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Yup, it’s about looks. Disagree. No arguments that looks are significant. I'd put it at 30% or less though. Pretty boys can easily talk their way out of a done deal. You can’t force attraction. Agreed! You can train and prepare to increase likelihood... I'd call that coaxing more than forcing. It’s either there or it isn’t Yes. Also, no. I've definitely had nothing and after interacting had something... usually where there's something I can be good at... even if it's just socializing.
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:44 AM
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I was your weight at 6'2"... fat was the answer for me. Heavy cream in all my protein shakes to boost the calories.
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:54 PM
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"Yall mothafuckas need Jee-zuss!" Level 2?
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:49 PM
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Married? Pretty sure they call that "hardmode" for guys with your views.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:36 PM
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We aren't econs (perfectly rational actors), we're humans and humans very often do things which make no sense if actually analyzed with all available information. This is because we mainly operate on easily and/or the easiest available information.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:34 PM
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So, why does that give you the right to make roadblocks for people who just want the opportunity to have a bit of what you're currently wasting?
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:14 PM
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Ok, it was early and the coffee had just hit...but I stand by what I said, perhaps just not the scale I may have accidentally applied. These things are real ailments: ADHD, autism, thyroid, depression. BUT, I also 100% believe these things are being overdiagnosed & treated with drugs on people that could probably just get up off their ass and get by. Why back pedal only to double down? Lol. BTW, I saw below where things turned into a "fuck you" match... im not looking for that. What I'm saying i…
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:12 PM
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Usually the laziness is combined with some combination of porn use and fear of bad rejections that lead to your reputation being ruined or getting banned from venues. Yet you're here, lazily speculating on topics already researched and specialized in? Rather than seek any education on the issue of motivation and the roadblocks to success, you've made the bone-idle, minimum possible effort needed to completely discount people who struggle even a tiny bit more than you do... do you give yourself t…
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:36 PM
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Do people really believe these people are choosing crippling trauma over success? This is my primary issue with the philosophy that "people are just lazy". No one in their right mind would walk up to an amputee and tell them to just work through it, yet serious mental/chemical/development issues can magically be overcome through willpower? We even know willpower is finite and can be recharged or drained by the environment, yet this model takes the high-school gym coach approach of just yelling a…
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:32 PM
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You've basically said there is no condition where people could be unable to succeed and millions of people are just so bone-idle lazy that they'd rather die alone? Am I misunderstanding? I'm sure some people arr fooling themselves and self sabotaging... I just have difficulty painting everyone as lazy like this. I see it as the ultimate sociopathic-level hubris to say, counter to all data, that no problem you don't personally experience is real and is just people being lazy.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:39 PM
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Older woman are no different from younger ones, good luck! Aren't they older? AKA different?
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:48 AM
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Are you one of those "alpha males only text for logistical reasons" guys?
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:04 AM
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I heard all other countries have inferior potassium.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:42 PM
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Hello. Everyone. I hope you all are doing great. I have been in a relationship for four months. My girlfriend throws tantrums, most of the time for something she misunderstood. When this happens and it did today she says she prefers not to discuss it. This is extremely childish behavior. How do parents successfully handle it? How do they fail this "test"? I don't like it. I feel like she takes the power when she does this, because she is basically choosing when we can and we can't talk. If I res…
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:18 PM
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Well put.. I could never put words to that situation very well.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:17 AM
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You're a cool person.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:16 AM
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Why are you being wierd?
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:14 AM
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Your attraction: based on facts with some emotion. Her attraction: based on emotion with some facts. Not everyone is like this but, on average, it's useful to think about things this way because letting things "cool" will almost never do you any favors.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:10 PM
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Hahaha haha. What a good little troll you are.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:07 PM
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What a wild brain you have. I asked about decision making brain development and from that you've concluded I'm defending statutory rape? Do you know there are many decisions we allow young adults to make before 30? Like driving cars, voting, buying houses, borrowing money... your obsession with underage sex is the most telling here imo. What a fool you are.
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:43 PM
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You seem too emotionally triggered to actually cite sources or justify your conclusions. Which is odd considering your supposed background in statistics. I haven't made any claims. What sources do you expect? I’m fully aware of the course load it took to make that claim and the health competencies expected of individuals in your “role”. Did you know that statistics aren't limited to the Healthcare field? I'm really struggling to understand your vitriol at an idle question. I haven't even counter…
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:16 PM
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I agree, it wouldn't. That's why I wonder if they did. You can do everything right but if the experiment isn't designed well...
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:21 PM
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The question mark indicated I asked about the depths of your research. So you bastardized English grammar and it's my fault for not understanding? Do you know what “peer reviewed means”? Additionally, are you qualified to disregard the conclusions of studies you find? Well, yes. I've only got a decade of statistical analysis work going for me after nearly as long getting an education. I'm sure that's not good enough for you though since questions are, apparently, grounds to immediately attack lo…
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:29 AM
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Look forward to hearing the grounds on which you disregarded their findings. You're an absolute ray of sunshine. I think I'll spend my time somewhere I'm not pre-judged for asking a simple question though.
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:26 AM
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I don't see why it would be difficult to separate and attribute to one or the other any more than any other studies that are done. As I said above, because older men mostly have older partners, this would mean we are looking to see an effect (in the woman) of having an older partner when the same issues are known to exist in older woman and attributed to the woman's age... so if there is something to find, which parent caused it? Or was it both?
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:24 AM
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All you do is wonder? Have you tried researching it or just pushed it out of your brain in favor of social conditioning/hooking up with teens ? Well, thanks for assuming all of that about me. I have tried researching it and haven't gotten satisfactory answers. This is why I continue to wonder. If you would be so kind, could you ensure you're berating me for something I've actually done before firing off?
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:51 AM
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I ask because there are peer reviewed medical journals about this you can refer to This is what I'm looking for. I haven't been able to find the answers reading these studies...
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:48 AM
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This is interesting... do you know if they controlled for older men commonly having children with older women (also known to increase the risks of pregnancy related complications)? It just seems a very difficult thing to separate and attribute to one or the other.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:48 AM
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Wait until they figure out that the part of the brain that handles decision making isn’t even formed until the mid twenties. Everyone quotes this regarding all sorts of topics for both men and women... I wonder if it's actually a measured difference or just seems like it is because younger people lack experience? In addition, all humans of all ages are horrible at making certain types of decisions (like those regarding statistics or "obvious" causes to effects they observe when it's only a corre…
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:29 AM
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1) Females look for a lot of different things in guys, ranging from looks to confidence, humor, social status, wealth, strength, etc... so guys can improve in a lot of different ways.. unfortunately, guys are very visual and they mostly look for physical appearance, so the discussion would be fairly shallow.. on how women can improve their looks The implications are extremely insulting... are you saying all men are less capable of valuing anything but appearance like it seems you are? 2) Women w…
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:16 PM
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Well, all marriages end in death or divorce so I guess you're justified.
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:08 PM
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This used to happen to me every time I went to the bathroom once I get back to mine lol.
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:11 AM
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Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money?
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:06 AM
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As I said. It doesn't much matter who is right when you absolutely deny subjective experience. You can pound sand right along with him. It's almost like you're the one who has never experienced a woman who has a very small frame relative to human women yet a very large ass relative to human woman. Maybe you will one day, kid.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:37 PM
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What an outrageous statement. Doesn't really matter who is right when you say someone didn't experience what they experienced. Obligatory: pound sand.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:29 AM
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.... wouldn't you still wear xs if you had an ass so fat that it made everything a thong anyway? That's been my experience anyway
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:57 AM
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"U want sum fook?" Good luck.
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:01 AM
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The world has just never had a person with millions of people "following" them just to stare at ass before (as far as we know). It's a whole new world and expecting anyone to act normally with even a taste of a few thousand is as dumb as thinking the US president can effectively lead 330,000,000 people.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:16 PM
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Yup same here, everything my mom taught me about how to treat girls is 100% wrong and has fucked me over for years. It's almost like when a dog grows up with cats and tries to bury it's poop like they do. The cats are different than dogs and even learning how they do something perfectly doesn't exactly work. Humans aren't cat's or dogs. We're more complex. A woman can't know how to teach a boy to be a man any more than the reverse. It goes further than sex but I've definitely had similar experie…
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:58 PM
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All of them.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:48 AM
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New experience makes it rough for me the first time every time.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:48 AM
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Anyone who ever asks your age as an adult out of a formal setting should only get: "old enough". This is double true for woman. Just exist and own your space as you work out. If she's dressed to draw your eyes, see when your eyes get drawn and don't creep. In the end she's either interested or she isn't. You shot your shot and it was a no. She has to change that or it doesn't change. Her actions can't do anything except draw other girls to you and give you a bigger head if you do what I said abo…
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:20 PM
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This sounds so stupid tbh. Why would you have a Tinder account if you're not interested in dating anyone? I don't think you understand the situation. Clearly I am using an "out of pocket" bio which, in my experience, had 10x the success rate of any other bio. Most who read it obviously had the same reaction as you and asked me about it. This is engagement. This is half the battle.
/r/seduction21/12/21 03:18 PM
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I don't wanna act differently just to attract girls lol. Do you think acting differently to get what you want is ok? There is a fine balance between "be yourself" and "do what needs to be done to win" ... In my opinion, a smart person is one who finds the problem and fixes it. If "be yourself" is a problem... That said, this may not be your situation. I don't think values should be compromised. If your actions or dress are keeping you from what you want, I would look at changing.
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:52 PM
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"I don't want to date any of you" really gets the wheels turning and avoids the crazy man haters ime.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:15 PM
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You need a hook and a pull to set it. After that the push/pull of angling op is talking about. Imagine seeing a girl you want to talk to on the street. She won't chase you unless you have her attention. The hook gets her attention but doesn't go on and on with more and more hooks.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:14 PM
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Those girls are doing one thing to your friends... flexin on them hoooooeeessss Really though, they make themselves out to be pursued by someone the other girl knows and respects.
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:32 PM
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Very, very carefully...
/r/seduction10/11/21 09:02 PM
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All of this with one major addition: nice guys are trying to draw women into a covert contract. They try to force resoprosity where they give everything they feel they are asked for and in return they get the sex they see in porn or imagine... but not only do such attempts set off everyone's mental alarms that this person is being deceitful but, it's also a backhanded and subversive way to achieve a goal. Even if she felt the need to reciprocate, she feels tricked and slimy. None of that is remo…
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:51 AM
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If you were an assertive person who went after what he wants and knows what that is, would you be a 35yo waiter driving something that barely runs? You could be but 99% of the time, the fruits tell you about the tree.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:37 AM
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Disagree. I’ve sealed deals with texting that I’d have never been able to pull off in person Same... the thing is, would you describe yourself as perfectly average? If not, this is still good advice.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:40 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:25 PM
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After this fails, agree and amplify.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:23 PM
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Pretty much any response or lack of response EXCEPT for taking these words at face value is the appropriate response. If you act salty or get upset or ask why they say that, you just talked your way out of her night/life.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:20 PM
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He's talking about verbally. If she says this unprovoked, she's planning it. Or maybe you're one of those "not like other women" types who does the same stuff but beats themselves up about being human and doing human things? Who knows?
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:17 PM
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My overall rate is 1/4. However whenever I ask white girls it's like 1/10. Asian and brown is like 50% Sorry it's like that for you man. Asians want none of me and black girls either literally chase me (wtf do you do in this situation?) or try the shit out of me and we're suddenly fighting? I say that just to add some context for saying; I believe the communication styles are different on average. I'm whiter than most and act like it in public so that's how I'm seen. If you play with your presen…
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:07 PM
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isn't all girls just want to be entertained with no real interest in us?... Well yeah. At first. Same for guys. A person's favorite subject is themselves. Call it love, infatuation, attachment, dependence, whatever... but it all starts with 2 people who want something that they don't have and later, if it works, have something they don't want to lose. It only seems savage until you realize you're the same imo.
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:01 PM
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You won sperm race Imma be that guy: this isn't true... something like #150 gets in lmao.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:57 PM
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You're not wrong... You're just an asshole. Lol
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:44 AM
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Hey, thanks for taking time to explain your thoughts here. With what you've laid out, I will need to shift my stance. I'm arguing emotional consideration for others yet overlooked exactly how important the semantics of word choice and delivery are! I believe the "I hope..." would make all the difference (only talking about normal stuff, not multiple or stuff like you example of old married guys on young girls.) I've worked in retail then serving tables for about a decade. I'm a tall bearded dude…
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:51 AM
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Smartass. Of courses, but you don't always get the chance to see the other person irl to ask them out. Are you talking about the first meeting or like do you wanna get exclusive?
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:41 AM
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Where I'm from too. Around here, we like to make the mouth sounds at close range. (I realize this doesn't apply to old)
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:40 PM
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[US only] Why? Is the rest of the world secretly telepathic?
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:05 PM
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What about it? What I outlined incorporates all polite interactions. It just avoids cornering either person where they feel they have to escape somehow. Once anyone is rude, I think we all know how it can and too often does go. Like I said, some believe you don't owe anyone anything... but this isn't gonna make everything better because it triggers defensive emotions that block people from thinking logically. Nobody will improve thier behavior based on feedback if the feedback makes them feel th…
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:06 PM
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"Hello fellow human" vibes haha.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:37 AM
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Say less and more slowly having considered what to say before you say it and control your emotions. Suddenly, people don't think you're crazy because you act sane.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:36 AM
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I see a lot of responses that say “take it as a compliment”. It protects the askers ego... which is the entire reason many will get offensive once rejected with ridiculous "you're ugly anyway" type stuff. If you ascribe to the school of thought which holds that nobody in society owes anyone anything, fine. However, you've gotta deal with the consequences of people taking risks and losing face they didn't have to lose... people tend to stray from logic here and stuff gets crazy. The alternative i…
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:32 AM
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Also, don't ask anyone out via text.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:23 AM
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Why are you thanking him? Is he playing mind games with you too? Pretty sure he was thanking op for improving everyone else's odds lol
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:12 AM
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I'm with you here. It works ok as a during the night tactic to get the iron hot... but it's kinda self defeating here. Now it's absolutely correct to not drop everything to give her what she wants at any time... but after you've run the race, cross the finish.
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:05 AM
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I feel like this works if she’s hella into you besides that a girl probably gon flake or find another dick Well, yeah. We're in the sub where all the "she's not that into you" gets posted. It's a completely different situation if she actually wants you. It's like rule 1 and 2 to the max.
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:55 PM
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It's all about being the best adapted to your environment. If that means billions, cool. If that meant the guy who can fly the plane, cool. If that's the guy who can speak the local language, run it.
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:51 PM
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Tbh... sounds like you're on the edge of deficiency. I'm no Dr. but I'd put a few bucks on zinc. Remember, correlation isn't causation. I've often popped off round #1 before going trolling and it's way less of a detriment and helps help my big head in charge. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction12/08/21 09:49 PM
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I agree with the second part... but the best feeling in the world has gotta be the first bite of a warm off the grill, bacon wrapped, jalapeno popper stuffed with cream cheese and a piece of feta..
/r/seduction24/05/18 05:52 AM
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I don't have any answers. Just a few experiences. I've jerked off a bunch in a bunch of different ways. Imo, that comes close to the middle of the road sex I've had but not even the same library as good sex and a different solar system from the best. I've had sex with only a few people but I did so thousands of times with half of them and nothing was ever the same while everything was the same. Stays interesting. I get your reluctance to interact based on your experiences which you outlined abov…
/r/seduction24/05/18 05:49 AM
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A fair point. I'd bet it's only about 30% of women would speak up like that based on my experience. Lots of variables but it just hasn't been my experience.
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:03 AM
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It's the 1-2 punch of glances. 1/4 second to 1 second I'd say.
/r/seduction07/05/18 03:00 PM
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They never get told "no"... shits exciting.
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:38 AM
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"Nahhh, I just push a pencil around all day." Or "just front delts really... to bring the doughnuts to my mouth." FUNNY, clever, humble and engaging in one short sentence. Follow up with whatever, you already crushed the lay up.
/r/seduction08/02/18 04:25 AM
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Agreed. It makes life a lot easier once you find a spot where competence is valued though... and deal with the fact that some people can skate through life and some must slough.
/r/seduction07/01/18 11:28 PM
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The VAST MAJORITY of girls I've talked with about cooking couldn't properly microwave a pizza. I'm just now finding people (girls and guys) who can do the bare minimum to survive in my mid 20s... it's a useful litmus test but only if you can overcome this staggering education gap.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:42 PM
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It's meaningless in the same way that life is technically meaningless. You assign value along with the rest of society. If you choose not to value something that most people value, you're going to be ostracized to a degree. If you're clear on that and ok with it, what's the problem? Things change. Live and let die.
/r/seduction12/11/17 01:49 PM
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Gotta do what makes you uncomfortable more. That's how you get comfortable doing it.
/r/seduction12/11/17 03:48 AM
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"It's fuck yes or it's no." If you're asking, it's because you feel that you should but don't or don't and feel like you should. Either way, you can't undo it so own it as a positive and ignore them or better yet, play it up as some of the best sex ever just to make them curious. In the future, any decision that could go either way like this, do some exploring and if you aren't 100%, say no. Life is short for bad experiences. You decide the definition of bad.
/r/seduction01/11/17 05:54 PM
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2 options. If she's trying to get a rise out of you, completely fail to respond as though nothing was said! If you don't think you're being tested, this is a valuable ammunition cash which should be put to use immediately. Start a merciless teasing campaign for best results.
/r/seduction26/10/17 09:49 PM
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Finally appropriate and it's buried. Bravo.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:30 PM
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Establish an uncompromising routine for maintenance and small, attainable goals. "Even if nothing gets done today, I showered and ate a healthy breakfast and did 5 more push ups than last week" type of shit. Slowly add routines and subroutines. Repeat as necessary. I'm just now starting back up this path myself. Decided I'm done wasting away, set up my plan and I'm doing it. That's how.
/r/seduction24/10/17 05:16 AM
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All my friends disappeared after graduation. Probably because I was depressed, which ended up making me more depressed. Now I'm depressed because I don't have any friends and can't make any friends because I'm depressed. I could list out the steps to beat depression and become happy and productive but, that wouldn't help you unless you wanted to change... and if you wanted to change, you'd Google it and do it. I know it sucks. Still gotta fight until you win each new battle.
/r/seduction24/10/17 04:19 AM
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What's the point of talking to guys that you meet? Or girls you aren't attracted to? You go for their numbers every time too? Or you just refuse to talk to them at all because you aren't interested in fucking them? That's friend territory. Yes, I get their numbers too. The world is big now that people travel so fast. How else would I keep up with them? What's the point of these girls stopping and talking to you? In our short conversation I hope to demonstrate the value to be gained by knowing me…
/r/seduction06/10/17 03:24 PM
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If you don't go for the number, you showed the girl that you were outcome independent, you didn't have an agenda, you were just enjoying being social. Yep, sure showed her. Really restored her faith is society. I'll ask again, what's the point? I don't have a problem making friends so I'm not practicing making friends. If it was practical to cold approach and then take her directly home, why not? Would you get all the way to a moment before insertion and then pull up your pants and leave? That w…
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:32 PM
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What then, is the point? I agree that there should be more but I always go for the digits even if I don't plan to call. Makes it easy for when I do care and builds an abundance mentality more effectively if you have the option. As an added bonus, you may see her again and then it has potential social proof.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:03 PM
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Your brain has systems that prevent you from thinking about everything at once... it prioritizes important things to remember and pay attention to. This keeps you alive bit makes memory hard. If you remember to much, live more. This forces your brain to deal with immediate stimuli and will diminish negative memories by adding positive and neutral ones.. Plus, I cringe at stuff I did last week... keep learning and changing and growing day by day... the cringe tells you that it's working!
/r/seduction30/09/17 03:23 PM
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Yep.
/r/seduction29/09/17 02:31 PM
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It's almost like people expect you to be born with it. BINGO! Make-up tutorials are all the rage but pick up? You gotta be born with it bro /s
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:34 PM
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This is it. "You gotta want it."
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:10 PM
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I love that... found it after I started doing that organically. Works well for all parts of life.
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:41 PM
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Haha, gotcha. I'm not talking defeatism. Just maximizing chance of success based on environment.
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:59 PM
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Point. I'm referring to how you carry yourself and all your nonverbals... which is based heavily in self confidence... which is 1000 times easier to display when you've worked hard and know you look good.
/r/seduction24/09/17 12:11 PM
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At first you need small, attainable goals. For example: put away clothes, vacuum, wash car, feed dog, etc. Not: all home stuff. Just like lifting you can't jump in pushing heavy weight usually. Gotta build. As for things to talk about, don't talk about hobbies except in passing. They are for you as is your confidence. Anyone can say they do something and there's really no proving or disproving in social situations so it's easy to believe you're boasting and exaggerating. Small talk should always…
/r/seduction23/09/17 01:25 PM
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So... "bullshit but exactly what you just said"? If you can't hear shit, what do you rely on? Could it be sight? Well done.
/r/seduction23/09/17 01:16 PM
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Yeah. Has the added benefits of challenging the conceited while peaking curiosity of everyone.
/r/seduction23/09/17 01:14 PM
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Already said but: physical prowess is easiest. Don't have to be the biggest dude in every room but you need to be capable. Crushing tasks during the day is another builder for me as is having more than what's visible going on. Hobbies. (I build engines and restore cars, read, run, dance, save, invest, garden and build furniture.)
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:24 AM
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I lean bulk...count everything.. I ride between 175 and 200 at 6'2"...
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:20 AM
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Hard to tell mate. You could be all sorts of body types with those stats and scooping girls at parties usually relies heavily on looks. Check your style against /r/malefasionadvice to see about dressing. Check /r/fitness to figure out how to put on muscle in the right places and correct posture. It's possible without the looks but party game can be brutal if you haven't got that figured out.
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:16 AM
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And then?
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:38 AM
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While I agree that it doesn't really add up and OPs response proves he's bent the truth, I wanted to note that tinder, specifically, absolutely sucks near my city. Not sure why exactly but the same exact profile on several other apps/sites was far more successful.
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:31 AM
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Favorite was "I don't want to date any of you"... that got the wheels spinning 😂
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:27 AM
1

Says he's a virgin at the bottom... "hooked up" in high school was kissing, right? I wouldn't count that as hooking up lol.
/r/seduction21/09/17 05:19 PM
1

Haha. I think you missed the no shots taken part. Best of the best at everything but have never once taken a single shot?
/r/seduction21/09/17 03:45 PM
1

He also said he'd never had them. I'm putting forth my opinion based on experience for his consideration. The more you want a relationship, the harder it is to get and vice versa.
/r/seduction21/09/17 03:13 PM
1

There is also something special about being in a college relationship. You got this right.. it is, quite literally, the absolute WORST time of your life to be in a relationship. Akin to going to an all you can eat place and getting one piece of toast, all the while convincing yourself that it's great. You'll likely never be near so many sexually interested people your own age after you graduate as most see their coworkers for 80% of their waking lives.
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:32 PM
6

100%. Anything otherwise is exactly like never taking a shot in basketball and telling yourself that more training will make it happen. No. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take and if you don't take any...
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:24 PM
2

This assumes you've already been making out. So it's a push pull. The smile and look make her jump your bones... that's the impact.
/r/seduction20/09/17 11:29 PM
2

Go in for a kiss. Pull back just before contact. Smile a little sly smile as you slowly look her all the way down and back up. Brace for impact.
/r/seduction20/09/17 10:58 PM
1

Clear FWB thing or hookup but she's about to start dating somebody elsewhere (maybe), likely "talking".
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:02 PM
2

But doesn't stop it. Giving her deniability if... this happens. Until she decides.
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:08 PM
21

Exactly. Major red flag here. This guy is manhandling her regularly and not respecting boundaries. I'd tell her it needs to stop or you will act accordingly. Don't explain it but if it continues, walk away without explanation and without looking back.
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:06 PM
1

Not even close.... still dynamite though. Something will change.
/r/seduction04/08/17 04:11 PM
1

No worries. Good luck, killer.
/r/seduction04/08/17 12:09 AM
1

First day... Honestly, you seem way, way to invested already. Just be mindful of coming off that way. Desperation is a stinky cologne.
/r/seduction04/08/17 12:03 AM
1

So you're suggesting I ask her out through text. What options do you have if she's not in your class anymore? I was planning just casually texting her, and then dropping if she's down to go hangout and go get something to eat at like a vegan place. Pretty much this... just don't "good morning, beautiful" her and chat endlessly. Keep it under 10 messages a day, spread out and short... like you have a life you'd like her to join.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:57 PM
1

Is texting fine, cause I won't see her at school anymore. Only for quick jokes and to set up a date. Honestly, if you act like a friend, you become a friend... they named a zone after it. You can be friends... just after you've shown that you want more. Cross that bridge when you reach it. Should I do it this week? Are you busy right now? Why would you wait? Don't double text or anything.. I'd shut off the ringer and just see her response whenever if you're scared of seeming needy.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:42 PM
1

This guy fucks... from tinder. Not as easy as you think.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:35 PM
1

Yeah. As simple as possible. There aren't any "I know her sisters best friend really well so if I walk by her house on the third Thursday of every month I'm sure I'll meet her and she'll love me" lol. Just talk to her, ask to meet up. Roll with it and don't be disappointed and dog on the same girl if you get rejected. Keep it simple.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:31 PM
-1

Well, it's a cop out or it's true. The message is the same "Not interested" I leave it on a high note. I tell her that he is a lucky dude and have a nice day. I may sometimes say, "You are too hot to just be my friend, so I'll have to pass". Usually even a stone cold B!tch will smile and be polite at that line. So, I never seen a negative response from it. Also, it preps you for other interactions. Even in large cities, you will be surprised how girls run in tight circles. I have dated girls man…
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:28 PM
18

"Are you a good girl?" Think about the fireworks that one sets off. Sure, you're an asshole either way. Lets face it though, you've already lost it if she's using that as a cop out. What she doesn't feel is nothing... like she was feeling before you said it. You may as well smirk and throw the hail Mary... Yes, it has worked for me several times and gone nuclear several times. No regrets.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:26 PM
2

Advice? Simplify everything. These shouldn't be political machinations. Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:20 PM
43

Don't remember the order but... -Stop bragging -Lift -Say no -Build confidence every day -Read -Always look presentable Solid advice if you have the will to change yourself. Tip - don't approach like he tries to... I mean, do... but he misjudged it, came way too strong and tried long after it was over.
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:04 PM
1

See. You're in that trap of online dating man. It really is the shit stained toilet seat of the dating world. Ditch it 100%. Yes I've had "success" there but even a win has you as one of 20 possibilities each day. Don't get me wrong. Slurs are great. Just not what you need right off. I make it sound easy because it is easy. It is easy because I truly don't care about the results. You've gotta practice all these things because you've been naturally practicing the opposite until now. That's why I …
/r/seduction26/07/17 07:22 PM
36

Hey man, lots of these comments hold import info that you should listen to, but they miss THE single most important state of being you have to cultivate: the state of giving, not one single fuck about the outcome of the situations pertaining to attractive women you wish to sleep with. That only comes from knowing, 100%, that you could get another girl should you want one. So if you're in shape, you need to get girls, lots of contact and very quickly. How do we do that? Online dating? Equally imp…
/r/seduction26/07/17 04:28 AM
12

Fucks.
/r/seduction26/07/17 03:55 AM
0

Sure. Just remember that human interaction and psychology is not grounded in logic. How do you figure that?
/r/seduction12/07/17 08:39 PM
1

Gone homie. Once you decide to start talking, looks need to leave your mind. Lack of confidence can lose you even someone way below your value because value only exists as it's displayed. Girls generally fear confrontation so they'll try to "let you down easy".. for this reason "it's fuck yes! Or it's no" is a pre meeting absolute I stick to.
/r/seduction01/06/17 01:48 PM
1

Usually within 20 total messages, I have a number and a date/time or it's not gonna happen.
/r/seduction01/06/17 05:11 AM
11

You can't even read... start there.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:52 PM
13

MMA. Seriously. Fighters can be fucking horrifyingly ugly and still be happy and successful. Honestly, didn't you just see a new beauty and the beast cane out.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:45 PM
1

Good. More for me.
/r/seduction09/04/17 04:16 PM
1

How do you fix that? Gotta want it my man.
/r/seduction09/04/17 12:32 AM
2

Hard pass on all your bullshit. The answer to your question (and all your bullshit, coincidentally) is more girls. Lots of them. This shit is a skill you develop and hone. Practice every day. Couch potatoes won't do well climbing mountains, but mountain climbers train for every aspect of this demanding task till they enjoy it.
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:34 AM
1

No ONE SPECIFIC THING matters. At all. Game of any type is a sum of all it's parts. My particular style is to say hi! Portray energy! Big laughing at silly jokes with a little innuendo. From there it's physical contact and laugh at any mistakes or awkwardness (I've said "Damn your so awkward" after starting to give more of a side hug when she was going "junk to junk, tits pressed, fuck me" hug and we both laughed our asses off). I'll probably never meet you so take what you need 😂. Maybe she's s…
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:28 AM
2

"The talk" will ALWAYS come and if it's you convincing her that she wants sex before locking down commitment it's much easier to say no than if it's you AND part of herself convincing her. Assuming full consent in both cases, if she already aches for you, the usual hurdles are... well lubricated.
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:20 AM
3

I never say "hi, its thiswaytoalltheporn". I always message whenever the fuck in free and feel like it (within a few hours usually because I'm on a fairly regular pooping schedule) and continue a joke or tease I started when we met. This means a connection was made. This means I'm getting laid.
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:11 AM
1

The truth can be hard to take, my friend. Everything in life is a value exchange and you know that. You'll deny it and say it's love but love is something we've built, an addiction we've created. It can't feed you or keep you warm. It is, chemically, very similar to infatuation/addition/obsession. Always consider the source, but think about this with an open mind.. what if I'm not wrong? That would arm you with the tools to control your life and see the signs of problems before they come to a he…
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:16 PM
1

Correction on your correction. Money bought THAT GIRL and, confirmation bias or not, "everybody's got a price" didn't come from nowhere. When feelings fight facts, facts can become irrelevant OR vice versa. AKA: if 3 square meals a day is your definition of wealth but her definition of poverty, she WON'T EVER be happy and if she's smart, she WON'T stay.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:59 AM
2

Stiffler?
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:54 AM
6

I get the points you're trying to make here... but holy jargon Batman! You need a glossary for that thing.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:52 AM
1

But do you have all of it? Not in you fucking profile.. in your fucking life. And are you in a place with women in your target age/attraction range?
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:42 PM
4

This attitude is exactly why these same guys fail! Don't put those words in my mouth because I never said them. I'm attempting to show that it can be done! I've come from the very place you described and I explained how I got there. How is "exercise, exercise a lot, don't eat everything, and do things you enjoy but nothing to excess" saying that "you have to be 6'3" and ripped with a 7 figure job to get laid at all"?? Your own tainted perception painted me that way. I'm just here pointing the wa…
/r/seduction28/02/17 11:51 AM
14

Honestly, this is trash. You're bashing guys for adapting to the system they were raised in. The generic lines are for one reason, guys know each girl has thousands of options... rather than invest excessive energy on something that likely won't be seen, they drop a line and move on... like you tell them too later on lol. You see how they're given what they don't have to earn? Earn that. Yes it's hard. Yes it takes time. You know what you have to do. You become the prize when you build your own …
/r/seduction28/02/17 05:45 AM
2

I view this as "no end of night intent" as in, don't think "I'm going out to get my dick wet tonight!"... instead, "I'm going out to enjoy myself and see what happens! In short, carry a condom but don't invest all your time in trying to use it at the expense of enjoying your night.
/r/seduction26/02/17 08:56 AM
3

Hey op! I'm an engineer who works as a PM for a steel fab and construction company... my go to is "I'm in steel erection" which always gets a laugh... The twist: out of 30+ girls who I've used this on, not one has cared enough to ask about it further. Its one of the small talk things that you bounce to and move on from. They're mostly interested in talking about themselves which works great because so am I. If you're using the job to show value, I have no idea how to help... it's a booster, you …
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:17 AM
7

Hey man! I beat this fear by looking at all the eyes! I just went out and walked by (first with sunglasses on then without) and looked at EVERY SINGLE FACE. I kept a small satisfied smile plastered on my face and walked with slow confident strides (faking terribly I'm sure).I just did it. Day after day and when eyes met mine, I fought the panic and the fear.. "hello, I'm here and I'm walking through" is what I tried to make my eyes say. Eventually I forgot that I was ever afraid... and now I wis…
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:09 AM
1

The emotional waves you're riding are high, friend. Consider a keel?
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:01 AM
4

One step, two step... great work. We've all been there (people with our struggles) and facing the truth was exactly how you beat yourself the last two times.
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:59 AM
2

Have had both incredible sex in the shower and on/around the sand (pier), never in the ocean... although I would.
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:56 AM
1

Definitely.
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:45 PM
3

This was a comment, not a post. The entirety of Reddit is uncalled for by that standard. If you find someone to teach you to read properly you will see that I haven't written that they are to be admired and I am pointing out that psychopaths are, like all people, very different from each other. These differences extend to intelligence and even the level to which they are effected by the disorder. Also, thank you for your diagnosis. Perhaps I am a psychopath. Perhaps I'm narcissistic. We can clea…
/r/seduction07/02/17 05:37 AM
7

That's the lie you're fed.. and you eat it because it feeds your narcissism and makes you feel better. The truth is, these people (hard to tell but these MUST be some exceptions) choose to ignore the emotions and/or weight them lower when making decisions. They have near complete control over their conscious mind and use it as a weapon. Are they savage as fuck at times? Yes. You only really see the stupid ones though, the ones who can't keep a job or a family. The smart ones have blended and eve…
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:50 PM
1

Reddit changed the 6 to another 1.
/r/seduction27/01/17 01:53 AM
9

I don't feel that it'd be that useful to be honest... A number of guidelines and developing your mental dexterity will take you much further. "I've got a list, here's the order of my list that it's in".. Don't take yourself seriously. At all. - you have to believe that you're valuable to be confident but rejection will happen. Be like water and flow. Understand the statistics involved. 300 girls at the bar/club/college event etc? Understand that only 50 or so will both be acceptable and availabl…
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:47 AM
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