theupside2024 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What are the smoothest lines which you have ever said on the spur of the moment? I love your name . Every girl I’ve ever met with your name has been beautiful. …. And That’s still true . That just came out of me . It’s was all true and the girl just melted. It was like she had an orgasm right there looking in my eyes. I’ve never been able to repeat the perfection of that moment. But it was amazing.	/r/seduction	22/08/25 04:53 AM
2	What’s the point of female friendships You thinking too much. Friendships just happen. You don t need to analyze it . You’re so much better off just living and letting life and friendships come to you instead of thinking .. what’s the point … or is this going to be a lasting friendship … or is going to be mutually beneficial . Who cares? Friendships come and go. Male, female … done limit your life.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 06:41 PM
1	What’s the general rule of thumb in double texting? Does she think you forgot her name? Because girls hate that! It’s too late now but her name is important. Girls like hearing their name and if she is wanting you to respond she will be thrilled that you remember her name. Conversely she could be repelled by the fact that you don’t remember it.	/r/seduction	24/04/25 06:06 PM
0	What is the objective of teasing ? If you don’t understand why people tease each other then you have a serious social deficiency. It’s serious enough to pause your dating life and get this one thing worked out. Go make some acquaintances and friends learn how they communicate.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 04:25 AM
1	Left on seen. Am I too gamey? Signed up for?? Wtf does that mean? Don’t use texting anymore. You suck at it. Maybe face to face is better for you.	/r/seduction	10/04/25 10:37 PM
1	How to tell someone I want to go out. Does she know your name yet? I mean maybe just say hi my name is ___ what’s yours. ? Coffee shop girls get hit on every day all day long so just keep it low key . Get her name and use it. Don’t forget her name. Girls hate that. Now you’re friends. If she smiles when you say her name then just say hey… ‘Mary’ are we friends yet? We should get together. And you’re off to the races.	/r/seduction	30/03/25 11:02 PM
1	Wondering why this girl was not direct when Ya maybe she just isn’t ready. Who knows why. You can’t worry about it. I think you’ve got it figured pretty well. I mean it is what it is. You have needs too.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 11:08 PM
1	Wondering why this girl was not direct when Play you how? It seems like she just wants the company of a male friend for validation or whatever. When you leave she comes looking for you. That says to me that you came on too strong. Sometimes it takes a long time for a girl to feel comfortable enough. I mean you’re doing the right thing by telling her it takes too long and you need more. If she responds to the fear of losing you …. That’s a good thing. You have the power. Leave it at that and start looking for someone else. If she wants to …	/r/seduction	29/03/25 10:10 PM
1	Wondering why this girl was not direct when Don’t assume that she knows what she wants. She obviously doesn’t. She’s taking ques from you. You’re in good place with her. She wants to work for that intimacy. Solve your puzzle. She doesn’t want you to just give it to her.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 08:38 PM
1	Why flirting is so easy in chats?? I find the opposite is true for me. In the moment I can be more of a flirt. My eyes can go to work. I don’t need to say much. Online I reread and rewrite before I send. Think it out too much. Change it. Delete it. Rewrite it. Ugh.	/r/seduction	25/03/25 01:02 AM
1	Shit-test She gets mad This is your shit test for her. Can she take a joke? If not , well maybe another girl with thicker skin is out there for you.	/r/seduction	16/02/25 07:16 AM
2	Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel? Right on you got the idea. If she thinks you’re all in love too early…it’s over.	/r/seduction	09/02/25 06:19 AM
10	Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel? No don’t push it. Let her pursue you. Dont ’t give ultimates or heavy questions. Your insecurities will make you unattractive. You have options. She should know that. Let her feel like she’s getting a chance at a guy that other girls want. Don’t make the mistake of acting needy. That’s a huge turn off for girls.	/r/seduction	09/02/25 06:03 AM
1	Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe? Ok , ask her to go out for coffee some time. You’ll at least get a laugh. Since she already works at a coffee shop.	/r/seduction	31/12/24 08:23 AM
-2	Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe? Take the coffee and write on the cup. Beautiful barista’s phone number here _______ . Then bring it back up and tell her you need that number. And some sugar.	/r/seduction	31/12/24 12:59 AM
1	How to deal with anxiety any time a girl over 7/10 talks to me? Start practicing strong eye contact. Flirt with your eyes. Body language. Incidental touch. By the time you need to speak your eyes will have said a lot. Nonverbal is where it’s at. The vibe !! The best opening line ever is ‘ hi my name is …..	/r/seduction	21/11/24 10:48 PM
1	Are female friends worth the effort? Yes!! Because those women are all in love with me !! Haha. At least I imagine it that way. If they want to hang around I’m not going to push them away. It’s cool to have a little groupie crowd	/r/seduction	04/11/24 09:54 PM
8	What makes you men attracted to a woman? At first it’s visual. The figure, hair all that but after meeting then it’s the smile, the flirt, the eye contact. Met me with your eyes before you ever speak. Every one I’ve met that way still lives in my mind.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 01:04 AM
2	Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps proof Dating apps are garbage. Everything you need to know about a new person is in the meet. How can you know anything about them without eye contact and body language. Tone of voice, reaction to you. Open or closed off body language , smiling. It’s all face to face. There is none of that in apps. It’s useless. After the meet. Then an insta can useful. Just for communication and information.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 12:25 AM
22	How to handle a super shy women She apparently shows up for dates. So that indicates that she has responded. Why does she have to text all the time?	/r/seduction	29/04/24 02:42 PM
2	Would you consider this red flag, high maintenance? Just the fact that all this is coming out over text is a red flag. She has no clue or apparently doesn’t care what your facial expressions are when you read this stuff. It’s all about her. That stuff is way too personal for text. It should be face to face. That way you can gauge and adjust your words in response to the other person’s reaction. It’s way too much. It’s me me me. I want …. Is she asking you what you want and need in a relationship?	/r/seduction	17/04/24 10:50 PM
1	An unanswerable question from a woman: It was kinda lame huh? Like he thought about it too much. Hahah	/r/seduction	15/04/24 07:15 PM
1	An unanswerable question from a woman: You are vetting her too. If she can’t get sarcasm and humor that is a huge red flag. Nothing worse than an over sensitive woman who takes offense to every attempt at humor. Humor is also a very good indicator of intelligence. If she just doesn’t get the jokes then she’s not very intelligent. That’s not the same as if she gets them but doesn’t think you’re funny.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 06:03 PM
1	Help needed After she breaks up with her boyfriend.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 10:01 PM
2	Is this a hard no? Messages are easy to say no to. Because there so much time to think. Talk to her in person.! Watch her face. You won’t be asking about what she really means because in person communication is so much better. Always ask face to face.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 04:56 AM
1	What's the best love story ever written? I don’t know but Stevie Ray Vaughan stayed up all night writing Lenny for his wife who had just bought him a cool guitar and that song is still awesome. That’s a pretty good love story.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 04:47 AM
1	First message Next you see just say hi. She might start up a conversation with you. Next after that just say ‘ hey are we friends yet?’ I’m Jon Doe. What’s your name. ? Then say it. Her name. Say it to yourself too and do t forget it !! Use her name. You love her name!! And so it goes. Seems like fun.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 07:59 PM