thetallyogi Archive

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2	In an LTR but wanting more. As others have said, very difficult to incorporate FW / Surrendered wife into a situation where you are living together but not married. Drastic but also most effective thing to do would be to start looking into moving out until he’s made his mind up about what he wants. Using FW and Laura Doyle on a man who isn’t your husband is just giving him all the perks of marriage with none of the commitment - can you go back to more of a dating vibe? Increase the mystery and get busy with hobbies and doi…	/r/RedPillWives	08/03/21 06:38 PM
2	What did you do with your wedding dress after the wedding? I keep meaning to get mine properly dry-cleaned and boxed, but for now it’s still hanging in our wardrobe! I like the fact that I can still put it on if I want - maybe I will on our next anniversary.	/r/RedPillWives	08/03/21 03:07 PM
1	New to tradlife Lovely, thanks for your response. I’ll get it on my kindle 💜	/r/RedPillWives	07/03/21 04:05 PM
1	New to tradlife What are your thoughts on Empowered Wife? I've read Surrendered Wife a few times and enjoyed it.	/r/RedPillWives	07/03/21 10:40 AM
2	New to tradlife I really love this advice. Self-discipline is a muscle that we can train to get stronger.	/r/RedPillWives	07/03/21 10:39 AM
2	The Dating Scene... I think stay true to what feels right for you, no need to explain yourself to anyone (especially potential matches). I'd say let them figure out for themselves that you like to wait until commitment. Men who complain or ask you to explain will mostly just be up for having a good time without commitment, let them find that somewhere else. Keep your head high and move on to the next date.	/r/RedPillWives	07/03/21 10:34 AM
3	Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - November 28, 2020 Hi, my advice would be to consider starting to try to conceive now. My hubs and I started trying a year ago and I’ve not conceived yet (apart from a miscarriage back in Feb). These things often take much longer than you’d expect and I doubt it gets any easier as we move through our 30s. I didn’t feel ready but it felt like the right time and I read so many books about pregnancy and childcare during the 9 weeks that I was pregnant. No one feels 100% ready, you become ready through making the jour…	/r/RedPillWives	30/11/20 09:05 PM
-3	Men who continually come and go from your life I don’t think any of these people are flirting or trying to sweep me off my feet. I have no control as to what they want or don’t want so that’s none of my business. A polite reply isn’t the same as deep + meaningful flirting or emotional involvement.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/11/20 01:26 PM
3	Men who continually come and go from your life Hi, even though I'm married there are a couple of men who I've dated in the past who do still message me. We may have a cordial chat but I respect my husband too much to start having deep conversations with them. My take on it is, if you leave things without nastiness and showed yourself to be a decent person, they will continue to think about you and message you from time to time, social media makes it soooo easy for men to do this. If we really wanted them to stop we could block, delete number…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/11/20 11:06 AM
7	Did any of you become a housewife or SAHM because of the pandemic? Hiya, Wanted to chime in here as I just turned 32 and am TTC baby number 1. It's taken a while but I'm really settling into spending more time at home, making the housework and cooking my priority instead of my work (or lack thereof). My husband and I are both self-employed but I work in the arts and 2020 has been a disaster. Despite that however I'm finding that I have basically no anxiety now and am really enjoying being a SAHW. Self-employed income support is supporting me fine for now - I'm …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/11/20 04:10 PM
3	Clothing - what do you wear around the house if you are WFH with your husband? I’ve been wearing mainly leggings and jumpers too - I workout most days so it’s good to feel ready to go. I saw someone comment on here about cotton dresses, so I picked up a long sleeved knee length dress from Amazon that I’ve been wearing over leggings. Feels a bit more feminine but still really comfy.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/20 09:09 PM
2	The Book “Fascinating Womanhood”: Have you read it? I’ve not come across Secrets of FW before. I’ve downloaded it to read!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/20 03:25 PM
3	The Book “Fascinating Womanhood”: Have you read it? Hi, welcome! There’s a commentary on Fascinating Womanhood in here. Click ‘About’ on the sub, then click ‘Wiki’ and you’ll find a list of chapters with thoughts and comments. I had a good read through yesterday.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/20 09:43 AM
1	I need a RPW refresher/content for "older" women (30+) Hi, I'm in my early 30s and married. Over time I'm realising that I'd love to assume a more traditional role in my home instead of trying to do everything as the media would have us believe we can. Fortunately my husband is keen on the idea too, and hopefully we'll be able to afford it one day. We're both self-employed so the idea is he builds his business up while i maintain and then wind it down if (and when) I ever manage to get pregnant (been trying for a year, had a miscarriage in Feb). Any…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/20 03:34 PM
2	Looking feminine in dark colors Yay! I’m glad I could help x	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/20 05:02 PM
2	Is it a red flag if a man you only talk to online says that he wants a relationship with you before even meeting you irl? I'd be very careful here. Seeming desperate is not attractive and will definitely give you the Ick. Surely anyone you'd want to have a relationship with, wouldn't be the sort of person to want to enter into a relationship having never met each other. I agree with the other answers here. Trust your gut. I sense stalker vibes.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/20 03:34 PM
6	Looking feminine in dark colors Hi, I share your feelings towards lighter colours - I'm an autumn and am much more suited to earthy tones, greens, oranges, browns, and I'm happiest and most confident in these colours. Mrs Midwest definitely suits the pastels and lighter colours but I'd say they're not for everyone. In the UK there's a company called Kettlewell Colours where you can shop for your season - the clothes are high quality and lovely. Even if the clothes are darker they can absolutely be very feminine if they are a g…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/20 03:25 PM
1	Are there any apps you guys know of that can help women make friendships with other women? Thank you very much. It’s so difficult right now isn’t it. Let’s hope things can get a bit more normal next year. How are you staying sane?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/20 12:59 PM
3	Are there any apps you guys know of that can help women make friendships with other women? I've been thinking about trying Bumble BFF but heard it's very popular with women trying to recruit people to their MLMs. My mum likes to tell me that I'll make more friends when I have kids, and can meet other mums. Easy to say, we've be trying to conceive for a year!	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/20 12:02 PM
–	What's for dinner? I want to start cooking more from scratch, I'm about to make a leek and potato soup for hubs and me, then maybe a mushroom risotto for dinner tonight.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/20 12:00 PM
10	Relationship question Run. Don’t walk. Oh my darling you deserve better than this! A decent man will treat you gently ESPECIALLY having been through what you’ve been through. How dare he speak to you and treat you like this! You need to be angry with him for being so critical of you. That is not an attractive quality of his. Well done for seeing a therapist too. If I were you I would VANISH from this man’s life, did I read that you live separately? Good! Block him and move on. Seriously. Edited to add: you express yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/20 10:19 AM
2	what are Easy hobbies that impress men and are not basic? We don’t try to impress people with our hobbies. We do them because they make us a happier person. Happy people are more attractive. Do what makes you happy and people will see how you light up when you talk about it. Passion is attractive, enthusiasm is attractive, making the most of your time and building skills is attractive. It doesn’t matter if it’s knitting, biking, cooking, reading or whatever, you want to be doing it because you LOVE it. That is what will attract men. Doing something spe…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/20 06:31 PM
3	My Captain is perfect to me and for me in nearly every way, but there is one thing that irks me! Sounds like he is a good man and you need to just let this one little habit go. It’s not a big deal.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/04/20 07:33 AM
26	How to date in late twenties to get commitment from guys who are also late twenties Focus on attracting a quality man and less on his age. Why worry about something like that? List the qualities you want to find in a partner and start there. Men in their early thirties are great if you’re in your late twenties.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/04/20 07:30 AM
11	How to introduce him to the RP mindset Yes. Read this carefully. Say it with actions rather than words. Let us know how it goes.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/20 09:04 AM
5	I'm confused It’s a mindset you get into. Start some self-care habits, even if it’s just going for a walk each day or drinking enough water.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/20 04:37 PM
3	I'm confused Hello lovely, Firstly, I would advise you to focus on your studies, and do your best to distract yourself from this unavailable man. I have so been there in the past, but you need to get really focussed on looking after YOURSELF. Focus on getting healthy, wearing flattering, good quality clothes and looking after your skin. I know it’s hard but now is the perfect time to start. You’ve got this 💕	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/20 04:33 PM