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| 2 | How to handle coyness/flakiness? (text)Ask her if she gonna be free to FaceTime later(use a specific time), then if she says yeah then be like “bet”. Don’t text anything else unless she try having a convo and even then take like 15 to 20 min between each message and just say your busy doing homework or sumn. Then when the time comes FaceTime her and just talk with her, the same stuff you would usually text. Once the convo starts feeling fluid and you don’t have to think hard about what to say, try flirting a bit or maybe tease her ab… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 12:32 PM |
| 3 | How to handle coyness/flakiness? (text)Cut shorty off, she’s not rocking with you fr. And the more you try to text her and hangout, the worse you look. Your best bet if you want her is to stop reaching out to her, let her reach out to you. And if she reaches out and is being kinda dry then call her. It’s more balsy to be dry over the phone than text. But from how it sounds you’re cooked just cut her off and keep it pushing. You need to value your time and effort and not put it into flaky girls. You wouldn’t invest into a stock that’s… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Active datesTrue but the purpose of the gym date is not for you to get a serious workout in, it’s to find out about the girl and see if you guys have chemistry. Plus you can see what she’s working with with her gym clothes. And it gives you the opportunity to be a leader and show her proper technique or workouts she doesn’t know about. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Active datesI used to do mma also, I play football now. But I would also be open to a gym date. Ask them to come get a lift with you and it allows you to be able to show off the gains. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 03:55 AM |
| 8 | Active datesI feel like a semi active date could be bowling or mini golf. Or you could take a girl to one of those arcade spots that has go carts. If you have springs in your state you could take a girl kayaking, that would definitely be memorable. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | What is the best summer job to become more social?One that I haven’t seen on here that you will definitely be talking to alot of people is a valet driver. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if this girl is genuinely interested in me?First off rule of thumb, always come up with the plans. A girl wants to be led not to be a leader, also you’re seeming too available. Ask her when she is available and go from there, if you seem too available all the time it’s a turn off. Now she has been saying she is busy and not offering an alternate meet up date so that means she is low interest right now BUT she is still slightly interested. What you need to do is find out when she is available and plan something, during those plans a move … | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop being interested in women?Bro there’s this miracle drug that came out that will help, 40 mg of manups. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I Tried to kiss her, now what?In the future do not ask a girl if you can kiss her, just go in and do it. But yeah she is into you because if not then she would not have made the effort to say she is not friend zoning you. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex?I’m curious too | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | how many dates do you guys personally usually wait until sex?Don’t know why this has hella dislikes, homie is putting us on game. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 10 | Asking a cashier outAsk for her number and you’ll find out real quick | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Girl flaked after second dateOnce you kiss her for a while, go to kiss her neck and run your hands up and down her inner thigh getting closer and closer to her vag. Then rub it a bit outside the pants and if she letting you do that then you put your hand inside her pants slowly and finger her. After this it’s on you, you have then successfully escalated it to the point where at least you can get some head and at the most sex. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Are there even single women at bars. women that arent in a group?If you don’t have any friends then you won’t be able to talk to any women. Make some friends first | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Why you should never worry about going for the kiss or asking someone outAsk your mom if she would rather I guy ask to kiss her or just kiss her. Doesn’t have to be your mom I’m just saying so you can have a source that you trust. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl flaked after second dateIf you’re sitting next to a girl then you gotta start giving her eye contact and looking at her in a seductive way. Talk to her in a slower and more deeper voice(practice this so it’s not forced) and when she replies look at her lips occasionally. Then either when the convo hits a pause or gets flirty, go in for the kiss (you always have to go in first). if you wanna know what to do after that lmk. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you are spending the night with a girl then you’ll have plenty of opportunities to escalate. Wait till there is a moment when you are sitting close together and when the conversation has a pause lean in for a kiss, or if the convo gets flirty do the same. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:07 PM |
| 15 | Why you should never worry about going for the kiss or asking someone outDo not ask for consent to kiss someone 😂 this is a big turn off | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | How to move to the next level?Don’t do this, it’s a high level move that needs to be executed right. There is no need for this, just do the first comment. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:02 PM |
| 12 | Girl flaked after second dateIf she agreed to come to your place after some drinks then I think she was expecting more than a kiss. Ask her if she wants to come over and watch a movie or something and this time seal the deal. If she flakes again then leave her be. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:00 PM |
| 16 | How do you guys act around your friends GF?I typically don’t engage in conversation with them often, I try to just only talk to my friend | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 12:03 AM |
| 2 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayIt’s honestly better for you because you know he hasn’t been with any other girls. Your only problem is he might get a little clingy. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 6 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayOdds are that he is probably a virgin, so your options are to take the lead on anything sexual or flirty and showing him what you like or kicking him to the curb and find someone else. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 01:01 AM |
| 10 | how do you not allow rejection not eat away at your spirit/self esteem?Your best bet is to be talking to multiple women so that if you are shot down you will know that you have other options. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 05:45 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]This one hit deep as this is exactly what happened to me in highschool (20 now) honestly man I think it will be fixed once you have a successful relationship where you get laid and actually become comfortable talking to your girl. Also I would recommend to stop beating it as that will add subconscious layers to your confidence and ability to speak with girls | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 8 | what are you supposed to do when you’re in a party setting and a girl you like starts twerking next to or in front of you ?If she twerking next to you then pull up and grab them hips, the worst she can do is say no then the result is the same as if you didn’t try at all. Better to try! | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 3 | [Day 1] One Approach a Day ChallengeAppreciate the free game brotha | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Question for You AllHell yea, being a good salesman is a science. I would love to hear some of your techniques. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Needs adviceThat depends on what you want from her. If you want sex then you can be more direct, flirt but with intentions just to have sex and don’t be afraid to say something balsy. I wouldn’t recommend trying to date a thot ngl, that’s a road for depression. Also depends on if the guy is lying and just saying that because he didn’t get to hit, ask if he has nudes because that’s certified proof. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 03:39 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You have to accept the fact that if a girl is cheating there is nothing you can do about it. Getting mad or being jealous without factual evidence of cheating will not change anything. So you’re better off playing it cool until you know for sure. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You need to stop getting jealous because that’s unattractive. Being needy isn’t too bad as long as it’s not too overbearing but I would try to stop being clingy at least in the beginning. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 03:13 AM |
| 186 | I want a BADDIEYou gotta understand that most baddies are social butterflies that thrive on having a lot social interaction. You have to be able to mingle in a similar way. The best girls to date are the cute ones that aren’t too bad because they are more humble and like you for you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 03:09 AM |
| 280 | I want a BADDIEThe question is can you handle a baddie? | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 02:54 AM |
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