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Tease me, play hard to get, while ensuring me that the chase will pay off.
/r/seduction14/09/25 02:32 PM
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5’6” 39 years old Somewhere around forty or fifty. I stopped counting about fifteen years ago and last got laid three years ago. It’s not a number worth counting.
/r/seduction21/07/25 02:17 AM
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I’m no fan of socialism either. It’s not about socialism.
/r/seduction15/07/25 12:00 PM
1

This is a good deep dive.
/r/seduction14/07/25 11:02 PM
8

Robert Kiyosaki is a con man.
/r/seduction14/07/25 04:43 AM
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Look up Magic, the owner of AttractionMethods.com. He’s Indian. He’s reliable as a coach.
/r/seduction29/06/25 11:27 AM
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I assumed as much. The fact that people are starting to assume things like em-dashes are sure signs of AI-generated text just tells me that all the horrifying statistics about people not reading or not being able to read well are probably true.
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:09 PM
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What makes you think this is from ChatGPT?
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:18 PM
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My response is going to make some assumptions about you and your thoughts, because there is so little information in your OP. Bear that in mind while reading. I don't know of any pickup/seduction resources that fit the description you give, nor do I think you'll find any. That's not the problem you might think it is. The basics of PUA are more broadly applicable than their marketing would lead one to believe. The emotional and social differences between men and women upon which PUA theory depend…
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:53 PM
1

What you’re struggling with is a logic problem literally named The Marriage Problem or The Secretary Problem. The economist, Russ Roberts, discusses the problem in his book, Wild Problems. I’m not good with math, but if I understand the problem correctly, your best bet is to marry the next woman who’s better than all the women you’ve dated until now.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:58 PM
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I appreciate your quick response. I don't doubt that a guy with a decent but not exciting or high-paying job could attract a wealthy woman. I don't doubt that social skills account for a lot of your success and that of others. It certainly made a big difference for me, in the past. I don't mean to diminish the work you've put into becoming an outgoing, fun guy. My point is that posts like yours run the risk of giving less experienced guys unrealistic expectations. Lifestyle plays a large and oft…
/r/seduction10/06/25 01:58 PM
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Tell us how your lifestyle puts you in a position to be talking to millionaires. I’m guessing you’ve got an advantage or two that aren’t mentioned here. A guy’s lifestyle is typically the water he swims in and never notices. What do you do for a living? How much free time does your job afford you (are you able to make a sufficient, if modest, living with only 25 hours of work per week, for example)? Do you have friends connected to exciting social circles (like fashion)? Is there unacknowledged …
/r/seduction10/06/25 01:10 PM
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Magic, the guy who runs Attraction Methods. His marketing videos might not convince you. His accent might make you skeptical. But the guy knows his shit and, more importantly, is very good at teaching. Most people don’t consider the fact that teaching is itself a skill and most people don’t have it. Magic does.
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:15 PM
1

Ask for a price check on the 🍆
/r/seduction05/04/25 08:42 AM
7

Just keep meeting new people. Each one’s a lottery ticket.
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:23 AM
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I’m 5’6”. I’ve dated women as tall as 6’. Just let the kiss happen. If he’s insecure about the height difference, the way you kiss him isn’t going to make that big of a difference. If it does bother him, talk about it candidly to help him get over it. If he can’t get over it, find a guy who can.
/r/seduction12/03/25 11:20 PM
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It's as useful as a horoscope.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:24 AM
1

First of all, No Fap and Your Brain on Porn are bullshit. Secondly, the best way to get over and avoid addiction is to have positive things in your life that make drinking and drugs feel like a waste of time: family, friends, goals, constructive hobbies, etc. If you feel loved by the people in your life and have better things to do with your time, most psychological addictions will be greatly curtailed.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:59 PM
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Hefner lived in dog shit. By the time he died, the mansion was a wreck. Best (worst) of all, his "girlfriends" had no respect for him. I don't know about any of you, but I want women to genuinely want me and all the fucked up shit that I want to do to them. I'd rather follow the example of guys like Bob Guccione or Larry Flynt. Both of them had more balls than Hefner ever had. Hefner was all surface. Penthouse may have gone bankrupt (keep in mind, Playboy is barely hanging on) but they pushed th…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 11:02 PM
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You know Kiyosaki (Rich Dad, Poor Dad) is a con artist, right? He's not a financial genius. He made his money by selling books that supposedly teach you how to make money, which is the age-old scheme of a snake oil salesman.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 10:35 PM
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Conversions from pdf suck. It's meant to be a final format, so it doesn't convert well.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 04:39 AM
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Agreed. Red Pill is about mating strategy, not grief counseling. OP needs to talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist and find a grief support group.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:32 AM
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This is bullshit. I used to self-publish and made a little money at it. I was part of a private forum with other self-publishers, some of whom made six figures a year from writing alone. Editing is a one-time cost. Copy editing is the cheapest kind of editing service. For fuck's sake, you can do it with Grammarly on your own and for a relatively low price. Rollo is a hack, who never cared about the quality of the product, only the quick and easy money. His "books"—repackaged blog posts—are full …
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:28 AM
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Given that the simplest hunter-gatherer hunting technique is persistence hunting (literally chasing an animal to death), I doubt many, if any, got big. They likely wouldn't have been able to eat enough calories, particularly protein, to get big.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:30 AM
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Can you offer any proof that you worked there?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 09:59 PM
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He trades weed for sex, probably not explicitly, but that's it. That, and the fact that he probably scores pretty high on dark triad traits.
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:17 PM
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Find a counselor or therapist and don't dismiss the value of anti-depressants out of hand. You may not need anti-depressants, but if you decide that you do, do not feel bad about taking them. You should also look for grief support groups. I'm sure your school has some kind of support group that can help you deal with this. Check to see what kind of mental health counselors your school has, as well. Their services are covered by your tuition, so you've effectively already paid for it. Maintain st…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:49 PM
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I think OPs point is to find ways to enjoy the process, so that the process is long-term sustainable. I can agree with this, but it's an abstraction which does not necessarily imply the content of the post.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 08:42 PM
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You're right. I actually am a decent cook and do a better job of eating healthy than most people I know. I also get comments on how tasty and healthy my lunches look and smell. That said, no method of cooking chicken, steak, or fish will ever produce something as irresistible as ice cream or chocolate or potato chips.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 05:27 PM
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This all implies that the things along the way are actually treats. It doesn't work if, for instance, you want to treat chicken and broccoli as a treat on the way to 10% bodyfat. No matter how you try to fool yourself, it won't give you a dopamine kick.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:34 PM
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Getting a sleep study is the only way to be sure what's causing your sleep problems. See your doctor.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:27 PM
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Which tactics and strategies would you say most practically employ the pleasure of uncertainty?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 06:06 PM
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I switch rolls with my bitches all the time. If we go to a fancy restaurant and she gets that soft, fluffy ciabatta and I get that chewy-ass multigrain shit, you better believe we switch rolls. I think this Brodsky's onto something. Shit, he's even got "bro" in his name.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:48 AM
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Don’t bother with ZMA.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 11:54 PM
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It’s the same with every blog turned “book.” Can’t hire an editor or take the time to do it yourself as that might eat into your loot. Mark Manson has the same problem with Models. His “conversational” style is just lazy. It’s also a problem around here. I’ll give credit for the fact that there’s a standardized structure for posts in this sub, but there’s way too much shitty grammar often mixed with a self-important prose style, exemplified by the opening sentences of the OP here. This goes for …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 02:12 PM
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The broken pair bond hypothesis has always sounded like bullshit to me. By the logic usually offered (dopamine/oxytocin/vasopressin tolerance), the same thing would apply to men; ergo, you should wait until marriage and be sure to marry another virgin or you're fucked.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:28 PM
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So, four to five years.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:50 PM
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That's a fantastic way for her to get a UTI.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 06:34 AM
1

Learn to forgive yourself and just keep trying.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:05 AM
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You should TL;DR the TL;DR.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:45 PM
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I matched a girl and we met at a pool hall. Things seem to go well. We flirt, get physical, but she has a birthday party to go to, so we can't fuck that day. She texts me a few days later and comes over to my place. We talk about some of the books I have and some other stuff before we start making out. Pretty quickly, we're on the bed and it gets freaky fast. She sucks me off and I fuck her in the ass. She comes, I come, we lay together giggling for a bit (sometimes, I laugh for a while after a …
/r/askTRP19/05/19 02:09 PM
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This could very well be an unpopular answer, but here goes nothing: Most people—I would say everyone, but let's not be absolutist—have no idea what will make them happy. They have no idea what they unconsciously and viscerally respond to. This includes men as well as women. And, yes, I include myself in this.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:14 AM
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Pick a scent that you like. You will instinctively appreciate scents that complement your natural odor, which is why the same scent can smell completely different on different people. Secondly, the scent probably still lasts hours after you've applied it. The difference is what's called nose blindness: you've been surrounded by the scent for hours, so you can't smell it anymore, but everyone around you still can. This is why you should only use one spray—maybe two—of a cologne, because after you…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 04:38 PM
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I've never heard of this website and I can't help but wonder how OP found this article. Do you go looking for things that will piss you off?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 03:41 PM
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Would you mind sharing that link?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:37 PM
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I listen to a podcast about linguistics, hosted by a linguistics professor. He's mentioned on numerous occasions that languages evolve by children spontaneously creating new usages or abandoning old forms (such as people starting sentences with "I mean..." before joining a discussion or explaining themselves or abandoning the proper use of "whom"). Once children create these new forms, adult women are the next to adopt them, followed finally by adult men.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:43 AM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:35 PM
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It might be unpopular to say here, but the truth is that many of the basic principles of game can work for women as well as men. The basic flirting techniques (push-pull, teasing) are just fun ways to engage in conversation. The general advice to make the most of yourself obviously applies to everyone, though the particulars might differ between sexes. If you follow the standard advice to lift, dress well, develop your personality, and be a fun conversationalist, you'll be way ahead of most wome…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:08 PM
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They probably think you're gay and are too afraid to come out. Seriously.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:18 PM
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At what point did they say anything directed at men? These are all tips for women. Did you link a different video than the one you meant to link?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:26 AM
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Rear naked choke. She went out and woke up to me still fucking her. She said she momentarily forgot where she was and was extremely turned on when she realized I'd kept fucking her while she was out. She also called me a monster, afterward. Peed in another girl's mouth. Encouraged a girl to get an IUD. Went with her to the clinic and took her home. Fucked her in the ass because her pussy was too sore. She loved it. No-lube anal.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:51 PM
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Some celebrity marriages are arranged for publicity. Obvious examples would be Michael Jackson and Tom Cruise with their later wives.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:06 AM
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Those aren't equivalent assumptions. The null hypothesis is the logical default.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:41 AM
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Imagine OP meets his wife like this. Kid: "Mom, dad, how did you two meet?" Mom: "Your father was a perfect gentleman. I was stood up for a date, and your father happened to be there. He bought me a drink and the rest is history." OP: "Yup. That's exactly what happened."
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:43 AM
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This is the right diagnosis. You set a very sexual frame and contradicted it. It makes you look indecisive and unsure of yourself (in a sexual way, which I would argue is worse than in any other). Edit: it's also possible that the sex wasn't as good for her as you think. If the sex were good enough, she would have kicked down your door for another round.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:32 AM
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Yeah. I wonder if all those guys doing "nofap" would be surprised to hear that the couple behind "your brain on porn" are a pair of feminists who are also advocating the replacement of all sex positions with a certain other one they say is less "oppressive" because it places the woman in control of the action? This is something I hadn't heard. Interesting. Do you have a source?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:19 AM
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It's presented with a scientific veneer that the evidence does not justify. Millions of anecdotes are still just anecdotes. You need blinded, placebo-controlled trials to even begin to determine whether something has an effect. The fact that a person stops masturbating and subsequently notices some change does not mean that the two are connected.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:16 AM
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Who knows. It could be something as simple as some pimp in 1947 walked that way because he got shot in the hip in 1943, but he was a successful pimp, so others copied him and it spread from there. Someone once asked Jay-Z where the east-coast rap uniform of Tims and puffy coats came from and he said it was the most practical outfit in the hood for standing on the corner and selling drugs in the winter.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:23 PM
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Somebody is going to suggest NoFap or YourBrainonPorn. Be warned: there is no reason to fall for that nonsense. More specifically, there is no good evidence to support the claims made by proponents of those fads. All the "evidence" you see on sites supporting those ideas are extrapolated so far out as to lose all meaning.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:16 PM
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Also, "if, at first you don't succeed, lower your standards."
/r/seduction23/02/19 03:36 AM
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Upvoted for great advice. Except "too much porn." Nofap and anti-porn is nonsense.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 07:14 AM
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I recently watched a video on internet censorship by David Icke. David "the world is run by inter-dimensional lizard people" Icke? I think Roosh might be angling for the Alex Jones mantle.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 03:22 AM
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Hollywood gossip says he's impotent. Source: Crazy Days and Nights.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:28 AM
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You first. Stop begging the question.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:35 AM
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NoFap is bullshit. ​
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:01 AM
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NoFap is bullshit. Jerk it, if it makes you happy. Personally, I find pent up horniness to be a huge distraction, and a quick jerk let's me focus on what's important. The NoFap folks regurgitate a lot of old myths about how refraining from masturbation helps them to be more energetic, more sexual, more virile, and more manly. That’s a little sad. They’ve now paired it with the new modern worship of brain science, making lots of extrapolations on weak science, to argue that porn has a disproporti…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:38 AM
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LFA?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:51 PM
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I can relate pretty well. I think part of why maintaining a tribe is so difficult is that life is easier for people in advanced countries than it's ever been in history. Part of what holds tribes together is common challenges, whether that be the common challenge of daily survival or a common enemy. These things, for better and worse, are not a part of modern life for most people. Most of the substitutes that we have are not intense enough to have the same effect as daily threats to survival, so…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:28 PM
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Don't ask out girls that frequent the same place you frequent (work, gym, coffee shop). I can understand not asking out girls at work, but as far as I'm concerned, the rest of the world is fair game. If I avoided asking out girls in any place where I spend a significant amount of time, I'd be limiting myself to randos without any common ground. I'm sure you'll say that this is what cold approach and Tinder are for, but meeting women within your social circle and places you frequent provides a hu…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:43 PM
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As an alternative to agree and amplify, you could playfully resist, in order to get them to push the idea even harder. The key would be playful resistance. It has to be clear that you're not serious, otherwise you look like you're genuinely uninterested.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:45 PM
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Agreed. Women like sex, too. Shocking, I know.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:50 PM
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She fucks well.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:31 AM
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Here's my blanket rule for "IOIs:" Assume she's interested until she makes it clear she isn't. This comes with a caveat. This does not mean you should go around grabbing asses and making yourself the posterboy for #MeToo. It sounds like you're starting off well. Start with eye contact and gradually escalate from there.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:22 AM
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Honestly, my first thought was that a Saudi might have some priors that would skew his research significantly or may just have an axe to grind against any kind of liberalization for women in society. I see some value in RP ideas, but this community has a real problem with backing up its claims with empirical evidence. Most of the time it's not even attempted; here, it's just done poorly. In that respect, it does resemble—as some have noted elsewhere—a sort of feminism for men.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 03:33 AM
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Department of Anatomy, Faculty of Medicine, King Saud University, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia ​ I feel my skeptic sense tingling. ​
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 01:11 AM
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Watch this video (NSFW) and learn from the pros. Have fun, make out, feel her up, do whatever you want. Then, eat her pussy with the techniques in that video (pick a few to try, don't try to memorize the video like you're studying for a test). Pay attention to how she's responding to what you do. When she obviously likes what you're doing, keep doing it. If you find a few techniques that really get her going, alternate. Don't stop until she's practically trying to kick you off of her. When you c…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:06 PM
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I can't think of anything specific, but maybe Heinlein. Edit: Robert E. Howard (Conan, etc.). Just be warned. He wasn't a great writer and he was stupidly racist. That would be expected for the time period, but my issue is that he used 20th-century racial slurs in the Conan stories where they were completely out of context. Also, check out some old hard-boiled mysteries. Raymond Chandler, Dashiel Hammett, James Cain. James Ellroy is one of my favorite writers, and he's still writing. I've heard …
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:37 PM
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You're losing your hard-on because you're thinking about it too much. Just enjoy yourself, do what you want, and do your best to make her cum. First and foremost, though, make sure you do what you want, so long as she's into it.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:32 PM
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...Also, don't do nofap. It's pseudoscience.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:28 AM
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...in their butts.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:34 AM
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Next, he's going to tell us that Asians have sideways vaginas.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:16 AM
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You "smooched"? Was this party you went to called a sock-hop?
/r/seduction08/10/18 03:04 AM
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A smart app developer will take this information and develop a dating app that accounts for differing mating strategies between the sexes and filter for differing intentions.
/r/seduction06/10/18 11:25 PM
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You may want to consider what it is about you that is attracting these kinds of women, or what it is that attracts you to them. What are the commonalities they share before they turn out to be psychos? What are they getting out of the relationship with you? Consider the emotionally intense moments you have with these women; what are the you getting from them and what are they getting from you, in those moments? The things that attract us to people can be pretty subtle. Lots of guys find crazy ch…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:37 AM
2

I believe it's "Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks." But, yeah, definitely Einstein. If not him, Feynman.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:30 AM
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How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:53 AM
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Make conversation to buy time and get him to talk about himself. Also, anytime you can make a sexual joke, go for it. While talking, maintain eye contact and a soft smile. Touch early and often, getting progressively more intimate as the person's comfort with you increases. Start with hands (shake hands, high-five, etc), casual arm touching, upper back, lower back, waist, and so on, in roughly that order. Find any excuse you can to touch him. That's the moment-to-moment stuff. More generally, ke…
/r/seduction16/09/18 12:04 AM
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So, where do you start? That's a whole 'nother comment or post. I just want to thank you for your good grammar, specifically the spelling of 'nother. I typically hate hearing people say "a whole 'nother," but since you spelled it properly, it's actually pleasant.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:56 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9cngjo/nofap_is_becoming_a_problem/e5chpaj
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:05 AM
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Awesome username.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:50 AM
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Exactly. NoFap is pseudoscience. For that matter, so is sex/porn addiction. The problem is the guilt, shame, or other negative emotions that people pile on to these things. If you don't believe that sex, masturbating, and porn are negative things; then they won't have negative consequences in and of themselves. These things are just placebos.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:29 PM
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Great post! I'd like to add that, apart from content and some of the stylistic elements you note, I've noticed that a lot of people posting on here and Reddit generally can't even write a decent sentence. Here are a couple of links to help solve that problem for anyone interested: structure and style. Rather than just be a link dropper, I'll briefly explain the basic components of a sentence. Every sentence—other than exclamations like the one that begins this comment—has two, and sometimes thre…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 03:46 AM
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Both Chrome and Firefox say this website isn't secure.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 02:15 AM
1

You're only supposed to do one set of five deadlifts, on both Starting Strength and StrongLifts.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:31 AM
1

"A gallon of milk a day is for underweight, young men."
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:28 AM
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You're right. That doesn't make sense as written. What I should have wrote is that six hours is rare—just as rare as ten—but not unheard of. Normal range is actually seven to nine hours per night. In school, we spend so much time talking about abnormalities that perspective gets a little skewed.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 05:09 AM
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Ten is within the normal range, though the average is eight. There's a condition called idiopathic hypersomnia, which causes people to, sometimes, sleep more hours per day than they're awake. Some people naturally need only six hours per day. They're relatively rare, but they exist. I wouldn't be surprised if Schwarzenegger is one of these people. Some people require as much as ten, even after adolescence. For context, I'm a sleep tech.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:43 PM
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This'll likely get downvoted but maybe somebody will read it and learn something. You can't short-change your sleep. The amount of sleep you need is entirely genetically determined. If you cut your sleep short, you build up what is called sleep debt, which inevitably must be repaid. If you need eight or nine or even ten hours per night of sleep, you will get it, whether now or later. Don't fuck yourself over. Edit: read this book: The Promise of Sleep. Some of the details are outdated, but the b…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:30 AM
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Actually, polygraphs aren't admissible as evidence.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 12:26 AM
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Have an edge. Stay fit. Be confident. This is the problem I have with most men's fashion advice: NO EDGE! Every source for men's fashion advice is basically "wear a suit" or "here's what every other dude in his thirties wears this year (slacks, oxford shirts, sweaters, etc.)."
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:15 AM
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Part of being better with women is taking "no" for an answer. This girl has rejected you--said 'no'--so learn from it and move on. I posted the video for you to learn from and do better next time.
/r/seduction03/10/17 07:13 PM
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This will solve your problem. Edit: NSFW
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:48 AM
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Negging is over-rated. Stop it.
/r/seduction23/09/16 03:14 AM
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