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thinkytoes/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:01 AM
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Your comment speaks nothing about what she prefers. Then your real Black pill kills you when you got cheated on with a man who cared enough to make her feel good. Extra simple with women who lack experience because they do not understand game or their own bodies. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:57 AM
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❤
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:52 AM
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This is a hard fact though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:51 AM
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Statistics disagree with you. Loudly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:50 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:47 AM
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You articulated this so much better than I did. So OP, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:35 AM
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If I meet a man who is just regular, I will find him more attractive if he isn't ranting about feminism and believes in kindness. I have found that men can be reasonable, chivalrous even and masculine at the same time. I find men who need cruelty, TRP guidebooks, constant bitching about feminsism when I have nothing to do with whatever extremists they watch etc as a signal that they are weak minded. If the guy is attractive, I would find him less attractive if he was trp anything. When you spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:34 AM
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Oh. My god. Why is this our life now.. What the fuck, men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:19 AM
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Tell me more about how I am not self aware, don't know what I like, while you continue to circle jerk with men as clueless as you and I prize and take care of who I want. Sometimes I just want to come on here with pics and vids to shut some of you all thr way the fuck up but then its just anecdotal and you would just claim this is outlier bs. I hate that you people speak with authority about human relationships. I'm finished, no response necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:19 AM
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I'm a very pretty girl who fucks who she wants. I still wouldn't choose that over someone I prize no matter what weak minded TRP classified him as. I have to deal with he-manning oafs all the time. I do not answer to them. That shit is no contest and are the opinions of men who have never been prized. Your redpills are child's play. The men who are interested in facts eventually find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:16 AM
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Lolllll the fuck???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:46 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:45 PM
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Says you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:44 PM
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Done and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:09 PM
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They do. It is why you let them complain, be as close to.your beat self as possible, and keep quality male "friends" no matter the cost. You do not donate years of youth over bullshit guilt trips You dont make ultimatums that you cannot follow through You stay attractive. Be amazing to him but be someone who other men always want to poach. There are some amazing men out there but the odds are that isnt what you have. They need strict guidelines and fear of risk. He wont invest? Move on. Itll kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:09 PM
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You gave me chills. Well said. But then does that mean yhe Braincels sub, lookism, etc are just ugly men who deserve it because they are not good and therefore society is right to be disgusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:06 PM
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Just telling you how I see it. Its not like men will sit me down and tell me how they are different when they see me in my fitted workout apparel. Its all I got and Im ok with this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:04 PM
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I dont know this person. Idc if I never hear from him again either so I promise to respect the law you just laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:02 PM
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They do. It is why you let them complain, be as close to.your beat self as possible, and keep quality male "friends" no matter the cost. You do not donate years of youth over bullshit guilt trips You dont make ultimatums that you cannot follow through You stay attractive. Be amazing to him but be someone who other men always want to poach. There are some amazing men out there but the odds are that isnt what you have. They need strict guidelines and fear of risk. He wont invest? Move on. Itll kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:57 PM
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Because men cannot be trusted to follow through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:48 PM
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Commitment from low value men is worthless. Edit: chad isn't my sole idea of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:43 PM
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Sociopathic 9/10. He will get locked up for life and still get love. In and out of prison. The 3/10 will turn into a maniacal incel who hurt people jusy like my sociopath son and no-one would even give a fuck once put away. They will be angry he didnt get the needle. I care about being a good person. I will do all i can do to teach him.values. But what I will not do is birth a son into this cruel fucking world with a face that wont alllow him love after I die. This is why i don't give a shit abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:41 PM
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Lol. Your attitude makes me happy your life is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:29 PM
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This is a lie. I empathize with men all the time. I love men But fuck incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:26 PM
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Lol. So youre so low quality in a low quality environment, that this is all you "know" about women. That subhuman living must be a muthafucka Lmfao. This is why your incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:25 PM
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It really isnt. People ignore real concerns men have because enough of them will rain their 401ks on literal hoes who dont love them Then say women are the devil. Not all men lack self awareness of course But its the culture. Shes pretty? You have threads arguing against education and career from women Pretty face from poor stock then expect the rest of us to take these lsd riddled imaginary scenarios seriously Lol "just dont marry her bro. Jjst have kids no commitment marriage isn't fair". I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:13 PM
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I did. Then I spent time reading their stuff in their natural habitats. The same way I don't differentiate Whites who ignore the KKK/Nazi parts of a side Is the same way idgaf about decent incels who kek along hideous shit said about women They can all, literally, LDAR and not a single fuck will be given..just make sure to keep a few around to sweep up the bodies. We don't wanna see those either. I do empathize with FAs. But seems incels are seeping in there too so good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:40 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:34 PM
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What do those women have to do with us? No one is stopping you from poor women, trashy women, crazy women, etc. We arent a hive mind. A question was asked. The answer is no. This would be like you asking me about my experience as a single mother when I have never been pregnant. Get the quality of woman you want for whatyou want but just be clear this is why society ignoreness the incessant bitching of men You care nothing about the important factors, then are shocked an appaled when the new norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:22 PM
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Its this type of delusion that keeps certain things relatively easy for women. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:19 PM
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Lmfao! I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:04 PM
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I have money. This is all you fucking men whine about but not all women are poor, come from poor backgrounds, or offer little. So if it's not that, then what? Jesus. No offense. Ok a little offense but this is part of why sometimes I dont want to hear from men who struggle financially. I understand why some women cant be bothered. Its a dick thig to say but imagine having to listen to boys your age worry about paying for apppebees. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:59 PM
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Lol no. This would never happen in a million years. I see plenty of guys write such delusions and carry on about never getting married. Lpl then don't. I'm a huge romantic but fuck that. I rather walk. I have already. In fact, i won't even entertain cohabitation ever again. Had an ex move into my loft and loved him dearly. Literally never again. The closest I'd consider is a max of 3 months post engagement on the way to our scheduled wedding. Idgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:44 PM
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The country. Namely the US. Love of my life until 2016. Or rather, still love, just one that hurts me now and not sure how to save the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:39 PM
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Bitch please. How are we in disagreement. At all? I am of the opinion that fathers are critical and some men, my god, just fall into the role in grace. But too many want to play victim, bitch about women, and leave defenseless little humans to deal with the luck of the draw. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:37 PM
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Making him look good by staying attractive no matter how easy it is to slip, Status, deep conviction to protect my man from all the things he has not time to notice while he is out being a winner, encouragement, fun, loyalty, a confidante he couldn't pay to recieve even when he fucked up, battery in his back and he just the door and leaves the world outside intimate knowledge of his preferences down to quirky food noms, playfulness, adoration, challenge that he respects because he knows it's hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:22 AM
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I admire all these things and do not think of the alt-right when I read this comment . It bothers me that some people think this is something exclusive to the right. Becasue this a catch imo. Him being on the right would like that. Nonegotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:13 AM
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Yes they can. Contrary to popular belief, some men can control themselves even when around an attractive woman. Even when they are straight And it's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:14 AM
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Lol love your username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:12 AM
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This. Exactly. Which is why I don't understand why men worry about the virgin thing. I really don't. Some subs will ban your ass for even mentioning it. Manwhores are a liability, I'm not going to bat a lash at virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:11 AM
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At 20? No At 30, I would be curious as to why. Because at that point it sounds like a choice. Whether it was or wasn't, it wouldn't count against him imo I never understood this virgin issue. Who cares, seriously? Men are terrified like this is the worst thing in the world. Why? Seriously, who the fuck cares
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:09 AM
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Because men. Are entitled. As fuck. Those who come to see reality do exactly that. Those who hope forever end up bitter and become prophets-adjacent in their goal to make other men hate women. Do not let men who are not worth it distract you. I am not kidding. It's their only play. Their misery is not yours as a woman. We have our own problems. Vet fiercely and when love deeply. Be kind to good men. Ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:21 AM
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I appreciate your being honest but this is sad. This is your gut feeling about an unremarkable but true observation from the OP. The idea that a good point would only come from someone unattractive. Is it any wonder that a pretty face can get over on most of you? Typical low expectations of women. Who needs a Trojan horse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:00 AM
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This single mom thing, I don't really get it because avoiding pregnancy isn't difficult. That said, men are full of shit. The lower they are in social status, the more indignant about what you bring to the table. This is why ordinary _____ guys will come down the hardest in their rhetoric while selling out their mothers for a chance to sniff the puss. In reality, how pretty are you? The more he offers and attracts other women, the more you need to bring to the table. But men drive their own wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:24 AM
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Why don't you believe she's cute? Attractive people are too stupid for Reddit or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:14 AM
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That's actually sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:26 AM
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You don't sound lovable so it's obvious this is how you think relationships work. Oh well, at least you have other unloved men to 'joke' like this with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:18 AM
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So if I opt to remain childless, it's cool? Ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:01 AM
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Men "don't like makeup" "sluts" and "whores". But also, prostitution is the oldest profession, they flock to you more even if you're pound cake city but alluring the eye, and hoes get married literally. Every day. Men like to say women don't know what they want. They hoot like ninnies amongst themselves and enjoy their self congratulations. I say there are smart men and strong women but generally speaking men have the upper hand in strength and we have it in cunning, wiles and allure. Even if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:52 PM
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I concede to this point. I am female but raised in a man's world and so I automatically assume a man's pov unless explicitly told a female voice is being considered. This is what feminists fight against. Bc this is the reality for many. But thank you for making that point and helping me realize what I did there. I don't want to do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:34 PM
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You are a good argument for feminists seeking to recruit feminists. Can't help your tonality. That's a physical thing. Too adversarial means you have decided on a standard where men can fight you in conversation but women are not allowed that same consideration. Too passive but you reject challenge, example number 2, outloud. Meaning either she is fine tuned via male tuning forks for the right tone and attitude of any given and or you're full of shit and exactly the caricature some women reject …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:40 PM
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Yes you have a chance at a larger age gap relationship. The holy grail for older men But. You will compete against more.. adult masculine figures who target your girl..indefinitely. see: TRP. When a few of those fail you, it won't be pretty. Nothing a light touch in fillers and some stubble won't fix. And weightlifting. Or. Have money and a decent enough attitude. And project masculine tendencies. If you are successful at that, your baby face is suddenly a pro not a con. Gold diggers, practical …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 12:30 PM
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Of course you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 12:12 PM
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Immoral but no one expects men to be better than this so it'll fly. People will understand his position. But if its a young woman with a man older than god. Ok fine, with just a man, she will be seen as a hateful user who left the poor guy. This is why women are told by grandma's not to marry a man she loves more than vice versa. Women will stay out of duty. Men will do that is right for them. It is why we swoon over the few faithful men that hang in there. Men will be able to explain taking an …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 12:11 PM
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I'm a girl's girl so I do not relate to this view. I know of it. I know I have witnessed massively bitchy chicks who are, as feminists called them, male identified. I take that to mean they rate the collective support of male opinion over the acceptance of their fellow woman. Loser shit because guys will slap you on the back for being sooooo cool and still put a giant diamond ring on the prettiest chick who makes them feel seen. I assume women who cannot be civil to be as easy to ignore as men I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 12:01 PM
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By 40, he had every opportunity to find someone he found attractive and nice but opted not to. Instead he chose to keep playing the game so to speak for the next and the next. Men swear they will be attractive forever while we cease to be worth after 30. It's a lie If a guy has not sealed the deal by then with a viable reason, the assumption is he is not worth it or a forever playboy well past the clock. And I know older men can genuinely like me. Does not mean I give a shit or that I will like …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:02 PM
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You're right. If a 40 year old isn't divorced or a widower, I just don't trust him. Especially because I am so much younger, I assume he is Peter Pan and targeting me for my youth. I will get old one say and I marry someone like that I will be a nurse maid to some guy who will still try this shit when I am too old to bother No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:09 AM
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smile I noticed you didn't throw other men under the bus even though my response was ripe with opportunity. Good on you, that's yum. Lol you acknowledge the shift? Amazing. I'm pretty sure many men are trying to double down in denial but yes.. It's a whole new world! To answer, I had this.. friend. We matched on paper but meh. He was just hot enough though. In that superficial way that, with time, means nothing. Like. The carbs of sexuality. He was My Event that made me become substantially more…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 01:59 AM
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It's not stringing along when he knows I will never be interested romantically. We're friends and adults and we've talked it through. It's his choice to stick around based on my conditions. And he's getting sex sometimes. Which is different from conning men who will never be allowed to touch me into never ending hope. I don't even exchange numbers just to not give thise types the wrong idea. I don't maintain victims in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 02:26 PM
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Whose fault is that? You set the status quo then whine us to death about it. Jesus. Why is it my fault that men prefer death over getting no pussy? Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:47 AM
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You are trash for literally lying about the realities of male behavior. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:28 AM
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Since you're dead set on denying the realities of real life, we're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:26 AM
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Ok. I don't have ONS because I don't fuck men I do not vet thoroughly. It's quality control for me and its useful via other metrics beyond new dick I honestly feel fucking a man who wasn't worth it is a net loss. I literally feel weak sex that did not benefit me but made him cum before a minute or two is charity work I don't even get a tax break on. Sometimes a tiny segment of men will be so physically attractive that it's worth rolling the dice. I have yet to experience that. Also, any woman gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:44 PM
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Because I like having sex with people I am attracted to and makes me feel good. I'm sorry if this answer seems obvious but its the men I would never fuck who tend to analyze this. And since I look like some bullshit status symbol to those types, they will continue to talk about nonsense like body count and virgins and loose morals while offering their mothers to Satan himself for a chance to sniff my literal asshole. Then I will get called arrogant for stating this truth when OP asked women like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:35 PM
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Because I like having sex with people I am attracted to and makes me feel good. I'm sorry if this answer seems obvious but its the men I would never fuck who tend to analyze this. And since I look like some bullshit status symbol to those types, they will continue to talk about nonsense like body count and virgins and loose morals while offering their mothers to Satan himself for a chance to sniff my literal asshole. Then I will get called arrogant for stating this truth when OP asked women like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:35 PM
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Ok. Then embrace the liberalism of our new society. Either whore yourself out to rich old cougars or hell, humor older gay men who will provide for you so long as you acquiesce to their every desire. Seriously, please go experiment. Because even though you wont have the vast audience of attention that the average decent looking little girl is born into, these niches are alive and well and a viable audience. Just imagine that, times 100. And before you say that's unrealistic, understand that that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:28 PM
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It appears to me that those "spinning plates" do not realize they are part of a roster. Either you're sleeping with such a loser she has no better options so you must be even worse since men insist on punching up Or she is placating you because her benefit is enough while she takes care of business. Ask me what benefits are likely in this scenario. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:27 AM
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Because manosphere losers think all women are radfems who are united in moronic fronts. Only men who are not actively interacting with real women think feminism= purely slut walks and white girls fighting to not wear bras. So most of us have to ignore you like we have had to for centuries. While you write in your books lies about how people without penises are trying to live their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:04 AM
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Says you. I have this buddy. I am way out his league. But i am comfortable him. He tries, bless him I know I'm an asshole because I get off on his .. subservience? Desperation? Idk But I don't have to perform the way I would for a husband. So I fuck him when I wanna. Bless him He is so respectful, graceful, and discreet. He still tries in his own way and eats pussy like it's his last meal. He literally sustains me when I am playing hardball with Chads. To the level that I may never give him up m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:56 AM
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How is this women's fault when men who need and want Women continue to open those gates? We are the "weaker sex" remember? You are more logical and immune to our cunning wiles. So kindly explain how this is on women. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:35 AM
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What does your firat sentence mean? When I think of the right, I think of White men being the herpes of America whining about how they are entitled to obsolete jobs, literal rejection of facts and empirical evidence (science) and growing domestic terrorism from delusional incels radicalized in online cesspools that validate them via patting their lonely virtual dicks. In real life, though. Even ugly men who are smart and resourceful are a delight to most of us..ok at least to me. I enjoy interac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:31 AM
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I'm curious. So you don't believe women were oppressed? Still are in some cases? It's normal to you to have to be shackled for life to someone you don't like who offers you little to survive in exchange for violation of your body? Free labor? Would you enjoy being a wife to survive? It's a crime to live, cherish, honor the man you're with by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:28 AM
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I think men who think like this are way sexier than all nude all the time folks. Imagination is delicious kryptonite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:06 AM
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Many women aren't. I am the opposite of this girl and I really respect her clarity in her life choice. The women who attack this want to look a certain way to appeal to delusional, angry men. I won't be doing the SAHM thing. It's hard af and while I would likely fall in love with my baby, I would also fall apart as a caged bird. And still, I see the nobility and the beauty of this role. I respect the choice and consider those deriding her chap lipped haters. And no, not the lips on the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:04 AM
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$90K is child's play in my city so her goal is not unreasonable especially given the god awful cry across the manosphere from men who want traditional relationships and stay at home wives. She is young, bright, goal and family oriented. You're being bitter and will not at all impede this girls ability to acquire whay she seeks. She is clear on what she wants and is ok with it. $90K after tax is a nice pool of men so long as she doesn't live in West Bumblefuck. And even if she did. A touch of ini…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:00 AM
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The ones where women are and successfully lie about it. Men cannot handle the truth and yet the minute they are not satisfied sexually, they forgive themselves for cheating. Not all men, of course. It's a waste. The same way that all wise women know it's better to marry a man who loves you more. Most of us are not cruel and will put up.with you. Statistically speaking, a wife does a man will be remarried much more quickly than the inverse. A woman gets sick or a child dies, men will more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:46 AM
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Men today have changed the social norms along with women today. Only now can the president be 3x married cheater with porn stars on the payroll With men defending his spending $130K and the porn star holding the higher moral ground with at least half the country while she continues to shoot new videos in her advanced age and advertise it mid publicity with zero censorship on Twitter. And no it's not easier. Fucking men will try to kill you for living your life Because they feel entitled to your …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:40 AM
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You are so much better at effective debating than I am. I tried but I literally cannot take people like the person you are replying to seriously. I will try to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:35 AM
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Realistically, many men and it sounds like you too demand and expect the moronic bimbo as the avatar you interact with when watching porn and creeping on girls. It helps you keep your narratives straight. Like why would an attractive woman develop any life skills or cultivate any talents. She just goes to recharge in a dark closet somewhere until it's time to fuck again right? There isn't a whole real life happening while you aren't watching now? You confuse literally stupid people who happen to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:34 AM
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This guy sexes. It's true. A deeply submissive nature seems to spring up when my partner pleasures me. Alternatively I can get pretty hateful with passive aggressive spite after being with a selfish partner. It's like I can't even respect him and feel like he owes me for my time even. People aren't perfect and sometimes there is bad sex. But that's ok. I'm talking about truly selfish lovers. In my circle, if a guy almost closes the deal and he reveals he doesn't..eat? We suddenly are deeply reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:04 AM
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You are very sweet. ❤ I honestly don't understand this world of men who haven't had sex yet but I much rather you having great sex than the insufferable douchebags who make us consider lesbianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:59 AM
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Men prefer needy women but also cannot stand gold diggers, dependent women, and the like. And if they are from certain demographics they fully expect to pull no weight while insisting you let them lead. Kind of like how many of them need virgins that fucks complaint free like well seasoned porn stars. Solution? Be self sufficient and lie shamelessly about ability. They want to feel useful and do extra shit? Let them. Just don't be a moron who can't get herself out of a jam like a functional adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:56 AM
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This question is moronic. But maybe it's my world view. I, personally, am happy with the social contract that got us to this point. Like don't invade my rights. Freedoms. Don't be a dick. I'm happy to be pleasant but I also will not suffer the exhausting rhetoric of entitled people. I just walk away How men interact with men is how men choose to navigate the world. You either go full bro code in your misery or stab your best friends while they look away if you want the girl enough. What the fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:47 AM
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I am not interested in all things "more fair" for females. Not everyone with a vagina is a raging feminist. Also feminism in and of itself is not bad. It's just that not every woman saturated her world view with the satirical theatrics your type claims is rampant. But also, idgaf about men that do not register in any way that matters. At all. In fact, with the rise of incel mass murder breakouts, my empathy decreases exponentially Take that however you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:34 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:16 AM
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Honestly this. If I am not going to have a supportive father not be picture, my kids will at least have top tier genetics or I have no kids. And I would love and be happy with my kids since I can afford them and have a strong support system. I still wouldn't fuck the men I don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:15 AM
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But i thought the problem for most men is women are too selective now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:13 AM
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Beautifully said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:13 AM
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I like how you talk so freely about abortion as if it is not a serious medical procedure, a potentially deeply painfully emotional task and like there is not a whole, motivated, Republican party against abortion in power right now. Tbh, the funnest thing about our political climate is how the he-man-woman-haters-clubs all skew far right, against abortions and also skew our elections. Let me know how it works out for the red pill whose ideology is all fuck bitches but also no abortions. Don't wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:12 AM
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So if I'm married, accepted his social contract of being a housewife and spent years trying to get pregnant but turns out I'm barren or sick, fuck me when he goes for the younger model? Lol. This is why even when I don't care about the current issues, I'll vote for a feminist candidate. Fucking men,.at least some of you, are a literal hazard to women and society and you need to be kept in line for everyone's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:04 AM
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I think the most rabid Trump supporters would seem like baby lambs when society is faced with the bill of raising the bastards of men who financially abort. I am talking true mayhem. And that is not hyperbole. Many men spit on the idea of dating single moms or paying taxes they swear go to abortions. Imagine the shit show when they have to directly or indirectly pay so much for a society built of bastards. Because their sexual needs will not stop. They will still risk it all of sex. They will st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:57 AM
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You made Sweden sound like heaven and just for shits and giggles I am going to take a look online and see what's there. Bitter men raging at feminists when most of us girls are just asking you to let us fucking live are suuuuch a drag. Literally work to interact with your shit. Literally. And I'm not even a girl who tends to have issues with men in real life. It's like alright already stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:51 AM
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You're right. Men don't owe intimacy or commitment. But most want it anyway and women are not creating literal subcultures to bitch about not getting cuddles so what's your point? Men will lie, cheat, and murder for sex. When was the last war set due to a woman not getting a text back? Last mass murder because some guy didn't take her to dinner. Please sit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:36 AM
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Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:32 AM
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Um. Idk it seems they differ a shockingly great deal. Older guys, nevermind the tryhards, are calmer. More rational. Easier to deal with. More stable and therefore less..insecure. obviously this varies but this is my personal observation. Late 20s is GOAT. I admit to being ageist with men sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:31 AM
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I'm a younger women and men approaching is insufferable at times. Yes. They do it. Even the shy ones. And this is just offline. Online, I made a profile recently and I am convinced men don't even know what I look like they just all swipe right due to some strategy they heard about and hope works. My sister is older than I am, hot, and is just confident with this sort of thing. She sees younger guys as clear play things, is direct becasue she knows they will likely play ball and then moves on. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:27 AM
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If more of you were hot with money, I promise you. You would feel no shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:20 AM
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It feels like both comments are true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:20 AM
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Today I learned I have legit attention plates. I work hard at trying to love them as my life would be set, boxes checked. But I just dont. I need to make sure I am not building red pills. Srs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:17 AM
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I'm shocked and pleased by this post and OP. I think you make perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:14 AM
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Sure. That's what's going on here. But also, the president will deal with a $100k+ and a never ending media scandal for pussy. Yes. "Men are lazy" is the moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:12 AM
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I made that assumption too. Maybe you don't know these type of men. Maybe you have a kid by one. But any living human male or female exposed to this shit knows. You just sound like their next mark. Strong gape and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:10 AM
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Found the Pick Me!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:09 AM
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She could but it would be her just doubling down on the blatant disrespect. He smirked. If it was an honest mistake he would have said so. This was deliberate so fuck that. Honestly lots of guys can be so airheaded and unsophisticated. It's fine but they still are apologetic and try to fix it. No need to pander to fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:08 AM
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She sounds like a cunt how? She didn't ruin her own dinner. He did. Honestly I would finish making that dinner after he left and eat alone watching something funny on tv or invite my girls or my Plan B and probably fuck harder to work out my resentment of what this loser tried. This guy was an asshole. EVERYONE sees it but you call her a cunt. Thanks, I'm still learning that a segment of the population are you unpleasant biased people and all adults have to learn to see and unsee your fuckery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:07 AM
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Good Lord, you're not allowed to say this out loud! I 200% knew this was the case from the OP. But to be fair, those of them that are good are gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:02 AM
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Female. She did the right thing but it does not matter because she still sees him from time to time. So it's a moot point He was trying to fuck for free meaning absolutely no investment, not even energy let alone a few dollars in her. And he sounds like the type who did this on purpose just to brag about it to his pussy starved friends. He tested her. And she let him see that she will tolerate and wait. So all he needs to do is catch her in a weak moment for sex that cost him nothing. This guy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:58 AM
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I get my hair done which will take me a few points higher Suddenly men at my workplace want to do my job for me Boss let's bullshit slide Regular gym day? I get perks Etc I look nive today? Men will not be subtle. My family, friends, hell... a bad hair day and men are different Factual
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:36 AM
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I agree, your post is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:32 AM
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Not even being combative. So let's be civil. Letting women like me (ses tell, but that is neither here nor there) I wrote a whole thing and you replied to a comment I do not understand. What are you trying to express Society has groomed who for my disgust and sexual displeasure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:31 AM
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I deeply respect your comment. I believe and hate that this is true for some men. But as a girl who actively seeks to spread smiles in the world no matter who it is infuriating that another barrier is having to overcoming hate and dismissiveness from men who just need a little love or kindness. I just ranted at some other commenter.. your comment offers perspective What do I do here? Treat men like trash because their past lives justify this? Gender wars are such bullshit and sometimes I feel fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:42 AM
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You were crystal clear. And I am calling bullshit. Think about it Men are reared to believe they don't need it. So who is giving it to them. Their fellow, closed off men? I am not saying women will save you. I am saying we all have our strengths. We all have that thinf we contribute on this fucking rock we all live on. .there is a guy in my life right now. Macho mofo who has "his boys" and such. He's suffering. And i see it. Well groomed..tough. respectful. Whatever. As a woman who isn't going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:33 AM
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The hotter you are, the more you can get away with blatantly illegal behavior against men. You know who allows this? Men themselves. Im Sorry, idgaf about this. In comparison to what men do to women as a while? I love so many of yall but lol yeah I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:20 AM
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Sex is about power for a lot of men. And many of those men can't even make u cum. I'm fine with casual sex so long as it isn't costing me. Time, makeup, energy, money, etc. Men bombard you and insult each other tryinf to pretend they care about you to have some. Vetting for me, is more about ensuring there is a point in me being there. I support imperfect people having sex casually so long as respect and transparency is mandated.. We all know many men are full of shit. Sorry, no PC So am I sex p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:16 AM
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Can't change your view because I agree with you. Completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:12 AM
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Had this chat (so inapproriate) with a client a couple days ago. But she's open. Her husband is older like 40s? Attractive, chatty, manly brute. BB like a mofo. It's a running joke when she wants to shop. He ha t's the card over. But he's sexy He's kill for his family. But he does chores, never complains, super devoted to the kids. This man is a keeper and she won . We chat about the AF dudes too. Raw sex? Sure. Can't see them in a serious way in any way. Calling people sluts it's weak male shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:10 AM
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Sorry. Am a girl. Answering anyway. Cannot picture a single hetero I my circle who would say no to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:02 AM
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You sound ridiculous simply because just because you think its impressive you don't like or need other humans...It doesn't mean your represent shit for other men. Compliment a man and he lights up like a Christmas tree. Hug one, talk to one, interact in a real level and they are besides themselves. Men tell each other they are above emotional support. But news flash. Life is hard. And the men who front line this shit to make it livable for the rest of us need the emotional support the most. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:00 AM
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Lmfao bitter af! Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:20 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 11:31 AM
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Then do them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 02:52 AM
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It's not bad. Personally I hate cleaning and like cooking sometimes The fuck do you do, though? Being young, attractive, bright, and female..seriously what am I trading with you? Can you fix anything I can't? Or do u hire someone to do it? Cuz you can hire someone to cook and clean too My more serious answer is I do what I feel compelled to do. Women who did that like it was their job.. it was. I'll live well without u. So if we're bartering hete, do better than whining for slave labor for nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:19 AM
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Society? Society is male opinion at best. We try to fix that now but that's what it is. And men run the world by one metric. Pussy. Or ok sexual pleasure since I can't ignore those who aren't hetero Tyranny. And it fucks most of them. Mediocre sex will make some regular Joe more productive, sweeter, calmer. I used to be annoyed by this. They are controlled by their own. Their own kind and their starvation to be submerged in a pleasure that is beyond sex..But they tell.each other sex is how you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:12 AM
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I am going to dismiss your unmeririted on a podium comment here. I commented with a point. You did not understand. You tried to be condescending. So fuck you too. Not difficult. Perfectly effective. Ciao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:58 AM
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Welcome to real life and sexuality. Where newbs like you get gangraped for your beliefs. U sound new to sex and new to the world. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:31 AM
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Either you live in bumfuck nowheresville or you are just now finding yourself. Sometimes my fat girlfriends god bless them are fucking more than me. In public men care about what makes u look good. They will even marry us. In private, men care about what makes them feel alive. Waste of time to judge them. I just hope women get to this point one day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:22 AM
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Lol you must be new to penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:19 AM
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I can't blame you. Why wouldn't you want that? So long as you're hot enough and the kind of person girls LIKE to be around, smash on my friend. If you're not, you dont like pussy and deserve your self loathing. Other men want to be you. You're tolerated more than certain types. You don't lose. I mean we all have expiration dates so don't be deluded and bother busy nurses at your death bed. Not saying this to be mean, just helpful. I'm not a nurse but my nurse friends tell me tragic tales all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:18 AM
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You didn't. I even went back to reread your comment just to be sure. So no, I really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:00 PM
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I can't do anything about the limits of your own understanding, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:57 PM
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I see your limp wristed attempt to snap back but since I never made either of these claims and just addressed YOUR claim of "most women" not having casual sex, I am telling you first hand I am one of these women and know many such women personally. Try again and have yourself a cookie to take the edge off. You look sheltered and silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:56 PM
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So when I see some buffoon of a man bang his chest and demand I give him my time and attention, that's emotional? How about the rude af men tryinf to sleep with me lacking basic human courtesy? I would argue you have to be driven by more than emotion when you are weaker and smaller in a world of ego driven men who can't think further than their dicks. Annoying that you see the female pov as such a frivolity but typical
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:53 PM
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I'm a woman. I have a fuck only box. Typically a super hot guy with no long term potential but good for sex AND other short term things. At least half of the women I know engage in casual sex. Please dont confuse the convenient narrative many of us go along with to temper the massive, fragile egos of men with fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:43 PM
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Men have a fuck everybody box which is why no one believes they are very discerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:38 PM
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LOL The delusion of men make me days go by faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:33 PM
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Yes, I have partners in this box. They will never qualify as ltr material but they have other qualities that make them great partners for casual sex and friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:30 PM
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Lol sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:20 PM
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Your comments are excellent. I don't understand this hard on that people who should not be married have for those with monogamous inclinations. Don't get married if its wrong for you. No one cares. Thank you for your well articulated thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:15 PM
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Imagine living your whole life for the opposite sex and literally engineering master plans for basic interaction that does not even benefit you. Lol k.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 03:11 PM
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For all the men who do this, 3 or 4 men on average don't. And maybe it is too nearly in the movement bc the men who worry about this are generally the red pill idiots I want no where near my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 03:07 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 03:06 PM
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Lol ok. Worshipping me? This is your disfunction and inadequately. Not mine. But sure, You are right and I am wrong and you won with silicone. Seeing that our interaction is a gain for you and a tax for me, I am happy to end this here where u literally end your genetic line into this superior vat of silicon you speak of. I support sex dolls for men like you so don't get why so hostile Jesus. On another note, is it any wonder that people shit on the mere idea of you. All this heavy lifting with n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:59 PM
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Idk. As a woman, I see a difference between a man seeking love over a man in TRP. My automatic thought is the TRP user is brainless trash we all have to tolerate and deal with. Like lost kids who end up in ethnic violent gangs finding value in trash at the outside perimeters of society. Sorry, there is nothing more intoxicating than real men. Therefore, those who cope on the outside looking in trigger repulsion. Wouldn't say that to some guy irl unless he was cancer but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:27 PM
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I used to think this was bullshit but it isn't. I don't think about cars because I live in the big city. Yes, I judge men over 30 who live with roomates. They are always trying to make plans at my pretty home like they live here. I have no roomates. There are much worse things so its more like a pause to see if he is worth shit and just doing what he can in a crazy city or too lazy to try in life. Doesn't take that long Plus the ones who want to buy houses and saving are not subtle. They hammer …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:23 PM
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My sister still entertains fuck zone men. Why not, they are hot. She is just extra clear that there is no potential for more. She does use better strategies for Ltr like u mention. But fuckboys don't count. This is the case for a great deal of women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:13 PM
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You expressed this more accurately than I did. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:07 PM
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I am a woman who compartmentalizes. I have been told my whole life that girls cannot and do not do that. I just say ok and do what I do with the utmost discretion. Saves time and energy. All the more to do that "hoe shit" with, my dear. I do not fuck LTR potential in casual situationships. Many men, not all, are very limited in the possibilities and realities of sex. Imagine losing family material over the realities of dick. One is plentiful. Like plastic bags. this is true. My fuck buddies are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:05 PM
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Lol @ 3. I have firsthand knowledge that that figure is pure bullshit. Chris is funny I guess but there is no high regard there for many obvious reasons certain women van attest to. So why would his marriage be under review LOL 3. Bitch, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:36 PM
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I have never heard if anyone shaming a male virgin. Not ONE day of my life. Never shamed a virgin male. Not a day of my life. In fact, male virgins who come out tend to be overbearing and sex crazed as shit. If I ever discrimate, it's because I don't need the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:33 PM
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You are either bad at plain English or very poorly socialized and do not know that some men can exist with strength absence of trash. Pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:32 PM
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Not to be mean but I don't feel sorry because I don't think of them. Regular ok looking guys still fuck ugly fatties. No one thinks of useless men. I don't hit people when they are down. I am actually really nice. But by virtue of being an attractive and young and female, some men act with hostility and resentment if I am not willing to consider them. Or they are generally nasty. In which I am happy to remind them of the natural order of things. May not be pretty but neither is some obnoxious lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:30 PM
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Lol thanks ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:24 PM
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I don't know why you can't interact with women at all and as it sounds detrimental to your mental health, from the little I have seen, I actually hope it gets better. The hostility is unnecessary noise. Yes, sharing the hottest guys is a bigger high that having someone no one wants to yourself. It is why men, similar to you, target their love and hate to girls like me. There is no smug victory or insults. I literally told you to have at it but kindly stay out of our faces. As in, preening about …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:18 PM
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That is not what objectifying means. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:11 PM
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No. I would find fucking any man who needed the RP as fundamentally degrading. Sorry, I sincerely believe this segment of men as undesirables. Men would fuck anything so your willingness to fuck someone you would prefer to keep silent is not saying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:02 AM
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Entertainment and education on who to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:42 AM
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No. You're definitely wrong. But seeing what you said above, it's not worth explaining to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:36 AM
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Lol the delusions. Most older men are not at all attractive. Stop the lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:13 AM
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LOL This is how men continue to get lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:42 AM
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Lol. Considering how important white men are ins society, it is virtually impossible to take your victimhood seriously. Right or wrong, no one is going to give a shit about this over other groups who have yet to see fairness. It only creates more resentment. Sorry but you are new to the oppression olympics. To the back of the line you go. You have got to wait your turn, this just got started. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:34 AM
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This is why it's easy to hate some of you. You ignore the facts and don't even try to understand. But ok sure, I am sure you are more willing to be murdered than getting forefucked in the ass by some primitive male. At least you would just be dead and "not an idiot"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:05 AM
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Because crazy men are only crazy and violent in these specific scenarios. Ok thanks for the advice. I will be sure to let women know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:02 AM
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This is, by far, the best answer. Just sex with some guy is rarely worth it and since he gets to cun and you don't, its more like a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:58 AM
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But they aren't a golden parachute now. Sorry, I see the removal of these types as a major plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:03 AM
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No, you just don't understand that the kind of guy that needs this won't be missed because he is not wanted. These revenge fantasies would be funnier if it weren't so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:56 AM
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Lmfao jesus christ!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:45 AM
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How annoying. No. I'm not attracted to dangerous men. Plenty of women aren't. Who needs that low brow shit creating drama in one's life? A powerful man is attractive. A man who can protect himself and me? Attractive. This is not the same as wanting poorly socialized criminals. I wish you guys would stop saying this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:24 AM
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I don't think unattractive men are bad people. I just don't want them bothering me. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:15 AM
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Thank you! Every time I see a long rant by some loser who goes on about how this will replace women and its all women's fault, I feel like omg we don't even need to bother with the step of rejecting bad genes anymore, they will do it themselves ( and hopefully less violence, creep behavior, sexual exploitation, sex trafficking etc will occur. But I won't hold my breath)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:12 AM
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I feel like men who say this should have sexbots and sincerely leave women alone. Everyone would be all the happier for it. As it stands, you need a robot to replicate and replace women. But women have no such need to replicate or replace you. We just don't want you period and focus on the men we do want. You know this, its why you're here. There was a question asked and the answer is its a turn off. That's not venom so no need to be so bitchy. No one will take your sex doll away. I just hope yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:06 AM
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In my relationship? No, I don't think I could take a man who needed this sexually seriously as a man. I wouldn't be unkind to him but my attraction would likely die. Now could we try it once or twice like anything else that might be fun and kinky like any other sex toy? Maybe. But that is different than being with someone who needed to bring this in our relationship as a thing. It would only make me want someone.. manlier. Kind of how there are some men who can watch porn and lead normal sex liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 02:52 AM
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Guys like you who have wet dreams about how sex robots will be a a fantastic punishment and replacement for women are delusional. I support sex robots because hopefully it means less undesirable men will inflict themselves on us while men we want continue getting sex we want to have. Its the same with MGTOW. You are just removing yourself from the gene pool and its fine. No one thinks about MGTOW men unless they are flapping their gums about something where everyone can see. There was another po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 02:44 AM
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Men create it and perpetuate it. Daily. You agree to be part of a civilized society yet conspire to be literal shit in hopes of supremity you will never have *again in that civilized society. the "top 20 percent" have that range and many of the rest enjoyed that status quo when the world was uneducated. Now, your prisoners go to school and get educated, they work, and they even have social networks to share information. Now, trash people who never had to matter beyond what they could provide (in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 07:06 PM
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I have never considered myself an outright feminist but ok. By your line of logic, I dare say, YOU might consider feminism itself is a response the overbearing, unpleasant, .. really outright suffocating livelihood under those generally physically stronger than us. An arbitrary measure that clearly does not rival smarts. I don't respect any of you and women before me have afforded me this right to say so. So has science and technology. Thank god. It IS a race to the bottom. Driven by subpar whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:57 PM
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trash too. Sorry, were you expecting me to defend morons? Genitalia does not define quality. This goes both ways. Sorry about your gotcha. (not really).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:46 PM
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I didn't down vote you. Wtf for? I'm mean because I think a particular demo that exists to manipulate, hate, and subjugate people like me are trash? Sure! And that is not sarcasm. I am ok with this. Don't waste your breath waiting on self righteous, moral high ground arguments from me. As far as I'm concerned, these dudes don't even rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:11 PM
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I think you deeply underestimate my sincerity. Calling them subhuman trash is me being nice. Sorry but idgaf about the feelings of a collective that exists to subjugate people like me. Coming here, I didn't think it was that bad. A few private messages and directives have shown me the light. Save that bigger person shit for bigger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 02:26 PM
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Personally, I am excited for you. I think RP is subhuman trash and that the people there are bitter because they are not experiencing this moment you are having. Strong words but hey. I hope this is what you think it is and beyond. It's such a sweet spot of human existance and a perfect design that, to me, is the best evidence of a "god". (I am high off of baby cuddles. I am new aunt. My sentiments still stands)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 02:02 PM
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Ugh. So cute! And you totally should. How can good will and good times at the top of the year ever be a bad idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 04:42 PM
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I don't know that women expect this but I can tell you those that do often do because some guys provide this, willingly. They push it and tell you this is why they are superior to the competetion. I am telling you from first hand experience as well as exposure to friends who experience some level of this. Not saying its especially common. I'm saying for some of us, this happens. It's nonsense. Gifts won't make a loser hotter but its not only losers who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 04:39 PM
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This is so cute :) name AND story :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 04:37 PM
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Are these standards considered ridiculous if the woman requesting them meets or exceeds them? Just curious. To answer the OP, I don't think a lot of girls enforce hardcore standards unless they really could. Ultimately, if someone likes a guy enough for whatever reason, a lot of hopes are negotiable. On another note. I don't understand the fixation on people's standards. You get what you can get. If someone only wants to date one eyed pirates with chiseled jawlines, who gives a shit? It is so we…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 04:31 PM
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Yeah those are pure bullshit. Well. Maybe not if you add middle America?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:46 PM
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Who is rollo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:45 PM
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Well not five. I think a great deal of women has been there. Me included. They just hopefully grow out of placating the hell out of men. I know I have. For me, placating is now deliberate manipulation for something or not done at all. I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:04 AM
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You are so..likeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:01 AM
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I make great efforts to communicate, even when he makes absolutely no sense. A lot of deep breathing and reiterating in lieu of cursing him out. Until he crosses the line and goes too far. Then I withdraw in person or go absolutely silent. Terrible habit I got from my dad. Highly effective. Which doesn't really help me because once I stop talking to you, it's because my interest in reconciliation has ended. What else. Oh. I have an ex. Super combative guy who takes up alot of the air up in every…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:01 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:11 PM
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Your island sounds like fun to me. And I would want a wee little baby piglet to be my oet 😋❤😚
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 07:44 AM
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This makes no sense, my friend. Casual sex and sex with someone you love is different; they may address different needs but still hot. It seems you are trying to quantify the pleasure of sex for women but you are way off. When I call an fwb and tell him to come over instead of calling my ex, there is a reason. And it is immensely pleasurable. You do yourself a disservice by believing women are somehow so far removed from sexuality. Its how so many guys get blindsided. It might help to ignore eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 07:40 AM
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No to both. It is easy to tell when a man is attracted to me. I don't need to sleep with him for that validation. I suppose getting him to do things just because he's so attracted could be a substitute As a woman, men wanting to have sex with you is not that impressive. Men want to have sex with everyone. I am also a conventionally attractive person so this is even less interesting. So no, bragging is unecessary. None of this touches my reasons for casual sex. It actually sounds both moronic and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:17 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:23 AM
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I'm female, I'm straight, I'd probably have sex with the woman. And if we could order or figure out a makeshift strap on, I'd be fine. The guy pictured? Um... I mean he's not repulsive. Just not hot. But if she and I are are in the throes of passion, he could make himself useful when I'm too excited to care. Tap into my depravity (the favor fuck) If he cannot make himself useful, even in this crazy scenario, lets just hope a lord of the flies situation doesn't emerge because he won't make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:15 AM
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Redheads are hawt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:12 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:09 AM
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I don't think a short guy is comparable to a chubby girl. Not when so many guys clamor for chubby girls to bbws. Women don't clamor for short guys. At best, we don't mind it If hes great. We won't even think a out it even. That's different from all the romantics and the horn dogs who corner the love fat girls market. Unless there is a short guy niche I am not privy to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:01 AM
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No, thats not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:58 AM
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I can't say I blame you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:55 AM
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I don't really understand the post. I am female, I engage in casual sex sometimes with my fwbs. I do it because it feels good and its fun and its convenient without having to deal with and entire relationship. Yeah, it matters that they are very attractive and fun to be around. Them being fwbs mean I don't have to worry about safety and health. Sometimes a girl just wants to fuck. Its great to not have to deal with thirsty, volatile male strangers to get it on your time table outside of a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:55 AM
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You edited my comment and the edited version means something entirely different as to what I said. You could negate the affair by using a condom or getting a vasectomy. You have bodily autonomy, so you can surgically alter it in that way. You don't get to depend on us using drugs and surgeries to undo what you already did which is provide your half of a baby. That's not birth control. The time for birth control is before. Especially with all the "great work" done against women getting access to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:33 AM
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This is actually a great question. Probably, because its in society's best interest not to have such gross tolls of poverty and disease reach the masses. That said, we would be coming down on such people too because again, your seed, your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:21 AM
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Lol true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:10 AM
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A marriage? No. I would choose the single life as the fun aunt with no kids, who travels and multiple lovers. Strong relationships require significant emotional investment. I see no reason to provide it if the person I am with is essentially a timeshare. And if I am not deeply invested in a person, I can't imagine a scenario where they would be worth my time enough for the work of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:02 AM
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Lol I like your style.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:01 AM
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Very hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 11:11 PM
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This exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 11:09 PM
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This comment answers nothing and its hard to feel insulted by people who join a community because they cannot "get" a piece or ass let alone find their place in the world as men worth respecting. Sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:37 PM
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A good question for when we can impregnate ourselves without male DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:35 PM
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Nice. No, I'm addressing specific opinions I've seen repeated multiple times as "official stances"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:31 PM
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And on and on it blows 🎵🎶🎵🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:29 PM
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This is the most reasonable and the most correct solution, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:27 AM
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I have never met an unhappy cat lady in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:25 AM
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Ok lol? The comment wasn't about getting you to care? Careful, you sound like just the type to accidentally fall in love with the wrong girl lol. I like casual sex so lol I wasn't trying to wag a finger at you, chill Yes roasties. I am telling my friends about this this weekend hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:04 AM
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So long as they don't create an unstable environment (not good dads, good dads are a very special treasure. I am talking about bums who just walk in and out), I am in great great support of men having more access to their kids. Children need their fathers. I feel a special disgust at the idea of people who procreate and can't be bothered with their own. Men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:02 AM
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What reasoning? Use birth control and condoms? Shouted down by who? I myself never had a pregnancy scare and don't even see whats so difficult. But ok, shit happens. But witnessing how intensely personal pregnancy is up close and how a woman's literal body and emotions "conspire" to bring a baby to term, I have to say I honestly don't even care what men find fair in this instance. You can't saw 50% of your dna out of a human. You can't force abortion on a body that isn't yours.. your options are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:59 AM
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Read upthread
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:48 AM
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Ok. That's the society you are participating in that won't let you mooch by sacking them with 18+ years of financial support for your own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:47 AM
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Speak for yourself. A few recent threads and a hundred comments later, I was repeatedly told how men "need" exclusivity from women, blah blah, you want to be sure its your own child, blah blah I am ok with just sex too but not with the same people who will then have marches about how horrible women are for that same "just sex" I learned the term roasties today. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:45 AM
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Lol how gross. You don't value women and our role in literally propagating the species while at the same time complaining in other threads about male superiority and loads of related nonsense You do not value "the incubator" but you matter? In relation to what, then? The seed is worthless if it cannot be nurtured into an actual human life. And you cannot do it yourself. You are not equipped. I won't even touch the irony of your username and the fact that you are arguing AGAINST bodily autonomy b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:41 AM
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I feel like many guys will talk about birth control before sex but don't even mention STDs. I have to argue for condoms almost every time. They mock her body, her choice as if AIDS isn't for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:29 AM
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Don't they already? Doesn't a parent have to prove the other is uunfit otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:18 AM
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So let me get this straight. Women are not allowed to be sluts so that men are guaranteed to provide for their own. But also, having to provide for your own child has nothing to do with biology. The onus is on society to raise your child and provide for it. While you spread that plentiful seed you guys like to talk about? Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:00 AM
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I was just thinking this as I read this thread. Vote against insurance paying for birth control, against safe abortions, against women's health but also "she should just abort"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:57 AM
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There is. Condoms and vasectomies. Society isn't responsible for your love of raw pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:51 AM
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Then wrap it up. I am pro choice and still feel that outside of maybe rape, I'm keeping the child. You don't carry we do. Can't risk it, protect your interests because biology doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:50 AM
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An innocent child is not responsible for shitty decision making. Letting men opt out means society is ultimately responsible for the many, many children created by sex crazed men who do not even have to carry them to term. I can easily see why this pipe dream exists but since the baby's wellbeing is priority, no to opting out. Things are harsh now, and many men still force bastardaztion all the time. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:42 AM
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"Reeeee!!!!!!!", says the wind, "reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!" So empty. This nothingness that cries so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:22 AM
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I think this is smart. I can see how it can be useful in this way. It just seems that many are not interested in using it this way, with some degree of moderation and thats where they start to sound like America's Next Mass Murderer. I have one such person writing me all day now. The creep factor cannot be quantified and its just generally scary online so imagine in person Girls dont have a trp I don't think but older women absolutely tell it as it is to the rest of us. And its up to you to pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:21 AM
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slowly backs away * Ok thanks. This was just enough detail for me, I won't go looking for more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:16 AM
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Lol jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:14 AM
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I don't speak for you. We don't have the same values on this. Also, backups aren't "necessary" as in if you're attractive, you will always attract people. I personally am not big on strangers. Its why I never had a ONS. And I like certain things. My backups are attractive, familiar, friends, and I already know the answer to certain things. Life is great when no one guy is able to make you feel like the sky will fall without him. You realize people are great but other people exist if the worst ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:11 AM
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Ok; Well that makes sense. I actually thought they, as a group, were trying to affect some kind of social change. Because of how incensed they seem wirh feminism. So its some sort of social club for angry guys. Thanks for helping with the nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:44 AM
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Ah good point. The anger phase. Aka people repellant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:38 AM
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Which is exactly why I'm often flummoxed (and highly entertained) reading these threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:59 PM
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Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:48 PM
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...what is this hair washing debacle you speak of? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:47 PM
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No matter how much older the man, they always say this to us as if younger guys can't fit that bracket and as if younger guys aren't attracted to us for the same reasons old men are. Idk how old you are so idk that this applies to you. I just had to chuckle because I always hear some variation of this with older guy pitches. Also, if you're team "just sex", we can fuck and we still go get our guy. If you're team "marry me", there is all this other criteria that has to justify why you over a youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:46 PM
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So then how is this important? You might as well walk around lying about sleeping with college freshmen. And if its just plates(?), why the outrage about women and sex? What is the upside for girls dealing with RP old dudes? At least BP ones are pleasant and come with presents Everytime I find answers, three more sprout up in its place Tldr, girls should do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:34 PM
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This is exactly why I wonder why RP guys are so indignant about women having sex. So the goal is not ltr or marriage, older guys hope to land girls my age, for sex, and expect what? Loyalty while pissing away our youth just so you can say you're seeing someone younger and ... that's it? Lol wuuuut Lol this can't be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:31 PM
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Lol no although I do find this topic absolutely fascinating A very very good guy friend of mine is visiting my city soon..haven't seen him in a while so we are probably going to hang out have our epic conversations, armchair philosophies and all. He was the one who told me TRP existed, what he ultimately took from it but left it alone for many reasons I want to know more for when we dive into it and whatever adventures that comes with while he's in town Also, a lot of this stuff is behavior I ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:13 PM
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I agree with you. I am generally turned off by uptight men. I kind of equate this attitude with... tepid sex? Like I couldn't be forthcoming with even fantasies because by the time I was done with him, he would suicide. The problem, though, is that men will lie if they are very attracted to you in the hopes of getting over it when you do not even align with their values, or opt to stress you out for the rest of your life with their insecurity. Men say a whole lot about what they won't tolerate u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:05 PM
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And on and on goes the far away sounds of "reeeeees", like a brutally sodomized ghost in my mentions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:58 PM
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Guys who have bad sex can be absolutely awful in bed and need to learn their partner starting from the top anyway. Guys who think showing up with a stiff dick = making a girl go crazy. No. Its a skillset, you learn it, and since people like different things, you're generally always learning with someone new. Having no experience is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. It kills me guys have angst about this when as a woman I dont even think about it. I dont speak for other women of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:57 PM
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Of course they do. I guess I don't see how MGTOW is different from garden variety guys, if looking for sex and nothing else. I understand if its truly the lide choice of going their own way. So many factions..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:53 PM
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Lol that is crazy. That's not how vaginas work. Thanks fot the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:36 PM
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Spooky sounds continue to fill my notifications. How? Attention whoring ghosts are a thing now? Or is still that manic pussy starved freak still being a fan? Someone, let me know ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:35 PM
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Blah blah blah reeeeeeeeee! Anyone hear that noise?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 02:46 PM
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Seems legit. I totally believe someone you don't pay wants to fuck you. It's why you're such a delight, early in the day, seeking attention from "internet sluts" you don't like. In other news, to the follow up readers, especially those who peruse my past comments, this is a good case study for those interested in how things decelerate with women in really life. An infuriated, entitled, bitchy queen presents himself using insults to catch one's attention. He squanders that opportunity for attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 02:13 PM
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I see. But ultimately the result is the same right? Neither party deals with the opposite sex so they are pretty much removed from the dating pool right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 01:40 PM
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Hahaha Is this my first bitter trper reeeeee guys?? LMAO oh am I? Ok then! Your mom's a slut. Lol I'm happy to explain why my opinion holds value after you explain to me how your opinion of me and my value is of any relevance to..anyone or anything. After you do that, maybe we can slowly walk you through how useless men don't get a say. Mmk? Don't get bitchy with me. Not my fault people don't choose to fuck you. Lol jesus what a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 01:37 PM
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I have always had opportunity to cheat. I opt not to. It is not difficult. It is true that I am more likely to leave. But I do not pick boyfriends frivously. If I leave one, there is good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:14 AM
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Comes with thr territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:11 AM
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Thanks! I don't know why they do. The conversations here are juicy. Lol. Also a little bit of recon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 04:52 AM
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Are mgtow guys black pills then? Or is this something else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 03:29 AM
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What is a roastie? I don't know much about incels yet. Some of the self identified ones that have reached out on here seem like red pill guys but more.. depressed? Some sweet, some not so sweet. I don't know what's typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 03:29 AM
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I will take your word for it. I too have abs. No juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 03:20 AM
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You're welcome. You too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:39 PM
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So goldiggers who bear children, keep up the home and stay attractive And successful career women Those are ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:38 PM
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No, I don't think that is all there is. But it's all that many, many men demand. Shitty personalities in women do not appear out of nowhere in your 50s. It makes sense that if you asked another adult to stay at home, not develop experience in the workplace, rear your children, etc so that when you cheat or whhatbhave you, they cannot support themselves that you be indebted to their care. Until you can find a way to return years of youth back, ai don't see the issue. If you don't want that, find …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:37 PM
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Responding just to be a dick, like you're being. Equality, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:25 PM
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Yes. I think most people would agree. So much so that these other qualities are just noise men talk about. We get away with a lot of shit, for long periods of time just for being young and attractive. But its still fun to hear these ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:23 PM
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Then enjoy those women. This is unattractive loser behavior to me and I don't respond to it at all. It's especially silly when they realize you're not into it and are suddenly debonair and apologetic. You talked me out of fucking you already, good job sport!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:21 PM
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This is true. I have never been ashamed of this. I just feel repulsed at the idea of submitting to a man who inspires no such impulse. It is such a strong drive that watching a certain type of man lose his shit screaming about how hateful women are for not submitting only turns me on more when my man who IS worth submitting to is with me. Kinda screwed up but hey, I am nobody's angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:13 PM
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10 years? Well congratulations. May marriage treat you both very well!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:08 PM
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No idea. Maybe. I don't really care what people call it, I just do what works for me. Looking at how many men value relationships and view cheating, it seems like good sense especially if you're a woman your twenties. These aren't husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:07 PM
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I'm not the party girl type but I have fwbs. Red pill shoot themselves in the foot with this stereotype. I just love good sex. Many women do. I have never heard of women having fuck buddies being equated to desperation. Not saying you're wrong. I don't know that most men hire prostitutes out of desperation or not. I am just telling you my gut reaction to learning a guy hiring a prostitute is to scan him for a deficit. Why could he not inspire someone to have sex with him without payment? Why don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:50 PM
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I see. No I always keep backups and I don't have emotional affairs with them. They are men I know I can call if something doesn't work out. They are my "friends" basically kept on a backburner. Vetted people I like enough to consider if I need someone to step up. But your definition makes sense too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:36 PM
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What are you doing to a very simple point right now? You are way off base. You mention envying prostitutes as if there is some high barrier of entry into sex work. A man is more desirable when he doesn't have to resort to paying for it, in most cases. Like, what is fundamentally wrong with him that he cannot draw a lover himself? He sounds unattractive at least as an idea. That is how many women see it. This comment about needing relationships for sex is not tethered to reality either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:15 PM
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Agreed. I know a few of both. I don't really get why many men are embarrassed about being a virgin. But I have learned I strongly dislike virgin clingyness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:03 PM
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Lying is about convenience, not shame. At least for me. Men can act crazy as fuck once their insecurities kick in. Who has that kind of time? I am talking full blown crying, begging, anger, throwing things, trying to meet people I know behind my back and so forth. All of that without them even getting an answer. On another note, I am not at all into virgins. I thought I had no problem with it because seriously, who cares. Until recently. This new guy I met. He's a gorgeous, gorgeous nerd. His th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:02 PM
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Sleeping with someone on the side is not a backup. It's just garden variety scumbaggery lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:51 PM
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Jesus Christ..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 06:51 PM
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I do. Always. I have backups for both romantic relationships and fwbs. I see no reason to operate differently, especially considering how men can be. A lot of it has to do with the fact that I am very particular and just being attractive is not enough of a reason to start with a guy. They are vetted, so to speak. Works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 06:50 PM
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I don't see how getting creepy and lecherous attention from men you do not want in the ghetto could ever be considered "positive feedback" To each his own, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 06:45 PM
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I like attractive men who can protect me, resources and otherwise, who can be a real friend to me, and relate to my explosive love of sex. That's just me. A career man shows he can produce, is capable, provides, etcetera. The inverse is what? That I be attractive? Fine. I Am. But when its just this, a woman is a do nothing gold digger who offers no humor, no intellect, no conversation..etcetera Idk. You guys speak with a lot of authority about nothing at all. It makes me wanr to study the though…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:46 AM
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Ok. I mean, you said it, not I.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:41 AM
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And that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:40 AM
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Women's attraction ruin relationships? Ok So why bother wirh women? Lol @ gay relationships havi ng the lowest when those same men will quickly tell u how almost impossible it is to trust monogamy in such relationships I want to answer your questions but you replied to a comment about dick pics in an unrelated manner so idk how to respond. Try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:36 AM
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You don't get it. I appreciate dick very much. Its why I keep my "friends". Doesn't mean that some random sends me his sad peen pic that I will find it attractive. I don't. He seems inexperienced, desperate, ick. Compare that to how I look up at the man I am about to blow. Snatch his soul with my eyes after I marvel that thing. You do not hold the same standing as the chosen man. Just because you like to look at just about any pussy you see doesn't mean that random dick pics aren't repulsive. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:29 AM
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... you're married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:22 AM
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What is this gotcha stuff? My notifications had at least 5 comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:21 AM
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If you're staying at home, you likely can't afford to pick the hottest nanny. Or any nanny at all. Personally, I am only interviewing men. Dont @ me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:20 AM
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But who disdains SAH husbands? Is that a meme I missed somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:18 AM
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I could hug you. THANK YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:16 AM
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Idk. A bunch of unfortunate women who, after a few hours at Sephora, get absolute positive feedback would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:13 AM
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Exactly. Who thinks like this? Brb going to put myself through grueling education and jump all hoops just to prove i beat men. I am so fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:10 AM
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.......what???? You speak of your opinion as though it is fact. But as I go along this thread to respond, I realize. You have this idea that you are convinced is true and does not serve reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:08 AM
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hugs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:06 AM
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And beautiful women have no plus other than being beautiful. But chosen with stunning regularity so what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:03 AM
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So stay home to take care of the children. Says who? Do you personally interact with such women? Liking what you do at work doesnt make u less human. If thats the case, why do career men expect women to tolerate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:01 AM
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...it can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:59 PM
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But many men are assholes. It's a part of life. We pick who we like. So what? Besides men who send dick pics project inexperience, insecurity, and lack of social skills..its an easy pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:58 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:55 PM
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No. Its because dick pics are not sexy. I am one of those girls who reject otherwise super hot guys for dick pics. Male desperatiom is gag. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:55 PM
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Dick pics from randoms are not sexy. Especially since the male collective is profoundly thirsty and so many if them do it with so much hope. I am team forearms. Forearms are sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:54 PM
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❤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:48 PM
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Lol we are the same. I "ok" people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:47 PM
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Nothing ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:43 PM
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But I am not pretending. I agree there is an entirely, giant terrain of middle ground. But that isn't what is reflected when I continue to read these posts and comments so again. I had to ask. JUST in case I was missing something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:41 PM
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Not a troll. Just making it clear I think you sound utterly ridiculous in that comment. Herp derp if you want to, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:39 PM
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😋
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:38 PM
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Thanks! I just asked someone this- why the TRP holding hypergamy against women considering it is our nature? When the TRP is all about honoring male nature? If the TRP does not support LTRs, why all the resentmemt against women? You aren't choosing a SAHM so why hate career women? Your comment is awesome btw so thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:38 PM
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If hypergamy is female nature, and the TRP is all about respecting male nature, what is the actual problem? Why hold female nature against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:35 PM
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You make sense to me. Though I would disagree about goldiggers being unintelligent. I know some of these types who attended my Ivy. The doe eyed moronic play goes with the territory as often times, guys who are ok with this tend to dislike feeling threatened intellectually. Its more about the slight of hand while being very physically attractive. You still get everything you want so long as he is placated in most ways. Its a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:34 PM
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❤ U big dummy. You're smart for hedging your bets. But I will say, when someone actually loves you, this isn't how it works. Intangible factor. In b4 "shutup blue pill!" Just telling you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:24 PM
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Because its an interesting topic, I like to hear how other people live, because it explains a lot of behavior, knowledge is power?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:21 PM
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I accept the idea that it is a difference in lifestyle. I just don't buy that just because someone likes material things doesn't mean they lack humanity. I have volunteered with the less fortunate since I was a kid. I also love my hour long spa treatments. Of course, I might not be a good match for the "down to earth" guy who builds everything from scratch. Doesn't mean those men don't try to hit on me, doesn't mean other parts of him aren't highly attractive. But I get your point. And its a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:20 PM
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...who said I haven't? I am not a good person to ask. I ended my relationship and currently indulge in some much needed casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:14 PM
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This has been the best explanation from the pov of the TRP I have ever recieved. I am a woman and I read this to mean its totally fine to live life the way I choose and end up with a man who is confident he can deal with it. This is way better than the "stop liking nice things" advice a few have shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:11 PM
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So then you support being with the opposite, you dont cry about the odds of alimony (divorce rape?), you believe in providing for her, hell.. you believe in marriage right? I don't mind the point of view, I am just looking for a little more consistency in this rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:06 PM
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I think it is a false dichotomy but I did not create it. After seeing the same users continue to rail against both, I had to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:04 PM
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You said you are a 4. As in less attractive than the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:03 PM
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This is fair. I just don't see how choosing to be single is worse than being MGTOW but I support your right to choose how you want to live your life I don't know enough to say for certain but anytime I take a look at thr MGTOW world, it appears to be men who can't claiming they chose it Some of my guy friends are single, by choice, enjoying life and there is little to no toxicity involved. Idk its just weird that someone who is like this would need MGTOW. But again. Not against it or you, just c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:03 PM
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Oh, I'm sorry you find my sharing an opinion as some sort of new world order imposed on you, guy on the Internet I did not know existed. The guy telling me what I can and cannot do. I must have forgotten how discussion on anonymous forums work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:00 PM
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I can't disagree. But I will say when women get obvious improvements (not hair color change. Breast implants) they still get rancid scorn. But if it looks good, people eventually stop talking about it and go on about how good you look. This would be the case here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:57 PM
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I love your entire comment and I totally agree. I just care that people are consistent. I posed by question because I needed guys who hold both views to do tje math for me. Love this comment. I ..already said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:56 PM
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Fair enough. What is wrong with having a say? Plenty of women who are not career types dictate how the household is run. Of course they do, their husbands are at work and don't know what needs to be done And if by have a say you mean her money is going towards a renovation, for example, I mean I would hope she wouod have a say..right? What am I missing Ditto on gold diggers. It seems many men prefer this model over career types and the ones who are angry cannot afford them but want that look of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:54 PM
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He is still gorgeous and I am a girl who considers a receding hairline as an absolute dealbreaker. You're right. His money makes a difference. But thats because I know the perfect doctor who can fix it and he costs a pretty penny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:51 PM
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Hmm. In most instances, I would think less of him for it. So why he did it matters. Guys trip? Extremely busy and traveling alot? Can't get anyone interested? Poor sense of self? Is it a sexy kink? Etc. A deal breaker? Maybe not. But if he had a habit or he presents with that general attitude of thinking he can pay for me to do xyz, we probably wouldn't make it to Christmas. I guess another way to say it is if he seemed he needed to go that route because he had no other options or some sort of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:47 PM
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Lol touche
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:39 PM
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Seems to me like she is new to this way of thought and overthinking things. When guys do this to me at the supermarket, I smile and say I have a boyfriend whether I do or not, tell them I hope they have a great day, then move on. It's the easiest way to handle it without accidentally triggering someone hostile. It can be a problem when they start to follow you, though. I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:32 PM
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I can understand this. This very much sounds like a lifestyle thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:24 PM
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Fair enough. Sorry to burst your bubble but I am not defensive or butthurt about having a career. Lol. It's a question because it sounds very illogical. I like nice things, men hate goldiggers, so I provide myself with nice things, so now I'm butthurt? Please do that math for me again. I brought this conversation up for the sake of discussion. I don't even bring up my career in real life until that conversation has to happen. Around here, every single man pushes to find out. I am conventionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:22 PM
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This might be the dumbest thing I ever heard. Lol I woman am not whining about shit. Not going to stop the things I like to protect the ego of someone who can't do what I can. Not for man or woman. Now if a person and I are a match and he can manage not to feel castrated, it won't bother me one bit. I don't believe a man's masculinity can only be presented with his bank account. That said, it doesn't mean I will be pairing off with someone who isn't productive or proud of himself. It's like some…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:11 PM
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I get your point. But I guess some of us don't think about it. I am affectionate with some of my femae friends. They are that way with me. We compliment each other. Playful too sometimes. Its nothing. But I see how a guy can misunderstand. I do make an effort to be conscious. It can be annoying or hard though when youre just a nice person and some guys think this means you're connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:40 AM
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I don't understand. Did you become MGTOW in retaliation? Because you speak as if you're missing out and I thought the point was you prefer this life. And if you rather have women, why tf are you letting guys who can't do what you can keep you from it What twilight zone is this???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:35 AM
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Ouch. I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:29 AM
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Feel free to read my recent comments for clarification if you care enough. I dont have trouble with this concept irl, like most people dont. I ask how does TRP reconcile these demands. I see plenty of the same guys bitter about both extremes. I see giant posts denouncing both. So? If that's the opinion, work it out for me. "I don't see why you are having trouble with this concept" 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:26 AM
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No. You think I think that. I worked hard to step into my line of work. When I say career, I mean career. Education, dues paid, lucrative opportunities for advancement and fulfillment I don't know what you guys means by gold digger so I asked for a definiton in my OP. Also, I am clearly asking in general. So define and clarify, if you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:20 AM
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So what are you saying? You dated one or two women you consider career women and consider them insufferable? Are career men insufferable too? Or does having a penis absolve them from blantant personality flaws? Why not say you are not into highly ambitious types?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:17 AM
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Why should I date down? I did my part. I am attractive, young, fit, well educated, gainfully employed, close to my parents, etc. And I don't like cats. I have to date down and fuck with mini beasts because I exist incorrectly? Lol at least you said it outloud. I give you credit for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:14 AM
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How is it a trite attempt at a gotcha? I've been here less than a week and by far, these comments have been amongst the most prevalent. And since TRP is a credo, it seems, surely this has been worked out. How can you demand both? I mean, ask for what you want. But I want to know how is it realistic? Don't dismiss my question. If it seems ridiculous, please refer to the source of my curiosity. TRP. I thought thats what this sub was for. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:12 AM
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That is besides the point but if it makes you feel any better, I don't live a rich poor lifestyle. I care abiut security enough to take measures and learn forever. Some guy coming in has never been a life plan. Why does that make me a shitty woman? Its not a silly strawman. I am a woman, this is the feedback I am seeing, and I am asking you how do you reconcile all these demands I also think saying the average man has pathetically low demands is total bullshit. Considering these expectations, sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:07 AM
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Yeah but is that the rule? Why the assumption a career woman is a bitch? Where do you people live that being an adult, taking care of oneself, makes you highly unlikable? Are career men this unlikable? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:03 AM
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Aw :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:01 AM
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Than they should? Its not because this is what men respond to? Shutting down nations for their paramours? Whereas if you're an uggo, you don't exist to the opposite sex? Oh, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:01 AM
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I wish this comment were higher on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:59 AM
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Many men I see at work are very status conscious. Not all. Of course. The men I meet outside, I hate telling them about my life. Want an fwb till they come over then suddenly we should move in together "lol". Idk how men don't get called out for their "golddigging" ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:58 AM
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This just in: men hate short hair, lol at feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:55 AM
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Lol $300? For? Mani, pedi, and a blow dry. If its a good week, maybe a store brand lipcolor. Kindly, stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:54 AM
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The lies you tell. That or girls need to start submitting invoices for first dates. Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:52 AM
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Says you. Looking like a million bucks every day costs money. And effort. And time. Are you kidding me right now? Are we on the same planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:48 AM
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I agree. Just seems like these are the stereotypes I keep hearing about with rarely any mention of..anyone else really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:44 AM
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I sound like I am dumb because I ask men to articulate what they want, exactly? Since these are the two extremes most referred? Ok, sure. I'll be a dumb ass. But also, I am waiting for you to clarify what it is you want. Because it sounds to me you're triggered by me showing how you make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:43 AM
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Fair enough. Yes its easy to spend money. But spree wise, half the joy is discovery and trying outfits on. Anyway My point is all I hear is how, to prove some guy I love him, I have to downgrade my lifestyle to cater to bullshit I don't even care about. So he feels secure. I would do it too if male need didn't seem like such a black hole of never-ending demands. Don't demand he makes more. Don't be a slut (aka like sex at all) but also, be pornstarn ready and elastix. Be ok if he cheats. Don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:40 AM
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Let me finish what I'm doing first ;) (Lol, don't be mad!l 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:34 AM
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..this might be my new master plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:17 AM
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Idk how to format so bear with me? How is dependence on a man not a bad thing? You worry about divorce rape (gag. But also occurs when a whole adult depends on you to live), men die, they cheat, have entire separate familes bc oopsmuhdickfellhere... so? I agree men depend on women for companionship but the last comment I read was a millionth comment of the viabilty of sex robots. I feel the collective works extremely hard to prove how companionship does not matter. Its bullshit but why should I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:16 AM
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I get that. I am talking about actual careers. That just a job stuff was college and the time shopping for career post college/grad school.. Again, in my circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:06 AM
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This is fair. I guess I don't care what's just a job or not. I like both passionate people and nice things and struggle to understand those who dont care .unless they are bohemian I suppose. Which is a choice. And i respect it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:04 AM
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With the technology today, one long vacay and no one would ever know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:02 AM
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Understandable But I suppose I was referring to women with high-very high income careers Not that unusual. And shit, we are still women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:01 AM
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Oh...i really do. I may or may not have stolen the soul of a nerd or two for teaching me things. Bc its a turn on. And they r so so cute and nice And not overbearing like some..others..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:59 AM
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I see. Yeah, some guy will never know who I slept with or why. I don't use tinder but I pick the hottest, then the most awesome personality wise among them because I can and because its sexy. Also. Average joes can be insanely sex. Everything isn't purely phsyical factors. I am not one dimensional like some man. No offense to anyone. Maybe a tiny bit of offense. U understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:56 AM
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I don't get it. At 100k after taxes its easy to hire a chef. Less easy to take time off to cater to you but doable. Who has time for shopping sprees, really, when making this kind of money? How do you make your woman's lives better when asking for parity? I deeply trust equilibrium can be achieved in most scenarios But your literal dick is not an answer. So. Make your life better how? You're not the provider so what is the deficit if your woman is not a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:52 AM
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So, in other words, "gold diggers" are ok and should not be diminished in this community. Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:47 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:46 AM
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Why is intellectual in quotes? Are smart women not possible according to TRP? Edit: ok so marry nannies What has stopped the TRP from adopting this strategy of routinely marrying nurses, ped nurses, and the like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:44 AM
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Men and women being different do not address the voracious need for human intimacy. I am not going to conflate the needs of a man who wants to have love, family, and legacy with frat boys trying to find their place in the world. If it were true that men did not need women, And yes, beyond sex TRP would not exist and fleshlights would have at LEAST a billion dollar valuation Undermining the value of women and love is your handicap. Not rejection. Not frustration. Denial. Do with this info as you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:43 AM
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But also, when I am ready for a husband..move there? Thank u.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:01 AM
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This. Explains. So. So. So..much. Thank you ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:56 AM
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Excuse me, what is 24/7 TPE? What does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:54 AM
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So if someone is not humiliated by this, but rather turned on and excited What does this mean Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:52 AM
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So then how to TRP men operate in urban centers? Do they have a separate credo?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:50 AM
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You make perfect sense. It's what I always thought. But then I join this sub a few days ago and it seems as if the men discuss this as though it is common knowledge. Idk I just don't understand what it is they want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:48 AM
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Anecdotal but in my immediate circle, only a very small percentage of my female friends don't have a career. And they left or put it on pause because of pregnancy. Outside of that... idk there was always some hardship they are working through. With the goal being getting their dream job. Wtf..is this weird of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:46 AM
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With all due respect, this is fantasy and bullshit. You have never seen a full grown man lose his mind, deaperate and crying for your love in public? How about the men who go full murder suicide when a woman leaves him (and sometimes for good reason like abuse) If a guy doesn't want a relationship, no one is forcing him to stay. As a girl who had to comfort her man many a night, being the diary and the love that keeps a stressed man upright, and whatever othwr emotional problems Your comment rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:40 AM
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Thank you for comment! It was your comment in the other thread that inspired my questions I have no idea how to format on my phone. One day Not care about nice things? Shut your @&$&% mouth lol. I come very humble beginnings and was always like this. My parents still ask me how I ended up this way, why I pay so much for rent, etc. I just like it. So I worked hard to be able to do it. I don't mention it to men and don't expect anyone to have anything. Many of the men I work with make great money …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:36 AM
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I agree. I hear a steady stream of bullshit when getting hit on. This is why the Internet is fun to peek into. I am asking men what it is they are really asking for when they make these comments online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:25 AM
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Yeah. Follow up question Who are these robots that are only about careers and nothing else? It doesn't make sense to me. If anything, aren't women more likely to remain social since all our lives we nuture friendships and relationships for support and bonding? Having only career and nothing else sounds like more men that I know. Not all, some of my friends have hobbies. Be it career or shopping or doing nothing but playing video games, some people only nuture one dimension and float through life…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:24 AM
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Oh, I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:20 AM
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I am little confused as to how MGTOW is a loss to women? I fully support autonomy, self love, and living your life your way. However, it appears most of the men driven to this particular movement aren't catches to be missed. If you were to force a man who chose MGTOW into marriage, it would be hell for both parties. It reads as social darwinism tbh. Those who can't compete, don't. No hate, I just don't know who it is you're pointing and laughing at
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:19 AM
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Helpful!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:52 AM
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What's wrong with chasing a career? I thought men hated gold diggers? Which I am fine with but I like very nice things. Either you pay for it or I do. So. What is the issue with having a career? And what is wrong with horse girls? This thread is so bizzarre lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:50 AM
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Omg Jude Law 😯 Why is Mother Nature like this??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:47 AM
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I agree with you. She did what worked for her which is so much better than what some women do which is just take it repeatedly and let the hurt make them physically ill over the years. I'm happy your friend found her way through. I don't know that I will ever evolve to become the type to retaliate and stay. I won't even pretend to be a hard ass. There is just a fundamental shift in the way I see a person who betrays me. Am I supposed to pour myself the same way into a partner I don't trust? How?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:54 PM
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I don't have any real reason to fear ending up alone however if given the choice to be alone vs being with an RP guy, I would very happily choose being alone and never look back. You can believe what you want. Also, the terms and beta are hardly the only way to spot one of these guys. There is lingo, there are certain attitudes, certain triggers..it honestly never fails. They cannot help themselves. I know I could detect it before I even heard what TRP was. It was one of my good guy friends who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:41 PM
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I didn't mean on here. I think this sub is great because you get all sorts of perspectives. I went to the red sub and it was akin to trying to shower in acid. Definitely up for interesting discussions here however irl, if I spot a red in the wild (and I have. They can't seem to help the lingo slipping out) I'm bailing. Ditto to the rest of your thoughtful comment. Some men are angrier than I ever had to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:04 AM
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No, I am telling you he has had times where he was very physically attractive. No lens. Just him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:01 AM
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You haven't? I am happy to introduce you to a few charmers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:53 AM
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Lol wat How is having sex degrading and lowering smv? Is there a credit report for pussy that I do not know about? Do you guys live in tiny towns or something? You want to have sex with the sexiest guy you can because its hot not because it "ruins value" lol wtf You would do for him what you wouldn't for an uggo you are not attracted to. We get turned on. Female sexuality is a real thing. Don't handicap yourself this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:50 AM
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Yes? It does?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:37 AM
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Self improvement existed well before TRP. Investing in yourself doesn't make you a selfish ass. Do you think women who maintain their looks do so with magic? Self care is investment and it is self love. And its important. It will always be. Not just for your partner but for you. The world can see you, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:32 AM
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I found this post very helpful. I am new to this and this has provided context that makes more sense to me than the aggregate of hostile comments I've seen from trp guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:28 AM
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I'm confused. Still learning this trp stuff. If their ultimate goal is not LTR or marriage, why the hell are they so angry at women for not wanting to live on their $25K salary as a SAHM, having casual sex, and whatever else? The fuck? Lol these men are radioactive. I cannot answer the OP I just know when I detect even the smallest inclination that they read red pill things, its an automatic no thanks and I get out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:16 AM
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Maybe. But many men will put a ring on it and "discover" the value of character well past their hay day. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:20 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:10 PM
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:( (( big hugs )) I did not mean to sound harsh. What I am saying is very true but your upside is I hardly represent all women nor do I try to. So. Just one perspective for whatever that is worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:05 PM
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Who cares? Sex is not the prize to women that it is to men. Put a thirsty man from a desert into a room full of salt. Yes, there is plenty but who gives a shit when all you need is water?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:03 PM
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I'm sorry. My answer isn't personal as I have no idea what you are like offline. Just speaking to how things are, generally. These days anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:58 PM
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You couldn't be more correct so I have nothing useful to add. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:48 PM
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Spoken like a man who is extremely likely to get cheated on. But hey. What do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:46 PM
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Lol sure. Next thread: why do so many women cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:39 PM
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You make excellent points.. It's not that I take issue with taking a step back. Its that leaders inspire and the guys who usually demand submission inspire nothing. Its more sexual for me and in the places that it isn't, i dont believe faking it is submission. Forget relationships, I follow who inspires me to. Life can be so big. I can even submit then, so long as its authentic. Who cares. My issue is.. Why shrink for the ego of men? There is no payoff, especially today as I am one of those wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:35 PM
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Because good relationships depend on female submission? Not mine, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:19 PM
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Excuse you sir/ma'am Peak Michael was very attractive and everyone knows great talent is like a halo with a giant forcefield that pulls at the genitals. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:15 PM
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No, I agree. But as a woman who feels the same and literally submits to get her sexual rocks off, the entire male collective depending on female submission is comedy..to me. Like. Yes, why should I submit? To anything? Why are men so angry about it? I don't see myself as a cheap photocopy of men. If you have nothing to answer to, why the fuck should I? (Reddit philosopheez) 🙂 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:12 PM
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Both types of cheating are traumatic. But imo, considering what men - especially TRPrs worry about- I think men say phsyical cheating is worse because they are short sighted out of habit Or simply don't get it. As a woman, I get horny at times, yes? The delusions that we don't get powerful lust surging through our veins.. waste of time. If I, inebriated or not, lose myself and fuck someone to satisfy a base carnal need, it is likely I feel regret or in the very least, no investment in the man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:08 PM
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So, nothing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:50 PM
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No offense but are you sure they aren't faking ignorance for your benefit? This is something I do if the man I am dealing with seems sensitive because its an easy win. Height and dick size. We don't exist in a bubble. If my ex is 5'11, no, I don't think you at 5'8 is 5'11. But I WILL "I'm-so-little-you-yummy-big-man-you" for your benefit. Wide eyed. And you will believe me. Again. No offense. Idc about height like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:49 PM
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Yes. Fairly viciously. Then ended it. Each time and never, ever allowed them back. It's a split between telling them I did vs letting them suspect I did and never satisfying the question. Both scenarios inflicted great psychological damage as evidenced by so much fall out, some unthinkable. I have never felt bad, no matter how tragic the fall out. To this day I get those "how are you, was thinking about you" calls. I won't pretend it was moral or that it fixed the damage done to me but it did ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:44 PM
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Well no, I agree. But its different when they profess their feelings, using the history of your friendship as grounds for something more. This happens and it can suck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:30 PM
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Lol you guys can be so snarky/bitchy but poignant on this sub and I LOVE it. 😂😁 love it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:25 PM
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I don't think about it as much anymore. It's just another girl-tax I have to work around. At one point it used to really, really bother me. To the point that I would avoid men because so many are disingenuous af faking friendships for a chance. But I have adapted. One of the hazards of dealing with men is many will subtly or unsubtly clue you in to their interest "just in case". But if you could get past the sex forcefield and observe them on neutral grounds, they could be enjoyable, intelligent…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:21 PM
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All of this is misplaced fury because you don't know what it's like for a woman, let alone a conventionally attractive one dealing with the easily triggered. Case in point. Ok. I can't read, which makes sense because I'm a child. This was an awesome, though unproductive chat, because I'm finished now and actually getting back to my "Chad" who is sleeping over again. Great talk! (See how this is the end of recieving your stranger danger outrage at my "cowardice" and back to my treasured peace of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:13 AM
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You did. You are pounding your Reddit gavel at me, calling me a coward, because I keep what I do to myself. You cannot appreciate the many times a guy I don't even know who feels slighted gets in my face, saying crazy things, wishing me ill for not being interested romantically and I am not even a bitch to these people. Some men are crazy af. Look at this male community with the dissecting and the degrading of women who have lives beyond being chaste kittens or whatever goes on on that sub. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:20 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:09 AM
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I can see why you would say that. But I think of some guys I know who just might suicide because of said dicking and know most girls would stfu to the grave. Not saying its right. Its just the common choice made.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:08 AM
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No. These are not exceptions, is my point. Way too many women cheat for sexual reasons for you to ever say its "rare". This is deluded and untrue. You don't have to believe me, of course. It's not like I support cheating. But I find it so strange how strongly men understate female sexuality where physical attraction is concerned. This very belief alone makes it easier for women to cheat, undetected. I'm a woman whose friends confide in about this. People everywhere know women who do this. You wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:06 AM
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birth control exists. Cheating is still devastating "only" economical aka taking food from your family's mouth to share with your bastards? The harm done to the family unit doesn't even rate? yes, women stay. And often cheat back, under your nose. and some men don't break off affairs and have their mistresses show up at funerals This entire mindset is old school trash, which is upsetting, but then I remember these backwards fringe value systems don't have to be a part of my personal life and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:55 AM
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Honestly, this. Don't understand why this isn't talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:43 AM
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This is the right answer. And we keep them. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:41 AM
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Well when you become judge and jury for human behavior and are able to enforce it, I suppose you will do something about it then. As of now, I see you allowing people like me frustrate you out of your own sense of peace to no benefit of your own. Because its not going to stop. Hookup culture where marriage is dwindling and you're stressing about people who are discreet woth casual sex? Lol just a thought, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:24 AM
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If he isn't in favor of murder, he won't drive women back into days of back alley abortions. Because this is what happens when safe, medical care is not available to a desperate person who does not want anything growing inside her for whatever reason. Or the many, rejected children left alone in a system to experience abuse, disease, and the like because it is so poorly funded by random moralizers who pretend to care about life. I support choice. Period. I will stop here because I've never had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:20 AM
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Lol geez
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:09 AM
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Really? That's.. really kind of gross. I am happy this sub exists so I get to understand the essentials in small, bite sized doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:04 AM
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Well no, I didn't prove your point. The comment you quoted wasn't mine. I didn't say what you said didn't happen. It totally does. I just think it is terribly disadvantageous for men to believe women don't cheat based on physical attraction. That when they do, it's some sort of special circumstance. As if someone being shitty to them is based only on factors they can help. "If only they tended to emotional needs more" No. Sometimes the guy is great and the person he is with is just a selfish hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:01 AM
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Glad to hear you have the ills of society all figured out. Personally, I love this brave new world where you don't get a say in my pleasures so long as I am not breaking laws or harming others. I gotta tell you. It feels really, really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:26 AM
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Rare exceptions, where? I personally know many girls like this Let me link you to real life. Please read all the comments. A thread from today: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7jtm4r/have_any_of_you_known_a_woman_whom_had_an_affair/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:15 AM
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Lol oh well. I am a very happy bad person then who loves her sex life and will never change. Anything is better than having men you don't know in your face talking about your vagina when they will never have it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:14 AM
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I keep reading that wealthy people value the institution marriage and enforce it more in their circles. He is making $350K, I imagine its part of the expectation. I assume she is still of childbearing age?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:10 AM
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No. Not at all. Is this truly what they believe? This is especially amazing to me that they think that. I personally am not a big party or club girl, never have been, and neither are the women I really socialize with. They are busy with school and career or they are married, living quiet lives. Plenty have live in boyfriends and cute little lives. I don't see any correlation to report. I almost feel like many of the girls I know who supposedly show more skin shut men down more and are not having…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 01:08 AM
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Don't know you, didn't ask you to pay for anything, am fine if you don't, and I have a problem with your "morality" trying to change the laws of the land and force women into harms way. You can relax with your aggression, by the way, because fact of the matter is I think people like you are crazy af and am comfortable with the laws as they stand today. Nice talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 12:59 AM
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Yes. I know quite a few women who do this and quite a few are married now. Its usually because the guy is attractive or fun, the sex is good and so is the attention. I wouldn't say there is always a shortcoming at home. They just enjoy it and don't want to disturb home life. I have noticed that its usually more about sex and enjoying the company than it is about loving someone else, though it does happen. One of my good guy friends has been having a long term affair with this married woman. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:25 PM
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This is an incredible comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:58 PM
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Lol! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:58 PM
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I love your comment :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:51 PM
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I am sternly against people I don't know having a say with what I do with my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:49 PM
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Amongst other things, Moore said America was better when slavery was still around and women were not allowed to vote. In so many words. The Black vote reflects the reaction. Its why many don't understand White women supporting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:48 PM
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You...don't believe some women cheat based on physical attraction to other men??? This is the most outright false thing I have read on Reddit today. It actually hurt my stomach to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:38 PM
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Not in real life, no. Anectdotal of course but the reaction I've seen has always been heartbreak, confusion, anger, and insecurity. Which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:29 PM
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I am happy to introduce you to bith condoms and PreP. No HIV worries, no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:25 PM
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This comment is great because it means those of us who figured out birth control while cheating aren't that bad! Woot!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:22 PM
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Actually, there is an ideal ratio and if you are female and you do not have it, you will never compare to the women who do in the eyes of men who care about it. This is the same story with height. And skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:00 PM
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Lol I very strongly disagree. But I suppose at the end of the day, what does it matter? This opinion isn't going to make me publish my sexual history for distribution. I just live my life how I see fit. This is just how it works and tbh, its how many men want it to work. Isn't this close to the side of the internet where some men seem damn near suicidal to learn a girlfriend had sex before? Life is too short for the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:56 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:05 AM
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Yes. But you're making a different point. You can be thin but being thin does not guarantee that ideal waist-to-hip ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:05 AM
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I don't put it out in the open because random men will harrass you, talk down to you, and maybe even harm you for not being what they consider respectable. The rest of your comment is true but coward? No. Pragmatic. It's just easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:03 AM
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Yum. They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:08 AM
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Sorry. A woman who is not an hourglass fat is not going to be an hourglass thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:07 AM
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Autistic. I genuinely can't take sexist men seriously. I see their logic, and therefore mind, as faulty. In such a way that I can't work with it or respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 03:24 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 03:21 PM
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So, not real life then. That's ok. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 03:17 PM
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This comment makes me smile 🙂 #validated #notjustme #tellthesemenz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:02 PM
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Sorry..Are these expectations created by women? How does that work? It's what the audience responds to. Give the people what they want. Supply, demand. I can invest in 10,000 thingamajigs but if no one is buying, I wasted my money. Ergo, men have their expectations and their needs etc ... women cater to them. Because you know what? A fresh blowout and new lipstick will net a girl way more than just dinner someplace fancy. Please do not underestimate the aggressiveness and competition interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:50 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:38 AM
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I really can't stand older men harrassing me or trying to debate with me about why I should be attracted to them I am attracted to men my age and I typically relate to them more I also remember being younger, not understanding certain things, and how much I could have been harmed in the hands of a predatory older man. It terrifies me when I see them coming for younger girls. They do not have women's best interest at heart. Also, it's just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:13 AM
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Depth and 🔥pics? 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 01:33 AM
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I was about to reply but see you have articulated my thoughts beautifully and exactly. So yeah. What she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 12:50 AM
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❤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 12:08 AM
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I understand your point of view. I dont see it happening so much with couples who are a match, sexually and respect each other. I do not relate to women who outright doesn't want to try things but if a man is a bdsm freak, why is he ignoring his lifestyle needs to be with such a person? I like certain sexual acts and won't be with a man who won't do them. Also, feelings change. And if the refusing comes from that, what is your expectation? You can work with your partner to overcome it or .. Is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 12:04 AM
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I understand what you mean. I love sex with my partner so if I am not acting this way, there IS a reason. Resentment, distrust, unattraction, feeling unattractive ..something. because I can be this way for a different partner. I guess its not pleasant to think about but how I feel is connected to my wanting to have sex. When I do the thought exercise, I believe you don't want me showing up for sex that I don't want. You will be able tell the difference, even if I try to hide it and it will fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 11:59 PM
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Idk why you're dismissing this comment. It's true. And if its a deal breaker, why invest in this person? Take ownership of your needs and find a match instead of imposing, the fuck? Me simply not liking a sex act is enough reason for me. I believe in compromise but not to the extent of pain and psychological discomfort. I have seen men try to debate me into things I don't want to do. Even if I tried it before and don't like it, that's my experience and that's it. I do support discovering this ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 11:53 PM
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This answer is stunning because it's 100% true. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 11:36 PM
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See, I agree But then again, many of those who cannot afford it still pursue such women with full force. As a woman, I can easily confirm. Imagine putting that kind of effort into looking great all the time (which costs) and squandering it on a person who doesn't appreciate or gripes about money in other ways. This brings us to other discussions so I will not derail It's crazy that certain aesthetics are even expected by some guys these days. And without a twitch of irony in their eyes, they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 11:26 PM
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If I am in the mood to talk to new people and so being approchable, most of the time Otherwise I dart my eyes another way and just appreciate his hotness on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:51 PM
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Still don't see how but fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:33 PM
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I understand the entire first half of your comment now and agree with most of it. I am way younger and pay a great deal more, not even on makeup for upkeep. It is essentially "pretty girl tax". That is where I was coming from "Cuz Im a girl" is not a reason so yes, I agree.. The second half, I am never attracted to the guy I have to fight with. Life is hard. I do not willfully solicit situations that make it harder. The guy that repulses me cannot treat me to things as he is not welcome in my or…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:27 PM
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Sorry friend. I am not interested in defining anything. Just telling you, what I see irl vs what men claim online. You can believe what you want because it doesn't change my reality offline. Just adding to the discussion. You can do with that info as you will. Lol seriously. Did I skim over the 45 year old housewife bit? Are you denying that men out there will not try to make a 45 year old woman (or anyone) who appeals to him happy? Are most guys in the 45 yr old housewife bracket attracting 20 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 07:43 PM
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:) u get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 07:27 PM
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Your comment doesn't make sense to me. If someone is behaving in a way that makes me uncomfortable, I will remove myself. Idk how fault matters in this equation because my feelings being my fault still wont give the creep what he wanted, which is a pleasant interaction. Some people don't like causing such a reaction and will then behave in a way (ie the apology) that might smooth it over. He doesn't have to. It might not work. Some women/people are assholes when you make them uncomfortable. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 07:27 PM
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This isn't the only truth. Sometimes a guy just likes you and takes pleasure in your joy. His former, lackluster experiences inform him. Also Sometimes a "beta" is way more worth it than a try hard. For me, always. Try hards are never attractive and "alphas" never come across as try hards. And this is most of the population, right? Since majority of men are not "alphas" Men allow sexuality to be so critically important while starving the rest of themselves that they do not acknowledge a reality …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:57 PM
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It's my fault that someone made me uncomfortable by acting in a socially unacceptable manner? I disagree but I also don't care enough to argue about it. Because the net result is "get away from me". His civility can change that dynamic. But he doesn't have to. Just like I don't have to tolerate him and leave. I guess I don't understand what you're getting at. I am not going to inconvenience myself withstanding discomfort someone imposes one me. How he handles my reaction is his choice And for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:47 PM
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I am honestly not clear as to what bothers you or why because in real life, there are so many people who are informed by their nuances and life experiences..so there is no uniform standard to abide by. What I explained to you is how I sort men out as I meet them. I feel like I have answered you but you are not satisfied by how I work. I want to answer you so if you can pose the question in a different way, I am happy to try again. I dont claim to represent how women work. This is just how I do. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:43 PM
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I understand what you mean. I invite you to read my previous comments on how I address this but I will say this Love and casual sex address different drives in me. Perfect love addresses both. I had it once as a romantic life lottery winner. It is highly unlikely, though. I put time and energy to protect myself from a lot of standard bullshit from liars to men who do not know themselves. I feel its worth it for me. Cake is not steak but it is still good in its own way. Because I know myself, I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:33 PM
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I like most of your comment. But paying for her beauty is fair if you're the type of man to demand this. Excluding the male models amongst you, most men are just trying to live their best life with simple, yet demanding requirements like unnatural maintaince of adorable sexiness. That's what you want? Help maintain it. Stop pretending that your refusal of this will stop her life. Because the next guy will play ball. Men undermine other men to an extreme and then avoid talking about it. Most do, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:26 PM
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OP, where I live, these costs are easily beyond what you mentioned. And I agree with you. But I also do not argue with men. Waste. Of. Time. Men who like pretty, well manicured women eventually learn the costs. Especially if they are high maintenance as men. Even the more down to earth ones who like to see his partner feel good and happy bc ultimately that ends up in hot sex for him adapt. Trying to argue with a guy who does not see the inherent value of what you bring is hustling backwards. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:17 PM
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So... everyone's health is like your previous girlfriends, only whores wear makeup, and this topic is about fat women? Lol ok. Unlikable guy flexes for the Internet. I am new here but am starting to understand this is a thing. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:07 PM
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Sure. But when you have to deal with men all your life, you understand a few things. plenty of guys will be doing that shit on purpose because they can there is no way to know which guy is which until you get more information. An apology is more information. being too nice to the wrong man is extremely high risk bc you can end up fucked up phsyically, online, or otherwise You don't need to understand our experience. But I am telling you the truth. I also do not speak for or defend genuine female…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:02 PM
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Casual sex is an alternative because finding someone to actually love takes time nor is it guaranteed. Also, sometimes, there is a physical excitement I would like to address. I don't see the point in waiting for Prince Charming to do that especially if Prince Charming turns out to be freaked out by female sexuality. Have cake, eating it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:50 PM
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I will try again although I do not quite understand the end of your comment. Maybe I did not articulate my point well but the heart of what I am saying is I look at the person as a whole, confirm I think they are good, and see what personal values I like or dont like + chemistry. Does that make sense? An fwb isn't "bad", he just isn't for me. I cannot develop romantic feelings for this person but he is still sexy and awesome to be around. And sometimes that's what fits the bill. Like, you couldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:00 PM
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No one HAS to do anything. But sometimes a guy will realize he has made me grossly uncomfortable and if he is an awesome person, he will make that gesture for the imposition. I sometimes talk to people like this because I really like nice people. As a woman, I know many men wouldn't. Even very attractive men can behave in gross, uncomfortable manners. Those types do not apologize and think its attractive. It isn't. If someone is respectfully appealing to me, I will listen. I will give him credit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:49 PM
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I'm confused. Adult men don't cry? Since when? Why shouldn't adults cry if they need to? I never even thought of thus emotional release as exclusively childlike. This post is weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:12 PM
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This. 100%. Tbh, whenever a guy gets butthurt and chooses to get nasty, I feel completely justified in seeing him as a creep and whatever comes with that conclusion. And yes, when a person clearly and respectfully apologizes and backs off, I absolutely do respect that and think maybe I was wrong. I dont know, some sort of humanity enters the equation. Conversations and friends have been made this way. Idk what all people consider creepy but if I am uncomfortable, there is some obvious behavior o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:59 PM
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Doesn't work that way because its not an option that is offered or ever discussed. It is based on how I see that person. There is no "boyfriend behavior" to emulate. Maybe its the chemistry. Maybe that person's personality or mind or views of the world make me see him in that boyfriend light while the casual sex guy is fun but not someone I can take seriously. In both instances, I genuinely like them as people. In both instances, these are people who are comfortable with themselves and fairly au…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:38 PM
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I have never had a ONS but yes, casual sex can be beautiful in a different way than sex with someone you're in love with can be beautiful. This has so much to do with the character/personalities of the two people involved. Since people varely show up for life, let alone casual sex, its not that easy to accomplish. But makes friends with a likeminded friend with a big heart and an appetite for you? Its a whole new world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 02:49 PM
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Female here. How I do it. Casual sex or not, I do not have sex with anyone I do not actually like as a person. Then, I categorize. Buddy material vs Boyfriend material. Both types have to meet a standard however I do not, under any circumstance, have casual sex with someone I can picture as a boyfriend. Hoping to flip a man with sex is a moronic plan that will just get you hurt. I deal with him entirely differently. The fwb is usually attractive to me physically and really fun as a friend but wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 02:38 PM
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