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It seems like feminism is women taking the worst and most toxic elements that they accuse men of possessing and using them themselves, like somehow being the thing they hate is going to have some sort of positive effect. I'm sorry about what you're going through. I've been made to feel guilty for catching feelings for women too. I think a lot of these women loathe themselves deep down. They know they are narcissists. They know they are terrible people. So when you try to tell them they are good …
/r/MensRights17/02/25 10:08 PM
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I used to be all for the sexual revolution and free love. But, as it's exposed itself as imbalanced and in favour of women in modern times, my opinion has shifted. It feels like intimacy is used as a weapon against men now, or more like the lack of intimacy. It's like starving a wild animal and then when they attack you, you blame them, the symptom and not the root cause. I now find having one loving partner and starting a family together to be the ultimate desire, not a bunch of notches for eve…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 09:59 PM
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I'm sure it the genders were reversed there, you'd be called a pig. I haven't given up. I know the one is out there. I just don't know where yet, but I'm searching. Thanks.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 09:53 PM
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Yeah that's been a huge double standard that's really gotten bad. If she cheats, he caused her to and thus it was ultimately his fault. If he cheats, it's also his fault. Fortunately I've never been cheated on (that I know of), but I also have my suspicions. When I was a teenager, my girlfriend dumped ME. A week later, she saw me with another girl (who was just a friend, mind you) and then egged my car. And I know it was her, because I confronted her and she admitted to it.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 08:59 PM
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I'm trying to not get bitter, but yeah when I look at my romantic history, women haven't been the greatest to me. I've been quick to admit my faults and my mistakes, but they've never owned up to their's. I'll forgive them, but they won't forgive me, etc. But, all you can do is what you can do. Life's too short to hold grudges against people you once loved. If they want to hate me they can hate me, but I don't hate them. In fact, I look back at the good moments more than the bad, whereas they se…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 08:58 PM
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If I had a dollar for every time women said that men don't work hard enough on themselves, I'd be rich. I gained 25 lbs of muscle, been consistently going to the gym for 7 years, graduated from university, I have a hobby I'm super passionate about, have travelled the world, made lots of friend, saved and invested money, etc and yet my luck has not improved AT ALL. If anything, I'm struggling more than before. And what did they do to work on themselves? Just continue to look pretty?
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:40 PM
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I've experienced that before. They act like they can do better and so then you start looking elsewhere if they aren't even that interested in you, but then that makes them mad too. It's like they don't want anyone to have you. When men seek traditional women and look outside of the western world, instead of asking themselves why men are doing that, they turn it on us and somehow make us the bad guys. I've seen women subreddits that talk about Passport Bros like they are these hateful, sexist mon…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:26 PM
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But somehow this gets twisted into misogyny.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:23 PM
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Sounds like you dodged a bullet, my dude.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:22 PM
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I hate the idea of sharing a woman. I'm not some beta male cuck that wants to be the Monday to Tuesday boyfriend.I tend to develop feelings with anyone I'm intimate with. I tried to not care, but I'm just not that kind of guy. I can't change how I am in that regard. I like bringing them flowers, or swinging by their work with lunch for them. I love doing all that. I love the sex too, but I love the cute romance stuff as well. And exactly. They want the same men all the others girls want and then…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:21 PM
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It's been a few years. Pretty much back to normal. I grew up hearing that men bottle everything up and that they never show their emotions and so I thought that's what women wanted, but then I showed my vulnerable side and could tell that my ex lost attraction in me for appearing weak. So, now I'm back to not showing my emotions. Damned if you do, damned if you don't hahaha. I'm sure someday I'll meet a woman who I can be myself around. I also write and play music, so I try to keep my vulerable …
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:06 PM
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Tinder (and similar dating apps) are among the worst things to ever happen to the world. I was scared of getting STDs and despite always using protection, I got HPV. My doctor and planned parenthood failed to warn me of the seriousness of HPV or that a vaccine existed for men. Only women can get tested for it. They all told me they were clean, but somebody passed it onto me. In the back of my mind, I'm scared someday it can turn into cancer. I risked my health to feel loved, but was never actual…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 05:54 PM
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I'm still waiting for this patriarchy to kick in (as a straight white male). I'm short, so I'm less likely to be successful according to statistic. The patriarchy isn't benefitting me there. I've been declined hundreds of jobs offers. Where's the patriarchy there? I'm yet to ever actually benefit from the patriarchy that apparently all men benefit from.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 05:51 PM
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I know SEVERAL women that have slept with as many guys in a month, as I have slept with women in my lifetime.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 05:25 PM
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Ask the women that are misandrist and who hate men, how they'd feel if they had a son(s). I'm assuming a lot of these women don't have children, or at least not boys. Ask how they'd feel if their son was depressed or more likely to commit suicide because he feels unloved by society. Ask them how they'd feel if their sweet boy they loved and raised was treated like a creep or a pervert anytime he showed interest in a girl he had a crush on, simply for smiling at a girl and showing interest. Ask t…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 05:11 PM
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I'm not trying to say all women are this way, but a lot seem to hate us until they can get something out of us and then they'll suddenly be okay with us for a brief period. I was briefly seeing a bisexual girl (who leaned more towards women) who would go on these tangents about how men are ruining the world and whatnot, but would often call me over for sex, because she liked when I made her feel good. I didn't see her for long and I should have pulled the plug sooner, but I hadn't had sex in a w…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 01:56 PM
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Hating a man for simply being a man (which is ~ half the population mind you) is no different than hating someone for the colour of their skin or any other arbitrary generalization. Another argument is it's hypocritical and contradictory. People love to hate on misogynists and scold them for it, but society seems to deem misandry as socially acceptable, even though they are practically the same thing. It's just a way to try to divide men and women, who need each other as much as the other.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 01:53 PM
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Oh god. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm never report a girlfriend for SA, but it's just it made me paranoid and I kept asking if she had her period yet.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 01:49 PM
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I know, I stated I was too nice about it. Me telling them "no" was like a game and they're like "But doesn't it feel good?" or they'd treat it like a challenge and try to convince me how nice it felt. With girlfriends I was a bit more forgiving, because at least I knew there was no health risk or if they did get pregnant, at least we were dating, but I should have been more assertive about it. With someone I'm hooking up with (which I haven't done often), it's a bit scarier. I was definitelt fir…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 01:48 PM
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There's someone for everyone, but they aren't for guys like us.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:52 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm a short guy that likes tall women (not trying to flirt here I swear haha). I1 don't exclusively like tall women, but it's definitely not a dealbreaker to me. My ex who was tall and I got along really well and while she teased me for being short, she never made me feel unattractive for it, nor did I with her for being taller than me. We got weird looks from people all the time though. I know a lot of guys only want someone smaller than them, but I think a dyna…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:47 AM
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Exactly. That's how I feel. We shouldn't be guilted into feeling like bad guys for feeling that way.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:43 AM
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Thanks for providing a woman's opinion on the matter. I can imagine that happens with petite girls.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:42 AM
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When you try to please everyone, ypu please no one at all
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:41 AM
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A nanosecond sounds generous.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:27 AM
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I love women. There are many beautiful, sweet souls out there. But oh boy, have I felt the vindictive wrath of other women before. I'm a very forgiving person. I've forgiven all of my exes, even in cases where I did nothing wrong at all and where they hurt me, because (for lack of better words), I think what Jesus would do (I'm not even religious). Life's too short for that kind of negativity. None of them have forgiven me though and have held eternal grudges. I've learnt that it's a fool's erra…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:27 AM
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Yeah exactly. Forcing yourself to like someone is just going to eventually surface and hurt them in the long run. And plenty of men couldn't care less and I'm sure the women I'm not interested in will find them. Just as some women don't like me for my stature, there's always going to be some that see past it. Maybe not many, but they exist and I have dated many of them.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:22 AM
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It sucks being rejected for something that's out of your control, but life's not always fair. You work with the hand you were dealt. I was given good cards in other aspects.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:20 AM
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Ohh, I see. Oh yeah, I do tend to tell those people directly in that case. But a lot of what I was saying stems from society. That men are viewed as shallow for not accepting a woman's weight. I can imagine if I was married and had kids and my wife didn't quite look as good as she once did, that I'd still love her, but if a girl is overweight at the beginning of a relationship, that's different. And at that point in a marriage, I'd try to help her stay healthy and active, encouraging her to come…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 07:18 AM
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I'm usually a pretty blunt and honest person with most things in life. I'd rather someone be straight with me than dance around. But if you mean why not tell these girls to their face, I have a bit more of a soft spot for women than men. I can be brutally honest with a guy more than a woman. If I tell a girl to her face that I'm not interested cause of her weight, that might cause her to spiral into depression and gain even more weight or harm herself in some other way. Maybe it motivates her bu…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:49 AM
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As a single straight male, I feel discriminated against often. I understand men can be creepy, but I've found so many perfect places to rent for ideal prices and locations only for them to say "Female only". I've never once seen a rental property thay said "Male only". Some clubs in my city refuse single men entry. I understand that they dont want a sausage fest, but how am I supposed to meet women if Im not allowed to places like that? And I havent made friends here yet, so its not like I have …
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:37 AM
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I agree. I lost an uncle due to obesity. He died fairly young and was well over 300 lbs. He refused to even go for walks or eat vegetables. I don't think I'm a bad person for wanting a healthy women who can live a long life. Obviously you can't predict death and people can die from other things, but health and fitness is a controllable factor for people. And I have my weak moments. I like chips. I like chocolate. But the moment I feel even an excess pound of fat, I take notice and will burn it o…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:31 AM
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It's not necessarily any particular people in my life at this time, but just in general that people seem to condemn men for not being attracted to overweight women. I've had probably a dozen relationships in my life and all of those women have been on the thinner side, but I've had bigger girls show interest in me and people have asked why I wasn't interested and then made me out to be some villain if I told them that their weight was a dealbreaker for me. And I dont mean I said it to their face…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:26 AM
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