thetacobitch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Do women often marry men that they don't passionately love? There definitely needs to be attraction and romance towards your partner. But I think there are lots of other reasons why marriages end up lacking passion, and it’s usually not because the woman married a man she’s not attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 08:48 PM
0	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? Only drinking beer/liquor. I LOVVVVE when my man is sipping a glass of red wine. Like it’s actually hot. Hunting. That’s just an absolute fuck no from me. If you enjoy killing animals, I’m out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 12:04 AM
22	Can we put an end to the whole “Unpaid Labor” and “Emotional Labor” when it comes to women and marriage? You either fundamentally lack an understanding of what their actual position is, or you’re intentionally misrepresenting it. Either way, this is a straw man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:33 AM
30	Can we finally end the objectification nonsense? Can't we think critically? I stopped reading after the first paragraph bc you’re just changing the meaning of the word objectification to be more convenient for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 04:33 AM
2	First dating app for people with autism and ADHD launches I have pretty severe ADHD but I never felt like I needed a special dating app because of it? Autism makes sense. I get that. But idk why ADHD would be included in this tbh. And, actually, I don’t think it would be best for me to be with another person that also has ADHD lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 03:44 AM
1	Women don’t want men to have success in dating I’m sure you fully believe everything you’re saying lmfao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 01:15 AM
1	Women don’t want men to have success in dating I can guarantee that the men in happy healthy relationships didn’t get there by listening to single sexist losers	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 01:13 AM
1	Women don’t want men to have success in dating Jesus Christ dude. Women are human beings, just like you. The fact that you’ve convinced yourself that this dehumanizing ridiculous bullshit narrative is anywhere close to reality is the reason you’re fucking single. I can say with absolute confidence that it most definitely is your personality. Maybe women will actually want to come within 10 feet of you one day if you actually start seeing us as people. Until then, enjoy loneliness. Speaking to someone that believes this shit is truly a waste …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:47 PM
1	Women don’t want men to have success in dating So you don’t care about women’s personalities when it comes to dating? Like you’re enter a committed relationship with anyone if they’re attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:47 PM
2	Women don’t want men to have success in dating So are you arguing that men cannot find success in dating if they don’t meet these criteria?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:46 PM
3	Women don’t want men to have success in dating Only if said classes and videos are toxic and dehumanizing to women, as they often are. Think podcast bros teaching men how to manipulate women into sex. Think arrogant douchebags that shouldn’t have a microphone. Think Andrew Tate. If that the general category of help you’re seeking, yes women will be repelled and disgusted by you immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:44 PM
2	Women don’t want men to have success in dating If you think being in shape is all it should take for a woman to want a relationship with you, that’s likely your problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:38 PM
–	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? Um, is this a serious question? I guess I’ll respond assuming it is… I would assume poor social skills or just bad at talking to girls. Personality and communication are just as important as physical attraction. I wouldn’t date a man that I wasn’t attracted to, but I’m also not going to date someone that can’t hold a conversation with me, doesn’t show interest in me as a person, comes on too strong emotionally or sexually, says offensive things, I don’t have fun around them, etc. Even if I was i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 07:27 PM
0	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? There’s a minuscule number of men that are single strictly because of their appearance. This is not a common problem. Ugly dudes have girlfriends and wives all the time. Go to a Walmart and observe. I think men often jump to conclusions that it’s strictly because of their looks that they’re single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:36 PM
2	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? Yeah I think the way my brain works (and most others) is I just need my partner to reach a certain threshold of attractiveness. If I’m attracted to them, it literally doesn’t matter if I’ve been with someone else that was slightly more good looking. It doesn’t feel like settling because I AM attracted to them. It’s just a box to check. I’m not over here bummed that I didn’t end up with a Brad Pitt lookalike. I also don’t feel the need to be the most attractive person my partner has ever been wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:11 PM
8	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? Because men in this sub cannot cope with the concept that they may not be objectively the most attractive man their partner has ever been with. Some think if the guy a woman ends up with isn’t the hottest guy she’s ever dated, the woman is “settling.” So they feel bad for the guy and often say he’s being used or something. When in reality, like you said, love is about much more than just physical attraction. When my partner and I are both 75 years old, we’ll both probably be objectively ugly lol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 08:35 PM
1	Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable family Not really. I personally don’t know any women with outrageously high standards. Again, they want a partner that they find attractive, and one that’s stable, respectful, and they enjoy being around. Ugly dudes still have girlfriend. Broke dudes still have girlfriends. Short dudes still have girlfriends. Like some others have said here, walk into a Walmart or an Applebees if you want proof lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 01:03 AM
4	Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable family It in no way suggests that lol. Your logic is taking quite a leap to fit the narrative you already had in your head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 06:29 PM
4	Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable family Well women are saying they would rather be single than settle, and the statistics show that that’s exactly what’s happening sooo?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 06:18 PM
3	Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable family Okay, and? Men on this sub try to prove that women have created a problem for themselves and chalk it up to women being too choosy about superficial things. Most single women I know are single because they have been treated poorly. And they aren’t out here dating 6’2” ripped guys with 200k salaries. They’re dating average guys, and they get treated like shit. The women I know that are in healthy, happy relationships also aren’t with those kinds of guys. Women literally just want someone that the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 06:15 PM
3	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? And didn’t have sex that whole time??	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 01:58 AM
14	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? Why are you mansplaining the religious culture that I grew up in lol? I know plenty of people that went to schools like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 09:25 PM
5	Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had? I see this preference as mostly evolutionary. There are plenty of women that have positive relationships with their fathers that still prefer tall men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 09:14 PM
10	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? I’m from the Bible Belt and have never heard of anyone’s family sending them to college with the requirement of finding a husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 09:11 PM
8	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? Also a classic	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 08:56 PM
27	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? Maybe some, but there’s a reason it’s so common for very religious people to get married quickly/young. Most super religious people I know get engaged after like 6 months of dating, and then married 4-6 months later. They streamline that shit so they can get it in	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 08:48 PM
1	For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both? 25 + 27 6 years Couple times a week Very early in the relationship like twice a day. Our most was 4 times in one day lol No kids yet but a pet that might as well be a kid No one “initiates” it just happens mutually We were in college then with a ton of free time, but now we both work and have lots of responsibilities. I think the early days of most relationships also come with that euphoric can’t keep your hands off each other type of dynamic. And that generally fades over time. Which is fine :)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 07:40 PM
1	What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for? The men in this sub mostly think this way. “Oh you want me to cry???? FUCK THAT ILL PUNCH HOLES IN THE WALL LIKE A REAL MAN” Just absolutely no concept of what women actually want here. Convinced OP doesn’t even understand what toxic masculinity means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 07:50 PM
2	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? I’m in a long term relationship, so I’m good. Also horny and lonely are not the same thing. I’ve gone a year without sex, easily. Didn’t even occur to me at the time that I wasn’t having sex. Masturbation exists. Being horny can be solved that way. Again, that’s not the same thing as feeling emotionally unsatisfied or lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 08:02 PM
2	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? Masturbation exists lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:39 PM
1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? Maybe a year? I wasn’t even thinking about it honestly. Masturbation is just as satisfying tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:37 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Because he took her kindness and courtesy to call women as a whole inarticulate. It’s delusional and clearly coming from a misogynistic place. So fuck it, hurt his feelings next time. She shouldn’t have extended her kindness	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 07:16 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men If a woman says you’re a great guy but that she’s not into you, how does that not automatically translate to “you’re not my type”? Women don’t owe you specifics about why they aren’t into you. Again, providing that is often super uncomfortable AND a lot of men out there don’t handle blunt rejection well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 05:15 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Women do not owe you brutal honesty if it makes them uncomfortable. You aren’t entitled to know everything she’s thinking if she doesn’t want to freely offer that up. It’s normal human behavior to try to be kind and to consider how your words will make another person feel. It’s also normal to avoid uncomfortable situations that might offend someone, especially when alone with a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 05:11 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men And then…told you she isn’t attracted to you and doesn’t want to have sex with you?😂 Sounds like you were friend zoned my friend. In which case, yeah probably uncomfortable and even more reason why she wouldn’t want to offend you	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 10:07 PM
7	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Most likely the last part lmao. Men never consider that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 05:03 PM
4	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men She gave the most vague response she possibly could. And yes, probably because the real specifics WERE NOT you, and she didn’t want to offend you. She didn’t imply that she wanted to fuck you. She was dodging the question. She was being nice and didn’t want to essentially say to your face that she isn’t attracted to you. That’s awkward. She was actively trying NOT to convey that she wasn’t attracted to you. Then I imagine you asked her a more direct question or showed more direct interest in her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 05:02 PM
19	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men That woman was describing her type that way because it very much is not you and she didn’t want to hurt your feelings/make things awkward. Also I think “military necks” are a turn off. It reads meat head to me. This is completely a personal preference but this is also why you can’t just categorize women as liking all things. It’s also both hilarious and insane that you would blanketly state that women are not articulate. Like, have you met women lol? All we do is talk to each other about our fee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:06 PM
21	Do women find lottery winners attractive? Is this post a joke? You just got mad over a fake scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 10:05 PM
0	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man I’m convinced that having sex is truly the only thing half the men on this sub care about. You will take pride in being known as someone that disregards the emotional well-being of other people and treats them poorly…. if it means that you have sex. That’s extremely sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 12:28 AM
1	I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them? So I have a super hot guy friend that I’ve been close with for yearsssss. We were FWB for a while in high school (like nearly a decade ago) but we stopped that and just continued as friends afterwards. Then attempted to pick that back up one night in college and it was honestly too weird for both of us lol. I would definitely say neither of us are into the other “like that.” Even though we’re both very attractive people and enjoy being around each other. We’re also both in very serious long term…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:46 PM
4	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? I made no assertions lmao. I was even slightly agreeing with your perception by saying it’s LIKELY THAT WOMEN ARE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH INITIATING DIVORCE NOW because they can stand on their own two feet financially afterwards. Whereas that was not the case decades ago. I don’t think you understand what an assertion means. Truly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 04:44 PM
7	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? I’m sorry, the first sentence of your post has literally no evidence whatsoever to support. That’s an assertion that you’re making based on your personal views. This is not an argument. You can’t just assert why women do things with zero evidence. Women are likely more comfortable asking for divorce today than they were decades ago because they can come out of it without being financially desolate. But there is absolutely no evidence to suggest that the “vast majority” of women initiate divorce …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 02:49 PM
2	If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you? I would guess like 70. I say that because I’ve dated very popular and attractive men in the past that would be considered “Chads” or whatever. I’ve never had trouble getting men to like me and want to date me. So I think most men would go on a date. But leaving a little room for not being everyone’s type, or there being deal breakers. (Ex: I’m an atheist, won’t be a stay at home mom, etc.) If we’re going strictly based on looks I would say like 90/100.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 02:42 PM
1	Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normal Find me a woman that has ever said the first part. I stg you guys invent fake arguments just to argue with yourselves. Women don’t like being approached by MOST men because we aren’t interested, feel uncomfortable having to reject you, and a ton of men are just flat out creepy. Honestly if you want to approach a woman, I would say “Hey, I’m on my way out but just wanted to say I think you’re stunning and I’d love to take you on a date sometime. Here’s my number, text me if you’re interested.” An…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 10:57 PM
3	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them Well that’s awesome, I’m glad you found some answers. Anytime you’re wondering about human behavior there are probably tons of research studies and psych resources available to offer some answers. Most people are human beings with good intentions. If they’re behaving in ways that don’t make sense on the surface or seem contrary to what’s good for them, there’s probably a psychological reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 04:30 PM
6	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them Okay I feel like that wasn’t clear from your initial post. But again, there are psychological reasons for this. I would recommend reading up on psychology of domestic abuse victims. Why they stay, what the cycle of abuse is like, how it starts, manipulation tactics, etc. No one is trying to gaslight you lol but women aren’t staying with physically abusive men because they’re hot. That’s just not a thing. You can find a shit load of resources online about what’s actually happening if you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 03:50 PM
6	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them I’m sorry, are you talking about fuck boys or literal domestic abusers.? There’s a difference lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 03:41 PM
3	Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them Do you guys not understand that often “douchebag Steve” is manipulative, plays mind games, breadcrumbs women, lies, etc.? Women are human beings. Sometimes we get roped into toxic situations. There are psychological reasons/tactics for why these men are able to get women. Sure, they’re usually hot. But women “lining up for them” has nothing to do with them being superficial. Also no man that’s ACTUALLY a nice guy is walking around calling himself a “nice guy.” Biggest red flag of all time and I’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 03:34 PM
1	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity Did you miss the business owner part? I have an income. And have you ever heard of loans lol? My partner makes 200k, that’s not even enough to pay my way through school 🤣 Women start businessss and go to school all the time without a man “subsidizing” it💀 And I would never let him do that regardless. He’s busy paying off loans from his Masters program. Your desire to believe that women need successful men in order to be successful themselves says a lot more about you than it does about me. Enjoy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 03:55 PM
2	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity Lol men here can’t STANDDDDDD when women are with successful men and it’s so fucking funny. We’ve been together since we were teenagers. He lived in a frat house infested with roaches for the first year. I stayed over ever night. And did you miss the part that I have my own shit going on? My own career? Your assumption is misogynistic, closed minded, and wrong. I’m not chasing his money. He’s not concerned about that. But you’d rather assume I’m a gold digger because that reinforces your bullshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:33 PM
1	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity I do have scoliosis but I am most certainly not an Uber eats driver lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 06:08 PM
-2	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity Thank babe! I’m a little busy running a business and getting my MBA at one of the best schools in the country rn but I’ll keep that in mind lmfao. And my man said he would definitely date me if I was a worm. He’s making 200k in his 20s. You’re SO right though. Laughing at little TikTok jokes???? MUST have a low IQ. No way people can be successful AND have a sense of humor. Can only be a smarty smart if there’s a stick up your ass too😤 We’ll just be over here rubbing our two brain cells together!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 05:19 PM
-2	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity Your response just gave me the ick	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 04:41 PM
3	Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental health It’s not that deep. People chewing gum gives me the ick. It’s not a judgemental thing, I just think gum is gross and it immediately makes me way less attracted to someone. You don’t choose the ick, the ick chooses you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 02:25 AM
–	Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs? Sometimes for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 07:06 PM
–	Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs? I enjoy debating. It’s entertainment. And I’m fascinated in a way by the insane rhetoric here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 06:53 PM
3	Mid guys getting very attractive women at church? Lol translation: I’m not into you	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 05:39 PM
1	Mid guys getting very attractive women at church? God I know. I grew up in that shit. Honestly it’s because most guys there are weird as hell. So when they find a normal one that’s fun to be around they’re all fighting for their lives to marry him. There’s also the manipulation aspect. Women in these spaces are often taught that their husband will be a spiritual leader in their relationship, so guys will say things like “god has laid on my heart that I should pursue a relationship with you” and the women like can’t say no lmao. Like they can bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 02:46 PM
1	"A new law puts an end to permanent alimony in Florida " I said you seem bitter and angry because I’ve seen you calling these hypothetical women “fat ass” and “bitch” several times here. We’re talking about hypothetical women. That by the way likely don’t have money or careers because they spent all their time raising their shared children, which massively benefited their partners as well. He also likely chose to have those children and agreed to her staying home instead of having a career. You act like these men somehow aren’t responsible for their d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:32 AM
1	"A new law puts an end to permanent alimony in Florida " Female was taking care of male’s children so he could go earn said money	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:39 AM
0	"A new law puts an end to permanent alimony in Florida " It’s not standard….at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:38 AM
2	"A new law puts an end to permanent alimony in Florida " Apparently you see no value in women caring for children. Child care is expensive. Raising children is exhausting. Money is not the only factor that contributes to a family. You sound extremely bitter and angry towards a situation that clearly doesn’t affect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 05:29 AM
1	Coming from a broken or dysfunctional home is the biggest red flag there is. My parents are both from broken homes with abuse, divorce, and alcoholism. And they’re some of the best people I know, both very successful, and provided a great upbringing for me. People can very much decide they don’t want to be like their parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 02:57 AM
2	How would you feel if your daughter became a sugar baby? Lmao that’s quite the dichotomy. Be proud or disown her? Lots of middle ground between there. I would explain why it’s potentially dangerous for your entire lifestyle to be provided by a partner. But at the end of the day you have a child knowing that they will make their own choices and be their own person. If there is a scenario where one would “disown” their child (short of them doing something wildly fucked up like being a serial killer) then they shouldn’t have children. I will raise my kid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 09:38 PM
1	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction Sure Jan	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 06:38 PM
1	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction That’s irrelevant to the argument	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 12:38 PM
1	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction Sure they do. And then they masturbate to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 12:01 PM
1	Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to men Bro have you ever sat in a comp sci class 💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 12:00 PM
2	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction I think you understand the gist of my argument regardless, and it stands. No need to be hateful and rude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 12:00 PM
5	Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to men That’s an assertion, and no both do not have to be true. Plenty of women choose to be alone because they never find a partner that meets their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 09:44 PM
17	Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to men Your misinterpretation of this study is shocking. It’s saying more educated women have higher standards. Not that they think they’re more attractive. They hold out for men with their same level of education. Which significantly shrinks their dating pool, leading to fewer dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 08:46 PM
1	Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to men If a man doesn’t think my career is impressive/value that about me, he’s not my man. I’m unconcerned about how attractive it is to men in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 08:43 PM
5	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction This right here. I would never in a million years want a see a man’s onlyfans. Don’t care. Don’t need to see some dude’s abs or his dick or literally anything. Cannot imagine subscribing to a man’s onlyfans or using it to masturbate. Just wouldn’t happen and I bet over 90% of women feel the same. Men, however, are why onlyfans exists lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 08:35 PM
1	Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoo That’s not at all what I just said. “I find it amusing that women will suffer” go to therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:30 PM
1	Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoo My “first choice” was a guy I dated when I was 13 who now wears camo crocs unironically. Pass. Don’t even know what you mean by that honestly. What, she liked someone else before and it didn’t work out, so the guy she marries wasn’t her first choice.? Can we humanize relationships even a little? I’ve been with the Chads. And they typically suck. You guys here all hate them but also worship them because they can get women easy, while you’re struggling. But they’re usually dicks and they’re not ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 05:11 AM
22	Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoo I’ve said this so many times on the sub when men start acting like women don’t date average looking men unless they’re rich. Zoo is great. Your local Applebee’s. The movie theater. Target. The grocery store. Literally just go to a public place and it will be filled with couples that are extremely average. You can’t toss an onion ring 2 feet in an Applebee’s without hitting an ugly dude eating with his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 06:19 PM
5	Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do. ….when a woman CONSENTS you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 04:40 PM
6	Commentary by divorce lawyer: reasons for divorce due to women being expected to do it all It’s not just chores. It’s the mental and physical load of operating a household. Cleaning, laundry, dishes, going to the grocery store, planning meals, cooking, making doctor’s appointments, running errands, hosting guests, carting children around, taking care of pets, etc. There’s a million things that have to happen, and some men just don’t engage in carrying any of that load. Even men that are willing to do these things often have to ask what needs to be done, instead of being plugged in eno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 04:24 PM
3	Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do. Rough sex doesn’t really qualify as “violent” imo. Are they asking you to literally strangle them and punch them in the face? Probably not. I don’t consider mainstream stuff like spanking, light choking, etc. to be “violent”. It’s controlled, usually doesn’t cause any real pain, and the women aren’t fearful. Also you may not know this but spanking can actually stimulate nerves in the genitalia. And choking obviously decreases oxygen in the brain, which can intensify physical pleasure when it rus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 03:13 PM
2	Are women actually attracted to toxic men? Toxic men are often manipulative. Manipulation creates feelings of confusion and insecurity that can often lead to feelings that feel like genuine interest. Men on this sub get pissed that women can be manipulated and end up with assholes. If you ask any woman, no. They don’t like toxic men. But we often find ourselves with them because we too are humans. The end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 08:16 PM
1	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching I’m in a relationship but if I were single I would probably not approach a man in a bar myself. However, it’s easy to communicate that I want a man to approach me. A few good eye contacts from across the bar gets the message across. And honestly I think men would benefit from using this tactic more. Instead of seeing a woman and immediately approaching, get into her line of sight and make eye contact 2-3 times. If she smiles, holds eye contact, etc. that’s a green flag. I cannot tell you how man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 12:07 PM
2	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention Probably not. I’m not saying I wax my legs to sit at home by myself, but it’s certainly not to make men want to have sex with me. There’s a middle ground there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:36 PM
4	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? I don’t think that quote is based on a study done, it’s just the vast experiences of women. You can test it for yourself if you’d like. It’s said because it’s true. And no I didn’t go to police. Sexual assault and rape are strange crimes in the way that a) it’s often perpetrated by someone the victim knows/loves and b) it’s common for victims to excuse the behavior and try to downplay what happened. This was the case with me. That, and lack of education around what consent even was until years a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:33 PM
1	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? I understand your point of view, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s still reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:12 PM
4	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? I don’t think we know a number. But I’m extremely confident, based on my experience and the experiences of all the women I know, that it’s not the number you provided. Don’t you think it’s curious that every woman knows AT LEAST one woman that has been sexually assaulted, raped, abused, etc…..but most men don’t think they know any men that do those things? Do you think 1-3% of men are running around doing all of this damage? I said in another comment on this thread that I’ve been sexually assaul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 06:04 PM
2	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention Agree. I think this is true for a ton of stuff. For example, I’m EXTREMELY pale. Like to the point of experiencing constant comments about it when I was young. I use self tanner now. I think women’s bodies are hyper criticized so they do things like waxing, shaving, tanning, wearing make-up, getting plastic surgery, etc. to remove negative attention from something they’ve learned isn’t “ideal” about their body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 05:53 PM
0	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention I think your original comment is throwing us off. You said women’s confidence comes from being “fuckable” to men. Like this other commenter, I’m also in a relationship. I do the same routine to get ready and look very nice whether he’s around or not. I don’t put time into my physical appearance to be “fuckable” and I certainly don’t want to be sexualized by random men. You’re back tracking and now saying that you just mean people care about their appearance for other people. Which I mostly agree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 05:48 PM
1	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention I can promise you my self confidence does not come from how much men want to fuck me. Maybe it does for you, but that’s your own shit to unpack. Don’t project that onto other women lmao. I do plenty for my physical appearance, and not once have I found myself thinking “damn, waxing my legs rn is going to make me so fuckable” 💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 05:34 PM
2	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? How does knowing facts about what’s happening in the world/how often it’s happening create a distorted view of reality? It literally…is reality. Is your definition of reality just what you personally have experienced.?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 05:23 PM
3	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? I’m a normal girl in my mid twenties and these are some of my experiences: -male teacher sold photos of me online at 12 years old in exchange for child porn -been sexually assaulted by a minimum of 5 different guys, one of which went on to be class President of my high school -raped and sexually abused by my ex-boyfriend -multiple friends have been drugged by men at parties -just a few days ago a man tried to assault me as I was walking down the street a block away from my house in a nice neighb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 05:15 PM
14	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? If you’re implying that 97-99% of men would never physically harm a woman, you’re big time mistaken buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 05:02 PM
4	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? Sure, but the same is true of a lot of things. Like mass shootings. If you didn’t have media telling you this was a huge problem, would you know just based on your experience? That doesn’t make it less of a problem or less of a risk. It just presents you with more information and shows the reality of what happens in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 04:59 PM
5	Why do women really live in constant fear of men? Because nearly all of us have had weird, dangerous, or harmful interactions with men. We know someone who was roofied, sexually assaulted, harassed, stalked, raped, beaten, etc. by a man. Or we ourselves have been. Edit: fear is a strong word. I don’t live in constant fear. Maybe constant caution. If I notice a man walking behind me on a street by myself, I will be EXTREMELY aware of his presence. I’m not afraid, I’m just aware that he could try to kill me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 04:53 PM
1	What is the most overrated common dating advice? Everything needs to be balanced. Not sure why you were dating someone you have no romantic chemistry with haha. Sharing common interests is important for quality time so you can both be enjoying whatever you’re doing together. Or at least be able to have a good time doing them even if it’s not your thing. And have discussions about topics that you’re both fully engaged in. You have to talk to this person constantly, so you have to be able to have great conversation. At least that’s a must for me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 03:49 PM
3	Would you marry someone that was not very bright? No he needs to be smart. I need to be able to trust his advice, decision making, opinions, etc. more than anyone else. I would say intelligence is in my top 2 priorities when it comes to choosing a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 03:37 PM
–	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? You sound like a man that’s pissed that punching holes in the wall isn’t an acceptable way to express emotion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:07 PM
1	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? Yep. I developed a sex aversion from this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:05 PM
7	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? This fucked me up mentally and ruined my relationship with sex. Might not for everyone, but it did for me. The phrase someone used below “enthusiastic consent” is necessary for me. Allowing someone to repeatedly be intimate with me when I myself did not actively want that to be happening was extremely damaging for me. You said somewhere else that you meant they should be “open to being aroused.” Which, fine. But no one should ever be in the actual act of having sex if they don’t WANT to be doing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:02 PM
–	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? This is very specific and idk if it fully relates but…NFL/NBA wives grind my fucking gears dude. I’m such a feminist and believe to each their own, women can choose whatever life they want for themselves, etc. But these women that do absolutely nothing meaningful with their lives and make their entire personality revolve around being their husband’s wife makes me want to barf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 03:46 PM
–	For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous woman Do you think this is how normal human beings are choosing partners? There’s no reason for him to pick woman b.? Maybe she has a great personality, she’s smart, she’s kind, interesting, funny, etc. Maybe he LIKES HER? My body count is 3 FYI. But my god have you never loved anyone ever.? It blows my mind almost DAILY how many men on this sub completely remove all human emotion and connection from relationship discussions and try to treat it like a math equation. You’re choosing a partner that you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 05:55 PM
0	Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance? Well since you apparently have it all figured out! Not sure why you’re asking for suggestions	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 05:00 PM
3	Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance? You asked for ways to get help, and then proceeded to reject every single suggestion, landing you right back to square one. That’s not the mentality of someone that’s ready to work on themselves. If you are, then maybe you should share what you’re doing to help other men here	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:40 PM
2	Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance? You people truly only want to focus on the things that are working against you I swear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:36 PM
2	Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance? What do you mean? You can look up literally definitions of these terms. They aren’t mysterious, abstract concepts. Empathy - the capacity to understand and feel another person’s experience from their frame of reference instead of your own. If you Google emotional intelligence, there are usually a few pillars that come up. Self awareness, social awareness, empathy again, and self regulation. These things might be worded differently depending on the article you’re reading, but this is gist. These …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:35 PM
2	Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance? Help yourself by actually doing something about it—literally anything—instead of asking how and then telling yourself all the reasons why those things won’t work. Or you can continue arguing on Reddit about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:23 PM
1	Ladies, what percentage of men that have a problem finding a woman that likes him romantically are overestimating how much that problem has to do with his natural appearance? I would argue over 90%. I know some real uggos that have had plenty of girlfriends, and it’s not like they’re out here making 200k+ a year. Men love to complain in this sub about “Chads” but at the end of the day it’s just about being able to have quality conversations and connect with other human beings. Men that complain about being too ugly for women likely give off bitter, aggressive, and weird energy that women pick up on. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Walk into a Walmart or literally an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:21 PM
8	CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kids Your final thought destination is great, but everything it took to get there is 👎	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 04:14 PM
9	CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kids This was my exact thought. Like yes, stop doing this, but why the fuck do men have to rationalize being a good person through how it will personally benefit them.??? Like being a decent human being doesn’t have to directly benefit you in some way in order to do it????	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 04:13 PM
0	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? Sometimes it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 05:54 PM
1	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? Lol ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 02:55 PM
3	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? Sometimes it does	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 02:18 PM
7	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? Nah karma is going to bite him in the ass. There’s a dude just like him waiting in the shadows to fuck his wife	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 12:07 PM
2	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? Why are you hanging out with a plethora of people that intentionally get involved with families	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 12:06 PM
1	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? People in general cheat all the time. Like…all the fucking time. It’s not that “women are easy.” People in general cheat, and they were probably open to doing that on some level already before walking into that bar. If women are wholeheartedly in love and committed to their spouse, some hot rando in a bar isn’t going to suddenly make her panties drop out of no where. Same with men. I would let my partner loose in any bar with any crowd of women and I know he’s not cheating on me. But it’s not di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 12:04 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Why are you obsessed with me and stalking me around this sub? Your takes are hot garbage, go talk to someone that can tolerate you	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 01:35 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Men that actually have ~gold digger~ money don’t complain about taking women on dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 01:34 PM
0	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Being hot isn’t enough to save you if you have the personality of a wet paper towel	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 01:29 PM
0	If men were less horny, what would happen? Genuinely think most men would stop speaking to women almost entirely. They would show their true colors sooner and be more outwardly misogynistic because they wouldn’t have to mask it in the hopes of still getting sex. Most women know this - but a massive portion of men do not actually like women. They like sex with women. There’s a difference. So if that’s off the table, I could see men and women just kind of separating in a lot of ways. But like you said - less sexual harassment, less rape, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 01:28 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Buddy you have some serious self reflecting to do lol. First of all, this commenter was saying you have some INTERNAL insecurities about yourself as a whole ass human being that have been made very clear in this post. You feel unable in some way to make women happy, so you project that onto them and say they have unrealistic expectations because you yourself are unable to meet them. And I bet you it has nothing to do with money. Your response to this commenter pointing out your insecurity was es…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 01:12 PM
0	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Neither is dating men that want to do the absolute bare minimum	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 12:55 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Another day, another man on this sub complaining about gold diggers when he himself has no money and no gold digger would ever blink in his direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 12:36 PM
4	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Is paying for your own lifestyle not considered “independent” by definition.? I can also tell you that I’ve never been “praised” for having a job or paying my gas bill. Sounds like you’re chronically online. But maybe some women celebrate being financially independent because we weren’t allowed to open our own bank accounts until the mid fucking 70s and women being independent is still a relatively new development in society. For reference, that was after people had been to the moon. We went to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 10:10 PM
2	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Lol I love how this is worded and I agree. As if going on dates is free for us. Half these men would go into a literal COMA if they knew how much my fucking makeup primer alone costs and saw how small the bottle is. Like sir please get a clue and stop acting like we’re all out here floating through life not paying for anything. The least they can do is pay for mozzarella sticks on a first date💀 Just because my card isn’t going down on the bill doesn’t mean that meal was free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 09:54 PM
2	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Kk, awesome contribution to the convo, thanks so much for that! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 09:14 PM
6	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? I’m convinced most men on this sub genuinely think women don’t manage their own finances or pay their own rent. This whole “women don’t understand the value of a dollar” thing is old. Like, what do you mean? My moisturizer alone costs $30. You think I don’t know how much money that is? You think I’m paying for all the fucking products women have to use to meet beauty standards, plus groceries, a gym membership, rent, etc. and I “don’t understand” money.? Bro I have to understand it, because I ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 09:12 PM
4	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Dude, the post says WOMEN are bad with money. He’s excluding men. That’s clearly intentional. Pls read between the lines lmfao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 08:51 PM
8	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Lol and I know plenty of men that dump thousands into sports gambling for fun, but I don’t turn around and say “men don’t understand the value of a dollar” LMFAO. People in general are terrible with money most of the time, especially if they aren’t used to having a lot of it or if they haven’t gone out of their way to learn about personal finance. This is not a gendered thing. Pls look up confirmation bias. Also, how tf would you know if several random women you know overspent and got behind on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 08:45 PM
1	Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version) It was XR! I googled the issue at the time bc I was like what the hell is happening to me lol. And then my reserved 65 year old male psychiatrist asked if I was experiencing any side effects lol. I kept it to myself 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 02:42 AM
2	Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version) I would have! But I work from home and my partner doesn’t, so I was always alone when this happened	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 02:40 AM
5	Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version) Hm. So yes I do have trouble meeting his needs often, but I also have sexual abuse trauma that I’m working through that makes me not want to engage in sex. However, we recently discovered that giving blow jobs doesn’t bother me haha. So I’ve just started giving him a lot of head. And he said that’s often actually preferred. I personally would not take a pill to make me horny. I’ve done that - adderall lmao. Made me super horny and I would stop work in the middle of the day to masturbate for like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 09:20 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Gay and trans people are no more “sexually compulsive” than anyone else. Humans in general are sexual beings. Would you consider a man that loves having sex with his wife 5 times a day to be disgusting and “sexually compulsive” or a danger to children? Exposing children to different types of people is not grooming. Sounds like you literally don’t know what that word means. You’re hateful, and I’m no longer interested in engaging with you. You have some extremely harmful, twisted, and disturbing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:41 PM
1	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Oh my Jesus, not you sending Jordan Peterson videos 💀 The man who claims women have NEVER been oppressed in history??? Who questioned if men and women should exist in the same workplace in a Vice interview???? The climate change denier??? Pass. Not interested in a single word	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:10 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Science entirely rejects the claim that sexuality or gender dysmorphia are chosen behaviors. Could you choose right now in this moment to looooooove having a dick in your mouth? Assuming you’re actually straight, the answer is probably no. That’s not a choice. You just want people to make the “choice” to never find love or sexual satisfaction, which is unrealistic and fucking cruel, and if they don’t choose that then I’m your mind it gives you some right to punish, dehumanize, and reach your chi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:59 PM
1	CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things cost How do you make the logical jump from “culture influences views” to “feminism is the problem.” The problem for whom? You? Yeah I bet it is buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:54 PM
1	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Still not getting chaotic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:22 PM
1	CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things cost Gathering that these women live under an oppressive patriarchy that influences their interests, skills, thoughts, and relationships is not looking down on them. It’s understanding how the world works. It doesn’t make them stupid. It makes them humans raised in a society that influences their way of thinking. Like every other human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:19 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Um, hello? Several states in the US are attempting to make being outwardly trans in public illegal. Banning drag shows. Taking gender affirming healthcare away from teens, despite what the American Medical Association officially recommends. Normalizing kids having two dads isn’t sexual predation. Again, you’re trying to erase these people. You too live in a world where not everyone thinks the same way as you, and you are trying to control how those people are able to be seen and heard. I would a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:14 PM
1	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? An example of what I’m talking about is it having men normal and masculine for men to wear skirts and dresses during other times in history. What is seen as masculine can change over time. Indicating that it is subject to cultural influence and is not objective. It evolves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:08 PM
3	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? I mean I assume you’re referencing things like women preferring men with money. You might consider that “sus.” I would draw a hard line however between wanting a rich man to gain access to money vs. wanting a submissive woman so your partner is obedient and unlikely to speak up/advocate for themselves strongly. Assuming money was even something you were thinking about here. That’s just the first thing I thought of	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 07:05 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. You can think whatever you want is immoral FOR YOU. You’re a bad person when you start supporting banning their existence, dehumanizing people, taking away healthcare, and pushing the rhetoric that they’re child predators. You can ~think~ whatever you want. But yes, once your thoughts start really harming people, others may very well think you’re a bad person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 07:00 PM
3	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? For the purpose of being able to manipulate and physically abuse them more easily? No lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:56 PM
2	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? And you’re entirely blaming women for those norms being upheld?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:39 PM
3	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Are you going to elaborate on what you’re saying or make assumptions about me	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:28 PM
5	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? I think naturally submissive women are at a higher risk of being abused and mistreated. I understand that a lot of men prefer submissive women, and I would say a lot of those reasons are suspect and concerning at best. And no I don’t know what you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 05:06 AM
4	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Correct. Masculinity and femininity are based on cultural norms and vary widely	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 05:01 AM
4	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? You can be different from men without thinking that your ability to use logic and think critically is inferior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 04:59 AM
3	CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things cost Gotcha, so gender inequality exists big time there…and you’re taking a hit at women for their lack of financial knowledge. Maybe because they aren’t used to holding wealth themselves. Which is maybe an issue that you should be punching at instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 03:19 AM
3	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Yes, I think it’s disturbing that this resonates with you and that you have been raised in a society that has made you believe that you’re inherently chaotic and irrational simply for being a woman. I’m not insulted by that, I’m saddened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 03:16 AM
6	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Would I have a problem with being complimented vs insulted? Would you have a problem with being called fucking stupid for simply being a man? Probably. Would you have a problem with being called capable for being a man? Probably not. Because one is harmful and degrading, and one is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 03:14 AM
6	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? You’re being intentionally dense. That statement is objectively offensive and degrading, unless you’re making the argument that being irrational is good. Further, can you point me to any scientific research concluding that women are “irrational”? My bet is no, because the vast majority of the scientific community rejects that, because it’s unfounded. So you’re holding a sexist belief that has not been proven and, in fact, has been proven OTHERWISE. That’s irrational.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 03:12 AM
7	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? So what you described has nothing to do with being emotional, and is also moreso being meticulous in deciding between likes or dislikes. Fine. A massive blanket statement that a massive portion of women don’t align with, but fine. I’m still not getting chaotic	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 03:10 AM
7	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Well for one, the first thing you thought of in relation to femininity is “not combative.” So…submissive? That’s pretty “tradcon” with controlling undertones, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 03:08 AM
2	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Elaborate	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:27 AM
6	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Chaotic compared to what? Men? Chaotic in what way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:25 AM
12	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Men have historically called women crazy when they simply don’t understand them, and make no effort to. Great example is postpartum depression. Women were sent to mental institutions and locked away, called mentally insane, etc. for experiencing something very real and natural. Maybe don’t call women “loons” or call that notion “wise,” as it’s historically known now to be the opposite. It’s ignorant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:24 AM
3	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? My partner also compliments me on this ability. Honestly, I don’t even think of that as a feminine trait, I just like being in places that feel like home and contain expression. I think it’s moreso just cultural influence and the spaces women are in. Being taught to value nice things and comfort, creating spaces for community to thrive, etc. But my mind is genuinely more at ease when the space I’m in feels in order. But yes I know many men that are content with using a slab of wood on top of a c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:22 AM
10	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? You’re literally saying being feminine means being irrational. That is straight out of sexist statements 101, and you’re confused how that’s fucking offensive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:16 AM
7	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? This person does not describe objective femininity. There is no objective femininity. But their view of femininity is disturbing and their “likes” about it send up big red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:15 AM
10	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Just started reading these comments and I expected to be disgusted. But damn we’re off to a rough start with this one. What the actual fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 02:14 AM
2	CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things cost People that are women and love women. You should lead with that though on your next date with one of these “pretty girls” and see how far it gets you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 12:57 AM
3	CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things cost Gotta love sexist blanket statements about women…on international women’s day, no less! /s 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 12:35 AM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I’m not seeing how those studies contradict one another. The feminist community doesn’t claim that men and women have identical brains. There are a few differences, but our brains are much more similar than they are different. So, yeah the differences are minimal. But…there are differences nonetheless that we can observe structurally. I think the idea you’re thinking of and that both feminists and scientists both reject is the idea that these differences impact things like intelligence, making o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 06:18 PM
1	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. First I would say you’re massively oversimplifying biological sex. Still. Again, it is absolutely not as simple as penis v vagina. There are many other factors that matter here like hormone levels, size of brain structures, chromosomes, etc. People can actually be intersex and have no idea. Also, being intersex is about as common as having red hair. So arguing that there is only male and female is like saying there’s only brown hair or blonde hair. You should look up Forrest Valkai, a biologist …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 02:22 AM
1	Financial Abortion Rebuttal I’ve never had an abortion. And I seriously doubt you’re making the argument that anyone who has had an abortion should disqualify themselves from advocating for decreasing childhood poverty. A living, breathing, conscious child experiencing something horrific like food insecurity is not equivalent to aborting an unconscious fetus. You have no reason to talk about abortion when you don’t give a fuck what happens to the child when it’s born.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 04:43 PM
2	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. How is being asked your pronouns equivalent to being asked to change your gender? Were you not using pronouns to describe yourself before? 😂 And you are seemingly misinformed about biology. There are NOT two biological sexes. You can look this up. In fact, determining whether a person is BIOLOGICALLY male or female is more complex than penis v vagina. From a literal biological perspective. Additionally, from a definitional and scientific standpoint, sex and gender are not the same thing and do n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 04:38 PM
1	Financial Abortion Rebuttal Alright troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 04:27 PM
1	Financial Abortion Rebuttal I bet you would care if you were a child in poverty🙃	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 10:16 AM
2	Redpillers make women not want to date men The last sentence here is really all that matters. It goes against your “self interest” so you reject it. It will never be a good idea to compare an oppressor’s position to the position of the oppressed. Racial stereotypes weaponized to continue oppressing a group of people is not the same as calling out valid and statistically backed criticisms of oppressors and oppressive behaviors. It’s punching up vs punching down. Women call men trash because they commit violence against women and rape/sexu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 09:12 AM
1	ladies, how do you feel about the idea of being a stay at home mother and housewife Let’s not blame adolescent depression and drug use on women working lmao. I highly doubt the statistics track with that one, this is just your personal opinion. My mom was very successful and I didn’t end up doing drugs or depressed. I love that my mom is a badass career woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:48 AM
2	ladies, how do you feel about the idea of being a stay at home mother and housewife This is an important point. I’m always suspicious of men that want stay at home wives and the views/values/reasons that fuel that desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:45 AM
1	ladies, how do you feel about the idea of being a stay at home mother and housewife I used to think definitely no, but now I honestly think it wouldn’t be too bad. I think I would go borderline insane only interacting with children for the first few years. But once the kids are grown and go to school during the day, I honestly think spending the day cleaning and baking would be kind of sick. I’m very passionate about my career and have a lot of big goals, but in another life I could see being a stay at home mom being kind of nice. Never having to be stressed about meetings or d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:44 AM
2	Redpillers make women not want to date men And more of those men will end up alone, angry, and unhappy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:40 AM
2	Redpillers make women not want to date men Do you understand that the men women vocally dislike are the men OP described? The men that hear this rhetoric out of their partners mouths take it because they know it doesn’t apply to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:38 AM
1	Are my standards too high or are many peoples standards too low? Don’t feel bad about your standards! You want what you want. Especially if you’re looking for someone that brings equal or similar qualities to the table that you do. I think it’s normal to have some level of doubt or questioning in the beginning of a relationship. But that’s where communication comes in. Communicate and figure out if it’s something you guys can meet in the middle on, or if that thing is too important for you to compromise on. Like, for example, if you truly want a very ambitiou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:35 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe Well best of luck	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:30 AM
1	The short king phenomenon, what caused it ? Haha I don’t think that suddenly made women more attracted to shorter men. People by nature are attracted to what they’re attracted to. “Short king” was just a new name given to attractive/respectful men under 5’9”ish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:30 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe Well I’m happy to help if you decide to redownload	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:27 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe Well that’s kinda hateful, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:26 AM
2	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe I was actually thinking more along the lines of what your bio says. Men often botch their bio and it sends women running. Care to share?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:21 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe It’s so interesting that this is genuinely your perception of reality. Mine is very different	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:16 AM
0	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe In my experience, the same is true here for most. Almost every guy I knew in college at least had fuck buddies, if not full on girlfriends for a time. Short guys, fat guys, dumb guys, etc. If you’re generally around women, it’ll happen. Definitely helps if you’re friends with women though. But a lot of the men here seemingly dislike women so I doubt they’re around a group of women in a friendly way very often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:14 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe …interesting take. Do fat people not date?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:09 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe Works in reverse too	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:05 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe I don’t think he’s avoiding it, he just said it in a roundabout way	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:05 AM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe I would be super interested to see your dating profile tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:04 AM
2	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe Well according to him, he left because he doesn’t like feminism and its easier to get away with crime there. Not sure what you’re referring to but that’s out of his own mouth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 03:00 AM
1	Whats your opinion on pre-nups? Pre-nups are great for everyone involved. You can lay it out mostly however you want. It just gives you some saying power in how a divorce would go as opposed to leaving it up to a judge and have to spend thousands in legal fees battling it out if the time comes. I will absolutely be getting one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:56 AM
3	Financial Abortion Rebuttal All this would do it lead to an increase in either abortions or childhood poverty. Or both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:53 AM
0	Financial Abortion Rebuttal If they’re able to do that, I would be fine with it. But people often opt for adoption because paying for a child would leave them in financial ruin. They simply cannot afford it. This policy would lead to an increase in abortion, which I’m also fine with. I’m also fine with this financial support coming from tax dollars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:50 AM
8	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. How did you get from gender nonconformity and normalization of casual sex to general apathy, lack of passion, and loss of respect for others.? None of that is tracking. You do you, let other people do them. No one is asking you to change your gender, engage in sex if you don’t want to, or to change your personal value preferences. You live in a world of people that think and act differently from you. Nothing needs to be done about that. Not everyone needs to behave the same way as you or value t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:48 AM
1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies That has nothing to do with what you said before. You said you wouldn’t hire someone with a preexisting condition. Which would leave them unemployed. And living off of tax dollars. Which I said I bet you would have a problem with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 08:17 PM
3	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies I can promise you that the vast majority of women will not be taking 5 days a month off of work. You’re getting upset about hypothetical situations that will not happen in reality. But go off	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 08:14 PM
3	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies Do you understand that most women don’t experience this? A subset of women experience debilitating symptoms from an uncontrollable bodily function. Also not sure what you even mean by the word capable. A woman could be the star sales rep in her company, far surpassing other employees, but because she needs a couple days off a month for chronic pain, she’s suddenly “less capable”? You’re searching for reasons to say belittling things about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 08:08 PM
1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies So then no one with a chronic pain disorder should be hired. I imagine that would cue complaints from you about having to support them with your taxes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 08:02 PM
7	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies Bro some of the most successful men in America are short. Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Michael Bloomberg are all 5’7”. Sergey Brin is 5’8”. Michael Dell is 5’5”. Charles Koch is 5’6”. All in the top 20 richest in America. Give me a break. I bet you won’t tell the same sob story of women being left out of leadership. I’ll wait. Edit: Also for the record, I recognize that there is general data that suggests taller men are more successful. But if your complaint lies there….who do you think is e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 07:57 PM
3	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies It’s ironic that you seem to be advocating for disability leave here. Which this bill is partially addressing. Your stance seems to be “if every problem isn’t fixed, none of them should get to be fixed and everyone should suffer.” You’re advocating against this bill, which if you care about disability leave you should be in favor of. You’re allowed to continue advocating for more disability leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 07:48 PM
3	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies …… as if women don’t also pay taxes.?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 07:45 PM
1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies Spain already has laws that handle this. This isn’t an issue there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 07:45 PM
5	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies Others have pointed out that this isn’t a case of “oh you have a period? Here’s 5 days off every month, no questions asked.” You clearly haven’t actually read the bill. Some women have conditions that make their time of the month unbelievably debilitating. Would you be able to continue functioning if you had to walk around with a constant feeling of just being kicked in the balls for 3+ days? Doubt it. You would likely consider that a disability and would appreciate others recognizing it as such…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 07:41 PM
1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies I don’t even have endometriosis but sometimes my period cramps are so severe that I’m still doubled over on the toilet and literally shaking from the pain after taking 5 Ibuprofen. And I’ve never heard of women being given hydro or anything for menstrual pain. I think men genuinely do not understand how bad it can be. The lack of empathy and desire to turn it into a “gotcha! women aren’t as capable as men!” is a strange thought process.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 07:27 PM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Wtf is this answer lmao this was all so random	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 04:28 PM
10	Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age? As a 25 year old woman, this answer is the biggest green flag and the normal adult answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 04:51 AM
3	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? This analogy is extremely common and extremely flawed. First of all, what is it with men and comparing women to animals and inanimate objects? We’re human beings with complex thoughts and emotions. We are not fucking fish. Second of all, fish cannot speak or give feedback. You can’t ask the fish. Women can communicate likes and dislikes. Third, fish are prey. Do you view women as prey? Fish don’t want to be caught because they’ll be killed. Whereas (most) women do want to find a partner. We don’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 01:13 AM
0	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? You’re literally not listening to what I’m saying but okay. Everything I said above doesn’t make a person demisexual. And I never said women don’t care about a man’s appearance. Feel free to ask any woman you know if they’re actively turned on and ready for sex at the sight of a hot guy in a bar. I think you’ll find most say exactly what I said - there’s a different between attraction and arousal for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 06:33 PM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? No one said they aren’t attracted to men! But there’s a difference for us between attraction and physical arousal. That’s what you guys seem to have a hard time grasping. And if there are several women here all saying the same thing that don’t know each other and have never spoken, it’s probably worth actually considering! And obviously we are speaking in generalizations. Maybe some women do get wet by seeing a hot shirtless guy. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Interesting that all these women here are echoing the same s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 05:20 PM
-1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? I’m delivering real statistics and you’re getting fussy that they don’t align with your world view. But yeah continue thinking women are “paranoid”. Rather be paranoid than delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 05:17 PM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Based on your above take I 100% believe that	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:26 PM
2	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? That you’re misogynistic lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:26 PM
0	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Odds of being bitten by a dog is 1 in 73. Odds of being struck by a car while walking is 1 in 4,292. Odds of a woman experiencing sexual harassment in public is 1 in 3. Odds of being sexually assaulted or raped as an adult woman is 1 in 4. Odds of being stalked as a woman in the US at some point in their life is 1 in 6. Odds of being roofied as a woman is harder to find but the lowest number I found was 1 in 100. The statistics are not on your side, babe. Again, gaslighting. Edit: “construing th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:23 PM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Strange that you resent women for… being abused? I would unpack that if I were you. And consider reading up on abuse cycles and psychology behind domestic violence victims. Honestly pretty disgusting to blame women here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:12 PM
2	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Again, sounds like you may not like women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:04 PM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Sounds super reliable /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:03 PM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Can you explain how exactly you would be able to know that women are “lying to themselves” if you yourself are not a woman and do not possess the brain of one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 03:58 PM
-1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Did I say “fumbling” with flirting made someone a creep? Again, you don’t understand what comes across as creepy. And again, you’re not trying to. You’re just being judgmental…about women’s perceived judgmental nature, which is ironic. Women are trained for PERSONAL SAFETY reasons to pay attention to any red flags or odd behavior. If you would like women to let their guards down and be less on edge about potentially dangerous people with bad intentions approaching us, consider having a chat with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 03:56 PM
3	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? I personally watch a specific niche of porn that turns me on. But again, it has little to do with the physical attraction of a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 03:51 PM
3	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Sounds like you may actually not like women	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 03:48 PM
0	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? You’re free to disbelieve and gaslight women if you so choose. Doesn’t make our stories any less true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 03:47 PM
-1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Then why don’t you lead the way by listening instead of calling women crazy! What an idea!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 09:11 AM
-1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Yeah, no. Men have been calling women “crazy” for centuries (at least) because they don’t understand them. Great example - women put in mental institutions and deemed insane for having postpartum depression. Men just had no idea and couldn’t understand (and didn’t fucking try) so women were labeled “crazy.” There are crazy men and women, but men are quick to call women crazy when they simply don’t understand them, or have just blatantly mistreated them but lack the emotional intelligence and sel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 09:08 AM
-1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? How often are you talking to “hot chicks” about their sexuality	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:57 AM
3	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? No, she’s a normal woman lmao. You guys just fundamentally don’t understand women and don’t try to either	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:55 AM
2	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Preach	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:52 AM
9	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Men shut down women’s honest answers because they don’t make sense in your brain and you think you understand women. Everything the above poster said was accurate for me as well. We aren’t being politically correct, we’re being real lol. If a hot girl sends a man an unsolicited nude, he’s probably going to get a boner. If a hot guy sends a woman an unsolicited picture of his dick, we’re not running to go masturbate to it lol. Men’s sexuality tends to be very visual. Women generally do not operat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:50 AM
1	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? So true	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:43 AM
1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Honestly the issue here is that men don’t understand what’s creepy and generally don’t know how to approach women. Most men are extremely off putting in their approach and it creates highly uncomfortable situations. And then they fail to properly read the response and drag it out, leading to more creepiness. They fail to think from a woman’s perspective, and instead want to insist they aren’t creepy and complain about how mean women are for perceiving them as creepy. Apologies that our red flag …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:30 AM
2	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Men think women are crazy because men are often stupid	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:25 AM
6	Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with? First, I’ve read an article about this actually where much older people were asked if they are sexually attracted to other people their age. And the answer was a resounding yes. So I think the assumption that you stop being attracted to your partner just because they age is just that - an assumption. Next, attraction is a priority because sex is an important part of a relationship. Most people aren’t turned on by the idea of fucking someone they aren’t attracted to. It’s very hard to even have r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 06:21 PM
1	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? Translation: “you may find men here praising violent abusers, but be a nice little girl about it anyways.” You gotta bffr too bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 04:59 PM
0	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? It’s uncivil to allow men to sit here and defend a man that’s in jail for sex trafficking women. Not to mention the rape accusations and the ridiculous shit he’s said. It is BLATANT sexism. And it leads to violence. So tell him to keep it civil. I get this is a debate sub, but it’s not fucking civil to allow space to defend and speak positively about a man that is a known human trafficker and abuser. The audacity to allow a space for men to chum it up about the figurehead of female abuse and att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 03:21 PM
2	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? The fact that you think of misogyny as a “buzz word” says a lot about you and your lack of understanding of the subject. You saying that is actually ironic, as it’s your misogyny that allows you to be comfortable with “Tate’s” misogyny and see him as “digestible.” Anyways, he’s literally a sex trafficker and a rapist. Super digestible though! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 02:08 AM
3	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? I’ll direct you to my response to his comment as well. If any of that is “digestible” to you, it’s because you’re a misogynist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 12:28 AM
1	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? So people with abusive fathers? Or emotionally immature fathers? My dad’s father verbally degraded him and beat him with a belt. Is that role model material?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 10:18 PM
1	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? We haven’t watched his content enough? He’s on video… -fantasizing about the ways he would physically harm a woman if he was given an opportunity where that was justified in his mind. Tactics include punching her in the face and choking her. -saying that he doesn’t want a woman flying his plane -saying that women are bad drivers (contrary to statistics used by auto insurance companies to calculate insurance rates) -expressing that he expects absolute obedience from women in his life, comparing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 10:16 PM
2	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? JUSTIN BALDONI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 09:48 PM
1	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Dude I already ended this convo bc you’re insufferable and not actually interested in listening to anyone. You just want to talk and be right. Not interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 01:22 PM
1	Women should be more careful of the men they actually date or know than strangers I know, I’ve been in a loving relationship with a man for 5 years. He’s wonderful. Most are garbage unfortunately. I was half joking. Like statistically that’s actually the safest option but in reality I wouldn’t encourage women to never speak to another man	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 12:52 AM
1	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance You’re still just arguing with yourself. No where did I say employment is coercion. Reading comprehension is a 2/10. Also think you lack understanding around consent. A Walmart worker putting paper towels on a shelf is not a comparable situation to filming porn. That’s just all around a terrible comparison. I don’t argue with people that would rather talk to themselves so have fun with that. Since you seem to think you can read my mind, you can just have the rest of this convo in your own head l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 07:32 PM
1	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Again, you’re here to argue instead of listen. Nowhere did I say “most” women in porn are victims. I would argue that we have no way of knowing which are victims and which aren’t though. Which, to me, makes porn way less hot. Edit: Also, by definition, trafficking encompasses any situation where a victim is coerced into sexual acts. That opens up the door for a LOT. Trafficking isn’t always these situations that look obviously horrific from the outside. These women are working for their liveliho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 04:40 PM
4	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Or you could ask questions to actually listen instead of answering for someone. If you’re going to do that, there’s no point in engaging at all. You can just talk to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 07:03 AM
1	Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex? Well I won’t bother answering since all the men here think they can speak for us. Clearly you all already have it figured out. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:39 AM
11	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Because it’s…important? And worth talking about? And a valid piece of the conversation? Apparently you disagree. Can honestly say I’ve never told someone to “give it a rest” when talking about sexual abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:15 AM
11	Women should be more careful of the men they actually date or know than strangers I think most women know this info. Moral of the story: stay away from men :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:13 AM
2	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Well I’m not a porn star so that can’t be true. You’ve made that clear. You talk about peace and quiet though, yet here you are talking to a bunch of women on your phone all night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:03 AM
3	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Well you really got us! Such a shame you’ve chosen to be alone. You’re really depriving us ladies of the kind of man we’re all chasing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:56 AM
2	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance If that’s what you want then go for it! Being in loving relationships isn’t for everyone. If you’ve made that choice bc you know you wouldn’t be happy, good for you. But if you’ve made the choice to intentionally stay alone and not interact with women in real life then I’m not sure why you’re spending your “alone time” thinking about those women..that you’re choosing not to be with. Something seems unresolved there haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:51 AM
8	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance This is ignorant and naive but alrighty Edit: I don’t think you understand everything trafficking encompasses	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:45 AM
2	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Alllllrighty. Again, enjoy being alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:45 AM
1	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance Your complete lack of emotional intelligence is showing. Likely why you’ll be enjoying porn tonight instead of a real human woman. Enjoy that	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:39 AM
12	CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performance …….you do realize the “trafficking angle” has substance, right? Like these women are often victims. I think porn is a nuanced issue but the way you just brushed that off is disturbing. Also I think you should realize porn is fake lmfao. And often directed by men. It doesn’t “raise the bar” for women, it just gives men unrealistic expectations haha. In the end it hurts men in that way. I will not be changing my body or my sexual performance to compete with someone that’s being paid (hopefully) to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:36 AM
0	Is it unethical for men to purposely seek out women with less life and relationship experience than them? Why? I can’t think of an ethical reason why they would specifically want that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 09:43 PM
-1	“Female sexuality is responsive” Did I say anywhere that women shouldn’t initiate sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 12:49 AM
1	“Female sexuality is responsive” I literally don’t care lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:31 PM
1	“Female sexuality is responsive” Again, just because you can’t read between the lines doesn’t mean other people can’t. Good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:26 PM
0	“Female sexuality is responsive” Then why would you want to talk to a paranoid schizo! We can’t be reasoned with! Run for your life	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:25 PM
1	“Female sexuality is responsive” It is not my problem that you’re incapable of picking up sarcasm from language, phrasing, italics, etc. Everyone else seems to have gotten it just fine as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:08 PM
-1	“Female sexuality is responsive” It’s the sarcasm	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 10:52 PM
-1	“Female sexuality is responsive” I didn’t say women in this sub, I said women period. If you want every woman’s vagina to shrivel at the thought of you, keep acting like that. Women love sex, we just tend to approach it differently and we have different hormones. Less testosterone. We don’t walk around ready to go all the time like men often do. If you want to be lazy and skip the romance to get your partner aroused, consider dating men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:32 PM
2	[Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count? Ha I would guess no. I agree though! I grew up deep in purity cultural (but like…was pretty rebellious) so growing up I subscribed to the “we can do everything but actual sex” mentality. So for that reason it has always been distinguished. But honestly if STDs can be swapped, you’re having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:28 PM
0	“Female sexuality is responsive” Shaming women for not being constantly horny for you is the quickest way to make sure they’re never horny for you. Good luck	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 07:56 PM
1	“Female sexuality is responsive” It literally just means women aren’t perpetually horny for no reason like men usually. Men walk around in everyday life and just are horny and frequently ready to have sex at the drop of a hat. Women often require more to become turned on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 07:54 PM
8	[Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count? I think anything over 20 would make me think “oh wow that’s higher than expected.” But no shame to anyone at all! Edit: straight woman, 25. My count is 3, 8 if you include oral. Should be higher but I got locked down v early lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 07:38 PM
1	It is possible to change? Here you’re just saying that dead bedroom exist largely because women’s sex drives fall after marriage. That does happen to plenty of women for a variety of reasons. But I’m saying you cannot attribute that to their prior promiscuity, which is what you were asserting before. That does not make any sense and is illogical. It’s also illogical to think that you can observe a deeply personal and complex relational issue and somehow draw a conclusion (and then generalize and apply it to a wide number…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 06:29 PM
0	It is possible to change? Please back this up with data or stop speaking lol. Unless you have a vagina and the psyche of a woman, you’re talking out of your ass. Orgasms never get old and even the sluttiest little sluts out there are still down to O	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 05:43 PM
1	It is possible to change? Are you 10 years old.? Are you ever going to get sick of having orgasms just because you’ve “done it” with multiple women? Why do men have no clue how when work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 05:40 PM
2	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Stop pulling extreme circumstances to satisfy your point. Most men are not 600 pounds and 5’1”. I recommend speaking to real women. In real life. Not random YouTube videos of women on the internet that say things that piss you off yet confirm your preexisting view. Women also talk plenty about wanting someone interesting, emotionally intelligent, and kind. Also for the record, my boyfriend is 5’7”. Stop with the “you can’t get a girlfriend if you aren’t 6 feet tall and rich.” It’s not rooted in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 07:16 PM
2	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Dude there are so many factors that go into choosing a partner, your argument is completely illogical 😂 you’re drawing an arbitrary conclusion. People look at emotional intelligence, shared interests, communication, values, character, sexual compatibility, etc. But you’re just bypassing all of those factors and pinpointing looks as the reason why men are more single. Again, you cannot logically draw that conclusion. It just feels correct to you so you’re running with it. Whereas, if you actually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 04:14 PM
2	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? I never said that but okie	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 03:39 AM
2	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Do you understand that what I was saying was rhetorical? I was making a point that it’s not okay to do that. Pointing out to him that he would not want someone else to do that to him so he shouldn’t be doing it to other people. You’re arguing with yourself over nothing. Move along.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 03:09 AM
1	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? I said nothing about his body. Relax.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 02:46 AM
1	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Obviously not? It was an invitation for him to take some criticism since he thinks it’s all good and cool to give unsolicited negative comments about someone else’s body. If he thinks that’s acceptable then maybe he should post a photo of himself for some of that treatment	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 12:49 AM
2	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? So you’re just assuming that’s because women won’t date average looking guys? Can promise you that’s not the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 09:17 PM
6	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Women will always love hot guys. Men will always love hot women. That doesn’t mean average looking men don’t get married and date as well. Again, check out an Applebee’s and then tell me that average guys don’t get women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:47 PM
0	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? That comment wasn’t even in response to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:44 PM
1	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Is it really necessary to make disgusted comments about women’s bodies? Literally no one asked what you thought. Not every thought needs to leave your head. Don’t be shy, post a photo of yourself so we can see what you look like! I’m assuming you’re a 10/10!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:17 PM
13	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Can everyone just go outside and look at real life couples. Go to a Walmart. A mall. A grocery store. People generally date in their league. People on this sub will say differently. Go outside and pay attention to reality. Women in general are less concerned with men’s bodies. I’m a very conventionally attractive woman and have never had issues dating. Many of my friends are also very attractive. And many of them have boyfriends. None of these boyfriends are ripped with perfect bodies. Even my m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:13 PM
2	Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming. The point went right over your head. You are proving OP wrong while seemingly agreeing with her lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 05:55 PM
4	Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming. This is an ironic post. You say no one is slut shaming….but all the language and phrasing you’re using is you slut shaming them lol. Multiple things can be true. Neither should happen. If you don’t want people shaming you for your sexual decisions, probably best to reciprocate that and give others that respect in return. You clearly have some negative feelings towards women that are openly very sexual. So you just proved yourself wrong lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 05:54 PM
3	Behind every redpilled/blackpilled man, there's at least one woman who made him so You don’t understand what women even mean when they say “listen to women” if you think this is an example of you doing that lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 08:54 PM
1	Behind every redpilled/blackpilled man, there's at least one woman who made him so Emotional intelligence nonexistent	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 08:51 PM
1	Behind every redpilled/blackpilled man, there's at least one woman who made him so Your lack of emotional intelligence is showing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 08:49 PM
2	Behind every redpilled/blackpilled man, there's at least one woman who made him so Correct	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 08:47 PM
2	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior Sir you have no idea what is going on in his head, this is so detailed and extremely weird to assume and project onto him when you truly have no way of knowing anything about him 🤣 Super weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 01:29 AM
15	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior So your “field research” is bullshit. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:53 PM
8	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior If you provided information to prove that your sample is large and diverse enough, maybe! But I highly doubt you’ve done that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:49 PM
11	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior Then provide a link to the responses! Or is it just stored inside your brain with no evidence that you actually did this	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:47 PM
4	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior That’s not at all what you said lol. He’s a perfect example that you’re wrong but you don’t want to hear that. Keep burying your head in the sand and have fun with your Saturday night bitching about women on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:46 PM
17	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior Lmfao please do share how you went about doing “field research” here. I would love to know what that consisted of	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:44 PM
7	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior By that logic, you’re implying that women are drooling over him but wouldn’t actually date him. Which is hilarious. Every woman at his concerts would date him TOMORROW if given the chance. Not just sleep with him. Like marry that man. Women aren’t rubbing one out to a photo of him and then talking shit about him being gross/slutty/stupid/whatever 5 seconds later like men do with Kim K. Harry Styles and Kim K are not the same lol. And honestly, he is as popular as he is largely because women love…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:42 PM
3	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior Then explain every woman in America drooling over Harry Styles. Debunked. Goodbye. Next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 11:27 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Lol luckily I’m very much taken. And my body count is literally 3 so your “patterns” failed you	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 08:17 AM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Then how do you tell? You have a 20 minute conversation with a woman in a bar that has slept with (random number) 18 men. What’s giving it away? Enlighten me	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 04:17 AM
-2	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? I don’t think on the front end someone owes you full disclosure of something that’s so personal and intimate. Use protection. If someone tells you they’re a virgin and pushes you to have unprotected sex while actually having slept with the whole town, that’s another story. But women know they’re judged by this number. And they also know it doesn’t define them. Women have a motivation to lie. I get it. I wouldn’t but I also have a low count so I can’t fully understand their position.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 04:10 AM
4	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? The only problem I have here is if there’s a double standard. I think having generally similar sexual histories in relationships is a valid request. Like I had slept with 2 people before, my boyfriend had slept with 6. That’s fine. If he told me he had slept with 35, I would have been side eyeing a bit, just as a concern that we may be a bit different. But if a man has had dozens of partners and wouldn’t date a woman with a similar past, that’s silly and shows some insecurity to me. But if a man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 04:07 AM
1	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? And men are disrespectful simpletons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 12:29 AM
1	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? Attractiveness is a precursor to sexual arousal. An attractive man alone (like in a photo) generally will not make a woman horny. That’s the point. No one is claiming that looks do not matter to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:33 PM
0	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? Cannot read a single post on this sub without finding a man complaining about women’s height preference	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:30 PM
1	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? I was with you until you started calling women weird lol. We aren’t weird, we’re honestly just more complex in our attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:28 PM
3	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? I’ll answer! No. It’s not the body itself that turns me on. It’s what he does with it, what he would say during, and the fantasy as a whole. But when I want to masturbate I’ve never thought “need to find a hot man to look at”	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:22 PM
2	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? I don’t think this person meant literally have sex with a woman for only her ass lol. He just meant men will have sex with a woman solely because they find them physically attractive. Which most men would do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 10:19 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Lmfao I would argue that men are mostly responsible for that as well actually, but regardless, climate change and the patriarchy are two completely separate issues that shouldn’t even be compared. That makes zero sense. One is an environmental crisis and the other is a complex system of oppression and discrimination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 08:52 PM
0	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? That’s like saying minorities create racism or LGBTQ+ folks create homophobia. Again, your lack of education is showing. Read a book. I’m happy to suggest some to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 08:46 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? It’s funny because you yourself are actually complaining about the patriarchy but aren’t educated enough on how it manifests to recognize that. In one breath you’re pouting that some women still hold internalized patriarchal values that don’t serve you. And the next you’re sarcastically insinuating that it doesn’t exist and women are invalid for complaining about it. If you’re going to complain about your problems at least accurately place blame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 01:48 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? You’re pouting that women have higher standards than men. Either rise to it or be alone. Complaining on the Internet isn’t helping you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 09:07 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Actually it’s not a problem. I have a long term boyfriend. Your entire post sounds like a you problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:11 PM
14	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Men just come here to throw a hissy fit when hot women refuse to date them because they have absolutely nothing going for them and no motivation to change anything about themselves. So women are shallow and men have it so so hard because they have to actually put in any amount of effort to be attractive. 🙄 literally cry me a River	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:54 PM
20	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Have you stepped inside an Apple Bee’s or a Walmart recently, by chance? I genuinely cannot figure out where you guys are getting reinforcement for this narrative that average or even below average men don’t find partners. Walk out in public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:51 PM
2	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? All I hear from this honestly is that men don’t actually care anything about a woman’s mind or personality, which is a massive red flag. If you just want a set of tits and someone to listen to you talk then buy a prostitute for a night. If you’re honestly telling me that you don’t care about a woman’s personality generally, you have bigger problems	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:49 PM
12	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? They literally want a woman that does nothing. Just a set of tits that doesn’t speak. Maybe cooks dinner for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:47 PM
2	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Being peaceful takes all the effort I can muster, especially when I have to deal with people like this lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:46 PM
1	do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with? Yes, women go without sex and most without an issue. Women definitely get horny but we perfect masturbation and that typically is more effective than most men can do. Women typically don’t orgasm with random hookups for a variety of reasons. If I’m single and wanting an O, I’m just giving it to myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 04:29 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men The only men that complain this hard about being short are ones that have deeper issues and falsely attribute their problems to being short. Does my boyfriend like being short? No. He’s really athletic and it hurt him in sports when everyone else kept growing. Does he feel like being short has noticeably hurt his dating game? Not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 03:13 PM
1	The most important personality trait when it comes to attraction is humour for men Then go to therapy	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 02:27 PM
1	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. How is that related	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 08:28 PM
1	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. ….are you saying something should be done in the reverse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 07:33 PM
1	The most important personality trait when it comes to attraction is humour for men Bottom line be yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 07:26 PM
1	The most important personality trait when it comes to attraction is humour for men Bro, I’m not saying the only thing you have in common is your sense of humor 😂 Strong relationships can certainly be built on generally enjoying the presence and company of another person. Being able to make each other laugh is important. At least in my relationship it is. I would never date a guy that I didn’t find funny tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 07:22 PM
1	Not wanting to date a guy that still lives with his mother isn't a hot take In my opinion this is a super different situation. You moved out, something traumatic happened, and now you’re moving in again as a favor to your mother because you’re a caring person. This is far different than men that have never experienced independence and stood on their own two feet alone. I think the vast majority of women would agree with me. I think a lot would even think that’s incredibly kind and says a lot about you as a person	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:38 PM
1	Not wanting to date a guy that still lives with his mother isn't a hot take Also 25f. I think for me it’s the last piece. It’s the maturity aspect of living alone. Being on your own and having your own space not only makes you grow up and be more responsible. I would also be wondering why he’s not wanting independence and his own space? What’s keeping him there? That answer alone could uncover red flags	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:34 PM
0	The most important personality trait when it comes to attraction is humour for men But….you’re trying to find a woman that connects with your humor correct? That you connect with as a person? Jeez, your advice is to be generic and just like everyone else. To hide your personality. Great way to guarantee no one will truly connect with you at all. Rule #1 of talking to women. Women love confidence and men that are comfortable in who they are. Be yourself. Unapologetically. If you’re not saying weird offensive shit, you’ll be fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:27 PM
2	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Right. Not saying he’s automatically a predator but it certainly sends up send flags to find out why he doesn’t date women his own age	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:02 PM
3	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter I didn’t know that. Honestly that’s YOUNG. And 14 is CRAZY young	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:00 PM
0	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter I think this stems from society not genuinely seeing 18 or 20 year olds as adults. And honestly I kind of agree. 18 year olds dating 40 year olds? It feels wrong. It’s not infantilizing anyone. It’s recognizing that they’re a teenager and their brain won’t be fully developed for years. The decision making part of your brain isn’t done developing until around 25. Making people under that age more vulnerable to manipulation and abuse. Mix that with an almost certain power or financial imbalance in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:59 PM
2	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? I’ve also learned that you’re typically not nearly as awkward as you think you are. I feel very awkward and anxious in social settings unless I’ve had a ton of alcohol, but I’m complimented a lot on my social skills. No one knows what’s going on in your head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:11 PM
3	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? I meant being socially awkward. A lot of people struggle with anxiety. That doesn’t say anything about your intellectual or emotional intelligence	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:00 PM
2	Most women find very few men attractive Great point	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:48 PM
0	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Most research on the topic disagrees with you. And I think just the way men and women are conditioned differently in childhood makes this make sense. But valid for that to be an ick. It is for me as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:46 PM
2	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Yeah women that demand respect and equal rights??? Next! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:44 PM
4	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? This has nothing to do with emotional intelligence	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:42 PM
1	Most women find very few men attractive Testosterone makes you horny. When you’re horny your bar is lower. Women aren’t constantly walking around horned up, so a very genuine attraction has to be there in order to get noticed. I don’t know what it’s like being a man, but I have been on medication that changes my sex drive and it’s noticeable how much more attracted I am to random people on the street. It’s all just body chemicals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:40 PM
1	Most women find very few men attractive I was thinking about this the other day and had never heard anyone say it! It makes totally sense as a woman. We’re not fucking like rabbits generally, and I do wonder if it has something to do with that. Almost like a self defense mechanism? But deeply engrained.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:38 PM
2	Most women find very few men attractive Yeah men tend to hate the rare occasion when women actually benefit from the patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:30 PM
7	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? Is that what I said? No. I said it’s run by men. You said women are mostly responsible for your issues. How can that possibly be true when other men hold the majority of wealth, power, and influence? AND built the entire society, norms and all. You’re angry at the patriarchy, but don’t understand enough about how it manifests and harms men as well as women. So it’s easier for you to blame women. Logically, that doesn’t make any fucking sense. So thank your ancestors and the 1% and stop blabbing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:01 PM
8	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? Men can be dominant in bed, rich, and handsome…and not assholes. You’re making a lot of assumptions about these people and it sounds like your main beef is that you aren’t dominant, rich, or handsome. So you’re labeling men that are “assholes”. But you’re the nice normal guy that’s always respectful and kind and loyal right? Also, most women aren’t searching for an emotional rollercoaster relationship with a man. They fall into it and get stuck, because human emotions are complex and manipulatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 02:02 PM
5	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? 💀 of course you’re calling yourself a “nice guy” at the end. OF COURSE	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:46 PM
3	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:44 PM
5	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? 💀 bud, we aren’t spending much time thinking about your shit. We’re a little busy trying not to get murdered and going to therapy to heal from the trauma created by the patriarchy. Women aren’t “mostly” responsible for your problems. Our society was built by and is run by - other men. Whatever beef you have with it, take it up with your own kind. Women’s behavior is reactionary to the patriarchal society we were born into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:43 PM
1	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? You just compared rape to random people being rude to you. Check yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:37 PM
4	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? Make therapy more normalized and accessible	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:33 PM
-1	Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage? Love and sex are not the same thing. Sounds like you have a problem with the fact that you aren’t entitled to sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 12:22 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men It’s not “woke” to think women are intelligent. You are an outlier. And science disagrees with you. If you hate women so much then feel free to go find a man. 🤷🏻‍♀️ the female population won’t miss you	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:21 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Are you for real?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:09 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men You’re literally just a misogynist trolling here. Go somewhere else with your sexist bullshit	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:07 PM
1	Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage? Learn from the men with wives that still have a great sex life. I heard something recently that said “men often don’t realize that foreplay starts at the beginning of the day, not 10 minutes before you want to have sex.” I think a lot of men struggle to wrap their brain around this. It’s intimacy outside of sex that leads to sexual intimacy. In a lot of relationships, sexual attraction fades because it becomes something you’re just used to. You know their body. You’re not in the honeymoon stage …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:45 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Take a scroll through this sub, bud. Men left and right complain about being disgusted by fat women. I’ve never seen a woman here speak that way about overweight men. In fact, dad bods are in. And I know a lot of overweight men in their 20s that successfully date. A lot of men on this app have a fixation with shaming fat women, as if anyone is asking them to date fat women. Attraction is a natural thing. No one is asking anyone to date someone they aren’t attracted to. But you don’t have to cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:05 PM
2	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men An absolute queen right here	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:58 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I totally understand that. That’s still not a justification for turning to blaming and shaming women for all their problems. Therapy exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:57 PM
6	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men No it is. I come here for a good laugh sometimes	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:16 AM
5	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Also, there might be your issue. Notice how women don’t walk around shaming and disgusted by fat men. No woman is walking around saying “I want a boyfriend, just not a fat one🤢.” Women can sense that type of disrespect from a mile away. Learn to respect other human beings instead of trolling on the internet giving opinions about peoples bodies that literally no one asked more. No one even mentioned weight, but somehow you made sure to get that punch in. I weigh 125 pounds and I would never date …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 11:06 PM
5	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men If you don’t want to tell women about your salary and credit score then maybe work on that instead of shaming women for having standards. Sounds salty. Other men are certainly making it work. And please don’t pretend the only credential you’re looking for is “not fat.” If that were the case you’d have a partner, unless your personality is garbage. Also don’t understand the constant need to be fatphobic on this sub. No one is begging you to marry an obese woman. They don’t want you either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 11:01 PM
11	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Lol yes. Or they’re salty that they’re short and instead of working around it and self improving in other areas, they absolutely have to believe that women are all shallow. My boyfriend is 5’7” and I came onto him first in a crowd of people so 🤷🏻‍♀️ figure that one out boys	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:49 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Oh please 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:38 PM
29	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Yeah the men here are something else. They look at dating like a literal math equation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:37 PM
5	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Did I say it was? What’s your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:05 AM
5	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? I agree! I think my boyfriend is super attractive. You don’t need a chiseled bone structure for women to find you attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:03 AM
0	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? The complete lack of awareness of female beauty standards is weird lol. What planet are you living on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 11:20 PM
2	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Anytime I hear this take I just know you aren’t actually talking to real women lmao. You heard this on the internet and you can’t get bitches so it felt true to you. I would rate myself like an 8.5 in attractiveness. I have never struggled with men at all, I’m often hit on in bars, I’m college educated, very intelligent if I do say so myself, etc. i have plenty of past partners that are objectively hot af. I can take my pic of partner more or less. My boyfriend of 5 years is 5’7”. He does not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 11:19 PM
1	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts 🥴sick contribution	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:01 AM
2	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts I’m speaking generally and this is a scientific fact. Men have far more testosterone (generally), and testosterone controls sex drive. Personal anecdotes don’t overrule science. I didn’t say women cannot have high sex drives. Sure they can. But - to your point - your girlfriend has a high sex drive but I’m assuming based on your position that she was not out fucking everything in sight before you two were together? Also, women wanting to have sex with you doesn’t indicate that what I said is fal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:54 PM
-1	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts Entitlement that you think just because someone else has easily enjoyed her, that means you should be able to do the same thing with the same ease. And if it doesn’t come easily to you then it’s not worth it? Women are human beings and are allowed to give or deny consent at any time. You’re making a notion that if a woman was easy once then she’s obligated to continue being easy and spread ‘em for anyone in the future or else that’s an issue for you. If you aren’t willing to put in time and effo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:47 PM
1	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts Women tend to have lower sex drives and higher standards for who they’ll sleep with. Women sleep with who they want - men sleep with who they can. We’re used to seeing men throw themselves at us. We ignore 95% of them, entertain 5%, and sleep with a select few generally. I’m saying this as a conventionally attract woman. And yes we know most men will sleep with nearly anything that moves and would have much higher body counts if they could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:32 PM
-1	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts This is just blatant objectification and entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:25 PM
2	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts This is not a normal body count for women of that age. Sure, there are women like this and I’ve met a couple, but the vast majority of women I know (I’m 24) have body counts of 0-8. I would estimate that accounts for over 80% of women in my age group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:22 PM
2	How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? I’m saying you can be entirely in love and committed to a partner, while also recognizing that another person is attractive. Being in a relationship doesn’t make you blind🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 04:28 AM
4	How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? “Protect ourselves from being used.” Yeah yeah not a victim at all! Unless you look like Brad Pitt, your wife will find other men more attractive than you. That’s called being human. The expectation that you no longer have eyeballs to notice an attractive person once you’re in a relationship is weird and expectation in itself can crumble a relationship. It’s insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 02:17 AM
9	How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? You’re making so many assumptions about why those women settle down with those men and why they are no longer sexually satisfied. It’s honestly shocking how many assumptions some of you guys are willing to make in order to cry victim. Relationships are incredibly complicated and every time someone on the sub Reddit post something like this trying to make broad generalizations, it just tells me you have never had an intimate relationship with a woman. If you take care of yourself, don’t have a ga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 01:25 AM
2	The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companies His ideas seem “logical and palatable” to men like you, because we already live in an extremely misogynistic, sexist society. Red Pill men actually often like to reject that idea, then suck off Andrew Tate after he says women are his property. It’s not logical. You and other men just like these ideas because you’re already a sexist, and he boldly says what you’re too afraid to say yourself. It’s just like trump and racism. He empowers his followers to own their bigoted garbage opinions because h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 06:41 PM
1	The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companies Or he’s a violent sexist loser with an MLM and a personality disorder	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 06:33 PM
1	Why Andrew Tate is so popular Or — imagine this — men’s mentality about relationships and women have ALSO evolved. Not every man is trying to be some hyper controlling psycho that’s obligated to provide an entire lifestyle for another human being while they just nod and pop out kids. That’s not companionship. That’s not a partnership. Again, you think this way because all of your problems seem to be solved when women just follow directions and submit. When women need men. Women under the influence of an oppressive violent pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 04:41 PM
0	Why Andrew Tate is so popular Dude you don’t even live in America, you live in India 🤣 have you ever even been here??? I can’t promise you men aren’t “running” from women here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 04:24 PM
-1	Why Andrew Tate is so popular “Feminism only increased the hatred between men and women.” Um, yeah? Whereas before men hated and oppressed women while women were expected to smile and take it? Now women are pissed and asking for better. And your big take away is “feminism only increase the hatred between men and women.” As if it was a better time when women werent fighting for rights. Sorry, is that a more convenient world for you to exist in? Also, exactly zero people take you seriously when you say things like “spits strai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:55 AM
2	Why Andrew Tate is so popular No he runs an MLM hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:47 AM
1	Why Andrew Tate is so popular Because people lack critical thinking skills?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:47 AM
0	Why Andrew Tate is so popular You guys really think if everyone isn’t happy and smiling while being oppressed by you then you’re being treated like “second class citizens.” How does that victim complex taste?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:46 AM
1	Why Andrew Tate is so popular Actually I think it’s the opposite funny enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:43 AM
2	Why Andrew Tate is so popular He’s the product of getting hit in the head for sport. In desperate need of therapy that it’s embarrassing at this point. His whole thing is just an MLM, which explains the popularity. He’s predatory both on women and young insecure men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:42 AM
1	Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract? Oh for sure, not liking cats isn’t an excuse to be mean to them. But just saying “I don’t really like cats” and staying away is totally acceptable! And yeah they basically don’t allow you to disagree w people on there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 08:12 PM
2	Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram models I personally don’t care at all. I’m a woman that watches porn occasionally. I wouldn’t want my partner telling me what I’m “not allowed” to do when I masturbate 🤷🏻‍♀️ that feels like no one else’s business tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 07:45 AM
1	since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex. Relationships aren’t that easy. Just because you get into a serious relationship at 22 years old doesn’t mean that’s going to work out long-term or that they are your person. People are breaking up all the time. It’s really just about finding people that you are compatible with and sometimes that takes time especially if you are genuinely a special person. This may be different and other parts of the world but I live in a major city where most people don’t get married until they are in their 30s	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 11:40 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Again dude, confirmation bias. “Look around at how women operate.” Okay? I do not see whatever you’re describing. I see women busting their ass or equality and equity. I also gave you a statistic that largely defeated your argument. Something can feel true to you if it fits your preexisting world view, without actually being true. Next, he said you sound broke. How does that translate to me being with him for his money? Another failed leap in logic. Lastly, learn how to take a joke. Just because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 11:31 PM
2	Man Whore Or Whore Maker? Someone using the word man whore automatically defeats your argument. It’s not used in a nice way. If a woman calls a guy a man whore, she’s not having sex with him and certainly not dating him. Also, for me at least, the word man whore isn’t even totally about how many women he’s been with. That phrase carries association of objectifying women, likely lying to them, playing them, generally disrespecting them, etc. There are certainly man whores and women certainly care. The word in itself is ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 11:24 PM
1	since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex. Women getting a good partner is just a waiting game since there are so few out there and available. We generally have to go through a lot before finding one that’s genuinely a good man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 11:19 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Your logic throughout this entire conversation (better yet, lack thereof) has been alarming. Just generalizations, false assumptions with zero data, and now resorting to personal attacks. Also just showed my boyfriend your comment. He said “sounds broke with no hoes.” Have a good one lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 11:15 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? I don’t have children and I’m in a 5 year relationship lmao. Also, please look into confirmation bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 10:35 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Such ridiculous generalizations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 10:23 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Hard to waste things you don’t have in the first place. Edit: also, 80% of single mothers were employed before the pandemic. This narrative of single moms just looking for someone to provide for them is bogus. You’re just misogynistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 08:53 PM
1	Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract? Yeah I know. I don’t like cats and I’m a woman! Am I abusive? 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 07:52 PM
1	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? If you aren’t in a committed relationship then it’s not cheating. You’re the one that brought that up in the first place. Stop trying to prove my validity? This is a debate sub, sweetie. Are you lost? Lastly, again, prove it. How would you know? That’s literally just your assumption. There is not less stigma around being bi. You just proved it yourself. People identify as what feels correct to them, and you’re just blatantly disrespectful if your first instinct is the question that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 05:42 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? That’s valid, but also not nearly the most common answer I see on this sub to this question. I’ve been in conversations with men on here about this topic before. The answers are generally vile	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 05:38 PM
2	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Why do you need legal control over someone else’s child? Do you think Pete Davidson is pissed that he doesn’t have legal control over Kim K’s children? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:32 PM
1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? I’m referring specifically to incredibly hurtful rhetoric I’ve seen on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:25 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh look, a privileged male giving his unsolicited, uninformed opinion on the female experience. Honestly dude, have you ever spoken to a woman in real life about her experience within the patriarchy? “If they choose to feel victimized that’s largely their choice.” Hm. This just tells me that you’ve never actually done your research on what the patriarchy is and how it realistically affects women today. Things like how often women are raped or sexually assaulted, how often men are chosen for c su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:12 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Uh, as if female nudity is controversial in movies? What planet do you live on	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:01 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Just trying to make some misogynists feel a little stupid on this fine Tuesday	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:53 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread That’s honestly bad news for men. I feel bad for young guys that don’t have the ability to sort through these ideas critically. They just see the confidence and take what he says seriously bc they want to emulate that confidence. Next thing they know they’re a full blown misogynist and every girl he knows thinks he’s psychotic	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:51 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I feel like both of you are 13	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:31 PM
2	Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract? I’m banned bc a girl said men not liking cats can often be a sign that he’s abusive. I argued back and forth with her for a while and got banned out of no where lol. I think there’s a rule that you can’t invalidate someone like that or something. I thought her take was wild though hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:28 PM
-1	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? The men that would see that as an issue don’t have the financial means and/or emotional intelligence to take care of a family. (Or if he just doesn’t want kids period) But that’s embarrassing to admit, so they say all the disgusting fucked up stuff you’ll see in these comments instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:22 PM
-3	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Get ready to be rattled and disgusted by the male species after these comments. Reminder that all men don’t think this way, just the majority of men on this sub that ironically can’t get a woman to touch them anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:20 PM
2	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Haha our answers to this loser are so similar. I can’t believe people think that way. Insanity	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:13 PM
1	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Again, all of this is just you regurgitating biphobic stereotypes that have no truth to them. I’m in love with my boyfriend. He is my absolute best friend. We have a connection that I don’t think I could have with anyone else. I’m not looking to “trade up” for shit. That’s how real relationships work. Your issue is that you look at relationships like a math equation, which tells me you’ve never had a meaningful relationship. “Many bi people are just not fully out of the closet homosexuals.” Oh, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:12 PM
10	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Being bisexual is not having “loose sexual boundaries.” The expectation that they have to choose one or the other is very invalidating to the bisexual experience and honestly it’s just ignorant. There’s a common narrative that bisexual people just love attention and they’ll throw it for anyone just because they can be attracted to both men and women. It makes zero sense and is rooted in biphobia. And they tend to be trauma survivors.? Implying that if they’re bisexual they’re damaged and there’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 09:23 PM
7	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? What is this based on? Has this ever even happened to you? Feels like some very random anecdotal scenario that you took and applied to women everywhere. Or you read this online and it made sense when applied to your one friend Anthony’s breakup. What a wild generalization. Also even if that were the case, then maybe actually put effort into the relationship? Your significant other shouldn’t be questioning if you want to be with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 09:00 PM
3	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? You would listen to fresh and fit lmfaoooooo. Have fun w that. Sexist and homophobic. What a winner 😍😍😍😍	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:56 PM
1	The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guys Good god not this shit again. This is so tired and boring. And false. My boyfriend has a golden retriever personality and we’ve been together for 5 years. A nice guy getting cheated on is not evidence that women don’t like nice guys. You’re just confused why you don’t have a girlfriend so it’s easiest to tell yourself maybe you’re just too nice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:52 PM
10	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? It’s not natural to think bisexuality is a red flag and indicates trauma. That’s so fucked up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:49 PM
9	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Right, so that has more to do with you than with her. So the rhetoric that something is wrong with her because of her sexuality is fucked up. At the end of the day it’s male insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:47 PM
5	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Go beat off alone in your bathroom and be homophobic elsewhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:43 PM
9	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? It’s normal for people to want their partner to be attracted to them. The vast majority of men do not care if their partner also likes women, or non-binary people. I would know. And I went to college in the Deep South. Never had men act weird about it. Having an issue with a girl being bisexual screams insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:39 PM
3	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Hahahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:34 PM
3	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? 3, 28, 29🤪	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:33 PM
10	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? No, that’s not “natural.” Don’t try to excuse your bigotry by calling it the norm. Also, bisexual people are usually monogamous? Not sure why that would matter then. I don’t care if individuals prefer heterosexual women, but this narrative of bisexuality being a red flag bc it indicates trauma?? Literally stfu. Not only is that completely false, but it’s also super harmful, hurtful, and bigoted. You can have a preference without calling it a “red flag.” It’s a red fucking flag for men to think b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:27 PM
13	What do y'all think about this list of red flags? Is no one going to address the biphobia in 28?? What the fuck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 08:21 PM
1	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? You guys love to just throw hyperboles around to make women seem like they’re fucking everything in sight. According to the CDC women between 25 and 44 have a median of 4.2 sex partners. Men’s is 6.2. No one is saying you have to have sex with 50 people to be experienced. Do I think it maybe takes a few partners? Sure. Can you also have a lot of sex in relationships? Sure. Should anyone care if a woman does want to ride 50 dicks? No. That’s extremely weird to be that invested in what someone els…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:04 PM
1	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? I get to say whatever I want 😂 super ironic you would try to call me on a logical fallacy when your entire argument here isn’t rooted in logic. That’s why I think you just want to slut shame women. You certainly aren’t chasing the truth, otherwise you would see that your initial argument makes zero sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 10:57 PM
1	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? The “reaction” is valid because of the preexisting culture, on a societal scale but especially within this specific sub, of slut shaming women. Which is inherently more justified using your illogical argument. I’m saying I believe that’s your motivation here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:48 PM
5	Based on your personal experience, do cheaters tend to have many or few friends of the opposite sex? They have ex’s or ex-fwb that they still keep in touch with and call their “friends”. In my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 06:31 PM
1	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? Are you really unable to differentiate the two in your head here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 05:34 PM
2	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? I wasn’t being defensive, I was stating an opinion. Men will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify slut shaming women. You don’t have to call a woman a slut to contribute to slut shaming narratives and cultures. If you don’t want a woman with a high body count, that’s your choice, but don’t pretend like virgins are just as good in bed as a porn star. That’s just illogical. Get better arguments. lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:45 AM
1	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? Lmfao good luck my guy. You’ve bought into a tough belief system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:24 AM
4	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? This is called insecurity	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:23 AM
3	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? This video is a wild ride. Crazy that people buy into this shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:22 AM
4	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? Some men just want an excuse to slut shame women. Anyone that’s experienced with sex knows you get better as you practice. Riding a dick is a skill lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:11 AM
2	Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down? As a woman I can actually confirm that I’ve gotten better at sex over time with experience. Was a total starfish when I first started having sex. Now I’m proud of every performance	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:09 AM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 04:19 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread We don’t need people to meet in the middle, just worry about yourself!!! With this particular issue, yes, the majority of people are willing to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 04:18 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread The majority of Americans are not why we’re here. It’s extremist religious elite that have gained power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 06:44 AM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Sure, but we don’t treat toddlers like teenagers. They don’t have the same freedoms. I’m concerned about what the fetus is currently, not what it could maybe be 15 years from now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 03:29 AM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread That isn’t a complex moral issue that’s commonly disagreed upon. No one would argue that you should be allowed to kill your toddler. A toddler is not equivalent to a 10 week fetus incapable of thoughts or feelings. Incapable of anything, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 03:01 AM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Those things aren’t intended to determine everything under the fucking sun. There’s a lot of life that’s unregulated, and most people are cool w that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 01:47 AM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread That’s not even true. First of all, people attempt and commit suicide all the time. Self preservation is not universal. Also, regardless, self preservation doesn’t mean you feel entitled to someone else’s body against their will. Family members make choices to pull the plug on their loved ones in comas/brain dead all the time. Can’t ask that person if they want to stay connected to machines and continue living. The family makes the call, because the person cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 10:05 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread A woman and a fetus are not conjoined twins. A fetus is not a conscious sentient being. It is not capable of having thoughts, feelings, emotions, opinions, or experiences. Because of that, I do not feel that it is entitled to the same consideration as a full grown human. You’re making a decision either way. If something cannot have an opinion, it doesn’t get one. Because there’s no way to know what it would want. How do you know the fetus would even want to be there? You don’t. Because you can’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 09:33 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Lmfao this is why I can’t take y’all seriously. What the fuck kind of question is that	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 08:07 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread The definition of the word either encompasses a problem or it doesn’t. You can’t just take any arbitrary problem and claim it’s related to bodily autonomy 🤣 having to pay child support has nothing to do with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 08:07 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Why is that a yikes?💀 the score is out of 5 my guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 08:05 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Facebook is for people that peaked in highschool + I got a 4 on the AP Calc exam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 06:03 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Because again, abortion and suicide are very different things. The two cannot be equated. This conversation is over because you’re officially spewing ridiculous offensive nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:54 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread I’m not agreeing with you, I’m saying that I’m comfortable with the gray area. Because life isn’t black and white. We don’t need no laws or laws on everything. So much of life is complex. There’s a lot of gray, and I’m fine with that. I think most people are. And no I wouldn’t advocate for them to kill themselves, let’s not equate abortion to suicide babe. I’m not the one you want to have this convo with, I’ve been affected my suicide many times. Im not the one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:48 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Nope, see this is why the whole hypothetical is irrelevant. It’s not feminists deciding what is and isn’t bodily autonomy. It’s individuals, but no individual is claiming having to breastfeed their child in times of crisis infringes on that. That isn’t something that has happened. If you think working to support a child is against bodily autonomy then I’m not confident you understand the word’s definition and concept. You could make arguments for infringing on other freedoms but bodily autonomy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:46 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread In anyone else’s situation, yes! People are capable of making decisions for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:41 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread That was my whole point babe. I think all of that is immoral, while other people are screaming that not doing those things in these situation is immoral. It’s grey, it’s subjective, it’s complex. Every situation is different, so no we don’t need some universal law that dictates what everyone should do here because it’s not that black and white. That’s awesome that their life turned around. There are also people who wish they hadn’t been born. Two sides to every coin. Also, I say all of this as s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:39 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread A fetus is unconscious and non-sentient. That’s not an opinion. That’s a fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:34 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread That’s your opinion, and frankly an irrelevant one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:33 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Sure, but even then they chose to do that. Also, women aren’t saying that infringed on their bodily autonomy. No woman is even arguing that. Because once women consent to have a child, they’re willing to experience minor inconveniences like breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is not the same risk or toll as giving birth. When you consent to have a child, you consent to do what’s necessary to keep it alive. Because it’s a full grown person. It’s just not even worth talking about because it’s irrelevant …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:32 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Lol there’s nothing arbitrary about that. To be clear, it IS forcing someone to give birth against their will. Like that’s just a fact. If a person wants to terminate a pregnancy but they aren’t allowed to, they are giving birth against their will. That’s not my perspective, that’s what you’re proposing. Who’s to say which POV is more valid? I would say the POV of the person that actually HAS a pov - the woman. Morality is subjective. I would argue it’s immoral to bring a child into the world th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:25 PM
-1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread They’re irrelevant to reality. Women are talking about REAL issues. REAL circumstances. Not sure why you guys want so desperately to go round and round with hypotheticals and fantasy scenarios that don’t exist instead of directly discussing reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:02 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread The fetus has no interest because it isn’t conscious or sentient. Stop humanizing something that isn’t a human yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:00 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread That’s just a false dichotomy. Most people would agree that somewhere in the middle is good. A great starting point is not forcing people to give birth against their will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 04:59 PM
3	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread We do have a set of rules. We don’t need a set of rules for EVERYTHING, especially when the morality and ethics are subjective like this issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 04:33 PM
-2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread I don’t even know what you’re referring to, but yes thought experiments that don’t apply to reality or anything that even could happen are irrelevant to everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 04:32 PM
3	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread I’m pretty sure the vast majority of men here aren’t having sex, so they won’t face any change unfortunately. They’re just happy to see women being punished for having sex with men that aren’t them. But for men that are having sex and are celebrating this overturn, they’re definitely about to find out how often women get abortions and don’t mention it to the father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:59 PM
0	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread User name checks	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:54 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread This!! This guy is going around here acting as though everyone objectively has the same moral compass as him and these are obvious choices. Condescending as fuck. Meanwhile his moral compass seems whack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:50 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread If anything this feels like a pro-choice argument. Collectively, it is a complex and difficult moral question. And everyone has different morals. So let people make their own choices. Your moral compass doesn’t get to inform other people’s decisions when their’s disagrees, especially when it involves growing, birthing, and caring for a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:43 PM
0	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread This is a super weird comment. Weird that women don’t want to play the “what if you were forced to have babies and breastfeed all of them against your will” game. Women probably don’t like your “thought experiments” because they aren’t based in reality? Women do have choices. About everything. You can’t start altering reality and circumstance to make your opinion seem like the most ethical and obvious. Try having conversations that are actually based in reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 03:41 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Abortion is acceptable for any reason. Period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 12:32 AM
0	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread -they can put a child up for adoption/surrender the child. - my father was adopted. His biological mother, who we now know, is straight up traumatized. It’s been 60 years since the adoption, and she still sobs/has panic attacks talking about what she endured during that point in her life. Adoption is traumatic, and this country does not have accessible mental health care. Regardless, this scenario still forces women to give birth, which is inherently dangerous and traumatic in itself. Not to men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 10:54 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread This is a terrible analogy. This analogy means the person did something wrong or bad to start the chain of events. Women aren’t kidnapping and poisoning people. Women aren’t pushing anyone out of a boat. Women are having sex, and that is not doing anything wrong. Sometimes women are having sex WITHOUT CONSENT. The fact that THAT’s what you chose to compare women having sex to says a lot about your view on female sexuality, which isn’t surprising considering your view on this issue. You’re villai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 10:47 PM
5	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread I was planning to move back to the south and now I will not be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 10:32 PM
4	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Stop trying to lead people into agreeing with your twisted weird logic. This is a cute little fantasy theoretical for you because you will never be pregnant and never have to make that choice. No, it is not ethical for the government to require women to die in place of their children. Period. It’s unethical to expect anyone to die for any reason. The end. Your argument is weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 10:31 PM
2	At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man? Lol sure everyone can have some variance. Some women like penetration, some like g spot stimulation, and some like clitoral. Men that know these things and how to stimulate each will be more successful than men that don’t even know where the clit is. Also I think it’s funny that you’re trying to use sources to inform MY experience 😂 I’ve been with plenty of men to know that the more experienced tend to be better in bed. That’s my experience. Some women may disagree. Source: actually having sex i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 09:35 PM
3	At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man? It’s not weird at all. Women are generally more difficult to get off than men. You have to actually know what you’re doing to make it happen and women generally prefer to skip having to train them on what to do. I don’t want to teach a man how to go down on me. I want him to know. I don’t give a fuck if he’s been with other people. We’re humans, it’s normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 06:09 PM
1	What do you think of women who post sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship? I’d be lying if I told you it’s sexual lmao. Your issue is making assumptions about something you just can’t understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 08:38 PM
1	What do you think of women who post sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship? It’s not my fault that I’m hot as fuck. Just say you’re mad about it and relax. Unless you have a girlfriend that’s doing this, you don’t have an issue. Do you? This is a fantasy issue for you, because these girls would never date you. This is an imaginary problem. Why don’t you let men that can actually date girls like that worry about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 06:36 PM
5	What do you think of women who post sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship? Found the man that thinks everything a woman does is to get his attention. Here’s a question. If that’s the case, why do you get absolutely zero puss? I mean if her just existing in everyday life and looking attractive is all for you. 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:25 PM
10	What do you think of women who post sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship? What is “sexy” is subjective. Have you ever visited the “barstoolboners2” subreddit? The women are posting photos in regular clothes and these men crop it to just their boobs and drool over it. Women simply existing is sexy to men, if they find her attractive. Then you get men controlling what women wear, whether they can post in that outfit, if the pose is too seductive, etc. If those are your feelings then whatever. But don’t assume that just because you have a problem with it that every other…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:20 PM
0	There is no difference in how attraction works between the sex's I mean do you want me to provide you with the definition?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 03:21 PM
-1	There is no difference in how attraction works between the sex's The thing I find unattractive about most men is their lack of emotional intelligence. Truly. And before anyone comes for me, if you’re mad, that’s because you just put yourself in the category and got offended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 01:47 AM
3	are women not as attractive ? A lot of women just genuinely enjoy make up. It’s a hobby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 05:05 AM
4	The bitterest pill of all to swallow : Your Ex cheated for a reason Sometimes intelligence supersedes biology. Not for him I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 04:17 AM
82	are women not as attractive ? Happy pride everyone! 🌈	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 04:03 AM
3	The bitterest pill of all to swallow : Your Ex cheated for a reason I don’t totally disagree with this, but some people are just broken and will cheat even if you give them the world. My ex cheated bc of his own emotional trauma and damage. He’s a compulsive cheater. Does it to everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 03:59 AM
2	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? I actually prefer shorter men. We exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 02:20 AM
1	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money Watched the new ep last night and what about it 💅	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 03:46 PM
2	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money You seem like the kind of guy that would get mad while watching Kyle Prue videos	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 03:39 PM
2	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money I never said it was. As someone that actually exists in female circles, I’ve never met a woman that actively goes on dates to get free stuff. Most women don’t have the patience or desire to entertain men just for a free plate of food. My guess is men usually think this is the case after women don’t want a second date. It’s easier to paint her as a gold digger than to come to terms with the fact that she just didn’t like you and doesn’t want to see you again. Do most women expect the man to pay f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:44 PM
1	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years lol, certainly didn’t get “pumped and dumped,” as if that’s a flex to do to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:25 PM
2	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money And yet somehow she STILL won’t want you. Oof	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:12 PM
0	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money Men that are concerned about women taking their money usually don’t have much. That’s why they’re worried about losing it 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 10:24 PM
3	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Alrighty, then probably stop engaging with me and you won’t have to hear them👍🏼 deuces	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 07:02 PM
1	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Didn’t say it was my argument! Only that it’s an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 07:01 PM
1	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? For the most part I do agree. I’ve read several things that state the court’s #1 priority is the well-being on the child, which I certainly think are noble intentions. But yeah we don’t expect the same from a consenting sperm donor. Honestly to me it’s a grey area. I don’t think the innocent child deserves to live a life of poverty for the mother’s wrongdoing but also don’t think people should be held responsible for consequences they don’t consent to. It’s fucked up any way you go with it in my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 05:48 PM
2	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? I honestly don’t care to argue this with an internet stranger. You’re in the minority on this belief. Not my problem if your brain is unable to differentiate between a full grown human with experiences and an undeveloped person with no capability of thoughts feelings memories or emotions. Frankly I couldn’t care less what you think here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 05:42 PM
1	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? No, I’m very pro choice. I’m also not even arguing in favor of what I just stated, I just said that could be AN argument. Not that it was necessarily mine. And the only reason I think that could be an argument in relation to abortion is because there’s a substantial difference between a fetus that does not have consciousness, thoughts, memories, or experiences vs. a living child that can starve, be traumatized, commit suicide, be affected by poverty, and suffer. I’m in the camp of generally advo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 04:01 PM
4	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? But like, is it happening? Does this happen still? Has this even happened since? I don’t really see the point in getting so upset over one single case from the 80s and use it to blanketly state that men are screwed by the legal system. As a rape victim myself, I definitely feel that case is horrible! But men on this sub often use things like this to silence women’s issues and I just don’t think this issue can be used to do that at all. This all started bc someone said “as if women are the ones t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:55 PM
4	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? I saw one case of this linked here and it’s from the 80s. If it happens all the time then please, find more instances of 12 year old rape victims forced to pay child support. I’ll wait. Edit: preferably cases that are actually relevant and have happened in the last decade at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:48 PM
2	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? The case in question is from the 80s 💀 this would never happen today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:46 PM
1	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Let’s not pretend this is something that happens often? That’s assault in my mind and I would imagine if this case happened today it would be seen as such. This case happened in the early 2000s long before consent was a hot topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:44 PM
4	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? I understand where you’re coming from. I think the only argument at that point would be that the child is innocent and deserves to be taken care of. This is a grey area for me. Also let’s not pretend men don’t get away without paying child support. That happens regularly. This seems like it should be handled on a case by case basis though in my opinion. If the guy was raped, certainly not. But then welcome to the justice system where it’s often impossible to prove that took place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:43 PM
1	How many women here are actually in shape? 5’4” 130lbs with an hourglass figure. I do vinyasa yoga and go for 4 mile walks each day. Want to start lifting to tone up some and build a little muscle but I definitely wouldn’t want to lose weight. So yeah I’d say I’m definitely in shape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:16 PM
2	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Why are you making an argument that you have already said yourself you don’t believe? No, she’s not choosing to take on the risk of dying in child birth by having sex. End of story. That’s not comparable to anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:08 PM
2	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Yes, this is the case in any civilized nation. He’s spewing bullshit that would never happen. No child would be raped and forced to pay child support where I live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:06 PM
3	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? In your mind, what does it look like for women to “take responsibility for their actions” in this context?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:05 PM
-2	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Do you have any actual instances of these things happening or are these just fake scenarios you made up	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:04 PM
1	Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man. AGAIN, you literally wouldn’t know 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 12:05 AM
1	Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man. Again, tells me you don’t speak to women if you think most of us have sugar daddies and only fans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 05:52 PM
1	Do single mothers get a bad rap? It’s honestly terrifying. A lot of these men are the same ones that wonder why women don’t like them. Gee I wonder why🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 05:50 PM
1	Do single mothers get a bad rap? Not any good ones	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 03:53 PM
1	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks Are you suggesting you know the real numbers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 03:52 PM
2	Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man. Is this actually how you view the average woman? If so, that tells me you rarely actually speak to any.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 11:50 AM
1	Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man. Lol you people will say anything to find an excuse	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 11:48 AM
1	Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man. Are you Michael B Jordan? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 11:47 AM
1	Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man. Can’t tell if this is a joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 11:46 AM
3	Do single mothers get a bad rap? Honestly it’s your problem not mine. If you said that to any woman in real life she wouldn’t want shit to do with you from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 11:21 AM
3	Do you think you'll be with your current boyfriend, fiance or husband until death do us part? Don’t think you know much about statistics	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 11:20 AM
3	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks I don’t even know what this means	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 12:52 AM
1	Should women contribute to half of all bills regardless of differences in income? Oop	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 12:02 AM
1	Q4W: How much do you contribute to traditionally male household duties? He takes out the trash usually. I just hate this particular chore bc we have to walk down three flights of stairs so he does that bc he doesn’t mind. Not because I see this as a traditionally masculine role. Whenever we have yard work to do (currently in an apartment) he’ll do that bc he used to work on a golf course and prides himself on that. Although I grew up doing yard work almost every weekend with my father. So I can certainly get my hands dirt and actually know a lot about it. I kill the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 11:59 PM
32	Do you think you'll be with your current boyfriend, fiance or husband until death do us part? I don’t think most people are in relationships that they actively don’t think will work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 11:51 PM
3	Do single mothers get a bad rap? I personally think this type of thought process represents the worst that humanity has to offer. Just my opinion. I am not like you nor would I ever be. Being born a man doesn’t magically make you think this way. I don’t care what has been “internalized” into you. If you’re an adult, it’s your job to take inventory of your beliefs and decide what stays and goes. Some bullshit messaging being “internalized” isn’t an excuse to continue proudly dehumanizing women in unfortunate circumstances on the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 11:46 PM
2	Do single mothers get a bad rap? Considering I’m a straight woman, zero	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 10:34 PM
4	Do single mothers get a bad rap? If stepping up to be a father figure to an innocent child that was abandoned makes you feel “emasculated”, you should probably think about what you consider to be masculine in the first place. Honestly wtf	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 10:31 PM
5	Do single mothers get a bad rap? Reducing women down to sad and unfortunate circumstances (possibly outside her control) that have led her to be a single mother. Single mothers are human beings that can still make excellent partners. I’m not a mom, but I would never count a man out for being a single father. What a fucked up thing to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 10:28 PM
5	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children I mean we’ve been together 5 years and are getting engaged soon. We spend all day every day together working from home and rarely have conflict. Never run out of things to talk about. Lived together 3 years. Both truly love each other and have a great sex life still. Been dating a long time to be absolutely sure before we get married to avoid divorce. Feels pretty promising to me. You sound like you want it to fail lol. That would probably be more convenient for your narrative	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 05:50 PM
2	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks Too entertaining watching you implode over not being a Chad and making 6 figures	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:55 PM
1	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children So you think all these men are unhappy and want to get out but can’t?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:55 PM
1	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Ahhh so the Chads have low self esteem now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:54 PM
2	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Did I say it did.? You honestly should go open a window or touch some grass	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:53 PM
2	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children You literally used it first, I was simply using repetition to emphasize how stupid and ridiculous the contrast in your fake narrative was. Obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:52 PM
4	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks Is this a joke? Literally can’t tell bc there’s so many whacked out losers on this sub that would actually believe something like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:46 PM
1	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks It’s 20% of men and 13% of women. Sorry that doesn’t fit your world view but that’s the statistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:44 PM
3	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks Most people on this sub lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:36 PM
2	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks Any reason to think that? Data? Studies? Or is that just how you imagine women’s brains work	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:36 PM
2	Scientific Proof of Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks I’m sorry, 38 and 43 are the sample sizes? There’s not a chance any results are statistically significant .	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:29 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Are you saying that’s a bad thing? I don’t get your point	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:08 PM
4	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children I’m not struggling to imagine anything. Sure it happens, but a physician and a Dairy Queen worker getting married? And both continuing on in those jobs? No. And I agree, when people have money they tend to not care what their partner is making because it doesn’t matter. Which is why I find men arguing like this to be so funny. The men that complain about this stuff are never men with actual money. They’re arguing over scenarios that will never affect them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:55 PM
2	Do single mothers get a bad rap? Honestly at a loss for words at how disgusting this thread is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:48 PM
7	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children I mean truly no one here would believe that’s your income. If you want to give a realistic answer then maybe we would. But you won’t be honest. Because you’re broke and on Reddit cosplaying a rich guy that actually has something women want. Again. Men that complain about this shit are never the ones that are highly educated with money. You’re arguing about fake scenarios that will never affect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:42 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children When people have a lot of money themselves, they tend to be less concerned with their partner also making a lot of money. Because it’s not necessary for stability. Some people have lofty financial goals and would in turn prefer a high earning partner to match their high income as well. But we don’t always choose that. I doubt many people walk into dating thinking “I actively want to be with someone that makes a lot less than me” (unless they want someone willing to give up their career to be a h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:37 PM
5	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Lmfao, no. I quite literally would not believe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:32 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Babe if you actually spoke to most feminists, we’re over here actively trying to out earn men. That’s like kind of the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:31 PM
5	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children You ever notice how the men that complain about this shit never actually have a lot of money? 🤣 Tell us your income buddy, don’t be shy	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:30 PM
5	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Are you asking people their income constantly? Because if so, that’s generally seen as rude. And are you also interrogating them on who does what around the house? I know a lot of couples and don’t generally ask them how they split household work	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:24 PM
4	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Would you like to provide any data here or just keep throwing out random generalizations that fit your world view	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:20 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children What are these fake scenarios that you people make up to drive your own toxic sexist beliefs? It can’t just be “she makes less money”, the narrative has to be “while he was working tirelessly day and night to educate himself and further his career, she was being a disgusting little slut, slutting it up all over the place with every Chad in sight, just being a little slut not doing anything important in her own life. Just wasting time getting a silly little lib degree being a slut.” What if she w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:16 PM
7	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children How’s that fake universe you created in your head that statistics simply disprove? Reality is much more fun	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:10 PM
1	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children I have a feeling confirmation bias is strong on this one lol. I saw someone else ask where you live and what income bracket you’re in. Do you live in a more traditional community?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:08 PM
1	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children I’m wondering this also	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:06 PM
1	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Might be the best answer on this thread!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:05 PM
4	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children You’re wild 🤣 Women just ask for equality and you FREAK out accusing us of wanting to take over the entire world and humiliate every man in the process. You’re truly deluded. Honestly I don’t know where you’re even getting these scenarios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:58 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Then is that not a “benefit” in itself? Or would you like to north the children yourself? Oh, wait	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:54 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Then explain this. If you think so many men are tragically entrapped in these situations, why do they stay? Genuinely, I want to know. Why do so many men do it and why do they stay with women like that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:51 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children So if you were wealthy, you wouldn’t want to make your significant other’s like as easy as possible and allow them to pursue their passions? It doesn’t sound like a “BS fake hobby”, it sounds like he made enough money and said “honey, you should spend your time doing something you love since we don’t need your income.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:49 PM
13	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Show me a physician that’s married to a fast food worker. I’ll wait. Reading this fully it’s just a stupid scenario lol. You’re just looking for extreme fake scenarios to cosplay ~alpha male that makes woman do everything~ Wash your own underpants, homie. And certainly don’t get married if you’re just going to reduce your partner to their income and punish them for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:44 PM
29	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Answer: because love and marriage isn’t a math equation lmfao. This honestly just shows you’ve never been in a real, loving, meaningful relationship. My boyfriend makes a lot more money than I do. He’s doing very well for himself. I, however, am starting a business and have been struggling financially. We live together and split all household responsibilities. And he’s 100% okay with that, because he wanted a partner that had a career. You seem to not care for the “hours” argument, but that’s ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:41 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children You’re making a blanket assumption that higher income automatically means he somehow put in more work than the lower income partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 02:30 PM
-1	Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in public Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:55 AM
4	Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in public What a lot of these men struggle with isnt when or where they’re approaching women. They’re just plain weird and give off that vibe. If you’re in a subreddit talking about how all women want is money, women are shallow, women’s standards are too high, you’re not good enough, blah blah blah…I can promise you that you aren’t coming off well to women. I can spot men like that from a mile away and so can other women. Men that just generally know how to talk to women can pick them up anywhere, becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:43 PM
7	Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in public I agree with this. If a guy gives me his number and walks away, even if it’s in a grocery store or whatever, I’m good with that and I’m not creeped out. It’s the men that try to stand there and have a full blown conversation with me and get to know me right there on the pasta isle. That screams desperation and lack of awareness. Lots of turn offs happening at once, not to mention I’m embarrassed. Give her a general compliment, have your number pre-written down for her, suggest coffee, and get ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:38 PM
1	Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in public Are you speaking from your own experience as a woman? If not, you’re just making blanket assumptions with zero knowledge? It always gets me how people in this sub LOVE to make some heavy generalizations. Like what are you even talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:34 PM
1	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on Try to make eye contact first and gauge how she responds. It there’s literally no facial expression or she seem uncomfortable with it, disengage. If she holds eye contact, kind of smiles, etc., try to approach with super casual conversation. Don’t lead with anything intense or comment on her appearance unless you can 1000000% tell she’s into you. Honestly so much of dating and approaching women is just paying attention to body language beforehand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 08:31 PM
2	paying for the first date Pfffffffft yeah ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 10:54 PM
2	paying for the first date Do you have a girlfriend? Just wondering	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 10:53 PM
1	paying for the first date I’m sure she would feel the same about you	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 10:51 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? Explain	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 01:12 AM
0	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? Bad boys can be nice. Guys love to tell themselves this lie. I don’t know a single girl that’s dating a dick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 01:12 AM
1	Is the only reason to get married now is to procreate? Therapy should be more accessible	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 10:56 PM
-1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? It’s funny because you guys love to paint things black and white. As if I don’t have any fun with my current boyfriend lmfao. Life is about balance. We met in college, acted like crazy kids for a while, and now we both work successful jobs and love a night in. That’s what I want now. That isn’t somehow second best or diminished because I used to be wild when I was a teenager with my ex. My boyfriend had some crazier girlfriends in his day. Now he wants me to mother his children. In no way do I f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 10:51 PM
2	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? How the fuck is the man I choose to MARRY and FUCK for the rest of my life second choice.? Also, you people love to put words in women’s mouths on this sub. I never said aggressive or dominant. The fact that I had to date to learn what I DIDNT want doesn’t make the person I end up with second choice. Being with someone that’s reckless and could fuck up their life at any moment is exhausting. When you’re 15 you aren’t exactly thinking about what qualities make a good long term partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 10:39 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? Again, that isn’t even what I said lol. Most men on here are just looking to pull women’s words apart to paint some arbitrary picture of the evil woman no matter how much twisted and projecting is necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 07:10 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? Whatever you’d like to believe	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 07:09 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? I didn’t say anything about men providing. You’re projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 07:06 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 07:06 PM
2	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? Kind of? Why is that eye roll worthy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 03:54 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? I can assure you I would never want to be your girlfriend in the first place :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 03:53 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? That honestly has nothing to do with what I just said lmfao. You’re searching for a reason to be upset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 03:52 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? What’s gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 03:34 AM
1	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? Women.?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 05:54 PM
9	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? Ah yes. Blaming women for men cheating. Because it’s women’s fault they’re not sexually turned on. Classic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 05:48 PM
10	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? I grew up and my brain finished developing lol. I’m an adult, I want a partner that makes me feel safe and secure. I don’t want someone unpredictable and reckless. Especially now that I’m considering children, I just can’t imagine being so vulnerable and trusting with someone that can’t consistently provide that feeling of safety. That just translates to a high anxiety, frustrating dynamic. I’m not looking for a thrill anymore, ya know? No more of the high highs and low lows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 04:28 PM
9	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? This is consistent with my experience as a woman and my partners through teen years and now moving into mid-20s. Loved the thrill and the spontaneity/rule breaking back then. Now that does not feel good, safe, or secure as an adult. It’s anxiety inducing lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 03:59 PM
1	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. This person is massively trolling you lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:20 AM
1	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections You are terrible at making points. You can’t just say “we’ve seen the stats” and glaze over it as though you obviously have a body of research to support your weird ass claims. LMFAO. What stats? You’re making so many assumptions purely influenced by your existing world view and your own experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:13 PM
-1	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections That you have zero substantial evidence for outside of your own anecdotes influenced by confirmation bias. What you have in an opinion. And a bad one	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:30 AM
0	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections You completely just jumped over my question and asserted more things that you cannot back up. Again, who is “they”? Or are we just talking in arbitrary blanket statements to shit talk imaginary women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:41 PM
0	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections Are these imaginary women that you’ve made up in your head to support your worldview? Or do you have specific examples that you would like to bring to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:34 PM
1	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it First of all, that logic doesn’t track even a little bit. Second, human beings are complicated. All of the above can be true for every woman. Third, women do not owe an explanation for how they choose sex partners. We have zero obligation to treat you equally to the next guy. You aren’t entitled to anything. Literally nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:33 PM
1	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it Is this a fucking joke? She used that analogy to describe what it feels like for women to not want sex sometimes. Then you took the analogy and asserted your own assumptions that this analogy must also be true for the feelings that come afterwards! Incase you didn’t somehow already know this, eating a hamburger does not have the same mental or emotional baggage attached to it as having sex with another human being. This is why men should really just stop talking and actually listen to what women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:29 PM
2	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it I relate to this a lot. I honestly think some of it stems back to women being raised to be pleasant, compliant, and accommodating. I have a lot of experiences where I hooked up with a guy even though I didn’t really want to. He just initiated it and I just felt too uncomfortable to say that I didn’t want to. We definitely need to do a better job of raising girls to be bold and say no if they don’t genuinely want sex in that moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:22 PM
1	women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later? No? Men really think women sit around and plot like this. Do you think we don’t have better things to do? Do you think we want to spend time with someone we don’t like? Women have lives. This says a lot about the way you view women. And it’s not even true lol. That’s your issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 05:43 PM
5	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? I just read several blanket statements with absolutely zero logical backing to that. You sound bitter	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:56 PM
1	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections Are their standards too high? Or are you just unable to meet those standards? Are they not worthy of what they want? Or are you just simply unable to give them that? Those are two entirely different things. If you can’t meet it, move along and find someone whose standards you do meet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:50 PM
1	Most guys aren't really trying that hard I genuinely think you are totally missing the point of what this guy is saying. No one is suggesting 95% of men would then be desirable, or that 5% will only succeed. That makes no sense at all. He’s literally just saying: consider putting in effort if you want women to like you. That should not be a controversial statement. Men feel entitled to get fucked for simply existing and refuse to do better. That’s what’s bad for the economy. Ball is in men’s court to be better, not in the women’s court…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/21 09:16 PM
-2	Most guys aren't really trying that hard Or maybe what’s bad for the economy is men being below average and undesirable. It’s hilarious that men somehow always throw blame on women. Men being losers = economic collapse is more true and accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/21 01:30 AM
–	Most guys aren't really trying that hard Women not settling for mediocre men = economic collapse. Got it	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/21 11:55 PM
–	Most guys aren't really trying that hard But every man won’t do that. That’s the fucking point. You could say the same about a career. Lol you’re just making excuses and taking no action, you’d rather whine on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/21 09:59 PM
–	Most guys aren't really trying that hard I can assure you more than 5% of men are getting laid or dating. That’s not what that means babe	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/21 09:51 PM
6	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day You probably lie awake at night wondering why women don’t like you	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 09:32 PM
2	Blackpilled again If you guys want women to lower their standards so damn bad, why don’t you lower yours? I’m sure Alberta from Alabama with no degree and no teeth would love to show you a good time, have all your babies, and make you meatloaf every night. Just lower you’re standards! No need to be entitled and shallow! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 09:14 PM
-1	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day Are u good	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 09:03 PM
3	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day No, you just struggle to differentiate “facts” from things that simply reinforce your existing world view and make you feel less bad about yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:59 PM
7	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day OP said it perfectly. Exaggerating to absurdity doesn’t invalidate the real issues going on. PS you’re one of the ones she’s talking about I’m sure 🥰	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:57 PM
6	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day I’m sorry, you laugh at women that “pity” themselves for being afraid of rape, abduction, or murder while walking home alone at night.? Yeah if you think that in ANY WAY is on the same playing field as men coming on this sub to cry about how women don’t like them, you’ve lost your mind. Truly, seek help. This is the most alarming posts I’ve seen in a while. Disgusting and diluted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:55 PM
0	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day Same	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:52 PM
1	If all you want is sex, you will loose I find it hard to believe you’re a woman, OP. Honestly this post is so weird lol. So much of the conversations on this sub center around ways that men can get sex from women. You’re talking about men that can’t even get a one night stand, let alone a girl to spend an abundance of time around them, pursuing serious relationships with women for the sole purpose of “leveraging” that for sex.? You also mention that women “control the supply” of meaningless sex….but somehow they don’t in a committed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 03:09 PM
0	Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man. So you can get your dick wet? Yeah, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/21 09:48 PM
1	Why is being considered “Husband material” better than being fwb material Would you rather them tell you that you’re only worthy of one fuck and then toss you to the side? 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 04:19 PM
2	if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women. Talk to me when your 18 year old daughter’s boyfriend is 🥰older than you🥰. Then tell me there’s nothing wrong with it Edit: or when they start dating someone you went to high school with 🤠 or start dating your wife’s ex boyfriend! Have fun boys!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 04:36 PM
1	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Women have been oppressed by men for hundreds of years. Men created the system we live in now. Any issues you run into is a system you and your fellow men created, or an outcome of it. Men here are crying and blaming women for having higher dating standards bc they’re so mediocre and women don’t want to have sex with them.😂 Women are blaming men for raping us and not allowing us to work. Worried about you if you can’t differentiate the two	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 03:37 PM
1	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Blaming women certainly isn’t the answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 01:37 AM
1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” Uh, good one? Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:31 PM
1	Q4All: Could you handle being with a partner that was acutely aware of your flaws or insecurities? I think any real, genuine, healthy relationship can do this. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and I still don’t plan on getting married anytime super soon bc of this. It takes SO long to get to really know a person deeply. I want to be able to pinpoint all his weaknesses, flaws, and insecurities, know them fully, and accept them. And I want the same in return. In my mind at least, a real relationship is about full acceptance and unconditional love. You can’t have that if you don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:29 PM
2	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” Gotcha, thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:22 PM
1	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have One of my boyfriend’s favorite thing about me is that I’m a “boss chick with a high-level of career success”. We’re equals. We both think that’s hot. That’s how power couples come to be	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:19 PM
1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” This response has me so concerned. He sounds like he wants a pet that does chores	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:10 PM
1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” Can you explain black pill? I’ve tried googling it but nothing really comes up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 04:03 PM
3	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Alright babe. Woe is you, everything is rigged against you, and there’s nothing you can do about it. Keep telling yourself that narrative and see how far it gets you. No one can help you if you aren’t open to doing anything yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:54 PM
9	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Yeah we just chatted and he’s completely unwilling to do that. 🤷🏻‍♀️ can’t help ya then	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:40 PM
2	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Also recommend talking to a therapist about your general build up of anger towards women for rejecting you. I feel it radiating off my phone and I’m sure women pick it up in real life. That’s not helping you and you need to move past that if you want a shot at being with any of them. Also systemic career oppression is not comparable to your inability to find a partner 🙃	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:38 PM
2	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Well I’m sorry your experiences have made you cynical but if it makes you feel better I know plenty of average Joe’s with girlfriends. As far as women having it “easier”…I mean that’s just so relative. I feel like you’re just completely sweeping past sexual assault completely. Is that not a dating struggle? Also, no offense, but in my experience most men suck. Yeah we have “options” for sex but not many good ones lol. It’s exhausting. It doesn’t matter that I can walk into a bar and take some lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:25 PM
4	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Welcome to toxic masculinity 101	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:12 PM
7	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. I just saying i haven’t been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years because he’s hot, rich, and does stuff for me. I love his mind, want him around, and enjoy his presence. I don’t see him as replaceable. We have a special connection that I think most people in long term or permanent relationships have. That’s what you’re missing. It doesn’t matter that women don’t “need you.” If you’re a good person you’ll find someone eventually. Your issues also aren’t specific to men as much as you may feel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:11 PM
3	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Probably don’t walk around saying you’re good at “tricking women into bed” dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:04 PM
5	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. Wonder why that is /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:01 PM
11	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. lol THIS. Perfectly put I just didn’t have the energy to say all this. Sounds like OP just isn’t liked by women and he thinks that’s because he doesn’t “offer” enough. Like if you’re just a fun good person that can be enough 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 03:00 PM
8	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. It sounds like you’re struggling with the fact that you’re replaceable. It’s not always about what you can offer necessarily. That is replaceable. Genuine connections and love arent. You sound like you don’t understand the dynamic of a healthy relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 02:58 PM
9	CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them. I feel like you’re only classifying dating troubles as a hardship. Why would women have less “hardships” than men if we’re considering assent parents, low income, sexual assault, rape, death of loved ones, mental health issues, etc. What you’re saying doesn’t even make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 02:56 PM
2	Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predator Tell me you’ve raped someone without telling me you’ve raped someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 02:03 AM
1	Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predator “Trying to sleep with women” does not equal SEXUAL ASSAULT. You know nothing about the situation. Consider LISTENING.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 01:19 AM
5	Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predator Accusing men of sexual assault doesn’t get you fame. In fact, it generally gets you called a liar instead! You’re proof of that. The attention you get is rarely good. Also, it’s statistically proven that false accusations are rare. So, logically, seeing an accusation and jumping to “she’s probably lying” isn’t a great thought process. Consider educating yourself on this topic before calling a likely victim a liar when you have absolutely zero context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 12:16 AM
2	Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predator What in god’s name would be the benefit of calling a dead guy an assailant if it wasn’t true? For fun? Please god don’t say for attention or fame or whatever. As a rape victim, I can promise you I’d be more comfortable talking about my experience if my rapist were dead. Checks out for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 12:05 AM
5	Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predator I’m personally not on board with exclusively celebrating people in their death when they did terrible things. If he SEXUALLY ASSAULTED women, they can drag his “legacy” through the mud all they want. Weird hill to die on bro. His sense of humor doesn’t erase his abusing women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 09:07 PM
0	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. What is your point here? More men than women want a partner that’s feminine and gentle. It goes both ways. Y’all will really twist things any way to paint a picture of mediocre men deserving the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 02:40 PM
3	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Women being systemically oppressed in their careers is not comparable to men not getting fucked bc they can’t communicate emotion in a mature way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 12:56 AM
-1	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Ok, sick?😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 04:01 PM
-6	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. I simply ~dont believe you~ and if it’s true, I ~feel terrible for her~	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:50 PM
2	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Never complain about not getting women again lmfao you’re doing it to yourself buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:48 PM
5	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Like you hear that you have to be interesting and a decent emotional intelligence level to attract someone and your first instinct is “stop telling men to be robots! I’m not a robot, that’s toxic!” The defensiveness tells me you don’t think you’re interesting or emotionally intelligent. So you challenge that requirement and call it toxic to make yourself feel better. Being a good conversationalist isn’t being a robot. In order to attract another person, you have to be able to communicate and bri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:47 PM
7	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Yeah that must be why there’s an entire body of research around it. Totally fake	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:44 PM
6	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. It baffles me that men get insulted when they’re told they have to be interesting for women to like them. Like….is your self esteem really that low, bro?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:41 PM
4	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Did you just compare the glass ceiling to men not getting fucked bc they’re boring and emotionally unintelligent lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:40 PM
-1	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. This comment screams “I need therapy”	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:37 PM
1	If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into. I think I’m speaking moreso in context of your last point here. If you go over to the FDS sub, one of their collective “rules” I believe is never date a man that watches porn. Automatic dealbreaker. And again, to each their own but I don’t get. If porn causes problems in a relationship or becomes addition, that’s a different story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 07:46 PM
5	If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into. Just because you watch porn doesn’t make you’re addicted to it. If you have an addiction of any kind, obviously seek help. But people generally don’t avoid alcohol because they’re afraid of alcoholism. Any man that has had sex knows that porn isn’t real life. Women watch porn too, men just tend not to care if their gf watches it. If it’s literally an addiction and affects other aspects of your life, just like anything else, you should seek help. But women dumping men simply for watching porn mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 07:31 PM
3	If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into. Ha, okay I get that. That’s just awkward to be in the next room while it’s happening😂 and again, if it causes issues in your sex life, obviously that should be addressed and cleaned up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 06:44 PM
1	If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into. As a woman, I honestly don’t understand what the big deal is with men watching porn. I watch porn some. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you suddenly have to change the way you masturbate. Frankly I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business. I’ve lived with my boyfriend for 2 years and I literally dgaf. We have great sex, he loves and respects me, I love and respect him, end of story. As long as it doesn’t cause any issues, I don’t see the big deal. It’s not like he has any sort …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 06:39 PM
-1	What questions to ask to a pseudo feminist to shut their mouth for good ? Okay, then avoid me. That doesn’t make you less dull❤️	/r/MensRights	10/04/21 07:04 AM
-1	What questions to ask to a pseudo feminist to shut their mouth for good ? Sorry i have little time for the uneducated boohoo men rhetoric	/r/MensRights	10/04/21 06:32 AM
-2	What questions to ask to a pseudo feminist to shut their mouth for good ? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK499891/ No.	/r/MensRights	09/04/21 10:35 PM
-16	What questions to ask to a pseudo feminist to shut their mouth for good ? This is such a disturbing post. You’re asking how to make women “shut their mouth” about rape and domestic violence. Seek help.	/r/MensRights	09/04/21 08:42 PM
-11	Wikipedia: Men have a higher retirement age than women in 35 countries. Women have a higher retirement age than men in 0 (zero) countries. Um okay the average for men is 65 and for women it’s 63. Why are you guys acting like that’s even that significant?😅 are y’all good? There’s also so many things that could even go into explaining those two year differences. Like the fact that men are more often hold executive positions (and similar) and You guys will actually find ANYTHING to make yourselves feel justified in your sexism hahaha. Also, in tons of other countries, ONLY MEN ARE ALLOWED TO WORK. Yet you’re going to sit here and say …	/r/MensRights	01/01/21 05:43 AM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45565684 Feel like this is a helpful article!	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 11:35 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent I have! And we’re definitely finding wildly different info	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 09:14 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent Pls find me a source that is not Wikipedia lol	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 09:13 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent Yeah I don’t know where you’re getting any of this sooo	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 06:59 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent I think it’s also important to distinguish “false accusations” from “unfounded accusations”, which I think is the 19% Canadian statistic you’re referring to! Unfounded doesn’t mean false, I think that means lacking evidence, which again is for sure very common! But I’m not suggesting a lack of evidence should lead to jail time. That’s not the way the justice system works. But there’s a difference between legal trial and public trial. Also, I’m really not sure what you’re referring to when you sa…	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 06:08 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent There often isn’t proof, and I understand that in a court of law you can’t convict someone without evidence. So much time has passed, and I would bet you don’t know anything about what it’s like after being assaulted, so it’s really easy for you to say “weird they didn’t go to the police or get rape kits done.” You’re in a state of shock, confusion, and go into emotional survival mode, coping in any way you can. For me, that was burying it and not allowing myself to think about it for 9 years. S…	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 05:08 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent I don’t know the case you’re referring to but that sounds extremely isolated and clearly isn’t the case here. From personal experience, again, it’s incredibly difficult and traumatizing to come forward about something like this. I was raped when I was 17 and I still to this day havent said shit, because I can’t even bring myself to think about what that would do to my emotional and mental health. Girls aren’t “backing each other up” here. I just don’t think you understand how difficult and taxin…	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 04:56 PM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent Um I don’t think this is a joke buddy	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 04:48 PM
0	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent To me, since more evidence has come out about this....this is just another example of why it’s important to believe victims. Once again, these women are telling the truth. This man is an abuser and deserves to be in jail. Well wishes to the women who suffered as they recover	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 07:05 AM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent Please try to be compassionate and understanding towards traumatic situations you have never experienced. Often there isn’t “proof” by the time women come forward, because so much time has passed. I was sexually assaulted for the first time when I was 13 and just this year (I’m 23 now) have I been able to say out loud that this happened to me. The trauma and pain runs so deep and it truly is so terrifying to even admit to my closest friends, let alone stand on public and legal trial. It’s basica…	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 07:04 AM
1	Men in courts and rape cases are guilty until proven innocent I’m struggling to see your point if it’s not defending him. Obviously no one should be convicted of a crime they didn’t commit but when we know false accusations are statistically very rare and you have over 20 women talking about it....you really going to believe 1 person over 20? I’ve seen you say a few times here that he’s probably guilty but why even make this post suggesting that someone is lying? That’s why so many victims don’t come forward—because of people on this thread that will scrut…	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 06:55 AM
-3	If a guy vehemently hates cats, run. ......I think this is reading too far into it lol. Lots of people hate cats. I hate cats and it’s definitely not because they won’t give me consent😂 I just think they kind of suck. No offense	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 05:02 PM