| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 51 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾Mine works overtime, then says “honey, don’t worry about your gym membership or your cell bill, I got this for you.” This is after I came home crying about my hours getting cut from my job and Covid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?My man helps me with my bills, cause he loves me that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 9 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.Girl leveled up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | An old flame still trying to gaslight meThat is how this is, but I gotta say he is a master manipulator and always does this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:27 PM |
| 2 | An old flame still trying to gaslight meThank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | An old flame still trying to gaslight meThank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 16 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themThis was my LVM to a T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 6 | notice the double standardMy man treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king, he loves me for all my curves not big boobs and ass, but all the rolls in between. This post is right on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:16 AM |
| 15 | TruthI can agree to this. A lot of time I didn’t want to say no because he was “a good kisser” or “good back rubber” or “it was a good date.” I’m sure if I didn’t sleep with half the guys because it was a good date then I would have been a lot better off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Can confirm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”That’s like going for coffee at Tim Horton’s paying for your own coffee and it counts as a date.... nooooooo only if you pay for both not one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 34 | like a mother!!! mad props to herI didn’t buy them, my sister did, and gave them to me, I’m sorry but my sketchers are WAYYY more comfortable then These pieces of shit that lasted only 6 months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:24 AM |
| 11 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’Question would this work for a girl? What I’m asking is do guys see this as a threat? If so I got dumped over this and he is a ohhhhh..... nevermind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | I need help....I had my ex boyfriend call him to tell him to knock it off. The asshole acted like he was doing nothing wrong and asked if I was going to call back. My ex told him not to hold his breath on it and to stop calling. Hopefully it worked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I need help....Well I have some good news I got my ex boyfriend, Jim to call him and told him to back off, he didn’t call today. He was looking for me to reach out and he wanted to leave a message but Jim was like “dude stop spamming her, she isn’t interested anymore.” Hopefully it works enough so he leaves me alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 3 | I need help....I did but they won’t do anything for “fear of safety” so unless my life was in damaged they won’t do anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | I need help....I wish I was that smart but nope! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | I need help....I just called the police, they were going to put a harassment on this guy but because I don’t fear for my safety, and it hasn’t gotten that far yet they won’t do anything but they did give me a number for free legal advice so that if he does continue it won’t work. Then also to call my phone company to let them know that that this person is harassing me to further block the call so he doesn’t leave messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:37 PM |
| 2 | I need help....I have blocked his number but he will keep calling and emailing me to get a response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:10 PM |
| 2 | I need help....I wish that were the case. I actually do want to reach out to a male friend for help, but I’m scared this guy will manipulate them into thinking he’s a good guy who is just trying to have lunch with me who wants his favourite girl back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I need help....I have blocked him but he still leaves messages. I haven’t left him any emails in over a month but I do have them saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:08 PM |
| 5 | I need help....No I have but he still calls and it goes to the blocked messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:06 PM |
| 2 | I need help....I’m in Canada. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | 4 years,3-4 broken relationships and he manipulated me into thinking I was unfaithfulIt was I love this group and this group helped me ask for more from guys and I mean I’m alone more but I much rather be alone than be with somebody who doesn’t appreciate me. I talked to Jim today and he know I want him back, and that’s why he has been patient with me and been my friend, he wants me back but he wants me to have my independence back before I get back together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:11 AM |
| 5 | 4 years,3-4 broken relationships and he manipulated me into thinking I was unfaithfulThank you, I was tired and I needed to vent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:44 PM |
| 33 | Probably thinks he's a champ for providing for his pregnant gf and sonI would have just said Cancel order, sorry he forgot his wallet and drive him back to his house to find it and left his ass there, I am broke as it is, I am not paying for somebody else’s problems! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Social Distancing and dating now a daysLol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:35 AM |
| 11 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...Wow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What makes a LVF?That was the one, and it was mentioning about her saying she wanted to take them out cause how she felt. I wasn’t shaming her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What makes a LVF?I think it was a nipple piercings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:03 AM |
| 0 | What makes a LVF?Ok just something I read in another post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 11:58 PM |
| 5 | What makes a LVF?Wow this is awesome thank you sooo much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 10:54 PM |
| 106 | Gaslighting is an absolute thingI had a guy gaslight me and I put him out like he was late on a cable bill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:23 PM |
| 41 | Lifehack for this monthTake my rocket vote!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.I dated too MANY broke men because I wanted to be loved and adored. So far I was the best they ever got, I not only picked up the tab but slept with them too! I had no self worth. Now I knew some good guys were out there, but now since joining this group my eyes are open and for every guy who has tried to manipulate me, test me, get a free dinner, or sex has been left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 0 | I wonder if I should change my profile to make it so I am a HVW.I like it cause it’s where I found my las ex but he was hvm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if I should change my profile to make it so I am a HVW.Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 0 | I wonder if I should change my profile to make it so I am a HVW.Pof. I changed it to just one line. A woman looking for a relationship. That’s it, I have enough in the conversation starters for him to pick a line and go for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 0 | I wonder if I should change my profile to make it so I am a HVW.Ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:24 PM |
| 0 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.Yep, welcome to tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 9 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.Ok I didn’t realize it was Soo bad, it is just a meeting if he doesn’t want to play along and wait for sex then there is no use for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:44 PM |
| -7 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.I wonder if I should just text him today and just say, “sorry something came up.” And block him? Might be better than him trying to charm me into a one night stand after coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.I wonder if I should just text him today and just say, “sorry something came up.” And block him? Might be better than him trying to charm me into a one night stand after coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 79 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.I told him I have high standards and he stopped talking to me after that. He kept calling me babes and sweetie....like um nope I ain’t your babe or sweetie, I am the next best damn thing your eyes will ever see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 22 | Don't send nudes. EVER.I’ve taken a professional boudoir pictures and cheap selfie‘s of myself and the selfies always seem to come back to me. my family knows what my body looks like because yes I’ve had those pictures leaked, all of them. I’ve had guys say “I want to see your body,” “I want to see what it looks like,” “I bet it’s hot!” and then I think to myself what’s the point because really “they’re not gonna ask me out on that date if I send my nudes.” In the whole term of discipline dating there’s been one guy w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:00 PM |
| -7 | Reading Ali Wong's new book "Dear Girls". She gets it.My man pays for every date, as did my ex, um most of every man that I went on a date with, paid for that first date. If I felt there was no second date, slept with him then moved on. I had a friend convinced me I should take a guy out before sleeping with him. I looked at her and said it was only for sex because I didn’t want to complicated it with food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 55 | There is ZERO benefit to having a crush. Eliminate your feelings/attraction towards them. You can subtly give them signals, but don't pursue or idealize them.I sent a guy a nasty text cause I crushed on him so hard, he took my friend out, used me for information than, dumped her 3-4 weeks later, than he dates this girl that was out of his league. I sent him this nasty message because after he stopped dating my friend, he didn’t want to be my friend, or even know I was alive, I called him out saying he was insensitive womanizer jerk. I found out from friend, that my message hit him right where I wanted it to and he was feeling hurt. This message is sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | SEX GOALS: Receive Oral Sex TWICE As Much As You Give itTrue me if you want head you have to give it first, I think that should be a rule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 04:19 PM |
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