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| 9 | Turns out, it’s “ridiculously pretentious” for a woman to look for an equal... (not better, literally the same qualities she brings to the table) | SCROTES MAD | thisplaceisashes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:41 PM |
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| 9 | Women who can't do their makeup properly and don't have good fashion sense are at a ridiculously huge disadvantageThen you should do your makeup daily and post your routine for others to follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:33 AM |
| 9 | Women, what are you insecure about?Size of my metaphorical balls. Men’s underwear just doesn’t cut it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?I’m quite happy. I enjoy cursing: it’s unexpected from the mouth of someone that looks like me. And I’m not defensive - if you haven’t realized this is fun for me or I’d not be doing it, I feel bad for you (son. I got 99 problems but… you aren’t one). I’ve got some fortune-cookie-advice of my own for the self-confessed monkey (I’m among the great apes): don’t tell others what to do. Don’t tell women what to do with their bodies. Practice introspection. Figure out why someone like me pushes your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Why do you care who I date? But since you’re trying to prove a point: no, though not because of income. It’s because I don’t want kids. You should’ve asked if I’d date a man that either never worked - trust fund baby - or retired in his 20s (or whatever age). That you didn’t think these are options tells you all you need to know about our respective realities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?I don’t speak your pill code. Try English | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Reading comprehension is probably higher-level cognitive reasoning for some, so I will clarify: I don’t give a shit if you (both specific and general) get it together. Why would I? I don’t date idiots and, frankly, people that believe this garbage aren’t exactly tipping the scales. Well, maybe some scales… The question posed was, how will this change dating. My response is based on my personal experience: a man’s income doesn’t matter as long as he’s contributing equally in other ways. Which I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Yes, but I don’t throw my poo, which means one of us is more evolved. Hint: it’s not the one throwing poo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Here’s the best part: I date people that earn stupid money. And do, myself. You only talk about it. As if you know what you’re saying. So, of course you’re right 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?I don’t live alongside you in the zoo. But you feel free, sunshine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Oh, no! Did I hurt your wittle feelings not giving a shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Hahahahhaha I’ll tell my SO you’re going to kill him at dawn. Pistols? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 0 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?… guess my comment was so good, Reddit posted it twice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:32 AM |
| -3 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Oh, sweetheart, has the world not yet taught you that what you want is utterly irrelevant? Sucks that I get to pop that cherry but here goes nothing 🍒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:32 AM |
| -4 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Now you’re asking me to do the mental labor, too… You’ve the most advanced machine ever built in your hands, bucko. Use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:23 AM |
| -1 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?Ugh. More men chiming in on what women do. So useful! I earn… more than enough. Like, stupid money. I’ve dated men that earn more than I do and less. It doesn’t matter because I don’t need to be taken care of. But the man has to have his shit together - it’s not like I’m lacking choices. That I choose to be with him is very easily revocable. So, the answer to your question is: men better learn to contribute in other ways, including sharing emotional labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:18 AM |
| 0 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyOh, sweet irony 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:50 AM |
| -1 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyRead above, keyboard warrior. It’s there in black-and-white 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:28 AM |
| 0 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyI know enough about him from what he said. Don’t know about the Golden Arches, fill me in though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:21 AM |
| -1 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyYou keep sending messages that pop up red - and they make me laugh. I can just see your face getting all ragey. So, fuck yeah I’m still here 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyI fly so far above your highest altitude that this is truly funny. Thank you. I enjoyed this immensely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyBahhhaaahaha What qualities make you a leader? What have you earned? ( no need to answer, it’s rhetorical — mediocre men that need external validation from bossing partners around are the only ones to say this shit. If you had any real, earned power and confidence that comes along with it, this wouldn’t even come up.) Good luck, l leader. Thanks for the laughs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:17 AM |
| 5 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyBecause your happiness is paramount, my dude! How can you make an “us” when it all starts and ends with “I”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyIt may be true freedom… but from healthy relationships. Not caring what your partner thinks is so toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 01:48 AM |
| – | Does it make someone a bad person if they want to distance themselves from 'weak' men?Judgmental? Check. Closed-minded? Check. Entirely lacking in empathy? Check. Spouting buzz words learned from others like him on the interwebs? Ding ding ding!! The prize you’ve won is permission to distance yourself from the person you’ve described, but not because they’re weak; because you’re not a friend but an emotional leech. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 30 | Obviously women are lower in mental capacity than men given that the grand majority of young women think that there's some stock in AstrologySure, pick a small group and wildly extrapolate an illogical conclusion based on one set of beliefs. You can make the same argument about people believing in god. … But let’s use your brilliant example (/s, if it’s not already painfully obvious) to prove that women are smarter then men! Have you ever heard of a woman marrying a man because he’s got great legs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 12 | The main issue between men & women is the lack of understanding between the significant differences between usWhere’s the rock you’ve been living under? I want to look for other fossils | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Can you really not develop feelings after a hookup?Are women a different species? Women can do just about all the things men can do (and many things men can’t do). This obviously includes having FWBs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between the kind of woman a man dates to pass the time and the woman he invests in and commits to?Are you honestly expecting to grow from a rating system that gives you a value like you’re a pound of beef, and commoditizes to the point of you having a depreciating value based on your uterus? If so, good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | What is the difference between the kind of woman a man dates to pass the time and the woman he invests in and commits to?You’re in the wrong place for a balanced answer. Most of the men telling you about your supposed faults couldn’t get a date if they were all that was left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Cool, not everything is about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Ooh, so much anger - must be all that sex you’re not having. But tell me more - you’re so smart, unique, and fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?I’m sorry that happened to you but projecting just makes you look sad- it doesn’t actually conjure up your version of reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Fucking with you; though the grammar thing is legit - why undermine your own argument with something as stupid as poor grammar? People automatically write you off. I’ve never seen the point of useless endeavors. I argue for a living; I don’t do it for free. So, this is really intended as one-sided entertainment. Sometimes I’m kind. Usually, I’m a dick. Neither is unintentional and the side that wins wholly depends on my perception of whether the OP is honest. If you do what I do, you get very go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Oh, for fuck’s sake - should & would HAVE. It’s your only language, at least speak it. Of course he knows. Do I sound like I beat around the bush and play coy? Like I don’t communicate exactly what, and when, and where, and how? I thought that was clear but maybe I’m not the one unable to read social cues… If I were a man, you’d think I was just a self-absorbed dick with a huge ego. Because I’m a woman, you want to believe it’s a brain anomaly that makes me unable to understand social cues. You’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Only a man can read an ode to powerful women and not only manage to make it about himself, but also the viability of a pretend relationship with him I never wanted, mentioned, or even alluded to 🤷♀️ Dude, I’m not your woman. If you’re the last man on earth, I still would never be your woman. Isn’t your whole pill-based belief system based on leagues and values? I’m in a different one. We’re continents apart. Please look elsewhere for someone to do your laundry and cook - or whatever else you co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Wanting to be a lesbian is hyperbole - if I wanted to sleep with women, I would. I also don’t need the same things from a man that many women do - different income brackets, different needs. That doesn’t mean I am blind and don’t realize how much more women take on and handle - and are expected to take on and handle. That I know incredible women whose lives I watch in utter fascination is not hyperbole. And they manage to make it look effortless to those on the outside looking in. Hell, I’m one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?You again assume (wrongly) and you know what they say about those who assume... Of course I know men that have most of those things; they’re my dating pool. A few can even cook, which is special if they otherwise have someone that cooks for them. But in the end, they lack that last ingredient, the “raisin” as the French say — oftentimes, it’s the personal touch, as when it’s the secretary preparing and sending the cards they sign. Sometimes, it’s the need to be reminded… I’m bored of saying the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Just pretentious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?No, you’re wrong. Just too stupid to understand even when it’s simplified to the extreme. I don’t know why you’re obsessed with my sex life - it’s not like I’d ever look at you even once and think, that’s the man I want! - but appreciate your hopes for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Again, your anecdotal experience does not a rule make. … what you’re describing, in an oversimplified way, is a love language: some people enjoy / understand acts of service. Not all. And many would find that kind of codependency an unattractive trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:24 AM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?It’s Ms. Moneybags 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Ok, I’ll try English again: It’s never correct to say shouldn’t “of” — always “have” Your argument is circular - essentially, because I wrote this, you must be right. That makes it illogical - because I wrote that does not mean I never had a different experience. Explaining both grammar and logic to you is a waste of my time. Which I just wasted. So, you’re welcome but I’m moving on - whatever you believe does not change my reality. So, safe travels on your path. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:18 AM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?I am clearly not your woman. If cooking you a meal and cleaning up after you are what fulfill this woman and make her happier in the relationship, I am completely unable to relate, and that makes me unable to answer on her behalf. That I find it difficult to believe is beside the point; I laugh at its absurdity whether or not it’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 01:15 AM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?“Let her cook you a meal and clean up a bit” - 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Bless your heart: should “have”; never “of” — I assume English is the only language you speak? It speaks volumes about the validity of your argument and merits about as much attention. Good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:57 AM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?I don’t know how to tell you this without hurting your feelings, macho big-man that you are, but you repeat the same argument without fully comprehending that your reality and mine are different, and dismiss as “stupid” what you don’t understand. (In fact, your lack of introspection and empathic listening to others’ experiences are a microcosm of the differences I highlighted above.) So, let’s talk about those “big expenditures” you’re sitting and planning, big man. First, I’m not you. And I’m b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:55 AM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?… I was speaking of successful women. They’re earning enough that no one is worrying about having to refi and save for braces. Social graces matter when the basic necessities are met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?How do you know what I have and haven’t experienced? I’m not drawing generalizations about you - though I can, and easily. But you go on believing whatever helps you rationalize your worldview - it’s the same to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:02 PM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Since you allow yourself to resort to ad hominem attacks, here’s mine: you are vile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 10:55 PM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Well, I’d be the one proposing if I met him. As big a diamond as he wants 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 10:21 PM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?I fucking love men but wish I could be attracted to and marry a woman. I tell my girlfriends all the time - they’re killing it in every way. Looks, success, plus they know what needs to be done without ever being told. Cards for birthdays and thank yous, dinner reservations if they’re not cooking gourmet fucking meals,!consistently thinking of the needs of those they care about and just DOING IT. Usually without anyone even knowing. I wish I was attracted to them sexually because, in every other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Bless their hearts - then they hate women even more because they realize no one wants them for who they are deep inside. That makes me a little sad, actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.What did they do when George married Amal? Just 🤯 or? I should’ve used that as an example when attempting to explain the difference between how such men (that they don’t know but put on a pedestal; don’t get me started on the Freudian implications) treat 20-somethings vis-à-vis accomplished women they consider “their kind” Edit: they call over 30 “post-Wall”?? Bahahhahaha No joke, this theory was ripped straight from the half-formed mind of an apocalypse-obsessed teenager struggling with hormona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.All generalities are wrong (ha) but this is wrong, generally speaking. This is probably true for someone that believes she needs a man to provide - fertility is where the value lies according to your ideology, right? But that view is such a disservice to women who bring so much more to the table. I am dumbfounded at the idea that a woman’s worth is in her uterus. Want to have smart children? Have a smart woman. Want to alleviate poverty and reduce crime? Educate women. In the end, it all comes d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.The lady doth protest too much, methinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I can tell by the pearls before swine comment just how much irony was involved - your comments are as deep as puddles, I think I can bumble my way through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 02:05 AM |
| 8 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Was about to agree with you when I realized I already did, above. The rage is so interesting to me - so many of these men actively want this to be true. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised but somehow, I am. (Maybe they don’t realize that internalized anger ages them faster and causes a slew of problems, including heart disease, so they’ll be too old and decrepit to be of any use to all those high-value 20-year olds waiting in the wings.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.“Sell for less” - you’re a prince among men and I don’t know how you’re still on the market 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Sure. The only way. (Except for all those women whose features have not changed and still look like they’re in their 20s. But who am I to argue with your wisdom.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 12:42 AM |
| 7 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I don’t date lawyers because I practice in a niche area and don’t shit where I eat. Also, the smug ones are the ones who try too hard, which is entertaining but unattractive. The ones that really make the weather aren’t the ones pretending to be big shots on Reddit 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 7 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Also a lawyer, also that age, just a woman. And... yup. I won’t get into specifics but life is great. Also, unlike the narrative here, approaching relationships from the standpoint of equals removes so much of this power-imbalance angst that’s being described. Most successful people want to be proud of who they’re with. In sum: the reality is pretty much the opposite of what’s being described - the 25-year olds are the playthings, which is unfair because they’ve not had time to establish themsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Lol @ “even at mid 30s age women have suitors and can still be picky” This is what 24-hours for a woman in her mid-30s really looks like. I’m genuinely surprised anyone really believes this crap - shouldn’t a rational person consider the credibility of the source when figuring out whether to trust their information? That a lot of “involuntarily celibate” people on the internet say it does not make something true. But whatever makes you feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here subscribe to FDS’s thinking? What are some of the interesting insights and advice you’ve found in FDSI agree with you, with the caveat that I think it’s harmful to both sexes. The fear of being seen as weak that is masked by anger usually finds its outlet in and is channeled at those perceived as weaker, which are usually women since a “a man is a man and a protector of the weak: women and children”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Dating women who have advanced degreesWell, knock me over with a feather...! Aren’t you a surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Dating women who have advanced degreesI didn’t know men elected you as their spokesperson! That’s awesome; does the position come with pay? There must be dissent in the ranks among the more established ones, because they say different. Maybe get your ranks in line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Dating women who have advanced degreesYou’ve mentioned only maybe 28 times in this post that you’re 22 and graduating at 22. Cool beans. So what age are you graduating again? Thing is, why worry about something that’s not affecting you? Another thing about anecdotal evidence is that you really shouldn’t extrapolate therefrom. Good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 03:45 AM |
| 15 | Dating women who have advanced degreesYou realize you’re getting consensus from a very limited pool? Mostly people subscribe to this specific sub for a reason. Also, why ask Redditors? Go to your target audience (i.e. men you want to actually date) ... There’s a reason most people marry within their circle. Sure, you have trophy wives / husbands but generally speaking, people with advanced degrees marry others with the same. You want to be proud of your partner - men especially like to show off their “possessions”. And in many ways,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 03:33 AM |
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