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There are many aspects to this. First of all, a lot of people don't want to believe that self-improvement is possible. This is because they use fatalism as a convenient cop-out to stop thinking about the failures in their own lives. These people will resent any attempt you make to change. The next category of people are people who don't have a problem with self-improvement per se, but are quite happy with things the way they are - a good example of this would be someone who is higher than you in…
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:17 PM
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Even that isn't true.
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:07 PM
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What does the rejection actually MEAN? What is the meaning you are drawing from it? Interrogate your internal thought process, because you are probably blowing this up into some big thing about yourself. IMO, what some girl thinks about me (or you) doesn't matter. Who gives a fuck what someone who barely knows you thinks? The advice on getting over rejection is to get a handle on yourself and to like yourself without reference to other people.
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:59 AM
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Novio? I thought she said it was some guy called Hermano.
/r/seduction07/02/12 07:48 AM
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First of all, it's not a good joke, no offense but I'm sure you could do better. Being rape-positive does hurt people. I guess you take it as an obvious inference that you are against rape, any reasonable person would be, so it must be sarcastic. When we are in a society where it is unthinkable to almost everyone to force a woman to have sex, I think we can start making those jokes. We're not there yet. In the meantime seddit is a specific community that is often derided as being deceptive, not …
/r/seduction19/12/11 11:19 PM
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What I'm saying is that your offensive username is unacceptable to me, and I think this community in particular shouldn't offer support to someone who makes jokes about rape.
/r/seduction18/12/11 11:26 PM
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Your username is completely inappropriate, change it. Not cool.
/r/seduction17/12/11 02:21 AM
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Couldn't agree with this sentiment more.
/r/seduction29/11/11 12:46 PM
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You had a day 2 with no escalation strategy. I'm not really sure what you expected. Live and learn. It's all good, keep pushing with this girl, keep moving forward. Don't start feeling sorry for yourself. There's plenty of forever alone's never even making the initial approach let alone learning about the importance of escalation and logistics on day 2. You are damn close to getting laid. Why would a girl show up to a day two if she wasn't interested? You just need to make things go smoother, do…
/r/seduction17/11/11 03:37 AM
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Life isn't fair. I just don't get why you are bitching about it.
/r/seduction08/11/11 09:14 AM
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There isn't really a short explanation, so I will give you the long one. Basically, when I was in my teens, I had a number of negative worldviews that really held me back in many aspects of my life, not just girls. It was only when I got a lot older that I started to realise that: Each person makes their own destiny I (and, I've come to believe, anyone) can outperform 95% of people at any particular task I put my mind to. The instructions to get better at anything you want are available so you d…
/r/seduction06/11/11 01:42 PM
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Once again, I suspect if you are fucking other women you will merely find it amusing that Lisa is flirting with you.
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:57 AM
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Cool, good luck, but talk about things you have done, not things you intend to do. There's a ted talk somewhere about how talking about your goals makes you less likely to achieve them. Also wow, I wish I had started learning this sort of stuff when I was 17, not 25.
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:49 AM
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Go and fuck ten other women and then decide whether Lisa is worth ruining a friendship for. My guess is not. There are 3.5 Billion women in the world, find another one.
/r/seduction06/11/11 06:51 AM
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This is ridiculous. You come to the seduction reddit, say it isn't authentic, then listen to someone who admits he has oneitis for advice. I've seen this so many times. You probably came here hoping for some secret line that always works, so you could use it on that girl from the office, and when you discovered that there was all this stuff that you would have to change, your identity was threatened, and you became defensive. Then you started looking for a way to criticise pickup so you wouldn't…
/r/seduction05/11/11 10:35 PM
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Fine then. Don't wear a mask. But then, you should REALLY not wear a mask. You came and looked at all the seduction stuff. So do you want to fuck girls or not? Because if you want to fuck girls, but can't bring yourself to go up and talk to them, THAT'S A FUCKING MASK. If you want to fuck girls, but don't touch them, don't PHYSICALLY SHOW THEM that you are attracted to them, THAT'S A FUCKING MASK. If you want to fuck girls, but never talk about sex or sexual topics with them because "they might …
/r/seduction05/11/11 12:03 PM
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I've just seen the shitstorm this comment tipped off - and I've got to say that your perspective is not really definitive advice on the subject. For instance, we don't know whether the guys in question were in with a shot and blew it when they used this advice, or whether they had already destroyed their value and this just came off as really lame. No one piece of advice will make a woman jump into bed - But yes, I am confident that this is solid advice for doing exactly what OP wanted. If you a…
/r/seduction05/11/11 11:39 AM
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Creative misinterpretation. Interpret things she says as a double-entendre. Make out like she is trying to get YOU into bed. Announce early in the date that you there will be no sex tonight because you don't go to bed on the first date. From there on, make out that she is trying to seduce YOU.
/r/seduction05/11/11 12:17 AM
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I see what you did there? Damn.
/r/seduction03/11/11 02:22 AM
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You're right that I don't know anything for sure. That "owes something" shit is what would make her NOT sleep with you because if she sleeps with you in return for a favour, that makes her a WHORE. She doesn't want to self-identify as a whore so she will AVOID sleeping with men to whom she feels she owes something. Better to be a user than a whore in her mind.
/r/seduction26/10/11 12:23 AM
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I think it will. I think buying dinner starts to cast you as a provider not a lover, someone who has to buy her love. Calling her hot compounds it because it will make you seem like ALL THE OTHER GUYS who call her hot and coincidentally, think they can buy her.
/r/seduction25/10/11 11:09 PM
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Who gives a fuck if she cheats? There's millions of women out there, most of them DTF if you don't start with the Madonna/Whore bullshit.
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:38 AM
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Noone is out of your league, as I think you are beginning to learn. You did great but if you hadn't bought her dinner or called her hot she probably would've been DTF that night. Fantastic work with the narrative, it's very funny, set you up as the pursued one etc. But by making it about her ripping you off you missed a golden opportunity. You should have told her you weren't rich so it was clear if she didn't abort the "mission" now it was because she was going to drug you in order to take adva…
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:36 AM
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Why would I lose respect for a girl who has escaped society's (and your) bullshit programming? OP did some great work, but he shouldn't have bought her dinner, nor should he have said she was hot (say cool next time, never call a girl that you haven't yet slept with who is actually hot, hot), and then he would have found she was turned on MORE when they hit the bedroom. There was definitely an f-close possibility here, Jonnyb347 can keep refusing to push it with girls who are DTF and hold for th…
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:31 AM
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NEVER EVER worth it. It's a big world with a lot of women. It's a total chump move to hit on women who are forced to interact with him.
/r/seduction25/10/11 02:16 AM
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"I can feel his dick!" "No, she's not allowed to feel my dick, we're just dancing"
/r/seduction21/10/11 02:05 AM
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If you make out in the club, then don't F-Close, it's dead. It's completely dead. You've gone too far too fast by making out in the club and this will make the F-Close harder that night (unless you do it in the club) and you'll definitely never get a callback. The reason is the girl feels like she has gone too far without any real connection to you - she doesn't really know you that well, so the whole thing is a bit too threatening once she isn't in the zone. This is really standard and it's the…
/r/seduction21/10/11 01:13 AM
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All I'm hearing is that you did all of one and not the other for a while then switched and saw results. I think both theory and practice are necessary - without theory it's very difficult to recognise what's working and what isn't - theory gives us a framework to understand the process - without it practice can be next to useless because you won't know what you are doing wrong - hell, there's a lot of guys out there who think they didn't pick up because their watch doesn't cost enough.
/r/seduction11/10/11 08:49 AM
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When it happens, it always happens smooth, because that's basically a necessary condition. You were congruent with your claim to sexuality, you weren't afraid to make fun of her and most importantly you got kino (the wrestling) going before you escalated to the kiss. Good Work.
/r/seduction10/10/11 06:51 AM
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This this this. Once the kino is going on the kiss is much much easier. Well done.
/r/seduction09/10/11 05:14 AM
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An unkind reading of your Post would be that you don't want to come off as dickish but you want to be a total dick. You need to make a decision about whether you do want to be her boyfriend (obviously you're tempted). Let's assume you dont. How drunk were you? Obviously if you were pretty drunk say you were carried away, really meant it at the time but are correcting it now because otherwise she is going to get hurt. Then tell her completely honestly exactly where the two of you stand. If you ar…
/r/seduction05/09/11 03:03 PM
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Just a suggestion, but if you make it clear that there are non-physical reasons for your attraction to the girl, this can do a lot for making it "feel right" later on. If you give no other reason for being into her then she will assume it is how she looks - this can lead to serious misgivings or even cognitive dissonance if she doesn't think she is physically attractive, where she will literally not understand what is going on/worry there is something wrong with you (to go after someone as unatt…
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:13 AM
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If you don't mind my asking - What reason did you give her for why you were attracted to her?
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:23 PM
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Best response possible.
/r/seduction31/08/11 12:55 PM
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Meet other women. You are just going to poison the well otherwise. Obviously you need to change your approach to seduction and you've come to the right place - but you need to learn to approach women more aggressively and directly, and calibrating these skills on women you work with is a bad idea because of the social consequences - better with strangers. Within your circle is a bad place for beginners.
/r/seduction31/08/11 12:09 PM
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You are a classic repressed beta. Stop protecting yourself with all of this BS, learn about how to succeed from the experts and fucking DO IT. You are a man, you were born to fuck. Where is your masculine drive to achieve? Where is the conqueror mentality? Man, I'd rather be dead than a eunuch. I'd rather be striking out every night than making excuses.
/r/seduction31/08/11 02:31 AM
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This makes a lot of sense, I saw someone talking a lot about mistakes and complaining about not trying, which indicated a perfectionist mentality - which is counterproductive.
/r/seduction31/08/11 12:36 AM
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You are going to blow yourself out of the water here. You've known her for a few days, you haven't hooked up with her but you "love" her outlook on life? COME ON! Seriously, you don't know this person, you only see the side of her she is deciding to show you. If you like that, then that's great, but getting oneitis now is only going to hurt your chances of having a relationship with her. Proceed as normal, if you have so much in common she will want to see you more and more and a relationship wi…
/r/seduction30/08/11 04:25 PM
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This is like bashing yourself repeatedly in the face every day to give yourself an edge if you ever get in a fight. There are no mistakes, no one is actually keeping score except you. You think by being hard on yourself you will improve, maybe (often people just get scared of their own judgement if they fail so they actually try less) but what is the point? The point was never to sleep with women for the sake of it. The point is to be a happy person, and seduction is part of that healthy and bal…
/r/seduction30/08/11 12:30 PM
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Bossy is a frame where your leading is inappropriate and rude. You need to reframe so that your leading is about generating fun and action for everyone (mostly yourself, self-amusing, not trying to please). So when she says you are bossy, smile, raise an eyebrow and say that's because I am the boss. You can then tell her she can be in charge if she can think of something fun to do. Be cheeky, be firm and make it clear your leadership is based on higher social competence.
/r/seduction29/08/11 12:38 AM
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That sounds fine then, although long term you are going to need to work on your lifestyle to meet more women (and the kind of woman you decide you want). You've seen now how much response a field report gets, no matter the results, because the guys here know how important getting out into the field and doing something is. I remember in my early days walking away from a total failure of an attempt to kiss a girl on a massive high - Because I had DONE something! I'd confronted my fears and actuall…
/r/seduction27/08/11 12:38 AM
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Good work making some progress. Failure is not doing anything, whereas rejection is progress. There is much better advice than your friend's out there. Your heart rate did not make you nervous, it was high because you were nervous. I would approach girls anywhere except work in future - I have a rule to never, ever do anything with anyone from work.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:11 PM
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Your root problem is perfectionism, an unwillingness to accept that failure is always going to happen sometimes. Sometimes you are going to make a little mistake when talking to a girl. Sometimes you are going to make a big mistake when talking to a girl. Sometimes you are going to do everything right and she won't like you. Sometimes the small mistake will blow you out. Sometimes the big mistake still won't stop you getting laid. One day you will think you have found the "perfect" girl, and the…
/r/seduction24/08/11 06:27 AM
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You're already losing outcome independence and getting one-itis. You don't have control over what she wants from you, but obviously the less needy you are the more "hand" you will have.
/r/seduction23/08/11 11:11 PM
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