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I mean most relationships now days come from dating apps, then work, and then probably similar hobbies. So it would depend on what peoples filters are on their apps and work is where the majority of people meet other people these days. So they're in endless positions to meet different age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:41 PM
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Like what do you mean age gap relationship? Getting married or just dating because age gap relationships are common enough. Nearly four in ten (39%) have previously dated someone with an age difference of 10+ years. Men are more likely to have dated someone 10+ years younger than them compared to women (25% vs. 14%). Meanwhile, women are more likely to have dated someone 10+ years older than them compared to men (28% vs. 21%). Many single Americans are open to age-gap dating, with 57% saying the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:26 PM
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Most left leaning figureheads and media personalities, I find, talk about the class war more than the culture war. The people that focus on the culture war are usually emotional immature conservatives. The far left people have better things to do than focus on that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:28 PM
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Do you actually have links to those studies and are they studies of "what people look for/want" versus "what people actually date"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:10 PM
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You know now that he mentions it, I do have a bunch of friends who "maximize" their time one tinder by quickly swiping right on everything and then they decide later after a match if they want to talk. So there's a few out there that do that technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:06 PM
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Kind of like how all the single women say they "like being single" but for some reason have to share at least one meme and one short video a day about being single like it's their personality. Maybe to me it's just a weird thing to keep talking about constantly or brag about for months on end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:24 AM
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Bro that does not help the argument at all especially in the most populated areas like Africa, China and India. Better sit this argument out if that's the best you're coming with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:09 AM
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Women are winning the culture war online but losing massively in the voting booth as the conservatives have every branch of government. Conservatives use divide and conquer, like culture wars, for decades now because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:49 PM
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Humans are emotional more than logical, so as long as young men keep getting belittled on social media, called this or that, etc etc. They'll keep voting right and we'll keep getting the elections we've had before because the vote for women isn't strong enough to outpace the men yet in the polls, even though women make up more of a voting block. I think we'd see a change though if they stopped all the gender war stuff and feminists from post constant rage bait, then talking tash in the comment s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:23 PM
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Women make up more registered voters than men, they can make the positive changes though. Yet conservatives got nearly half of the women voting block last election
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:31 PM
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Funny enough how much I see pro feminist things on reddit and Instagram, and all the "women are liberal. 45 percent of women voted conservative, which is like insane to think about. I would have guessed at most low 30 percent, not nearly half
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:29 PM
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Ummm the roll back of DEI in government funded programs is hurting women getting jobs and cutting women. They're cutting women from jobs in the military, and federal government job cuts are also targeting women. Women are leaving the workforce in record numbers as well from a report that came out in January, on top of women losing jobs to AI 3 times the rate of men. You may not see the effects yourself directly but women are at the losing end of this administration for more than just reproductiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:34 AM
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I mean instead of that happening a large majority just voted a certain way and that ended up stripping a ton of rights away from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:34 AM
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Oh yeah the age is around 50 it starts being more women than men, although there's still good looking 50 Y/O women. Now it's still uneven with the male population though in everyday things once you factor in males in prison, people working away from home in fishing, pipelines, overseas military, (all heavily male populations). If you look the most heavily populated states have more women there than men, while least populated states have more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:02 AM
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I go to play sports like soccer, futsol, flag football, dodgeball, etc. So the meetups are for sure male dominated for me. Everything else you mentioned though has always been more even, like clubs, bars, even my dance lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:53 AM
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Statistically and there's more women than there is men in real life. Maybe you should go to events that they would go to. I really don't find more men at the places that you mentioned even, except maybe meetups because I go to sport meetups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:51 PM
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Don't women speak on the perspective of men all over social media? I feel this is a two way street
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:05 PM
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A portion of the content shared in these gender wars are made by bots and same with the comments, when you click on the profile. Influencers join in because saying something controversial creates a comment section that gets filled up and thus makes them get more monetization. The whole point of all this is to divide because dividing is the easiest way to conquer. The real life war isn't up in arms physically fighting. Its women not dating people and men getting frustrated, then in turn running t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:55 PM
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Bruh there's dating pages/groups for dating men in prison. Instagram and tik tok reels on peoples video call dates with dudes in prison too. People who commit DV seem to always be in a relationship too. Now it's obviously not every women who chooses these men but there's enough that they don't have to worry about not finding someone to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:20 PM
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Men won in the voting booth which in turn is stripping things from women. So I doubt we'll see an improvement in those areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:32 PM
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That's literally every social media now. Cultural wars are pushed to distract us from class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:37 PM
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Facebook dating works well because you get 100 swipes a day and you can see who likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:27 PM
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I mean economically long term couples have significantly more finical benefits than single individuals with double buying power, easier to rent an apartment with dial incomes, can cosign loans, a safety net if one person becomes unemployed. You don't need to be married for all that btw. Economically if there's more single people then you need more housing because you'll need double the apartments/houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:29 AM
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I mean you can have a long term relationship without getting married. Marriage only gives you a few legal benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:25 AM
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There's also a lot across social media that actively belittle men and their issues. I think these are the biggest pushed by algorithms for engagement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:13 PM
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Ah nah. Although it seems hard to just get with anyone, it also seems the people I most relate to gravitate towards me. I feel like that's true for a lot of people that if you're looking for a long term partner, you eventually gravitate towards each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:00 AM
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I also hate lack of communication. I've been with long term partners that have that but also they're hard to actually read so you can't go off body language either, then I end up burning myself out physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:08 AM
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See I like eating out but I usually won't do that with people I just met. Hate blowjobs though, they're super boring imo. Guys got to be doing that foreplay though, it just makes everything better, builds up the tension, and makes it seem like you last longer is a psychological sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:58 AM
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They're even allowed to change their kinks and fetishes. I know mine have changed and change with different people, so I assume every person is generally the same so theirs change as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:45 PM
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Well not all. Socialist, revolutionary and communist feminists are on board with violence/destruction. Liberal feminists and leftist feminists are two different things. I'm more of a fan of leftist than liberal feminist because they're more action based.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:25 PM
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I mean they just had an article come out call feminism being quiet about women's suffering in Sudan. I have to say I partially agree because the only problem I ever see with feminism is there's a lot of talk but hardly ever any actual action to make it happen or support for it and other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:29 PM
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Algorithms make it hard because of money. Honestly match group (which owns all the dating sites) could easily make an algorithm to match people based on what they want pretty easily but then they have no customers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:23 AM
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I'd say you could pick up people at a bar or club, if you really want. It's kind of a secondary goal or like a most common underlying thing at these establishments. However it's much easier to hook up with people or find a partner (in my experience) at like a house party, a small dive bar, a less crowded bar, a get together that has a majority singles like a night time BBQ, co workers parties, etc etc. More intimate and closer setting with less people and less distractions. Then you can actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:29 PM
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Lol it doesn't kill your career. If anything I'd say the more successful men aren't in relationships. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:04 PM
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Crazy concept but not an uncommon one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:38 PM
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Well that's not true. I've been with plenty of women where I don't look like or act like their ex. On top of that a lot of their exes were all different. For sex there's definitely a wider preference for me however there's definitely limits. Actually dating for long term, I have an extremely specific type that I like and it's extremely personality based wise over physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:13 PM
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You cast a wide net to get laid. People can still go for their type to have a long relationship and usually do gravitate/end up with their type in long relationship sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:15 PM
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No they won't. There's women staying with abusers, women writing "prison pen pals" of murderers (the group keeps showing on my Facebook timeline), women hanging out with drug addicts when they're an addict or when they're with an enabler (watch the videos on Instagram). Moral of the story is you might not get the cream of the crop but there's definitely women out there with some poverty ass dudes. So no I don't believe people will be alone unless. 1. They're socially awkward or antisocial 2. Put…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:30 AM
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This is the truth. Most people I've hooked up with have had a decent amount of partners compared to like the average person. If you want to just get laid then things like "body count" shouldn't bother a person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:05 PM
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I mean the studies show people are getting lonelier and it's due to isolation. Both men and women are lonely, it's not just a "male loneliness epidemic".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:50 PM
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I mean you have significantly more choices these days with apps. On the other hand a lot of people don't go out and socialize anymore. Travel is also significantly easier these days. So there's pros and cons to both eras. Back then people also just married the first person they met because there wasn't a lot of choices and because they wanted to start families early, whereas people now don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:42 AM
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Dating won't return to "normal" because everything is on apps now. Not only that the majority of people stay home because it's too expensive to do things, then also all entertainment is either on a TV or your cellphone. So no things won't go back to normal. In general people just don't socialize in person anymore now or the future, it'll probably get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:40 AM
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The reality is that there's just a loneliness epidemic in general, women statistically are just as lonely as men. They just use the "male loneliness" as a way to divide. Loneliness in general has gone up but it makes sense. People have to work long hours, commute, come home and do chores. They don't have time for dating and friends. Then you add electronics, TV, gaming, social media, etc etc. That's what people do with their time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:59 PM
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This comment section is going to get super spicy. However I would have to say there's plenty of women inventor's, politicians, and scientists. So that kind of negates that women don't have original ideas and aren't Intellectual
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:20 PM
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My post nut clarity only says I should choose maybe a better partner at the time but never that I shouldn't pursue sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:15 AM
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It's all over Facebook and Instagram, the two biggest social medias. Which I believe is getting pushed because it causes a lot of engagement, especially by memes and news agencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:38 AM
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If you take out HPV then the percentage of people that have STIs is fairly low. Plus there's things called condoms and such. Most people I've met with Herpes type 2 will tell you about it because I've found they get it unwillingly. Other than that most hookups are just kinda boring AF. Sex is way better with a situationship or long term partners, especially with some passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:16 AM
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I mean people with degrees marry other people with degrees statistically at a high rate. For the wealthy they usually find people of their own class because that's who they're around most of the time. Events, college, work, is how you meet people outside of apps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:52 PM
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Like how into a relationship do they put less and less effort in though? I think it's kinda of understandable if people are putting less effort in, in a sense years in when they've settled into each other. Like for example you first start dating, you want to always see each other, do fun things together, etc etc. Vs you now live together maybe don't do like the dates as much because you're juggling real life and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:37 PM
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There already is female on male violence, a lot of men just don't report it. The whole human race is violent AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:16 PM
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I wouldn't say more violent than men but they're more violent than what's shown. I think DV numbers for women would increase if men would report them when they commit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:17 PM
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Idk a lot of my "fat" friends have relationships. However I never have much of a problem dating being what the medical world would consider normal weight. I think a good portion comes down to being confident and social
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:24 PM
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Honeymoon is way better than a wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:46 PM
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Ah see me personally I don't settle at all. When younger yes but later years I have a specific type. I like outdoorsy, nomadic, has a lot of life experiences, deep conversation, thought provoking stories. Those for me amplify the physical looks of a person but I won't go for someone who's "hot" but doesn't have anything really driving a passion for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:41 AM
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Game would be having like young 20s have a crush on you, rejecting them and pulling someone around your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:09 PM
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Bruh have you ever hung out with younger women when you're like early 30s or mid 30s? They're annoying AF. Maybe someone who's like late 20s is fine for someone in their 30s but let's be real, young 20s women are annoying to those who are 30 plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:49 PM
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Well hmmmm I see some friends who maybe aren't the standard bearer for attractiveness with more attractive women but then again a lot come from my small hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:56 PM
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Everyone is sexual and horny AF, they just want to play this game like they're not because society says don't be promiscuous. If we didn't have that stigma then I'm sure some orgies would be constantly popping off and people wouldn't be mad about dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:37 PM
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If you've ever had a job you'd realize that no one is good at communication
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:31 PM
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I mean the majority of my dates with people I do 50/50 or they'll pay, I'll pay, back and forth. Never have wanted someone to fully pay for my stuff but I think it's happened once, made me feel weird. However I'm a low love language of acts of service or gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:25 AM
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What's the definition of a male slut though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:42 AM
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Women are losing jobs faster than men due to AI taking office jobs. Women still make up less than 15 percent of the trades which are growing. Also the "war against DEI" is killing a lot of jobs women had or could have obtained.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:36 AM
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You can have a better sexual experience with someone you like emotionally vs just their body. At least I've found I have significantly better sex with someone who I like as a person, have had a crush on, or were close to vs someone of equal attractiveness who I just picked off an app or recently met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:36 AM
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I mean sex is sex if that's what you're going for. If you like the chase then there's that aspect. If you actually like the person and it's your thing to have a good sexual experience, that's another
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:20 AM
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I saw it and replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:57 AM
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Ah a childs insult, obviously not smart enough to make a creative one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:54 AM
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Do you mean like "red flags" it is better to find a partner that doesn't have the red flags you can't tolerate vs things you like in them while ignoring the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:49 AM
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Dang negative karma on reddit, must not be that intelligent tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:48 AM
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Maybe true for you but research shows people who are cocky/arrogant are better at finding dates/partner/etc. So if other men see that, then they'll continue to be arrogant predominantly because it doesn't matter if a small percentage doesn't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:36 AM
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Tinder doesn't want people to find matches because they'd lose customers. You just use tinder for the love of the game and hook ups tbh. They have a "short term fun" section now as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:28 PM
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You can't send videos/video chat on any dating app I use.......so that being said it's kinda assumed it was agreed upon to move to a new platform
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:16 PM
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Tbf it's hard to have a natural conversation on a dating app. You can't get your personality out through text and such. A lot of people I just send videos or video chat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:03 PM
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They do be missing some steps, especially in choosing a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:15 PM
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It's probably because they're just so used to guys going up to them. However in that same breath it also takes away parents that they might have thought were good for them but didn't approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:30 AM
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Current misandry has pushed enough people to the conservative side that now feminists/women are losing their rights now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:38 AM
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If women were the rulers of relationships then I wouldn't have to see so many friends on social media whining about not finding a bf or good man etc etc etc. There's a lot of them that just post and whine about it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:10 AM
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If they're as smart or smarter then men, why didn't they just out maneuver them to be in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:41 PM
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Oh hmmm she'd be my type if we weren't friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:35 PM
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One do you mean? The person we're trying to pull or the friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:17 PM
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I have a bunch of female friends.....haven't ever asked any of them out on dates. Now one is a lesbian and a good wingman, no lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:13 PM
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Nah it's still true women put in more household hours in. However men work longer hours still and make the majority of physically demanding/dangerous jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:26 PM
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Definitely not all men. Like honestly have some of these dudes not been with someone that doesn't have sex experience? They suck ass in bed and it's always the most boring and lamest sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:26 PM
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The rates to mens and women's loneliness are nearly the same though. So if men are lonely so are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:00 PM
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The studies say they're happier but it's not by a lot compared to men. The data was cherry picked to make the whole "male loneliness" whereas , it's just everyone is lonely. Let's not also discount that couples also have significantly less financial stress than single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:41 PM
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NGL I don't have a problem getting dates or matches on dating apps, I'm skinny AF. It helps when over 70 percent of the population is overweight/obese and you stick out I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:43 PM
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I think the problem is for a lot of guys, is they work in male dominated fields. Most of the US doesn't go out and socialize like it used to back in the day, like bars, clubs, get togethers, hobbies. So if you're a dude in the trades or something with all other male coworkers, then you rely on apps to get you out there more. I also don't think it's changing any time soon that people will start meeting naturally because I think most people will be dominated with staying home after work to watch T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:06 PM
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NGL if more men reported DV I bet DV stats would even out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:37 AM
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Nah it's really not because unlike a real dad if you or the kid bond a lot and the mom ends it, then it's over for that relationship with the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:36 AM
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Social media is full of toxic women and they wonder why so many fence sitters started leaning more right, which has ultimately shot themselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:32 AM
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Because everyone is tired of playing the capitalist game of grinding for success just to see the majority inherit it or nepotism it with no work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:07 PM
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Pretty sure according to science mens sexual prime is their early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:47 AM
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Like forgiven after the relationship or already planning to break up, I have. Not like forgiven and planning on working through it. I even still talk to some of my exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:06 PM
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Well yeah. I went with unlimited data and the best Internet I can get so when I'm in the back country running/hiking I always have signal. Also it has my phone payment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:15 AM
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Yeah you get a discount if you add a line. An individual will be like the full bill but dding extra people gets a bulk discount. Like I pay 130 right now but with my ex together with her brother it was 170. Yes I'm American, you basically need a car for everything. A revolution if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:29 PM
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That's true but I was also meaning for consigners for house, car, loans, etc. Cheaper car insurance, cheaper phone bill. A safety net if you lose your job, combined income for big purchases when communal living just helps with rent/utilities. With inflation increasing and lenders tightening down on who they'll lend to, single individuals won't be able to barrow much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:18 PM
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Well not really. Just relationships in general including LGBT, the world is set up for dual income. A person who has a partner has a significant economic advantage than a single individual and that's not changing at all, if anything it's getting significantly worse for single people as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:03 PM
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True. The majority of surveys that have been done have the majority meeting on dating apps and a slight percentage through work or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:25 AM
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I mean I can just pull up the stats. The large....large majority of people meet on apps. Also the stats for men's vs women's jobs is heavily skewed so jobs are dominated by one sex or the other so that already proven wrong on the job aspect one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:25 AM
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Well not really as breakups and divorce are pretty high..... because a lot of manipulative people and assholes are very extroverted. Hence why guys who are a better match or stack up as an overall better person are generally looked over because they don't approach. So not really saving time if you're just getting surface level people, getting a garbage relationship, and then breaking up to find someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:02 AM
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Interesting. So where do women expect to find a partner or whatever if not in person or apps? Just limit themselves to their small circle of friends or materialize from the air?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:59 AM
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Well maybe. Guys have real jobs to do where like women mostly work in office jobs and jobs AI are going to take in a few years, so they have all the time to be online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:58 PM
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Nah I'd prefer and I'm sure other guys would too, is a partner. Then to 50/50 everything. The problem is we keep hearing equality, and all this, yet there's a lot of women who don't want to 50/50 or they don't want to fully partner, expecting men to bring more in, work more hours while also doing housework, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:41 AM
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I wouldn't personally do either an age gap or a long distance passport bro thing. However the same women complain about both. I think they're salty because people found a way to get into a relationship without them and they feel replaced and not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:42 PM
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Well that's the 2 sides you get. Either a person trying to fuck which they don't want to talk about anything except sex so they'll just move to the next person or someone looking for long term who will want to ask questions and talk as to filter out who they want to spend their time on. Rarely you'll get a middle ground but even then they'll have filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:54 PM
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I mean maybe from you but if it keeps working for the majority then they'll just keep going with the numbers game and move on because there's plenty of other options. The people that want to talk talk are probably people that actually want to have a long term relationship and if you're only for sex then they're going to skip you because they want to filter out people that line up with their values and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:23 PM
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I mean people dumping him probably turned him into that avoidant personality. I mean how much is a person supposed to put themselves out there over and over, then get the same results lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:17 PM
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Well that's because guys get significantly further by asking tons of people to fuck vs ghosted when they try to genuinely get to know someone. The majority of conversations that actually lead to a date or more talking usually ends up talking about sex vs asking questions usually gets to ghosting.......or guys wouldn't do it like that. So the blame really lies on the population that's enabled that behavior tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:15 PM
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I always thought touch was like holding hands or like embracing, etc etc. Not just exclusively sex, I think a lot of men think of physical touch as actual touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:11 PM
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I mean the opposite happens more often in the experiences I've seen. If sexual things aren't brought in sooner than later then people just stop replying and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:18 AM
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Recruitments Hikes and likes the outdoors Is nomadic or wants to move around Is educated Has life experience Doesn't have kids, doesn't want kids Preferences Likes museums Leftist Reads/learns/research topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:52 PM
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Statistically that's how everyone finds partners now days. However dating apps don't want you to find partners because it takes away from their revenue. This would be solved if match group was broken up and more competition was in the dating app world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:34 AM
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I read the large majority before matching. So much so that everyone says the same shit everywhere I go (I move a lot) "Own my own X Y Z" "My kids come first" "Single mom of X amount of kids" "Small town vibes big city dreams" "X by day Y by night" It's the same recycled junk by basically everyone. Except hinge seems to be diverse in bios and prompts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:50 AM
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Tbf if you're a guy and do the experiment of setting your dating profiles to over 6 feet, you get significantly more matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:58 AM
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Should have included kids in the description no lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:49 AM
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Dang I like my dating apps. I'd rather them be regulated than go dark. Maybe even break up match group to make it more competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:39 AM
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I feel like that power shift is going back with the current oligarchs. Women have been losing their jobs significantly faster than men and losing their rights as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:08 PM
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Wonder what the DV numbers would be if men actually called the cops on women who hit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:23 AM
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The studies show women are just as lonely as men. They just cherry picked the data for a culture war
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:17 PM
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Well idk about that, I definitely don't mind it. Maybe if I was like more into a particular person and it happened, however that'd be a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:06 PM
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I mean there's been pro male propaganda about not having kids and losing everything in a divorce for decades now. About child support or women with kids ruining lives etc etc. I think a lot of men are realizing now that they don't want to risk that or even see their friends go through it so they decide not to have kids to avoid that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:16 AM
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Most people, outside of online dating, meet their partners at work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:20 PM
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I mean that's the point of it, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:15 AM
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Margaret Thatcher, Candace Owens, Condoleezza Rice, Marjorie Taylor Greene,Lauren Boebert are all good examples of what type of people you'd still get in office regardless of men being around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:49 PM
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There's countless research.....that's even been shared on reddit multiple times, that says people aren't that attracted to overweight or obese people. Maybe up front everyone is nice to them but behind closed doors they're considered less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:11 AM
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Maybe women should start their own film companies then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:54 PM
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Having a fatherless homes statistically hurts kids in obesity, suicide rates, poverty, and education. I'm pretty big on the idea that every divorce is 50/50 split with the kids and elimination of child support. Unless the dad or mom really doesn't want to be around. Only around 13 percent of divorce is 50/50 split time with kids. https://www.npr.org/sections/ed/2017/06/18/533062607/poverty-dropouts-pregnancy-suicide-what-the-numbers-say-about-fatherless-kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:32 PM
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Statistically that's a myth as is the "women are doing better than men" myth. Women are 16 percent more likely to be in poverty than men. Women have more unmanageable debt than men by 8 percent and have 30 percent more debt stress than men. 79 percent of women are in working positions that could lose their jobs to AI. Men's retirements are 50 percent bigger than women's. On average women have 20 to 40 percent less savings than men. Men invest more than women as well at 11 percent. Now hypothetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:27 PM
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It's like when women go "I'm independent or I pay everything myself" Congratulations it's what adults do. Why are we bragging about being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:53 PM
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If we're talking about girls that I consider just friends and hangout with. No I'm not trying to sleep with them and I'd think it's weird if they wanted to. Especially because I treat them like I would to bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:39 PM
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I do here from phycological perspective that women go to abusive and toxic relationships, if they're used to it, because it's more comforting and they're more used to it, than a stable one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:11 PM
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I mean I'm from a small town so basically everyone. After exploring the country and knowing my friends back home, I think there's a lot of better options for them than what's available in a 30,000 population area.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:28 PM
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Bruh I see tons of hotter women with like less attractive guys. Vice versa as well. I think there's leagues for first meeting or apps. However if they know each other in friends groups or hobby clubs, then that's where leagues form grey areas with personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:38 AM
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Every FWB and situationship I've had we've been friends and done stuff together. Other than that if they're a one night stand they're just a one night stand. I think the large majority of both men and women agree that sex is better when there's more of a bond than just meeting a rando and doing things. The flow sucks and you don't know what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:36 AM
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I mean it goes along with the endless arguments of "women only date assholes" and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:05 PM
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I mean mine was just personal observation idk about the study. He'd have to link the study or I guess I could look it up when I'm not lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:11 PM
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In my experience the people I know who talk down on women are the ones who get the most action. The ones who have no opinion or positive opinion usually don't get that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:59 PM
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It's not actually 80 percent is male. You could have at least looked up the stat first. Ist 60 men 39 women. Also some definitions Poverty: the state of lacking enough resources, like money, food, housing, and other necessities, to meet basic needs Homeless: without a home, and therefore typically living on the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:21 PM
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Are they falling behind? 75 percent of state and federal government are men. Men make more salary wise. Women are more likely to be in poverty. 3 times more likely to lose their job to AI. Then birth rights and DEI is being stripped everywhere so that's going to harm promotions and hiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:30 PM
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It's just like how women want to preach men need to go to therapy but statistically only 20.3 percent of women have went. We all know some women that need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:07 AM
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NGL social media feeds all these jokes and gets a lot of attention. Same thing with accountability in women,.social media feeds it. I feel like in this age of social media dominance both parties are going to get fed more propaganda to push whatever than are going to call out bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:22 PM
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The earth doesn't need more people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:05 PM
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I should have rewored it. The people that don't want kids, just aren't having them. The people that want kids are delaying it because of economic factors. https://iiasa.ac.at/blog/nov-2024/why-are-people-waiting-longer-to-start-family-exploring-trends-challenges-and-choices
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:59 PM
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The gender war is pushed by people who don't want us focusing on class warfare Also male loneliness is a myth of cherry picked data. Women are just as lonely or only slightly less lonely than men. It's like that "women are more happy single" but the data showed it was only by .5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:17 PM
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From the people I know that just like to fuck or relationship jump, they're all for not having kids. It's more people who want to settle down that want kids. However statistically the biggest reason for people not having kids isn't about "feminism" it's because of economic factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:03 PM
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I mean that kinda backfired though pushing enough people conservative enough that we have a government now stripping all their rights to include their once economic advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:54 PM
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I mean 81 percent of people with degrees marry other people with degrees. So research backs it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:05 AM
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I mean it's self inflicted tbh. Then on top of that obesity costs the US healthcare system billions of dollars annually. There's literally no scientific, academic, or social argument that is winnable saying being body positive is a good thing. I can link the academic articles on what the majority of people think about it behind closed doors and not surface level pandering to look good online tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:03 AM
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It's called body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:57 AM
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I guess. Feminism just comes off to me like the left version of MAGA people. I can see why both sides end up pushing the other whatever direction. However I feel like both just push more people to not vote. It's also annoying that the data supports that women are going to college at higher levels than men so I'm expecting them to come with logical arguments. Yet not getting them anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:13 AM
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I mean this isn't back by studies, like even in the slightest. Then I guess my personal experience of friends and myself, also not true. I think blanket statement like this having me thinking people who think like this are on the same level as MAGA people. Blanket statements filled with fallacies and not actually backed by research/academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:45 AM
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They say it from a mile away. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_Brian_Thompson https://www.insurancebusinessmag.com/us/news/breaking-news/ceo-of-state-accident-insurance-fund-corporation-has-house-riddled-with-gunfire-526887.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:35 PM
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Statistically speaking women feel more empathy but by the studies more than half of men feel empathy or express it differently. So it's complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:09 AM
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Hell yeah fuck paying for dates. Tbf I've 50/50 all my dates but tell the people who don't to stop paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:07 AM
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Most as of now. 1 in 4 are child free now and it's risen in the last 20 years. So yeah the majority but the majority is narrowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:06 AM
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Bruh what. Other than a handful of people I've dated has the attraction went away. If I'm "in love" with the person then they're what I think about and lust over regardless of how long the relationship has been going on. Now in that term for a long term partner I'm pretty selective and choose people that would be my physical attraction type. Splitting chores is pretty easy too when you're a minimalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:13 AM
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I mean why are we wanting things from each other besides a committed companion. They shouldn't want money or material things just like I don't need someone to cook/clean. People should just want someone to enjoy their time with, who they're closer and more vulnerable with than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:32 AM
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We can always introduce them to 1790s France.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:43 PM
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Idk situationships are just so much easier though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:50 AM
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I mean it's been covered in academic articles and research that "cheating" is still painful even when it's not a societal norm to degrade it.https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2000-07205-000 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23175520/ https://digitalcommons.chapman.edu/psychology_articles/132/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:43 PM
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I mean statistically it's always been false. Poly is less than 5 percent of the population and men/women cheat on the same levels (a minority of the population) with men being slightly higher. I think both are more programmed for monogamous relationships, majority wise. Then there's some outliner because everyone isn't programmed the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:26 PM
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Nah that's not true. I moved from a big city to a rural area. The big city had the exact same shit especially with the "kids are my world" kind of stuff lots of that or the same generic bios for both the city and country. I will say though in maybe the projects/hood whatever you want to call it they have significantly different bios.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah they do suck but mainly I look at photos for people hiking. There's a lot of hikers and outdoorsy people in my area. Other than that. "My kids are my whole world". "I'm sober now". "Mama bear" everyone has "small town heart big town vibes" extremely unoriginal. "(My job) By day (my hobby) by night" At this point I'd rather just people put in a bio to AI and have that generate it for them. Idk though I don't get that many matches but maybe it's because I'm super picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:29 PM
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Maybe he's just there having flings and not actually dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:24 PM
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You're a partnership. Maybe you should be tag teaming
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:59 PM
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Maybe they should go to couples therapy first. Isn't that what everyone keeps preaching
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:07 AM
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Isn't the clothing they wear in the middle east really cool and protective from the sun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:00 AM
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I mean research already shows it has a ton of benefits for both people. Needed as you'll die without it is a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:30 PM
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Yeah I believe the data is being manipulated or posted out of context to fuel a "war of the sexes". A lot of information across social media. Propaganda to either divide people to ignore the economy or to divide a nation from an outside source.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:07 AM
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Some reference https://youtu.be/OHpEnUwQ0dE?si=EkwXNvt4n75FAi_A
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:38 PM
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Ooof maybe me. I hike and run a lot, mostly spend my weekends camping. Like to play sports and such. However my type is definitely chubbier girls especially ones with glasses. Love some nerdy type girls. However on the flip side I know a few "society attractive" who get with Dad bod or like bigger dudes. A little more than I'd like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:24 AM
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They're definitely more likely but let's be honest, most people aren't getting help out there. 20.3 percent of women and 10.1 percent of men have been to therapy, not a huge number by either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:21 AM
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Hate to admit it but it is the style. If it wasn't working then they'd change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:25 PM
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They should make an app where you have to share your driver's license. Then everyone can talk about them together
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:26 PM
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I feel like it depends on the person tbh. Having read people's memoirs, letters, and personal experience. Sounds like a lot of people were truly in love with each other regardless of what they could provide or circumstances. However at the same time there's a lot of long lasting relationships full of people giving and taking, not actually liking the person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:15 AM
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I mean all these statistics are true but they're manipulated. Like "single women are happier than men" when it's true but only by .5. Or cherry picked like "single women are buying more homes than single men" which is true but they're also less financially stable holding more debt and going into poverty more than men. It's all just cherry picked and manipulated to circle jerk the gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:05 AM
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I mean my type would be more liberal women but I can observe that a lot of conservative women I run into on dating apps/real life would adhere more to the standard beauty that's put by mainstay media than liberal women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:43 AM
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I mean both the left and the right complain about the same economic things. However most people are emotional so they'll choose to have that culture debate rather than join together about economic hardships. The people on the top know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:21 PM
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I feel like this whole "war" any culture war really is just to split people and let them ignore all the economic things going on. Rising prices, rent, utilities, oligarchs, climate change etc etc. Yeah I feel the online war maybe men are losing I guess. However feminism and all that is significantly losing in politics. Conservatism is rising, women are 3 times more likely to lose their jobs to AI, DEI is being stripped from many workplaces, birthing rights are being taken away, 75 percent of sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:36 PM
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I believe a relationship with someone could/should also help with some of the others. However it definitely helps with physiological needs as couples(no kids) have a significant financial advantage over singles.......and prices are only going up on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:00 PM
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I find it sad when I get rejected from people I've been talking to for awhile, who after talking I find they like or are used to that "emotional rollercoaster". Not like sad as in condescending but like genuinely upset they think that way of dating is comfortable/normal. Some I understand because they're that way themselves, others are better people than that type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:16 PM
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Ewwww don't say that. If my parents said anything about who I could date, I'd end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:41 AM
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Everyone's dating problems come from social media, propaganda, and dating apps who don't want you to actually match with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:32 PM
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Pffff maybe you're not. I've had luck of dating apps, more in the city tbh. You have better chances though talking to people at work or if you're at a small in uncrowded area though for things like that. You just have to bullshit with people, if that doesn't work then expand the amount of people you talk to, and then ask them to a date. Doesn't mean you have to be exclusive after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:00 AM
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Situationships is what they're called now. Someone you know but for casual and dates some times. I like them better than relationships NGL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:57 AM
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My hometown has social circles, its super small so everyone basically works or sees everyone. When I lived in the city.....where most people live. Absolutely not. 40 hours at work, hours commute to and from work, then you have to food it up, then clean/laundry, etc. I could still have a very small social group I'd play sports with but it took up 3 hours a week and was mainly just dudes anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:53 AM
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Most people don't have social circles anymore. Due to either working too much or work burnout, plus going home to do chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:20 AM
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I mean I don't really watch TV but I've seen both. I guess the Hallmark stuff is just annoying because it's a repeated story and bad acting. I think a more realistic story or different story would be good. Also maybe better acting. Anime is fun I guess. Like I feel like I know more women that watch anime than watch Hallmark stuff tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:19 AM
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Wouldn't say this is male or female problem. Just seems like you put a lot of energy into people dating or otherwise, yet people don't text back or they're just one worded back tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:04 AM
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As a guy I also prefer a relationship or sex with a connection. It really is better than casual sex. However I think for some guys or many, idk blanket statement, I think they just want to get off. Me personally I like sex as an experience and a male orgasm can have different levels. Maybe that's why so many people are in "situationships" now is because they want both the emotional and physical connection without the strings. Less hurt feelings but both get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:32 PM
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I mean maybe your personal preference but research wise women are as horny as men. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10125944/ However men have more casual sex but shockingly....it's kinda higher but not that much higher than women. So I guess you don't speak for the entire group. I can also link endless reddit threads of women talking about being just as horny as men to balance out the research with personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:44 AM
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Idk man. I see a lot of my friends getting with, what would be unattractive to most of mainstream society, guys. So while yeah I guess it's maybe true from some observation in other observations I've seen a lot of people get with "unattractive" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:15 AM
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No lie if you become super composed you're going to find a lot of people boring and not fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:03 AM
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I don't think it's overall "chill with being single" because studies all over the place either have men as lonelier or men as lonelier. Lonely at different ages etc etc. I think we're all lonely and they just wanted to fixate on "male loneliness epidemic" as some kind of propaganda for some shit. As for economically the world isn't designed for single people to succeed financially. With purchasing power, or with lending money. So single people will always be a severe disadvantage vs a couple (no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:58 PM
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I'd add that there's also an emotional connection. One night stands are definitely fun but sex with passion definitely amplifies the experience. So if both parties are passionate into each other and communicate well, they'll usually go past the one night stand part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:42 PM
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I think if "good women" or "good men" are going to meet it'll probably be at wherever they're volunteering at tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:19 PM
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I definitely wouldn't say this is all the way true. I knew a lot of normal and good people who dated absolute assholes/abusers. Then they broke up......some choose to stay for a long time. Then now they hesitant to date or they just don't date at all. A think abusers really take advantage of some of the best people and then ruin those people's outlook on partnerships tbh. So a grey era is more what I'm going for. Both our comments could be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:26 PM
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I mean also if you think about it a "good person" probably wouldn't announce that they're a good person tbh. Like they're not going around bragging how much they donate and volunteer etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:21 PM
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I've noticed there's a few people out there that want a doormat as a partner tho. What a sad life for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:19 PM
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I mean idk man. Some times it feels like there's a lot of people not attracted to what level they're actually on tho. Like everyone is going for the top dogs but it's not just women doing that, it's the fellas too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:16 PM
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Idk there's a lot of poly relationships out there for so much individualism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:51 PM
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Just 50/50 every date or if you're dating long term have them pay for a future date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:20 PM
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I mean technically how the economy is set up it strongly favors partners/couples. Other than that you don't have to lower the standards just widen the range you're looking for someone, could always try long distance and then combining together. Like most people in my small ass home town for sure settled whereas I know people who move to be with someone who are now in great relationships, with their standards because they opened their dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:08 AM
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And make money. Don't forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:29 AM
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Just going to knock a whole economy down like that. That's basically taking money from the top and moving it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:04 PM
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Stats don't back that up.33 percent of women get back with their exes compared to 23 percent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:45 AM
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Okay not all guys do that but the stats are high. 62 percent of men go to the gym after a break-up. I mean guys could ask for external support after a break up. I've called my family and friends after a breakup. Helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:42 AM
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Well tbf they could date conservative women. Who are also strangely just as asshole. They definitely let you know in their bios.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:21 AM
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Agreed. Everyone is on a narcissistic scale but there really isn't a lot of true narcissists out there. I think the buzzword is used too much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:26 PM
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I don't see why guys aren't doing this as well. I left swipe on people who I think wouldn't be a match based on clothing or around places I wouldn't be at. Maybe I just started being more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:17 PM
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Good thing narrcissm is less than 5 percent of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:37 PM
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People deny looks at face value talks. However surveys and stats show a different tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:26 PM
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I'd have to say women in work places is about to be hit pretty hard. AI is slated to take a sizable portion of women dominated fields. Also DEI is being ended in many workplaces so women won't get hired as much or promoted as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:52 PM
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I mean the number of only fans creators is 2 percent of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:51 PM
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NGL any red pill meme or quote I see says. Make money, work out, work on yourself, don't chase, blah blah blah. Never any......any about get more educated, read a book, go to the library
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:33 PM
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Idk maybe liberal guys are going for conservative women. Conservative women are definitely adamant about being conservative so just go for the liberal girls. Now what I think is maybe they're not attracted to liberal girls. So they go for those hot blonde conservative types and wonder why they're not getting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:20 PM
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Guess it depends on the success. Like laid more, in marriages more, better options, like what? I feel like conservative guys are more successful at gaining partners for sure but both parties probably are settling. Liberal guys I feel like are more successful at getting laid or experiencing a variety of sexual things. Those are just my observations. Research shows more women are leaning left and won't date a conservative guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:17 PM
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Idk if guys really know what they want most of the time either tbh. Ideally I'm pretty sure that's why people date around because everyone has bad and good things, you need to see which ones you're accepting of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:05 PM
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There is already talk about making an app for men. I mean if someone knows how to code I'd jump on it now and get that bag before someone else does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:56 PM
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It's political because of I was an oligarch running large corporations and had maybe all the media companies into an oligopoly. What's better everyone fighting a class war against me or a culture war against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:36 AM
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I mean any dude could get them just by being clean and even (what science says) is the normal weight. I'm normal weight from running and hiking. Then everyone else around me is overweight so I stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:34 AM
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I feel that. Not from me personally but someone I dated. Her household was toxic and how she described her past relationships was.... majorly toxic. Then she'd randomly start the most off the wall arguments with me and push away often. NGL I knew mentally about all it does to a person, still my favorite relationship because she had all the goals and morals I want in a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:58 PM
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A lot of toxic people who grew up in a toxic environment go on to toxic partners because it's what they know. Maybe they could include in health or sex ed (whatever the fuck they're calling it) what a healthy relationship or partner is, well before people start actually dating seriously. I remember my teacher touched on that a decent amount but I know others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:54 PM
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I mean you can be both though it's possible to be have whitty and be funny or even come off as an asshole upfront. Then be a very caring person who does a lot for others and such. Then vice versa a shy person who's a total dick of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:50 PM
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They already have Facebook groups for this who have had no legal repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:00 PM
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I mean I feel like the current administration is heavily going against all this. So whatever gains women had that lead up to this are being taken away in less than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:38 PM
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Ah I did that for a few relationships and got cooked. Another one I set pretty big boundaries but still had leeway especially after like talking out the boundaries. The one with boundaries she had emotional meltdowns over them all the time, it was wild. But I've had a really good relationship where the boundaries just worked for both of us and was really pleasant. So all sides of the spectrum out there but I'd say someone not taking advantage is rare but happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:16 PM
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I mean tbh there's statically not that many narcissistic people out there. Less than 5 percent, maybe a lot of people with the traits but not a true narcissist. It's like the word has became everyone's "serial killer" a statistical rarity but significant fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:11 PM
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I mean a little off topic but seeing as the majority (74 percent of the US is overweight/obese) wouldn't normal not be "non fat". I feel like that would change a lot because being skinny is definitely noticeable now and studies show people aren't attracted to "fat" even though basically everyone is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:50 AM
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Same like a virgin. Clingy, no experience so they're boring AF, they don't know what gets them off so there's zero communication. Sounds like frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:27 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/05/10/most-us-parents-pass-along-their-religion-and-politics-to-their-children/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8907492/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:01 AM
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I mean I see it both ways. Feminist get mad for some reason that more and more men are finding foreign wife's. Then men are mad at Western women and saying spiteful things as they find them. So it's like a chicken or egg thing which one started their whole circle jerk first. As the population is nearly 50/50 I think it'll depleat the dating pool of men in the US as more leave but I don't see them stopping or slowing down anytime soon. The only question about the future tho is would it depleat fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:13 AM
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Bruh how can you not have female friends. There's plenty of women that I and others don't have sexual attraction to and are strictly just there for friendship. Just treat them like one of the dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:37 PM
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So when all men start building muscle mass do we just keep getting bigger than each other until we're balloons? Also mathematically and economically everyone can't get rich and accumulate this wealth. Statistically everyone overwhelmingly stays in the economic class they started in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:05 PM
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Just free will it and do whatever you want. You ask someone in public who's a stranger, you're never going to see them again so it's whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:21 PM
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Just take all the seats away. Now no one gets to sit.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 09:08 AM
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Her forhead reflects the sunlight and causes forest fires.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/20 04:38 PM
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This is her in high school https://imgur.com/C0xMkX6.jpg
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/20 12:44 PM
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I feel like just getting a job would have been easier.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/20 07:46 AM
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The majority of designers and make up people do this. The problem is we need to get the message out to their consumer who don't always use Reddit but other social media platforms. Should promote those brands that treat their employees right and let everyone know about the ones that don't.
/r/PussyPass01/07/20 03:51 AM
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Should have picked a better partner to have sex with and they probably wouldn't have been a single mom.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/06/20 03:01 AM
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A lot of people shouldn't be parents tbh.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 05:31 PM
10

I thought sugar babies were another name for prostitution which I believe is illegal.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 02:32 PM
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After all this is settled I hope we see Depp back in the spotlight in some big films and she should never be heard of again.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/20 05:12 AM
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I'm sure she also has a lot of legal fees and lawyers to pay as well.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/20 09:22 PM
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There's so many staged things that real events seem fake. It's a rough time out there on social media.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/20 07:13 AM
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Highly doubt that.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/20 10:35 PM
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I'm a dude that doesn't like the AC but I just put a hoodie and beanie on.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/20 04:55 AM
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/r/hittablefaces
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/20 08:22 AM
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People probably said the same thing after WW2 that there would be no more draft. There's always a possibility of war. If we went to war with some of current global rivals Russia, China, or North Korea, we would definitely need one.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/20 05:34 AM
3

Hey some couples are into a third.
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:52 PM
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Here's the episode but they did a whole group of tests like driving, packing a car, and map reading. https://youtu.be/wGybxhxHiME
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/19 02:58 PM
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Didn't myth busters bust this?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/19 11:41 AM
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Only if it's proven they lied though. That could become a problem if there wasn't enough evidence or something along those lines. You'd still want people to report these crimes without fear that repercussions would happen if they had waited/ evidence wasn't available. Everyone should know that sexual crimes are hard to prosecute and investigate.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/19 05:51 PM
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Did she get a felony at least?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/19 05:48 PM
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Single moms are annoying to be around in general.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/19 02:51 PM
6

That kids doomed now being with that shit of a mom and losing a good dad.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/19 11:15 PM
118

Can't believe this McDonald's level girl is complaining about going to red lobster.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/19 02:16 PM
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Exactly. Seems like the entire management team made the decision, not just one person.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/19 05:28 AM
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now sit down and shut up
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/19 05:54 PM
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Hasn't the majority of people left or right been against this though? Even most news stories aren't painting this as bad. Pretty sure Tomi is just creating fake outrage because no one really pays attention to her that much anymore
/r/MensRights27/03/19 06:37 AM
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You never just take your shirt off randomly?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/19 03:29 PM
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The real crime is that they have a 500 word minimum, that seems way too easy.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/19 06:35 AM
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