thighofrelief Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	I think I’ll finish up here first thanks.	NAH, SIS	thighofrelief	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 02:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
99	Please don’t idealise men from other cultures Haha cue me at only 19 meeting an Italian man who had just arrived in England and entering an extremely abusive relationship which isolated me from friends and family. Culminated in him cheating on me, physically assaulting me when I complained about him having sex with other women in our home etc. I look back and cannot believe that was me. Never again. Edit: not saying English men don’t do this. Just never again getting swept away in the romantic stereotype.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 07:41 AM
53	Posted in a female subreddit... most comments are empathizing with LVM and even excusing their behavior as “competitive”??💀 Louder for those in the back!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 06:49 PM
23	Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her. Agreed!! These are not low effort dishes. There is serious talent here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 09:57 PM
67	Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her. Tragic. Imagine what you could do with and hour or two a night focused solely on your own development instead of doing whatever this is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 07:04 PM
21	No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child! That’s heartbreaking. Imagine already being knocked up too. What a joke.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 06:36 AM
11	Why can’t her friend just leave on her own??? ‘My ultimate goal is for HER to be happy in life..’ ?? Girl what are you doing, get a career or something. Make yourself the focus and you might not be tragic enough to ask for advice on reddit about how to destroy your best friend’s relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 10:27 PM
7	Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown. The instant withdrawal of attention and affection as punishment for failing to please him would be a pattern from day one if this moved to a relationship. And it’s a torturous technique, I am always keen to protect myself from this in particular.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 07:04 AM
40	Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown. We all feel like that at times. FDS is here to help you find the RIGHT guy for it to work out with. And if he ain’t right, we care enough to let you know. Best of luck to you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 11:44 AM
267	Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown. The way he cuts the conversation off after you are logical and cool... that means something. He gives no apology for being selfish.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 06:50 AM
15	I guess I need to go to skid row to find a husband 🤦🏾‍♀️ Encounters of the ‘turd’ kind...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 08:22 PM
19	This fool openly admits to only being with his current girlfriend to keep from being alone. He has the audacity to FEEL SORRY for her because she is getting him while "he is broken" 🤡 Smh, this is why you cannot build a man. They'll use you and once they are "healed" will chase their "ideal woman" Haha ‘loved’ as if that’s what it was 😂... bye Felipe!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 08:02 PM
43	This fool openly admits to only being with his current girlfriend to keep from being alone. He has the audacity to FEEL SORRY for her because she is getting him while "he is broken" 🤡 Smh, this is why you cannot build a man. They'll use you and once they are "healed" will chase their "ideal woman" Called you a freak because he was expecting messages from women like ‘omg you poor broken baby’ and ‘you must have loved that girl so much, your poor heart!’ But no you saw through the manipulation because you’re not an idiot so he gets mad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 07:11 PM
73	On r/sex a woman let’s her boyfriend have sex with her while she’s asleep. I wrote a comment in response and a Pickmeisba went at me for it. I just can’t fathom who could downvote what you said!? Suppose we are just another hole to fill, ey girls? Don’t have to be conscious or anything, has nothing to do with us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 06:20 AM
56	Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to men If that is a woman (which it isn’t), she really needs to do some soul searching. What happened to make her so hateful and angry?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 10:54 AM
85	Oh yes, man is making a joke at his laboring wife’s expense and posting it for internet likes. Yeah so hilarious. 🙄 Gtfo with those filthy trousers	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 09:12 PM
18	How is this gem still single? Omg the negativity and lack of self confidence is oozing from this bio.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 04:04 PM
20	Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯 ‘Why are you always trying to pick fights and acting crazy?! I only engage in mature discussions which can certainly never be about MY behaviour. I’m too mature for this, so I’m now going to give you the silent treatment until you cave, apologise and take responsibility for this ‘fight’. I told you from DAY ONE I hate drama and fighting, it was even on my profile so it cannot possibly be me provoking any of this!! You’re out of your mind’. Ad nauseam until you don’t even know who you are any mor…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 03:06 PM
8	Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯 Yeah that’s how i interpreted it too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:56 PM
20	Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPS If this is real she needs to be extremely careful how she goes about exiting this ‘relationship’. Men who are this obsessive and calculating, who feel that they are ‘meant to be’ with a certain woman like it’s their right and who manipulate and degrade you like this, also feel like it’s their right to punish you or take your life if threatened with the end of a relationship. Scary stuff.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 07:16 PM
4	Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/Relationships Thanks for responding, that’s a great outlook and now I feel like I want to adopt that more into my own life. Thank you for your insight!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 09:37 PM
22	Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/Relationships I like your attitude	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 09:26 PM
8	Woman seriously wonders if she’s wrong for pointing out that her husband is useless for not knowing where his own kids go to school Oh God, when men say they are ‘babysitting’ as their wife/partner needs like 40 minutes a year to herself and they inevitably call her and ask her to come home early anyway as child ‘won’t settle’ or some other totally normal parenting event happens and they cannot cope. Selfish and controlling.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 09:33 AM
6	Woman seriously wonders if she’s wrong for pointing out that her husband is useless for not knowing where his own kids go to school Wow that is really useful information! I would not have put the picture together as fortunately have never been in a divorce scenario... but I will keep that in my mind for friends/family. Scary and calculated behaviour.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 09:29 AM
16	Can't tell if im over exaggerating Why on earth does he want to wait until the new year? For a clean slate? I feel that if he was desperate for a shot at dating you, he would want to begin like yesterday. That’s a cop out to me. Wonder if he’s tying up loose ends in that time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 07:51 AM
1	Get him to propose within a year I feel like this is the approach that actually works quite well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/19 06:18 PM