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Thanks for following up. I have a lot to figure out and work through, but I understand the message you're sending here - on multiple fronts. I definitely need to focus on the man I want to be and who I am today. The father stuff was just eye opening stuff for me I wanted to put on paper. Agree I need to define who I am and who I want to be. I have, and have always had, strong opinions on what I want with our house. The dilemma was me worrying about her feelings and not being able to lead. I get …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 05:37 PM
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Thanks appreciate the insight. Definitely have some things I need to fix. My frame sucks, confidence as well. Ill check out the RUUCE
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 03:29 PM
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I'm glad I spew this stuff and don't hold back in the OYS. This shit is eye-opening. Appreciate the link. You're right. God damn. Here I am thinking I'm being OI because I can walk away, but it's really just butt hurt masked as OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 02:22 PM
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OYS 6 - Still porn free - not masturbation free (yet), rejection still prevalent, making strides in OI, STFU and not DEERing. Still fat, but making progress. Mission- I want a life where I can easily communicate what I want without fear or shame- I want to have a strong social circle that doesn’t involve me drinking excessively or doing drugs.- I want to be in the best possible physical and mental shape I can be at every stage of life- I want to be a role model for my son - patient, focused, ded…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 01:24 PM
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You’re right, appreciate the dose of reality
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 03:28 PM
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Thx for the kick jn the butt, I see it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 03:27 PM
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Ah shit you’re right. Fuck. What I’m truly wavering on is the decision to nip this shit in the bud and stay put and end the nonstop back and forth on moving. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 02:25 PM
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No he’s 8. There are no other kids in the neighborhood and hes an only child. Its more about finding playmates in the neighborhood for him so his parents arent his only friends. There is one kid in the neighborhood but he sucks and is a bad influence. Either way it still comes down to me and what I decide to do. Im done DEERing on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 02:15 PM
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The leadership piece here is really about decision making. Meaning our neighborhood sucks for kids, its all old families and kids who are in high school. My son has one friend and little social outlets. The decision im struggling to make is moving to a more family friendly neighborhood which probably pushes my retirement back a few years given housing costs. Also actually buying a house where I live is fucking impossible. All cash offers, waiving inspection, multiple bids over asking the day a h…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 01:31 PM
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5’ 10” Yep pretty fat. Confirmed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 12:43 PM
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OYS 5 - 7 Days porn free, no game, no frame, still DEERing. Still reading, lifting and trying to STFU Reading: Finished NMMNG again 2x, continued reading “Eat That Frog” and started listening to easypeasymethod for quitting porn. I’ve also started on the BFA in NMMNG and am going back to work through those in small batches. The easypeasymethod has been interesting to say the least, I know and have known for a long-time I’m a porn addict. I hide it and I’m sure it’s contributed to me being bad in…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 11:57 AM
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u/HornsOfApathy had a good post about this https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/asqi8r/depressive_and_anxious_wives_how_its_all_your/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/askMRP19/06/22 12:14 PM
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Thanks a bunch!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 10:43 AM
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OYS 4 - Still obese, working on frame, reading and STFU, I have a major porn problem, finally getting laid again. I had a decent week last week, making progress against most of the areas I had committed to with the exception of porn. I’m a porn addict. I’ll say it again. This is going to be my biggest hurdle. I know I have the capacity to break addictions. But yeah, I’m failing miserably here. I’ll read through and see what others have done here and admit that the urge hits me and I am just fuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 08:12 PM
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Cool it off until the weight comes off? I initiated yesterday, no rejection this time. Still not the kind of sex I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/22 11:45 PM
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OYS 3 - Obese, Uncommitted, No Frame, Procrastinator, Porn Addict - Banned for 2 weeks I got a lot of feedback in OYS last time I posted and it was 100% accurate. I was also banned for a rule 9 violation. In that OYS it was clearly made visible to me that I have no frame. I make excuses and have made excuses my whole life. I am a procrastinator. I’m obese. I have no commitment. I have earned nothing and the life I have now is all because of my own faults. I have read the sidebar through but have…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 01:14 PM
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Good for you man, you’ve clearly put in the work. And I definitely appreciate the support and level setting on the challenges ahead. I have no doubt it’s not an easy path. I am committed to this process.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 07:03 PM
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Thanks for this, I needed it. You’re 100% right. I’ll report back next week.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 01:32 PM
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Yep. That’s why I’m here. To fix me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 12:39 PM
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Thanks 🙏 appreciate you taking time to call me out. Im throwing myself at eating and lifting right now, all in. I realize I’m a mess, but I’m not leaving until I get the life I earn.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 12:27 PM
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I see what you’re calling out now at the end, thanks. Trying to prove something to her and not to myself. And yeah I do know why she doesn’t fuck or respect me. Ill be here until I unfuck myself
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 12:10 PM
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All true. I’ll be here week in and out. Lots of work to do. I’m no longer accepting this bullshit life I’ve created.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 10:18 AM
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OYS 2 Weight: 223.5 - Reported this as 230 last week, that was taken at my doctors office in clothes. My scale says 223.5. I’ll be using this scale going forward. Height: 5’ 10” Body Fat: Lots, haven’t measured it. Will get it done once I research the best way. I had my annual physical last week and had my T levels checked. The numbers came back within range. I quit smoking “for good” several months back. I haven’t had any since I quit this time. I have somewhat “quit” for 5-6 years but I used t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 08:42 AM
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OYS 1 - Puke time Weight: 230 Height: 5’ 10” Body Fat: Lots I was banned for a year in 2020 for arguing about some stupid stuff. I kept watching the sub and reading but not constantly, just from time to time. I stopped reading the sidebar. Kind of fell into a dark hole from being stuck in a crap work environment, 60-70 hours per week for a job I absolutely hated, a boss I hated. That ended 6 weeks ago, I landed a new job doing work I enjoy for a smaller tech company and I feel reinvigorated. Tru…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/22 02:18 PM
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