thetruemaxwellord Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
50	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked	Question For Women	thetruemaxwellord	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 06:11 AM
34	When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?	Question For Women	thetruemaxwellord	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 03:46 AM
32	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet?	Question For Women	thetruemaxwellord	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 02:49 AM
11	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive?	Question For Women	thetruemaxwellord	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:35 AM
1	The Transactional Mindset is the Root of Relationship Failure		thetruemaxwellord	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 07:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. Answering a question with a question always a great sign	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 09:52 PM
1	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. Why do you believe it to be meaningless? You a nihilist or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 09:42 PM
1	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. I would greatly disagree. I should specify I am referring to family legacy not status legacy. Status legacy is lame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 09:35 PM
0	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. I don’t mean a “me legacy” I mean children and their children and so on and so forth. Whether some random knows my name in the year 2150 I don’t really care. My impact on them decades before can change the life of my future grandchildren and great grandchildren.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 09:34 PM
3	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. That is an interesting mindset. To me a romantic relationship is a legacy. You meet a partner and work together to building a bond, life, and legacy together. That closeness, intimacy, and stable life is true fulfillment of you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 08:37 PM
-1	"Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real? There are none. In fact for most women there are only cons. It is a mistake and not one you should seek out. It’s the equivalent of walking down dark alleys at night in Yorkshire because you see how you will handle a man coming at you in the wild. It is needlessly dangerous. I have to hope people who haven’t gone through this phase think of it as fantasy phase and as something they actually missed out on	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 12:00 AM
2	"Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real? There is nothing they are missing out on. Sleeping with random people is typically really bad for most women. You do not know this person, they don’t know you, and the sex will not be worth it. The sheer number of things that can happen from constant sleeping around are not worth the risk. If the guy is too rough now you have vaginal tearing, feel used thus regretting it, does a sex act you weren’t actually comfortable with, and so on. That is not to mention potential pregnancy or STIs which you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 11:40 PM
2	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. I’ll do you one better what do violent incels do on the individual level? You are correct you will not find specifically a “war” at least in the modern sense of the word caused solely from a lack of sex. That was poor wording on my part. However raider raped by the hundreds, a lack of sex on a wide scale means the leaders are failing in many other ways such as kidnapping women for their own personal harem, and so on. A lack of sex on a wide scale leads to anger with the system which leads to oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 05:24 PM
3	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. Well no it does genuinely come down to one of the drives that make a society. People will have started wars and killed for three main things for all of human history food, sex, and freedom (to an extent). If you take those away from people things get really bad. All of these things have caused some of the greatest wars of history and even prehistory. This isn’t even an opinion piece but a fact. Edit: As such all societies build around those elements to varying degrees. That’s why the largest ind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 05:06 PM
–	It shouldn't be acceptable to express disgust and hostility towards adults in consensual incestuous relationships. Incest goes against my beliefs on many different levels. As such I am disgusted by the topic. If I encountered two people who are in that kind of relationship I will be disgusted and distance myself from them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:19 PM
1	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. Your third response is directly contradicted by the quote you chose for your fourth. I have nothing further to add	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:14 PM
1	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. A lot of people particularly young people don’t know the difference between being sex starved and touch starved. I say this with the experience of a young man who has never dated nor had sex before who has been around other young men. Also keep in mind for marketing purposes the Red Pill is attempting to attract men who have never had sex before or who have gone years without any kind of intimacy. To a person in that context intimate true sex and shallow sex are one and the same. I once believed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:06 PM
0	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. I understand your frustration but will no longer be able to spend my time trying to ease your woes. If you let one random person on the internet anger you so it will affect your real life. What he said was wrong but how you are choosing to respond is also wrong. You can’t control what others say only how you respond and how your character shines through. I have had many people online call me sexist, a liar, and so on. In my experience the best thing to do is call them out on it (if possible) as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 03:38 PM
–	"The bar is in hell"... yeah for attractive men I would actually agree with this. I work in the trades an get things under my nails often which is something I need to work on personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 03:32 PM
0	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. That person was out of line but so are you. There is literally no reason to be this mad on the subject and I responded well before that person made their comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 03:26 PM
1	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. I think you might be a little too close to this topic. Try taking a break from being online for an hour or so. I know this kind of thing can get annoying but there isn’t a reason to let that shine a bad light on your character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 01:31 PM
2	The redpill thinks society hates men is because they're projecting their problems onto all men. Sorry I just wanted to step in here. People as a rule of thumb do want a romantic or sexual partner(s) so yeah even if you have a ton of platonic and familial relationships that doesn’t mean you are not going to be pained by the lack of that other kind of intimacy. There are reasons why a sexless marriage can be painful for someone who desires to have sex with their partner even if they are close in every other way. I do agree not everything should be about sex but inherently basically everythin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 01:25 PM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it Wow	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 04:14 PM
2	The "Nice Guy Finish Last" mindset is inherently misogynistic and shows a lack of personal accountability. You’re right, immaturity and poor judgment aren’t unique to young women they’re part of being young, period. My focus wasn’t to paint women as a monolith but to critique how the sexual revolution and social media specifically exploit female socialization around intimacy and validation. That said I should’ve been clearer as men face their own version of this like pressure to perform hyper masculinity or frustration when genuine effort goes unrewarded. The bigger issue isn’t gender it’s a culture …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 04:13 PM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it Kind of bold of you to assume this is ai but whatever works for you bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:41 PM
2	The "Nice Guy Finish Last" mindset is inherently misogynistic and shows a lack of personal accountability. I see where you are coming from but you are missing some elements on the male side of this. While yes men and women have free will and can date who they want and if a woman only dates criminals, bullies, and generally bad guys that doesn’t make it a universal truth for all women. However it is a trend in younger women particularly because they lack the maturity to understand that you are being gamed, manipulated and the like or if they do they assume the consequences are minimal. Women as a whol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:27 PM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it The communities that shun traditional masculinity are usually those rooted in academic, social justice, or progressive urban circles. Rather than rejecting men entirely (though that too can and has happened) these groups actively deconstruct traditional traits like stoicism, dominance, and the like often labeling them as toxic. This shift is driven by a desire to create more inclusive spaces where emotional vulnerability and gender fluidity are prioritized over old school archetypes of manhood. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 01:36 PM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it The communities that shun traditional masculinity are usually those rooted in academic, social justice, or progressive urban circles. Rather than rejecting men entirely (though that too can and has happened) these groups actively deconstruct traditional traits like stoicism, dominance, and the like often labeling them as toxic. This shift is driven by a desire to create more inclusive spaces where emotional vulnerability and gender fluidity are prioritized over old school archetypes of manhood. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 01:32 PM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it Uh no it’s not at least not when you are lonely, in a really rough mental state, the public opinion on something you can’t change is less than positive, and so on. Most guys don’t just wake up and say “I am going to be a hard core follower of the Red Pill” you would have to ignore all the factors that lead there. I know it’s a dark subject but the same is true for many school shooters because while there are just crazy people the actual build up to reach that point takes years and it also takes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:34 AM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:15 AM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it Weirdly a lot. It really only takes a few bad apples to ruin a local community especially if others done shun that individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:07 AM
–	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it Self improvement is hard and extremely depressing. Funnily I actually only began to grow as a man through reading old Playboy magazines (yes I actually read the articles and no I am not particularly interested in the centerfolds). The 70s through 90s of Playboy is genuinely just offering advice on how to be a better guy. Through this I read She Comes First, then Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, and various studies and books on sexual relationships, sexual abuse, consent, psychology, sociolog…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:05 AM
-2	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it That’s kinda the cycle and in truth it’s partly caused by women who are just bad apples. Extremism has become a major problem in the modern day, men and women will say the most out of pocket things the issue is that for a solid decade women could say just about anything hateful to a man without any downsides. Publicly shaming people leads to a fear of not being labeled one of the bad guys which then leads you down one of two very different paths one of hard growth and research and the other is t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 02:54 AM
1	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? I was told I was being flirted by friends and the like I actually assumed they were just being nice. For reference this included arm touches, banter, compliments, and certain individuals actively seeking me out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 01:11 AM
2	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? I am a rather optimistic person but to play devils advocate: That house you bought 6 months ago had a poor foundation and after some heavy rain it sink 9 centimeters into the ground and floods. Additionally a recession hits putting the current housing market six feet under. Remarkably eating that kilo of chocolate cake didn’t affect you too badly. After you beat that guy it was revealed he was a serial killer and pedophile who had a tied up victim in their car not to mention your lawyer used the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 04:44 PM
1	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? Then you will never do anything as the only certainty in life is that you will die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 04:04 PM
2	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? Jeez you have the patience of a flea. With this mindset you would literally never progress in anything that doesn’t immediately offer instant gratification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:45 PM
2	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? Yeah major improvement. Prior to this when I asked a college classmate out and got an inconclusive response I was so nervous and worried I made her uncomfortable I dropped my class. A little over a year later women are flirting with me, I have female friends, and am becoming the man I know my future wife will fall for. My goal is to finally have that first date and romantic relationship this year	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:36 PM
4	If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean? People do not work well in the hookup lifestyle. Yes you can have sex immediately after meeting but that doesn’t make it a good idea. Women especially have a hard time in casual sexual situations because they do not see it the same way. Two people could have had the same sexual experience with each other and had very different outcomes. Many men who had a great experience would be surprised to find their female partner in that act felt pressured into certain acts, disassociated, and by the end o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:31 PM
8	If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean? And the most adult thing is having one of the most intimate and potentially risky moments of our lives with a complete stranger. It’s not like how doing this could have any obvious negative impacts on your mental, physical, or emotional health short and long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:10 PM
3	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? I can confirm this as I am in my early 20s, 5’6 1/2, and work in the trades. Ever since I started working I began to have more success in talking with women in general though I have yet to get a date I’ve been attracting women around my age. The internet really does just screw people over in this way. When you just go out as yourself the world does change to a much more natural space.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:58 PM
27	If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean? Yeah I’m not sure why sleeping with someone on the first 3 dates has become normalized	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:11 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? Oh my goodness	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 04:03 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? If I may ask how old were the “a-a-a girl” type gamers you have met? Doesn't have anything to do with the actual question posed by the post I am always just interested in people like that and their ages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 03:44 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? It depends on what you consider to have “expensive and impractical equipment”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 02:59 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? I think this idea comes because a large amount of these are secondary hobbies to most guys at least that I know of. For example I love to write and cook but also like collectables and comics (I collect them so they would count as expensive and impractical). There would be very few people in general who could be just in this bracket which given the context of the post would label most men as undatable by this criteria	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 02:21 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? Happy Cake Day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 02:15 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? I see	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 01:06 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? Keep in mind this hypothetical has them being a normal person so they aren't addicted to the hobby and the like. This is more on what hobby no matter is a no purely on the nature of the hobby	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 01:06 AM
–	What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive? Like no games at all? Keep in mind for this hypothetical this is a normal well adjusted guy without an addiction to this hobby. Out of their 7 days a week they spend 5 hours playing a game online/on a console	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:59 AM
–	Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves? This particular comment would imply you can’t body shame someone you can’t see so if I went on a voice chat and called someone obese or the like that wouldn’t be body shaming? Why can’t we agree that both are generally pretty bad especially since both can lead to people mutilating their bodies to “fix” themselves. I actually hear the small dick energy thing a lot when my female friends gossip and had one actually talking about an ex boyfriend’s size and compare it to a soggy france fry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 09:41 PM
8	Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for Sex I’ve genuinely never met a single guy like that. Not say they don’t exist but that is the smallest of percentages of people within the modern western world. Most young men just want someone to be close with who genuinely cares for them and doesn’t say they are bane of all things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 05:22 AM
1	Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies? Commented mostly on the wording of your first comment. Besides that I have very little to say in regards to your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 05:07 AM
3	Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies? This is a response to your comment you made before this one. I actually say this to everyone. I am a guy but I just want to live in a society where everyone is respected and treated as people and not as buzzwords or the other or monsters. Feelings literally didn’t change probably because this is Reddit and it is kinda childish to get mad over the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 05:05 AM
-1	Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies? I genuinely need to move out of the big city. At this point I don’t think it aligns well with how I feel about how dating should work. Also doesn’t help I genuinely barely care about politics and everyone around me seems to care about em.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 04:43 AM
2	Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies? Honestly not a good mindset to generalize people that way. Most guys see women as people and just want a strong connection same as most women. It’s honestly just the bad apples that ruin the bunch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 04:41 AM
1	Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies? Hypergamy might not be a “system,” but it’s influenced by systemic factors like patriarchy, economic inequality, and cultural norms. Rather than framing it as a rule or inherent behavior, it might help to see it as a symptom of these larger pressures. Addressing those pressures—like economic disparities or rigid gender expectations—could create more space for genuine, freely made choices in relationships. The real issue here is autonomy versus coercion, and you’re absolutely right that there’s n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 04:39 AM
6	Are Women Fueling Their Own Loss of Rights by Promoting Outdated Ideologies? I’d actually argue something a bit different. I think that basically for the first time ever women have the widest amount of choices possible but most choices aren’t what most people would call ideal. Men aren’t really used to trying to compete online for a girl’s attention as we as humans are social creatures. Most young people in general now are extremely lonely, insecure, and crave real connections but due to how social media and similar online advancements work this has created a generation …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 04:29 AM
4	Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality... I agree with everything you said but wanted to add most guys will develop feelings for their female friends. Most will likely not act on it but it is something that happens. Heck I had a huge thing for one of my best friends despite knowing she is lesbian and those feelings only really stopped as I began dating my girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 11:13 PM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) Can't speak for anyone else but I did want sex for many years back in high school and early college but was wanting it for the idea of a romantic/sexual partner not because of the act itself. I realized this when I actually did lose it and didn't feel much because I didn't care for my first sexual partner. I don't particularly care about low counts but I wouldn't want to be with anyone with a body count in the 100s because I care a lot about emotional connection and feel a count that high for an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 02:27 AM
2	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? That's the reason they need regular upkeep. These things are effectively biologically human and thus would need to gain sustenance in order to survive or be powered through alternative means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 06:10 AM
3	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? I mean people aren't reasonable covid taught us that. If something is purchasable and can offer you whatever you want some people will take the deal. Keep in mind this is what happened in the 50s where women were treated as objects not people and before that time period it was basically always that way in history. Hell there is a market for buying male sex toys and sex dolls this at the very least would be the next evolution of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:30 AM
2	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? Yeah these aren't people I'm not saying they are. Part of the magic is finding the right person yeah. However doing so puts you at risk to meeting a real wack job. The number of people willing to pay for dating coaches, match makers, etc kinda does prove there is a market for this in the real world and should this be normalized it would only take a couple years to maybe a decade or two for it to become as common place as a tesla car.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:11 AM
4	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? OP said in a different comment they would be artificially made kind of like the artificial womb currently being worked on in the real world. Think the weird baby things in the Matrix for how these things are made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:07 AM
1	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? No your over thinking it a tad. What I am saying is that you are offering people their perfect person in a world where meeting the wrong person can get you put behind bars or where briefly glancing in the general direction of a woman can get you shamed on social media. Heck there was an MMA fighter who nearly lost his career for touching one of the women who came near him on stage for his victory and is now unwilling to even be touched by those women even for his job. I think most people should …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:05 AM
2	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? It isn't necrophilia because it isn't a person. It is a moral grey zone since this thing by its very nature was never a real human but is made to be near identical to one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:52 AM
4	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? Its definitely not a true human connection but at this point most people don't want a real human they want the idea of a person. This actually is seen in the Honeymoon Phase where everything is great until you see the flaws of the person. This is big reason for break ups and divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:44 AM
3	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? Based on what you have said these things would be 20k to purchase and 1k to maintain yearly. Assuming they are doing labor jobs this cost will naturally increase as the bodies will need to be either upgraded or trained to be physically ideal for the job. In these environments damages would be common. In the US there are usually around 5,486 fatal work injuries, alongside over 2.8 million reported workplace injuries in a year. Translate that to money and feeding the bodies it would end up being q…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:41 AM
6	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? This precisely but you get the good parts people love such as a comforting companion, a sexual partner, someone who listens to your problems without harsh judgment, etc. Is this natural? Hell no, but people have already begun to see chat gpt and ai girlfriends as real. This already has a pretty good bases in the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:29 AM
4	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? They are unlikely to be workers due to their costs which are too great to have hundreds of them working at once not to mention charging, damage, replacements, and storage. Also given how humans have treated other humans in the past this isn't much of a stretch to see people being horrible to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:26 AM
6	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? I honestly would see people thinking its weird at first then after 5-10 years it becomes about as common as having an Alexa. You are effectively offering to have a human connection without the risk of being betrayed, abused, or need to deal with the real issues having a human partner would have. Personally I wouldn't date one but given how they are apparently human and its difficult to tell the difference I might end up dating one without knowing it. Hell with this current set up you are removin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:19 AM
5	The Red Pill is inhumane, ineffective, and in fact, self-defeating. This just isn't true man. While yeah there are some women out there where they want this weak and nervous version of a guy to date most women do not act this way. Women care about things that some guys can't just be changed same way that men care about things that some women can't change. For example if you are a guy and stand at 3’5” you ware not attractive to 90% of women. The red pill does offer ways to improve yourself and your world view to be more attractive to the average western woman li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:30 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Genuinely I would just talk with them. It gets easier the more you do it and if you have a genuine interest this will shine through to her. Im a fan of DnD and talking about it genuinely makes me light up which tends to ease fellow dnd playing women. I've never actually tried pick up lines but instead just talk with people I find attractive. This usually leads to me making a new friend and gaining a bit of confidence. This however hasn't worked with trying to talk about something I'm not well ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:44 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Not sure why you are being so hostile here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:29 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? I might just have some really bad hobbies then because for three years I was unable to get a date because I kept asking out women who were lesbian. The way I met my girlfriend was actually in a grocery store after commenting that the price of a Trolli gummy worms shot up and we eventual went and watched the inside out 2 together. So in my particular case it worked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:05 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Dude please don't get into the weird weight thing here. Most overweight women already know their weight will turn off a lot of guys. Yes you can change your weight but not your height, but everyone has things they like and dislike. If you aren't into east asian features so long as you aren't a jerk about it no one will care and most wouldn't even know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:50 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? I never actually questioned how this is in other countries. This was honestly pretty insightful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:32 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Maybe but I genuinely believe that people will be truthful. It might be naive but I am hopeful I’ll get some good data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:32 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Dude don't be a jerk. Most people like good people so her response isn't that weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:08 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? I am fairly bad at talking to new people so this is probably true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:07 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? Not really obsessed with height just saw a lot of guys talking about it and got curious so I asked my friends for some insight and got some interesting results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 03:05 AM
3	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. Yeah a murder happens every 30 minutes in the us. There are 1,800 rapes daily in the us as well. Many of which are probably done by drunk men sure. Then again there is a robbery every 2 minutes as well and 14,500 car crashes daily in the us alone. So while these numbers seem extreme due to the scale of everything most people would simply never see most of this. Daily there are 48 murders nationwide while there are 10,000 births daily in the us alone. It would take 8 months for the daily murders …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:48 AM
0	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. I suppose it is though honestly I'm not sure what could have been done differently there. Me personally I'm not looking to get stabbed or shot which is a very real possibility in this situation. It was a smart play to not physically get involved but most reasonable people would agree with that take I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:21 AM
10	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. I agree that it was a smart decision but he could have done something instead of standing idle. The better option would have been to record what was happening just in case and to inform the GF of this. Ideally his plan should be to make sure the situation is ultimately handled safely while also making it so his GF doesn't go around making Reddit posts saying how she doesn't think you have a masculine bone in his body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:15 AM
3	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. Definitely which is also why I am a bit iffy on it but then again this is from the prospective of the gf who clearly is angry with him so the details of his actions may have been lost on her. Either that or the guy just stood their like an idle sim and she should probably dump him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:10 AM
5	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. Drunk men do hit women however most just wont since there is literally nothing to prove. Beating a woman is seen as weak because basically any guy can beat any woman without much issue. Its like being proud you beat up a middle school student. When you are going against a man it is very different because even if you are in a different weight class it is also a sign of domination if you win. Also most guys are not violent when drunk with numbers being less than 1%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:09 AM
9	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. If multiple guys come up to another man the fight is not in the single guys favor especially while drunk. Its a similar reason why most people wont pick a fight with someone who is likely to have a weapon since just having the item increases your threat level. The boyfriend was however not doing enough here and definitely should have stepped in more but then again that is just me projecting my own mindset and actions into this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:04 AM
6	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked You’ve made an important observation about the nature of how men’s and women’s issues are perceived and addressed. While women’s issues are often more unified like health, safety, or mental well-being men’s issues often come with more hesitation or fragmentation in their discussion. The example of sports gambling and its devastating effects on men highlights how men’s struggles can be dismissed or sidelined even by other men, while also illustrating why men may feel unsupported when it comes to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 03:43 PM
5	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I agree with your point about reframing the concept of toxic masculinity. It’s helpful to think of it not as a broad indictment of all masculinity, but rather as a critique of certain harmful behaviors and expectations that hurt men as much as they hurt others. These behaviors such as suppressing emotions, valuing dominance over empathy, or rejecting vulnerability are often perpetuated by societal norms that limit the emotional and social range men are allowed to explore. As you mentioned, toxic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:23 AM
2	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I understand where your frustration comes from, and you raise some valid points. Both men and women face societal pressures around emotional expression and societal judgment, but those pressures manifest differently. You’re absolutely right that men often face ridicule or harsh judgment when they openly share struggles like loneliness, rejection, or insecurity. Terms like incel are sometimes thrown around thoughtlessly, which invalidates men’s real emotional pain and reinforces the harmful expec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:16 AM
-4	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I think it’s important to clarify that this conversation isn’t about a pissing contest or blaming anyone. The issue here isn’t about having fewer partners as some kind of competition it’s about a growing trend where more young men are experiencing a complete lack of sexual intimacy and the effects it can have on mental health and well-being. Research backs this up. For instance, data from the General Social Survey shows that in recent years, around 1 in 3 men under 30 report not having had sex i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:12 AM
3	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked You raise a valid point about how society has traditionally treated emotional expression in both men and women. It’s true that women have historically been stigmatized for expressing emotions, often labeled as hysterical or irrational. The word hysteria itself originates from an old, sexist belief linking women’s emotional states to their reproductive systems, which only reinforced the notion that women were too emotional to lead or make decisions. This perception has had real-world consequences…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:05 AM
-2	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I understand the frustration and where you’re coming from there are certainly men who dismiss these issues or align themselves with regressive ideals, which muddies the conversation about genuine advocacy for men’s struggles. Figures like Andrew Tate do tend to dominate the discourse, and their messaging often appeals to anger and division rather than constructive solutions, which doesn’t help men or society overall. However, I don’t think it’s entirely fair to say that men ‘don’t care’ about th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:03 AM
4	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked It’s understandable why this perspective resonates with many people. While feminism, in its ideal form, claims to support gender equality, there are instances where actions taken in the name of feminism have directly opposed efforts to highlight and address men’s issues. The example of protests against men’s rights advocacy groups like setting off sprinklers or attempting to shut down discussions does send a clear message that some feminist groups aim to silence men’s concerns rather than collab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:00 AM
-8	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked A lack of sex does have an effect on men and genuinely can make people depressed and angry. While yes there are men who have more sexual partners those tend to be what many men online would call ‘chads’. I made a more formal post to your original comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:54 AM
3	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I think you raise a lot of important points, and I appreciate that you’re engaging in this conversation. I understand the frustration about toxic masculinity it’s a term that was meant to identify the societal pressures and behaviors that harm men (e.g., suppressing emotions, avoiding therapy, or rejecting vulnerability). Unfortunately, many men see it as an attack rather than a critique of harmful norms, which causes resistance instead of progress. You’re right that it creates a disconnect, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:50 AM
0	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked First, I genuinely appreciate your acknowledgment that men’s issues like mental health struggles, suicide rates, societal pressures, and abuse are valid concerns. It’s important that all voices in this conversation are heard and respected. I completely agree that women have their own battles to fight and that expecting women to ‘fix’ or advocate for men’s issues is unfair. Men do need to step up, take responsibility, and advocate for change in their communities. However, I think part of the disc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:45 AM
3	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I am hoping to avoid as much fighting in the comments as possible. From what I have seen in open discussions war wages as the two parties clash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:39 AM
1	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I plan to make a similar post for men in the near future. As a man I know my own personal experience with these issues but was curious how people on the other side see them. There is a growing gap in men having sec compared to women though I do agree I could have worded that a bit better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:36 AM
-1	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I see your point but would like to remind you that men are typically trained by society to not openly talk about these issues. Its part of the reason male sucide rates are through the roof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:30 AM
-4	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked I see your view. To provide some context to some of my points regarding less sexual activity I will give some data to show the disparity. https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/s-keystat.htm	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:28 AM
17	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies Its not really that I think most guys are just scared of coming off as a creep or coming off too strong with gestures. There are women out there who will just accept the gifts and basically zone out. Heck it is becoming popular to crap on Cheesecake Factory for a first date location now. Ideally a first date should set the standard of what a date should be with you as an individual. If someone goes to the date dressed weird or takes their pet rat with them you can assume these are core parts of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 05:52 AM
1	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies I mean you are just describing people in general particularly online. We all know that one guy who acts like this and genuinely believes having no filter and being honest no matter the situation is best despite being an ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 05:45 AM
3	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman Generally you can usually tell when someone has those kinds of intentions. Think about how as a guy you can tell when another guy is flirting with a woman. Women can tell that as well and most homewrecker men just want sex unlike homewrecking women who tend to emotionally cheat more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:48 AM
1	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman Its mostly the fear of how it all works. I was that way not too long ago but particularly in large cities dating women our age is kinda trash. There is a growing number of women who don't want to act feminine in the ways that attract most men such as consistently doing make-up while in a relationship, having the guy carry bags, or similar minor things that makes a guy feel like a guy. Currently men are suffering from lower testosterone levels which leads to depression, addiction, and similar neg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:45 AM
0	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman I don't want to call you a liar or anything but realistically this is unlikely to happen. Most people will take your side should you claim a guy harassed you, was a creep, etc. Fourth wave feminism has popularized misandry and has made it socially acceptable. Saying guys need to do self reflection is just reflecting the blame onto guys for no real reason. While I do agree everyone is their best selves when they self reflect its not just a man issue. Most guys don't want casual hookups but instea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:39 AM
11	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman I think she means most women don't hang around guys who are known homewreckers while married or in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:32 AM
5	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman This. A lot of guys seem to really like women who look like they will be cougars in 20 years. Honestly have never seen the appeal but it draws many guys in so it must be effective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:31 AM
0	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman Most people are worse socially after covid and modern media has scared a large amount of guys away from even taking the shot at this point. Yeah realistically you wont end up being called a creep but most tactics require trial and error and of course failure something our generation does not like to deal with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:29 AM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning I mean on a practical level that's most most people offer. Your parents provide protection, food, shelter, and information to you when in your formative years for example. But I am curious what your partner provides outside of those 3 pretty important things for a romantic relationship (sex can lose its importance assuming both parties are ace)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:56 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning Not saying she should work and be a full time cook. My point was mostly that each partner should make life generally easier for the other. Ideally both of them would cook and clean much like roommates are meant to. What should however be avoided is having one party do the majority of the work as that will quickly lead to resentment and a breakup/divorce. Maybe if the gf in this scenario cooks and cleans while working part-time the bf who works full time (part time and uni) could be responsible f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:44 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning Not 100% viable for a long term healthy relationship to be just a glorified sex toy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:32 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning She isn't saying be 100% in on the chores. There are a number of women who genuinely do not think doing chores of any kind or piling the majority of the chores on their bf is a good way for him to stay with her. Most guys don't want to be treated as a big kid they just want to actually feel appreciated and not made out to be the destroyer of worlds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:29 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning Honestly a great set up it feels rare to see this kind of thing now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:26 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning No she is saying do something guys actually card about. Most men genuinely do not care about half the things their significant others do so long as they make daily life generally better than when the guy is alone. If a guy can cook and clean up after themselves and works 40 hours a week why would he need a significant other who only contributes more money and sex? The ideal way of being in a relationship is being someone your significant other wants to be around consistently and offers a service…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:24 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating You understand statistically men are more likely to be assaulted at night when alone right? Yeah those are real concerns I don't deny that but there are always blind spots and not every school or school district has the same protocols. Your experience while 100% valid is just that your own experience and shouldn't be used to try and minimize the real risk of what can happen. Female teachers involved in relationships with male students often receive different media treatment compared to male teac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:35 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Really are though. You are asking someone to leave their children with another human. You want the kid to be safe since you do risk the possibility of someone being a creep, pedo, or abuser.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:25 PM
0	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating I am not saying it is a woman’s job I am saying that from my personal experience I have been wronged by those who find men working in the field as creeps. It is kinda similar to why women don't feel safe when walking home with a random guy not far behind them. Its unlikely thr guy is a killer or something but there is a chance and society has made people believe that chance is the default. You can disagree. However that doesn't change the fact that it does happen and when it does it hurts. Tryin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:50 PM
-1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Just because your experience is different doesn't make it the default. All it takes is one bad apple for seeds of doubt to overcome common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:43 PM
-2	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating It doesn't need to be most it just needs to be enough people. Men and Women are treated very differently when interacting with children. I actually remember that female teacher who was dating her student and how she was barely punished for this compared to male teachers who were imprisoned because a student lied. Its just one of the jobs were double standards are far more prominent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:41 PM
1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating I wouldn't recommend lying but I know being laughed at for your field isn't a fun experience. Be honest since most women will just care that you do make good money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:33 PM
-1	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Its primarily because most people assume if you are a male teacher you are not there for the money or helping the youth but instead there because your a creep. I remember I was doing a summer job at a preschool with my Aunt years back and the kids found me really fun but the school got multiple complaints about me just for me being a guy working there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:28 PM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. I’m not saying my data is correct what I am saying is there is a clear correlation and using a decade old survey won’t be of much help here. The birth rates are down due to 40% of adults using dating apps which lead to women going after the top 1% of men meaning those top percent will have far more opportunities than the average male. Pile onto that with the sheer number of ways to reduce the chances of pregnancy and abortion it just naturally limits the birth rate especially with many women onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 03:33 AM
–	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. The data is rarely correct simply due to how it is gathered, its age, and other studies which directly go at odds with this line of thinking. For example the cdc article you first linked does show things being somewhat similar nearly a decade ago in 2015. However this was a survey and such things falls into the trappings we all expect when doing a self report on subjects that most people find uncomfortable. Think studies for other similar intimate topics which are widely ignored since the true a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 03:15 AM
–	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. I think you misunderstood my meaning. I can’t speak for the validity of that age range having the lowest divorce rates. There is also the issue of being college educated not really doing much in this day in age so it is likely to continually decline especially since student loan debt, useless degrees, and a lack of jobs for the white collar workforce are very real issues to deal with now. That is also not accounting for the rise of ai which is simply better at dealing with entry level white coll…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 02:48 PM
4	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Sure. I formed these over the last three years after seeing what I liked and disliked about my partners and how they acted. I recommend you add onto this list or even remove some to fit you as an individual. Loyalty – A commitment to faithfulness and emotional exclusivity if the relationship has defined boundaries. Trust is foundational for any healthy relationship and having someone who removes “backup plans” and similar things shows me they are loyal and are prepared to go the distance. Active…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 01:56 PM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. Look man not sure what else you’re looking for. If you break anything down enough it sounds dumb sometimes you just need to accept advice and see if it works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 06:01 AM
3	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. It is quite simple really. Be a guy and maximize what makes you as a guy desirable. Also again I am not a member of the RP I am just someone who gets my information and views from as many sides as possible before making my decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:50 AM
0	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. I gave you an answer a while back. Why are you this made over a Reddit comment man? Genuinely might be best for you to step away from the app for a bit to chill out and break down the information. Fraternities do exist this is true. However it doesn’t outweigh the general costs of going to college which is ever growing at this point. Passport bros go to other countries to marry women who can’t divorce them suddenly for no reason and immediately take everything the guy has worked for. Our current…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:48 AM
9	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Depends honestly. I have dated women who genuinely seemed to like me and were hurt when things ended because I expect certain things to be done and outline those things on early dates. Most women I have been with rarely can come up with a date idea and tend to resort to sex appeal which just doesn’t really cut it most of the time for me personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:37 AM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. It teaches confidence which is realistically all you need alongside some basic hygiene and something interesting to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:32 AM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. I’m not a member of the RP. The BP tends to lead men to working on themselves less in the “go to the gym” way and more into the “be one with your spirit and give off good vibes” kind of way. Naturally there are exceptions as there are to all things in life. Voting Red also has very little to do with the RP itself and more with how men and young people as whole have been treated in the modern era. Many men have nothing really to gain from identity politics, student loans relief, or similar polici…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:30 AM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. I recommend you ask a few women on the street. Generally just go up to them and say you are doing a project for college or something. Then ask what they want in a guy. Crunch the numbers and you will get your answer. Most of the Red Pill points are actually done through research that isn’t particularly hard to find if you seek it out. It’s part of the appeal. Not someone who is successful just someone who is exciting and attracts women. Think they guy who they think they can fix or who they know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:19 AM
4	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. That’s the issue. Many guys just assume that is all a woman wants. That is the blue pill where your belief is exclusively what a woman says she wants and not what turns her on. The red pill focuses on the turn on portion but tends to snip away the being a good boyfriend bits. That is why I personally can’t identify with either side since I know women are not turned on by being a boring safe option and I also don’t have it in me to treat women like they are beneath me and that they only care abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:10 AM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. It is said quite a bit. Very few women will be truly direct with what they want and it is clearly shown through simple tropes like the bad boy. Women tend to get bored with stability which is why many women in recent years will take years to “find themselves.” This usually includes having a lot of sexual relations, getting tattoos, doing drugs, being financially irresponsible, and being overly promiscuous. These women will then return to looking for long term relationships in their late twenties…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:05 AM
1	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. Purely an example but if you ask most women what they want in a relationship that is what they will say or something similar. Typically something like “I want a guy who is kind, caring, emotionally intelligent, and vulnerable.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:56 AM
1	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Nagging can be a type of abuse particularly because it always gets bigger. Sure nagging over small things is 100% fine but it quickly grows until your nagging over things that are out there at best like a job promotion, buying a new car, or letting your partner go on a long trip with friends. You will actually see this a lot with parents and should they not be blocked by the other head of the family they will use their power over their child to nag them into doing things that they deem as being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:50 AM
8	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. It is this precisely why Basic Bob will end up divorced and paying off her debts. You shouldn’t be with someone in a serious manner simply because you are good at giving head. Most women desire a masculine man who yes can give head but also penetrate well and provide a stable life. No one will stay with you long term if you are broke and are only good at giving head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:13 AM
-2	Blue Pill "pandering" is a major problem that is overlooked. The status quo is how your mom told you to get a girlfriend. “Be nice and honest and it will work out.” This simply isn’t a realistic answer. RP is the belief of actively working to make yourself more desirable both physically, financially, and in terms of status. This mindset usually leads to treating women less as people and more like a pet. You can love your pet but you also need to keep it on a short leash to avoid it doing something harmful for example cheating on you and taking your money.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:10 AM