thisisuntrueman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	[Advice] Set a firm boundary with a flirty coworker who snapped at me under stress. Did I kill the attraction, or increased it? Maybe she was flirting with you all this while to use you. If she wasn’t, she’ll realise her mistake and slowly enter your orbit again. Don’t question what you did. Setting boundaries is important, and you asserted yourself in the right way.	/r/seduction	11/07/26 02:47 PM
1	Vetting for porn use This is such a great way to handle it. People should talk about porn usage just like any other functional addiction like junk food or sugar. Not everyone who watches porn is some kind of freak who is overly sexualized and will never be satisfied. Men’s social media algos show them girls with unrealistic body and beauty standards. There are so many gateway drugs to porn. The conversation needs empathy.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/26 11:08 PM
1	Responding to "not sure if you're my type" Yea I would respond with something non-defensive like “that’s okay, some people choose to have mediocre taste” or “damn, I didn’t know you felt so strongly about making subpar choices”	/r/seduction	26/10/25 06:19 PM
18	Why women pull away even when things are ‘going well’— and how to react when it happens If she does take long to respond, how do you match that energy without being blatant or rude? For example, this girl’s been playing hot/cold. She didn’t respond for about 10 days but did initiate a new conversation after the gap. I feel like I’d rather not talk to someone at all than exchange texts 10 days apart, and I’d like to make this known to her. How can I match her energy but also let her know? Ghosting feels immature to me even if I’m doing it to mirror her energy.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 03:16 PM
13	Maintaining your Masculine Energy while being in a relationship Great post, and it’s a lesson I learned the hard way	/r/seduction	19/10/25 02:14 PM
2	3 women in under 48 hours in NYC… Or…find a reason to validate the characteristics. I’m no hater, I value the information	/r/seduction	01/09/25 11:56 AM
7	3 women in under 48 hours in NYC… Tell us more about your age, physique, etc.	/r/seduction	01/09/25 06:14 AM
3	I had a F-Close last wednesday. When was your last one? Broke up with my gf of 7 years at the start of the year. Had my first f close last night but couldn’t get it up	/r/seduction	19/07/25 02:45 PM
98	You want her? Don't tell her. Show her just enogh to keep her guessing The girls that have been coldest to me are girls who liked me but didn’t see me reciprocate desire. If you keep flirting without escalating, it gives girls the impression that you’re just a tease or will lead them on, and she has to be the decision maker. The decision she will make is to move on because you weren’t man enough to assert your desire.	/r/seduction	15/06/25 08:04 PM
1	3 greatest PUAs of all time What’s this fat kid’s name?	/r/seduction	29/05/25 12:39 PM
1	Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake? The things to not do: - chase them The things to do: - work on yourself - work on how you get to the first date in a way that a girl doesn’t want to cancel on you	/r/seduction	23/05/25 02:47 PM
6	Given the 80/20 rule on Tinder (and probably all dating apps) what motivates you to keep using Tinder? If you value your time at all, just pay for Tinder Gold. This way you know your league and can play at your level. Baffles me how guys spend so much time swiping girls they will never get. Save the time and get better as opposed to feeling rejected that you don’t attract what you’re attracted to.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/24 05:05 PM
12	Sex and spending time together… Try proposing doing something active one night, could be as easy as walking around the city. If you continue to initiate while he watches tv and eats, you’re programming him to think that sex will come with low effort. Push him to take care of himself. He should want a reward.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/23 05:24 PM
11	Sex and spending time together… Is he healthy? How’s his weight and fitness?	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/23 05:15 PM