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| 3 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itYou can’t dislike something you want. You can lie that you dislike it out of anger but deep down you just know that you’ll never have that something, that you really like to experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Every woman is a freak. If she is not with you, it's you, bro.Question about the book. Is there an English version of it? And do you by any chance have a link to it? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/23 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Every woman is a freak. If she is not with you, it's you, bro.Real question is how you give her the best sex? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/23 11:04 AM |
| -2 | Why do most females hide their relationship on social mediaI don’t think anyone should post their bf, gf if it isn’t come to a stage where it’s serious. Would be awkward changing the bio or posting a new photo and deleting the old ones every year. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 05:20 PM |
| 3 | even chads are strugglingHe’s not a chad then. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 05:34 PM |
| 7 | I saw so many beautiful girls today i'm strugglingNothing we can do except cope… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueWell maybe it’s better to phrase it like that but still I need to know the harsh truth why. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueIt’s interesting to see why she chose him in the first place. Probably everyone should ask their partner about it, it would tell you a lot. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesFight fire with fire. Porn ftw! | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Are these the most common type of copes ?Having the right woman will have 0 negative influence, but you never know it could be the opposite. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 10:44 PM |
| 3 | amount of chads is growing.At least future men won’t have the same problems as we do. It sucks that we have to be the sacrifice but it’s for a greater cause. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/11/23 11:51 AM |
| 7 | Women are superior to average menBy definition there’s nothing wrong with women, if we can’t adapt to them then we are the problem. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Do the bros not care if their friend is romanticaly lonely. Like why don't bros be like "Damn hes really lonely I should help set him up with a girl"It doesn’t really matter if they care or not. Is there something they could do? I don’t think there is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 08:12 PM |
| 8 | No Interest In Women AnymoreMaybe it’s not right but having basically zero attention from women causes suspicion if a woman shows some interest in me. I always have that one voice in my head and I can’t get rid of it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 5 | has anyone here even questioned , how men would interact with women if they get an adequate supply of sexPost nut clarity determines what you really are. If you still want to be with here in that moment then she’s the one. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | If the universe if infinite then somewhere out there you are omega giga beyond alpha chad cus theres infinite possibilitiesMultiverse of madness. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | No Nut November CopeI’m too stressed and anxious to stop doing the only thing that clears my head. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 08:32 PM |
| 0 | "Dude you are only 19-20-21-22, It's too young to hire escorts, wait late 20s"People usually say that because they don’t know your situation or just don’t want you to make a decision so early in life that maybe you would regret later. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 07:21 PM |
| -4 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughI can’t decide who’s right or wrong from a 45 sec video. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | I've given upFor some us it’s over before it begins. It is what it is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Why females are so narcissistic and egocentric? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | The endgameWhat do you think “we” can change? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 07:15 AM |
| 5 | One of the popular dating subreddits had to pin a comment about how blackpill/inceldom is not allowed in there space. Okay but the fact that the subbreddit had to write a PINNED post about it shows how popular it is.Just because you don’t hear it doesn’t mean that it isn’t there. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to force men and women to date or fuck ugly people will never workYou’re not a simp if you just use them for getting laid. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 09:11 PM |
| 2 | The endgameThere’s only one endgame if you put all the blame on men, and you wouldn’t like that endgame. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 09:01 PM |
| 0 | What makes one ugly woman more special than the other?Personality but idk how you would present that in OLD if not on the first date. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 08:58 PM |
| 3 | If you are an incel I can give you one comforting piece of advice, this life is only temporary.No one can guarantee that we come back. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do people assume that you're ugly jus cus you're incel?Yeah mate, I am. Of course, my pleasure to have a photo of us as my pfp. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/10/23 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Why do women think that I give a shit about their troubles?If you can act like this and still have women wanting to have sex with you, then I don’t know why people think incels can’t have sex because of their attitude. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/10/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Manipulating women to sex?! How is it even doable ?! You all just like to paint men as evil in romanceI heard you can use their period calendar to increase the chances of getting sex. 🫢 | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/10/23 11:00 AM |
| 12 | Why do people assume that you're ugly jus cus you're incel?Incel is considered as a very bad word in society today, and everything bad is considered ugly. The bad guy in a fairy tale is always portrayed as an ugly, scary goblin. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/10/23 10:45 AM |
| 8 | Women lose interest over the most trivial things, no matter how good looking you are if you make one even remotely awkward move they get the “ick” and there’s nothing you can do to retrieve itThat’s not dating, that’s being her slave. If you as an attractive guy get that kind of treatment then god help the rest of us. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?You need two people to make a relationship work, so both of them should put effort in. Not just women, no one can enjoy sex if they’re stressed and too busy working their ass off. Pregnancy and childbirth is hard I believe you and it sounds like you would need a lot of support in that period which I’m sure a good husband would provide you with. You’re making it seem like only women have it hard, so you justify the actions of selfishly spending technically his money. And yeah I know my name is ir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?You’re acting as if women don’t enjoy sex. You’re both sharing your bodies and you both get something out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelYeah just sit in the corner and mind your own business while we do what we want. The injustice is so unbearable, it’s makes you wanna just… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/10/23 12:45 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on only fans? Why is it bad / fine?It won’t be so popular if people didn’t pay for it. It’s selling your body but it’s way better than porn because you’re your own boss. And I understand if people do it if they are in some tough financial situation and use that as a business opportunity. I just don’t get why girls from rich families do it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/10/23 07:57 PM |
| 4 | How women pick, and why they pick.So you do it again and again… until the only thing you know is that good moment. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | How women pick, and why they pick.Well shaming as you mentioned is one kind of revenge. Revenge like revenge makes you feel good, rewarding, like you’re delivering justice. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 06:17 PM |
| 5 | How women pick, and why they pick.I don’t think that there’s a solution but even if someone found one right now it won’t have an immediate effect. So I guess people are frustrated for that and seek revenge, well at least some sort of revenge. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you really love someone ?When you can’t really explain why you love her. I think that’s it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 12:58 PM |
| 5 | What Women Have To Do To Get A Man's Commitment.I don’t see any other way to fix this except to convince chads to stop accepting sex from women below their level, but do you really think they would care? Calling women out would only bring you bad reputation. That’s not the smartest thing to do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What Women Have To Do To Get A Man's Commitment.Even if that’s true there’s nothing we can do about it. Until someone comes up with a well designed plan to change it, I’m sorry but there’s really no point moaning about it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Do you think you're ugly?I never attracted a girl, what does that tell you | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 08:55 AM |
| 3 | I don't find Chad attractive at all. What is the blackpill explanation for this?Ok, I mean it’s not impossible to not be attracted to a chad. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/10/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I don't find Chad attractive at all. What is the blackpill explanation for this?More important question is what’s the reason you don’t like them? Why won’t you like a self assured good looking guy who has experience and everyone dwells over. It’s like some delicious food everyone likes. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/10/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | New pussy good but that home pussy make you feel safeSome value more quantity over quality, just like different type of businesses value different things and the market shows who’s right and who’s wrong. Personally I’m more about quality than quantity. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/10/23 11:19 AM |
| 0 | Just saw some chadlite wearing pajamas sitting near me get cold approached for his number in my uni dining hallSo that’s nothing new for you? Why let it bother you then? It’s not like it’s gonna stop. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/10/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Whats keeping you aliveFor now the hope that one day I can be with this girl I love and idealize. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/10/23 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winSo my question is: is there anything we could do? Like I don’t care if it has 0.1% chance to succeed. Give me something to live for and don’t tell me the odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Here is the real problemI agree about men and women having types they are attracted to, but that isn’t what being picky means. Your sentence about porn and overweight women is completely wrong is the persons type isn’t an overweight woman. In my understanding here’s an example of being picky. If I’m attracted to, let’s say a white wolfcut hairstyle and I have a chance to be with a girl that doesn’t have that hairstyle but she’s pretty decent for my type. So if I decide to decline her then you could say that I’m picky a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Here is the real problemSome are grateful for its escapism. People wouldn’t use it for that if they didn’t need to. So you can say that the internet is a hero as much as it is a villain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Here is the real problemIt’s not like they want hot porn girls though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?I guess people in prehistoric times never had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can fix her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:43 PM |
| 0 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Change the laws so it would be allowed only babies with good genes to be born. Problem fixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:54 PM |
| – | What a woman perceives a man when she loves him.I was referring to when it’s a normal relationship, but yeah this is funny. Feel sorry for her husband, hope he is loyal to her the same way as she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:41 PM |
| – | What a woman perceives a man when she loves him.I would love for her to be interested in me and put in the effort but what you described doesn’t really sound like a healthy relationship. I don’t want her stabbing me because I talked to a female coworker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV : You being unattractive is literally only your faultIf it was up to me then I wouldn’t even be born, but no one is offering you that choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:09 PM |
| 3 | What type of man should a virgin woman choose?Just because they can’t doesn’t mean they’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?So what should the men who approach and get rejected do? They don’t have the option to stop approaching if they want to get a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Darwin's law of natural selectionYou can kill the man, but not the idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 11:07 AM |
| 6 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?Plenty of reasons. Not everyone is in a position to make the sacrifice with the chances being so low. It’s pretty clear in who’s favor asking out is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 10:48 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?Not everyone is able to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 10:22 PM |
| 9 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?Not every man can ask out but every woman can get asked out. It favors women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?It’s irrelevant if they would or wouldn’t do, the point is they’re not doing it. I’m judging killers, not people who would kill if they could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Saying “they would if they could” is pure speculation. Just cause you’re not having fun doesn’t mean the rest of the world needs to stop for you and uplift you. Live your life and they’ll live theirs. This is not the topic of this conversation. She initially said “males don’t care about anything than looks” but men aren’t the ones having sex with the top attractive persons in the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?But men are not actually doing that, there’s a big difference between a dog that bites and a dog that only barks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:38 PM |
| -2 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Factual in your book | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Yes it is sarcasm, I mean is it that bad that I have to clarify that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?B but personality can easily change the answer to D. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:35 PM |
| -2 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Oh yeah women get to know hot guys first before they want a LTR with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?I’d rather be attractive because that’s something rare when it comes to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 09:54 PM |
| 7 | Why do men not like women "settling" for them if they are doing the same thing?It’s either you’re in the top % attractiveness or you’re destined to live a depressing life where you settle if you choose to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do men not like women "settling" for them if they are doing the same thing?When do they search for this respectful adult? Surely not in their 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Is trying to get into a relationship with a woman really worth it?How is that connected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can’t make positive difference for others when I can’t do it for myself. I’m antisocial, I have anxiety, and most importantly I’m not good enough for a girl I thought I had a chance with. What I’m asking for is the impossible, just magically disappear like I never existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCuz I’m useless, not good enough, wasting my time here on this planet. With one word I’m a spectator. If only I could give my life to someone who deserves it more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I look at the mirror I question my existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread🙋♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Are women socially embarrassed if they don't have a hot guy?I think women have a preferred type of a guy which is influenced by something in their teen years. And she tells all her friends/family about her preferences, (for example tall, blonde hair, muscular etc.). I think her ending up with someone who is not that type it’s considered a failure so that’s the last thing they want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Pure (and deficient) gaslighting: "It's not about him being an evil man. The key is his self-confidence."Not every popular guy is a villain Not every not popular guy is a hero I’m sorry to hear about that, he clearly had some mental issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 07:51 PM |
| 19 | Women not being attracted to their partners - Is it really true?Women simultaneously can get sex from the hottest Chad, never be in need or want for dick or a boyfriend You’re missing the while they are young part. YET they settle with an unattractive guy, tolerate dead bedrooms and are forced to work for a living. Not everyone can secure the hot guy for a LTR. So what’s your argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 01:45 PM |
| 57 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Women like money -> grown men have money Men like beautiful women -> young women are beautiful Nothing immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Pure (and deficient) gaslighting: "It's not about him being an evil man. The key is his self-confidence."Morals are being thrown out of the window. I guess they became something irrelevant in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Pure (and deficient) gaslighting: "It's not about him being an evil man. The key is his self-confidence."Unpopular men regard popular men as villains. Not everyone is a villain but villains are popular, have everything even though they abused their way up. A hero is someone invisible to others, someone sacrificing himself for the greater good just to be dismissed by people. Think about who fits in which category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | WHY do I have to self improve just to get what others do naturally????????It is what it is. Only thing you could do is prevent your kids from having the same fate. They’ll be thankful even though they can’t tell you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you reject guys you aren't interested in?Only type of rejection I got was “you did nothing wrong but I like you as a friend”. Which tells you nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Men: how do you feel about yourself? What do you think of yourself?What do you find attractive about yourself? Nothing Would you say you have a high/low/moderate self esteem? Nonexistent Do you feel you have unattractive qualities and what are they if you don't mind sharing? Skinny; small bad teeth; unsymmetrical face; bad facial hair; antisocial; kind and boring; Have you ever gotten any feedback from exes on things you could improve? No relationship. Only thing I got when I asked why she rejected me was that she liked me as a friend. Would you date yourself i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:26 PM |
| – | “Women don’t like nice guys” because they’re is a difference between being nice & being kindSo it’s money then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?Don’t get cocky, just have something interesting to say. How? I usually don’t have anything to say let alone something interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "Confidence", Personality, and Physical AttractivenessIf stupid for you means seeing how things really are then sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "Confidence", Personality, and Physical AttractivenessExample? Okay. If I approached the hot girl in uni/school wherever and show a great personality. Then someone more attractive comes with a similar personality like mine. Will she take my personality in consideration when she needs to choose between me and him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Regarding "Confidence", Personality, and Physical AttractivenessDo you think women need to find you physically attractive before you can say words to them? They need to find you physically attractive to actually give you attention and consider your personality as something that’s not irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:25 PM |
| -1 | Men have been manipulated by women to the point where they can't live without them, so they'll do anything women ask.This is an act of showing how much you love someone. You’re not manipulating if you really do love her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Nailed on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?They are hitting puberty so it’s normal to be curious what a girl looks like naked, it won’t do any harm seeing it on the internet rather than damage the privacy of a girl irl. How about the other side of the story, how many guys in their 20s haven’t seen a naked girl live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?If you’re not able to attract women (which is not easy these days) then you probably never know how a naked woman looks if it wasn’t for porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."No issue with women having a choice but saying men have to progress to catch up women it’s nonsense. Child rearing it’s not something difficult for you because it’s your biology. So you can’t use it as advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:48 AM |
| 9 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."Let me be real guys, women are doing everything men can do. Women have progressed from the days of old Congrats to women for finally progressing, it took them a while. So suddenly women are better than men because they started doing things men have been doing like forever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceI’m curious does a healthy sexual relationship look like porn videos from amateur couples? Is that the closest thing to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:11 PM |
| 5 | CMV - Pornography is beneficial for society - It removes undesirable males out of the dating raceYou think most men care about the person when they are having casual hookups every other day? Pussy is definitely a goal these days and women are valued more because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:02 PM |
| -3 | CMV: The reason why most women initiate breakups/divorces is because they are physically unattracted to their partnerVictim mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:22 AM |
| 4 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornIt’s not like you can go trough the screen and fuck the girl. I don’t know if you actually knew this but a video it’s already taped before you watch it. You’re not there in the room watching them have sex. There’s no reason to care if you don’t even know the girl let alone having some kind of relationship with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.My point is that sex won’t be main reason I love her in any relationship. That doesn’t mean I don’t want to have sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Maybe one day, but I don’t see that happening anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.She makes me feel things by being herself. I don’t see how’s that gonna stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.I do want to have sex with her, but it’s not the reason I love her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.How do you know you live her? Because every time I see her (in the last few years it was mostly on social media) I feel something unexplainable. When I first met her I felt something strange but as time passed as I got to know her character the feeling got stronger and stronger. I would basically do anything to just be with her and sex isn’t the main thing for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.Tell that to the love I have for this one girl since I first saw her like 7-8 years ago. And I haven’t even kissed her let alone having sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:57 PM |
| 6 | the criteria women use for men to get a chance at a relationship are vastly different and at odds with the things that create and sustain a healthy relationships - this is a big reason contributer to dating problems today.No, that’s why I’m asking why would she refuse sex in a healthy relationship? Because clearly men aren’t the problem when it comes to having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:42 PM |
| 6 | the criteria women use for men to get a chance at a relationship are vastly different and at odds with the things that create and sustain a healthy relationships - this is a big reason contributer to dating problems today.Why wouldn’t she? Sex in a healthy LTR is like ‘icing on the cake’. But I guess women get turned on only if the LTR isn’t working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | the criteria women use for men to get a chance at a relationship are vastly different and at odds with the things that create and sustain a healthy relationships - this is a big reason contributer to dating problems today.It’s very hard to pull that off, you’re working with livings beings after all. It would need someone special, a leader who would unite men under one goal. But who knows if that person even exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 08:51 PM |
| – | Ideal Scenario for Men and WomenHumanity will strive based on relationships with real connection. It’s better to save those extra kids rather than making their life hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Now make a post for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is there truly someone for everyone?Yes but only in theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How did you get manipulated? Are there really many male manipulators?Or just make sure who are you sending them to and who much you know them. Sharing nudes in a healthy relationship has a very good ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Women don’t like men who have to approach because the men they want are the sort of guys who don’t have to approachThey are completely different so being the same species is insignificant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:29 AM |
| – | Women are way more forgiving of physical appearance than menIf she’s not what then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women don’t like men who have to approach because the men they want are the sort of guys who don’t have to approachOnly chads can be in a position to give a chance to a girl to be with someone ‘awesome’, to be with someone who every girl would like to be, so that’s what makes her feel special and can’t turn him down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women don’t like men who have to approach because the men they want are the sort of guys who don’t have to approachI don’t see how anyone can pull that off if he isn’t a chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women don’t like men who have to approach because the men they want are the sort of guys who don’t have to approachJust because you understand them doesn’t mean they are not different from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?If it comes to that then I’ll do the thing that humans do best, adapt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | What could be the reason to talk as woman in detail about former sexual partners/encounters?What could be the reason for a woman to talk about her sexual past in such detail I don’t care why but they should do it more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 12:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe are only hearing one side of the story but yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:11 AM |
| – | Do Chads ever get annoyed at too much female attentionand I have to find a way to get the other one in my bed up out of my house before the other shows up, grab a shower, etc with less than 30 mins notice. Type of problems I need in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesSome cases it might be just bitterness so probably don’t take every guys opinion on that as a fact. But you can’t deny the complaints from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The men are better looking at pool parties than womenNevertheless a big variety of women bodies can attract men, can’t say the same for men, you already know what body type a man has to have to attract a woman. Flat/thin girl? She would be able to attract me. Can a thin man attract a girl? I don’t think so, and I’m the proof for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?You’re showing that you are nothing better than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | The “shy good guy” in practice is actually just a bore and that’s why women aren’t attracted to himPeople are not one sided, we all come as a package. But most people will see his good and shy side and will stop there. That’s the common mistake, explore a little and you can find what you are looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?Because everyone can be shallow. But in comparison to women men are less shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?You never know on what he will use that energy or will he use it for good or bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?You don’t see it not because they want a porn star and reject the average woman but because they can’t have the average woman at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?Post-nut shows you the real meaning of life, which is nothing but logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?The real thing is that you are probably wasting your time trying to find something that even you don’t know if it’s better than porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?It can go both ways you know. What happens if there’s no middle ground? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?She won’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 07:28 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averageGreat, no one is asking you to care. Why bother commenting about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?If I’m horny I’ll buy a sex doll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:29 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?Depends what you are looking for. For me that’s more than enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?I don’t want to communicate with an algorithm Girls are also algorithms if you look at them that way. So men are so stupid that think are having a choice to go for an ai girl while the reality is they are being pushed from the dating market You’re talking about being pushed from the dating world while some can’t even get in it for a start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:03 PM |
| 11 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'The same way women know that ugly guys are misogynists without actually hearing them talk like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?I would consider utilizing ‘AI GF’ if it comes as a holographic projection that you could replicate the image of a real person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:52 AM |
| 2 | How do we feel about the phrase "men marry up, women settle down"?Okay, but women clearly don’t care about that. Their main focus is having fun and be adventurous with those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themThey'll probably marry someone extremely rich later and live happily ever after. I don’t think so, you’ll be dumped after your looks fade away, there’s always is better looking woman than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themAt least you can actually change those things that make you hot. Men don’t have that option to change the things women find attractive because they can’t control those things. So you’re not the one that should be moaning about it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:03 PM |
| 0 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?I mean did he try to save your marriage or was he totally okay with it. Not gonna lie hearing something like that from a woman you loved for at least 8 years is kinda depressing and devastating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:11 PM |
| -1 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?What didn’t work? Your sexual life? How did he feel about your divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this?I don’t really know. Gene editing sounds more achievable than lowering people’s standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?Forgot to add about his multiple personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?Probably because she doesn’t actually love him but his body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this?We haven’t found a way to change the game, doesn’t mean there isn’t one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | What does “real” love look like to you?True love is when you don’t pick the other person but it’s almost like he picks you. Basically you love the person’s soul and everything that comes with that. You love and desire it forever even if you can’t have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Do you think men in their 20s could learn about those things if someone told them about it or is it crucial to live trough that stuff themselves. And if you don’t mind telling roughly what those things are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:03 PM |
| 38 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?It’s only an excuse to keep the 80% busy improving themselves while they chase the 20%. And after failing to secure him she will come back to the “improved” guy who thinks he has reached the standards to attract like the 20%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:41 PM |
| – | What is a 'high value woman'?And that feeling is exclusive to men because I don’t think that you’ll find a woman not being able to explain why she’s into some guy. That tells you a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:11 PM |
| – | What is a 'high value woman'?If it’s true love it will last a lifetime, not just some honeymoon phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?The reason of the ‘hoe phase’ isn’t that important because women are showing their true nature for the first time in history. You are not stopping it from happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The problem for all of us is sex itself.I desire sex, but I wish i didnt. Which is normal. Sex, relationships are just a distraction. I understand how you feel because I can say that I also feel that way. I desire love with one ideal girl in my mind but I can’t have her. And everyday I regret having these feelings but at the same time I imagine how good would it feel to be with her and not just sexually. Just because those feelings are bad for us doesn’t mean they can’t be beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really areSo instead of blaming people can someone make a universal list of how men and women work so that everyone can learn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:57 AM |
| -1 | Women Should find Smarter ways of finding men they're overall attracted to for commitmentBecause there are just more average guys or..? Yes, because as you said there isn’t a link between attractiveness and personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Women Should find Smarter ways of finding men they're overall attracted to for commitmentEveryone can be nasty. But the chance to find a nice guy in the average pool is bigger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:25 AM |
| 12 | If you met your ideal woman today, do you think she would like you?Already met her, she didn’t. What would I change is basically everything that would make me attractive to her, I don’t really know the answer so I can’t tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 08:21 PM |
| -1 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?It is reality, we live in a modern world where it’s asked so much from you to succeed which is impossible for some people, some people are not meant to win in that circumstances. Maybe giving up sounds bad but they are doing themselves and a lot of next generations a favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:42 PM |
| 15 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Your friend is based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Not exactly scared but knowing that it will happen. So they are doing the only thing that could prevent it. Not everyone is born to succeed, welcome to reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?They do not try for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?Probably zero, but I don’t care because if she isn’t there then that room is empty for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What exactly should one change or improve upon if they're called "too nice" as a negative?This “your world” thing could mean anything. And she definitely won’t want to know how I see life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?The plain Jane you described > the popular hot girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:06 PM |
| – | CMV: A 30 year old man dating a 19 year old girl is no different than a 30 year old woman dating a 30 year old man who's inexperienced.Probably not his choice to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Someone said swords!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:11 PM |
| 4 | What exactly should one change or improve upon if they're called "too nice" as a negative?What am I supposed to provide her that her friends can’t? My dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:41 PM |
| 2 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"Probably did it out of jealousy and for her attention. The things you would do for love… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Women using the term NPC while hating guys who play video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:15 PM |
| 15 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I think its more accurate to say we find most men are just NPCs. We can’t all be clowns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Emotions are what make you weak. It’s harder not to show emotion, no one appreciates that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:47 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It's not necessarily that women lie. It's just that questions are interpreted differently based on people's experiences.She is basically killing the person with words by not telling him the truth. But yeah, I don’t think lying should be a privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Probably the girl I truly love would feel the same way if I was in the top 10%, I don’t need anything more than her. But if for some reason she still doesn’t like me then pump and dump like there’s no tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's not necessarily that women lie. It's just that questions are interpreted differently based on people's experiences.because there is a low threat of violence in any interaction with a man. Without the sugarcoating: basically women lie and that’s acceptable just because there is a low threat of violence. I didn’t know that it’s acceptable to kill someone just because you feel a low threat of violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's not necessarily that women lie. It's just that questions are interpreted differently based on people's experiences.The only guys that can give her a “chance to show herself” are the ones she goes after and tries to secure them. So about 20%, the rest who aren’t genetically gifted looking chads are not in a position to “give her a chance”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Men dont NEED casual sexI don’t need sex to survive? Yes. But why I need sex is when women look for relationship they expect the man to know how to impress her during sex and to know every little detail in their anatomy inside out. So actually we DO need sex but not for the things you think we need. Women created the reason why we need sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:30 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have a rotation of four women currently. What have I done wrong to not have this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:48 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI understand you are willing to take a risk. Is this the right risk to take? If you really trust your friend then ok, but keep your expectations low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy are you even going? It’s a hostile territory for socially awkward people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:02 PM |
| 3 | What would you do if you had the ability to change your sexual orientation?Since the girl I truly love doesn’t feel the same way I would turn it off if given the chance. It’s only a curse at this point, constantly trying to suppress the feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | We all agree that women are attracted to men who display competence and drive, but are women also disgusted by the very effort it takes to reach the level of competence they admire?They want a finished product. They will never be with you when you are nothing and motivate you into becoming something they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXThey enjoy it but only with the top 20% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:15 PM |
| -2 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXThe clitoris is a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenThey are not women, they are heroes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 10 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexDamn I should’ve told her that I wash my ass, she might’ve not rejected me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"They are as a consequence of something else they can’t control, nobody wants to be that but when it’s the only choice you must go with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:41 PM |
| 3 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Not their (18-35) fault tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Key Issue For Most People in Attracting Who They Want is Lack of Self Awareness and Entitlement With both Genders.Actually when you think about it I’m on your side, fighting for a world where you don’t have to get ripped just to have a handful of options and choice on who you date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Key Issue For Most People in Attracting Who They Want is Lack of Self Awareness and Entitlement With both Genders.Problem is that women have a lot of options by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Key Issue For Most People in Attracting Who They Want is Lack of Self Awareness and Entitlement With both Genders.It’s not complaining it’s telling the truth. You have no issues, good for you, I don’t expect you to impact on anything because it doesn’t benefit you, you are already dancing on their tune and looks like that you are enjoying it which is what they would want you to feel like if they had control (which they do). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Key Issue For Most People in Attracting Who They Want is Lack of Self Awareness and Entitlement With both Genders.I can’t say if you have control over yourself or not, but I’m talking about the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Key Issue For Most People in Attracting Who They Want is Lack of Self Awareness and Entitlement With both Genders.You saying that just shows how much control you actually have, and then women will moan about how risky and dangerous the dating world is for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:50 PM |
| 9 | Key Issue For Most People in Attracting Who They Want is Lack of Self Awareness and Entitlement With both Genders.Winning the genetics lottery isn’t putting work. And without winning that lottery the work you put is insignificant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:43 PM |
| 15 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityTime to unleash some demons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:35 AM |
| – | Confidence is non-transferableSo basically you need to have confidence, doesn’t that mean that it is contributing to being attractive? It’s the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneIf it’s not what I’m attracted to then yes it’s settling. Women do the same why can’t we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | You can choose who you're attracted toI actually can’t, the moment I saw this girl something in my brain clicked and it hasn’t stopped to this day. I would like to change it because sadly she doesn’t feel the same, but I can’t help it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 01:24 PM |
| -6 | Women's attraction to you changes massively if they are on birth control. If they go off it during your relationship they may not have any attraction to youI recommend a solution for preventing a woman lose interest when she’s off birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:52 PM |
| -3 | Women's attraction to you changes massively if they are on birth control. If they go off it during your relationship they may not have any attraction to youSolution? Buy a few packs of birth control pills and put one in her morning coffee everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Women want a nice guy, but one who's nice about the right thingsBut isn’t that insight of personal topics kinda private information, wouldn’t you like to respect that person and also not be seen as pushy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:15 PM |
| 7 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?And Europe welcoming immigrants is contributing to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 03:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHad a dream about her planning to get engaged with someone and I was terrified. I just don’t know how I will react if that happens in real life, and I’m pretty sure it will sooner or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Why is the 80/20 rule offensive?You are basically naming men outside of the 20% ‘losers’ and you expect it to be mentioned neutrally. You only want a finished product with great genes to pursue you while you are being yourself, great, I get it. But don’t expect people not to be bias when you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneWell yes, that could happen too. However there is a bigger chance to be resentful if you get anything lower than that. So the initial comment saying that those men don’t deserve the pc/ps5 just because they would be resentful is not completely right. Getting the ps5/pc is the only chance not to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 10:01 PM |
| -6 | Women who get ugly and fat & men who start being lazy and stingy cannot maintain the relationship , keeping yourself desired is a mustSo out of nowhere they get the idea to get fat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Women who get ugly and fat & men who start being lazy and stingy cannot maintain the relationship , keeping yourself desired is a mustI mean they could | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Women who get ugly and fat & men who start being lazy and stingy cannot maintain the relationship , keeping yourself desired is a mustThe trick is to be honest if you plan on getting fat later in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneTo me it’s more logical to be resentful towards a women that is your league or lower especially if it’s not the women you like to be with. That for me means settling down for the sake of having a girl. If what you find attractive is not negotiable for women then why would it be for men? You don’t get everything you want in life so it’s pretty normal to be resentful towards something you don’t want but must have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneSo you are saying that a kid who dreams about some expensive toy for Christmas even tho his parents can’t buy it, once he gets it you won’t know that he would like it or? I think it’s the opposite, if he gets some cheap toy you won’t know if he likes it or not, he won’t care if he breaks it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalThanks for proving his point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 10:09 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If men are trash you're the dumpsterSo that’s why some people can’t fit in, it’s because everyone else is thrash and not them. I think I got my answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Friendly vibes = she wasn't physically attracted to youI’m a long way from being “set”. Would need one more lifetime to achieve that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.I would rather starve to death than be on stage 3 , it just isn’t me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Friendly vibes = she wasn't physically attracted to youThey can because they are the cause of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Friendly vibes = she wasn't physically attracted to youIt’s not about fear of getting physically hurt by a girl, it’s more about stabbing or shooting me mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Friendly vibes = she wasn't physically attracted to youIf you don’t have fear there is probably something wrong with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:33 PM |
| 12 | Friendly vibes = she wasn't physically attracted to youWhy go on a date with someone you don’t find attractive? You are wasting his time just to disappoint him in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been aroused by a man's personality who otherwise had no remarkable physical qualities? If so, what drew you in to him ?Personality is not a deciding factor, if you plan to play that way, don’t do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Nice Guys are really just lazy.So niceness is a quality to attract women but it isn’t valued by women. Does that really make it a quality? No it doesn’t. You say it’s easy to be nice, but the person who suffers the most is the nice guy, yet they still are a nice guy. Is it easy to be humiliated by everyone and continue to be nice for the greater good? What’s easier, to maintain peace or to start a war? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 04:11 PM |
| – | Sex = Bargaining Chip for Women | Women Enjoy but Don’t *Value* SexDo it, but don’t expect the 90% to work for the survival of your species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 10:27 AM |
| – | Sex = Bargaining Chip for Women | Women Enjoy but Don’t *Value* SexIt’s actually analysis of the barrier, not the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 10:22 AM |
| – | Sex = Bargaining Chip for Women | Women Enjoy but Don’t *Value* SexWe don’t think, we know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 10:07 AM |
| 0 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.That just proves his theory, why didn’t she chose him when they first met? She probably thought she could do better. Then she had 2 kids (probably by trying to secure a chad) and the value went downhill. Unfortunately he didn’t found anyone for 5 years and she took that opportunity. Yeah you can choose to ignore that but you will live the rest of your life with that in the back of your mind trying to forget it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.Won’t be missed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTraveling is not hard when you have a private jet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women compliment and approach men?They want to be approached by attractive guys, they would approach the attractive guy to try to secure his genes. It’s simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?But would that vetting be 100% accurate tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themIt seems that women like villains instead of heroes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 02:02 PM |
| -1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.General advice never works and you know it, it’s the same bs every girl say. Like tell me the real reason behind it, I think I deserve to know, what’s there to hide? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.I don’t expect you to care about me, also I’m self improving for women so them being tools for that isn’t something negative. I’m not saying every woman you ask out at the bar or whatever should give me a report why and how. But for something more serious when you really love someone, you are invested in them a lot, so to end up with her saying “I love you but as a friend” it really is frustrating and you feel lost wondering what’s wrong to the point where you don’t even know what’s right anymor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:33 PM |
| -1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.You have a right to be silent but if I’m affected by that situation I have a right to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:41 PM |
| 14 | There's just as many women, as men, that are unsuccessful in romance, and they are so mostly for the same reasons as men.Hypergamy at its finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:18 PM |
| -4 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.From whoever possesses the information they need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.Clarity is crucial for improvement. Otherwise you are going in a minefield wearing a blindfold. So if you don’t know the location of the mines you basically will never succeed. It’s like expecting someone to build a sports car without telling him about aerodynamics. He might get something right with having no clue about it, but it will never succeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:01 PM |
| -5 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.They have a right to know why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 15 | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menThey are peak genes and physical looks, everyone wants them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)They are definitely not the same as males, they think differently, they act differently. If you want to communicate successfully with someone whose brain works differently from yours then firstly you need to understand how their brain works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:58 AM |
| 9 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.Come on, only males that are promiscuous are the top 20%, but no one is allowed to talk bad about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree that male sexual desire often gives women a significant amount of power and control over men?Just saying how dangerous and wrong that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree that male sexual desire often gives women a significant amount of power and control over men?You can take over the world with that 90%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?I would say let’s lose/gain weight together. Both of us would improve and it will minimize the risk of her leaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?I think that they will start doing that if they acknowledge that the woman probably isn’t attracted to them and is using them for security so they aren’t doing nothing wrong or bad for the relationship if they use her for sex. Everyone saying is morals and too good for it, yes they can still be good and have morals after using her for sex in that context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:00 AM |
| – | Women have total control of the dating marketAnyone can say yes/no, but that’s not what we talk about. A man can’t choose a woman (not including the top guys), he is left for a woman to choose him. He is basically left on mercy of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:31 PM |
| – | Women have total control of the dating marketThat’s what you would want others to think while you have control over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:12 PM |
| – | Women have total control of the dating marketA women saying why incels self loath online? I definitely don’t care about that perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:01 PM |
| 22 | Women have total control of the dating marketHow would you do that if you don’t have the option to go on dates while young and broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:53 PM |
| 18 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeUnattractive women don’t know their place why should unattractive men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Guy A if that means the girl I love would love me too, but if that’s not the case then I would go with B. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:30 AM |
| 4 | Why do men make weird jokes in public with women they don't know?Oh believe me, overthinking is my best feature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:10 PM |
| – | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?Thanks for proving my point I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Is guilt an actual asset in dating (Machiavellian Method)?I know what they have to be, the question is how do I make it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is guilt an actual asset in dating (Machiavellian Method)?How do I make it reciprocal then? If more people would strive for idealism the world would be a better place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Is guilt an actual asset in dating (Machiavellian Method)?Mental illness? Isn’t that what love is? Unconditional and never ending no matter what. I don’t need a benefit from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?Chads have the privilege to just go after sex. When the lonely virgin wants just sex then it’s a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Is guilt an actual asset in dating (Machiavellian Method)?I get it, girls are being attracted to looks but when somebody loves you to the point you would die for them then they don’t care about it. It makes me question what love is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Is guilt an actual asset in dating (Machiavellian Method)?What if you truly love someone that you would die for that person. Wouldn’t that make her attracted to you or what should you do to make that person realize that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Thought experiment: what would happen if every man in the USA would only have sex with/date women who are the correct body weight for their height?Lots of people are already single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Have you ever been caught by an unexplainable long dry spell despite not changing or doing anything different?proves womenI live (mostly white) are very racist against dating latino stereotypes. That just proves that women only go for looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:22 AM |
| – | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Thank you, but I’m very aware of this advice. I believe in only one true love, everything else feels like betrayal and it kinda loses its integrity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?“Addicted to porn” - does this mean anyone who watches it regularly for stress relief or when you can’t get off it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Women actually want to be approached by a manYou’re right it’s not a negative, overpopulation is getting sorted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Women actually want to be approached by a manI’m buying a cat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:09 PM |
| 15 | Women actually want to be approached by a manMost often with a chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI don’t know, ask someone who is experienced with relationships. All I know is that there are good ones and if they truly love you then they will never turn on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI will be more cautious before actually putting them in my mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:21 AM |
| 0 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThat’s why you don’t judge a person without getting to know him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:16 AM |
| -2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingWomen get told that to stay safe from the men that actually are psychopaths and do that stuff, but you know who else is detriment by that? The actual good men. I know you have a picture of men like they are villains but remember they can’t be called villains if there are no heroes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:12 PM |
| – | Do you think there should be laws against "being creepy" or should the laws of dating be controlled by the state?I think it’s better for a start to educate people rather than creating new laws just to punish them. enforce dating in womens favors? Making it illegal to ask women out on dates for example. Dating already is in women’s favor, they have all the control in who they choose to date. I don't know what more they can ask for than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 6 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyIt’s impossible to pull that off. But it will definitely work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Big if, but maybe my only chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Also they’ll compare you to all the other guys they have been with before. The taller guy, the hotter guy, the guy who was better in the sack, the guy who had a better job, the guy who partied etc etc. Then it’s time to pump and dump, if you never had a chance to do that in your 20’ you have it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?They will probably be settled with a hottie by then so it’s irrelevant. 30’ is when virgins finally have the ball at their feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?So you’re saying that I might still have a chance with the girl I love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Do you think all sex is transactional?Good transactional sex is what makes him the right person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4A What partner would you prefer to marryI would say B or C, as long as it’s good and regular sex I’m down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:05 AM |
| 19 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveHorny and lonely. Nothing worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4A What female body type do you find the most attractive?Combination of 2 and 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be forever alone or sugar coat (lie about some aspects) of yourself in order to get into a relationship (no matter how stable it is)?If I had to lie to be with the girl I love then I wouldn’t do it. She deserves to know, depends on the lie but if she finds out it may ruin her life and that means it would ruin my life because I love her. I’m already an alone virgin so I can manage to satisfy my urges in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Do you prefer slim or curvy?I prefer slim, but I don’t mind curvy either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?In reality you could teach her to be your porn star if she’s willing to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?Quite the opposite, I think it’s much better and easier to communicate and understand with a smart person. It’s not always a good idea to be the smartest person in the room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:15 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?I hesitate about ending it tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:38 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?I don’t get how chads with curly hair and big dick, and chads with straight hair and big dick, are more varied tastes than “ours”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Are many pill men looking for monogamy/marriage?Well I think she doesn’t feel the same way, maybe she doesn’t find me good enough for her, I don’t really know I don’t wanna guess. Only thing I feel guilty for is the way I treated her sometimes. I mean we were basically young and I was kinda doing it to get her attention all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeYou ignored everything else, and that’s your conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Are many pill men looking for monogamy/marriage?Considering I can’t be with the girl I truly love, I don’t get the point of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Situationships are not the antichamber of relationships. Relationships start from relationships. Let that sink in.I don’t think that they want a relationship while being young. On one side you have these men with their elite genes following their natural urge to pump and dump, on the other side you have women who want to explore while being young with their “freedom” in the dating scene. What do you expect to happen? What can other men do about this? Nothing. When I say nothing I mean not dating in general. If enough men do this, it will send a message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 07:38 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.I think women are delusional for thinking they could secure a top guy for a LTR, while being used for sex. It’s their choice maybe they like it, maybe it’s in their nature to have sex with these guys. Who knows, maybe they will live of that moment for the rest of their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:31 PM |
| 9 | Do men actually want love?That’s just your natural urges to pump and dump every girl you see. Love is something you see in her soul, no matter what happens it never ends. And that feeling is irreplaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 01:50 PM |
| 8 | Your success (or the lack of) dating is not a valid measure of your entire self worth, therefore shouldn’t be treated as such.The sooner you realize the better. Some of us just aren’t meant for it, because of various reasons. I always thought meeting this girl was at the wrong time in my life, but when you think about it that showed me early in life that I will never be good enough and would be just wasting my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:51 AM |
| 7 | The misusage and misrepresentation of the word "confidence" has destroyed modern dating advice and competence/skill should be more heavily emphasized.That’s just being naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityMale or female virgins past 30 are rare (1-2%). The number will increase in the future. And among that tiny percentage of a tiny percentage, you have to find someone who you’re also otherwise reasonably compatible with. It’s already hard in your 20s with all those “options”. If your just not meant for it you can search for million years and you won’t find anyone. Actually something being rare is a positive, real suffering is when you can see something and you almost can touch it, but you never w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:46 AM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Well I can’t prove you something you don’t want to be proven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:44 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedUnconditional love exists, but mostly it’s not mutual. For example I love this girl and I don’t get nothing in return, I just love her for being her. I will love her till the end of my life no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Your history is not personal, and any prospective partner should be made aware of itBecause you can predict the future based on the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?I’m not saying you’re lying but you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:49 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenI can only imagine the feeling. I guess you never know until you try, but you also don’t want to waste your time for nothing, so that’s why I remain skeptical about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:51 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenBasically if you’re not in the top tier you can never win. The sooner you realize the faster you stop wasting time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:28 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenIt is really that worth it? I mean, the amount of work people need to put is relative, but I’m sure it’s not worth it for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you like Zac Afron physique?Ngl but Baywatch was peak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:49 AM |
| 6 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?Or is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:49 PM |
| 14 | Dating in the Modern Age is Analogous to Wealth Inequality in Later Stage Capitalism.Not everybody gets the chance to win. So why bother trying to win a lost battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategies are not exclusive to women nor excusable in men.You only need one if it’s true love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Having confidence is just an another saying that you are physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:23 PM |
| 7 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?what would a woman's top priority in a man be? Job? Net worth? Appearance? Personality? Let’s be real, for women looks are essential. All the other qualities they want you need to add them to the looks. Looks are like a base of a building. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How we feel about dating women can be a reflection on how we feel about ourselves?Yes my queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)The difference is that average men can put effort but will not succeed in it, while average women have a higher chance to secure a top guy. So that effort doesn’t really matter when you see the whole picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Good news, the 80/20 rule is a myth. Bad news, no one believes that. Also it's good to hear acknowledgement that all these lonely dudes only hate women who have casual sex because they're not having casual sex with them. I never said that. Maybe some of them hate them because of that but mostly it’s not that simple. Average guys “hate” women because when it’s about the top guys they are open to be promiscuous and do everything to secure them (or should I say their genes) but when it’s average gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Look at how many dudes complain about how average men can't get casual sex and in the same breath will shit all over women who have a higher body count. They didn’t wanted women to be promiscuous only for the top 20% and to settle with average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)I think it’s more of a “easy money” from OF than to be what men were asking from them. Nobody can make you do something you don’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenMaybe one day, for the sake of not dying a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:14 AM |
| 8 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenI know what kind of pussy I will be drowning in, so no thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:00 AM |
| 13 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenYes, for all of us who can’t even attract a mosquito on a summer night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:46 AM |
| 13 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenChances you find them are slim, and even slimmer to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?Well I better not mention mine then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:28 AM |
| – | Would dating really be better if people 'stayed in their lanes' like some believe?If staying in your lane means lowering your standards, then we don’t want that. If I want to I will aim for the stars even if it means I will never reach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:16 AM |
| 3 | So-called "chads" and "bad boys" often have more success with women simply because do a ton of cold approaches.They only way to do ton of cold approaches is to be one of those who do it. Meaning you have to completely change your looks, personality etc. Is that possible? Will a cat ever be a tiger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 09:45 PM |
| -2 | what do men really think of female virgins?Of course not. Fucked by multiple people would make her a “used toy” imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | what do men really think of female virgins?They like virgins because the see her as an untouched object that they get to play with first. Or maybe they don’t want to play with used toys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Do older men really find younger women attractive?Would most have sex with them if they had the opportunity ?I mean if he missed out in his youth would you blame him for wanting to try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?It’s easier to deal with a loss as a low level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Yet people still go out there and try, every day. Some of them go out there because they are blinded by hope. I’m not going to be able to internet debate you out of depression. Seek help for that, and your life will open up afterwards. Just because I can see things that are not worth wasting your time for doesn’t mean that I need help. How do you know it’s not you and all the people wasting their time that need help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?• Physical appearance • Money • Social status etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?There's no stuff that's guaranteed to get you a woman. Exactly. Even if you tick all the boxes on the checklist it’s not guaranteed to get a woman. So why waste time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Nothing in life is guaranteed. Technically yes, but there are things that are very close to being guaranteed that you almost can call them guaranteed. Obviously finding a woman isn’t one of them, why waste time. Why do you get up in the morning? Because it’s not my choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Doing all that stuff to get a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?So if you’re not guaranteed then what’s the point of doing it in the first place? Isn’t it wasting time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even like women? Why?From what I've seen, many of you don't even believe that exceptions from all these bad things exist, like you don't even believe some kind of dream woman exists. I believe that a dream woman exists because I met one, but the chances that she would like you back are very slim, at least for me. So why even pursue a relationship with a woman? I don’t, and if I ever will it would be just to fulfill my natural urges and nothing more. Because I lost my dream woman, and you only get one chance to get i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Would dating really be better if people 'stayed in their lanes' like some believe?I don’t think it’s right to force people to be with someone they don’t think it’s worth being with and would rather be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?I was put here to make woman as happy as they can be maybe o n e day I'll find the one I can spend all my time making every new day a happier better It’s like feeding a dog while it barks at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:06 PM |
| 9 | What's more important, finding one person who loves you completely or being desired sexually by many people?Choosing the second and aiming for the first one. If I was desired by many people probably I would be desired by the person I truly love, and if I’m not then I have all those girls on rotation to comfort me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to what is said here, most guys who struggle with women do need to work on themselves• it’s too late • they feel like it’s not worth their time • bad genes • it won’t change anything And so on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to what is said here, most guys who struggle with women do need to work on themselvesNot if you’re a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to what is said here, most guys who struggle with women do need to work on themselvesThere is a reason they won’t do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Contrary to what is said here, most guys who struggle with women do need to work on themselvesThe truth is in between these 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?Technically not a child yet so… and maybe you are making him a favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?Free abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Money can you anything these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.I don’t know but I assume you don’t have the sex skills and physical looks of a prostitute. You can charge that money but you need to find someone naive who will pay that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid.I take it you're not with this girl, and it's not going to happen? You're not compatible? Probably it’s never gonna happen, I’m not sure why. I guess she’s not attracted to me or maybe I didn’t show myself worthy for her, I’m not sure. It really broke me so I just gave up at some point. If so, then... look, I get it. But you don't have to betray your love to move on, and allow her to move on. It really feels like betrayal, because it’s not a coincidence I have those feelings only for her, and wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: what is your favorite PIV sex position?Why do you do it if you don’t enjoy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid.I’m sorry but you can’t get over something you truly love, something you would die for. Call it infatuation, call it whatever you want. My perception of that girl is based on facts. My feelings towards her are real and they are irreplaceable. If that’s not love, I don’t know what is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid.What do you expect me to do? If you truly love someone you don’t just forget about it and live your life like nothing happened. It gotta mean more than that, I believe it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:58 AM |
| 0 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.500 in an hour? Are you having a laugh? I’m not speaking about escorts, they get those money for a reason. You can’t ask for that money if you’re not an escort. Or are you? Let’s be real. How much do you think it would cost for a “normal” woman who is going on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:16 AM |
| 1 | If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid.Not social but I gathered courage to “approach” the girl I still love to this day and I’m sure that’s gonna be my last time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:56 AM |
| 6 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.think you can buy pussy for the cost of an Applebee's entree. How much then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:46 AM |
| – | Everyone, both men and women are too superficialThe grass is always greener if you never learn to be satisfied with your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Mid guys getting very attractive women at church?It’s like day and night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:17 AM |
| 8 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Giving a shit about yourself doesn’t mean to use someone else’s money to fulfill your needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 5 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?For me the main reason why she stands out is her SOUL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Girls aren't lying about their preferences, they just don't know guys can improveBasically they want the attractive guys to have those traits. I wonder what will the next thing be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Who do the really attractive women end up with?Not everyone has the chance to end up with someone they truly love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Who do the really attractive women end up with?Not me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Who's getting more success and who you'd prefer:I will go for A, because fuck genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeI mean it’s never gonna happen so who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeThat means that hetero men in the top 20% will stop having casual sex. That’s a W | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:09 PM |
| 16 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilege“It’s not a privilege because it has risks” A rich person has risks to be robbed, still doesn’t change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.When you say partner you mean a finished product? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesWelcome to the real world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:17 AM |
| 0 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?It’s not a fantasy, the feelings are very real. And if it was fantasy, the creation of it was encouraged by her character, the fantasy with anyone else wouldn’t work. Isn’t that love? It’s never ending. Maybe it’s not mutual but that doesn’t change the way I feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:30 AM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?I do care about what she wants, but regardless of that I still love her and have real feelings for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:52 AM |
| -2 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?I do, but that doesn’t make my love for her to go away. I don’t have a choice, it’s almost like she picked me, isn’t that what true love is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:45 PM |
| 0 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Because if it’s true love it’s gotta mean more than just moving from women to women. Even if she doesn’t love you back, they way you feel while looking at her is something irreplaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:05 PM |
| 0 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Only she can fix me, so yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing better than being an average manIt’s like racing against a Ferrari with a Ford Focus. Do what you want, put a V8 in your Focus, you aint catching the Ferrari. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?It’s easy to know your audience when everyone wants to fuck you. Finding my audience? It’s like searching for people who like a Ford Focus while everyone wants a red Ferrari. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeOf course he’s afraid, not of leaving the cage but of what happens next. It may not survive in outside world or simply may not like the food he finds there. It’s his duty to solve the problem, but that problem is caused by others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:22 PM |
| -1 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeYou know what a ‘nice guy’ is? An animal in a cage. Don’t blame the animal for being in a cage, blame the ones who put it there. Aka society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:20 PM |
| 15 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?It’s in their nature, they can’t resist going for him just like “men would fuck anything”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:55 PM |
| 9 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?But women clearly like that in a guy, the proof is the high n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:50 PM |
| 17 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?That’s right, those guys are too busy keeping girls on rotation, they have no use to be on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeHandling a conflict well isn’t about fighting with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Considering that real love is something you don’t choose to love often that person doesn’t love you back. So in reality you end up with someone you don’t love or doesn’t love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.You love them because you didn’t choose them, but they chose you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.This was supposed to be funny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 10:15 PM |
| 9 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeSo you are saying women like the top guys just because they enjoy being around them and not because of their hot bodies to have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:30 PM |
| 5 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeIt’s never simple as shooting a msg out. Or maybe you are referring to an ideal situation where the guy is a hot guy. About wasting time, you don’t include the time invested outside of dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:28 PM |
| 8 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeIt’s gonna be too late imo, the guys who were attractive from young age got all the girls. I mean, I don’t know if you care about that but expect to deal with a lot of “recycled stuff”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:22 PM |
| -1 | Why do women settle for men who are not super rich?I’m not saying you won’t make money but the chances are very slim that you would make the money he has to offer you. Women say they like their partner to be the best, so even if you are average you still could pull this out. Why wouldn’t you? On one side they say they want the best on the other side they say that they don’t want to go after them. What’s the lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??All I would say is there are reasons why fish can’t live on land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??I’m not saying to live completely without hope for everything, only for things you know won’t happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:24 AM |
| 4 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??Because even if you know as a fact that you will never find someone and be happy in that area of your life, if you don’t eliminate hope then it will slowly kill you with time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:17 AM |
| -3 | Why do women settle for men who are not super rich?You don’t get the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??It’s hope that kills you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 07:53 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.I am myself a 22 Year old dude that never struggled with women and i never understood why man are so hateful. I currently have 3 Fwbs, Tells you everything you need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why?For some it’s over before it even starts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?Does it really matter? Early twenties. And I don’t need any false hope, because like I said “it’s hope that kills you” while nothing changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?Most men find a partner eventually so saying never is unlikely but sure don’t people will never but these are rare. It’s hope that kills you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:03 PM |
| 0 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toLet’s say you don’t need to be in that 20%. You still need something to find a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?I thought masturbating is way different to sex. In most cases people who watch porn haven’t had sex so how would you know how sex looks if you just masturbate? You’re still missing out. This way at least you know how it looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:30 AM |
| 0 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toNo requirements for starting dating, but there are requirements for succeeding in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?If poison was the closest thing for me to experience sex and all that then I would 100% take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Female women who watch adult entertainment videos, what is your usual choice?Imagine you are in a desert (meaning you have no chances to have sex with someone and you probably never will) and porn was the only bottle of water you had. Will you drink it or keep looking for a oasis while dying in the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Are some women maybe hypocritical when they tell guys to lower their standards but then criticize them for it when they do?It’s irrelevant how other women view that because either way they don’t want to be with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 10:24 PM |
| 3 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.There is, but mostly is one sided so you end up with someone you probably don’t like and you regret being born for the rest of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 06:37 PM |
| 3 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.Love is something that must be earned. If you had to earn pure love then is it really pure love? Too many underachieving kids and adults in this world who think they’re owed something. Earn it! Sorry how do the “achieving” people aka top guys earn girls? By good genetics right? Have we found a way to change our DNA or what am I supposed to do. Since we haven’t discovered that yet I guess the purification of the human race will continue this way. And hope it doesn’t end like it did 70 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:16 PM |
| 5 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.Kind of like how women nowadays act. They get treated like shit by all the top 20% men and look how they blame all men for it. But they still try to secure the top guy and they still have a higher chance doing that than most men have securing a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:59 PM |
| 3 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.Very attractive body I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here believe in love and actually finding someone who cares about them?I can’t say I don’t believe in love because I’m madly in love with a girl, and by that I don’t mean her body but with her character. HOWEVER, I don’t believe in mutual love, you only ask for one thing(to be loved back from that person) and you never get it. Wish we could choose in who we fall in love or not be in love at all, because it’s only suffering imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:24 PM |
| – | Does anyone here believe in love and actually finding someone who cares about them?You can define anyone who doesn’t agree with you as mentally ill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 3 | You get $10,000 if you can make your date reject you in under 1 minute, how do you do it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICI don’t need to do anything, because I won’t even get a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:33 PM |
| – | Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women?Can you blame them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.I would rather have bad sex with lot of girls than not have it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.There always will be negative sides no matter what. I can’t speak from your perspective but I can tell you ours and it’s not nice either. I don’t see a solution, not in close future. Maybe accepting that their not good enough will lower the number of resentful men and will let women enjoy their life with the attractive ones. Let’s just give up, what’s the point after all. And let me clarify that I don’t think violence is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:03 PM |
| 17 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.I don’t need to see every bird fly to know that birds can fly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.The problem is the hypocrisy, why tell me that looks don’t matter when they do. Just tell me that my looks are worthless and you won’t be with me even if I was the only choice. And about people saying things, they always will, the sooner you understand that the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 06:46 PM |
| 28 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Also, how hot a guy is has absolutely nothing to do with his skills in bed. And yet hot guys have the highest n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 06:15 PM |
| 12 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sSaying “men will only use you for kids” while sleeping around with hot guys it’s pure hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 12:05 PM |
| 57 | Do you believe the women on amiugly?Dislike only approximately 80% of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Do you believe the women on amiugly?They either can’t catch attention from a chad or failed to secure him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?I read very well, you don’t get it, I guess nobody does, that’s why the world is on fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?You never will understand if you don’t want to. The problem will never be fixed, it will just get bigger in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The art of approaching women really isn't that complicatedWell society can swivel on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:09 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The art of approaching women really isn't that complicatedGuess what, there is probably a reason for them to be isolated. Sometimes you have no choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:05 AM |
| 7 | CMV: The art of approaching women really isn't that complicatedWhen you say “men have an easier time” you mean about the top 20% ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with "free sex"?It’s a risk only with average and below average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?In the end it’s better to drop out than to get reminded that you failed every time you see your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?Yeah because not everyone can find friends that easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traitsYou’re not in a desert, though. Not getting laid isn’t going to cause you to die. There are things worse than dying. Which is why women don’t go after every man: it’s not something life-threatening. Just because you live ruled by your penis doesn’t mean women have to accommodate it. But by your theory every man is ruled by their penis, so why women only accommodate it for the top 20%? It’s ludicrous to “blame” women, even if the idea they only go for the top 20% were true, which it isn’t. That s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:08 PM |
| 0 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingReal relationships? Give it 10 years and they will be extinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traitsIn a desert you would take every drop of water you can. Women are in a completely different environment where they have plenty of options and they still go for the top 20%. You can blame men for being desperate but you’re a hypocrite if you’re not blaming the women going only for the top 20% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:10 PM |
| -1 | Traditional or 'pick me' women are the smartest people on Earth, outside the elite few men who run the world.Well, aren’t they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 11:47 AM |
| 0 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingIt depends what you want, you can be happy with just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 3 | If youre a normal guy, what is the "bare minimum" to be able to get laid, or have dates?It’s always the bs about hygiene and stuff, don’t waste your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:07 PM |
| 0 | What do you expect of men in a long term relationship ?Friendly reminder: expectations apply only for men who are not in the top 20%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 05:02 PM |
| – | Question about how body count and status works.How does it feel to be a rotation girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Question about how body count and status works.Women saying they don’t care about n count while they only been with guys with high n count, it just proves the point. High n count = more likely to be attractive to women, it’s a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:40 PM |
| 0 | How there is still confusion in some men mind about women preference?There are differences of course, but overall it’s similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How there is still confusion in some men mind about women preference?They are not the same, but their nature is. Considering they are based on emotions there is a high chance they do the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Men that are called trash by women are actually attractive enough to get women to give them casual sex in the hopes of a relationship in the future.Because it is different. One has penis, the other one vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:42 PM |
| 4 | why should women date you?I don’t know about the other women, but because she can fix me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Okay men, you caught usYou think you’re being sarcastic but actually telling the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | All women are goddesses and should be worshiped and praised for being the otherworldly beings they are.I would change it if I could. It’s misunderstood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:30 PM |
| -3 | Calling women “females” is not belittling them or being misogynistic and shows just how sensitive the female hive mind truly is.Just like comments made from a female are not relevant to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:05 PM |
| 16 | All women are goddesses and should be worshiped and praised for being the otherworldly beings they are."To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:01 PM |
| -1 | Why are some men so desperate to be in monogamous relationships anyway, it really isn’t that greatI wouldn’t be complaining if I could have casual sex with different girls. I don’t care about monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 05:59 PM |
| – | People who would generally be considered more desirable/attractive than average (height, money, personality, skills, looks etc.): would you prefer a committed relationship with one attractive person, or having casual sex with multiple attractive people?That’s the point, they couldn’t secure the top guy with casual sex so they went for the average one. Some do it earlier some later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 06:31 PM |
| – | People who would generally be considered more desirable/attractive than average (height, money, personality, skills, looks etc.): would you prefer a committed relationship with one attractive person, or having casual sex with multiple attractive people?While they are young they have casual sex with chads trying to secure them for a long term, and if they don’t succeed and get older they go for average guys. In reality if you’re not in the top guys you either play with old used toys or not play at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 09:30 AM |
| – | Average women should not have access to relationshipsIt also goes both ways when women want casual sex with the top guys. If it’s gonna be that way then let it be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:17 PM |
| – | Average men should NOT have access to casual sexOkay buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:10 PM |
| 2 | What are guys supposed to do to improve their situation realistically?Hear me out, if all of us agree to do nothing about it women will be forced to pick us or stay single. It’s a fifty-fifty chance in both situations so why not do it the easy way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostThe only way is up ⬆️, time will tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:45 PM |
| – | Average men should NOT have access to casual sexNobody complains about the top guys, I wonder why 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.So what’s the solution for us skinny guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How many relationships are initiated by women in modern dating?That’s a load of bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | How many relationships are initiated by women in modern dating?That’s like 0.001% chance for that to happen. Basically you need to be peak male in her eyes for her to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Even if Female Nature is true, there's no benefit being mad at it and we must accept it for what it isMale nature is to find a woman to impregnate as much as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:15 PM |
| -3 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingI’m saying that those preferences will never change to the point where a skinny/fat guy is being viewed as attractive. That’s what I call a “change”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:30 PM |
| -1 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingCall it what you want it aint changing and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:55 PM |
| – | I understand that Women want the best option available, I just wish they didn't lie about it.Or maybe they want to be manipulated by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?It’s never a big deal until it happens to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:37 AM |
| 6 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?• Manlets have issues, so stay away from midgets, if he isn't 6ft by 21, stay away. We can't ruin or gene pool (sorry fellow short bros.I want tall grandkids) It’s ironic how people say “dont ruin the gene pool” but when a man once fought for it the whole world was against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?The solution to this problem is simple: just don’t have a daughter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good lookingThey never send it tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Do women value authenticity more than men?The fact that the “bad boy” is honest and they still go for him is kinda concerning. Maybe start questioning the decisions from the other gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Do women value authenticity more than men?Nothing new about nice guys being treated like villains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Long lack of experience does affect the views on any current or future relationshipSpot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 09:15 PM |
| – | What do you actually think of unattractive men and their ability to date or get laid?Lemme explain this. To be at least noticed by girls you need to be physically attractive, personality comes later as number 2. Out of two people I’m sure that your friend would pick the more attractive one, and not the one with better personality. Conclusion: looks>personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 01:22 PM |
| 0 | What do you actually think of unattractive men and their ability to date or get laid?Imagine you're very far from being conventionally attractive. Only 1% of women think you're remotely dateable. 1% of women for like 50% of men? Explain me how does that work. And what’s the point if some women who nobody wants found me attractive? It’s like the old broken toys being thrown out and saying “somebody will play with them” while you enjoy with your brand new ones. It's harder to find people who are attracted to you if you are not conventionally attractive, but not impossible. “Not im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 10:27 AM |
| – | What do you actually think of unattractive men and their ability to date or get laid?It still matters more than personality so what you’re saying is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Why some guys find it so much easier than others (it's not just looks)Living in a world where niceness is a bad thing, and people wonder why we don’t have flying cars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Women love one night stands as much as men doIt’s great for the top tier men. Having all those women on rotation, who wouldn’t like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 06:51 PM |
| – | Men need to stop focusing on body counts. From a man.OP needs a chair to sit down after this comment 🪑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Does it really matter how you act on dates?Because looks > personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:48 PM |
| 11 | Personality can't compensate for looksBasically looks > personality based on your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:23 PM |
| – | Personality can't compensate for looksSomeone needs to clear it for you: If you’re not attractive your personality doesn’t matter, thats the take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:19 PM |
| – | Any women here..Change his physical appearance and it’s a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:20 PM |
| 5 | “Are we dating the same guy” is literally just the natural consequence of less and less people dating from their social circle.Let them. Only thing I’m gonna say is everything has a consequence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Yeah I guess it’s the only way. The big question is “is it worth it”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverYou either die a hero or become the villain. I would rather die a hero (single in this context). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Sad reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.When men have standards it’s a problem and viewed from a different perspective. If you’re happy with the 10% keeping you on rotation, then good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 07:12 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.If incels actually want help and assistance and for people to give a fuck that they’re suffering maybe they can stop being so insufferable with their threats of word domination. It’s like expecting a Jewish person to care if a Nazi is dying of cancer. You’re on the same level as them if you treat them the same way they treat you. It’s about being the better person, for the greater good. Yeah I’m so scared of the power of the dude who’s too scared to speak in public due to his crippling social an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather date a woman that has had a long term relationship with lots of sex or a woman who has had a handful of short term relationships with not much sex?“Nice guys finish last” 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather date a woman that has had a long term relationship with lots of sex or a woman who has had a handful of short term relationships with not much sex?The number without context means nothing for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 11:34 AM |
| 4 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstTranslation of your translation: Only way I can get women is being on their side and praising them like gods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:20 PM |
| 7 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstWhy do you prioritize fun for only women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:46 PM |
| 6 | How has dating changed substantially in the last ten years?Substantially? No. The top 20% still have all the girls on rotation so yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexThere’s a difference between can and would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexIt’s called having a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:42 PM |
| – | You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why.The hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Men being required to ask women out overvalues womenYou can choose who you ask out but you can’t choose who you date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Modern men are NOT protectors or providersProtect the wolf while he eats your sheep, it’s your choice after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:50 PM |
| 2 | What are some things men & women commonly say while dating that actually mean something else?If anyone don’t mean what they say, then where is the integrity in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us.Its the internets fault! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 11:08 AM |
| 0 | The issue is that women dislike how male sexuality is different from theirs but they still expect men to pursue.It’s always about proving something, like men are inferior to women. Confidence can be misleading, but hey what do I know. I guess they know more than someone “who only needs a boner to smash”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | The issue is that women dislike how male sexuality is different from theirs but they still expect men to pursue.I’m with you on this, we may lose a battle, but trust me we are winning this war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:26 PM |
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