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As they say in 12 step groups, “don’t go to the hardware store to buy bread.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:18 PM
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Oh, you're right. If this is current it is the holiday weekend Monday which would actually make sense, as far as there actually being a party. But if he already made a date he could just stop by and see the birthday kid at another time, considering birthday kid's parents apparently gave him only 2 days notice that there was a party? Then that's on bday kid's parents if he has already made plans and he should keep his plans as originally made if he has any integrity. And say to birthday kid's par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:39 PM
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Rude. And also children’s birthday parties don’t generally occur on Monday afternoons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:48 PM
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a lot of doctors will prescribe a one time xanax or similar for procedures the give you extreme anxiety. ask your dr next time. i do not have sexual abuse trauma but i have anxiety especially around medical stuff. i use yoga breathing and meditation breathing techniques, and reassuring self talk throughout. and definitely a reward after like someone else said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:44 PM
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Luckily I wasn’t being abused but I feared leaving my ex husband due to the financial stability of having two incomes. Turns out he was pissing away so much money on alcohol and hobbies that it is easier to pay the same bills without him. I can be organized and allocate money as I see fit without him pouring most of his income down the drain. It’s absolutely astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:37 AM
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Thank you, it took hitting rock bottom and giving up on the idea of "if he could just..." and accepting the person in front of me, leaving him to wallow in his shit, and focusing on me and taking good care of me. The universe then manifested him right out of my life! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:16 PM
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I didn’t know what I was doing was called FDS but when I stopped all my codependent behaviors of responding to my husband’s whining and victim games, left him to deal with alll his own untreated emotional issues, and stood up for myself one time very strongly, he LEFT! He wanted a mommy. I stopped mommying him. He hated it. He couldn’t get his validation and comfort needs met. And he went to find a new mommy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:38 PM
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