thevaluelifestyle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How important is eye contact with strangers? For a few seconds, hold eye contact. Don't death stare her. After class, approach her.	/r/seduction	04/09/18 02:34 PM
7	How important is eye contact with strangers? If that feels awkward, start looking between their eyes. It's perceived as looking them in the eyes. However, I really do recommend maintaining eye contact in all interactions. Really tells you a lot about them and says a lot about you as a person.	/r/seduction	04/09/18 02:02 PM
2	Online and not very familiar Yea I wouldn't do that. That's kinda creepy. Start your convo on tinder and make her give you her snap or number (preferably snap). Take it from there. Don't randomly hop on girls pages and try to be cool or funny. You'll look silly and the complete opposite of how you think you look.	/r/seduction	01/09/18 02:06 AM
5	How exactly should I go about getting laid in college? How long are you waiting to follow up? Girls meet a lot of guys and forget a lot of guys as well especially if the interaction was short lived and you did not remind her of who you are.	/r/seduction	01/09/18 02:03 AM
3	Not sure if she is just friendly or interested. Assume attraction	/r/seduction	29/08/18 03:49 AM
1	Much teasing, little sexual tension I'd really stay away from sexual shit over texts. If you and the girl don't have a good enough relationship, it can easily be taken as creepy and too needy	/r/seduction	22/08/18 01:09 AM
30	[FR] Date with 18 year-old black girl, I lost another one... You're failing so many shit tests, being needy, and trying to be edgy/cool.	/r/seduction	22/08/18 01:05 AM
7	Is it bad to be forceful? Yes. That's rapey. Don't do that.	/r/seduction	22/08/18 12:57 AM
3	Chatting to office co workers by email, is it acceptable? I wouldn't mix it. Too many other options out there. I always find it not the best idea, especially if you're on the clock. Easily perceived as unprofessional.	/r/seduction	20/08/18 05:50 PM
9	Post date/lay game They're just flaking most likely. They are looking for just a one time thing, you are average in bed, or someone else has came along who seems to be more suitable for them. It is either one or a combination of those.	/r/seduction	20/08/18 05:24 PM
2	Anything but sex She's probably not a virgin and you probably just played this incorrectly big time in my opinion. If a girl is ever in your bed with you let alone naked, I can't think of a reason sex won't happen. When you get back in town, have her over again and close the deal.	/r/seduction	18/08/18 12:17 PM
7	How to make a girl feel special? In short, just be present. Make the girl know that you are there and your mind is not wondering elsewhere. Girls know your intent but like when you make them think they are not just being "sluts". Just have fun, introduce kino, don't be a weirdo, and sex will happen.	/r/seduction	18/08/18 12:30 AM
2	What’s the best way to approach a girl I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but at the same time I need to get out of my comfort zone ASAP any advice ? no one said it will be easy. if it was so easy, no one would have the issue right? Go out right now. You can be out the door by 9. I live in NYC as well so if you would like some pointers on some places to start, let me know.	/r/seduction	18/08/18 12:23 AM
7	What’s the best way to approach a girl I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but at the same time I need to get out of my comfort zone ASAP any advice ? Start by going out and interacting. Become more comfortable with people in general. Even if it just a causal conversation with a random girl standing in line behind you, start somewhere and expand on that. Sitting in your house and reading guides won't do it - get out there and take the action needed. You are literally in prime location and do not have any excuses. Overcome the approach anxiety by understanding that if you do not approach, nothing will happen. Worst outcome is you are ignored. W…	/r/seduction	18/08/18 12:19 AM
3	A few basic questions Number is a big commitment. IG is very little. Stop texting. Date is set up. At most, send her something that I allowing her to be involved with what you're doing. Save the talking and get to knowing until the date. I prefer coffee. Less of a commitment, can get out much smoother if she isn't what you are looking for, and going out to eat on the first date is a bit much imo.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 11:41 PM
2	Cute Girl and Scared to Aproach Just go for it man. You have nothing to lose.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 10:16 PM
1	How do I respond to a chick after I forgot to respond. Just tell her you're busy at the moment and follow up when you're not. If anything, she'll see you with greater value. If she flakes, talk to other girls.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 09:15 PM
1	How do i stop being a spineless nice guy who is also retarded? Get out into the real world. Get out of behind the screen and make yourself uncomfortable. Putting yourself into situations where you aren't comfortable is the easiest way to grow.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 09:10 PM
2	Going on a first date Just have fun. Don't try to be cool and be lighthearted. Use it as a learning experience. Try something out of your comfort zone... I would say push for kino - wrap your arms around her to help her putt, give her a pat on the back after she does well or give her a joking push on the shoulder if she comments on you making a bad shot. Just a few options.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 08:46 PM
1	I am great otherwise but I struggle with the PULL itself. You're artificial. Nothing you say has any backing and girls can so easily see through this bullshit. Say you land the wittiest line ever and she acknowledges you... This is real time and real life, there is no pause button.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 02:40 AM
1	How do you respond when called handsome? Yea, don't. Just ignore it and move on with the convo.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 02:36 AM
1	How do you respond when called handsome? Depends the context she uses it. If it is just good morning handsome, I would just continue on and tell her good morning without giving it too much attention. If it is a direct compliment and she says "you're handsome" just a simple thank you works well.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 04:17 PM
1	How do you even respond to something like this? Stop overthinking this texting bullshit. Texting really should be about setting up a date. To answer your question though, I would say something that would talk about how no one ever raises my ultra low self esteem using sarcastic undertones. She obviously knows I have a high self esteem so this won't seem needy.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 04:14 PM
33	3 Body Language Tweaks That Actually Works I'd like to add that keeping your chest out and shoulders back is a great thing to practice too. You have more of a presence and people who are slumped over give off a low-confidence vibe.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 03:36 PM
2	Seducing women while studying abroad. It really shouldn't matter. You should be able to pull women regardless. Body language is going to be key. To be honest, chances are they at least know a bit of English anyways.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 03:33 PM
3	I am great otherwise but I struggle with the PULL itself. Dude, you shouldn't have trouble keeping the girl waiting for 20 min. If she loses interest in you in that short period of time, you have other things to work on. It sounds like you need to work on your overall game. Why are you still thinking about a line to say when you're outside the club? What do you say to follow up the line you devised as the one that will land you the girl? Just practice practice practice. Stop trying so hard to get her home. It should all happen naturally. Girls can feel…	/r/seduction	16/08/18 03:31 PM
2	How to spark interest again? Just send something about how you're going out to x and would like her to join you. Chances are she's flaked. You waited fairly long without having much rapport with her. Also, you shouldn't be getting hung up on a girl from a couple of weeks ago you barely had any conversation with.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 03:23 PM