such little reciprocation. This is probably one reason here. Be honest about your intentions from the get go. Going indirect is worse and kills possible attraction. Being socially aware when you do it like, hey I know this is really forward since we don't know each other and I know you're currently (insert what they are doing) but I just had to say you look (insert compl…	/r/seduction	24/11/24 04:59 AM
1	Speech Autisim Person, How to start conversation with a girl who is Jogging, or Walking? Need Opener Personally, I would say don't. The only way to slightly appear better is by calling out the elephant in the room if she has no headphones and being socially aware. Be like," hey excuse me...I totally know you are busy with jogging and I probably shouldn't be doing this...but I thought I would regret not coming up to you and saying hi because you looked nice." Then judge by her reaction. If not good, move on. If she smiles...proceed. keep it brief.	/r/seduction	16/10/24 08:39 PM
20	The one cruel thing about cold approach that no one told me. The 3 second rule is when you see someone you want to talk to, you have 3 seconds to start walking or talk to them. Waiting longer than that makes you overanalysize and gives you an ability for your brain to talk yourself out of it, be more nervous and hesitant, the girl will find you less confident, or worse...you will just seem creepy. You're the most authentic self in those beginning seconds and you're body language will be much better.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 04:53 PM
41	The one cruel thing about cold approach that no one told me. I'm married now but really there are only three ways that I was able to beat approach anxiety. 3 second rule is your friend. Have the mindset that you just want to see if the person is cool and compatible with you. Forget about her looks. Don't put her on a pedestal. Call out the potentially awkward or situation she is in. Being socially aware such as "I know this is really forward and not usually done and you're [insert what she is doing] but I had to come and meet you." Something like that.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 04:28 PM
3	What are the usual signs that you see when a woman wants you to talk with them? _Hey girls, I don’t mean to interrupt cuz I know you guys came together and I don’t want to make any of you feel left out, but I saw your friend (point at the girl you like) here and I love way she glows! So I couldn’t resist trying to get to know her real quick before I leave. You feel me?_” This is awesome and the way to go. Too many guys are not self-aware of the situation and just go for the kill without any context. I sometimes add in there that I know this is either bold or forward of me t…	/r/seduction	13/09/24 08:17 PM
1	What are your favorite openers Thanks for this but I guess we have had very different experiences. I have had nothing but positive experiences using something like this. This of course depends on the situation.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 12:31 PM
1	What are your favorite openers Hi. Excuse me. I know this is really random since we don't know each other and I'm aware you are currently [insert what they are doing] but I saw you over here and I thought you are really pretty and I thought I would regret it if I didn't say hi. I then usually would transition to saying something like I don't know aboit you but I don't like to use dating apps but prefer to meet people in person. My name is [thesmartfool].	/r/seduction	02/09/24 12:32 AM
2	What are your favorite openers Any opener I used to use had three components to it. 1 [calling out the potentially awkward situation and what is happening in environment (A.K.A being socially aware] + 2 [being direct with a compliment] + 3 [transitioning to greeting them]	/r/seduction	02/09/24 12:09 AM
21	First thing to say when approaching girls? I would avoid using indirect openers. Be honest about your intentions. I would avoid using cute...some girls find that demeaning in some way. I would use pretty instead. Always read the room and call out the elephant in the room. Most guys aren't socially aware and this is a good way to avoid being labeled as a creep. So for example. Say you wanted to approach in the grocery store. I always say something like. "Excuse me, hi. I know this is really random because we don't know each other and I'm …	/r/seduction	16/08/24 01:13 AM