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Thanks for the reply. Yeah, could be. I guess it seems strange to me, if I met a girl 2 points above me, I wouldn't really care about connection... but maybe that's just me :) I suppose it depends what you're looking for
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:41 AM
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Hmm. Yes. Because you know me well... lol :)
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:38 AM
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Yeah very good point. Thank you. When you think about it, that must really f**k girls up in the head, getting attention from horny guys, possibly guys who are "above" them attractiveness-wise and just looking for a quick bang. Perhaps they think they can get these guys but only the guy knows for sure that he is not the slightest bit interested in a relationship... Interesting point!
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:38 AM
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Thanks for getting back to me. These were girls I met in bars, not dating sites. I don't bother with dating sites for that very reason! :) But I guess as another poster said, the girls could still be on dating sites and getting a lot of attention and validation, which I am competing with to an extent.
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:34 AM
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Thanks - yeah that's a good point. Sometimes it's hard to appreciate what you have, and stop thinking that the grass is greener. I think it's something I need to put more effort into, and hope that it isn't something I have to learn from bitter experience! One thing that concerns me is about the sex being so much better with someone you're really in love with. I find the sex with my gf isn't that much better, in fact I find sex with the same woman just bores me. Plus she isn't 100% my physical t…
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:23 AM
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Thanks for the detailed reply! Much appreciated! Curious about this: I'm of the opinion that if you are in a stable LTR and maintain your abundance mentality everything can work out. Just meeting new pretty faces lets a lot of the pressure off, because lets face it they are all the same when the lights are off. I don't know about this. I haven't really done a lot of what you describe, so maybe it will help. But I have on occasion done it, and I found it has the opposite effect - made me think "I…
/r/seduction07/02/19 06:46 PM
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Thanks for getting back to me - I'm not worried about cheating, but these feelings are holding me back from committing further... which I guess in a way is like cheating because mentally I'm not 100% *there* in the relationship
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:47 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I guess some people just don't know what they want. I count myself among them unfortunately. I don't cheat tho. But maybe I shouldn't be in a relationship when after a period of time in it, I still have these feelings... if you don't mind me asking, are you in a relationship? And do you ever have feelings like that?
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:45 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I hear ya... I enjoy that aspect of it too, the process, trying things out socially, the excitement of finding something new that works, and enjoying the sex that results from it... see I don't feel like I've learnt all I could, and haven't yet got to that place of abundance... which I think helps make it difficult to settle... I think if I got there, and knew I was there, I'd find it easier to commit
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:43 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I thought pickup forums would be a good place to answer this particular question. I used them in the past when I was actively into pickup. But you're right - I'm not entirely happy. She's a great girl, but not 100% physically my type. I'm bored sexually... tho I've heard that happens anyway and would happen even if she was a model. Is that true?
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:41 PM
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Thanks for your reply. "shackled to a madman" - that's a good description! I kinda feel I haven't reached that stage of zero fulfillment/seeking greater truth yet... just sucks that I've met someone I could potentially have that greater truth/connection with, but my "madman" still hasn't got to the point of zero fulfillment.
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:39 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I'm not as young as you are unfortunately... but still young enough to maybe have one last blast at it. There is also the option of multiple relationships, so you can have the best of both worlds to an extent... but I'd say you'd be unlikely to hang onto any of them for too long...
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:36 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I totally get the "bored and uncomfortable" thing. That's exactly the way I feel. It feels like being in a relationship has made me have to give up my favorite thing in the whole wide world But realistically I won't be able to do my favorite thing for a whole lifetime. Maybe I should make the most of it while I can until it gets old and repetitive like you say. It would mean giving up a great girl tho :( You say it gets old and repetitive, but yet you're bored and uncomfor…
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:34 PM
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Thanks for your reply. It sounds like you don't think monogamy is right for you. I feel like I might be in a similar place... I'm curious to know what differences do you think there are between you and other guys who monogamy is right for?
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:29 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I think if I was a movie star who could have any woman I want, even when I get a bit older, I think I'd do the same thing. Maybe that answers my question in a way... but there's a difference between what you "want" to do, and what is the sensible course of action for the long term... therein lies my dilemma...
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:27 PM
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Things I wish I did more of when I was younger: - network with people - thought it was a waste of time but it isn't - volunteer/leadership activities - you learn tons from it - read lots of books and articles about psychology/philosophy/business/whatever interests you - important thing is you learn and it expands your horizons - travel more - really broadens your horizons - don't be indecisive - say yes, try new things, do random stuff, experiment and learn - bang more chicks :)
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:42 PM
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