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You can’t dislike something you want. You can lie that you dislike it out of anger but deep down you just know that you’ll never have that something, that you really like to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:19 PM
2

Question about the book. Is there an English version of it? And do you by any chance have a link to it?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 04:28 PM
5

Real question is how you give her the best sex?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 11:04 AM
-2

I don’t think anyone should post their bf, gf if it isn’t come to a stage where it’s serious. Would be awkward changing the bio or posting a new photo and deleting the old ones every year.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:20 PM
3

He’s not a chad then.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:34 PM
7

Nothing we can do except cope…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:05 PM
1

Well maybe it’s better to phrase it like that but still I need to know the harsh truth why.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 08:24 PM
7

It’s interesting to see why she chose him in the first place. Probably everyone should ask their partner about it, it would tell you a lot.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 06:56 PM
4

Fight fire with fire. Porn ftw!
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:21 PM
1

Having the right woman will have 0 negative influence, but you never know it could be the opposite.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 10:44 PM
3

At least future men won’t have the same problems as we do. It sucks that we have to be the sacrifice but it’s for a greater cause.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 11:51 AM
7

By definition there’s nothing wrong with women, if we can’t adapt to them then we are the problem.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 08:25 PM
3

It doesn’t really matter if they care or not. Is there something they could do? I don’t think there is.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 08:12 PM
8

Maybe it’s not right but having basically zero attention from women causes suspicion if a woman shows some interest in me. I always have that one voice in my head and I can’t get rid of it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 10:30 PM
5

Post nut clarity determines what you really are. If you still want to be with here in that moment then she’s the one.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:32 PM
1

Multiverse of madness.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:33 PM
2

I’m too stressed and anxious to stop doing the only thing that clears my head.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:32 PM
0

People usually say that because they don’t know your situation or just don’t want you to make a decision so early in life that maybe you would regret later.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:21 PM
-4

I can’t decide who’s right or wrong from a 45 sec video.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:59 PM
2

For some us it’s over before it begins. It is what it is.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:39 AM
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/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:20 PM
2

What do you think “we” can change?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 07:15 AM
5

Just because you don’t hear it doesn’t mean that it isn’t there.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:19 PM
1

You’re not a simp if you just use them for getting laid.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:11 PM
2

There’s only one endgame if you put all the blame on men, and you wouldn’t like that endgame.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:01 PM
0

Personality but idk how you would present that in OLD if not on the first date.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:58 PM
3

No one can guarantee that we come back.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:55 PM
2

Yeah mate, I am. Of course, my pleasure to have a photo of us as my pfp.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 01:10 PM
0

If you can act like this and still have women wanting to have sex with you, then I don’t know why people think incels can’t have sex because of their attitude.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:08 AM
1

I heard you can use their period calendar to increase the chances of getting sex. 🫢
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:00 AM
12

Incel is considered as a very bad word in society today, and everything bad is considered ugly. The bad guy in a fairy tale is always portrayed as an ugly, scary goblin.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 10:45 AM
8

That’s not dating, that’s being her slave. If you as an attractive guy get that kind of treatment then god help the rest of us.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 03:30 PM
0

You need two people to make a relationship work, so both of them should put effort in. Not just women, no one can enjoy sex if they’re stressed and too busy working their ass off. Pregnancy and childbirth is hard I believe you and it sounds like you would need a lot of support in that period which I’m sure a good husband would provide you with. You’re making it seem like only women have it hard, so you justify the actions of selfishly spending technically his money. And yeah I know my name is ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:34 PM
1

You’re acting as if women don’t enjoy sex. You’re both sharing your bodies and you both get something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:40 PM
4

Yeah just sit in the corner and mind your own business while we do what we want. The injustice is so unbearable, it’s makes you wanna just…
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 12:45 PM
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It won’t be so popular if people didn’t pay for it. It’s selling your body but it’s way better than porn because you’re your own boss. And I understand if people do it if they are in some tough financial situation and use that as a business opportunity. I just don’t get why girls from rich families do it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:57 PM
4

So you do it again and again… until the only thing you know is that good moment.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 06:26 PM
3

Well shaming as you mentioned is one kind of revenge. Revenge like revenge makes you feel good, rewarding, like you’re delivering justice.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 06:17 PM
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I don’t think that there’s a solution but even if someone found one right now it won’t have an immediate effect. So I guess people are frustrated for that and seek revenge, well at least some sort of revenge.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:55 PM
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When you can’t really explain why you love her. I think that’s it.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 12:58 PM
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I don’t see any other way to fix this except to convince chads to stop accepting sex from women below their level, but do you really think they would care? Calling women out would only bring you bad reputation. That’s not the smartest thing to do.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:17 PM
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Even if that’s true there’s nothing we can do about it. Until someone comes up with a well designed plan to change it, I’m sorry but there’s really no point moaning about it.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:26 PM
6

I never attracted a girl, what does that tell you
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 08:55 AM
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Ok, I mean it’s not impossible to not be attracted to a chad.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 09:40 PM
1

More important question is what’s the reason you don’t like them? Why won’t you like a self assured good looking guy who has experience and everyone dwells over. It’s like some delicious food everyone likes.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 08:06 PM
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Some value more quantity over quality, just like different type of businesses value different things and the market shows who’s right and who’s wrong. Personally I’m more about quality than quantity.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 11:19 AM
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So that’s nothing new for you? Why let it bother you then? It’s not like it’s gonna stop.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 11:08 AM
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For now the hope that one day I can be with this girl I love and idealize.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 09:24 AM
1

So my question is: is there anything we could do? Like I don’t care if it has 0.1% chance to succeed. Give me something to live for and don’t tell me the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:38 AM
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I agree about men and women having types they are attracted to, but that isn’t what being picky means. Your sentence about porn and overweight women is completely wrong is the persons type isn’t an overweight woman. In my understanding here’s an example of being picky. If I’m attracted to, let’s say a white wolfcut hairstyle and I have a chance to be with a girl that doesn’t have that hairstyle but she’s pretty decent for my type. So if I decide to decline her then you could say that I’m picky a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:37 PM
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Some are grateful for its escapism. People wouldn’t use it for that if they didn’t need to. So you can say that the internet is a hero as much as it is a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:09 PM
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It’s not like they want hot porn girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:05 PM
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I guess people in prehistoric times never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:07 PM

I can fix her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:43 PM
0

Change the laws so it would be allowed only babies with good genes to be born. Problem fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:54 PM

I was referring to when it’s a normal relationship, but yeah this is funny. Feel sorry for her husband, hope he is loyal to her the same way as she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:41 PM

I would love for her to be interested in me and put in the effort but what you described doesn’t really sound like a healthy relationship. I don’t want her stabbing me because I talked to a female coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:19 PM
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If it was up to me then I wouldn’t even be born, but no one is offering you that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:09 PM
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Just because they can’t doesn’t mean they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:18 AM
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So what should the men who approach and get rejected do? They don’t have the option to stop approaching if they want to get a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:58 PM
2

You can kill the man, but not the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:07 AM
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Plenty of reasons. Not everyone is in a position to make the sacrifice with the chances being so low. It’s pretty clear in who’s favor asking out is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:48 PM
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Not everyone is able to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:22 PM
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Not every man can ask out but every woman can get asked out. It favors women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:25 PM
1

It’s irrelevant if they would or wouldn’t do, the point is they’re not doing it. I’m judging killers, not people who would kill if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:04 AM
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Saying “they would if they could” is pure speculation. Just cause you’re not having fun doesn’t mean the rest of the world needs to stop for you and uplift you. Live your life and they’ll live theirs. This is not the topic of this conversation. She initially said “males don’t care about anything than looks” but men aren’t the ones having sex with the top attractive persons in the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:22 PM
2

But men are not actually doing that, there’s a big difference between a dog that bites and a dog that only barks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:38 PM
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Factual in your book
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:36 PM
1

Yes it is sarcasm, I mean is it that bad that I have to clarify that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:49 PM
2

B but personality can easily change the answer to D.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:35 PM
-2

Oh yeah women get to know hot guys first before they want a LTR with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:31 PM
2

I’d rather be attractive because that’s something rare when it comes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:54 PM
7

It’s either you’re in the top % attractiveness or you’re destined to live a depressing life where you settle if you choose to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:43 PM
2

When do they search for this respectful adult? Surely not in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:28 PM
2

How is that connected?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:14 AM
1

I can’t make positive difference for others when I can’t do it for myself. I’m antisocial, I have anxiety, and most importantly I’m not good enough for a girl I thought I had a chance with. What I’m asking for is the impossible, just magically disappear like I never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:27 AM
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Cuz I’m useless, not good enough, wasting my time here on this planet. With one word I’m a spectator. If only I could give my life to someone who deserves it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:10 PM
2

When I look at the mirror I question my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:48 PM
2

🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:44 AM
1

I think women have a preferred type of a guy which is influenced by something in their teen years. And she tells all her friends/family about her preferences, (for example tall, blonde hair, muscular etc.). I think her ending up with someone who is not that type it’s considered a failure so that’s the last thing they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:11 AM
1

Not every popular guy is a villain Not every not popular guy is a hero I’m sorry to hear about that, he clearly had some mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:51 PM
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Women simultaneously can get sex from the hottest Chad, never be in need or want for dick or a boyfriend You’re missing the while they are young part. YET they settle with an unattractive guy, tolerate dead bedrooms and are forced to work for a living. Not everyone can secure the hot guy for a LTR. So what’s your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:45 PM
57

Women like money -> grown men have money Men like beautiful women -> young women are beautiful Nothing immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:22 PM
6

Morals are being thrown out of the window. I guess they became something irrelevant in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:50 PM
4

Unpopular men regard popular men as villains. Not everyone is a villain but villains are popular, have everything even though they abused their way up. A hero is someone invisible to others, someone sacrificing himself for the greater good just to be dismissed by people. Think about who fits in which category.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:44 PM
1

It is what it is. Only thing you could do is prevent your kids from having the same fate. They’ll be thankful even though they can’t tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:15 PM
1

Only type of rejection I got was “you did nothing wrong but I like you as a friend”. Which tells you nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:56 PM
1

What do you find attractive about yourself? Nothing Would you say you have a high/low/moderate self esteem? Nonexistent Do you feel you have unattractive qualities and what are they if you don't mind sharing? Skinny; small bad teeth; unsymmetrical face; bad facial hair; antisocial; kind and boring; Have you ever gotten any feedback from exes on things you could improve? No relationship. Only thing I got when I asked why she rejected me was that she liked me as a friend. Would you date yourself i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:26 PM

So it’s money then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:00 PM
1

Don’t get cocky, just have something interesting to say. How? I usually don’t have anything to say let alone something interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:46 PM
1

If stupid for you means seeing how things really are then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:29 PM
1

Example? Okay. If I approached the hot girl in uni/school wherever and show a great personality. Then someone more attractive comes with a similar personality like mine. Will she take my personality in consideration when she needs to choose between me and him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:13 PM
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Do you think women need to find you physically attractive before you can say words to them? They need to find you physically attractive to actually give you attention and consider your personality as something that’s not irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:25 PM
-1

This is an act of showing how much you love someone. You’re not manipulating if you really do love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:31 PM
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Nailed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:04 PM
5

They are hitting puberty so it’s normal to be curious what a girl looks like naked, it won’t do any harm seeing it on the internet rather than damage the privacy of a girl irl. How about the other side of the story, how many guys in their 20s haven’t seen a naked girl live?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:12 PM
5

If you’re not able to attract women (which is not easy these days) then you probably never know how a naked woman looks if it wasn’t for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:22 PM
2

No issue with women having a choice but saying men have to progress to catch up women it’s nonsense. Child rearing it’s not something difficult for you because it’s your biology. So you can’t use it as advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:48 AM
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Let me be real guys, women are doing everything men can do. Women have progressed from the days of old Congrats to women for finally progressing, it took them a while. So suddenly women are better than men because they started doing things men have been doing like forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:34 PM
1

I’m curious does a healthy sexual relationship look like porn videos from amateur couples? Is that the closest thing to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:11 PM
5

You think most men care about the person when they are having casual hookups every other day? Pussy is definitely a goal these days and women are valued more because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:02 PM
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Victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:22 AM
4

It’s not like you can go trough the screen and fuck the girl. I don’t know if you actually knew this but a video it’s already taped before you watch it. You’re not there in the room watching them have sex. There’s no reason to care if you don’t even know the girl let alone having some kind of relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:15 AM
1

My point is that sex won’t be main reason I love her in any relationship. That doesn’t mean I don’t want to have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:28 PM
1

Maybe one day, but I don’t see that happening anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:07 PM
1

She makes me feel things by being herself. I don’t see how’s that gonna stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:06 PM
1

I do want to have sex with her, but it’s not the reason I love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:40 PM
1

How do you know you live her? Because every time I see her (in the last few years it was mostly on social media) I feel something unexplainable. When I first met her I felt something strange but as time passed as I got to know her character the feeling got stronger and stronger. I would basically do anything to just be with her and sex isn’t the main thing for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:59 PM
1

Tell that to the love I have for this one girl since I first saw her like 7-8 years ago. And I haven’t even kissed her let alone having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:57 PM
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No, that’s why I’m asking why would she refuse sex in a healthy relationship? Because clearly men aren’t the problem when it comes to having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:42 PM
6

Why wouldn’t she? Sex in a healthy LTR is like ‘icing on the cake’. But I guess women get turned on only if the LTR isn’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:24 PM
1

It’s very hard to pull that off, you’re working with livings beings after all. It would need someone special, a leader who would unite men under one goal. But who knows if that person even exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:51 PM

Humanity will strive based on relationships with real connection. It’s better to save those extra kids rather than making their life hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:20 AM
1

Now make a post for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:15 PM
1

Yes but only in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:31 PM
1

Or just make sure who are you sending them to and who much you know them. Sharing nudes in a healthy relationship has a very good ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:03 AM
1

They are completely different so being the same species is insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:29 AM

If she’s not what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:20 PM
1

Only chads can be in a position to give a chance to a girl to be with someone ‘awesome’, to be with someone who every girl would like to be, so that’s what makes her feel special and can’t turn him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:31 PM
1

I don’t see how anyone can pull that off if he isn’t a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:08 PM
1

Just because you understand them doesn’t mean they are not different from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:48 PM
1

If it comes to that then I’ll do the thing that humans do best, adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:39 PM
1

What could be the reason for a woman to talk about her sexual past in such detail I don’t care why but they should do it more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:13 PM

We are only hearing one side of the story but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:11 AM

and I have to find a way to get the other one in my bed up out of my house before the other shows up, grab a shower, etc with less than 30 mins notice. Type of problems I need in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:39 AM
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Some cases it might be just bitterness so probably don’t take every guys opinion on that as a fact. But you can’t deny the complaints from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:21 PM
1

Nevertheless a big variety of women bodies can attract men, can’t say the same for men, you already know what body type a man has to have to attract a woman. Flat/thin girl? She would be able to attract me. Can a thin man attract a girl? I don’t think so, and I’m the proof for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:40 PM
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You’re showing that you are nothing better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:08 PM
2

People are not one sided, we all come as a package. But most people will see his good and shy side and will stop there. That’s the common mistake, explore a little and you can find what you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:37 PM
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Because everyone can be shallow. But in comparison to women men are less shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:33 PM
3

You never know on what he will use that energy or will he use it for good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:14 PM
8

You don’t see it not because they want a porn star and reject the average woman but because they can’t have the average woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:05 PM
5

Post-nut shows you the real meaning of life, which is nothing but logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:26 PM
6

The real thing is that you are probably wasting your time trying to find something that even you don’t know if it’s better than porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:21 PM
1

It can go both ways you know. What happens if there’s no middle ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:13 AM
1

She won’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:28 PM
5

Great, no one is asking you to care. Why bother commenting about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:48 PM
8

If I’m horny I’ll buy a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:29 PM
7

Depends what you are looking for. For me that’s more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:06 PM
3

I don’t want to communicate with an algorithm Girls are also algorithms if you look at them that way. So men are so stupid that think are having a choice to go for an ai girl while the reality is they are being pushed from the dating market You’re talking about being pushed from the dating world while some can’t even get in it for a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:03 PM
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The same way women know that ugly guys are misogynists without actually hearing them talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:25 PM
2

I would consider utilizing ‘AI GF’ if it comes as a holographic projection that you could replicate the image of a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:52 AM
2

Okay, but women clearly don’t care about that. Their main focus is having fun and be adventurous with those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:39 PM
2

They'll probably marry someone extremely rich later and live happily ever after. I don’t think so, you’ll be dumped after your looks fade away, there’s always is better looking woman than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:16 PM
0

At least you can actually change those things that make you hot. Men don’t have that option to change the things women find attractive because they can’t control those things. So you’re not the one that should be moaning about it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:03 PM
0

I mean did he try to save your marriage or was he totally okay with it. Not gonna lie hearing something like that from a woman you loved for at least 8 years is kinda depressing and devastating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:11 PM
-1

What didn’t work? Your sexual life? How did he feel about your divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:03 PM
1

I don’t really know. Gene editing sounds more achievable than lowering people’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:34 PM
3

Forgot to add about his multiple personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:48 AM
0

Probably because she doesn’t actually love him but his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:40 AM
2

We haven’t found a way to change the game, doesn’t mean there isn’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:29 AM
1

True love is when you don’t pick the other person but it’s almost like he picks you. Basically you love the person’s soul and everything that comes with that. You love and desire it forever even if you can’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:38 PM
1

Do you think men in their 20s could learn about those things if someone told them about it or is it crucial to live trough that stuff themselves. And if you don’t mind telling roughly what those things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:03 PM
38

It’s only an excuse to keep the 80% busy improving themselves while they chase the 20%. And after failing to secure him she will come back to the “improved” guy who thinks he has reached the standards to attract like the 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:41 PM

And that feeling is exclusive to men because I don’t think that you’ll find a woman not being able to explain why she’s into some guy. That tells you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:11 PM

If it’s true love it will last a lifetime, not just some honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:58 PM
2

The reason of the ‘hoe phase’ isn’t that important because women are showing their true nature for the first time in history. You are not stopping it from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:08 PM
1

I desire sex, but I wish i didnt. Which is normal. Sex, relationships are just a distraction. I understand how you feel because I can say that I also feel that way. I desire love with one ideal girl in my mind but I can’t have her. And everyday I regret having these feelings but at the same time I imagine how good would it feel to be with her and not just sexually. Just because those feelings are bad for us doesn’t mean they can’t be beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:29 AM
2

So instead of blaming people can someone make a universal list of how men and women work so that everyone can learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:57 AM
-1

Because there are just more average guys or..? Yes, because as you said there isn’t a link between attractiveness and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:53 AM
1

Everyone can be nasty. But the chance to find a nice guy in the average pool is bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:25 AM
12

Already met her, she didn’t. What would I change is basically everything that would make me attractive to her, I don’t really know the answer so I can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:21 PM
-1

It is reality, we live in a modern world where it’s asked so much from you to succeed which is impossible for some people, some people are not meant to win in that circumstances. Maybe giving up sounds bad but they are doing themselves and a lot of next generations a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:42 PM
15

Your friend is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:27 PM
2

Not exactly scared but knowing that it will happen. So they are doing the only thing that could prevent it. Not everyone is born to succeed, welcome to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:16 PM
4

They do not try for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:08 PM
1

Probably zero, but I don’t care because if she isn’t there then that room is empty for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:55 AM
1

This “your world” thing could mean anything. And she definitely won’t want to know how I see life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:52 PM
7

The plain Jane you described > the popular hot girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:06 PM

Probably not his choice to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:45 PM
2

Someone said swords!?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:11 PM
4

What am I supposed to provide her that her friends can’t? My dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:41 PM
2

Probably did it out of jealousy and for her attention. The things you would do for love…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:27 PM
5

Women using the term NPC while hating guys who play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:15 PM
15

I think its more accurate to say we find most men are just NPCs. We can’t all be clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:00 PM
1

Emotions are what make you weak. It’s harder not to show emotion, no one appreciates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:47 PM
0

She is basically killing the person with words by not telling him the truth. But yeah, I don’t think lying should be a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:08 PM
1

Probably the girl I truly love would feel the same way if I was in the top 10%, I don’t need anything more than her. But if for some reason she still doesn’t like me then pump and dump like there’s no tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:29 PM
1

because there is a low threat of violence in any interaction with a man. Without the sugarcoating: basically women lie and that’s acceptable just because there is a low threat of violence. I didn’t know that it’s acceptable to kill someone just because you feel a low threat of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:26 PM
3

The only guys that can give her a “chance to show herself” are the ones she goes after and tries to secure them. So about 20%, the rest who aren’t genetically gifted looking chads are not in a position to “give her a chance”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:16 PM
1

I don’t need sex to survive? Yes. But why I need sex is when women look for relationship they expect the man to know how to impress her during sex and to know every little detail in their anatomy inside out. So actually we DO need sex but not for the things you think we need. Women created the reason why we need sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:30 AM

I have a rotation of four women currently. What have I done wrong to not have this…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:48 PM

I understand you are willing to take a risk. Is this the right risk to take? If you really trust your friend then ok, but keep your expectations low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:11 PM

Why are you even going? It’s a hostile territory for socially awkward people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:02 PM
3

Since the girl I truly love doesn’t feel the same way I would turn it off if given the chance. It’s only a curse at this point, constantly trying to suppress the feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:53 PM
2

They want a finished product. They will never be with you when you are nothing and motivate you into becoming something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:05 PM
2

They enjoy it but only with the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:15 PM
-2

The clitoris is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:11 PM
1

They are not women, they are heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:06 PM
10

Damn I should’ve told her that I wash my ass, she might’ve not rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:26 PM
3

They are as a consequence of something else they can’t control, nobody wants to be that but when it’s the only choice you must go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:41 PM
3

Not their (18-35) fault tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:20 PM
2

Actually when you think about it I’m on your side, fighting for a world where you don’t have to get ripped just to have a handful of options and choice on who you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:42 PM
2

Problem is that women have a lot of options by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:54 PM
2

It’s not complaining it’s telling the truth. You have no issues, good for you, I don’t expect you to impact on anything because it doesn’t benefit you, you are already dancing on their tune and looks like that you are enjoying it which is what they would want you to feel like if they had control (which they do).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:11 PM
2

I can’t say if you have control over yourself or not, but I’m talking about the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:19 PM
1

You saying that just shows how much control you actually have, and then women will moan about how risky and dangerous the dating world is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:50 PM
9

Winning the genetics lottery isn’t putting work. And without winning that lottery the work you put is insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:43 PM
15

Time to unleash some demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:35 AM

So basically you need to have confidence, doesn’t that mean that it is contributing to being attractive? It’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:20 AM
2

If it’s not what I’m attracted to then yes it’s settling. Women do the same why can’t we?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:44 PM
1

I actually can’t, the moment I saw this girl something in my brain clicked and it hasn’t stopped to this day. I would like to change it because sadly she doesn’t feel the same, but I can’t help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:24 PM
-6

I recommend a solution for preventing a woman lose interest when she’s off birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:52 PM
-3

Solution? Buy a few packs of birth control pills and put one in her morning coffee everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:49 PM
3

But isn’t that insight of personal topics kinda private information, wouldn’t you like to respect that person and also not be seen as pushy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:15 PM
7

And Europe welcoming immigrants is contributing to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:16 PM

Had a dream about her planning to get engaged with someone and I was terrified. I just don’t know how I will react if that happens in real life, and I’m pretty sure it will sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:45 AM
7

You are basically naming men outside of the 20% ‘losers’ and you expect it to be mentioned neutrally. You only want a finished product with great genes to pursue you while you are being yourself, great, I get it. But don’t expect people not to be bias when you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:52 AM
1

Well yes, that could happen too. However there is a bigger chance to be resentful if you get anything lower than that. So the initial comment saying that those men don’t deserve the pc/ps5 just because they would be resentful is not completely right. Getting the ps5/pc is the only chance not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:01 PM
-6

So out of nowhere they get the idea to get fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:08 PM
0

I mean they could
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:57 PM
0

The trick is to be honest if you plan on getting fat later in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:47 PM
9

To me it’s more logical to be resentful towards a women that is your league or lower especially if it’s not the women you like to be with. That for me means settling down for the sake of having a girl. If what you find attractive is not negotiable for women then why would it be for men? You don’t get everything you want in life so it’s pretty normal to be resentful towards something you don’t want but must have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:10 PM
6

So you are saying that a kid who dreams about some expensive toy for Christmas even tho his parents can’t buy it, once he gets it you won’t know that he would like it or? I think it’s the opposite, if he gets some cheap toy you won’t know if he likes it or not, he won’t care if he breaks it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:59 PM
0

Thanks for proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:09 AM
2

So that’s why some people can’t fit in, it’s because everyone else is thrash and not them. I think I got my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:45 AM
1

I’m a long way from being “set”. Would need one more lifetime to achieve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:54 PM
1

I would rather starve to death than be on stage 3 , it just isn’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:50 PM
3

They can because they are the cause of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:03 PM
2

It’s not about fear of getting physically hurt by a girl, it’s more about stabbing or shooting me mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:42 PM
5

If you don’t have fear there is probably something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:33 PM
12

Why go on a date with someone you don’t find attractive? You are wasting his time just to disappoint him in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:25 PM
1

Personality is not a deciding factor, if you plan to play that way, don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:13 PM
2

So niceness is a quality to attract women but it isn’t valued by women. Does that really make it a quality? No it doesn’t. You say it’s easy to be nice, but the person who suffers the most is the nice guy, yet they still are a nice guy. Is it easy to be humiliated by everyone and continue to be nice for the greater good? What’s easier, to maintain peace or to start a war?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:11 PM

Do it, but don’t expect the 90% to work for the survival of your species.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:27 AM

It’s actually analysis of the barrier, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:22 AM

We don’t think, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:07 AM
0

That just proves his theory, why didn’t she chose him when they first met? She probably thought she could do better. Then she had 2 kids (probably by trying to secure a chad) and the value went downhill. Unfortunately he didn’t found anyone for 5 years and she took that opportunity. Yeah you can choose to ignore that but you will live the rest of your life with that in the back of your mind trying to forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:18 AM
1

Won’t be missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:46 AM

Traveling is not hard when you have a private jet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:53 PM
0

They want to be approached by attractive guys, they would approach the attractive guy to try to secure his genes. It’s simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:59 PM
1

But would that vetting be 100% accurate tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:19 PM
3

It seems that women like villains instead of heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:02 PM
-1

General advice never works and you know it, it’s the same bs every girl say. Like tell me the real reason behind it, I think I deserve to know, what’s there to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:41 PM
1

I don’t expect you to care about me, also I’m self improving for women so them being tools for that isn’t something negative. I’m not saying every woman you ask out at the bar or whatever should give me a report why and how. But for something more serious when you really love someone, you are invested in them a lot, so to end up with her saying “I love you but as a friend” it really is frustrating and you feel lost wondering what’s wrong to the point where you don’t even know what’s right anymor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:33 PM
-1

You have a right to be silent but if I’m affected by that situation I have a right to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:41 PM
14

Hypergamy at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:18 PM
-4

From whoever possesses the information they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:02 PM
1

Clarity is crucial for improvement. Otherwise you are going in a minefield wearing a blindfold. So if you don’t know the location of the mines you basically will never succeed. It’s like expecting someone to build a sports car without telling him about aerodynamics. He might get something right with having no clue about it, but it will never succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:01 PM
-5

They have a right to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:42 PM
15

They are peak genes and physical looks, everyone wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:25 AM
3

They are definitely not the same as males, they think differently, they act differently. If you want to communicate successfully with someone whose brain works differently from yours then firstly you need to understand how their brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:58 AM
9

Come on, only males that are promiscuous are the top 20%, but no one is allowed to talk bad about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:27 PM
1

Just saying how dangerous and wrong that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:14 PM
2

You can take over the world with that 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:05 PM
2

I would say let’s lose/gain weight together. Both of us would improve and it will minimize the risk of her leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:19 PM
2

I think that they will start doing that if they acknowledge that the woman probably isn’t attracted to them and is using them for security so they aren’t doing nothing wrong or bad for the relationship if they use her for sex. Everyone saying is morals and too good for it, yes they can still be good and have morals after using her for sex in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:00 AM

Anyone can say yes/no, but that’s not what we talk about. A man can’t choose a woman (not including the top guys), he is left for a woman to choose him. He is basically left on mercy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:31 PM

That’s what you would want others to think while you have control over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:12 PM

A women saying why incels self loath online? I definitely don’t care about that perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:01 PM
22

How would you do that if you don’t have the option to go on dates while young and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:53 PM
18

Unattractive women don’t know their place why should unattractive men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:15 PM
2

Guy A if that means the girl I love would love me too, but if that’s not the case then I would go with B.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:30 AM
4

Oh believe me, overthinking is my best feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:10 PM

Thanks for proving my point I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:33 PM
1

I know what they have to be, the question is how do I make it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:04 PM
1

How do I make it reciprocal then? If more people would strive for idealism the world would be a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:01 PM
1

Mental illness? Isn’t that what love is? Unconditional and never ending no matter what. I don’t need a benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:48 PM
3

Chads have the privilege to just go after sex. When the lonely virgin wants just sex then it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:01 PM
1

I get it, girls are being attracted to looks but when somebody loves you to the point you would die for them then they don’t care about it. It makes me question what love is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:24 PM
1

What if you truly love someone that you would die for that person. Wouldn’t that make her attracted to you or what should you do to make that person realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:52 AM
2

Lots of people are already single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:42 AM
2

proves womenI live (mostly white) are very racist against dating latino stereotypes. That just proves that women only go for looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:22 AM

Thank you, but I’m very aware of this advice. I believe in only one true love, everything else feels like betrayal and it kinda loses its integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:28 PM
0

“Addicted to porn” - does this mean anyone who watches it regularly for stress relief or when you can’t get off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:30 PM
4

You’re right it’s not a negative, overpopulation is getting sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:16 PM
6

I’m buying a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:09 PM
15

Most often with a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:46 PM
1

I don’t know, ask someone who is experienced with relationships. All I know is that there are good ones and if they truly love you then they will never turn on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:42 AM
1

I will be more cautious before actually putting them in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:21 AM
0

That’s why you don’t judge a person without getting to know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:16 AM
-2

Women get told that to stay safe from the men that actually are psychopaths and do that stuff, but you know who else is detriment by that? The actual good men. I know you have a picture of men like they are villains but remember they can’t be called villains if there are no heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:12 PM

I think it’s better for a start to educate people rather than creating new laws just to punish them. enforce dating in womens favors? Making it illegal to ask women out on dates for example. Dating already is in women’s favor, they have all the control in who they choose to date. I don't know what more they can ask for than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:54 PM
6

It’s impossible to pull that off. But it will definitely work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:40 PM
1

Big if, but maybe my only chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:32 PM
0

Also they’ll compare you to all the other guys they have been with before. The taller guy, the hotter guy, the guy who was better in the sack, the guy who had a better job, the guy who partied etc etc. Then it’s time to pump and dump, if you never had a chance to do that in your 20’ you have it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:15 PM
1

They will probably be settled with a hottie by then so it’s irrelevant. 30’ is when virgins finally have the ball at their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:59 PM
1

So you’re saying that I might still have a chance with the girl I love?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:48 PM
0

Good transactional sex is what makes him the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:36 AM
1

I would say B or C, as long as it’s good and regular sex I’m down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:05 AM
19

Horny and lonely. Nothing worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:28 PM
1

Combination of 2 and 3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:01 PM
1

If I had to lie to be with the girl I love then I wouldn’t do it. She deserves to know, depends on the lie but if she finds out it may ruin her life and that means it would ruin my life because I love her. I’m already an alone virgin so I can manage to satisfy my urges in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:15 AM
2

I prefer slim, but I don’t mind curvy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:53 AM
0

In reality you could teach her to be your porn star if she’s willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:13 PM
2

Quite the opposite, I think it’s much better and easier to communicate and understand with a smart person. It’s not always a good idea to be the smartest person in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:15 PM

I hesitate about ending it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:38 AM

I don’t get how chads with curly hair and big dick, and chads with straight hair and big dick, are more varied tastes than “ours”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:34 AM
1

Well I think she doesn’t feel the same way, maybe she doesn’t find me good enough for her, I don’t really know I don’t wanna guess. Only thing I feel guilty for is the way I treated her sometimes. I mean we were basically young and I was kinda doing it to get her attention all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:53 PM
1

You ignored everything else, and that’s your conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:04 PM
1

Considering I can’t be with the girl I truly love, I don’t get the point of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:37 PM
1

I don’t think that they want a relationship while being young. On one side you have these men with their elite genes following their natural urge to pump and dump, on the other side you have women who want to explore while being young with their “freedom” in the dating scene. What do you expect to happen? What can other men do about this? Nothing. When I say nothing I mean not dating in general. If enough men do this, it will send a message.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:38 AM

I think women are delusional for thinking they could secure a top guy for a LTR, while being used for sex. It’s their choice maybe they like it, maybe it’s in their nature to have sex with these guys. Who knows, maybe they will live of that moment for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:31 PM
9

That’s just your natural urges to pump and dump every girl you see. Love is something you see in her soul, no matter what happens it never ends. And that feeling is irreplaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:50 PM
8

The sooner you realize the better. Some of us just aren’t meant for it, because of various reasons. I always thought meeting this girl was at the wrong time in my life, but when you think about it that showed me early in life that I will never be good enough and would be just wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:51 AM
7

That’s just being naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:15 AM
2

Male or female virgins past 30 are rare (1-2%). The number will increase in the future. And among that tiny percentage of a tiny percentage, you have to find someone who you’re also otherwise reasonably compatible with. It’s already hard in your 20s with all those “options”. If your just not meant for it you can search for million years and you won’t find anyone. Actually something being rare is a positive, real suffering is when you can see something and you almost can touch it, but you never w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:46 AM
1

Well I can’t prove you something you don’t want to be proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:44 AM
3

Unconditional love exists, but mostly it’s not mutual. For example I love this girl and I don’t get nothing in return, I just love her for being her. I will love her till the end of my life no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:06 PM
5

Because you can predict the future based on the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:01 PM
2

I’m not saying you’re lying but you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:49 PM

I can only imagine the feeling. I guess you never know until you try, but you also don’t want to waste your time for nothing, so that’s why I remain skeptical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:51 PM

Basically if you’re not in the top tier you can never win. The sooner you realize the faster you stop wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:28 PM

It is really that worth it? I mean, the amount of work people need to put is relative, but I’m sure it’s not worth it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:25 PM
1

Ngl but Baywatch was peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:49 AM
6

Or is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:49 PM
14

Not everybody gets the chance to win. So why bother trying to win a lost battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:57 PM
1

You only need one if it’s true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:14 PM
5

Having confidence is just an another saying that you are physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:23 PM
7

what would a woman's top priority in a man be? Job? Net worth? Appearance? Personality? Let’s be real, for women looks are essential. All the other qualities they want you need to add them to the looks. Looks are like a base of a building.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:21 PM
3

Yes my queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:59 PM
2

The difference is that average men can put effort but will not succeed in it, while average women have a higher chance to secure a top guy. So that effort doesn’t really matter when you see the whole picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:55 PM
2

Good news, the 80/20 rule is a myth. Bad news, no one believes that. Also it's good to hear acknowledgement that all these lonely dudes only hate women who have casual sex because they're not having casual sex with them. I never said that. Maybe some of them hate them because of that but mostly it’s not that simple. Average guys “hate” women because when it’s about the top guys they are open to be promiscuous and do everything to secure them (or should I say their genes) but when it’s average gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:12 PM
3

Look at how many dudes complain about how average men can't get casual sex and in the same breath will shit all over women who have a higher body count. They didn’t wanted women to be promiscuous only for the top 20% and to settle with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:59 PM
3

I think it’s more of a “easy money” from OF than to be what men were asking from them. Nobody can make you do something you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:35 AM
3

Maybe one day, for the sake of not dying a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:14 AM
8

I know what kind of pussy I will be drowning in, so no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:00 AM
13

Yes, for all of us who can’t even attract a mosquito on a summer night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:46 AM
13

Chances you find them are slim, and even slimmer to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:41 AM
1

Well I better not mention mine then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:28 AM

If staying in your lane means lowering your standards, then we don’t want that. If I want to I will aim for the stars even if it means I will never reach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:16 AM
3

They only way to do ton of cold approaches is to be one of those who do it. Meaning you have to completely change your looks, personality etc. Is that possible? Will a cat ever be a tiger?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:45 PM
-2

Of course not. Fucked by multiple people would make her a “used toy” imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:20 PM
2

They like virgins because the see her as an untouched object that they get to play with first. Or maybe they don’t want to play with used toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:44 PM
1

I mean if he missed out in his youth would you blame him for wanting to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:39 PM
1

It’s easier to deal with a loss as a low level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:28 PM
0

Yet people still go out there and try, every day. Some of them go out there because they are blinded by hope. I’m not going to be able to internet debate you out of depression. Seek help for that, and your life will open up afterwards. Just because I can see things that are not worth wasting your time for doesn’t mean that I need help. How do you know it’s not you and all the people wasting their time that need help?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:48 PM
1

• Physical appearance • Money • Social status etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:03 PM
1

There's no stuff that's guaranteed to get you a woman. Exactly. Even if you tick all the boxes on the checklist it’s not guaranteed to get a woman. So why waste time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:36 PM
2

Nothing in life is guaranteed. Technically yes, but there are things that are very close to being guaranteed that you almost can call them guaranteed. Obviously finding a woman isn’t one of them, why waste time. Why do you get up in the morning? Because it’s not my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:33 PM
2

Doing all that stuff to get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:25 PM
1

So if you’re not guaranteed then what’s the point of doing it in the first place? Isn’t it wasting time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:10 PM
1

From what I've seen, many of you don't even believe that exceptions from all these bad things exist, like you don't even believe some kind of dream woman exists. I believe that a dream woman exists because I met one, but the chances that she would like you back are very slim, at least for me. So why even pursue a relationship with a woman? I don’t, and if I ever will it would be just to fulfill my natural urges and nothing more. Because I lost my dream woman, and you only get one chance to get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:50 PM
3

I don’t think it’s right to force people to be with someone they don’t think it’s worth being with and would rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:26 PM
7

I was put here to make woman as happy as they can be maybe o n e day I'll find the one I can spend all my time making every new day a happier better It’s like feeding a dog while it barks at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:06 PM
9

Choosing the second and aiming for the first one. If I was desired by many people probably I would be desired by the person I truly love, and if I’m not then I have all those girls on rotation to comfort me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:38 PM
1

• it’s too late • they feel like it’s not worth their time • bad genes • it won’t change anything And so on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:30 PM
2

Not if you’re a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:00 PM
1

There is a reason they won’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:56 PM
3

The truth is in between these 3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:52 PM
7

Technically not a child yet so… and maybe you are making him a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:13 PM
8

Free abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:27 PM
1

Money can you anything these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:17 PM
1

I don’t know but I assume you don’t have the sex skills and physical looks of a prostitute. You can charge that money but you need to find someone naive who will pay that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:15 PM
2

I take it you're not with this girl, and it's not going to happen? You're not compatible? Probably it’s never gonna happen, I’m not sure why. I guess she’s not attracted to me or maybe I didn’t show myself worthy for her, I’m not sure. It really broke me so I just gave up at some point. If so, then... look, I get it. But you don't have to betray your love to move on, and allow her to move on. It really feels like betrayal, because it’s not a coincidence I have those feelings only for her, and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:36 PM
3

Why do you do it if you don’t enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:54 PM
1

I’m sorry but you can’t get over something you truly love, something you would die for. Call it infatuation, call it whatever you want. My perception of that girl is based on facts. My feelings towards her are real and they are irreplaceable. If that’s not love, I don’t know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:26 PM
1

What do you expect me to do? If you truly love someone you don’t just forget about it and live your life like nothing happened. It gotta mean more than that, I believe it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:58 AM
0

500 in an hour? Are you having a laugh? I’m not speaking about escorts, they get those money for a reason. You can’t ask for that money if you’re not an escort. Or are you? Let’s be real. How much do you think it would cost for a “normal” woman who is going on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:16 AM
1

Not social but I gathered courage to “approach” the girl I still love to this day and I’m sure that’s gonna be my last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:56 AM
6

think you can buy pussy for the cost of an Applebee's entree. How much then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:46 AM

The grass is always greener if you never learn to be satisfied with your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:41 AM
2

It’s like day and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:17 AM
8

Giving a shit about yourself doesn’t mean to use someone else’s money to fulfill your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:08 PM
5

For me the main reason why she stands out is her SOUL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:42 PM
4

Basically they want the attractive guys to have those traits. I wonder what will the next thing be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:29 PM
2

Not everyone has the chance to end up with someone they truly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:50 PM
2

Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:48 PM
1

I will go for A, because fuck genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:48 PM
3

I mean it’s never gonna happen so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:18 PM
3

That means that hetero men in the top 20% will stop having casual sex. That’s a W
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:09 PM
16

“It’s not a privilege because it has risks” A rich person has risks to be robbed, still doesn’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:05 PM
5

When you say partner you mean a finished product?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:30 PM
4

Welcome to the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:17 AM
0

It’s not a fantasy, the feelings are very real. And if it was fantasy, the creation of it was encouraged by her character, the fantasy with anyone else wouldn’t work. Isn’t that love? It’s never ending. Maybe it’s not mutual but that doesn’t change the way I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:30 AM
1

I do care about what she wants, but regardless of that I still love her and have real feelings for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:52 AM
-2

I do, but that doesn’t make my love for her to go away. I don’t have a choice, it’s almost like she picked me, isn’t that what true love is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:45 PM
0

Because if it’s true love it’s gotta mean more than just moving from women to women. Even if she doesn’t love you back, they way you feel while looking at her is something irreplaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:05 PM
0

Only she can fix me, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:57 PM
1

It’s like racing against a Ferrari with a Ford Focus. Do what you want, put a V8 in your Focus, you aint catching the Ferrari.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:32 PM
1

It’s easy to know your audience when everyone wants to fuck you. Finding my audience? It’s like searching for people who like a Ford Focus while everyone wants a red Ferrari.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:55 AM
1

Of course he’s afraid, not of leaving the cage but of what happens next. It may not survive in outside world or simply may not like the food he finds there. It’s his duty to solve the problem, but that problem is caused by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:22 PM
-1

You know what a ‘nice guy’ is? An animal in a cage. Don’t blame the animal for being in a cage, blame the ones who put it there. Aka society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:20 PM
15

It’s in their nature, they can’t resist going for him just like “men would fuck anything”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:55 PM
9

But women clearly like that in a guy, the proof is the high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:50 PM
17

That’s right, those guys are too busy keeping girls on rotation, they have no use to be on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:41 PM
0

Handling a conflict well isn’t about fighting with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:57 PM
1

Considering that real love is something you don’t choose to love often that person doesn’t love you back. So in reality you end up with someone you don’t love or doesn’t love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:14 PM
0

You love them because you didn’t choose them, but they chose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:46 PM
0

This was supposed to be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:15 PM
9

So you are saying women like the top guys just because they enjoy being around them and not because of their hot bodies to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:30 PM
5

It’s never simple as shooting a msg out. Or maybe you are referring to an ideal situation where the guy is a hot guy. About wasting time, you don’t include the time invested outside of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:28 PM
8

It’s gonna be too late imo, the guys who were attractive from young age got all the girls. I mean, I don’t know if you care about that but expect to deal with a lot of “recycled stuff”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:22 PM
-1

I’m not saying you won’t make money but the chances are very slim that you would make the money he has to offer you. Women say they like their partner to be the best, so even if you are average you still could pull this out. Why wouldn’t you? On one side they say they want the best on the other side they say that they don’t want to go after them. What’s the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:47 AM
2

All I would say is there are reasons why fish can’t live on land.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:13 AM
3

I’m not saying to live completely without hope for everything, only for things you know won’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:24 AM
4

Because even if you know as a fact that you will never find someone and be happy in that area of your life, if you don’t eliminate hope then it will slowly kill you with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:17 AM
-3

You don’t get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:02 AM
2

It’s hope that kills you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:53 AM

I am myself a 22 Year old dude that never struggled with women and i never understood why man are so hateful. I currently have 3 Fwbs, Tells you everything you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:28 PM
1

For some it’s over before it even starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:31 PM
0

Does it really matter? Early twenties. And I don’t need any false hope, because like I said “it’s hope that kills you” while nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:15 PM
0

Most men find a partner eventually so saying never is unlikely but sure don’t people will never but these are rare. It’s hope that kills you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:03 PM
0

Let’s say you don’t need to be in that 20%. You still need something to find a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:40 PM
1

I thought masturbating is way different to sex. In most cases people who watch porn haven’t had sex so how would you know how sex looks if you just masturbate? You’re still missing out. This way at least you know how it looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:30 AM
0

No requirements for starting dating, but there are requirements for succeeding in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:07 AM
1

If poison was the closest thing for me to experience sex and all that then I would 100% take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:00 AM
0

Imagine you are in a desert (meaning you have no chances to have sex with someone and you probably never will) and porn was the only bottle of water you had. Will you drink it or keep looking for a oasis while dying in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:02 AM
6

It’s irrelevant how other women view that because either way they don’t want to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:24 PM
3

There is, but mostly is one sided so you end up with someone you probably don’t like and you regret being born for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:37 PM
3

Love is something that must be earned. If you had to earn pure love then is it really pure love? Too many underachieving kids and adults in this world who think they’re owed something. Earn it! Sorry how do the “achieving” people aka top guys earn girls? By good genetics right? Have we found a way to change our DNA or what am I supposed to do. Since we haven’t discovered that yet I guess the purification of the human race will continue this way. And hope it doesn’t end like it did 70 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:16 PM
5

Kind of like how women nowadays act. They get treated like shit by all the top 20% men and look how they blame all men for it. But they still try to secure the top guy and they still have a higher chance doing that than most men have securing a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:59 PM
3

Very attractive body I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:12 PM
1

I can’t say I don’t believe in love because I’m madly in love with a girl, and by that I don’t mean her body but with her character. HOWEVER, I don’t believe in mutual love, you only ask for one thing(to be loved back from that person) and you never get it. Wish we could choose in who we fall in love or not be in love at all, because it’s only suffering imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:24 PM

You can define anyone who doesn’t agree with you as mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:13 PM
3

I don’t need to do anything, because I won’t even get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:33 PM

Can you blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:44 PM
3

I would rather have bad sex with lot of girls than not have it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:28 PM
1

There always will be negative sides no matter what. I can’t speak from your perspective but I can tell you ours and it’s not nice either. I don’t see a solution, not in close future. Maybe accepting that their not good enough will lower the number of resentful men and will let women enjoy their life with the attractive ones. Let’s just give up, what’s the point after all. And let me clarify that I don’t think violence is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:03 PM
17

I don’t need to see every bird fly to know that birds can fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:59 PM
1

The problem is the hypocrisy, why tell me that looks don’t matter when they do. Just tell me that my looks are worthless and you won’t be with me even if I was the only choice. And about people saying things, they always will, the sooner you understand that the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:46 PM
28

Also, how hot a guy is has absolutely nothing to do with his skills in bed. And yet hot guys have the highest n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:15 PM
12

Saying “men will only use you for kids” while sleeping around with hot guys it’s pure hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:05 PM
57

Dislike only approximately 80% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:56 PM
6

They either can’t catch attention from a chad or failed to secure him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:20 PM
1

I read very well, you don’t get it, I guess nobody does, that’s why the world is on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:57 AM
1

You never will understand if you don’t want to. The problem will never be fixed, it will just get bigger in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:32 AM
3

Well society can swivel on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:09 AM
5

Guess what, there is probably a reason for them to be isolated. Sometimes you have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:05 AM
7

When you say “men have an easier time” you mean about the top 20% ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:52 AM
2

It’s a risk only with average and below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:01 AM
2

In the end it’s better to drop out than to get reminded that you failed every time you see your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:29 PM
0

Yeah because not everyone can find friends that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:09 PM
2

You’re not in a desert, though. Not getting laid isn’t going to cause you to die. There are things worse than dying. Which is why women don’t go after every man: it’s not something life-threatening. Just because you live ruled by your penis doesn’t mean women have to accommodate it. But by your theory every man is ruled by their penis, so why women only accommodate it for the top 20%? It’s ludicrous to “blame” women, even if the idea they only go for the top 20% were true, which it isn’t. That s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:08 PM
0

Real relationships? Give it 10 years and they will be extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:47 PM
4

In a desert you would take every drop of water you can. Women are in a completely different environment where they have plenty of options and they still go for the top 20%. You can blame men for being desperate but you’re a hypocrite if you’re not blaming the women going only for the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:10 PM
-1

Well, aren’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:47 AM
0

It depends what you want, you can be happy with just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:16 AM
3

It’s always the bs about hygiene and stuff, don’t waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:07 PM
0

Friendly reminder: expectations apply only for men who are not in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:02 PM

How does it feel to be a rotation girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:09 AM
0

Women saying they don’t care about n count while they only been with guys with high n count, it just proves the point. High n count = more likely to be attractive to women, it’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:40 PM
0

There are differences of course, but overall it’s similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:22 PM
1

They are not the same, but their nature is. Considering they are based on emotions there is a high chance they do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:11 PM
3

Because it is different. One has penis, the other one vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:42 PM
4

I don’t know about the other women, but because she can fix me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:13 PM
5

You think you’re being sarcastic but actually telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:45 AM
1

I would change it if I could. It’s misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:30 PM
-3

Just like comments made from a female are not relevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:05 PM
16

"To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:01 PM
-1

I wouldn’t be complaining if I could have casual sex with different girls. I don’t care about monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:59 PM

That’s the point, they couldn’t secure the top guy with casual sex so they went for the average one. Some do it earlier some later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:31 PM

While they are young they have casual sex with chads trying to secure them for a long term, and if they don’t succeed and get older they go for average guys. In reality if you’re not in the top guys you either play with old used toys or not play at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:30 AM

It also goes both ways when women want casual sex with the top guys. If it’s gonna be that way then let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:17 PM

Okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:10 PM
2

Hear me out, if all of us agree to do nothing about it women will be forced to pick us or stay single. It’s a fifty-fifty chance in both situations so why not do it the easy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:56 PM
1

The only way is up ⬆️, time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:45 PM

Nobody complains about the top guys, I wonder why 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:31 PM
1

So what’s the solution for us skinny guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:00 PM
1

That’s a load of bs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:36 PM
2

That’s like 0.001% chance for that to happen. Basically you need to be peak male in her eyes for her to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:48 PM
3

Male nature is to find a woman to impregnate as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:15 PM
-3

I’m saying that those preferences will never change to the point where a skinny/fat guy is being viewed as attractive. That’s what I call a “change”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:30 PM
-1

Call it what you want it aint changing and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:55 PM

Or maybe they want to be manipulated by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:04 PM
2

It’s never a big deal until it happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:37 AM
6

• ⁠Manlets have issues, so stay away from midgets, if he isn't 6ft by 21, stay away. We can't ruin or gene pool (sorry fellow short bros.I want tall grandkids) It’s ironic how people say “dont ruin the gene pool” but when a man once fought for it the whole world was against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:33 AM
2

The solution to this problem is simple: just don’t have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:40 AM
1

They never send it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:05 PM
2

The fact that the “bad boy” is honest and they still go for him is kinda concerning. Maybe start questioning the decisions from the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:34 PM
1

Nothing new about nice guys being treated like villains.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:32 PM
1

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:15 PM

Lemme explain this. To be at least noticed by girls you need to be physically attractive, personality comes later as number 2. Out of two people I’m sure that your friend would pick the more attractive one, and not the one with better personality. Conclusion: looks>personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:22 PM
0

Imagine you're very far from being conventionally attractive. Only 1% of women think you're remotely dateable. 1% of women for like 50% of men? Explain me how does that work. And what’s the point if some women who nobody wants found me attractive? It’s like the old broken toys being thrown out and saying “somebody will play with them” while you enjoy with your brand new ones. It's harder to find people who are attracted to you if you are not conventionally attractive, but not impossible. “Not im…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:27 AM

It still matters more than personality so what you’re saying is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:43 AM
2

Living in a world where niceness is a bad thing, and people wonder why we don’t have flying cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:23 PM
2

It’s great for the top tier men. Having all those women on rotation, who wouldn’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:51 PM

OP needs a chair to sit down after this comment 🪑
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:01 AM
3

Because looks > personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:48 PM
11

Basically looks > personality based on your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:23 PM

Someone needs to clear it for you: If you’re not attractive your personality doesn’t matter, thats the take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:19 PM

Change his physical appearance and it’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:20 PM
5

Let them. Only thing I’m gonna say is everything has a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:03 PM
4

Yeah I guess it’s the only way. The big question is “is it worth it”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:28 PM
1

You either die a hero or become the villain. I would rather die a hero (single in this context).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:12 PM
8

Sad reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:21 PM
8

When men have standards it’s a problem and viewed from a different perspective. If you’re happy with the 10% keeping you on rotation, then good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:12 AM
3

If incels actually want help and assistance and for people to give a fuck that they’re suffering maybe they can stop being so insufferable with their threats of word domination. It’s like expecting a Jewish person to care if a Nazi is dying of cancer. You’re on the same level as them if you treat them the same way they treat you. It’s about being the better person, for the greater good. Yeah I’m so scared of the power of the dude who’s too scared to speak in public due to his crippling social an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:56 PM
3

“Nice guys finish last” 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:47 AM
1

The number without context means nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:34 AM
4

Translation of your translation: Only way I can get women is being on their side and praising them like gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:20 PM
7

Why do you prioritize fun for only women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:46 PM
6

Substantially? No. The top 20% still have all the girls on rotation so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:42 AM
1

There’s a difference between can and would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:46 PM
9

It’s called having a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:42 PM

The hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:34 PM
1

You can choose who you ask out but you can’t choose who you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:32 PM
5

Protect the wolf while he eats your sheep, it’s your choice after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:50 PM
2

If anyone don’t mean what they say, then where is the integrity in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:56 AM
1

Its the internets fault!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:08 AM
0

It’s always about proving something, like men are inferior to women. Confidence can be misleading, but hey what do I know. I guess they know more than someone “who only needs a boner to smash”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:42 PM
0

I’m with you on this, we may lose a battle, but trust me we are winning this war.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:26 PM
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