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lol ok, make rape jokes and continue being the creepy guy at the bar
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:09 PM
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Because I'm pointing out something to you? You can choose to ignore what I said but that doesn't make it not true.
/r/seduction26/01/17 10:06 PM
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You realize you'd be making a rape joke to a girl you just met... Women literally do get roofied, so I'm just saying bringing this up to someone who doesn't really know you isn't a good way to make yourself sound safe to be around.
/r/seduction26/01/17 07:25 PM
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I know this is meant to be joking but honestly I would be creeped out AF. Joking about roofies when you don't know someone that well is a good opportunity to have a girl split.
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:34 AM
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I know exactly what this is, I don't need an explanation. This isn't about "stopping when she says no and continuing if she says yes", as you make it sound. It's about making someone feel uncomfortable, so that they will feel pressured to change their mind. I have the book The Game, I know that this is the intent.
/r/seduction27/10/16 11:46 PM
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"Does not have to put out"... really? You're creating a situation where a girl feels pressured to have sex and that feels ok to you? You realize being manipulative like this makes girls feel bad about themselves and the situation afterwards, right? Speaks volumes that a girl doesn't just feel comfortable enough around you to just sleep with you without being manipulated.
/r/seduction27/10/16 07:45 PM
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I get the feeling you were pressuring her to sleep with you, and you weirded her out. Sounds like she DID like you, but if I'm right, you then came across as being a douche. Now, I wasn't there so maybe I'm wrong, but I'll tell you right now... you'll have much better luck respecting a girl's no right away, than coming across like you don't respect consent.
/r/seduction11/09/16 02:20 AM
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You could but how would you test the same profile, and same messages?
/r/seduction04/03/16 07:34 PM
2

Using one picture of a guy who may or may not be attractive isn't indicative of whether or not it's the arms. I have no idea what your profile says, or if this guy looks like an idiot. If your profile sounds bad, no one will reply anyway.
/r/seduction28/02/16 10:41 PM
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Why on earth would I need to lie? If a guy sent me his pic I honestly wouldn't notice his arms unless they had tattoos/something noticeable on them. You can not believe my above post all you want but the things I listed are absolutely true.
/r/seduction22/02/16 02:55 AM
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As a woman, can confirm- we really don't give a shit about your arms. What is important to us? Acting CONFIDENT, funny, charming, and interesting. A guy who complains about his arms, is not displaying any of those traits.
/r/seduction20/02/16 06:21 PM
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Attractive or attracted? lol I guess both... I have hot girls at parties complimenting me all the time.
/r/seduction24/01/16 07:10 PM
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Eh that's too bad. Maybe check out some of the other alternative crowds that there is crossover with? I find that despite the differences in subculture, usually all subcultures are connected in some ways.
/r/seduction24/01/16 07:08 PM
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Haha, my advice on finding them is like I said above, get into the alternative crowd. Find any kind of alternative club nights, go and get to know the regulars. Alternative club nights are not like regular nights, it tends to be the same people and they all know each other/all party outside the club as well. Always ask around if there's any "afters" going on, this is where you get to know people more and where girls can be more free. These parties are a blast! Easier to break into this crowd if …
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:05 PM
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Yup! I go to them and occasionally have them. Its not uncommon for me to see hot topless chicks at these. Just depends on the type of people you know... Seek out the alternative crowd, they're less likely to be saddled with kids, and still go out and party/get wild!
/r/seduction24/01/16 05:59 AM
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If you put yourself down, others will believe you.
/r/seduction27/06/15 01:12 AM
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What are you talking about? I DID say women like a guy who will joke around.... there is a difference between having a sense of humor, and putting someone down.
/r/seduction11/06/15 07:19 PM
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I hear what you're saying... although that last part, sorry but I have found a high quality individual :) No settling here!
/r/seduction10/06/15 11:09 PM
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Ok you're right, I have no idea what I'm talking about because I'm a woman, despite having read up lots on pick-up, and having a deep understanding of psychology.
/r/seduction09/06/15 11:53 PM
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I've probably made out with more chicks than you have. Don't you presume.
/r/seduction09/06/15 11:06 PM
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I've looked at it, and it's pretty degrading to women. IMO true confidence means you don't need to put others down to feel better about yourself. Redpill comes across as talking crap about how dumb women are, and how they need to be dominated and made into a little house-wife, in order for the guys to feel like real men.
/r/seduction09/06/15 10:08 PM
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Eh, a bunch of guys all bitter and unproductive about girls. Or, you could try being the best "you" that you can be, and get girls who are also their best.
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:24 PM
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Ah, is this another "women aren't funny" assumption? Try joking around with us instead of hurling insults to get in our pants and you might see a difference. Or, maybe, just maybe.... you're actually not that funny. Sorry! Guys joke with me and I joke with them all the time. I think it's all you dude!
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:20 PM
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A) If you treat girls like crap, you attract the ones with low self-esteem and daddy issues, who will sleep with you. Unfortunately, you will be annoyed by them which will reinforce negative views on women, which means you will continue treating women like crap because you think "all women like that". However B) Women want someone who isn't afraid of them! Someone who will joke around, be confident, and charming. We do like nice guys... just, MORE things than "just" nice. Show your wit, like how…
/r/seduction09/06/15 02:28 AM
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Or, women just want guys who aren't dicks to them AND are not submissive wet blankets? There's a middle ground you know. We actually do want nice guys... nice and confident. Also, not every woman wants a family.
/r/seduction09/06/15 02:17 AM
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No, actually you have a lot to learn. If the girls you're going after literally ONLY care about money, you have a thing for greedy bitches. And that's on you, because that's only one small subsection of girls. But by all means, if that's your thing, go for it.
/r/seduction11/04/15 06:23 PM
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Because one is about you yourself, and the other is just a vehicle you're using to get to one place to another. If you don't take care of yourself, it's different than not taking care of your car. Me personally I don't care whatsoever what kind of car a guy is driving, why would I? But if he looks like a slob I'm going to notice.
/r/seduction11/04/15 06:13 PM
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I'm sure the women you think are hot spend at least an hour every day getting ready, putting on their makeup, doing their hair, ect. You can put in 2 minutes by putting on nice clothes. This is why- we put in a lot more effort than guys realize- many guys put in zero effort but complain about wanting a "10" girl.
/r/seduction10/04/15 06:42 PM
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Kissing should not be about feeling a girl's tonsils or getting her face all wet. Keep it slow and soft. Some tongue, but follow her lead with it. In fact, with a kiss you should probably just follow how the girl is kissing you, match them and they will enjoy it.
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:49 PM
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Just on the bartender- You probably were tipping shitty. Stop that! Source: I am a bartender. Also, not every woman is going to be into you. Thinking a girl is narcissistic because she's not into you is actually you being narcissistic. Also, if you really are hitting it off with almost every girl at the bar, they probably think you're a player. There's a difference between raising your value by having girls around you, and coming across as just trying to hookup with everyrone.
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:54 PM
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That's fine, just keep in mind women base this statement on experiences, not just pulling it out of thin air. Do all men ONLY want sex? Of course not. But when you've been used, and when it's common for guys to try getting in your pants frequently, it starts to feel like "all". So no, it's not stupid. Hyperbolic perhaps, but also a way to better understand what it's like for women.
/r/seduction26/02/15 06:18 PM
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Or, it's her expressing very valid concern over your intentions, due to past negative experiences with men who used her, which has left her feeling very cautious of men.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:06 PM
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Yeah, I think most girls just get catcalling... I would say most guys do not start daytime conversations with girls. But hey maybe that would be a positive for you, less competition!
/r/seduction20/02/15 01:42 AM
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As a female, sorry this sounds a bit cringeworthy. Do NOT try to hold hands with a girl unless you're already dating, it's just weird (it's more of a relationship thing, waaaay too soon!). Also if you go to kiss her and she turns away, you've completely not read the moment correctly. You should be aware of a "kiss moment", there would be a brief silence, she would be looking deeply into your eyes and glancing at your mouth. Sounds like you're scaring these girls off. Flirt and joke around more!
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:44 AM
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You know what, I honestly can't remember. I get various "Hey girl, daaaamn" on the street type of stuff, I don't know that this counts lol. I would say it's pretty rare for a guy to actually come up and start a real conversation. Then again females in general are pretty reticent to speak to guys they don't know, as it actually can be unsafe for us. I would assume public does not equal clubs/bars, cause that's where I mostly get hit on.
/r/seduction17/02/15 01:23 AM
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Sounds like it's probably something you're doing afterwards. How do you act after you have their number/the next day/the next week? You don't give much detail on how you're acting with girls so it's hard to say.
/r/seduction15/02/15 10:15 PM
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The cute thing? I would feel shy and probably blush. I wouldn't really know what to say... I think I would still prefer starting out with a conversation personally.
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:39 PM
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Well, pretty much. I'm a bartender though, so when a guy drunkenly comes up to the bar and says "You're soooo hoooot".... yeah, not going to happen. It adds no value to the conversation, and now I have nothing to say except "Thanks". I'd much rather a guy just start a conversation, and save the compliment for maybe mid-convo. Then again what you said about being cute is fairly innocent sounding, so that could work, as long as you follow up with some interesting things to say/joke about.
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:06 PM
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I hear that. I think I have a different perspective though. I like to observe people and figure out what makes them tick. Also I think because of where I work, I tend to see things unfold the way others don't. But if you have no questions that is fine.
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:00 PM
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I think looks and personality have the greatest impact (with personality changing my opinion on looks often). I don't care about wealth, but I must admit... I have gone the cliche lead singer of a band route and club DJs lol, so perhaps "status" in that type of way.
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:57 PM
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It's a tie between humor and confidence. Confidence is to girls, what boobs are to men.
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:55 PM
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Ok thanks!
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:54 PM
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Wow great questions! I'll try to answer as best I can. Feel free to let me know if you wanted more detail. 1) I don't think I have a hard bar, as I find my attractedness to a man gets more or less once we converse/get to know each other. A guy who seems somewhat plain (not ugly to me, but just neutral) can become extremely hot, by how he acts and what he says. That being said, there are guys that I just am flat out not into, so that wouldn't work with. The least attractive guy... I know a couple…
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:53 PM
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Are you sure she knows you're watching? Maybe because she's shy, she doesn't know how to flirt and just figures this is a way to go about things? Then there is the off chance that she thinks you're gay so she doesn't care if you see lol.
/r/seduction15/02/15 08:07 AM
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I would suggest talking to them while they're taking a break from dancing/getting a drink, and then asking them to dance. Also, grabbing a girl and "making" her dance with you is just going to make girls think you're a creep.
/r/seduction15/02/15 07:56 AM
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Nope, I have not lol. However, I'm sure some girls do. How does she act the rest of the time to you? Is she flirty? Be very careful about taking the next step with roommates, it can either go really well or really bad.
/r/seduction15/02/15 07:40 AM
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That's ridiculous. As a female who gets compliments- it depends how you do it. If you go up to a girl and say "You're really pretty/sexy/whatever", that's awkward. You're not conversing with her, you're saying "I want to fuck you", and we know it. You know what's a real turn on? When a guy is talking to me, and just throws a random compliment in there, and just continues talking as if it was no big deal at all to say it. If a guy didn't compliment me at ALL, based on what you're suggesting, I wo…
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:31 AM
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