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Honestly, couldn’t have had a more opposite experience. I used to change into more casual clothes before going out, and when I started keeping my work clothes on, women literally started approaching me. I’m a community college professor, and I try to dress in a way that communicates my respect for the job but doesn’t seem overly stiff or unwelcoming to students. My approach: A little investment into nice wardrobe staples that you can mix around pays dividends. I’ve got a nice cardigan that’s blu…
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:13 PM
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The point isn’t that he lied about his beach house. The point is that having casual sex means people treat you casually.
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:39 PM
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Strongly recommend to move from outright choking to a firm hand placed on the neck. There are both acute and chronic health risks associated with choking (consensual or not), including uncommon but well documented risk of dissection. It’s incredibly hard to tell in the moment how your partner is physiologically responding to it, which makes brief (sometimes even difficult to notice) loss of consciousness a relatively common event. Long term risks are less well established (and in general harder …
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:57 AM
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This is the real advice. If you want to talk to hot girls, start by talking to everyone.
/r/seduction12/04/25 09:47 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:58 PM
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I love the authority with which this is written. This man knows his Nevada prostitution laws.
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:23 PM
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I don’t seek it out, but I’ve been surprised at how forward married women can be at the bar. My experience: Very bar dependent, it’s a Goldilocks spot of not too dark and dingy but also not too nice or clubby. It doesn’t seem like they go out specifically looking to cheat, they just end up in that position in a certain environment. Business travel is a huge contributor, especially travelling to conventions. Military (either they or their spouse) is so common it makes the jokes about navy couples…
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:10 PM
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I’m gonna make a guess that your married coworker is not “actual partner” material
/r/seduction11/03/25 04:50 PM
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Great sex tomorrow morning.
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:35 PM
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I try to tease a little bit until I get a sign they’re interested (in whatever step it may be) and then ask them directly and in the early morning gravely voice if I can do that thing. Doe eyes and emphatic nod Affirmative consent is a great concept when you lean into it. It doesn’t have to be like negotiating a contract in the bedroom. Get comfortable telling someone exactly what you want to do with and to them. You won’t regret it.
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:29 PM
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90 percent of the time it helps me forget how lonely I am in the moment. 10 percent of the time it’s the reason I’m lonely in the first place. Which is to say it’s a vicious cycle of someone you care about, but your lifestyle makes it so you can’t just jump at the chance. So she moves on and you end up back doing the stuff that made it impossible to get with her in the first place.
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:25 PM
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Enjoy being yourself so much that your rich inner experience is its own reward.
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:26 PM
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You already know the answer. It’s not toxic, but it’s not best. Let the mystery reveal itself to you naturally. Find other ways to satisfy your lizard brain. It’s not easy, but life gets easier when you do.
/r/seduction17/02/25 11:32 PM
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Maybe I’m overly optimistic, but the women attracted to those types of men aren’t the women we want to attract. There are shallow, shitty people of all genders. May we pray they only find each other.
/r/seduction17/02/25 11:29 PM
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Cool story bro, I hope they all manage to stay away from you. The men are talking here, and we want real passion which takes two.
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:28 PM
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Healthcare professional here to say hard disagree with suggesting Kratom for any reason. It’s a drug with lower side effect profile than other opiates, but still a drug. And then I say, I’m sorry that the market for Kratom exists, because it’s only filling a hole our medical system has ignored. The reasons people use it are valid, but there isn’t a single case where kratom is better than having a healthy relationship with a competent medical provider who can help you address those reasons with m…
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:26 PM
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No, this is one of the biggest misconceptions in life. The point of art is not to be good, it is to be alive. To share your rich inner experience with the world so you are less alone. To feel something or create something. For someone else to share that experience and think “it’s not just me”. My passion is being in the mountains and I love to draw mountain skylines. It’s not fine art, it’s real art. I’ve had people make fun of it, but they only reveal themselves. The real artists I know: galler…
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:22 PM
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Be mindful that Brazilians are also well aware of their reputation for having a sex positive culture, and do not appreciate foreigners being presumptuous or treating them as a Brazilian object rather than a person. Obviously the object not person thing is true for any human, but I think Brazilians tend to be a little more sensitive to it because of the common stereotyping.
/r/seduction16/02/25 04:37 PM
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Shit man, way to put yourself out there and doubly so by asking for feedback publicly. Just keep trying. Everything in life is a learning experience. Nobody here got where they are overnight, it takes consistent effort over time. But trying is the most important part and you’re already there.
/r/seduction15/02/25 09:54 PM
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That’s a fantastic approach… to a degree
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:28 PM
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Yeah 100%. I glossed over that. Have some standards for yourself man. Don’t show up late to a first date ever. Ideally go early and relax and get comfortable. No disrespect to Wally World, you work with what you got around you, but jfc dude why would you make a joke that she works in a strip club?
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:54 PM
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Just be completely honest and watch how they’ll tell you to not feel ashamed. Women like sex, just like regular people. They don’t like being treated as objects, used, or lied to, also just like regular people.
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:44 AM
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It ain’t easy and his approach was rude, but the message holds true. Set your boundaries and have standards for how you are treated. I’m not waiting for a date for more than 15 minutes if they don’t bother to text or call. If someone can’t be on time or considerate first date, it’s not getting better. And if it’s some weird or freak thing, then be flexible.
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:38 AM
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This approach works even better when you’re just wholeheartedly honest about why you want what you want. I spent years in a toxic relationship and I’m not trying to have a committed relationship with anyone for a while. I just want to meet new people and grow. And treat her exactly the same as you would if you were trying to get her to be your girlfriend. But also be clear about your boundaries. Connection and commitment aren’t the same thing. Most people crave connection and fear commitment, an…
/r/seduction14/02/25 07:25 PM
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Why are you ordering women around? Especially ones you don’t know. If you want women to talk to you, start out by making them feel safe.
/r/seduction12/02/25 07:06 PM
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I feel like I totally misread what you were saying. I’m sorry for being an asshole. Honestly, interesting observations, I’m gonna mull this over, but my guess is as good as yours.
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:53 PM
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Sorry that came off so harsh, but seriously man reread what you wrote. If that’s the way you frame the problem you have all the answers in front of you.
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:13 PM
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Are you seriously equating liberal values to a specific relationship structure / sexuality? Liberalism is the freedom to choose. And you’re wondering why more people don’t want you to fuck their partner? I’d start with the judgmental attitude you’re approaching other couples living their own lives and women making choices in their dating life. No one owes you anything. Be friendly and kind human to couples and be open about your sexuality and you’ll be shocked at the invitations. Keep eyeing ran…
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:13 PM
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These are all indicators of a social relationship. Your reading the signs well, I think that advice is 100% appropriate for the dynamic you describe.
/r/seduction08/02/25 02:07 AM
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Prestigious colleges attract the shittiest people. You’re going to have a minority of students who work their asses off and are trying to better themselves and find meaning. Then you have the rest of them just ducking around with their parents money. Cultivate a healthy disdain for it. Emphasis on the healthy, their just kids doing what kids do, but it deserves no respect. It’s not just socially, it’s in work. I’ve hired grads from good state schools over ivy and ivy adjacent time and time again…
/r/seduction07/02/25 10:25 PM
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TL;DR: Life is one big party when you’re still young But who’s gonna have your back when it’s all done It’s all good when you’re little, you have pure fun Can’t be a fool, son, what about the long run? -Shaggy
/r/seduction07/02/25 01:25 PM
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This is the reality. Most people are already a yes or a no, the whole point is to convert maybes in a yes, not get attention from people who aren’t interested
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:04 PM
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Sounds like you’ve definitely addressed the issue then.
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:02 PM
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All solid advice that someone can actually use.
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:02 PM
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I don’t have great advice, but the best I can say is pick some things you enjoy doing, that you e done a few times in the last year, and go do those things with friends and take pictures. Everyone on the entire fucking planet wants to care about someone who cares about them. No shame, just own it. You mentioned moving, so if you don’t have a social group, look for groups that do things you like. There’s online groups like meetup.com where you can find other people interested in the same stuff, t…
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:34 AM
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And nobody is swiping on that attitude homie.
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:29 AM
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lol. Truth hurts, but here it is.
/r/seduction04/02/25 05:55 PM
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I think you frame the idea of mystery in a bad way here. Other people writing about you doesn’t take away mystery. She’s not going to read it and say “oh now I know everything about this guy” if she reads it’s, she’ll end up with more questions. “How did he do this? What was the experience like? What other interesting things does he do?” If she’s reading your blog about how great you are, obviously that’ll kill the vibe. But hearing bits and pieces about you or your life from other sources will …
/r/seduction04/02/25 01:58 AM
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Don’t ask her a bunch of questions about her kid. My approach is not to ask questions about their kid until they bring the kid up, and even then I’m not asking questions unless they’re directly relevant to the topic at hand. She’s a mom, obviously her kid is a big part of her life. She’s not looking for the 50th person to talk about her kid to, she’s looking for someone that cares about her. So the questions end up being more oriented towards her. She mentions something her kid did, “how did you…
/r/seduction04/02/25 12:14 AM
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My man, you’re walking the most important path in life. One of reflection, and self improvement. Look for other people doing the same. There’s groups all over, go join one. The first step is showing up.
/r/seduction02/02/25 09:48 PM
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If you don’t like apps, that’s totally cool, you should do what you like to do. But it’s relevant to talking to someone at the corner store too.
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:04 AM
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The boat is still in port and Tinder has no age limit. Again, this is basic interpersonal dynamics. It can shockingly be applied on real humans outside of apps too.
/r/seduction27/01/25 11:40 PM
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In my thirties and date thirties and forties… this is ageless advice. The human condition is the human condition. Demonstrate interest, but don’t show need. Be playful. Tease, but implicitly reassure. Get them to imagine you two together in an abstract way so it feels normal to make it concrete. Trying to do this with books works wonders for the types of women I generally enjoy being around. You can make it as shallow or deep as you want. I make fun of every woman I meet who likes Malcolm Gladwe…
/r/seduction27/01/25 09:26 PM
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Because the post is asking for advice and this reply just shits on the premise of the question.
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:26 PM
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Gym crushes are not for asking out, they are for staying motivated to go to the gym. Gotta hit the gym to get more fit and hopefully see that cute girl. Start thinking about going to the gym all the time. Sitting in traffic, you’re wishing you were at the gym because your crush is probably there. The effect only compounds with time. 10/10 recommend
/r/seduction17/01/25 09:21 AM
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How you going around talking like that? This man about to stumble on his future wife on approach 4 and never talk to us again smdh
/r/seduction17/01/25 08:47 AM
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Hard disagree. Apps are great for making connections, but it is foolish to that it makes real social skills obsolete. Being able to comfortably talk with strangers is an incredibly useful life skill. If you treat talking to women as literal cold calling for dates, then yes you will probably have a bad time. If you talk to them because the world is big and filled with interesting people different from you that all have experiences to share, you’ll make friends, work connections, and romantic conn…
/r/seduction17/01/25 08:46 AM
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A+ advice. Nobody can control having nice eyes, but if you compliment her on the necklace she spent time picking out that morning, she’ll feel seen.
/r/seduction17/01/25 08:24 AM
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