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Two things: 1) Personality affects looks. I am attracted to a personality that leads to taking care of your body, grooming, exercising, healthy diet & lifestyle. I am also attracted to the looks that result. Who know how much of each contributes? 2) I am convinced that (at least for me, a man), a woman can physically become more or less attractive to me as I get to know her. I have seen 10s become 4s in a matter of seconds by saying something dumb. It takes longer for a 5 to become an 8, but it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:15 PM
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Holy crud ... you're done, man. Sounds like you're creating problems out of nothing. I've never had even close to that at any stage of my relationship.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 08:55 PM
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Good point. The boundaries were already set when they got married.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 04:28 PM
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Distance runner here! I started lifting but I have a 50-mile race in a few months and don't want the extra weight ... It sounds like it didn't take much improvement physically to make a difference for you. Way to go.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 04:26 PM
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"Look I'm so alpha." Prove it in your life, not some online comment.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 04:12 PM
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No I'm not condemning him at all, I never said that. My point is that it takes time to learn, and this may be the first time something like this has come up. If everyone jumped ship the first time their spouse did something wrong, nobody would be married.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:17 PM
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Dude you're no less of a man for being laid off. Don't throw a pity party. I hope you at least had a decent rainy day fund and good luck in the job search. If it drags on too long, I would consider part-time work somewhere to keep some structure in your life and a little income.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 10:48 PM
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Good point, but is this the first time he's confronted her about it? They've been married 18 months - is that enough time to prove that she can or can't change?
/r/askMRP16/03/18 04:50 PM
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Sounds like you didn't want advice, you want to divorce her but don't have the courage to do it until you see a bunch of strangers online confirm it for you.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 03:13 PM
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I have finally quit porn after more than a decade of true addiction. Of course it's a god thing to be a master of oneself. My own sexual independence alone is rocking the boat, shifting the power dynamic. I haven't had to say it explicitly - my wife knows that she is losing an edge she used to have, and is scrambling to recover it. Sometimes the boat has to rock to steer to a different direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 03:05 PM
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Seriously ... maybe I am just not as RP as everyone else here, but this simple idea is one of the most powerful I've come across in all RP subs. By owning yourself, instead of being dependent on your wife, you retain power, self-respect, and confidence. Who wants to be the wife doling out sexual favors because their man is going to throw a tantrum if he doesn't get what he "needs"? No, they want to be intimate with a confident man who enjoys her, not needs her.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 02:58 PM
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I bought ice skates this winter and felt like I had to get hockey skates to be manly. Well I really like figure skating and I should have just manned up and gotten a pair. Own it as a man, not in the "boys can play with dolls too" kind of rhetoric, more like "a real man doesn't care so much what others think" kind of deal. Legos seem a lot better than most video games, or browsing reddit for that matter
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:40 AM
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I can already see the downvotes ... but I'm amazed how quick people are to throw out a solution like divorce online. I'm friends with a similar couple (married young, Christian, wife had and emotional affair early on) that made it through alright. Does no one respect the commitment of marriage, even when (especially when) one partner messes up? Obviously some hard boundaries need to be set (never see/text these dudes again, you will have walls up for a while, etc) but if you can forgive her she …
/r/askMRP16/03/18 03:38 AM
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Okay I get what people are saying here but I have to agree - doesn't it suck to ONLY have sex when she wants it? That sounds like entirely her frame to me. She is calling the shots. So how does this guy just go along with it without continuing the problem?
/r/askMRP14/03/18 12:18 AM
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