thisguyoverhere21 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She took off with the kids No idea, I have "arraignment" Monday they have kicked the case down the road for months	/r/MensRights	04/01/26 04:48 AM
1	She took off with the kids Let me correct myself, you have no agency in many matters so focus on what you have agency in.	/r/MensRights	30/12/25 06:21 PM
1	She took off with the kids Speaking as another man going through similar shit, if you had upset her (here in Colorado they can chage you with a felony if she is 'upset') or defended yourself you'd likely be having a felony charge. Your job is to SURVIVE. It is quite hopeless. You have to survive, whatever way you need to do that, ignore what society says and make a peaceful place where you can regroup, psychologocally, financially, in every manner. The kids will miss you, be brainwashed by her and you cannot do anything a…	/r/MensRights	30/12/25 04:29 PM
1	The sad truth of being a man. You are having healthy boundaries and not being afraid of these women.	/r/MensRights	27/12/25 06:34 AM
1	The sad truth of being a man. Emotions do not solve problems. Emotions lead to rationalizations. The leaders of men (psychopaths and sociopaths mostly) in society wanted peace, they made a devil's bargain with the fairer sex and now civilization is falling apart. NOthing but traumatization and trance nation, damged and distracted. Remove judicial immunity, dismantle family courts and let people face the real consequences of not being reasonable and working things out. Men are giving up and thats what the system wants. Anyonn…	/r/MensRights	19/12/25 05:01 PM
2	Don't want to get married? That's offensive! male suicide rates are not because they knowlingly married a 'harlot', its because the woman changed due to a) societal pressures b) hormones c) 'friends', seriously no one knows and she has DESTROYED not just the husband, but the children for the forseen future and she shall be rewarded for it women destroy the children, fatherless households statistics, read them it is the 'men's fault' though, the question not being asked is "which men?" men are effeminate in matriarchal cultures, eunuchs, ad…	/r/MensRights	10/12/25 08:36 PM
1	Almost 1 yr after. Feel like she was the best thing I could ever hope for and what's the point going on now? Wow man, same here, except kids and mine was WAAY MORE DRAMA	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/25 04:40 PM
3	Struggling with loneliness A. Regular Woman (80% of them - note: this CAN change) - I'd say these regular situations, she's halfway reasonable it will suck but you will go throught it ok B. IF you see signs, and this took me a few years while married (look up covert Narcissim) , then it was like "holee $hit" TEFL (teach overseas) if its really bad and you think she will claim DV to take all your crap (lawyers will suggest this to her) then jump to 2 immediately Passport Erase your social media, get the heck out, you could…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 04:56 PM
2	Make Net Income Great Again! Dude, just disappear and go homeless, thats the end outcome of what your spouse has done. You are her scapegoat, and thats the truth.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 09:55 PM
1	Married 20 years and now going through a divorce in Texas Dude, its a no win situation, a catch 22. Some guys suicide because it becomes so insane. Just be glad you haven't. I'm facing a felony for checking on on my home, because I hadn't heard from my spouse or kids in months and my spouse had a foreign passport (she had been in the US since 16 but refused to get a US passport). The original restraining order was revoked, I had convoyed to the home with police to get my things several times, but the police would only give me 15 minutes, no idea where …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 09:27 PM
1	Monthly check in, how are you men holding up? Bloody awful, definately in depression, definately out of the poor coping area and definately looking for a new start. How counterculture is it to see things this way: I had no choice in this outcome; therefore, I will not take responsibility for the destruction. Getting a passport, or living off grid and just quiting society due to the fact society sees no value in my person other than as an ATM machine. The situation is total BS and if more men showed courage maybe the laws would change, socie…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 08:38 PM
1	What do I say to a friend going through a divorce? You say, "Hey, I'm not the person to speak to about this. I appreciate that you feel safe speaking with me, but since I have zero experience in this arena, I'd appreaciate it if you respect this boundary. If you want to talk about work stuff, very cool; common goals, great; see me at company events and down for small talk, hey I'm there; I'm sorry I can''t be of more support, but dude you need a darkweb passport, high dollar lawyer or something else and I'm not any of those people or things to h…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 08:32 PM
2	No support left Hey man, I get it. It is totally normal to be caught in a loop. I'd recommend gooing out of the country for a bit, vacation, break pattern. ITs not a good deal thats for sure, but focus on annything you can affect change in.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 08:27 PM
1	Married men (especially those who’ve been divorced) — what led to your divorce, and what kind of life partner do you wish you had chosen instead? There is no silver bullet. Look the women are incentivized to divorce, without healthy boundaries why would they treat their husbands well? The problem is legal framework which contains marriage currently and the romantic model, it does not work and, it may be designed that way in a cynical ploy to exploit relationships for legal fees (class warfare). We may need to reframe society based on stakeholders, an improved dowry or bride price system that incorporates family actually showing an interes…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 08:25 PM
1	Divorce Law Reform this is where your case falls flat, if he does divorce he still pays for everything, the female spouse shall not be responsible or held accountable for anything unless she murders, but even then in many states they place them in cushy 'mental facilities'	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/25 06:56 PM
1	Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments) Yes the double standard is a thing and its pretty sick, good for you man you shouldn't put up with disrespect. And "f" their comments, they just want you to put up with disrespect without standing up for yourself. This is the society "signal" that its ok to dump their BS on men, it is not. Good for you keeping your honor and your personal choice. Bravo and to hell with the rest of them, natural law ethics are not by mutual consent, the simply ARE. Way to go bro!	/r/MensRights	25/09/25 02:56 PM
6	Interpol runs initiative to identify unidentified murder victims (not men, obviously) WTF	/r/MensRights	25/09/25 02:15 PM
1	It’s time to change the narrative about masculinity and suicide: World Suicide Prevention Day 2025 — The Centre for Male Psychology change the divorce incentives	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 01:06 AM
1	I feel like she’s guilting me… She is, any kids? Next question, wtf are you seeking consensus here on reddit? No one cares man. you could eat a bullet and the world moves on do it or don't	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/25 12:05 AM
1	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? You do not know what you are talking about	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 09:50 PM
1	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? This is a FUNCTION of the system, they want traumatized kids and destroyed famillies, thats why EVERYTHING is now "ABUSE" so charges can be FILED	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 09:50 PM
1	Nobody will take our issues seriously. Sad, but I feel like it is true. (1) Leave the country or (2) off yourself these options are the best for many to stay you are saying 1) its ok to let my spouse *&$% other men with my children in the home 2) its ok to be an ATM and never see my kids 3) I support what is being done to me 4) I hate myself and my children 5) its ok for lesser men to destroy my paternity	/r/MensRights	06/09/25 10:15 PM
3	Child support is the biggest injustice Leave the country, you are better off showing your kids that: You won’t be abused by your wife Men don’t put up with people that use them You can start over (and so can they) It wasn’t your decision; therefore, you will not suffer the consequences You refuse to be a cuckold to THE STATE	/r/MensRights	11/06/25 07:45 AM
1	The lie of male suicide This is the most idiotic post I have seen. No, men do not need to "cry more" they need to effectively wrest control from the Sociopathic men in their society and end no-fault divorce and "family courts". Stop going to useless things like "therapy", when the lights go out or war begins, will you need energy, electricity, natural gas (for cooking or to heat home), clean water and food or lawyers, judges and 'counselors". Ask anyone who lived through the breakup of the USSR or use common sense	/r/MensRights	01/06/25 02:45 AM
1	How should child support work? Nope, this is idiotic. Guys, leave the country. Your wife has chosen the STATE over you and working it out, or you are just a real piece of work and couldn't work it out. Too bad, your children and their mother are now impoverished. The "gubmint", virtue signalling simps and others have no say in any of this. If you stay, you will all be impoverished anyway, so leaving is the best option. You messed up, start a new family. I'm a father, and what I have seen the STATE and government do to familie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 02:22 AM
1	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? your mom chose the government over your father and used the entire government against your dad, instead of being reasonable she/ he involved the legal system your mom or dad made that choice AGAINST the other parent So, the parent that involved the system, unless we are talking about actual ongoing (not one instance) kinetic abuse (yes the original context of the term) the parent that involved the State / Government is using the children as human shields (objects), to protect themselves from con…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/25 10:27 PM