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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Anyone else have a sex bucket list?I would like to make love for once instead of just having sex | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Guys I need help with something.Balls | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?Your dorm is hella strict. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?Exactlyyy | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?You should host and invite | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:25 AM |
| 12 | Getting girls at clubsSometimes, girls just wanna have non-comittal dancing fun. The ones that want more will make it easy and known. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it necessary or helpful to turn the conversation sexual when you’re escalating or not?How do you go from talking about something unrelated to kissing? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | M17 how to talk to girls at school bus stopYou have no reputation so use that. Be seen as the new friendly guy and say "Hey, new to the area. I came from X, nice to meet y'all." | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 5 | How do I prevent myself from becoming the texting buddy of my dateStill text her, but include flirty pulls and teases 15% of the time if you're worried about coming off too friendly. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 18 | How do I prevent myself from becoming the texting buddy of my dateDude, she likes you and wants to connect. Play with her and arrange for dates when you feel like. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Day gaming at grocery store?"Hey, you are very distracting so I wanted to come up and say hi." | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | How To Break Ice With No Ammo?"Hey, how's your day going?" "Excuse me. I just had to tell you your pretty. I'm X." Let her reply and eject or continue. "How's your day going?" | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with extreme inexperience with women?How would you make that conversation seductive? | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 6 | What's the farthest you've traveled to meet an OLD match for a date?Ouch man. That stank must have been powwwerful | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | "Hey , you are very cute and I like you.""Just wanted to come up and say hi, I'm X." | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Calling instead of texting has worked for meWhat do you usually talk about in your first phone calls? | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 10:27 PM |
| 3 | No second datesI'm getting ghosted | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | No second datesWhat would you like to know? | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | No second dates2-4 hours no goal, just get to know someone nerdy and geek out with them. I answer the questions appropriately, don't overshare. Never really been a mysterious kind of guy. Just want something serious instead of playing around. I usually text a "Hey, I had a great time. Have a goodnight." I will typically text again depending on the vibe I felt. But typically the next day I'll text again. I ask for the second date a few days after the first. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 09:02 AM |
| 2 | No second dates30 M | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 08:21 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Just go in there and be like "Hey, I find you quite magnetic and I'd like to take you out someone. When are you free?" | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | It's pretty weird to want to be rewarded for this stuffIt should be: Improve yourself and women will follow After a tiring day, my mind turns it to: Improve yourself to get women | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 2 | What to do if you can’t even get past the looks requirements of most women?Then act like you're not and make them feel weird for assuming. | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | What to do if you can’t even get past the looks requirements of most women?Excuses excuses. Who the hell thinks a puffy faced Asian and a scrawny Indian are attractive? You behave like you're ugly and not worth love, people will give it to you like that. You behave and think that you are a normal person and people will respond accordingly. Why the fuck is your name ugly and depressed? Your inner thoughts are the same day in and day out and it has manifested as you. Yes, you don't get to have the initial attraction that hot guys get just walking down the street. But if … | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | I think i am in love with my coworker. I am going to ask her out for drink. I am freaking out.. need helpJust put it casually: Hey, what are you doing this weekend? I wanted to see if you wanted to grab a drink ( or join me on this thing I was going to do anyways). | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I have the success, but no confidenceYou ever read Models by Mark Manson? It's the first and usually only book on self improvement a lot of guys on here have probably read. In it, there's a brief section on altering your perspective to a better one with talking to women. But reading the whole book overall, you can feel the vibe of the author and that calmness also transfers over to you. | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Where is seduction for women?Do you think you fall short of attracting the guys you want to attract? You must ask yourself what traits/energy those guys typically have and cultivate yourself to be like that. I'm not talking about specific ones like outdoors-type, foreign, or dresses a certain way. I'm talking about the vibrations they resonate with: how needy/independent they are, how carefree or attentive they are. Like energy attracts like. | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 04:21 AM |
| 4 | What to do if you can’t even get past the looks requirements of most women?Here's a video of wheel-chair bound asians and indians having successful cold approaches. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUZuNPv-FTY Thankfully for guys, it's their vibe that wins, even if the appearance doesn't match. Your vibe is your attraction. I feel good? So do the women I talk to. I get rejected? I think of it as a funny situation and my vibe is the same or better for the next time. For you, I prescribe finding peace in the good or bad events that happen to you, so your vibe is unaffecte… | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to follow up text without being too needy?"hey! I'm good Friday. How does X place at Y time work for you?" | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Running out of things to textSay you want to celebrate the end of finals by taking her out. When she says yes, text her every now and then by sharing something interesting/funny that happened to you. If you've already taken her out before, you can also call and just vibe so she feels your energy. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Tradesmen of this sub, what kinds of women do you attract?Could you elaborate more in-depth? I'm curious as to the general subject matter of attraction, the how's and the why's. Attraction is when you feel energized, even excited at the idea and presence of someone. If I had to separate it from friendship, I would say friendship can depend on having a fun time together, while attraction is no matter what you're doing, the person you're with makes it fun. I also have a few specific questions: At what stage do you mean this attraction - e.g. upon first… | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Tradesmen of this sub, what kinds of women do you attract?This boy's a skilled Roy | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Tradesmen of this sub, what kinds of women do you attract?I'm the new-age type to say you attract the kind of women that's a reflection of your psychological and emotional health. Attractiveness "on-paper" mostly matters for online dating. In-person dating is when your behaviors and subconscious breaks or sticks. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on being more social and funJealousy/judgement only comes haters trying to maintain what little social standing they have compared to you. Figuratively laugh in their face and show them they are beneath you. Also, mentally healthy people will silently or outwardly approve of your courage. Pick a couple, or a couple. Don't do all. If she is intent on sticking with you, better to suggest for an instant date and ask her to sit down with you or go somewhere. A. Statements are an option: "You look like you just moved here." The… | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Need helpIf she has absolutely no idea, don't kiss her out of the blue. Chances are though, she can sense you like her. If she resonates with you and spends alone time with you and smiles at you a lot, you should be good to kiss her. Next time you have a quiet moment together, just hold her hand and tell her you have something to tell her. Tell her you like her and get close before giving her a kiss. If she has absolutely no idea though, you can say "I had a great time. When's the next time you're free? … | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Is asking girls for feedback on what you did wrong when approaching a weak move?I have a different perspective: If they do give you advice, each girl will give you different advice and you will lose your mind trying to make a dynamic factor(a human woman each with a different past, personality) into something constant (your approach style). Instead, make YOU the constant factor and seek to find women who reverberate with your style. The sex or relationship will be better than if you win them over with Mr. Shapeshifter | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 06:35 AM |
| 5 | should you ask any cute girl her number if you're interested?You don't ask the fish how to fish. You ask the fisherman. | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 10:44 PM |
| 5 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?Nah, don't worry. Girls just gotta look good and have their own lives and interests. I used to actually love partners with low self esteem so I could try to build them up. It's just a neutral thing to me now after my last low confidence partner ghosted me instead of communicating | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | How to create general-life passion?Your advice and feedback is spot on. My apologies if late night brain can't reply to its entirety. I'm a simple guy at this point. I think I am just meeting women who aren't a match for me and blaming it on something that isn't there. Now I just gotta find another simple pleasures woman and not get clouded with all the "loves to travel" profiles online. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | My brain seems to freeze up/switch off around beautiful womenHow about thinking the opposite? That they also want some fun from the opposite gender and all you gotta do is be there for it. https://youtu.be/msUCyAVeXUU | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | how do you make someone jealous?This is some small dick energy right here. If you gotta make em jealous to be into you, that is some headache chess relationship that ain't worth it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Seriously worried sick I am a late bloomer: the average age for a first (French) kiss here is 14, and I am 22 and still have nothingBruh, I didn't go out on a date till I was 25. Then had sex that year and comfortably have a partner about once a year. I could go for more but I'm in it for the partner aspect. You'll be fine. If girls ask, just tell them the truth and say "That's okay. That's life for you." Don't attach any shame or identity to it. Girls like a guy that's comfy with reality. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Girl i met twice is visiting me 300 miles away. How to escalate to sexYour attachment to any outcome is what will kill said outcome. Just give off the vibe you want her to play with and if she reciprocates, game on. Nah, don't pay for her hotel unless you want to lead her on. She is coming out for your company, not your wallet. Spend time with her, enjoy the dynamic without trying to force anything. If you're shaky about initiating, just say "I'd like to come up with you. Would that be alright?" She's a big girl and she'll tell you what's up. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl takes ages to reply but ours detail into responsesAsk her out to something. She's interested but not addicted to her phone. Suggest a time and place and see what she says. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | failed date night. just trying to process and understand what happened.Last time a girl told me her limits, I just said "Thanks for telling me" and kept appreciating her while respecting said limits. Eventually, we went out and fucked. Don't overthink it. Time is interest, doesn't matter how naked you are. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 11:23 AM |
| 27 | I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same?The girls you have to do this with, are seeking validation. The ones you don't, are whole people and seeking equally mature partners | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?Perpendicular, unless you're going to be in the aisle and waiters will ask you to move | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 1 | How does one date when "thirsty"? Seems like catch 22 situationPractice some breathing meditation where you redirect any wandering thoughts back to your breath. It trains your brain to dump your preconceived notions about your situation and to enjoy the moment for what it is, i.e. the company of the girl in front of you | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women like shy and mysterious guys?Buddy, girls like all kinds of dudes. It always surprised me at first when I would see boyfriends who are not examples of whatever this sub thinks the ideal man is. Those dudes are boyfriends because they don't care what people think and continue to be whatever they are. They don't have a "model guy" they're always concerned about being. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Book on communication and social mediaMate by Tucker Max says "Just have fun with it." | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | I suck at talking in my native languageDo it dude. Whatever is comfortable for you. Don't hinder yourself for her comfort when it's someone new. Open in English. Continue with it and if they make a comment on it, casually mention you like consuming English material and either keep going on your original topic or start a new one based on something you last read/watched. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:22 AM |
| 9 | Create a life that other people would actually want to joinNo, no, this subreddit is for after covid. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Owen Cook Rsd classic videosYo, do you have the one where he goes out with using only non-verbal communication? | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you create a spark?Every teacher has interesting information that you need for the test or your career. But it's the passionate teachers that make you want to come to class and pay attention. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you create a spark?You answered your own question. You get excited and they catch it. I could go up to foreign girls talking about nonsense but as long as I'm excited excited, available women will respond with energy even if they don't know what I'm talking about. Interesting guys are pen pals. Passionate guys are lovers. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Veterans of nightgame: How do you deal with guys? Includes field report exampleLove the breakdown/options provided. Time to experiment more | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Veterans of nightgame: How do you deal with guys? Includes field report exampleLooks like the only move I know is making rapport. Took me by surprise to not have it reciprocated. What are examples of him making a mistake when he's mad? How do you capitalize on those mistakes? And when/if another guy reengages the girl, it's best game, wit, and luck. Would it be like a bidding auction where both guys just try to talk over the other to see who she responds to? | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 04:48 PM |
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