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| 5 | Realistically how screwed am I?Ok so I believe WA, like NJ where I got divorced, is a state where marital equity is a thing. The goal of the judge will typically be to split your two incomes so that you each have the same. Child support is calculated first, and whatever else it takes to even it out is second. On term, I’d guess you’re paying for 5-9 years. It may taper over time, and if she gets married or moves in with a partner, you can fight to have the alimony decreased. But usually not child support. The support continue… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/25 12:03 AM |
| 12 | My Wife Left and Hasn't Filed For DivorceLAWYER NOW. The second a PFA was filed against you, you were in an existential fight for your relationship with your child. She hasn’t filed for divorce? She did worse bro. LAWYER yesterday. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Does it get any more bizarre than this?Depending on the state, yes that might be reasonable. 50% of the assets generally is standard for all assets acquired during divorce. $20k lump sounds low but it depends on the state… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Gray divorce in NJ.I am younger but divorcing in NJ. Our state is one of the top three best for the spouse that made less because the goal is marital equity under NJ law. Assume that the her lawyer’s goal will be that for the rest of your life, whatever you make and she makes (=100% of marital income), the goal is for her to have 45% of it. So: Let’s say you make 150k, she makes 50k. The lawyers will try to have you pay $40k for the rest of your life so that you have 110 and she has 90. Courts do sometimes compel … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/24 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Just had the divorce talkUnder no circumstances do you leave the house without your lawyer advising you too. I know you feel like this is the best option. It probably is for you. But your future is 100% dependent on not screwing this up. GET A LAWYER YESTERDAY. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 09:41 AM |
| 1 | What were the main symptoms of your ex with BPD? I think my ex has BPD but I would like to know what it feels like with them/what they do and to be more sure about it.This is accurate. Lived it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 08:29 PM |
| 3 | It makes no senseI resonate. All of this is true for me too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 04:10 PM |
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