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Fought mine all the way. I supported her through 2 career changes. I was always a hands on dad. Did more than her and my career is where it is due to me. If anything she cost me earlier progression. I support my children above and beyond financially and emotionally. But she knew from the day she mentioned keeping to her lifestyle and a rediculous amount of spousal support, I would fight her all the way. She personally got nothing. I don't revel in this. I just protected myself. Best money I ever…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 03:07 PM
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Stick with it my brother. I speak from 4 years of what I can only describe as periods of intense pain. My eldest is 16, my divorce has had a huge impact on her. She is vulnerable, angry, fragile and navigating the challenges of the youth of today. I never miss an opportunity to tell her I love her, I respect her space and I'm there ready for her. I cherish the little things and one day we will get to our new normal. Please remember you have to be here for that to happen. Talk to someone. Occupy …
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 09:30 PM
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Love this. Your boy has great taste in music too x
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 05:06 PM
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My youngest was 4 when I realised my marriage was over. I hung on rediculously my friend, another 7 years. I held on for as long as I could for similar reasons you are. The damage to me mentally was huge. In my situation I wish I'd gone sooner, young children have great abilities when it comes to adapting. My ex used everything she could against me and with teenage daughters she has tried to emotionally destroy my relationship with my children. Youngsters are far more resilient.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/21 06:11 PM
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It feels a long way off but I look forward to this dsy
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 06:59 PM
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In terms of custody I was supposed to have them 2 days /nights a week but it's never happened. My ex says it's their choice. A job has been done on them I know.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 04:58 PM
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They can't answer. I've asked them. I've since found out my ex has told them she wants to change her name but doesn't want to have them with different names. So she has said she'll keep my name. You can see the work being done here. My kids have joined the dots as she's presented things to them
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 04:57 PM
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Thank you for the advice
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 04:54 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 11:25 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/20 01:31 PM
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It's agreed that the kids can stay with me 2 night a week but prior to the pandemic they wouldn't as theydidn't want to leave their mum. Her stock answer is /was its their decision.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/20 12:48 PM
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Hello! I'll message you later this afternoon if that's OK? Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/20 09:05 AM
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Feels like I was doing that for the last year. But no more.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/20 06:57 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/20 06:56 PM
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8 months in and I continue to have the emotional and financial drubbing. But guess what? The advice is right. Look after yourself, breath, exercise. I manage my expectations around my children. I have found its all about control with my stbxw. So I am picking my battles and slowly getting my ducks in a row. One step at a time. This group has been so important to me over the last few months. Hang in there, we will be happy again.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/19 09:43 AM
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I will keep you posted.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/19 12:47 PM
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Yes sorry I will repost later when I'm not working. Apologies
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/19 05:06 PM
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Thank you and good luck with your situation too. My in laws are very much part of this problem too! I won't miss them in my life
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/19 07:09 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/19 07:07 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/19 04:25 PM
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