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Because men and women ARE NOT EQUAL. Women’s attractiveness is found first and foremost in their physical appearance whereas men first and foremost in their security and having their shit together Men being insecure is a turn off. You can groom and appear as though you’re considerate of your outfits by having a nice haircut or a nice outfit, but taking it overboard suggests insecurity. Men and women ARE NOT equal in society. Shouldn’t be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:41 AM
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I don’t think they’re talking about relationships I think they’re talking about getting to hook up with girls you barely know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:00 AM
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A single woman is usually failing as a woman but winning as a man A single man is failing both as a man and as a woman Women have learned how to tap into the divine masculine, men have not learned to tap into the divine feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:29 AM
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You don’t measure women by men’s standards. A successful woman is a woman who is able to challenge a man to become better. Doesn’t matter that she’s a bum, what matters is that she motivates men. A man’s job is to become better from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:45 PM
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Who implied there’s a problem? My point here is that men will improve themselves for women and that’s why when women have expectations incels need to stop complaining and focus on becoming a better man if they want to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:02 PM
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I’m gonna be honest I don’t care about yeah, competing by being bums but one has a sexier dress at the club
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:35 PM
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I agree, you stop chasing women and be the first to break the news to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:34 PM
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They can be ambitious and independent because that will encourage a man to out-earn her in order to motivate a high class man There’s multiple ways to achieve the end result Some men want a trophy wife that bums around, so we need some women to do that job Some men want a life partner that pulls her own weight I don’t really care what it is, a woman is pulling her weight by default because a man is willing to change if a woman makes him But the last thing we need is women encouraging men to be b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:36 PM
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Some men cannot grow a beard, yes, hence why I said they can grow some form of facial hair and have it groomed Every human on the planet that is capable of having hair follicles face is capable of styling them in such a way that they are more attractive than if they’re ungroomed. It’s that simple. No way to disagree with that. If you have a patchy ass beard, simply shave the patchy bits and get a goatee, or a soul patch, or just a mustache, or just the side burns, or whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:41 PM
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Did you just say beard growth is outside of a man’s control? That’s like saying hair growth is outside of a woman’s control. The majority of men can grow some type of facial hair, maybe not an amazing bushy one but enough to be more attractive than they are if they really groom it Haircuts are also something that not just the majority but the vast vast vast, almost every single man with the exception of bald people can modify about themselves How you dress is easy Your physique can be modified I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:53 PM
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Loss is worse than never giving. Men leave women with cancer probably just as much as women leave men with cancer Compare apples to apples We’re all welcome to not date the cancer chick, I know I wouldn’t, but if my girlfriend becomes the cancer chick I’m not leaving her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:30 PM
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Because they’re different. A woman’s body with no boobs or ass or a misshapen midsection would be more apt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:27 PM
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Because of makeup and grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:25 PM
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If you are comparing social media, and social venues, you would be correct because women putting more effort. Go to the places where nobody puts effort Walk around a Walmart right before they close and you’ll see a fat ugly woman for every gay ugly man. The difference is that when given time to clean up, women simply give more of a damn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:32 PM
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Women are more sexually selective because the average woman puts in way more effort in their appearance Put a woman in a room with a bunch of hot guys and she’ll be just as social as a man in a room with a bunch of women Only difference is that a woman in a room full of average men means only a few of them are hot because an average man spends 45 seconds on an outfit and is done with their morning routine the second they step out the shower The men that spend the same amount of time on themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:25 PM
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If you compare an in shape woman with curves and big boobs to an average man sure… but a muscular man and a curvy woman are equally attractive Average woman with not very impressive curves is about as interesting as average man without any impressive muscles Men are also bigger and more of a spectacle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:03 PM
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Who gets more attention from the opposite gender? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:43 PM
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And you can’t groom yourself into that for women either. A woman with a naturally square jaw, masculine nose, and sunken brow will have trouble just as a man with a round jaw, feminine cheeks, and whatever else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:42 PM
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I’ve seen women go shaky knees over an average looking man with a good outfit and a haircut. An ugly guy that’s groomed won’t magically be hot the same way a fat girl can’t put lipstick on and be hot But the average man is disgusting. You don’t have to try very hard to be better than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:12 PM
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Yes, and that doesn’t mean showering. Imagine how you feel when you just get a nice haircut and shave and you picked out an outfit, accessories. Significantly more than what normal men do. Except you do this EVERY DAY. You will get that kind of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:07 PM
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Men that are in the 1% of grooming themselves are the men with the most women attracted to them. Women naturally wait while men naturally hunt, so men will always be the aggressor in a relationship, but the actual amount of attention would be the same The heads they turn, dming women and they respond because you have a well laid out instagram and look like a model in every pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:31 PM
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How many men vs women spend 45 minutes a day on a makeup routine and meticulously groom every inch of their body every few days? Women are more attractive than men. So it makes sense they’ll get more attention. If we lived on an island where grooming tools didn’t exist men and women would be equal, but men and women aren’t because women put more effort in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:57 PM
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Every man is different but I can generally speak and say that if you walk up to enough guys asking if they want to go over to your place for drinks you’ll have sex with someone after the first 5 guys max Everyone is different but I’m just trying to know what works generally. Not how to get ANY woman, how to get the largest amount
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:40 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:38 PM
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All types of girls. I don’t care about race. A lot of them end up being white, but I don’t go after the race I go after the look
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:29 PM
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5’9, and girls with tattoos and dyed hair n shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:26 PM
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I mean the stipulations around sexual expression not whether there’s a correlation with alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:24 PM
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I don’t really use social media aside from for networking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:59 PM
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Insta or snap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:59 PM
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Fascinating. I think it’s cultural. In Cuba because all the men are poor there’s entire clubs where women hang out and let foreigners buy them drinks and sleep with them. I went when I was 20 and it was too much for me. Not s single sober woman, I had a few drinks, and before anything happened I just thought “am I really this low”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:58 PM
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I would only consider a relationship with a woman I’m already friends with and having sex with. Sex comes first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:47 PM
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Which I think is unfair though, not because anyone’s entitled to sex or whatever but that people that like treating their bodies like shit are more able to live the lifestyle i prefer. I wish there were just like a big club where you could hang out all day and chat to people with an implied rule that everyone there is a horny bastard, and maybe because of the ratio men need a membership and can only come once a month for free or something, and maybe women never have to pay and get unlimited visi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:45 PM
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I get it. Which is fair. It’s just annoying because a dating apps are entirely awful and I rarely drink. And I can’t exactly just walk up to women I see out in public and ask if they want to come to my place later Its all good though because I’m just gonna ride the wave for a few more months and when I’m really making money like that I’ll just start inviting strippers to go on cruises with me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:29 PM
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I think the funny thing about the disconnect is that I wouldn’t even consider a woman that I haven’t already been involved with casually for the most part It’s not that I’m against it, it’s that being in a committed relationship or even pursuing one is sooo much more intimate than sex, so why would I put the cart before the horse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:18 PM
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Where do you find those ones? I know they exist but I shouldn’t have to go out and put poison in my body at a bar to find it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:13 PM
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I mean I’m a black guy that’s in good shape, strong, I’m an athlete, not tall, I have money for my age. There’s plenty of girls that try to be my friend when they hear about what I do but I really just want to get in their pants a lot of the time And I don’t see anything wrong with that, but it just leads me to hitting them up having a convo trying to get them to come over and when I don’t think I’m gonna hit I just kinda stop talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:04 PM
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What might encourage a woman to hookup with some dudes on a first day, but not others Or hookup with one dude and never talk to him again but not another even when the two dudes might look like a carbon copy of one another
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:02 PM
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Usually just give them a genuine compliment about their looks, if I don’t believe it I don’t say it. “I really like your eyes” etc. I find myself hitting on alt girls a lot, and I tend to compliment their style. I add them on Instagram which sometimes helps because they can see that I’m in good shape and they can see pictures from my fights, but after that I don’t always know where to go and it either works or it doesn’t and I think there’s a lot of duds that if I knew what they expected I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:00 PM
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I’m asking for general information. Evidently there is something general when there’s some guys that get more women than others. It’s not just a matter of getting lucky enough for a specific woman, it’s about being closer to what the average woman is attracted to in order to increase the numbers of women available to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:21 PM
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I have friends, friends that have even told me they find me attractive, that I’m not having sex with, so it clearly isn’t that simple I’m not trying to manipulate my friends into sex I know that bridge has passed but let’s be real, having someone be deemed as a potential sexual partner is a lot more nuanced an issue for women vs men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:19 PM
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