| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 284 | Men talking about bumble: “Women have to send an interesting first message that isn’t just Hey or What’s up, you should also mention something in our profile and make it interesting.” Men sending first message on Tinder/Hinge: “Hey” | RANT | thgeye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 193 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversations | LEVEL UP | thgeye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 8 | Does this seem like a red flag? | SEEKING ADVICE | thgeye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:19 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | New subreddit that reveals the sexism of the manosphere towards women and what their tactics are! Come join and protect yourselves.This makes me never wanna have sex again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:01 AM |
| 43 | Men's aggression being excused as "righteous anger" gets under my skin like nothing else.Violence, even when not directed at a partner, is never a solution to a problem and can be a form of psychological abuse. If you can't communicate like an adult, then don't be in a relationship, period.My ex called me “sensitive” and a “drama queen” but he would literally punch holes in the wall, throw things, and throw temper tantrums over the stupidest things, including him not being able to get up on time. So done with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Men talking about bumble: “Women have to send an interesting first message that isn’t just Hey or What’s up, you should also mention something in our profile and make it interesting.” Men sending first message on Tinder/Hinge: “Hey”Funny how in the animal kingdom it’s mostly the males trying to impress the females. We have strayed from nature :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 19 | Men talking about bumble: “Women have to send an interesting first message that isn’t just Hey or What’s up, you should also mention something in our profile and make it interesting.” Men sending first message on Tinder/Hinge: “Hey”On bumble no guy has ever responded to a “Hi” on my part. Ever :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Do HVM even exist?Honestly I think they’re super rare. The society we’re in rewards LVM behaviors, and breeds more and more LVM, as most men don’t ever expect to have to commit cause they know they can have a full rotation of FWBs for 2-3 decades and eventually have baby mommas (unmarried of course) if they want to reproduce. A guy can literally go on his phone and get free sex whenever he wants from “liberated” women with no expectation for commitment. It’s much easier for him to do that than look for a life par… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Strong boundaries are KEY 🔑🥰How can you tell if it’s a groomer? I get DMs sometimes too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 12 | ‘My husband broke my elderly dog’s legs but I still love him’ call the police and get a divorce please$10,000 more like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 24 | Men are so scummyHis poor wife. “The idea of me thinking how much better you are than her should excite you” Him and the girl who likes the idea of this can both go to hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:09 AM |
| 11 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsOmg that’s horrible. Fuck him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 04:28 AM |
| 29 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsI blocked him cause I was scared he’d retaliate with some comment like “now I see why your exes abused you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsSorry. A lot is wrong with me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 12:16 AM |
| 37 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsYes! Funny because apparently his ex told him the same thing, lol https://imgur.com/a/ekZRlqB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 39 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsBecause I’m nuts :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:15 PM |
| 44 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsYeah that was the most hurtful tbh. And he was 31–so much older than me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:44 PM |
| 11 | Men who say they dated "models" and "strippers"Yeah I’m a model and tbh I’m not hot at all. My boobs are barely existent and I have a very masculine face and body hence why I am sent only to all the “edgy” jobs and castings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 33 | I’m crying y’allIt’s because the men actually take care of themselves and don’t see it as “gay” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:32 PM |
| 31 | I’m crying y’allIts really depressing to take care of myself, stay fit and toned, and i can’t find a guy who has visible abs or a stomach as flat as mine. And even if I do find a guy I’m attracted to, the chances he will not have NPD, be abusive or have some sick fetish.... the odds are almost zero tbh. Yes there are billions of men but when you cut down the numbers by eliminating the obese ones, the number gets SO much smaller. There are probably like 5 HVM on the planet, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | This is what happens when you date a child... and the comments 😤Most men cannot wipe their asses. They stink down there. It’s gross! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Not to spill your secrets to menMen do see us as enemies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Not to spill your secrets to menMy ex told me that he once learned that a girl he was dating was sexually abused by her father. He immediately dumped her after she told him this, because he could no longer look at her the same (aka she was damaged goods). She opened up to him enough to tell him this, and he discarded her like a contaminated napkin, disgusting. I also got told (by a different ex!) that if I am ever raped, not to come home to him, because I’d be “used up.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:15 PM |
| 11 | Not to spill your secrets to menMe too but I’m just not sexually attracted to women . I wish I were | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 13 | The reason you've been negged explained hereExpected him to go “she’s such a temptress” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Every relationship complaint on reddit be likeHa, yes. I’ve written several novels and have a literary agent, yet my ex complained every day about how stupid I am as he continued to play video games and swipe on tinder for hours on end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Does this seem like a red flag?He has yellow teeth and a double chin too... total catfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:53 PM |
| 7 | does anyone else have this loneliness that never really goes away?I can relate to it too but only the less extreme side. It’s called “quiet BPD,” maybe you have that, but there’s such a stigma around it so I’ve never told anyone. I can relate to your post 100% though, I never had any friends as a kid and to this day I constantly need some guy to focus my romantic feelings on, (whether it’s a relationship or just a crush) or else I feel completely purposeless and empty and not like a person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | The Femme Fatale Trope, Explained...Men claim they hate “independent bitches” but always cheat with these so called bitches every single time. And of course way younger too lol. They are massive hypocrites. Also they mostly have a Madonna/whore complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 08:30 PM |
| -2 | What's the secret to attracting *good*, eligible partners?Sorry but idk how else to describe it and that’s what I think they care about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:16 PM |
| -8 | What's the secret to attracting *good*, eligible partners?Probably magic pussies. That’s all men really care about. Super tight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 09:01 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020My ex wanted humble girls and turned out being a psychopath who preyed on girls with low self esteem. Just putting that out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:05 AM |
| 14 | What are the most desperate texts you’ve gotten this quarantine? 😂A random guy on Hinge, after like 5 messages, asked me to fly to Florida to see him. FROM NEW YORK. TO FLORIDA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Does love even exist?Men don’t feel love except for their sons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:01 AM |
| 10 | Does this seem like a red flag?Yeah I am weirded out by the drama thing. And he went on about how this random Hinge girl told him she wanted to get railed by lots of guys and I’m like ok...Why are you telling me this lol. He said he’s not just looking for hookups, but also not looking for relationships only, but I guess you’re saying that seems like a reason to lean towards the former. I guess I agree, it seems like a way to prepare for him being like “well I never SAID I only wanted a ReLaTiOnShIp” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:48 AM |
| 8 | Does this seem like a red flag?Yes, can you enlighten me? I’m just not sure why it would be, but it gave me a weird feeling that he told me all those details because he was trying to get me to prove that I’m “different” and not a “sex addict” like her. Is that why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:33 AM |
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