thingsenjoyer99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Chores are survival skills not gender roles It's mostly that you want someone who enjoys doing those things for you, not that you need someone to. Obviously it shouldn't be strictly formulaic "oh yeah she has to enjoy doing X, Y and Z", it's just that gender roles exist for a reason and the things each gender is likely to enjoy doing for eachother are likely to be withim those roles	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 09:05 PM
2	Men would be much better off taking advice from other men similar to them who actually get results rather than women perhaps. You are correct but saying "rather than women" greatly detracts from your message and derails the conversation At this point it's safe to say most people know that advice from one sex to another is often bad or at least lacking if it goes beyond the very, very basics of human decency, hygiene and all that kind of stuff people in general agree with, so there's not a lot of damage done there Where the damage REALLY happens is when men take advice from men who are very different from them or men wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 07:36 AM
3	Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women. I mean yeah my mother was kinda like this (not as evil as you're trying to make it sound but in a sitcom kind of way) but it wasn't hard to figure out that it was all bs and not at all in my best interest to take her words as infallible wisdom. It was pretty funny actually to tell her about my dating life and see her flabbergasted Anyway, even if a guy is REALLY intentionally indoctrinated in the way you're describing it doesn't take much for him to realize that men and women are different and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 06:45 AM
15	We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards men You're just describing how it took you a while to figure out how to build yourself up, i.e you had a late start. There's discussion to be had in regards to age making things easier but this ain't it, things like a better friend group and role models while growing up could've had you at the point you're currently at 10 years ago	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 06:34 AM
1	Men don’t care about Men It's not that men don't really care about men, it's just that at the end of the day we know things such as rights and societal norms are bullshit and working on ourselves has a much higher ROI for solving anything we care about, so the efforts of men actually capable of helping others are usually reserved for friends and family by building them up, or at most serving as a good example for their audience in case they have one and aren't grifters As for those which aren't capable of even helping t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 07:57 AM
1	Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORK It's always this. "Oh no the pressure, the decisions" like bro why are you as a man annoyed that you're the one supposed to control the situation? It's not even about the results, not being able to enjoy the process is a failure in itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 05:44 AM
1	It’s easier than ever to date hear me out Having enough muscle so that your face can be lean without your body looking like it came from a documentary about starving children is kinda of where gym gains cap at in terms of attractiveness and that's what those guys had, it's just that now in 2026 very few people have jobs that are physical enough for that to occur without deliberate exercising	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 04:30 AM
0	It’s easier than ever to date hear me out Yes just ask any girl friend to show you her dating apps and you'll see how abyssmal the competition is, but it's not really about the things you're saying, it's just that most men do not know how to be normal online even if there's nothing wrong with them IRL, all the "metagaming" and online discourse over something that's supposed to be natural and unpretentious completly fucked people up. In fact if you (guy or girl) have got your shit together irl but struggle with online dating just don't e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 04:25 AM
1	Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet) men shouldn't take dating advice period because as cliche as it sounds dating is mostly self-discovery, learning how to have fun regardless of the outcome and all that, the moment you let others "intrude" into that self-discovery you risk carrying their biases with you and thus never learning how to behave in a way that is natural and enjoyable to you. Still as terrible as women dating advice for men can be they're a lot easier to escape from, can't say the same for the millions of young dudes g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 04:01 AM