| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 109 | How to escalate touch on a date? | Fundamentals | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 03:50 AM |
| 59 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy! | Conversation | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 06:23 PM |
| 42 | Not making dates feel like friends meeting | Conversation | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 06:38 AM |
| 11 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic? | Fundamentals | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Tips to kiss her on a drinks and arcade date | Fundamentals | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Trying to hookup with a girl I rejected a few months back | Fundamentals | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | She invited me to her place | Fundamentals | thisisanewstartbud | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 03:00 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Not making dates feel like friends meetingthanks for these, I think I do bring up some and some I just can’t slide easily into! | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 04:10 PM |
| 9 | Not making dates feel like friends meetingOkay, I totally respect what you’re saying and I do want to do that and kinda know I have to do that. BUT 1. Please when you have time, give me examples of these personal questions or flirty questions 2. I’m in a bar or a restaurant, sitting across the table, don’t really get how to goof around or touch or escalate or whatever! There have been cases where I have been able to do this and times leading up to getting back to either of ours’ places, but I’d love to be better at it | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Not making dates feel like friends meetingI agree, it is not about leading to sex. It is more about not letting it go where there seems no possibility of anything like an emotional or physical connect!! I am tired of talking about how good or bad the restaurants or people are in the city! | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 09:17 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate touch on a date?tit grabbing in public haha, seems a bit too far really | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How to escalate touch on a date?Haha toes? Sorry, not into that haha | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate touch on a date?This really is a great one, thanks | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 04:54 PM |
| 6 | How to escalate touch on a date?This actually makes a lotta sense to me! And somehow I think I’ll try this next time. Cheers bud | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 09:09 AM |
| 5 | How to escalate touch on a date?Sorry, but I think you did not read the post details. I get to the hands easily but the knee and thighs is what I’m confused about! | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:26 AM |
| 5 | How to escalate touch on a date?Sorry, but I think you did not read the post details. I get to the hands easily but the knee and thighs is what I’m confused about! | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:25 AM |
| 0 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!I did kiss one and didn’t the other 🙂 | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 07:44 AM |
| 0 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!I get it, but this is more around for the time between dates and when I know there’s gonna be week or weeks between them for some reason | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 06:33 AM |
| 3 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!I think I did not put myself in the right way here! I don’t want to be toxic, but I also don’t want to be nice. When you say escalation, what and how exactly over text? Yes, I do have kind of an inherent tendency to do everything to not come out too strong or creepish and maybe think it a lot. Any examples or tips would be great | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 05:21 AM |
| 0 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!Makes sense! But how? I don’t want to seem needy or horny by wriggling my way into sexting or something like that? Any examples would be genuinely appreciated | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 05:17 AM |
| 2 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!I’m glad to hear that, but sorry, not the women I have been talking to! Hope you do see the sense in my ask, cause of my personal experiences! | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?always see conflicting advice on this, but yeah, am on your side on this | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?I really struggle to find activities in the city that are not really crowded, but maybe concerts or some basic arcades? | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?I wish, but not having my own place available for that is one of the biggest issues lol | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?I think I need to consolidate on that and not just holding while walking or guiding for short intervals! | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?Makes sense! I had some activities in mind but I think she’s not really into those! Any activities you have in mind? | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?Makes sense! Festivals should be good I think! How do you go for drinks without actually going out for dinner dates? It’s generally drinks and food with my dates | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?That’s honestly exactly what we had! Dinner, followed with walk and then quick bite again! There was some bit of hand holding and some bit of hands around her waist, but I feel I totally missed some points where I could have gone for the kiss cause of talking too much! And now I think it’s gotten late! | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:47 PM |
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